Sons React to Their Moms Getting Catcalled | Iris
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- Sons are shown edited footage of their mothers walking the streets of New York City and react to the harassment they witness their mothers experiencing.
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Sons React to Their Moms Getting Catcalled | Iris
Let me hookup with some random person on the street harrassing me
-Said no one ever
Exactly!
Louder girl🤦🏽♀️
TELL EM
THIS
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I feel sorry for the last lady when she said she missed dressing up but she just cant 😢
Same :)
cconyap go to a better country and do it, simple
Adi Da Gamer not everyone can afford moving to a whole other country just to dress up, simple.
Adi Da Gamer besides men are going to be men regardless of country :) and no I’m not a feminazi it’s just the truth
Adi Da Gamer Thats is the stupidest, most ignorant comment ever. Cat calling assholes exist all over the world, not just in America. In, other countries, they’re much worse.
Can we just agree the kid is the most matured and most sensible one out of all
Definitely we can
He’s what like fresh out of middle school and most of these guys are grown men.
How
@@devynkeler5525 the men are like “she’s pretty, it’s bound to happen” while the boy sees the genuine problem
Yes he was very mature!
the teenage boy was the smartest one there. The other guys were playing it down saying how yes they are beautiful and how it is what it is. But the younger boy actually tried to put himself in his moms shoes and said how catcalling objectifies women and makes us uncomfortable. proud to see boys my age finally being respectful towards women, raised right :)
A nice guy
All men were like that at a young age especially the ones raised by single mothers ...He'll grow out of that faze like most males ...
@@blast4me754 wow so basically every men are meant to be assholes no matter what... very nice🙄
My life be like
I love MILFS!!!😁😁😁😁
Why was the youngest boy more respectful then the older men? He seemed genuinely disgusted and the others we just like “Oop well it is what it is’
Or they’d say “ WeLl sHe Is PrEtTy”
Yeah, didn't hear that. Must be another video. Btw I'm a Woman so
@@jamescottrell8578 Me neither!
They're feminising the next generation. That's why
@@yusufabdulle7349 wdym feminising?
I feel like the second son had the most appropriate answers. He was still calling his mum beautiful and without making 'excuses' (like saying 'it happens')for the men on the street. He understands that it's disrespectful to women.
This lady is raising her son right.
The son who said "it happens" wasn't making an excuse; in fact, he said he hated it immediately afterward. It was simply an acknowledgement that yes, cat calling does happen, especially in the case of an attractive woman. I'm a woman and I get cat called. No, I don't like it, but it happens.
People really are overanalyzing that comment and looking to find something wrong with it. Lol
@@chrislowery4971 No, just no. By saying "it happens", you are acknowledging that you tolerate this behaviour. And the more you tolerate, the worst it'll.
Yeah
If he just said “It happens” then yeah that wouldn’t be okay. But context matters. He said “It happens... but I hate it.” He’s acknowledging that there’s a problem here that has become common place. I’m not saying normalizing this behavior is okay but he’s not doing that and in a video he voluntarily agreed to participate in to raise awareness, I don’t think he needs to get dunked on for saying it. Pick your battles. That way, when someone who is trying to justify this behavior comes along, you’re stronger and more likely to be taken seriously.
@@killiansirishbeer i highly disagree with that. It does happen. But he said he didn't like it at all. Yall really take something and RUN with it, huh?
Women: Breathe
Douches: It's free real estate
It's actually really sad because how true this is (sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language)
Exactly
@@jacksonwangspapillong4217you did great
You can tell that the older guys are only annoyed because it’s their mom. They’re saying it’s weird and stuff, but they aren’t understanding that its just not okay because those comments are objectifying. You can tell they see catcalling in general as normal.
They probably do it themselves tbh
Shut up it's propaganda
@@emilyb.8219 what? what? and what in the world leads you to come to that conclusion?
@@that1guy324 idk they know everything
@@emilyb.8219 Yeah
I bet all girls can agree that being catcalled in any way,shape or form isn't ok because you still get bothered by it ._.
@@mikala627 🙊💀
Nope
Nadeesha W Very well said. Respect
@@nadeesha_w It isn't about flattery that men do that. It is about power. If it is about flattery, then why not when the woman is with her husband or son, male friend, etc? It is about a woman feeling vulnerable and alone and being subjected to the male power play. Most men just yell stuff, they aren't looking for a life partner or to make someone feel nice about themselves.
@@JustTheTruth-Please I disagree. Men do it because they have no shame and are jerks and also they really are that dumb and think women like that but mostly they do it in the hopes of finding someone to sleep with. They think the more they try the more their chances rise of finding those easy girls who will flirt back and maybe give them a shot or hook up. They are looking for the ones who will smile back or be flattered. They just looking for a body to lay with.
Woman: *minds her business and acts like a normal person*
Creepy men: Ah, so you're into me?
Narcs always think the world evolves around them.
AHAHAHAHAHAHA
True
creepy men in the street;
💁♂️🚶♀️
"is this an object?"
@@Molly-tv5sv i cAckled-
"She's pretty. It's obviously gonna happen."
It's sad how people think.
hey baby whats your name *wink*
I think the first guy knows he's harassed women in the street too.
Fr.
@@pandapandsky 😂😂 lmao simp
@BWStopGivingBirthToYourEnemy ! Pardon me, what?
The first dude really pissed me off. "She's beautiful it happens." Are you serious?
He wasn’t excusing it smh
what was he doing then?
Me too. What a prick.
Getting pissed off is something that stupid people who have unrealistic idea of life, do
In arabic its being a ديوس
My mom: *Gets catcalled*
Me and my siblings: *It appears you have chosen ✨D E A T H✨*
You said it wrong it’s “so you have chosen death”
IKR like I get so pissed I wanna throw knives
Exactly 😼
Eyy!
Same because its kinda f'ed
I still get catcalled when I was 15 with just my hoodie and sweatpants on 😂🤷🏻♀️
Arιa Soc pedios ew🤢
@Remas Almusabeh I'll do that next time lmaoo
Arιa Soc not really older girls are better
I was sexually assualted when I was 13 and I was wearing jeans and a jacket.
Remas Almusabeh omg one time I went to pin rest lake and I was with my bro’s girlfriend and my friends there was a guys standing behind a tree my cousin told me he was looking at my butt so I moved but then he looked at Hera so I stood in front of her and made eye contact with with him. But I later found out he has 2 daughters 🤢
Sons reacting to their moms being catcalled: Eh, it sucks I guess
Daughters: * pull out knives *
i think the sons are gonna get physical too, this vid just gave a bad example (or the boys most probably dont want to get angry on a yt video, idk)
most men dont see it as negative long as it doesnt get to much, women in other hand do. i think it how we are brought up in my view.
@@A.D.540 for us, it’s always risky. If you ignore them, something may happen. If you respond, something may happen.
Nah my brothers would go ballistic, same as me and my sister
@@nagini4668 i agree
I've had a guy catcall me outside of a convenience store, and when I didn't respond, some other old man chastised me for not responding to him. Like WTF? Then the dude FOLLOWED me to my house, I had to walk past my house so he didn't know where I lived until he gave up. This was in broad daylight. I don't know what would have happened if it was dark out.
That's so creepy wtf. I'm glad you weren't attacked.
That's rough.
The scary thing is you do know what probably would have happened.
What were you wearing?
Lol these girls would be fine with it if it was a tall young muscular man. Hypocrites. Not saying it’s ok, just saying y’all are hypocrites.
“You’re supposed say, ‘I get it from my momma..’” 👏🏽 Preach. 😂
Once this guy winked at make the kissing sound at me and I just pulled the fucking ugliest face I could and he was terrified
You're my hero
Nice! Good job there and quick thinking
+sini Karjalainen I just start cussing them out in Russian.
Slay
that's genius
Imagine taking part in this experiment & no one catcalls you lol
LOL
🤣🤣🤣
Yea they just give mild compliments 🙄
That’s a good thing no?
@@Ridhawi1 ikr
The first guy is just focused on how obviously men would be attracted to his mom not on how she feels when she can't just take a nice walk without guys catcalling her over and over
Not saying any of the moms in this video did it, this just goes in general, there’s a difference between dressing like a normal person, and dressing up wearing revealing cloths. You never see a man in the street with a tank top, so why should we see girls in the street wear revealing tank tops? Dress like a normal decent person and expect to get treated like a normal decent person.
@@russiankodiak6849 "dressing like a normal person"?Lmao what tf do you mean by that? A so-called normal person can dress in any way they want! There is nothing wrong with a woman or a man or a non-binary person wearing a tank top. Your comment was borderline discriminatory and just straight out called people. You never see a man wearing a tank top because of toxic masculinity (istg the ignorance on your comment-) A normal person has the right to wear anything they want and deserve to be treated like a decent person no matter their gender and/or style of clothing. Clothes have nothing to do with the way you treat a person. Your comment was discriminatory, and ill in every aspect. (Edit: grammar)
@@franklybawlingoceans88 Your comment made me lose brain cells. You are probably part of the Twitter mob, if you dress like a thug I’m gonna treat you like one, you dress with jeans or a regular shirt then I’m gonna treat you like any other person. It’s about “the way you dress and act, is the way people will treat you”. So shut up.
@@russiankodiak6849 or you could just treat people with baseline respect instead of thinking you can harrass someone because of what they wear
@@naidb3167 If a fat ugly white women with blue hair shows up wearing a shirt listing her pronouns while also saying she hates all men and is offended by literally anything you say what would you do?
Last time my brother catcalled some girls and I panicked and literally yelled
*HE DON’T HAVE A BIG WENNIE SO RUN*
I DIED
@@jared7226 😂
@@2spoonsbunnypeach393 This question needs to be asnwered..
ruthaR nagroM I think she just said that to make her brother embarrassed
@@jocelyn4460 Uh uh..
They did an experiment in Egypt where a young woman catcalled men, almost all of the men felt very uncomfortable.
Where is the video?
Give us the link, please!
Please share it with us
Yes, I want it too!
czcams.com/video/oec92ndCJ08/video.html
If you get catcalled just bark at them, it allways works
....
what do you mean? so it's not normal to just bark at other people for no reason whatsoever?
huh... weird... Thanks for the tip anyways.🤷♀️
@@giyaaa no no. It is completely normal to just bark at ppl for no reason...
Do it! My sister hisses and grows and that shot works!
Woman minding her own business:
Creepy man: and I took that ✨personally✨
Women: doing anything at all. Men: 🧚is this to get my attention?🧚
faxx
Facts
So true. 😔
Ok
@Chloe Donahue 🇵🇰🇵🇰
Y’all don’t forget, yes u should practice self defence, but raise BOYS with respect for women
raise kids with respect for people in general. most people could use more respect, and especially online where we are all seemingly free to express ourselves.
Yeah I don’t think a special emphasis should be put on women. Raise them to respect humans in general and they’ll see no difference between men and women, reducing any form of differentiation between the two, thus treat them precisely the same.
Agreed. Raising kids to be respectful of others is fundamental, but acknowledging that some people are just plain evil is also important. Always know how to protect yourself.
Yes but it is very hard when people call you names when being nice to a girl especially cause some of them always say “I have a boyfriend” all I’m trying to say is it’s very hard to be nice to a girl these days
@@mariah272 lmao I’m not nice at all I’m just whenever I tried to so don’t assume little boi
Elizabeth made me cry, she’s right. It sucks that sometimes we have to tone down our femininity, because we don’t want to get harassed. It’s emotionally exhausting.
First dude is 100% a catcaller 😂 you can see him squirming trying to justify it
That last boy just nailed it !!!!!
"If i was uncomfortable and someone would keep saying that to me then i would probably feel like an object".
Can't get any true boy 👏👏👏
WidePeepo7 really so humans “living things” are objects such as TV or cloth? Stupid
Whoever his girlfriend is , lucky girl, got herself a wise man 🤩
Painful sad true line
Rajneesh Shukla all he said was super woke honestly
Gacha Videos yeah actually everything is an object. If you wanna get into using the fact that we’re living things that’s still wrong unless the person was talking abt inanimate objects instead of just objects in general so like-
I remember when I was 6 hanging out with my mom and my dad caught a guy staring at my mom and me being a hero I said *"WHAT CHA STARIN AT HUH PUNK?!"* it took my mom and dad 3 hours for them to stop laughing
@J N P son or daughter or non-binary
Yeah def a real story
every ne needs a son /daughter like u LMAOOO
@@nottempeyy8500 don’t ruin the mood babe
Oh goshhhh , now it’s gonna take me a few hours to stop laughing lmaoooooooo
Props to the blonde mother and son, Angela and Max, on raising her son right. He has more insight then adult men. A child understands that if it happened to him he would feel objectified.
I'm in awe of this. We need more people like this in the world 🌎 🙏
Iam 14 and I get catcalled that's sad and the thing that really makes me sad is that most of those guys look way older than me there's about 50 years old men catcalled me they are as the same age as my dad. RESPECT?!
Wtf? That’s illegal big sis 😂😂 you really need to confront them about that
Iam 12-
@@xum0007 its illegal? I'm 12 and I pretty much always get catcalled by random men on the street. I've told my parents about this but they didn't say that its illegal
It's illegal in certain places but not the USA. Thank Freedom of speech for that lol
That’s gross, but stay safe if anything does happen
One time I got catcalled when I was walking into a restaurant with my family
I was 12
Dude what the actual fuck, that's so gross, I'm so sorry
gross
@@mothcakes I was cat called when I was around 9 years old by older teenage boys. Gross indeed.
AHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH FUCKING HILARIOUS MY DUDE
I once got catcalled on my way to the bathroom. In Amish country (by a non-Amish man). In a regular t-shirt, jacket, and loose-fitting jeans. If I'm remembering correctly, I was 13. I looked older than I was at that age, but still -- the creeps are out there.
No one should have to change their style to prevent being uncomfortable when cat called
+dianes world Cat call?? You mean complimented. If a man was in one of those instances NOOO ONE would care.
+Banana Split now you're just saying double standards. No one said anything about the man being the victim
dianes world Im just making a point on how these stupid 3rd wave feminists react (I mean OVERreact) to normal sexist situations.
+Banana Split, okay, explain why that should be acceptable behavior for a man but not a woman.
+Banana Split how should sexist comments be normal...
video: shows moms getting catcalled
literally everyone in the comments: relates
this is such a huge freaking problem.
YES. it happens a lot, and thats no doubt horrible. Why would anyone do that, why would anyone even try bruh
Not everyone, there’s still ignorant people who think we pass through this for the way we dress :(
Not saying any of the moms in this video did it, this just goes in general, there’s a difference between dressing like a normal person, and dressing up wearing revealing cloths. You never see a man in the street with a tank top, so why should we see girls in the street wear revealing tank tops? Dress like a normal decent person and expect to get treated like a normal decent person.
@@russiankodiak6849 girls wearing school uniforms would still get catcalled, as well as girls who wear normal clothing. And yes, guys wear tank tops all the time? Tank tops are normal clothing. And even if it wasnt, theres no need to be a jerk and verbally harass someone.
@@loana1861 Tank tops in public? Tf don’t know what hood you live in, where I am the majority of people dress like normal people.
“She’s beautiful, it happens.” I got catcalled when i was 8 all the time by young adults but yeah totally fine😐
You're trying so hard to be a victim
@@coolorphans tell me ur a man without telling me
I was in NY with my cousin and she is 14. A lot of older men were cat calling her😑😑🤦🏽♀️
Karigan & Karigan Studios nd u felt jealous
@@muhammadesa2505 yeah I bet she was so jealous of creepy old men telling her cousin dirty things in front of her family.
@@MS-ly4mx lol😂😂😂
That's just disgusting
I went NY and that's probably the place where I felt more insecure in my whole life ( and I live in Brazil, so)
If someone catcalls my mom....
*I yeet my dad into that person*
If someone catcalls me I'm throwing all my boy relatives at him I have a lot of cousins mostly boys
(My dad has 7 siblings and my mom has 5)
SAME BRO
I am here to announce I broke the 666 likes
@F.u.c.k Go.ogl.e im pretty sure you've had and you will have A LOT of girlfriends in the future with that attitude
F.u.c.k Go.ogl.e why so aggressive? i wrote that as a joke and someone else liked it lmaooo calm down
“She’s too old for you. Go to school.” One of my new favorite lines
I feel what the last woman said it’s so sad I will not want to dress a certain way if I’m alone. It shouldn’t be like that.
You're trying so hard to be a victim
@@coolorphans says the one who’s never experienced it lol? Nobody wants to be a victim weirdo
I wouldn't be crying about a someone catcalling me in the youtube comments section unlike you 😂@@elenamoreno7644
Boyfriends react to their girlfriends getting catcalled👀
cloroxiaojun yoooo my boyfriend would straight up get arrested
Now then there'd be fights 💪🏽💘
Once I was 8 and going to buy some candy in a nearby shop in my favorite pink shorts they weren't too short and I loved them
Then this grandma who lives next to us and her son said "do u know how many people God created" and I said no then she answered man and woman (I thought she meant in total)
She then proceeded to talk about how my shorts could attract boys and how it's bad and I shouldn't wear it bcz her son could potentially stare like how was it my fault he was a 12 (?)year old staring at an 8 year olds behind I think she needed to have a talk with him not me bruh I was 8 I've never passed in front of her place ever again (and we moved) and I've never worn shorts thx grandma I didn't even know
Jimin found his jams - I feel bad that you had to experience something like that and a person like that. It’s so idiotic how if a woman dress a certain way then men have all rights to call her any type of thing and disrespect her because she’s “ leading them on” people needs to teach their sons to respect everybody and not see people as objects but as humans.
let’s we honest we all are single af but still want to see the reactions
damn the black mom looks the same age as her son
yep itsme which family?
yep itsme firSt ones
yep itsme so true!! Black don't crack
you know it
yep itsme I knowwww
I can't believe we feel the need to PRAISE that second guy when all he was doing was being a decent human being
Because the bar is literally that low :/
@@slot_machine no literally, ugh ://
Nctzen😳
@@ultymateslayong6758 omg hey 😳
@@neorbit808 I absolutely did NOT expect a czennie in a random comment section like this😍😍
I was catcalled first and then tailed several times by unknown men in cars, when I was using public transport to get to my business school and they tailed me right down to my doorstep and those were the scariest times in my life. They tailed me in broad daylight and I felt so helpless and terrible being a girl 😞 since those incidents happened, I have never used public transport and I was scared even to drive alone. Then, once I was tailed by a police car, and I stopped to ask why, they were smiling and asked me “how much should we pay you for an hour!” I mean, they were the police!! I ran as fast as I could and hid in a toilet stall in our school. I feel the world is such a horrible place, and being a woman sucks ☹️😔
Oh my god that's terrible, I feel for you so much. That's flabbergasting- I mean THAT'S THE POLICE!! I thought they're supposed to protect us but clearly not (cough cough George Floyd). I just don't trust those bitches anymore
@@tinab3895 thank you ❤️ yes I don’t trust them either, they’re more corrupted than the politicians 😔
Yikes. That rlly sucks.
We can't even trust the police like wtf
Even just a remark like, "Hey pretty lady" is threatening - it isn't just a fact, it is a stranger taking a physical interest in you and as a woman, that can be dangerous. We can't tell if some guy is harmless - every comment sets off alarm bells.
Context. It depends how it's said. I've seen women respond pleasantly to something like that.
Obviously these guys did it wrong but how would u like to be approached? Like wat way would be acceptable
Imma be honest and say the comments these women get are blessing to what I receive I would rather be catcalled the way they do
bubble gumgirl69 well that ain’t gonna happen
@@blastinkaps8826 Never on the streets. Only do it at clubs or parties where women are actually in the mood to socialize. I hate it when strangers approach me on the streets cuz they always tryna ask for money to buy coffee or a bus fare 😑🙄
The white boy kinda looks like a golden retriever in a good way
Omg why does that make sense
🤣🤣🤣
LMAO
🤣🤣🤣
XD
I think it’s so stupid that if you’re being catcalled, and you tell them “I have a boyfriend,” THEN they back off. You’re going to respect a man you haven’t met yet rather than the woman standing right in front of you?
Me walking in shorts and a shirt in the summer:
Boys: yOurE aSkInG fOr iT
Me: *Excuse me i am sensitive to heat, if i overheat i’d likely pass out.*
i don't think i've ever heard a single man say "you're asking for it."
@@33LB ok then you the only one who hasn't seen or maybe you did but you were just blind
@@33LB
That's what my cousin was told.
She was wearing a skirt and a long sleeve shirt
@@fiatearther170 fake news.
where do you live? the Sahara desert? Ain't no place hot enough to let you pass out while wearing normal clothing
Men : *sees a cow*
Men: *lemme hear you say moo baby mama*
Lol
Diiieeeddd 😂😂😂
@@anthonywingit1714 maybe cuz the video is about men catcalling women like chill
I’m dead
I'am dead xD
the second son tho
"why would u walk up to a person and say that"
I have more respect for him than both the older boys.
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"this is normal, she is beautiful"
"he looks like older than her"
and sentences like that just proves their ignorance bout women rights and feminism which disappointed me a lot. not being an catcaller is not enough men should know our rights and respect them. wish there were enough education to
teach and get over this bullshits tigether but this seems so far away :(
Honestly if we talk about real humanism im ok bro, bc feminism is exactly same thing but focused on women
I think the kid pointed out the man was much older than her as it gives an added layer of creepiness.
@the virtuous man women's rights are human rights
@the virtuous man it's a movement to address women's rights
@@motorvehicle1330 nope, its about superiority
I go out looking like a complete slob deliberately, to avoid this, but still get catcalled. It doesn't matter what you do, it's going to happen until people start teaching their kids right. Having sons witness it being done to their moms is a great start.
I literally never got catcalled in my life... But to be fair I live on a college campus lol
@@TranswealthyTrillionaire
I've never been cancelled either. But then again, I'm situated in the UK, and Brits are known for their stiff upper lips for a reason. Everyone mostly minds their own business.
Plus I'm an Asian girl who is very much not physically attractive at all, polite, but serious in tone and demeanour to strangers,and have been told I have quite a grave resting expression, which dissuades anyone approaching me anyway (which is both a boon and a curse.)
I suppose it is fortunate that I do not live in the USA.
"when a male figure isn't there, they are more likely to do it" yes ! because they respect other men's ""property"" more then the women herself. Also they are scared the man will punch them for being so disrespectluf, they forget women can punch hard too.
No no that wouldn't be "ladylike" honestly society🙄
I agree. It's disgusting.
@@eeaotly If you didn't notice the quotes I was talking about what other people say :/
@@snaggle2012 Yes, I know. And this is what I would reply them if they would dare to ask.
@@eeaotly yesss🙌
what the last mother said...I almost cried because it's so true :(
+May Win *That's why Islam asks women to cover their beauties*
***** even if you look at the VIRGIN MARY (peace be upon her), she appears wearing a veil.
+Murderous Kitten if you see your mother or sister has been harassed, then it will be relevant.
+May Win I know right, when i go out with some friends i have a great outfit that I had in mind that would look so good. But then I think about the certain areas i'll be traveling and know that they're would be alot of guys so I decide against it just to avoid the attention ;(
+Puti Miyaki what !! Who told you hijab makes women ugly ? Thats BS. Its actually a sign that says " dont mess with me! "
the last mom literally looks younger than her son... i wanna know all her skincare secrets.
What you do need is a new pair of glasses.
She's attractive but you can tell she isn't no spring chicken ...Her last comment saying she missed dressing up and she still wants to dress up to look pretty proves that women want attention ...80 percent of women are confused and insecure ...
@@blast4me754 we do want to look pretty, and receive appropriate attention. We don’t want to be harassed. The thing is, creepy men who make offhanded comments ruin it for men who’d simply say “you look beautiful” while walking down the street. It creates a fear response in us. We start to feel like prey, so our bodies begin to respond like a prey animal’s does- we adapt to avoid and recognize similar situations for our own safety. Please consider what it would be like if you were a woman. Thank you.
As I live on my own as a 19 year old now, catcalling does not happen as much as when I was 13. This video reminded me of it, and thought I would share.
In my small town, the 7-12 grades were all combined. I was a reserved and quiet person who was insecure; When I was 13, I had already hit puberty young so had some curves and not as much baby fat on my face, and I looked older than even some of the 17-18 year old girls. I HAD to pass through a certain hallway to reach my English class during 5th period.
Well, in this hallway most of the time these SENIOR guys would whistle at me as I walked by. This would only, of course, happen when I walked to class alone, which was most of the time. If someone walked with me, or other people (especially guys) walked in the same hallway they just stared instead of being vocal. Somehow, the staring was all the creepier tbh.
Looking back, I wish I had the confidence to at least glare at them. Now a 19 year old, in my area that I have moved to for college (which is still small), i get occasional stares but it does not happen all the time (at least the stuff i notice). My seventh grade year was when i experienced the more "vocal" creepiness. Freaked me out when these guys who were five years older than me and at least a foot taller than me (I am 5'10") were being major weirdoes. This is actually the only time I have ever shared this uncomfortable story.
I am honestly so happy that my confidence grew in high school to where I am a no nonsense type of person.
Sorry this was long and 5 years too late, but oh well. And anyone going through this, talk to someone. I wish I did.
You're trying so hard to be a victim
@@coolorphans she was a victim, you weirdo
You're not a victim if someone says something to you unwanted on the street. You're just a pathetic loser for crying about it.@@ArmelSight
The worst catcalling I ever experienced was a 30 year old man following me around with his car for like 4 blocks saying to me disgusting stuff like "I wanna lick your thighs". It wasnt even night. It was an afternoon in a rather quiet neighborhood. I was 15 at that time but I somehow found the courage and told him "Can you just fucking leave?". Thank God he left. Imagine if it was someone sicker.
Should have called the cops that is sick
Demetra L. where the fuck do u live? that's sick and I m male
Once when I was 13, my mom and I were in the mall and I was sick and had a fever, so I took some medicine and went to sleep in the car and wait for her, I also happened to be wearing shorts... I woke up to the car shaking, there was a guy outside trying to wake me up, taking pictures of my butt and saying really disgusting things. It was like 3 PM
Anyone else notice the blonde kid's eyebrows?
Damn son, shit's on fleek.
05candyman how is she a pedophile lmao? she was just pointing out his eyebrow shape
TRUE
Lmao what
are you ok?
With a name like candyman, it sounds more like you're the one luring children into a van, than me...
Idk why I feel that he will be pretty like cole sprouse
I don’t think guys understand how terrifying this is for girls. That feeling of your heart pounding erratically in your chest because you start thinking of the worst (especially when it’s a group of guys), it’s deeply unnerving. It’s happened to me once and I pray it never happens again. Guys please respect women as they are human beings too
You're trying so hard to be a victim
@@coolorphans Dudes out here catcalling women then blaming women for it and somehow were playing the victims. Hypocrite.
Wow, such a hard life receiving unwarranted compliments in public. @@IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777
THEY UNDERSTAND AND DO NOT CARE
@@coolorphans You're trying so hard to protect the people who assault and harrass.
The young boy was raised right, he was respectful and actually saw the problem.
should SERIOUSLY do one on 'DAUGHTERS REACT TO DADS CATCALLING ON STREET'
Except dads don't do that if they are proper dads
@@jim_showi some of them did before they became dads...
I think that would just hurt them :/ I feel like here the point is to get men and boys to sympathize with women. Having young girls watch their dads catcall women would only disappoint them further. It would be hard to believe that good guys are out there if even your dad is a creep :(
@@demic.7389 I agree. If I ever found out my dad, who is just an advocate for women and treats them with so much respect, ever catcalled a woman, I would be devastated and my perception of him would change entirely.
Dad's like that don't exists.
It's literally one of the most uncomfortable feelings in the world to be catcalled
First world problems 101
Jordan Sniped 1st world problem? Catcalls can be worst than this and some men take hurt rejection too far.... some women can actually get murdered/injured from this
+Jordan Sniped you clearly didnt understand what they said, which they put in a nice second grade level of reading. if you cant catch the tone and meaning of what they said, then i worry about your future :)
Being stalked is worse!
Just look over the fact that women don’t pay for dates, can hit a guy and it seems empowering, get child support from the men in a divorce, ruin a mans life with a false rape. Sperm donors do get sued because she claims she was raped. They complain about a wage gap that doesn’t exist, and don’t usually take jobs that risk their life. Those literally came to my head without any thought. 99% of man won’t kill you. So please stop thinking we live in the 1950s
My Mum: *Gets catcalled*
My brother and I: Your free trial of life has expired.
I hate when people be like:oH iT'S tHe clOtHeS shE is aSkinG fOr iT
How come lesbians/bi ppl/pan ppl or anyone else who is attracted to women and good raised men not be creepy when they see a women in a public place wearing a freacking skirt
clothes was never the issue.
Me after realizing that I'm going to be still catcalled for the next 40 years 👁👄👁
its dumb
Hopefully not. However, I literally looked up this topic because the scenario happened to me last night while I was walking with my teenaged son. (Not that it matters what I wore but my fit was a sweatsuit with a baseball cap). We kept on carrying our conversation and ignored them but it was awkward. I wanted to make this a teachable moment for him yet I was literally speechless. Unfortunately, this video had no special answer to the conundrum so for the guys who catcall...just, like, evolve, please and thank you.
@@NatashaVincent preach
Fr nah
I like your confidence.
I highly dislike when guys are like "what can you not take a compliment?" "Can't a guy tell a girl she's pretty?" "Can't we flirt?" Like YES you can but not every time is the right time. If a girl is minding her own business walking down the street trying to get somewhere and you yell "Hey sexy!" "Hey beautiful!" It's like wtf. You don't even know her and you're yelling like a maniac at her. It's disrespectful and you're only talking to her because of how she looks. If you want to flirt then go to a bar, a club, school, etc. And don't yell say some thing like "hi I'm ___ what's your name?" or "hello beautiful how's it going?" (Lol idk how to flirt like a guy) but something like that. And if a girl rejects you then she isn't interested JUST LEAVE. Okay rant over.
agreer
*agreed
Couldn't have said it better myself
You're absolutely right. It might even be okay if they did it in the right way. If you yell "HEY SEXY, WANNA COME HOME WITH ME?" that's disrespectful and intrusive, but if you walk up to someone and say "Uh, hi, I saw you walking past, and I just wanted to tell you that you look lovely. Take care of yourself, bye!" that's really really sweet. There's a line between being nice and being a dick.
+Bella Pop "hey beautiful" is harassment to you, point proven
I remember being heavily pregnant (8 months plus) and getting hit on in the grocery store.
That is so weird
So sorry to hear that
What happened?? U got hit?
@@NoRockinMansLand it just means that someone was trying to flirt with her when she was pregnant
@@caramelpop4708 ohhh😂 I thought he hit her when she was pregnant, the comments made it seem really bad lol
Tbh I do not mind if a man comes up to me and tells me my hair is nice or my outfit is nice. But when they comment on my body or start FOLLOWING ME that’s an issue.
They should do Brother reacts to Sister getting catcalled
Yes yes yes yes
YES
Yes pleaseee
YES
yes
“Cat calling is just a compliment” if that is the case, why don’t any guys do it when there’s a man accompanying a woman or if they don’t have a getaway vehicle? When I get cat called, I am always alone and vulnerable. No one dare does it when my husband is around even though he looks like a teddy bear.
kagnomi
Teddy bear. . . 😂
Probably because it is flirting, and you are not going to flirt with someone who is taken.
Velvety Anomaly Teddy bear 🤣🤣🤣❤
BlueChicken AGAIN "flirting" has got nothing to do with being single or committed.. As long as you keep it on a healthy level, there is nothing wrong about it.
In this video though, it's straight up being creepy.
kagnomi Even better when I’m walking with my boyfriend and people STILL catcall me because he’s Asian so they aren’t intimidated. I love the intersection of racism and sexism!
There's a big difference between a sincere compliment (which yes you can give to strangers) and cat calling. Cat calling is done with a specific intent and that's not respect and it doesn't just happen.
Men should teach their sons to NEVER OBJECTIFY WOMEN. Catcalling in all forms is disrespecting someone's space, and it's objectification of women no matter what excuse you reason it with.
Ok, I'm a bisexual guy and just catcall mens instead. Especially body builders.
the second kid was adorable and the third mum was so beautiful! xx
Isabella Golding fr like I can be you gf jk
Take a chill pill dude, when you get to 13 years old you will cringe at this comment
DeadShot 1223 your not hot, but lrobaly cute bc your still a kid
Isabella Golding say that to them and it becomes cat calling and sexual harassment.
DeadShot 1223 - fuck off bitch
how did i meet your father? well, he whistled at me, then yelled, "OI SEXY ARE YOU DEAF OR WHAT CAN'T YOU TAKE A COMPLIMENT" and i just knew he was the one.
starless city How romantic!! What a nice conpliment(sarcasm btw)🙄NOO THAT IS NOT A COMPLIMENT
starless city no
For the people who don't understand *she was being sarcastic* Damn.
Stormi Maze yeah I really don’t understand how that went over people’s heads...
Lmao
I understand what the last lady was talking about, I would LOVE to dress up, do my makeup and hair but than again, no one wants 20-30 ppl catcalling you
Oh yea I'm sure on average most women have an army of men just waiting on the side of the road to yell mild compliments at them
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 you’re not wrong
Your fault for living in America, land of dreams
So why else do women put on tons of make up , wear tight clothes , revealing clothes and fix your hair to a crisp ...So the rest of the world , including men , can compliment your desperate for attention insecure asses ...
@@blast4me754 um no because we think it’s fun to dress up and look in the mirror with boosted confidence.
First guy was extremely disappointing, he’s the kinda guy that raises kids who think catcalling is okay
What bothers me more are usually reactions on catcalling theme, where it seems like guys seriously dont see the line between normal flirting and being creepy.
Skadi the Beast same like this is your family and you don’t care?
AppleSas lol he needs to get some friends tell him to go away
That used happen to me as well, and the guy only stopped following me after I asked help to a male friend, but he still followed other girls after that.
no
Skadi the Beast because of the feminist ideology
I'm 13 and I was walking through wal-mart. And some guy was like "Hey, pretty baby, what's your name?" And I said "My name is no." Then, stormed off.
The guy was like 20 something FYI.
Pretty Little Edits you should have said my name is jeff
That's not funny
I kinda hate the "oh my mom is beautiful so of course it's going to happen". So we have to normalize that women get harassed just because they're pretty? Yeah, attractive women will get catcalled more, but that still doesn't make it okay.
Even as a boy I hate that when women do it and when I complain everyone always says
"don't be so!negative it's a compliment "
As I much as I hate that they think it's fine what I hate more is........
THE FACT THAT THEY TOLD ME DON'T BE SO NEGATIVE BEING NEGATIVE IS LITERALLY MY THING THAT WHY PEOPLE CALL ME A PESSIMIST
Agreeee
I hate the fact that this video has so much meaning but nobody is paying attention
You probably don't care about these and it's ok but these happens to me every single fucking day and I feel so frustrated and sad and angry and I've cried many times for these. Maybe is stupid for you but idk I just hate feeling like an object
+Emily Madison agreed.
+Emily Madison That's BS. I live in a city with an extremely low crime rate and it is a "normal" area, in fact it is a nice area, and this still happens all the time. I've even had men catcall me well pregnant, like wtf, if you don't realize this happens all the time you have blinders on and you're in denial.
ik these happens all the time but that doesn't mean it is alright. We shouldn't be used to it yk what I mean?
+natalia berron There are always going to be jerks. Men, women, it doesn't matter. When it started out, women were fighting for the right to vote, to be independent, to expand their job options and education, which was great. However, the movement brought about a ton of terrible things for women like being proud to be a "slut" and treating stripping, prostitution, and porn as if they were empowering women. Barely anything, getting wasted, acting aggressive, sleeping around- those were things the women who started the movement never wanted to happen. What started out as a dignified movement of ladies seeking legal equality, has turned into an entitled, aggressive, hypersensitive, destructive hoard of girls who want to act like fools without any repercussions.. That's not equality, that stupidity. Saying hello or how are you, or some variation of "you look great" is hardly "assault". I totally get you have the right to be offended by whatever you want, however, you don't have a right to blame your insecurities on the crudeness of others. Don't let immature comments like that define you or hurt you so deeply like that. You're special and I mean that. We all are. If someone catcalls you, you can either 1. ignore them and keep walking. or 2. address them and end up having to deal with an even longer conversation with them. It's not worth it. Take the compliments and ignore the crude remarks is my suggestion. js God bless!
I’ve seen my mom get catcalled at the grocery store and I always roast them for all they’re worth 😂 Prime Example:
Guy: Hey mama, can I get your number?
Me: Sorry dude, that’s my name for her, how’s about you call up your own mom? I doubt you talk to her much 😂
😄. Gotta give you props for dat. Good one. 👊🏾
Such a queen
@@isabella.pl_00 not sure if you’re referring to me or my mom, but for clarification (if needed) I’m a boy 😂 but if you’re talking about my mom, thanks! I’ll pass along the compliment
@@CharlieCat18 then you're a king 😌👑
Kudos to you, @Charlie Catashrophe! You served up the shame like a master.
Boy have I got a story for you. So my older brother goes to college at UCLA and we visit him a lot even though we live in Loomis. So one time we were visiting him and we went to the Westwood CPK and got food ya know ya know. I was there with my mom, my older brother and my twin brother. (I'm a girl btw) My mom was 49, my older brother was 20, and my twin brother and I were 13. This man sat a the table next to us. Idk how old he was, but I think he was around my mom's age. He started complimenting her and saying how well she raised her children even though we were bashing each other's heads in like the immature children we were. She was also wearing her wedding ring so idk how he "didn't" see it. I'm never going to forget what he said. He was like, "Hey mama, wanna go get a coffee sometime? Just give me yo numba." It was kinda funny because my siblings and I just froze and stared at him and he got so uncomfortable that he ran to the bathroom and an employee came to the bathroom door asking if he was okay. Absolutely disgusting, but funny that he got the public humiliation that he deserved.
''She's pretty so obviously its going to happen'' ?????? wtf
He is saying that people are gonna call her beautiful cause she is
I started to want to cry when she said "there are days where I want to dress up and do my hair"etc and :(( simply because she's a pretty woman, she doesn't feel safe to do that
That's so sad
ITSMENIKKl oh noooo, she's so oppressed because people make her uncomfortable for her beauty *women getting raped in third world countries are being ignored*
Hunny just because people have it worse doesn’t invalidate somebody else’s struggle
Hunny p.s. the reason she has that fear is BECAUSE rape is real EVERYWHERE
ITSMENIKKl that's true, but there is *more* rape in other places. And catcalling is apparently "oppression" in America. If you take a look at those third world countries, you can compare the "oppression" in America to the shit that's happening there. "Oh ya know, I got catcalled yesterday I'm so oppressed!" "Yeah, I got raped and almost killed for sleeping with a man other than my over dominating husband."
Hunny I don’t think anybody said catcalling is oppression. You’re comparing this to something extreme and making an argument out of nowhere. All I said was it’s sad she cannot feel comfortable (because of pervs) which I’m sure nobody could debate.
I be ready to fight when ppl say shit to my mom . Like mind ya business .
being sexually provoked is their business.
+why RU knechtel you have as many brain cells as there are in a chair.
In my life I learned to not mess with a priyanshi if I don't want to be part of a terrorist bombing
Your mom DOES have a nice ass though
Destini Bennett Same,my mom is getting married soon
A few months ago my friends and I were walking down the street in Tokyo and these group of guys zoomed past us in their car and yelled “you’re beautiful!” And honestly that made me happy. For some reason I get really uncomfortable when it comes to people staring at me, following me and catcalling but those guys made my day. I can’t explain it.
“She too old for you guys, go to school” for real.
Yo, I love how the second kid is young and is able to recognise this is wrong. Good kid.
I'm 13-- and I got some weird-ass stuff said to me on the streets
My 5-year cousin threw rocks at them and said "That's not re-pept-ful!"
Elizabeth Schuyler REALLY PECT FULLLLLLLLLLLLLL 😈😈😈😈😈😈
You have the best profile picture and name-
I love Eliza honestly
Just gotta say
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Elizabeth Schuyler Savage! XD
Things that didn't happen for 500
Me : * Gets Cat Called *
Me : * Casually Calls Mom *
It’s one thing to go up to someone and say “hey look, I just wanted to tell you that you look really nice.” And then leave them alone, if they ignore you, they are just trying to protect themselves. but it’s another thing to call out stuff like “hey pretty lady” etc and touch them and follow them.
It’s weird looking at this because in Holland it’s illegal to catcall someone.
Gebeurt dit ook in NL? Ik heb dit nooit meegemaakt of gezien of gehoord in mijn buurt
@@rabia1157 catcalling gebeurd helaas wel, vaak zat rare situaties gehad ook hier in NL. Zelfs als ik van mn werk terug fiets. Maar duitsland is nog veel erger met catcalling( berlijn iniedergeval)
@@ThyWeepingWillow Ohh vervelend om te horen! Vreemd dat mensen dat doen
Het gebeurt nog steeds tho tenminste bij mij wat ook aan heb :(
Oh i went there with friends and we were two girls in the group, and even when we were alone we never got catcalled and we were SHOOK like we never felt uncomfortable in the streets
That's why
It is time to make it illegal everywhere now 😂
Wish people were classier than this.
Well it's New York so they don't even know the definition of classy.
mariasia Adams I wouldn't put a label on all new yorkers just because of a few bad apples.
+Batman I love America and all, but in stuff like this, England is much better
guys are just more polite over there (but no all of them obviously)
"Over there..." So. Not from England then. I couldn't really guess at what I would think of the place. Maybe I belong there, I sure don't fit in here.
Batman Im actually neither American or British, but I lived in both places for almost an year, and the difference in catcalling is defintely noticeable
Education!!! We need it desperately. We must educate our boys to be polite and kind, and our girls to not to laugh and smile to these catcalls, respect yourself.
I got catcalled when I was 12 in a My Little Pony shirt like- how desperate do you have to be???
That's cap
This kind of man don't have self respect
agree
@EruditeSiren di'Cosmos i know i think the same thing so if you feel bad that is the reason that telling us go away
Shut up
Rektful Nightwing you shut up bitch 😶
the society they live in dictates this is okay behaviour and encourages it . you can't blame them .
I don't get cat-called because I'm ugly and scary (: being ugly has it's benefits
Ari O. Ramirez same😔
@Kayla Gonzalez thank you I just need confident in myself but I'm sure you're much more beautiful too
same 😂😭
NO ONE I REPEAT NO ONE NOT A SINGLE SOUL IS UGLY YOU ARE BEAUTIFULL HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE PEOPLE
Do you think these peoplw actually see beauty? Darling when they see a veryy beautiful girl they dont even have the balls to say somethig,guess what you're just too hot for them and who even wants to have compliments from psychopaths
Don't they have laws on catcalling? In my country this is against the law even just whistling. You can get jailed for 6 months atleast.
Yeah, I know countries that never catcall, and pretty much 80% of them are in Europe
@hello friend know your boundaries
My son would stand UP with me and make fun of the catcaller. Put them on their ridiculous place and laugh at their faces.
Have you ever discussed your actual body count with your son? Are you honest with him?
@@anuragchakraborty8766 Always. He is my best friend and I never hide anything about my strenght or weakness.
@@GioCyberia As long as he's okay with it, I guess that's all that matters.
@@anuragchakraborty8766why does body count even matter????
@@Waitwhosethatwhatt The fact that you don't even think it matters tells me you probably must've racked up too many bodies.
Am I right?