I did a 10-day Vipassana Meditation Retreat

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  • I completed a 10 day VIPASSANA MEDITATION RETREAT... Here's what I learned. Don't do a Vipassana retreat without watching this...
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    The Vipassana meditation is a method that involves scanning your body. Starting from the crown of your head, and recognizing different sensations throughout your body. Realizing that everything rises, and everything passes away. We know this intellectually, but the goal of the meditation is to understand this through experience. Anger will fade. Sadness will fade. Happiness will fade. Everything is constantly transforming.
    When you take a 10 day Vipassanā meditation retreat, you are taking a vow of noble silence. You will not be allowed to kill, steal, or lie. You cannot have any sexual misconduct. With the goal being to maintain our Sila, or morality.
    This video I dive into what goes into a 10 day meditation retreat, what you're going to learn, and how the Vipassana technique has helped me. I hope that you enjoy my story of all that I learned doing a 10-day VIPASSANA Meditation Retreat

Komentáře • 259

  • @samratkorupolu
    @samratkorupolu Před 4 lety +45

    I did 10 day retreat in Hyderabad- India, I was a total smoker and alcoholic before then, and without even trying to quit I did Quit everything from that day, it's been an year and no withdrawal symptoms no craving even all my friends are drinking/smoking

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +3

      samrat korupolu great to hear! You did the retreat on hard mode hahah. Gotta be tough quitting while also having nothing to occupy your thoughts

    • @mamathanayak5067
      @mamathanayak5067 Před 3 lety

      Good.

    • @cherylhorta4131
      @cherylhorta4131 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes, I did my 10 days in Hyderabad as well. What great news to see that you are still having positive results in your life.

  • @seanfarrar889
    @seanfarrar889 Před 4 lety +16

    The Vipassana technique is just about observing very closely whatever comes up - good, bad or indifferent. But trying, over and over, to do this calmly and patiently and without expectation, without craving pleasant and wonderful life changing experiences and without reacting with aversion to what we see as more unpleasant experiences. In truth, it's not about identifying them as good or bad at all - just trying to bear witness to sensation and change, calmly and without judgement or attachment. That is all it is.
    So if you go on your first course, expecting it to be an ecstatic magic pill that will be a re-set button for your life, this is unlikely to happen in the dramatic way you expect. Ironically, this hope and expectation is merely an example of the very clinging and addiction that we observe, coming and going, while we sit on the mat, and which this course helps us to see for what it is.
    If you are contemplating going for the first time, please don't let what I write put you off. Very much to the contrary. For, the facility, opportunity, guidance and, most fundamentally, the technique that this course offers is a gem, an absolute gem. But the gem is in you - and with the help of the technique, it is you who will polish it from the raw. But it takes a lot of work on your part - a lot! Many of us come back course after course and try to cultivate our own sitting practice at home - often all because of a few arresting glimpses, encounters with new tools and new ways of encountering our own minds that left an impression on that very first course.
    Your first ten day course is likely only a very small step on what is a very long road. Should you choose to take it. Don't go there craving a hit, or a buzz or a panacea or a life-changing experience. Just go with a strong determination to sit and listen and to work hard. And YOU might change your life, step by step.
    It is hard work. But do-able. Fare well. Namaste

  • @EricaAnneOfficial
    @EricaAnneOfficial Před 3 lety +46

    What I learned from my Vipassana was that I'm actually really mean to myself in my head. I kept having thoughts putting myself down like 'you're the only one struggling with this' and 'no one else is having difficulty what's wrong with you' and just observing these thoughts was very telling of my self worth issues and self bullying. I found out at the end when we were able to talk again that in fact people had left the retreat and others had gone to the leaders and tried to and I was giving myself such a hard time thinking I was the only one finding it hard and having thoughts of wanting to leave. I've since been able to silence these thoughts realizing they are not in fact true. Now I cut them off straight away whenever I hear them starting as I've examined from where in my childhood they first originated.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety +9

      Powerful. What a great thing to get out of it. I bet it's benefited every facet of your life stopping those untrue thoughts

    • @EricaAnneOfficial
      @EricaAnneOfficial Před 3 lety +3

      Jeffrey Marr sure has!

  • @nicolette1018
    @nicolette1018 Před 4 lety +34

    Thank you for this beautiful reminder! I went on my 1st 10 day course this February right before COVID hit. Like you, I didn't experience all those things they said because I didn't fully surrender. It was the hardest training I've ever done despite countless yoga teacher trainings, and nothing really prepares you for it. What I did learn from it were 2 things: (1) That everything does come and go. The excruciating aches and pains from sitting 8-10 hours every day, to the point where my mind did not want to cooperate scanning the body. I felt every minute was going by so slow and I just wanted to go home and see friends. All the things you are 'addicted' to suddenly became tools of torture. But as I slowly learned to let go knowing that nothing is permanent, that's when my sittings became enjoyable, if not, bearable. (2) I remember on the 4th day when the pain from my lower back and legs were unbearable, there was a moment of clarity where the pain subsided. I was caught unaware and I actually cried after meditation. It was a direct experience of the 1st teaching. Then another thing arose, as I looked around the empty dhamma hall, I realized I have been too focused on my own suffering and seeing how other meditators can easily sit still for hours at a time, that everyone was suffering. No one was exempted. And so I felt the initial feeling of interconnectedness. I'm grateful for that experience as it def prepared me for this version of vipassana in the current circumstance we are in. That whatever feelings that arise are acknowledged, honored, and given a seat at the table to be recognized and then they gently leave. And also knowing that everyone is suffering in their own way, compassion comes naturally that even if I am inconvenienced by the situation, I can be more understanding and kinder to the outbursts of other people as their way of dealing with their own suffering. Keep safe and well.

  • @elliotlee9577
    @elliotlee9577 Před 4 lety +155

    You want the best experience of Vipassana? Don't watch this video, read anything, or hear anything about it. Go in with completely zero expectations.

    • @artcart3065
      @artcart3065 Před 4 lety +4

      Okay

    • @elliotlee9577
      @elliotlee9577 Před 4 lety +12

      @@artcart3065 Best thing I have done in my life. Am sure it will be for you, too. Namaste.

    • @annec4019
      @annec4019 Před 4 lety +7

      In my experience, after the first three days you move into an altered state of mind and time has meaning . You just rely on the facilitators to tell you when retreat is over. Try freeing once you let go

    • @georgec.richard6430
      @georgec.richard6430 Před 3 lety

      This was great, I have been researching "guide spiritual" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Banulian Lonameron Breakthrough - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.

    • @nishantchavda6712
      @nishantchavda6712 Před 3 lety +1

      totally agree!

  • @kpeterson1342
    @kpeterson1342 Před 4 lety +66

    I've attended about seven ten day sits and served about that many as well. When I look back to my first course I think I felt a lot like the description in this video, but I did have better focus and some ideas for things I wanted to do when I returned home, which I implemented. Over a year of pretty intense involvement in Vipassana I was freed from some very persistent habit patterns, attained a state of bliss (bangha) a few times and remember it clearly, have certainly become braver in my actions and my compassion due to the understanding of Annica (everything changes). I still sit for an hour a day, sometimes doing full body scans, sometimes just doing Ananpana, but regardless, I believe learning Vipassana and having my local center (Dhamma Karuna) to go to has saved my life in this incarnation. It has certainly made it more joyous.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +7

      Beautiful story Karen, thank you for sharing. This sounds very interesting. I think I will go again this year. Thank you for your service.

    • @Iammohinidevi
      @Iammohinidevi Před 2 lety +1

      @@JeffreyMarr go every year Jeffrey, if you can.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      @@Iammohinidevi I ended up only doing the one. I can see the value in going every year though. I think I'll have another one in me very soon.

  • @w2best
    @w2best Před 29 dny

    It's great that you say you didn't get any wisdom from it and then list A BUNCH of wisdom you gained from it.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 21 dnem +1

      @@w2best lmao. As time has gone on I got a lot out of it

  • @kellyruby8662
    @kellyruby8662 Před 3 lety +5

    We may not always get what we WANT in life. But we will definitely get what is RELEVANT to our life. Learning No expectations n it will lead us to even deeper n greater aspects of life. Experiencing "nothing happens "is also just what we need in life.Expectations works on ego mind . No expectations works on a greater altitude of Higher Self .Meditation is about practicing intense Presence, expectations practice projection into future. Nice video .Thanks

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for the nice message. Have a great day

  • @PortableProfessional
    @PortableProfessional Před 4 lety +23

    SO refreshing to hear an honest breakdown of the experience beyond "it was life-changing". Taking a 10 day break from tech, work, friends ... life... is a big commitment. I'm intimidated to do it based on the pressure of wanting to have that defining life-altering moment of clarity. It's great to hear you were able to pull out tangible takeaways despite not having one monumental epiphany moment.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +4

      It's a slow burn. You could have a life altering takeaway, or it could just slightly improve your life. Either way, it's beneficial for you to do it and get away from it all for a little while :)

  • @joeyblow6283
    @joeyblow6283 Před 3 lety +2

    I did it 2 years ago. Go do it. And when you realize what you’ve done after the middle of day 1 while looking at the schedule.. relax and enjoy the ride, and on day 6 when you freak out for a couple hours and think about wanting to leave , remember it’s going to be over and you need to maximize the experience. LIFE CHANGING

  • @vicky8365
    @vicky8365 Před 4 lety +15

    Im suppose to go for my second sitting this month, it got cancelled because of covid 19 in my country, accepted it without any attachment 😙

  • @peterstrom9618
    @peterstrom9618 Před 4 lety +11

    Someone recommended eventually sitting enough courses, and serving one course, so that you can sit a Sattipatthana course which is something that I highly recommend. Not only because of the content of the Sattipatthana course, in which Goenka goes into detail on each line of the Sattipatthana Sutra and the technique of Vipassana in greater detail than a 10 day course, but also for the simple fact that only old students who have sat at least 4 ten day courses can sit a Sattipatthana course, so there is a calmness that permeates the center that is much more conducive to deep meditation and the insights that come with that kind of stillness. From my experience, the 10 day courses, because they usually contain a fair number of new students, have an energy of restlessness and sometimes confusion that can permeate the center from time to time which makes it harder to concentrate. Also, if you ever feel so inspired to sit a long course, they are amazing! Imagine spending 10 days just on Anapana and then 10 or 20 days doing Vipassana - it’s incredible and has the potential for some truly transformational insights. Best of luck to you on your journey. 🙏

    • @MalissiaCreates
      @MalissiaCreates Před 11 dny +1

      Very encouraging! thank you.
      I’m looking forward to doing a longer sit, I’ve done 2 10 day courses over 12 years and will serve next. I’ve kept up the practice moderately between sits. And just when I felt I had craving to do what you wrote and aversion to the fact that I didn’t do it in the last ten years, I realized that a part of me wanted to do it to check it off the list and I calmly became equanimous and realized that this is a lifelong journey. At the right time I will sit a longer course and it will be exactly what it needs to be at the right time. I very much am encouraged by what you wrote to embrace this lifelong journey of Vipassana 🙏🏼☺️🧘🏼‍♀️

  • @crazysuperman
    @crazysuperman Před 3 lety +3

    Good job complete your meditation. The key is to continue the daily practice to de-conditioning all our past programming and become the master of our emotion.

  • @LustingLooks
    @LustingLooks Před 4 lety +24

    Thank you for this!! ♥️ I didn’t have the huge realizations either and that made me feel a lil confused about the whole experience, but indeed experiencing how eeeeverything is temporary has been such an important lesson and I’m very grateful for it!✨

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +5

      Yeah I was told it would change your life. Maybe it does subtly, but the complete revamp of your life doesn't happen the way we hear about it. It's okay though, it's definitely good for the soul to spend 10 days not speaking with anyone.

    • @WickedG5150
      @WickedG5150 Před 3 lety +4

      After only 10 days you cannot get anywhere. It takes YEARS of hardcore Vipassana to truly get it. It’s something that you must do everyday for the rest of your life.

    • @josephoutward
      @josephoutward Před 2 lety

      @@WickedG5150 lol you are funny

  • @elfintom
    @elfintom Před 4 lety +2

    Nonjudgmental is what vippasana is trying to teach us ... I learn a bit of that but I still need more work. It was soooo good for me!

  • @emilym3643
    @emilym3643 Před 3 lety +4

    Good job! Your video brought back a lot of memories. I did the 10 day retreat last year and am glad for it. I find myself calmer and less reactive to provocations. I hope to practice/sit as much as I did during the retreat when I have my tiny house in the country.

  • @kasidechteekapunyapattana8956

    I​ learned this​ same of​ technique​ 7​ years​ ago in​ Thailand​ and​ this​ ​Vipassana​ becomes more​ popular.​ I​ observed million​ reactions​ from​ my​ whole​ body​ starting from​ outside to​ inside.​ Thanks for​ this​ video.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      My pleasure for making the video for you! The technique is crazy. I will be doing a one day retreat refresher.

  • @ujjvalverma6928
    @ujjvalverma6928 Před 4 lety +2

    I also availed myself by this meditation technique before a few months ago and I also realise that this is really a great method to know myself.

  • @wala5089
    @wala5089 Před 4 lety +6

    This too, shall pass.

  • @user-we6wi3rn1l
    @user-we6wi3rn1l Před 4 lety

    Thank you for your honesty. Taking my first 10-day in September. Great presentation.

  • @DannyWohl
    @DannyWohl Před 4 lety +1

    Nice vid! I went to my first in June of 2019, and am gearing up for my 2nd sit here in a week. Excited for another bout with myself and the silence of solitude...
    Peace & Metta to you brotha,
    -Dan

  • @cjedd2312
    @cjedd2312 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Jeffrey, I attended in 2017 & loved this time of my life even though I was attached imperfect & naive & battled with self critical judgemental & physical pains & distractions. I wish that I had seen/heard this prior too.. That said, there is also massive amounts of instant & post instant knowledge & room for improvement I gained from that too

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety +1

      Happy to hear. You going to sit again? I think that I am nearly ready to go again and will likely do another sit in early 2023

  • @victorcastaneda2236
    @victorcastaneda2236 Před 4 lety +3

    Beautiful video !! Thanks for sharing. Be happy !
    I started Vipassana in 2009 and every year I take a course.
    I feel how I achieve practicing meditation day after day more balance in my life.
    I recomend to every body to invest ten day to learn how to work correctly with the silence. How to work with you reality as It is. Understand our conditioning in a natural way without repressing ourselves without dogmas without punishing us, learning to observe and know each other

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      Well said Victor. May all beings be happy! I'll be doing another 10 day this year :)

  • @cherylhorta4131
    @cherylhorta4131 Před 3 lety +6

    I also completed a 10 day retreat and enjoyed hearing your expectations and final analysis of what you actually took away. I didn't have expectations therefore I wasn't disappointed. Practice does reinforce the teachings and honestly, 10 days to reach enlightenment is I'm not sure a realistic expectation- but who am I -. I would really love the chance to go back to India and give it a second go- I do practice at least an hour each day and try to find group vipassana here at least once a week. Practice does make progress. Best of luck on your journey. With metta, Cheryl , Maui, Hawaii.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Cheryl, my practice now is a combination of a few things. Best wishes to you, happy holidays

    • @cherylhorta4131
      @cherylhorta4131 Před 3 lety +1

      @@JeffreyMarr wishing you a happy holiday, Jeffrey.

  • @withalohatara
    @withalohatara Před 4 lety +1

    I’m learning this from my CBT
    It’s not easy ur mind does jump around a lot
    Focusing on my breathing is not easy as people think
    I want to master this...🙏🏻
    It helps me to stay in the present time❣️

  • @avneetchugh
    @avneetchugh Před rokem +2

    It's wonderful that you were able to go through the 10 days course 🎉

  • @Bitcoin_guide_andi
    @Bitcoin_guide_andi Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience! 🙏

  • @namrata9may
    @namrata9may Před 4 lety +1

    I went to the centre in the mountains with the gushing river ....the environment was so pure and beautiful. My mind wandered too but that's the process...enjoy it and don't have any expectations....

  • @bharadwajkasi9200
    @bharadwajkasi9200 Před 4 lety +3

    After the first three days I thought of jumping a 10 ft wall and run away from the shrine. I hold my self for couple of more days and stayed till the last day. When I was leaving the shrine I was a happy man . And even though I am not following some of the rules I had an experience which was amazing 😍

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Haha yeah it's tough to stick it out. Will you be doing anotherr?

    • @bharadwajkasi9200
      @bharadwajkasi9200 Před 4 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr I don't know 😁

    • @creativezebra5757
      @creativezebra5757 Před 4 lety

      Why jump wall.just tell them that you would like to discontinue the 10 day course. They cannot stop you from leaving this is not a kidnapping.

  • @wannisaraammates1665
    @wannisaraammates1665 Před 4 lety +12

    I’ve done my 1st 10 days vipassana in Sydney and it was the most profound experience of my life

    • @wannisaraammates1665
      @wannisaraammates1665 Před 3 lety +1

      @@miraggg I didn’t do any research.. just jump into it and observe whatever will come out and let go

  • @sanjivkadyan5650
    @sanjivkadyan5650 Před 4 lety +1

    Sabka Mangal ho
    🙏

  • @YogiLab
    @YogiLab Před 4 lety

    Good stuff, thanks for sharing and be happy!

  • @UmeshBx
    @UmeshBx Před 4 lety +51

    I'm doing vipassana next month in India! Good timing brah

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +3

      Oh damn! You'll have to let me know how you like it and what you get out of it

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +2

      Yo did you end up doing the Vipassana course?

    • @harishsehrawat2226
      @harishsehrawat2226 Před 4 lety +4

      Goodluck bro and you will feel very lucky and peaceful after doing this course as I have done it .

    • @Randomcooking
      @Randomcooking Před 4 lety +3

      I pray one day to go to India and do this

    • @multitips1824
      @multitips1824 Před 4 lety

      @@Randomcooking ha ha ha ...Ap kiske aage prayer kroge ...Ye log to God ko mante hi nhi....

  • @KenyaWright
    @KenyaWright Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this! I really wanted to understand!

  • @laurahernandez5745
    @laurahernandez5745 Před 4 lety +4

    What an adorable vid love it!

  • @Donkey2_
    @Donkey2_ Před 2 lety +2

    Vipassana Meditation Retreat changes my life for the better and how I look at things.
    Now I meditate daily and it helps me to relax and focus on what's more important and not
    focus on material things besides what belongs to us well fade anyway,
    Very good video!

    • @Bastn-sx2wu
      @Bastn-sx2wu Před 4 měsíci +1

      I do Vipassana meditation, although I have some anxiety in my life, I could let it go faster.❤

  • @saheemwani
    @saheemwani Před 4 lety

    It's the best gift I gave myself. Not for any... thing. I did it for me.

  • @mukkeshbk
    @mukkeshbk Před 4 lety +3

    Amazing video made, your animation made it simple and interesting!! Will definitely send this to other non meditators for better understanding. Btw the one you attended is "Vipassana as taught by SN Goenka". You should have mentioned that there are no fees charged and it's run on voluntary donation. Metta

  • @pippo1785
    @pippo1785 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very nice video thank you for making this 🙏🏼👊🏼

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 10 měsíci

      It was my pleasure, glad that you liked it :)

  • @ceneg
    @ceneg Před 3 lety +1

    This is well-together and a fair and honest account of your experience-emphasis on 'your' though. I have sat approaching 30 Vipassana retreats now and they are all different. The path deepens and widens. I have also been a male manager on courses and I have found that all students have different experiences of a retreat. I think it is perhaps wrong to say (as you have done above) that someone shouldn't do a retreat until they see this video. First of all, as you say, it's best to go with no expectations. Secondly, I know you recommend that people that go on a retreat (they are always worth doing), but you do give the impression that it was not a very powerful experience for you. You spent a lot of time clock-watching and that ultimately gave you a sense of impermance, which is a good thing, but the emphasis on the clock-watching, imo, makes the experience sound a little superficial. The goal of the meditation is become wise through the understanding of impermance. This is true. However, it can take you into some deeper states of consciousness- the observation of the rising and falling of sensation serves as a bridge to the unconscious mind (and beyond)-and this can transform how you see reality.. It can unleash some very powerful experiences indeed. For me and others my first retreat was life-changing. (You do mention that retreats can be life-changing). I worry that your downplaying of the retreat may deter other people from taking one and that would be so sad. They would miss the massive benefits I and so many others have got from retreats.
    I recommend you try another retreat. It sometimes takes a few attempts to get a spark to light the flame. The second retreat is often a lot deeper. On the first one, you are basically just learning the rudiments of the technique.
    Metta!

  • @andrewrivadeneyra-transfor9842

    I can’t recommend vipassana enough. At least once in your life - you must try. Good luck to all the people going to their first course! I made a video on vipassana as well - take a look if you want to hear more about how vipassana can change your life.

  • @connoraiden8411
    @connoraiden8411 Před 4 lety

    I had also tried rajyoga meditation by brahmakumaris. ......during which I experinced that meditation is not about to sit 1 to 2 hours in silence..but it is about meditative lifestyle to experince oneself..and our relation with supreme. ...to regain our original nature I.e peace, purity, love, bliss, joy, power, and knowledge. ..for the rest of our whole life and to use these 7 virtues in all aspect of our life say relationships, business, work, etc

  • @sundarsubra8064
    @sundarsubra8064 Před 3 lety +1

    A genuine view!

  • @deepaharish6593
    @deepaharish6593 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you. Nicely summarised. I completed a 10 day course recently and felt elated and calm. Highly recommend this technique of which I’m going to start applying to reap the benefits and make my life as dharmic as possible. Be Happy.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety +1

      Love it bro, enjoy and work diligently

  • @stuartshannon8561
    @stuartshannon8561 Před 4 lety +1

    did it twice will do it again after Covid, it helps me so with my internal me.

  • @mattreagan3143
    @mattreagan3143 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing this. Nice animation! And the realistic perspective is much appreciated.

  • @gregorylent
    @gregorylent Před 4 lety +4

    great courses .. informed my existing practice, has evolved into something more, meditation is the most valuable thing in life

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      Everytime I think about the meaning of life I inevitably fall back on just being present is the best strategy

    • @gregorylent
      @gregorylent Před 4 lety +1

      Jeffrey Marr “being present”, a marvellous unfolding into what that fully is :-) ... enjoy

  • @mauriciosotoa8130
    @mauriciosotoa8130 Před 4 lety

    great video¡¡¡ Thanks¡¡¡

  • @nadiraudugama3357
    @nadiraudugama3357 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you very much. I'm getting ready to embark on my first Vipassana retreat in Kandy, Sri Lanka. I've looked through CZcams for some inspiration and wisdom for what I'm planning to do, but this is by far the best and most educational video on the retreat.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      Hope you get a lot from it! Remmeber to let go and really go into it

    • @nadiraudugama3357
      @nadiraudugama3357 Před 2 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr Thank you so much! Really hoping to do that!

  • @neeeksta
    @neeeksta Před 4 lety +16

    Fortunately my ego was surgically removed after 12 of these Goenka fests .. oh hang on.. I am boasting?
    Oh well Annica, Annata Dukkha 😆
    But serially well done brother great vid.
    I watched the Rise Of Dhamma, the other night and it was just so fantastic to see images of the young Goenka, how it evolved and the super neat anecdotal stories of the spirit of Dhamma working magic in the world to make it possible for it to grow and develop.
    It was nostalgic to see a couple of the ATs that ran the courses I did.
    The first one I did in 84 was in a makeshift camp which was next to a quarry and every few days we would hear this siren and moments later BOOM! .. and the place would shake and quake.
    The course also saved my life for what it's worth.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      This is an amazing story, thank you for sharing. I bet you have the focus of a monk after 12 courses. My lord. I did a 1 day refresher over the weekend and could feel my ability to focus my mind is greatly reduced.

    • @neeeksta
      @neeeksta Před 4 lety +8

      @@JeffreyMarr Hey Jefferey ( my middle name btw ) .. yes with a hardcore regime of daily meditation and periodic retreats, the mind becomes like a laser.
      Keep going back - it can't be overstated that the regular dip into the soothing balm of Dhamma is essential.
      Try doing a 60 day jobby - yes they exist!!
      Paradoxically my life became so much "better" and my motivation to meditate became less.
      But of course circles are cycles, and an unsettling entropy is moving in on our present civilization, culture and the thing that passes for average human consciousness.
      So I thought I would prepare and so, started a new round of Dukka.
      It wouldn't be an exaggeration to say without that course I would be toast.
      So needless to say in this frenzied time of change that rattles the cages of the even the most equanimous.
      I am back into it daily.
      Also without exaggeration Vipassana is literally the best thing in the whole world.
      The seductive glitter of the pyrites is seen as extremely unattractive to the world weary soul.
      Go Goenka or go home! 😊

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      @@neeeksta yeah I run a business, so when i returned at the end of the 10 days, it was a nightmare. I can't inagine the 60 days.
      I really like how non-flashy Vipassana is. How its literally just saying: "this is going to be hard, but if you work diligently, you'll attain wisdom" and that's just what happens. it's a slow process. I think I'll do one more 10 day next year and see about going back after that

    • @neeeksta
      @neeeksta Před 4 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr The word 'business' is busy-ness ( yes the world is run by parasites ) .. and unfortunately we can't take our empty bowl and start begging like ol' Sid Gautama !
      You mention Jordan Peterson - he has echoed a very familiar interpretation via mythology / psychology that if we voluntarily go into suffering - we get the gold AND the hot chick ... pause ... welllllll ( maybe the gold not sure I want the latter ) .. gold of course which is simply symbolic because it doesn't 'react' that is to say corrode so it's immortal .. which is what you become once you ditch the erroneous view you are a separate self.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      ​@@neeeksta The ideas you have are very interesting and something to think about. The importance of going into suffering cannot be overstated. All of the happiest moments of my life are when I put myself through suffering and come out the other side

  • @DrCK-mn2tb
    @DrCK-mn2tb Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you..
    Very in depth Analysis with so simplicity..
    Vipassana is Observational Study of Mind...
    Bhavānā pana gives 3 truths
    1)Impermanence..change..as u beautifully explained
    2)egoless..thoughts, Emotions ,habits are NOT WE..they also change..
    3)non - satisfaction..we doent find satisfaction (emotion)in any thing..as good it may be initially..as over time it change ..we get Suffering...satisfaction should not depends upon anything..
    Hope you in next videos give light on other two..egoless & non- satisfaction...
    I am waiting for those videos..
    Thank you

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you for the beautiful comment. Hope you have a great day, I'm glad you liked the video, and I will look into your other two points and maybe make a video about this in the near future

  • @JeffreyMarr
    @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +9

    Do you have a daily meditation practice? What do you think about a 10-day meditation retreat, would you do it?

    • @anmolvkumar
      @anmolvkumar Před 4 lety +3

      Jeffrey Marr mostly the answer is yes! I aim at everyday. It wasn't like that after my first course but as I have gotten deeper into the practice it has become clear to me that the benefits are way more than the time it takes from my life.
      I think if everybody took a 10 day course the world would be SOO MUCH better a place to live!

    • @NirajPoudyal
      @NirajPoudyal Před 4 lety

      I,ve done more than 10 , 10 days vipasaana course. Everytime, after coming out from there I somehow manage to maintain my practice for few weeks ,months but a time comes when I totàlly stop my practice because of the demands and response, reaction in my day to day life. In short it is very hard to continue the practice in outside world, outside of retreat centre, you need a total change of your daily routine, preferences e.t.c. but the benefit is beyond words. I strongly recommend this retreat for anybody who is thinking about giving it a try.

    • @kpeterson1342
      @kpeterson1342 Před 4 lety +2

      @@NirajPoudyal I recommend allowing it into your day. It's only an hour. I sit from 6-7pm, the same time everyone on course is meditating near me. I used to struggle with continuing my practice between courses, but now that I've made it just a normal part of my day, I see how very possible it is.

    • @NirajPoudyal
      @NirajPoudyal Před 4 lety

      @@kpeterson1342 thank you for your encouraging thoughts, I am definitely going start it over again.

    • @aniket6103
      @aniket6103 Před 4 lety +1

      1: 39 it's not "Hindi" but "Pali" a small correction there.
      But I think it doesn't matter if you get it's meaning.

  • @emmagoodram6212
    @emmagoodram6212 Před 4 lety +6

    Great Video! I went in with no expectations aswell and came out knowing that everything changes, especially sensations! Also the Law of Impermanence helped me to trust my life choices more :)

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Good to hear, looks like we got the same thing out of it :)
      I just did a 1 day refresher course and I think after that I'm doing another 10 day one.

    • @vikramdangar5403
      @vikramdangar5403 Před 4 lety

      Great

  • @thomasandrewhansen
    @thomasandrewhansen Před 4 lety +2

    That was really great man, well put together. Thanks for the effort involved.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      My pleasure Thomas, hope that you got something out of it.

  • @EspenAndreassen77
    @EspenAndreassen77 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Nicely put together 😊

  • @nilashroff
    @nilashroff Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations! Your animation is beautifully executed!!!
    You experience is wonderfully expressed.
    My experience was also freeing. I have become much calmer. I totally understand that everything will rise and past away.
    Before vipassana I felt every problem is unbearable. Now to think everything will pass is freeing.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      Love to hear about it. What was your biggest takeaway

    • @nilashroff
      @nilashroff Před 2 lety +1

      Life keeps moving nothing is permanent. And we have no control over our thoughts. We can simply observe and that too will pass. But one thing is there if you change the way you think in a positive way you will see positively and your thought can become calmer.
      I don’t know if I am making any sense….

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      @@nilashroff Thank you for sharing

  • @ampastudios
    @ampastudios Před 3 lety +1

    Nice video. Lots of Metta brother

  • @MrCany1
    @MrCany1 Před 4 lety +1

    Respect for Gn goenkaji 😊

  • @roshan3113
    @roshan3113 Před 4 lety

    As hou grow your experiences changes and u can see more benefits and u can't really perform an unethical action.its great if u grow in dhamma.be happy.

  • @prabhasganvir2098
    @prabhasganvir2098 Před 2 lety

    Very nice 🙂

  • @connoraiden8411
    @connoraiden8411 Před 4 lety +1

    Rajyoga meditation is free of cost....and I also regain 8 powers that oneself should have for blissful life while remaining relationships and work or buisness....these are 1power to pack up 2 power to tolerate 3 power to accommodate 4 power to discriminate 5 power to judge 6 power to face 7 power to co operate 8 power to withdraw

    • @letsdomath1750
      @letsdomath1750 Před 4 lety

      There are different styles of meditation, and Vipassana happens to be popular. Ten-day silent retreats do have a ring to them. That being said, I agree with you. I did hours and hours of yoga nidra and related techniques at home before doing more formal meditation workshops to gain greater insight into the theory. It was all free, and I did most of it in Shavasana in my own bed. 🤣 What resources do you use for your own meditation practices?

    • @connoraiden8411
      @connoraiden8411 Před 4 lety

      @@letsdomath1750 I didn't get you ...

    • @letsdomath1750
      @letsdomath1750 Před 4 lety

      @@connoraiden8411 Sorry, which part was confusing? Also, I was asking where you learned raja yoga. By any chance, did you use any CZcams videos to help you meditate?

  • @TP-vw9jl
    @TP-vw9jl Před 3 lety +3

    I am going for a retreat on Jan 1. I am nervous and excited already. Will definately get back and share my experience.
    Grateful for your insights.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety

      Can't wait to hear about it. be sure to check back!

    • @joeyblow6283
      @joeyblow6283 Před 3 lety

      You are going to love the entire experience and reflection afterwards when you leave. All of my friends were curious to hear my story and many said they couldn’t do it. They can. It’s a life changer for sure. I carry a pillar in myself of awareness I didn’t have. In way more nuanced control of my being. Im much more at peace. Plus I liked the challenge of the noble silence, I found it refreshingly appropriate for our day and age to shut up, and pay attention and do what you are instructed to do without it being some military brainwashing bs. Proper self initiated discipline with guidance and wisdom to be gained. Nothing better than that. I’m a big believer in the universe unfolding for you when you apply yourself, and this seemed liked a great chance to do just that

  • @juanamaya6278
    @juanamaya6278 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video! The thumbail is Matt D'avella's home

  • @metavatar
    @metavatar Před rokem

    No killing includes what's on your plate as well. Ahimsa!

  • @bobbyjett7047
    @bobbyjett7047 Před 4 lety

    I did my first one in Bodh Gaya. It was fantastic. I am doing my next one this year somewhere in India. It was one of the hardest things i have ever done in my life, but i gained much confidence for having completed it, and a hunger to learn more

    • @sreenivasantn1687
      @sreenivasantn1687 Před 4 lety

      Welcome to Kerala Dhamma kedana

    • @peterstrom9618
      @peterstrom9618 Před 4 lety

      I did my first one in Bodhgaya too. If you’re looking at sitting in India again might in recommend the center in Sarnath and the one in Tiruvannamalai in the southern state of Tamil Nadu. The center is located on an organic farm and the food was by far the best most sattvic food I’ve ever experienced during a course. And the center in Sarnath is equally lovely as is the center Dhamma Thai in Jaipur.

  • @anaypasay4276
    @anaypasay4276 Před 4 lety

    Very Nice animation and great explanation to Vipassana

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Glad that you liked it, thanks for the kind words!

    • @anaypasay4276
      @anaypasay4276 Před 4 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr Really appreciate the Video content and animation. My experience of Vipassana meditation was pretty much similar. Thank you

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      @@anaypasay4276 Very interesting. lots of friends seemed to have crazy epiphanies, but for me it was more a slow burn with the benefits happening over time. Glad that i wasnt the only one

  • @sadhanabangde5584
    @sadhanabangde5584 Před 4 lety

    Sutmayee pannya, chintamayee pannya, bhavnamayee pannya.

  • @Randomcooking
    @Randomcooking Před 4 lety

    I swear it would be so easy for me

  • @Bagellatte
    @Bagellatte Před 2 lety +1

    Lol. I think I will be like that when I was contemplating about this retreat. But I hope one day I will find a time to go and to let go.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      I’ve been thinking on doing another one a lot lately. I can think of many different approaches to take

  • @amirrastgoo9711
    @amirrastgoo9711 Před 2 lety +1

    Nice clip dude. I'm joining a retreat tomorrow.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety +1

      Enjoy it bro. Don’t go in with expectations and then commit to it fully for the full 10 days

    • @amirrastgoo9711
      @amirrastgoo9711 Před 2 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr sure. It's in a temple-like center in Thailand which because of new year I won't be there for 10 days, but anyways, that would be a great experience.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      @@amirrastgoo9711 you should do the 10 days to start

  • @anmolvkumar
    @anmolvkumar Před 4 lety +18

    Shilā is not Hindi! It's Pāli, an old Indian language spoken at the time of Buddha!

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      It's pedantic but thank you

    • @anmolvkumar
      @anmolvkumar Před 4 lety +5

      I don't think so. I'm just correcting the facts. It's something that's wrong.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +3

      @@anmolvkumar Appreciate it. but the video is made so therre's nothing that can be done about it now. Hope it doesn't colour the whole video negatively

  • @recolinotyu
    @recolinotyu Před 4 lety +1

    Hey! Guess what, your narration is much better this time!
    It's not amazing yet, deff some things to work on, but it's on track to become great

    • @recolinotyu
      @recolinotyu Před 4 lety

      @Joseph Antonio Yeah, the video itself (editing, images) is much better than some 1kk subs channels out there. The content is very unique and well tought too.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Thanks so much! When recording it I remembered to be more expressive like half-way through so it got better. Clearly my voice will never be a strength but it can still improve. Thank you for the feedback!

  • @TonyMoze
    @TonyMoze Před 3 lety

    Jeff!
    I did a CZcams video on my 10 day Vipassana experience ....

  • @mo6159
    @mo6159 Před 4 lety +1

    Really amazing! Is it possible to do something similar while I am living alone and have nothing much to do at home during the current lockdown? Any advice and reliable source to initiate it? Thanks :)

    • @damonf7422
      @damonf7422 Před 4 lety +1

      Mann I feel like this would be difficult in your own home. The tempation to give up will be strong. Going to the retreat gives you a physical place to separate yourself from all other distractions.

    • @mukkeshbk
      @mukkeshbk Před 4 lety

      You can go to dhamma.org. they gave free Anapana sessions which is first step to Vipassana

  • @kandasamiyogarajah8397
    @kandasamiyogarajah8397 Před 2 lety +1

    Today I completed 10 days vipassana meditation

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      Nice. How do you feel? What did you learn?

  • @MrFerang74
    @MrFerang74 Před 3 lety +2

    I really want to go.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety

      Let me know if you do

    • @MrFerang74
      @MrFerang74 Před 3 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr are they open during the pandemic?

  • @shobaaiyanna6205
    @shobaaiyanna6205 Před 4 lety

    Please send details of next course in Karnataka

  • @dr9189
    @dr9189 Před 3 lety

    What so you think about water (only) fast and vipassana together?

  • @games4us132
    @games4us132 Před 3 lety +1

    In buddhism killing a mosquito, if it attacks you, is treated as defence and don't counts as killing.
    So it is not necessary carry any dangerous insects.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 3 lety +1

      Nice, I will murder every one that I see

  • @DOX_Prod
    @DOX_Prod Před 4 lety

    Really cool video ! Thanks for sharing your introspection in such an honest way ! I have been experiencing Vipassanna in Nepal and made a video about it maybe you'll like to check it out !

  • @fredrikscoaching9343
    @fredrikscoaching9343 Před 3 lety +1

    But actually monks can speak with each other, it is only during retreat periods they can't speak

  • @tdahanayake
    @tdahanayake Před 4 lety +2

    May I adapt this video for a Sinhala version?

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Hey there, could you explain more? send me an email at mintjeffry@gmail.com

  • @smriti2975
    @smriti2975 Před 3 lety

    Sir will i.breakup.after returning from.attending retreat?

  • @avneetchugh
    @avneetchugh Před rokem +1

    Are you able to continue with your practice?

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před rokem +1

      I meditate everyday still, yes. But not really vipassana - kind of Just my own thing at the moment

  • @tbobtbob330
    @tbobtbob330 Před 4 lety

    The Goenka retreats claim to be religion independent, but be prepared to have non-Buddhist religions mocked and condescended to, and Buddhism pushed like you're at a used-car dealership. He also really pushes a a lot of sciency talk which he clearly doesn't understand, but young people eat that up. The technique itself is powerful, but the explanations for it's effectiveness is the standard religious idea to explain phenomenon with a superstitious cause. If I'd have known these things going in, I wouldn't have felt duped and probably would have gotten a lot more out of it. It set my practice back about 6 months.

  • @coolwater3101
    @coolwater3101 Před 2 lety +1

    I can not sit cross legged for long hours. anybody knows how I can join in vipasana meditation ?? help me plz 🥺😭

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety +1

      Do a retreat and tell them that. Although to be fair maybe you’d be able to push through. It’s painful but pain is transient

    • @coolwater3101
      @coolwater3101 Před 2 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr thank you so much for answering. do you have an email of vipassana event to reserve and booking? I am from iran ❤️🌹

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      @@coolwater3101 www.dhamma.org/en-US/index check this website and see if you can find retreats wherever you are. If you do one, come back and let me know how it went

    • @coolwater3101
      @coolwater3101 Před 2 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr tanx a lot. sure 🌸👍

  • @user-cm9lz1rn3w
    @user-cm9lz1rn3w Před 4 lety +1

    Dude, it's more than a one time deal to understand it, you need to do it again until you've sat 3 courses at which point you should do Sattipathana which will take you deeper and you will click to what you've been missing because it seems to me you missed a lot.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Maybe i'm dumb though

    • @chung0224
      @chung0224 Před 4 lety

      Between The Lines why say that man. I mean he is just saying that going a few more times will still have different experience and learn more

  • @debbiesrainful
    @debbiesrainful Před 4 lety

    it was actually 10-11hrs of meditation a day.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +3

      Must have lost track of time when I was sitting there all day

  • @journeyskorea4993
    @journeyskorea4993 Před 4 lety +1

    Those who speak don't know
    Those who know don't speak

  • @oloooudia363
    @oloooudia363 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video - and 'Sila' is a Pali word, not Hindi :-P

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      Haha thank you. I don't know the specificities of Pali and Hindi unfortunately

  • @a_chaotic_mind
    @a_chaotic_mind Před 4 lety

    It has 10-10.5 hours of meditation per day not 7-8 hours . I'm going to do vipasana from tomorrow .

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      I didn't want to sound too extreme. Felt more like 12 hours

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      I hope you get a lot out of it Olivia, I'm guessing it's not your first course?

    • @a_chaotic_mind
      @a_chaotic_mind Před 4 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr it is my first time ! I am really scared !

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety +1

      @@a_chaotic_mind Just follow everything that they say, the rules are there for a reason. Don't write in a journal or anything. Best of luck. I hope you get a lot out of it. Write me here when you're done, I'd love to hear what you got out of it.

    • @a_chaotic_mind
      @a_chaotic_mind Před 4 lety

      @@JeffreyMarr sure I'll write you . Thanks a lot !

  • @matthewrousseau2982
    @matthewrousseau2982 Před rokem

    People have left retreats damaged also

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před rokem

      I was actually just thinking yesterday how much I am ready to do another. What an incredible experience

    • @matthewrousseau2982
      @matthewrousseau2982 Před rokem

      @@JeffreyMarr I'm I'm a dark night. I am in this loop forever now. Once you start . You can't stop half way through. Have you had any breakthroughs?

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před rokem

      @@matthewrousseau2982 breakthroughs how? Like changed since meditation retreat? Or what’s dark night mean for you

    • @matthewrousseau2982
      @matthewrousseau2982 Před rokem

      @@JeffreyMarr did you ever have a transcendental experience? A feeling of ego loss or loss of self

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před rokem

      @@matthewrousseau2982 i sure did yeah. Actually at the meditation retreat I had a brief period where I thought I was Tyler Durden from Fight Club. I thought I was the imagination of someone else

  • @xelyamusicvideo
    @xelyamusicvideo Před 4 lety +1

    If you are a meat eater, you didn't get any pañña. "Avoiding harm to all creatures... this is true knowledge. All else is ignorance." Bhagavad Gita

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 4 lety

      Eh, I was vegetarian during the retreat. Wasn't bad, didn't mind it.

  • @KapilKumar-fg3hm
    @KapilKumar-fg3hm Před 3 lety

    On

    • @KapilKumar-fg3hm
      @KapilKumar-fg3hm Před 3 lety

      Also attend sati Pathan sit , 20 days course, 10 day special course and do sewa in retreat. Wonderful results will come. Mangal ho.

  • @mynameisnobody3931
    @mynameisnobody3931 Před 2 lety +1

    Those things are normal though. They ARE meditation.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety +1

      "Wait, it's all meditation"
      "Always has been"
      *gunshot*

  • @bosslic_
    @bosslic_ Před rokem

    7-8 hours a day? Its actually 11hours per day :3

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před rokem

      Yeah but the mandatory ones are 7-8 hours. There’s a few optional meditations where you gotta shower or you’re cleaning bathrooms or whatever

  • @helga13human
    @helga13human Před 4 lety

    During the 10 day retreat you are supposed to meditate about 10 hours a day not just 7 hours as you mentioned.....

  • @kiyopon3585
    @kiyopon3585 Před rokem

    1:40
    Its Pali not hindi

  • @MartinNitram6
    @MartinNitram6 Před 6 měsíci

    1:28 Tell you you didn't do this 10 day meditation course without telling me you didn't do this 10 day meditation course.

  • @lizgerman1238
    @lizgerman1238 Před 2 lety

    It's rather difficult to hear and understand the end of your sentences.

    • @JeffreyMarr
      @JeffreyMarr  Před 2 lety

      yeah i had a stroke so i ramble off a little