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“You shouldn’t have to always feel like you’re the ‘before’ to a before-and-after picture.” Oof. That got me.
I saw something kinda interesting with regard to this recently - for the Pillow Talk mascara Charlotte Tillberry just launched the ‘before’ says ‘beautiful before’ and something like ‘my best lashes’ in the ‘after’. Her brand has a lot of issues but I was like hmm. I always feel so confronted by those before and after things, like yeah I get they’re showing the model with and without the product to demonstrate the results but yeah, idk, thought it was a cooler way to do it.
That’s literally the best quote I’ve heard in such a long time. 🥺
To be honest I think before and after ads should only be used in things like psoriasis medications, not cosmeceuticals (non drug cosmetics).
Man I agree!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Unpopular opinion: most people’s “unpopular opinions” aren’t unpopular
Hahahaa
Kendall C this comment isn’t an unpopular opinion🤣
Hahah totally agree 😂 I feel like “unpopular opinion” now just means “controversial” or “dividing issue”
They’re not like other girls! Lol
Can we stop the “all bodies are beautiful” campaign. ALL BODIES ARE VALID. why does it have to be beautiful? Beautiful sounds so shallow. I don’t want to be seen as just beautiful...no matter if I’m average, acne, obese, crooked nose, tall ...I want to be valid and seen
Totally agree!
honestly i prefer that wording
I disagree, I recently gained some weight after being the skinniest I have ever been and it really destroyed by self esteem for a while. It’s okay to sometimes be self indulgent and shallow and just see yourself as beautiful.
I was overweight and when I lost weight, I had people saying "i thought you were beautiful before." bruh, i knew i was beautiful, i just wanted my knees and back to stop hurting when i walked 😂 you're beautiful at any size, but feeling accepted in the world is different. i like your wording better because it makes more sense.
Yassssss!
My unpopular opinion: a lot of people will use the word "healthy" to describe only body types they find sexual attractive and actual health has nothing to do with it, it's just people pretending not to be shallow.
100%! I think perceptions of health and beauty are tied together too
heavily agree, skinny can be unhealthy and overweight can be healthy, will lose weight over time but you can't read someone's health by looking at them.
And I mean, why should a strangers health status matter to you anyway? Even if you are unhealthy you have a right to exist
"I want to be like rice gum"... Oh, honey, no.
In the wise words of Baily Sarian: GET. BETTER. IDOLS.
ricegum...that’s a name i haven’t heard in a while.
Ricegum was the only person that made me laugh/smile in 6th grade. I had no friends and I was alone and his videos were the only thing I look forward too. Obviously I don’t agree with his China controversy and the rape question thing. But he does have a special place in my heart. And ricegum and Bryan are two different people.
omg i read it in her voice lol
ANOTHER BAILEY FAN YES
Baileeeeyyy😍😍
College should be accessible to everyone, not just "kids"
Wait a moment, it isn't in the us? Like you can't go to college when you're 40?
SIF you can, but college is mostly presented as a thing that’s just for kids fresh out of high school, and if you’re still in school, it’s not like directly shamed, but there is a stigma around it.
America needs a OU program like we do in the UK for anyone over 21
Penny Thomas I think 99% of the time if you say “America needs _____” it’ll probably be correct 😂
@@SaintAtropine yeah it really is a shithole
I disagree on being transparent if you've had plastic surgery. HOWEVER, it's unfair to preach 'natural beauty' if you have had work done. There are various reasons for getting plastic surgery and not all reasons are comfortable to talk about. And you're so right about the fact that men don't get shamed for their surgeries... Why can't people just mind their own business?? 😂
Yep, do as you please but don't pretend you have that body because of flattummy cause god i will jugde you for lying😐
Agreed- I think natural beauty is from the inside. The outside is what we can change and what we can show to be beautiful, but to me, a person with a terrible personality can be as beautiful as anything, but i wouldn't see them as beautiful.
Whenever this debate of plastic surgery comes up, I always think back to the “Kylie Jenner Lip Challenge” and how girls were literally bruising their faces trying to look like her because she insisted for the longest time she never had work done. Like sis, it’s obvious you went under the knife and it’s whatever. But when girls are naive enough to think they can get big lips naturally like that is insane.
If you're going to promote or develop/sell a product that supposedly enhances the attribute you had plastic surgery on you have to disclose that is slimey and underhanded. For example Kylie with her lip kits or her skincare line she has had her lips done and she uses products and contraptions on her face that are inaccessible to a normal person. She's not getting that skin using only her own skincare line and it would be bullshit if she implied so. If you aren't in a field that you are trying to influence people to try to obtain your look that's fine. If you craft or play video games on youtube it would be weird to bring up your fake boobs.
@@LaurenElizabethxxxx books. Didn't see your comment before making mine... great minds lol
Honestly I'm more into body neutrality than body positivity, not everyone is up to love their bodies. The act of just accepting it is a more realistic approach in my opinion.
I really agree, you don’t have to love your body, you just have to respect it
For me personally, this is what I’m working toward. Body positivity for me personally really set the goal post way too far away from where I was, like it seemed impossible for me bc I have sooooo much hatred to work through. It made me want to give up before I even tried which is messed up but true. I definitely feel like this idea feels more accessible for me anyway.
I feel like acceptance and loving yourself has to be one of the hardest things in my opinion.
Yeah for me sometimes I will love my body and myself and other times I will feel embarrassed and absolutely hate it because of my low self esteem and self worth. I feel like accepting and respecting your body for how it is, is more manageable then loving yourself.
@@satansspawn4001 I have low self esteem too and people will be like you need confidence. I'm like easier said than done.
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'Oversimplified' taught me that! 😂
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I learned about this from Stuff You Should Know and god was that episode a fucking rollercoaster
Scishow tangents taught me that ;)
“If a plus sized model doesn’t have a double chin? Low key? I don’t feel seen.”
🤣🤣🤣 I died. SAME.
I’m not even plus sized I’m mid sized but have a double chin. I’ve never seen a model with a double chin or even influencers that have double chins
I was so relieved when you talked about "plus sized" models who still don't have a double chin, I thought it was just me and I feel like shit because of it
I’m not even plus-sized and I have a double chin!! I have to wonder if these models have special poses that make their chins disappear...that or lipo 😂
I really appreciated what you said about body positivity. Skinny doesn’t always equal healthy. When I was at my skinniest it was because I had a bunch of undiagnosed digestive disorders and could almost never get solid food down. That was also the worst my mental health has ever been and I spent the whole year in and out of the psych ward.
Hi ! I hope you’re doing a lot better now
holy shit, kate, same! but my in-and-out was from the hospital and the digestive problems came from being sick.
Really resonate with this, I'm much happier now bigger and no longer spending half of my life hugging a bowl.
Hope your better?
DOUBLE CHIN REPRESENTATION YES YES YES. I’m literally so insecure about my double chin.
@@reeseharrison2934 This is true when you put it that way. I do think it is true we are the only ones to really see our (perceived) flaws.
same
I went to college in the US, originally from Cancun, MX 🇲🇽
Many people in my school were shocked to know we had cars, streets, buildings, and that people didn’t move around in donkeys with sombreros 🤦🏻♀️ this was in 2016 and I couldn’t believe the level of ignorance from some people.
The history classes I had in college were so US “sided” and it was very strange to me. While I understand each country is gonna teach history making them the “heroes” it was very one sided. When I learned history in my country it was much more neutral 🤷🏻♀️
Same here, some americans paying me in dollars talking about how i should be happy i was getting US dollars, i kept thinking: this is not my money and i hate US dollars because they f(@($ up my closing balance and i was taught World History in both high school and uni so a few classes wouldnt hurt americans i think.
Don’t worry, the US ain’t looking so great right now thanks to that bloated yam in the White House.
I'm not from the US, but the same thing happened to me when I went on an exchange program in France. I'm from Eastern Europe. I was still in high school back then and the French teacher had apparently told her students that we're really poor and we even need to be given a daily allowance. It was so embarrassing. When the French students came to my country most of them were shocked we had normal lives and nice houses and everything.
As a German. We don't get teached history with us being the heroes. Thank God
@@CHackl-ee5ob ditto as an Austrian I also enjoy that we no longer have aristocrats because they can't glamourise their history. Their just dudes and dudettes who used to rule over people back then.
I’m in the medical field and I don’t understand why people think body positivity and obesity having certain health consequences are mutually exclusive concepts. It’s not as if people can (or should) just suddenly lose a bunch of weight in a day so how does it make sense to say that people somehow deserve to be miserable and shamed until they do so. And healthy weight management is a privilege in itself on so many levels, from financial to medical to simply having the time and energy. Even for myself, by medical standards I could probably stand to lose a couple pounds but instead I’m working 90 hours a week at the hospital. Am I not allowed to feel even a little bit confident in my appearance between now and when I’m finally cachectic and lying in my casket probably at age 40 from being overworked? Lol.
“Healthy weight management is a privilege” YES. People don’t seem to understand this at all.
Yes yes all of this yes!
I completely agree
Amen. Not to mention-a lot of the health issues we usually associate with weight can be worsened by weight stigma. Stress from shame, avoiding seeking care bc of stigma, etc.
I could cry this comment is so wonderful. Im on a body positive journey because when I lost 70 pounds, I was still miserable. Being skinny didn't make me happy. Im working out and making better lifestyle choices so I feel stronger and I appreciate what my body does rather than saying oh I hate this aspect of my body still.
I agreed with what you said when you spoke about body positivity, although as of lately I'm more interested in body neutrality. I feel like body positivity as a movement still buys into the idea that you only have value when you have beauty, and I think it would be a lot more productive for our society to break away from that and stop focusing so much on what we look like.
vursifty I love this comment so much
Yep. Same.
Yes this!
yeah i think body positivity has morphed into "everyone is beautiful" when it should be "you don't have to be beautiful to deserve respect"
Cancer, diabetes, strokes don’t care if you’re body positive. Being positive is now becoming a bandaid and crutch for people’s inability and unwillingness to get as healthy as they can. Something like PCOS can be made better with weight loss and diet but the trick is you have to apply yourself. And a lot of women just don’t seem to want to do the work these days.
I also think when picking on the physical appearance of terrible people, you're implying that those characteristics are what makes them terrible and then other people with those characteristics also feel picked on and called terrible too.
YES!!! I never understand why people have to critique physical characteristics when there is so many other things to talk about.
I'm overweight, largely as a side effect of my antidepressants. If I went off them to lose weight, I guarantee you the depression would kill me faster than the weight 😂
I agree. I uh, really really hate the low sex drive side effect. But I've tried going off them and nooooooope not happening
literally fucking same
you're not alone
Just be careful, over the last several years research has shown that taking antidepressants increases your risk of developing dementia. Pharmaceuticals aren’t actually good for you. I would encourage you to try therapy/cannabis management over pills that are only going to make you more sick. I know it’s a touchy subject bc it has to do w people’s mental health. I struggle w depression and suicidal thoughts, and am just starting to come out of my postpartum depression after having my second child, but I don’t think pills are the answer. Like you said if you stopped taking them it would be bad so clearly that tells you it’s just a bandaid over a problem and nothing is really fixed in your mind. Not to sound like a c*nt, obviously I’d rather you alive and on medication than dead-just something to consider though; pharmaceuticals will always make you sicker in the long run (they’re not meant to help you they’re meant to make money off you)
@@erinelizabeth8180 just saying, but a bandaid is all that I need. I can't be fixed because my depression is hereditary. It's ok to encourage people to do some research but the goal doesn't have to be to be "cured"
While I'm a huge advocate for college, I don't think it's right for everyone ESPECIALLY in America where it costs so much. I think vocational schools can be just as valid if that's the path you want.
I wish teachers told you that growing up. It would seem like a "failure" if you didn't go to college. It took me forever to realise that ALL recognised education is valid!
Even if you don't end up in that career, you gave it a go and you have skills!
In Australia we have tertiary education called TAFE that provides training for trades, hospitality, vet nursing, childcare, tech etc. Its government run and the fees are HUGELY less expensive than university. Don't get me wrong, there are problems (mostly with funding cuts from our right leaning government at the moment)- but it is a really great resource for SO many people who don't want to go to uni- im a huge fan!
I don't know if America has something similar? Is this kind of like community colleges?
@@evabloom702 That sounds awesome! I wish we had something like that. I definitely wouldn't equate community college to that. Community college is essentially the same as regular college except it costs much less and you only go for 2 years which earns you an associate's degree at the end instead of a bachelor's degree.
I love college, but I agree that it isn't for everyone. That is why you get kids that drink and party their way through college. They didn't want to be there, their parents forced them.
✨ education should be free✨
I totally agree with you on actual tutorials, we don't necessarily need to know how to do our makeup anymore, but what I like, and what I'll actively look for are how people used a specific palette, or a bronzer, or how did it look on the skin. Like "3 looks with the Melt Gemini palette", stuff like that. As long as it's in the mix of all the other kinds of videos, I'm good.
I often read these comments for more tutorials by older women who seem to ve newer to the beauty community. I don't quite get why they don't watch older videos if they really want to learn because believe me it's all out there...
If you’re a public figure, there will always be critics no matter what you do, but I feel that people who get plastic surgery (and facetune every picture), yet claim to be natural, is the issue. It’s the lying that people don’t like. I really do think a lot of people respect it when you’re just upfront and honest about any work you’ve gotten done.
Kylie jenner is the first person that comes to mind I remember when she was trying to convince everyone that her lips are natural and young girls were fucking up their lips with these weird tools. James Welsh made some good vids about this. Its crazy what you can do to edit yourself on film. You can even edit vids to make yourself look different and he was showing that every time they put something in front of their face the vid almost glitches because the filter dissappears for a second. So he was basically showing how to spot when people edit their content.
Yep same with Bella hadid and her current face lifts
A lot of “plus size models” have pear shaped, and have amazing bone structure on their faces. That’s just not the reality for the other 90% of real plus size women.
Honestly, you can try to be the healthiest person in the world and you can still die from underlying conditions you knew nothing about (many people in my life who died of heart disease were active people who ate healthy and did not know anything was wrong). All a person can do is try their personal best, whatever that is for them.
So true..my grandmother died at 96 years old. She smoked every day of her life. Had a ton of professors who died that were very physically fit and active
@@HappyH4ppyHappy All of cancer is not preventable, especially if you do not have proper testing to see if you are more genetically prone to certain types. All heart conditions are not preventable. Accidents (the third highest way to die in the U.S.) are not always the person's fault (Car accidents being the highest accident) so it's not preventable. Again, all you can do is your personal best. All people can do is their personal best.
I have lost over 100lbs and I still get laughed at when I go to the gym because those people don't know how hard I've worked and just judge me on my appearance. I find that the people who are saying fat people need to go to the gym more are the people who are also shaming fat people when they DO go to the gym. I can lift more than some of these people laughing at me and I can outrun a few of them too, but because I still weigh more than them they assume I'm an unhealthy slob who sits around all day. And by the way... the "judgment free zone" isn't always so judgement free.... Just sayin'.
You are so brave and beautiful, going to the gym even to begin with.
I’ve put on so so so, much weight, after trying birth control for the first time...at 28, 9 months ago.... and I’ve struggled with weight my whole life, plus I’m so tall... so, after dropping 100 pounds two years ago, and putting 80 of it back on....50 of it from the birth control....I could hug you for going to the gym, while ALSO acknowledging you being laughed at..... whomever is laughing needs to get popped, and trust me, YOURE more confident, a better person (far more tolerable to be around)...than anyone that just laughs at people that are literally bettering themselves, in front of their eyes. Xoxoxox
hannah: in two years when this is all gone...
me: absolutely n o t
You know what’s odd? Plenty of men are featured in those long ads for “miracle skincare” that plays on TV late at night, where products “reverse” aging, but they’re almost never included in preventative anti-aging campaigns. Like it’s not “manly” to prevent wrinkles, but it’s totally fine to try and make them go away.
So I think that education is important however I think that expecting people to know what they want to do with the rest of their lives at 18 is ridiculous. I went to college I have a bachelor's degree and I low kind of regret going because the subject I have a degree in I enjoy but it's not necessarily the thing I want to do for the rest of my life. On the other hand I think I would enjoy it more if I got my Masters degree to specify my career options. It would also help if places were hiring right now. But yeah I think education is important
Oh I completely agree. I 100% think community colleges and gap years should be normalized so kids have time to figure out what they actually want to do
I think it would be ok if it weren’t for the fact that we pay for all 4 years incredibly large sums of money and have a very low ability to go back to school if it doesn’t work out for us. At least in other countries you don’t pay and so if you don’t think it’s for you later in life you can always just go back to school.
@@Yazzzledazzzle I totally agree I did 2.5 years at a normal university after I transferred from a community college and I have over $20,000 in student loan debt. The US is basically making it so people have to go to college to get any sort of a career to support themselves after high school but they are also putting those same people in debt for the foreseeable future which is crappy
@@smokey_glow I always kind of smile whenever I see you have replied or hearted a comment of mine so thank you Hannah.
I agree I had no idea what I wanted to do at that age. I'm still not exactly sure what I want to do.
The skincare opinions was interesting for me because most dermatologists would also agree that if you want your skin to look great. Then all you have to do is use less products and protect your skin from the sun.
even as a person who has a decent amount of lid space I see a huge lack of people with smaller eyes and eyelids in makeup marketing. Like people deserve to know how eyeshadow will work for them..
As someone who is recovering from an Eating disorder that got it from being bullied non stop for being bigger...my original weight wasn’t killing me, the abuse is what put me on my death bed 💁🏻♀️
I grew up in Mexico and definitely know more about Mexican history/culture. However, I probably know more about world history than the average american because there was a focus on it throughout my formative years.
“You shouldn’t have to feel like the “before” in a before and after photo.” That hit. Honestly, people have no idea how much worse disordered eating gets when people talk about your weight, even if they think they’re being constructive.
I think the unpopular opinion (more of a fact I'd say) is that yes: make-up should be more than just skin/race diversity. When these brands come up and say they want to be diversity they forget a whole group a people, they forget men. Men from all walks of life do in fact wear makeup for different reasons and should be represented more in makeup campaigns make-up artist Robert welsh brought up this good point when millie dropped her makeup brand she talked about being diversity to a different range of people but that diversity forgot to include the boys which kinda negates the whole "trying to be diversity". I really love that Rihanna straight off the bat included men in her campaign without a second thought and really talks highly of men being in the community she created a safe space for men of all colors, sexualities, and expressions to just be themselves with no judgment and gives fair representation for everybody's standard of beauty.
highkey most universityis a scam. but education is literally the most important thing. imo just make sure you're not wasting a buttload of money on 4 year uni when you could go to a junior college or community college for the first 2 at least. especially depending on your degree.
This! 4-year universities, especially private universities, are really not a necessity, you don’t need to go to a college that’s going to leave you with over 100k in student loan debt after you graduate in order to get a fulfilling education. More often than not, your college experience is based off of what you make of it, and sometimes I think people (mostly young high school students who feel like they HAVE to attend a well-known university to prove their worth) think that just because they go to “____” school means they will graduate with 20 job offers lined up
Anyone who uses the “I just care about their health” excuse clearly doesn’t care about that persons mental health. Someone can’t lose weight if they kill themself after you call them fat.
And yes, it can be that serious for some people, so don’t try to justify this in the replies.
Dreams Are Real Life well your situation was specific and you are close to her that is different so you actually do care. But all these randos on the internet telling a person or a group of people mean and horrible things doesn’t mean they care trust me.
Unpopular Opinion: fan-pages for celebrities are creepy, weird, and just invasive. I see some fan-pages of a certain celeb and the posts are all are pictures of that celeb with a creepy caption such as "omg I love them with my whole heart, I will do anything for them" and creepy almost all the time. It's very cringy to see people dedicate their life to a certain person and make edits of them and post pictures of them when they the celebs don't even know them and probably don't care for them. Or when the celeb is problematic and the fans go on to defend them, like they are friends with the celeb when in reality they don't know whats going on in their head. But like I said, ITS ONLY AN OPINION. sorry for the long rant, it just annoys the crap outta me
Yes I agree. Especially fan pages for couples are so obsessive like sometimes they have them years after the couple breaks up which must be weird to see for the person who could at that point be married with kids to a different person
Don't let the BTS peeps see this 😂
I think fan pages are ok only if the photos posted are public (like from interviews or events) or posted by that celebrity. The best scenario is that the owner of the page has permission from the celebrity to make a fanpage, but of course that's not possible with huge celebrities.
fan pages are today's version of putting poster of your favourite celebs on the wall, i don't see anything wrong with it
Honestly the way I see it is that fan pages tend to give young people a sense of stability, comfort and community. When so many things around them are changing, their little (or big) fandom community is one thing they can always turn to. It’s just a sense of comfort Uk?
You and Amandabb having your upload schedules synced for the last few uploads have been SAVING my stressed self 🤣
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In my opinion things related to social justice are more of a right and wrong issue instead of a left or right issue and if that makes me political oh well 🤷🏻♀️ I will always support social justice initiatives
Completely agree. Thank
I agree. I feel like people want to make everything left or right wing when most of the time it's a right or wrong issue. This is why I'm always kind of in the middle or neutral in political discussions
When you touched on college I started sobbing
I’m a high school freshman and currently college isn’t on my mind I have thought about it and it just doesn’t seem like a good fit for me, but I have had teachers flat out tell me if you don’t go to college you will end up working at McDonald’s your entire life. It has put me in a really bad point in my life because all my teachers don’t tell students that don’t want to go to college what to do, or even that we have any job options. Anyway your point of view is very similar to how I feel and you don’t normally hear an adult talk about it that way.
second year college student here! i was sobbing the other week over the fact that i’m almost done with my general ed which means i have to transfer to university soon. i realized college wasn’t for me wayyy too late in the game (ideally it’s never too late to change your mind but finances, family members & pressure can get in the way of that mentality). anyways, my advice is to look into trades! things like cosmetology, fire academies, fasion design, freelance writing, art, whatever sounds appealing to you! there’s nothing stopping you from making your hobby into your job. and if you have a structured plan by the time you get out of high school, you’re more likely to be taken seriously & supported by the people around you :)
I think the issue with body positivity is that it's getting taken over by people who do preach about the joys of obesity and completely ignore the dangers of obesity. I think what needs to be talked about more is just being healthy and active and not focusing on the aesthetics of the body.
Yes I agree. Also I think sometimes it turns into shaming people who are what society considers skinny. Like saying that those bodies are not real, healthy, look like sticks etc.
Right. It’s turned into a “now we get to bully you” revenge mentality. No, it doesn’t mean that obesity gets elevated so that you can put down people who look different. It’s about body shape and size not being the factor that determines whether you’re “normal” or “beautiful”.
“There’s no ethical consumption in capitalism” is GREAT insight. This video is full with great insight like this and this is another reason I love your channel. Also your brows look really really great ❤️
I know more people who have almost died from anorexia, bulimia, and disordered eating than being obese.
For real. Most of the overweight people who die are those super morbidly obese people, think My 600lb life. Being a little overweight is not a death sentence.
Also sadly there's a lot of people who are struggling with eating disorders who are also overweight who are totally ignored by society
@bunnie bun I really hope you're doing well now! And as someone who is bigger and has bulimia, the way I'm treated by society is really upsetting? Many people mistake my ED for a binge eating disorder (I'm guessing mostly bc I'm big ?) and not for the restricting and binging cycle it actually is. It kinda feels like you're never beleived until you get to a point where you "look" like you have an eating disorder..
Obesity is the second leading cause of preventable death in the US, after tobacco use. Deaths from eating disorders are relatively rare. We have a horrible obesity crisis that is shortening newer generations lifespans. Yes, anorexia, bulimia are horrible but the death toll is nothing compared to obesity. Anorexia might get more media attention because it affects a lot of celebrities and white, upper class women. Obesity affects more people especially those in poverty.
Ok no lol what??? Obesity is a co-morbidity. It ushers in other illnesses - cancer, diabetes, stroke - those all kill/lead to death. God you people...lolol being obese knocks years off of your life.
Body Neutrality, (as opposed to positive or negative) is how my therapist is wanting me to think of it 😇 (I'm plus size). You can be plus size and very healthy. The end.
Weight does not equal health and health does not equal a person's value.
Someone's appearance should not be an automatic judgement of health, and health should not be the pinnacle of a human's worth. Stress, worry, and self-loathing have far more negative impacts on our health than weight does.
Right? Equating health to value is suuuuper ableist.
i feel like college is such a sensitive topic. there are so many factors that can determine whether or not an individual will be successful in college (or if they can even get there). an education IS right for everyone. it’s just not accessible to all because the US college system doesn’t cater to those who need it just to get their foot in the door.
WAIT i actually agree with the double chin thing, i think people accept plus size people that doesnt have flabs or at least doesnt show it. Being a plus size my self it hurts my self esteem a lot 😔😔
Every time an influencer or celebrity gets plastic surgery, the comments are always full of backhanded compliments. Like posting "I thought your old nose was so beautiful, but as long as your happy hun!" is so passive aggressive and the fact that these people will turn around and claim they're just being supportive is honestly so gross.
This is perfect timing and saves me from having to watch something else while drawing, I love listening to you talking about various things
I think you might like the book Anti-Diet. It talks about diet culture and how toxic it is and how a lot of the "obesity epidemic" was sensationalized. Many of the studies done failed to consider other factors such as socioeconomic status or other underlying health conditions.
Your comment about plus size models not having double chins is very true and accurate. I have always found a lot of plus size "inclusivity" to be very preformstive and lackluster. For instance most plus size models I think hold their weight in certain places, they are never heavy in the face or stomach or arms, they hold their weight in their thighs, butt and boobs; and are taller so their being a larger size never looks that noticeable if that makes any sense. I'm not plus size, but close to it at a size 12-14, but as someone who holds a lot of their weight in their stomach it very much sends the message of "it's okay to be a little heavier just not in those places". I have the same feelings about the body trend shifting to "thicc" women which is that same shape of having bigger boobs, thighs and butt but having a tiny waist and stomach.
I have also noticed people praising brands for being "inclusive" when in reality they just have like 2 plus sized models. Having 5 models that are size zero and 5 models that are size 20 is still only two sizes. Sorry that was kind of a long rant.
Of course it’s ok to separate politics and makeup. No one would enjoy watching a makeup tutorial while someone with no research or credentials talks about politics. BUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN WE SHOULD BUY FROM PROBLEMATIC BRANDS. These problematic brands aren’t political issues, they are human issues. I hardcore judge anyone who buys makeup from Jeffree Star, Amazon, or any brand against POC, immigrants, women or the LGBTQ community.
Wait. amazon doesnt support LGBQT?
Completely agree w u!
Didn't get that Amazon comment but otherwise fully agree!!!
@@whogreen992 yeah that's the only thing I can think of too
@@callmefried544 I think they mean that Amazon isn't an ethical company, not that it doesn't support LGBTQ
"Americans tend to think that the world revolves around America."
I mean.................that assumption isn't completely incorrect....The BIGGEST problem with America as a whole is this "US US US US" mindset. It's great to be proud of where you're from but you're not better than anyone else. In fact America is quite behind in a lot of things. And don't even get me STARTED on the whole American Flag thing OHHHHHH MY GOD America's OBSESSION with that shit is just annoying now. It's. FABRIC. Like get over it. It's FABRIC. No other country OBSESSES over FABRIC like America does. Why.
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It’s just the culture that’s developed I guess
Hi Ribotto Studios! You must watch many of the same CZcamsrs I do. I think I've seen your comments on several of them. I agree with you. I call it "Toxic Patriotism". There is a real need for people in the US to have a better understanding and appreciation for other countries.
a lot of those people don’t seem to know the difference between patriotism and nationalism. like it’s obvious that the US is better off than a lot of other countries but that doesn’t automatically make it a good country.
You’re right in general but saying “no other country obsesses over fabric like America does” is demonstrably wrong. Off the top of my head, look at how much people in Brazil love their flag. Also, it’s not illegal to burn the US flag (even if people will get really offended if you do and trump, of course, seems to want to make it illegal), but it IS illegal to do that in France, for example. Americans can absolutely be obnoxious with our flag (and god, it’s annoying), but we definitely aren’t the only ones.
About college. It isn’t accessible for everyone. Black, brown, and indigenous students have a really hard time in the American education system and job market. Black women were “the most educated group in America” but one of the most underpaid coming out of school. I think college is great but it’s a privilege and a gamble not everyone can afford. That’s why people are less inclined to promote America’s broken college system. I wish we had free community college like other places :(
I don’t think that’s necessarily true. There’s a ton of scholarships and grants available to POC and other ethnicities that have opened many doors. And I think women in general are underpaid. Also, when I job hunt on indeed like nearly every job is only willing to offer $15 an hour and want a college degree.. I think that’s a huge problem because you can’t live off of that. A decent one bedroom is 1,000 a month. Add all bills, utilities, groceries, and student loan payments?? It’s one reason I stopped going to college. Not worth it to get a degree when your almost slapped in the face with $15 an hour pay.
@@ambernicole. I disagree. Rather I think the issue is not getting into college, but not being payed as much when you get out. Search up racial wage gaps White women are payed around 70 cents on the dollar, while black women are payed 64 cents and native women are payed a mere 50 cents.
The idea of higher education is wonderful and everyone should be able to explore specialized topics from the world around them. That being said, the system that we have is total bullshit and I don’t blame people for hating it. It’s not about the education. It’s about the astronomical prices and getting trapped in financial ruin after attending, or how difficult it is to get in depending on who you are and where you’re from. It’s total bullshit.
I dont what this to come off as rude because I dont overly mind it but not everyone wants to hear about amarican politics when watching makeup videos.
I'm Canadian and really its exhausting when I just want to watch something that in normal life would have nothing to with amarican politics but the person is now making it about amarican politics. Which really i can have an option on but i have no say in it so really blah I dont wanna keep hearing about it all the time.
I dont think that just because someone has a influence that they should use that platform to talk about politics, especially if they arent fully educated on what they are talking about. Politics are extremely divisive, so I think its totally fair for someone not to want to walk into that minefield.
As an American myself i agree with you i almost stop watching the video when she started talking about politics im tired of hearing and seeing it everywhere this is supposed to be my escape
I agree. I watch quite a few Canadian CZcamsrs, and they honestly NEVER talk about Canadian politics. 😂
@@akbflo politics in general are handled differently in Canada. Kinda like there is a time and a place to talk about them, they don't leek into all aspects of our lives.
Honestly, as an American, I feel bad for the rest of the world having to listen to the ridiculous space that is American politics.
Also, so many influencers are not american. Why should they feel that they have to educate and talk about whats happening in america when there’s so much more happening outside of U.S
The rain effect on the ice cream thing was sooo funny because that is ME! I️ love vanilla ice cream! So I'm sooo with you on that one. Great video, and nice change of content:) I️ love this!
Peeerrrfect timing! Just finished my work day and plopped on the couch to watch CZcams ❤️❤️
I'm early and I just discovered you this week and you're frickin' FABULOUS and I have been binge-watching your videos for the past few days. So refreshing to see someone use their platform for intellectual dialogue! You go gurl. xx
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@@hananoman9063 I just find her content so easy to listen to - whatever the topic! x
@@mattmc90 yeah her insight into topics are eye-opening and give me a perspective that I usually don't think about and it's refreshing and entertaining 😊
Thank you for almost always having 20+ minute videos. I super enjoy the content so the longer videos are perfect!
I am obsessed with you! How have I not found your channel before?
I have your videos stacked in my 'watch next'. You're so beautiful, chatty, seem genuine, inspirational and articulate. No disrespect to other people on CZcams, but I think only you and Nicole Guerrero I could watch all day with whatever context. Have a great Christmas and 2021! Xxx
"if the model doesn't have a double chin, I feel like I'm not seen"
While I'm not plus size anymore, I still feel that with my double dutch chin.
I'd like to see more tutorials with more "undesirable" faces. (Not that I think they are "undesirable", btw) Like show me how to get rid of my double chin with contour! Show me how to fix my wonky nose and my white girl lips!
The fact that there isn't any info or help for these concerns, it feeds into the idea that you HAVE to do something drastic or expensive straight away. I want to know how to start off small before making the decision to go under the knife ect.
I like seeing 'undesirable' faces too u feel like these influencers all look the same
“World History”. You mean European history and a brush over for everywhere else (I literally learned nothing about Africa until I started self teaching myself).
Most of my world history class was about Egypt and Mesopotamia
You hit the nail on the head with the plus size thing... they want us to hate ourselves, and as someone that has struggled with EDs and Body Dysmorphia I already struggle with self esteem, and that type of hate DOES NOT HELP. I repeat SELF HATRED DOESNT ENCOURAGE WEIGHT LOSS, IT ENCOURAGES DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR.
I am so glad you speak for people who can't speak for themselves. I commented in another video about my foster care experience and you made a positive comment and it meant so much to me. Im glad you speak about social issues.
Unpopular Opinion: With the current awareness being brought to the black community, this is the perfect time to address a lot of other races and minorities that are also struggling since these awareness movements is where people's attention is on.
I know it’s not good to generalise, but for a while I have thought most Americans are very into themselves and think they’re the best country in the world and tend to make themselves look a bit stupid in regards to appreciating other countries histories and cultures. In recent times everything I hear on the news about America is almost like a face palm moment. So I just wanna say it’s actually super refreshing listening to you Hannah because I wholeheartedly appreciate your social justice views, acknowledging that you were never taught about other cultures and histories and try to immerse yourself in it now and also just the logic that you present with the topics you talk about, you seem like such an intelligent young woman and I am sorry I have over generalised the American population. Much love all the way from straya (Australia haha) 💕💕
That karaoke opinion, yes!! I'd never thought about it before but it's such a great point tbh. Also, I love what you said about being plus-sized. As a fellow plus-sized person it means a lot!
I just found your channel this week and I’ve been binge watching so many of your videos!! I love your content, you speak so beautifully and your videos are so well researched. Keep killing it gorgeous ❤️
Just wanted to say my hubby got me your palette for our anniversary it arrived this week and I have to say I love it, wore it out last night and got so many compliments on the colours. 🥰 hope your doing well, love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Now that I'm more intermediate in skill, I don't watch tourials until I want to learn something specific but I do love when "trying on makeup" reviews have tips for techniques scattered in.
You uploading always makes me happy! I had quite a shitty day, so thank you for doing this, you have no idea how much a simple video like this can cheer me up! Sending love ❤
2 minutes in and I’m already so happy! Your content is amazing! You know I’ve been following you for so long and you never fail to amaze me! I think it’s amazing that your so passionate about social justice! Thank you for being my go to CZcamsr! Also side note I’m so proud of you 💕 it’s 4am in United Kingdom and I can’t sleep because of my anxiety so I’m so happy I can watch this
i’m super excited to watch! 💖
In a perfect world, it would be nice if, specifically, skincare and makeup influencers would be more upfront about the surgical and other cosmetic procedures they’ve had on their faces. I really appreciate when people like Robert Welsh talk openly about getting fillers and Botox to address cosmetic concerns and explain that that is one of the reasons why his makeup looks great. Because makeup and moisturizer alone can only do so much!
Welsh brothers are honestly the best. I don't even use make-up or care about it at all but I sometimes watch them because they're so wholesome and just feel like genuinely good people
Been missing you Smokeeeeyyy I cant believe how its been a year and a half or 2 years since i binge watched/found you. I think that you have made good growth progress like with everything you do on here. i just JUMP on your videos as soon as possible 😊 ✨ ❤ Love you so proud of you and im glad to have you here!
I really appreciate how nuanced your discussion of skincare and body positivity was in this video. So often people ignore all the spheres which play into these things and how we don’t represent people or care to see other sides in marketing.
As a person who went to college, I can appreciate the level of person growth I’ve gained from my experiences. However, I do feel almost as if I’ve been scammed. I think forcing kids who are fresh out of high school or still in high school to choose their career so soon in life can put them on a path that will lead to a lot of financial and mental distress as it has done with me.
Vanilla ice cream is the best 🍦 I also agree with like everything else you said. Hope you’re having a good day 😁
Yassssss 🙌 was so happy to see you uploading was looking for something to watch while coloring my roots! ❤️🥰 Hannahs the best!
I would love if you did a video on body positivity, being plus size, etc. it’s a topic that def needs to be talked about more often
I kind of like the idea (for the politics and makeup/consumption thing) that it shouldn't matter if it doesn't become part of the companies core. Within the makeup community this applies/applied to companies like Kat Von D. and Jefree Star because when you buy from those brands you are buying from a company whose core "face" are the problems with the company. I think to some degree brands like
chick fil a have similar issues because they make their religion a part of their branding (closures on Sunday and the religion focus on their website). Idk just my basic opinion kind of curious what other people think the line is.
Can we get a newer video on your unpopular opinions? I would love to see it! #notificationsquad
Love the lighting & camera set up. You look great!
I love this video Hannah, you are such a positive influence on this platform❤️
When I think of the idea that all bodies are beautiful, my thought process is that because all bodies are beautiful, my body is beautiful. My body is beautiful and worth something, and it has value not because it's beautiful but because my body with me in it is a whole-ass human being and human beings have worth and deserve respect. My body, just like other bodies, is beautiful and deserves respect, which means that I should treat it with respect. Treating my body with respect may or may not result in weight loss, but it will certainly result in my own better physical and mental health.
Omg a good DJ should let everyone else onto the floor after the first chorus of the song for a wedding! Don't leave the couple out to dry!
I LOVE your videos! I always feel so excited and happy when I see that you've uploaded 💞
I wear a basic foundation that covers my redness “enough”, and that’s it. Yet I watch every time you post because it feels like a girls night! I do my nails, you do your make up, it works 😊 Hope you and yours are well, stay safe 😷💜
On that first one, I'm just gonna say that calling out bigotry in any form (racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, etc) IS NOT POLITICAL. Human rights aren't politics.
Also, unpopular opinion to the “Americans don’t know anything about world history beyond American history” unpopular opinion: most countries I’ve gone to, people don’t know American history either. It’s not an American exclusive thing. It’s not like they focused so much energy on American or European or Asian history in my 12 years of Canadian curriculum. They focused on Canada, then expanded further after the fact or in conjunction. My ex girlfriend who was French didnt now much of anything about American or Canadian history. My English relatives don’t.
It seems to me that so many of these people that say “Americans know NOTHING about the rest of the world” are a bit hypocritical because let’s be real; how much about American history do *they* know.
the one comment about skin care❤Love it! Yeah, why we still mix beauty with health?! sure, there are many overlaps, BUT we as humans are so complex and have so much to offer besides our appearance.
I love how you talked about the messed up marketing about preventing wrinkles/getting older!
I always say the intro with her 🙂. Hope you’re feeling better hun
girlfriend collective is a great company!!! they have plus size models, elderly models, very inclusive sizes, and so many more!!
& remove plastic waste!! 💛💛💛💛
I love how you end your videos!! It makes me feel both welcomed and validated in my decisions to watch or not watch one of your videos. (Even though I watch them all🤗)
As a personal trainer I’ve had to explain body positivity to many clients. Having body positivity is something everyone should have regardless of your weight. Of course being physically healthy is important, but being mentally healthy is just as important. Everyone’s bodies are happy at different weights. Whatever feels healthy and natural for you is fine! You are allowed to love yourself while also still working on bettering yourself. There can be so many reasons why someone is naturally heavier, including medical issues, medications, food sensitivities, genetics, etc. As long as your are paying attention to what you eat (strict diets don’t work) and you’re getting physical activity of some sort done every day, you’re fine.
I also 100% agree that most “plus sized” models are NOT plus sized at all lol. I’m like.... she’s just curvy! Wtf! This was a great video and I always love hearing your opinions. You’re a gorgeous, intelligent young woman! Keep doing what you’re doing boo ❤️
About make up and politics: if a creator had center right beliefs the beauty community would cancel them. In this space you can only say things that are viewed as okay by the left.
And not everyone has an interest in or is knowledgeable about politics. Therefore, I don’t think those people with influence should talk about politics if they’re not interested/knowledgeable on the topic bc there’s a high risk of spreading misinformation.
I do kinda think everyone should care and make themselves knowledgeable about political things, but I know that’s not realistic. My husband doesn’t give af about politics and it doesn’t matter how much I stress the importance. If he had a platform, he probably shouldn’t speak about politics bc he doesn’t know what he’s talking about
I've been really loving your videos! I love the way you express your thoughts about things 🥰
Yesss I love your opinions on body positivity 💓💓 you always have such a nuanced take on things