Don't delete instagram. Do this instead

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  • čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
  • You don't need to completely delete Instagram. Try following these tips to get a better relationship with social media.
    the tool: Screenzen, here’s the link: www.screenzen.co

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  • @kevinscott3047
    @kevinscott3047 Před 8 měsíci +1355

    Deleted Instagram about 3 years ago and Snapchat about 3 months ago. To anyone considering deleting their socials, trust me, you'll be fine.

    • @dianalin9403
      @dianalin9403 Před 7 měsíci +22

      yup best decision i made back then. just know, i need it back for uni purpose

    • @kazimsyed7367
      @kazimsyed7367 Před 7 měsíci +11

      reddit,discord, pinterest, yt comment sections.

    • @genuinelygab
      @genuinelygab Před 5 měsíci

      Couldn't agree more. I deleted IG off my phone, and I found a good balance once a week where I'll actualyl check in on my desktop just to check messages from friends, which only takes me like 10 minutes. And then that's it. Rather than checking multiple times a day everyday.

    • @druvboi0825
      @druvboi0825 Před 5 měsíci +9

      but what if most of my feed on youtube or instagram is about some new science tech, anatomy, medicine, geography and history? i just start doom scrolling on these topics when i could’ve studied, but i still felt i learnt something new? and when i don’t watch some of this i just feel left out and stuff. any tips?

    • @Poddle_e
      @Poddle_e Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@druvboi0825turn on app timers. It'll really help!

  • @dekxu6673
    @dekxu6673 Před 8 měsíci +7120

    Having social media is so hard for an artists. You need it to build up a following, a career, to be inspired and to keep on creating but at the same time you also doom scroll and it’s this constant depressing cycle where you don’t know if it’s worth it to leave or to stay because you need it and you want it

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +368

      yeah I agree. Honestly I don't know what the solution is there but I'll think about it. maybe having a friend manage your accounts/curate inspo for you ?

    • @dekxu6673
      @dekxu6673 Před 8 měsíci

      @@tristansaucedoyt a solution I wish instagram would implement is making reels optional.

    • @BillyDawg101
      @BillyDawg101 Před 8 měsíci +161

      If you’re a creative and need social media for marketing/etc., maybe it’s time to separate your art accounts from your personal accounts? Many people I know benefitted from it. If you’ve already done this and still feel shitty about social media/don’t see your habits changing, it’s time to delete your social media and use it solely for business.

    • @vincent513
      @vincent513 Před 8 měsíci +57

      I try to post from my computer and not have the app on my phone... if I need to post a story though then I'm kinda in trouble since that can't be done from PC.

    • @alandeutsch9987
      @alandeutsch9987 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I agree with this@@BillyDawg101

  • @thesunstep
    @thesunstep Před 8 měsíci +2817

    To solve what you're saying, Instagram decided to put strangers you don't follow in your home page. You'll see them unless you manually go to the homepage that only contains the people you follow. It's absolute nonsense, as if they want you to feel bad about your self.

    • @matroj12
      @matroj12 Před 8 měsíci +110

      I really hate that, it's awful

    • @marceloa.8881
      @marceloa.8881 Před 8 měsíci +196

      They dont want to make you feel bad, honestly. Simply they want you to keep scrolling on their app for the ads, and if a side effect of that is that you feel bad, well, that's too bad.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +190

      yeah that's a tip I forgot to add but def having favorite accounts and only looking at those. I just always forget about it when I'm on the app lol

    • @boredguy5805
      @boredguy5805 Před 8 měsíci +9

      my IG is not like that, you have two different home pages?

    • @y4nnis
      @y4nnis Před 8 měsíci +63

      @@tristansaucedoytI wish that somebody could also just fully turn off any reals..

  • @vaeknt1566
    @vaeknt1566 Před 8 měsíci +2705

    I like your vibe. You’re just talking, no adhd inducing jump cuts, edits etc. you’re chill. Subscribed!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +139

      ahaha there's a few jump cuts it's hard to talk to a camera but I appreciate it! I tried!

    • @wowpsgaming
      @wowpsgaming Před 8 měsíci +74

      adhd jumpcuts ? now that's a thing?

    • @jveyvns
      @jveyvns Před 8 měsíci +71

      wth are adhd jumpcuts 😭😭

    • @seanmcniff6746
      @seanmcniff6746 Před 8 měsíci +15

      @@jveyvnsyep, it’s pretty much what shorts are nowadays

    • @yan_dj
      @yan_dj Před 8 měsíci +74

      You can't induce ADHD 😂

  • @katherine7359
    @katherine7359 Před 8 měsíci +4412

    Honestly, the best part of getting out of doom scrolling was leaving my fear of missing out, like moving on from wanting to understand the newest trend, or getting to know niche memes and understand the newest joke. Like earlier my friend was talking to me about this new Tiktok meme and it felt kinda healing to realize that my mindless scrolling came to such an end that I don't understand irrelevant social media trends

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +197

      that’s honestly a good point! i definitely think that like putting in 2/3 hours a day to keep up w the trends online is not the best. I’m happy for you!!

    • @beautifulgorgeousman
      @beautifulgorgeousman Před 8 měsíci +10

      imo using tiktok is basically getting in all the memes and stuff

    • @kshitijjadhav9205
      @kshitijjadhav9205 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Nice

    • @volux9266
      @volux9266 Před 8 měsíci +11

      This also happened to me 😂😂I also had fomo but know after deleting Instagram it's better to feel fomo in irrelevant topics

    • @flueepwrien6587
      @flueepwrien6587 Před 8 měsíci +3

      if your business model partially depends on trends you have no choice

  • @arnoldrambo2301
    @arnoldrambo2301 Před 8 měsíci +315

    I don't use Instagram, but I am heavily addicted to CZcams. The only thing you can do is to get yourself motivated for something, or else you will find yourself stuck in an infinite loop.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +18

      yeah honestly true lol

    • @mariamareep
      @mariamareep Před 8 měsíci

      I saw another video recently about lowering screen time by someone called Maxwell and they recommended the chrome extension "unhooked". It basically removes your CZcams recommended feed!

    • @alandeutsch9987
      @alandeutsch9987 Před 8 měsíci +7

      True. the key is to get motivated doing something that will give you long-term happiness

    • @abhinavvjyn9475
      @abhinavvjyn9475 Před 8 měsíci +9

      totally agree....the knowledge contains in youtube is endless...everything from changing the oil in a motorcycle to the working of a rocket engine...

    • @ldx-2021
      @ldx-2021 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Don't use it on your phone, use it on a laptop/PC at home, you'll be entertained and disciplined

  • @delilahmast9225
    @delilahmast9225 Před 7 měsíci +340

    wow. i am actually so relieved. at how many people have the exact same experiences as i do with social media/instagram. like we are all collectively on the same journey of being so exhausted by this constant unnecessary battle with technology and its addictive apps, realizing what's really important in life, and coming to a point of desperately wanting to do something about it to live a better life. i hope society wakes up to this and decides to do something about it to get life back to when it was good. :)) xo

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +6

      yeah it’s painful but thankfully we’re all in it together! it’s still so hard though :(

  • @lemonadeslices
    @lemonadeslices Před 8 měsíci +705

    your humour is great. also the randomly drinking alcohol (shots, bottles, etc) have not gone unnoticed. this is also great advice. hope your channel grows.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +72

      thank you!! wait, the drinking? i didn’t even noticr

    • @celiasaizsuarez2277
      @celiasaizsuarez2277 Před 5 měsíci +10

      im dying no one was commenting that here and it was hilarious@@tristansaucedoyt

  • @grayokay
    @grayokay Před 8 měsíci +237

    i deleted instagram more then a year ago, my life did not get 1 percent worse. The thing that it gave me was more time and way more focus on myself. That is what the majority of people lack.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +7

      yeah if you can delete thats def the best thing to do

    • @grayokay
      @grayokay Před 3 měsíci

      cant stay in the past my friend@@JophielThe

  • @mariaevangelia.
    @mariaevangelia. Před 8 měsíci +981

    I have been off all social media for over 2 years now, my only exception is youtube occasionally. It almost kills me to be around people who are constantly on their phones scrolling, it is what we have come to lol. But I have noticed so many improvements since then which is why I recommend everyone should try stay off social media too:
    - I have more time to do things I like and to look after myself (reading, studying, meeting people etc.)
    - I also don't feel disappointed with what I am doing in life anymore. Comparison with celebs or even mutuals is always the thief of joy.
    - No more fake stuff, in the real world it's all REAL!
    - I don't fall prey to pointless trends on social media or have the feeling of "missing out" on something.
    - I feel more authentic as a person, less like I am regurgitating things I saw online.
    Your video makes me feel less alone in being offline, so thank you!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +33

      yes! these are all great benefits!! glad you’ve noticed such a positive impact on your life!

    • @gggumball
      @gggumball Před 8 měsíci +12

      that is true actually, i have gotten off socials too (kind of. I don't have any on my phone anymore but my computer has it and I will occasionally hop on for maybe a minute before realising theres no point. I also watch youtube, maybe because I'm still at school but I don't know.) and I feel all the stuff that you do. You would also feel the same way but I feel like without socials you see more of the world y'know? like on my school bus I like to look out the window and just think about life and I will sometimes see something cool or interesting and I'm usually one of the only ones who DO notice.
      I'm still struggling with some issues in this field and I honestly wouldn't mind if I did stop it all altogether (would video games count? I hope not, I love them.) I think it would make things better. I'd also love it if the world followed the same path but I don't really see that happening.

    • @mariaevangelia.
      @mariaevangelia. Před 8 měsíci

      Totally agree! It's hard for young people to fully commit, but once you do you get to appreciate the small things in life! Hopefully people become more mindful in the future!
      Also, video games are way better than social media because you are using your brain :) @@gggumball

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +22

      tbh CZcams is weird bc there's like Logan Paul and then there's free Harvard classes right? So like one is clearly way better than the other so

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +9

      its so hard to fully commit! Hence this video! its sometimes easier to take a stepping stone path w tools like this (at least for me!)

  • @lennarthammel3075
    @lennarthammel3075 Před 7 měsíci +338

    just delete instagram, come on

    • @vanillacream6150
      @vanillacream6150 Před měsícem +20

      I did it a few months ago. My best decision

    • @hemanthpuram2004
      @hemanthpuram2004 Před měsícem

      ​@@vanillacream6150 just deleted like 2 hours ago (I'm not gonna watch this video;) hoping I don't slide back

    • @lvxxdrnn1154
      @lvxxdrnn1154 Před 29 dny

      @@vanillacream6150bro i wanna delete but the same time i think i will miss any new stuff like i wont be updated..

    • @S.a.m_S.a.m
      @S.a.m_S.a.m Před 17 dny +3

      I'd love to but my friends use it to do groupe chat and it annoys me

    • @lazardjukanovic2309
      @lazardjukanovic2309 Před 17 dny +1

      Thats the problem i need it for a job

  • @petuniafalco4582
    @petuniafalco4582 Před 7 měsíci +391

    I agree that building self-discipline and installing stricter social media "timeframes" makes you being so much more in control about this addiction. It gives you a sense of achieving something as well. However, it can be a real addiction - and being aware of this and deciding whether timeframes are effective or if stricter measures, like deleting apps, are neccessary is up to us to evaluate. Very nice video!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +7

      yeah it can be hard even to notice you’re addicted tbh

  • @chicadoge
    @chicadoge Před 8 měsíci +709

    Ya just delete it. It doesn't matter. Most things people post online are pointless anyway and no number of restrictions ever kept me away from the endless scrolling and "relaxing" dopamine hits I would get when using the app. I finally made the decision to switch to a flip phone and delete my account. I don't feel like I am missing out on some random thing that seems important to invest time into just to seem relevant. It's quite ironic that we need some type of disconnection from our own reality to seem "relevant" in conversation. Also I agree that if the people you follow, you don't have their phone number, then what is the point. If you don't actually want to talk to them then why do you feel the need to follow them at all? Anyway, just wanted to rant, this was a great and very open video about the struggles of a weird reality that we created for ourselves.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +134

      def deleting it is the best but it's so hard. mad respect going to a flip phone and deleting everything. Wish I was you !

    • @someasiankid6323
      @someasiankid6323 Před 8 měsíci +5

      flip phone? not even a blackberry or a nokia?

    • @skittleripple
      @skittleripple Před 8 měsíci

      @@someasiankid6323aesthetic

    • @BillyDawg101
      @BillyDawg101 Před 8 měsíci +56

      I tell people “if you need me, you have my number. If you don’t, you either don’t know me well enough, or can find someone who can give you my number”. Living in the present moment takes away the fear ✌️

    • @binguloid
      @binguloid Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@someasiankid6323 there's effectively no difference. What does a Nokia have that a flip phone doesn't have?

  • @CasualConlanger
    @CasualConlanger Před 7 měsíci +138

    Two weeks before watching this video, I uninstalled Instagram, deactivated CZcams (uninstalling isn't an option on Android), and set my phone to greyscale. Not counting time spent on CZcams Music, which varies wildly depending on my daily activities, I went from 6-7h PER DAY on my phone to just 1h45 in the first week. This week, my average was 3h35 including YT Music, which probably amounts to about 2h, a slight increase but far better than before.
    This video only goes to reaffirm that making the changes I did were a step in the right direction, for my mental health and clarity, for my personal relationships, and for my free time spent doing more productive things than doom scrolling. Thank you.

  • @bshaliii
    @bshaliii Před 8 měsíci +210

    It was the transition from tea to hard liquor for me 😂 Also, this video game me so much hope, I just started a CZcams channel and when you joked about having 8 subscribers, I felt a soft encouragement to keep going!!

  • @somnolienta_arroyo
    @somnolienta_arroyo Před 8 měsíci +186

    I follow friends, family and event pages in my area to know what's going on in my city and it's SO incredibly helpful.
    For other social media apps, I deleted Twitter and only follow the things I'm interested in on Reddit (fitness, language/culture, food stuff and other hobbies.)
    It's cut my screen time in half. I am finding myself reading more, focusing on the shows I am watching instead of needing to have Netflix up + Insta or some other thing. Going outside more often and getting stuff done around my house instead of feeling like I'm physically unable to tear my eyes away from my phone. I'm more social because I see what my friends are posting more often and it makes me want to talk to them, I could go on and on. All in all my attention span is slowly returning, I'm not anxious when I'm not doing several things at once, and I feel SO much better.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +4

      that’s so awesome! yeah there’s so many benefits!

    • @volux9266
      @volux9266 Před 7 měsíci +7

      using social media its original purpose lol thats actually good might as well try that

  • @callaswanson
    @callaswanson Před 7 měsíci +50

    I feel the opposite way, I ONLY follow people I don't know. If a friend posts something on instagram I feel a lot more jealous/fomo-y since I can compare my life directly to theirs, but only following account for my hobbies and interests doesn't give me that same feeling because in my mind their life is so far removed from mine there is no comparison

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +9

      that’s honestly a good point! i feel like i’ve kept celebs who genuinely make me happy but removed friends who make me feel jealous / insecure :)

    • @itsjamesredden
      @itsjamesredden Před 5 měsíci +3

      this is a great take ^^ I basically only follow accounts that let me keep track of my hobbies, stuff I genuinely enjoy (which doesn’t help the scrolling addiction lmao)

  • @aidanzuber4026
    @aidanzuber4026 Před 8 měsíci +197

    Fantastic video quality. This having been my first video watched by you, I was shocked when you said “I have like 8 subscribers”. I looked and was shocked to see such great production quality from such a small user. It seems you truly have a passion for it, continue you on and it’ll go far for you!

  • @mihirpatil_
    @mihirpatil_ Před 8 měsíci +11

    I have literally turned notifications off, This step has really helped me from getting unnecessarily distracted from my work & save up time, and become more productive!!

  • @ramrajasekaran
    @ramrajasekaran Před 8 měsíci +18

    Bro pulled up with a more informative video on reseting one's life than any other "productivity" CZcamsr in the world. Hats off man!!!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +2

      aye thanks dawg! love the support it means a lot :) i actually forgot a few others bc i tbh didn’t think the vid would do well so i’m making a part 2!

    • @ramrajasekaran
      @ramrajasekaran Před 8 měsíci

      @@tristansaucedoyt waiting...

  • @shizu8642
    @shizu8642 Před 8 měsíci +114

    good vid. the random drinking made me laugh a bit, we started with tea and ended up with whole bottle of some alcohol lol.

  • @carrot9963
    @carrot9963 Před 8 měsíci +117

    editing is beautifully done, you are going to go far

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +6

      thank you! trying it out it’s been fun! glad you enjoyed :)

  • @kendallkw
    @kendallkw Před 7 měsíci +23

    these are some great tips! for me i find reels and tiktok to be super addicting and i wish insta make a feature so you cant see reels but ofc theyre never gonna do that. i find deleting the apps to be best for me and i can feel a difference in how anxious i am. i also deleted youtube off my phone because i would switch between videos when i was doing something and it was also weirdly a source of anxiety. i find that replacing listening to videos with music (especially jazz) and audiobooks to be the best for me. it makes me slow down and chill. im still trying to take away this audio crutch, but its one step at a time. ive also found other hobbies that i can get into a flow state with that make me feel better. so tldr for anyone trying to decrease their phone time, try music and audiobooks and hobbies as a replacement

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +2

      yes reels are so addicting! it's good to find something to help relax and chill

  • @adriaanj
    @adriaanj Před 6 měsíci +3

    This has been one of the most life changing videos I've watched in the last years. I used to be on my phone for 6+ hours a day and after watching this video and using screenzen and all the other recomendations, I got it down to about 1.5hrs a day. I've been able to delete youtube & tiktok and I barely ever use instagram anymore. Thank you so so much.

  • @JosiaJo
    @JosiaJo Před 8 měsíci +67

    I'm currently at the stage of only using Instagram in Safari. After watching this video, I'm amazed at how much more you can do to get your social media consumption under control. Thank you for this incredibly helpful video!!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +1

      have a pt 2 coming bc i forgot a few key ones!!

    • @shintyty
      @shintyty Před 8 měsíci

      I don't know about safari but on google, you can add a chrome extension on called anti gram where you can limit things like viewing the home page and only being able to see things like messaging. I also deleted instagram on my phone and I will deffinetly keep it that way

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +2

      wait that’s smart! thanks!

    • @Kakapo839
      @Kakapo839 Před 6 měsíci +5

      I came to say this too. The app makes it so much more addictive! I tried deleting the app many times but end up re downloading it and loosing hours to scrolling. Using it via safari makes that seamless smooth experience non existent. It means you can still check in but I found I’m much less likely to stay for a long time

    • @MichelleB022
      @MichelleB022 Před 5 měsíci

      Yeah same but this makes me think I need to do more

  • @forrestdollins1132
    @forrestdollins1132 Před 8 měsíci +71

    This is a fantastic video, especially considering the fact that this is one of the first. You clearly have a gift for videography, editing, and video essays more generally. Your videos are both entertaining and informative.
    In regard to the video's content, itself, I think the strategies you give for moderating Instagram use are great. I think they're much more realistic than everyone deleting social media, and I think they'd help someone to continue using social media in a beneficial, as opposed to detrimental, way. Love it!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +9

      yes! My idea is that it's probably better to delete, but no one can do that, realistically. much better to be honest and do something that works than fail and quit something thats in theory slightly better.
      & glad you're liking them. they prolly won't stop for a while :)

  • @lepyti
    @lepyti Před měsícem +3

    "Only follow your friends" is basically same as deleting instagram.

  • @elliott7070
    @elliott7070 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Who is this distinguished gentleman and why is he making so much sense
    Edit: The drinks... they're evolving

  • @patriciamtoscano
    @patriciamtoscano Před 8 měsíci +17

    the shot mid through explanation was amazing, thank you

  • @2001aniket
    @2001aniket Před 7 měsíci +8

    Love how direct, simple and honest your content is. Subscribed!!

  • @travelwithdrew21
    @travelwithdrew21 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video. I’ve been struggling with trying to cut time down with social media.
    Tbh I think the main reason instagram keeps me scrolling is bc they keep showing “suggested” posts/reels after every posts of someone I follow. I’ve noticed that overtime I would rack up on followers and just start following people who have interesting content and then later on do a large removal of unnecessary accounts. It’s gets annoying that they keep showing funny, creative and interesting things that appeals to me but trying to keep me on there for hours. So I’m going to try your approach and I feel like it will help me a lot in getting more important things done.

  • @joshuageorge2708
    @joshuageorge2708 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I don't often comment on any videos whatsoever but damn you're underrated, plus the timing couldn't have been better, absolutely perfect, great advice great delivery. I'm subscribing

  • @martha_hood
    @martha_hood Před 5 měsíci +5

    i had successfully gone off radar before i started my new graduation, but now, being a communication student, it got incredibly harder. to use social media as a study object and source of information alone is a constant challenge. it takes all my strength not to fall prey of something i'm supposed to see as a tool, not a cage.

  • @mahanjodaki4720
    @mahanjodaki4720 Před 8 měsíci +3

    your videos are so chill, no extra edits. I like it.

  • @ChrisPheonix
    @ChrisPheonix Před 2 měsíci

    I like this video, no intro, no promoting your channel, no bs
    Straight to the point 💯
    Gained my sub 👍

  • @jonnycarry390
    @jonnycarry390 Před 5 měsíci +1

    the best part of the videos is the amount of different glasses you use! :') ... but totally agree with that you are talking about, i decided to take a social media detox recently as I'm struggling with some mental health issues and all i was seeing was everyone else's perfect lives, perfect jobs, perfect home, perfect everythinggggg and it's a struggle!!

  • @ivehadtoomuchtodrinktonight
    @ivehadtoomuchtodrinktonight Před 8 měsíci +10

    this is so real. ive definitely found deactivating to be my best friend but also getting rid of the majority of celebs as well and only keeping the 1 or 2 I actually care about seeing. i definitely tried to use the iOS screen time features to even out my time but even then it’s like, do I really need 30 minutes a day doing whatever it is im supposed to be doing on that app. im in another deactivation era because i got so sick of that damn app. i find it’s a lot easier to control my time on other platforms like snapchat (bc i literally snap 2 people for like a minute a day), Facebook (literally only use it for uni) and tiktok (10 mins top) but idk what it is about insta that makes it so easy to doom scroll.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +1

      When you come back to IG (if?), the two things I would recommend are:
      1) Screenzen
      2) Instagram: instagram.com/tristanrsaucedo/
      but seriously, if you can stay off it's definitely better. I can't deny that it's addiction and easy to get lost in tho

  • @saravictoriahernandez
    @saravictoriahernandez Před 8 měsíci +39

    "using instagram as a grandparent"... my goal

  • @saravivien_
    @saravivien_ Před 3 dny

    A year ago I totally changed the way I was using instagram by trying the first four tips. I’ve never been in a healthier relationship with social media since then.
    I saw your video just now and it made me think that was a great decision, so thank you :)

  • @abi.mp3
    @abi.mp3 Před 5 měsíci

    this was actually so helpful dude this popped up into my feed right after i deleted insta in a feverish haze. it felt really nice to see someone share the same feelings i have and still be ok and on the path to finding solutions. it seems likes such a trivial thing but it really can control the way you go about your day. thanks for making this and sharing your insight

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 5 měsíci +1

      I'm so glad you enjoyed! There's tons of ways to work on cutting social media time but these generally work for me!

  • @flowerfawnn
    @flowerfawnn Před 8 měsíci +3

    Took the plunge and just deleted it straight up. Why waste my own time pretending I want everyone to know my business, might as well free myself now. Thank you so much !

  • @claireponesse9390
    @claireponesse9390 Před 7 měsíci +3

    i really like how straightforward and chill this video was. keep up the good content!

  • @cenkgureken
    @cenkgureken Před 8 měsíci +1

    Just randomly bumped into your video. Im gonna make a totally out of nowhere comment here but you know what, I just loved the different aura of your video that your room gives off a 90s hotel room vibe and this video as a whole has totally different energy. it felt such a refresh also feels like a nostalgia too. On one way this video feels like its taken in 2004 and Im having the biggest nostalgia. Idk whyyyyy!! Its like nothing I have watched for such a long time and believe me Im watching so many youtube videos a day. Immediately subscribed !

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      thank you! ahahah it's my grandmas apartment so it probably was furnished in the 90's lol

  • @whydyouonlycallmewhenyourehigh

    You nailed it, that is what I exactly feel when using tiktok. I've seen a lot of guys having fun on the things I also want to do and experience, and here I am rotting in my house. I know I am just a student and I cannot help to compare myself to them who are also just student but still having the time of their lives, excessive buying and luxurious moments. It makes me feel really bad about my self.

  • @servikonwar773
    @servikonwar773 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I love the vibe of this video, it's just straight to the point without any sugarcoat, which I loved. FYI,Thanks for the tips.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +1

      ofc!! if you wanna see how i actually use screen zen i just did that too :)

  • @himikotoga1966
    @himikotoga1966 Před 8 měsíci +8

    I simply deleted instagram due to how negative the people on there are. I can’t scroll through 3 posts without seeing something racist, homophobic, sexist or just down right negative. It gets annoying and draining so I decided to depart from the app 2 weeks ago. Not to mention my subconscious mind compares to other peoples fake lives and makes me feel worse. Deleting it was the best decision I made but I understand your point. Great video :)

  • @SharpQuantityxD
    @SharpQuantityxD Před 6 měsíci

    I've been in an apathetic rut and using instagram as a means to avoid/ detach
    and the tip for using ig as a grandparent makes so much sense
    I realized having a goal for only tapping in 10 times a day or even having to wait a minute is enough to be like
    nah
    lmao thank u sm i appreciate this so much

  • @reemqureshi3909
    @reemqureshi3909 Před 5 měsíci

    You speak so well! Thank you for sharing this with us!
    I'm sure this can speak to so many age group struggling with an addiction like this. I've struggled with this and I've learned two new things from you!

  • @user-uo3lv2cj4k
    @user-uo3lv2cj4k Před 7 měsíci +5

    I GASPED. when I saw the triple side button switch between gray scale and normal colour settings. I used to turn my phone screen to black and white but the problem always was that I love taking photos and I need to see colours when I am taking them !! right? and switching the setting every single time the sky looks pretty was so daunting. but you literally enlightened me with this thing. thank you tristan like for real

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci

      yeah it’s a helpful trick! tho then it’s easy to not have your phone in greyscale

  • @Lovimoo
    @Lovimoo Před 8 měsíci +3

    this really opened my perspective on social media as a whole..... great video!!!!!!!

  • @era7355
    @era7355 Před 8 měsíci +1

    your video is the first I see that talks about this, so thank you so much! I've also been deleting and redownloading the app but I feel pressured to keep it since I'd be missing out from all of my friends. the main reason I keep on deleting Instagram is because of reels which leads me to overstimulating and I hate it so much. it's the same reason why I deleted tik tok early on but to see that other apps like instagram to copy tik tok makes it so much worse. I'd be checking one reel and it'd ended up me watching countless reels for hours on end without me realizing bc I feel like I've been hypnotized. I have no time to spend on other things that are actually important because of doom scrolling. although now I'm trying not to delete it just bc of one feature and manage it better since I still need it to get updated on my friends' and love ones lives. so thank you for the helpful tips, it's comforting to know that I'm not alone :]

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      yeah it's painful how much time you can accidentally spend on it. glad you liked the tips!

  • @saltysurfer
    @saltysurfer Před 8 měsíci

    Really well presented, valuable points, and the production quality is way higher than many bigger channels. Glad this popped up :)

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +1

      thanks! Big Z is the greatest surfer of all time and surfs up is the best documentary ever.

  • @ROXA5
    @ROXA5 Před 8 měsíci +16

    its crazy that this video got recommended to me since i decided to quit instagram in the beginning of the year and its almost over, my reason for quitting was that i realized when i went to shows, concerts, parties, get togethers and stuff i was always the one with their phone in their hand. Constantly recording or taking pictures then when i think back about how it went all i remember was just seeing it through my phone not even living my life anymore. Eventually i decided to ask my friends how they do it (where they dont post or some dont even have an account) where its not on their mind. some helped some didnt but i decided on just taking break for a week then before i knew it the week was over, then decided if i could go a week i could go a month which i did then turned into 2 to 3 to 4 to 5 months. i wont lie i did start posting again (like a grandpa as the video says) like once a month now so mainly only things i find interesting or experience no longer shit posting, sharing posts, memes. might not be for everyone but im glad it worked for me.

  • @cooltrucly
    @cooltrucly Před 8 měsíci +10

    i have a social media check-in at the same time everyday from 7pm-8pm. I don’t use social media outside of that. It helps me stay informed in an intentional way.

  • @rebecarodriguez2681
    @rebecarodriguez2681 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I can't believe I came across this video the very same day I deleted Instagram. I've watched both parts and I will definitely try some of your tips! Thank you so much for making them and for making us feel less alone in this challenge.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci +1

      they work for phones in general so don't redownload if you don't want to!

  • @aidenrossiter5408
    @aidenrossiter5408 Před 8 měsíci +16

    Thanks for the helpful tips! Your videos have been a game-changer for me in managing my Instagram usage. I can’t stop laughing tho at your hilarious approach to tackling social media addiction while sipping on various drinks in the video 😂😂😂 Your unique style and valuable advice make for an entertaining and informative combination. Keep up the great work sir…

  • @overdrive112
    @overdrive112 Před 8 měsíci +14

    You always come back to the point that you open the app when you’re bored. I wasn’t bored for a second the past 3 years, because I have hobbies that immensely take up time, for example gaming & dnd, making music (playing instruments), I’m writing on a fantasy novel, and of course things like meeting up with friends etc. take up quite some time. You can start a step earlier by not getting bored in the first place.. Boredom only exists because people don’t know what to do with themselves imo.

  • @jeffreyzie
    @jeffreyzie Před 8 měsíci

    My guy came in with the heat for the first post 💪🏾 great video bro

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      ahaha thank you! had a few others also lol (they just weren't heat lmao)

  • @shadesoftware
    @shadesoftware Před 8 měsíci

    I just found another favourite CZcamsr 😭! You're going big man, dont stop!

  • @6023barath
    @6023barath Před 7 měsíci +5

    Somehow I've done almost all of the tips you mentioned! I never understood the point in following celebrities, especially when all they do is post photos of themselves. I had a look at my feed and it's a mix of artists, bands I like, comic writers, and photographers, or shows I like etc. lol. It's a lot more interesting! But lately, I feel that my problem with Instagram is the timesink of Reels. Sending "funny stuff" to your friends seems to be this thing you're just expected to do?

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 7 měsíci

      that makes it so much more interesting! Yeah I feel that about reels :(

  • @Jotendo2710
    @Jotendo2710 Před 8 měsíci +39

    First Video I saw from you. The fact that my algorithm recommended this should make me think about my Instagram habits lol.
    Very well done Video. It was perfectly paced, I never felt bored throughout the Video. The tips in general were a little bit too radical for me, but a good starting point to create my own new habits.
    I really liked the Intro of you making a tea in jumpcuts while the music was playing and the title was showing. It really made me focus on the topic afterwards.
    Keep on going. I saw you getting like 30 subscribers overnight (In Europe) so keep on going!!🎉

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      thank you! yes having fun trying youtube and liking it!
      try using screenzen for a more reasonable goal! no reason you can’t set a hard limit at like 1.5 hours with 30 opens at 3 minutes or something!

    • @Jotendo2710
      @Jotendo2710 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@tristansaucedoyt Yea I think I will. Thank you!

    • @paulhorbenko9560
      @paulhorbenko9560 Před 5 měsíci

      nah, you're good, maybe it was recommended to me cz I delete YT all the time 💀. Great vid btw!

  • @smartlingo
    @smartlingo Před 4 měsíci

    Great tips❤!
    The way we use social media is everything

  • @rafid.i
    @rafid.i Před 5 měsíci

    I really liked everything about this video. Thank you, Tristan!

  • @Chinix
    @Chinix Před 8 měsíci +47

    Alright I have a similar take on this. So I follow celebs but surprisingly I don't feel sad that I don't live their lives so I have a slight different way of using social media.
    1. Find out what accounts make you use Instagram depressed:
    It could even be a friend, or a ex-crush. So I have a friend that went to study at my dream university that I couldn't enter. Also following my ex-crush, same thing we are close but she posts Bout her relationships often
    2. Use the mute function
    following them was a pain cuz I'd feel depressed that I was not as good. Even though I'm quite close to them I still chose to mute posts so I don't see her post about them and I generally feel better.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +2

      yes i feel that. def there’s celebs who are way way better to follow than friends. it’s way more complicated than i expressed in the video but you’re doing the best thing which is thinking about what works for you

    • @Chinix
      @Chinix Před 8 měsíci

      @@tristansaucedoyt Oh yes I think that should be a point - finding what works for you. Perfect Pointer

    • @abhinavvjyn9475
      @abhinavvjyn9475 Před 8 měsíci

      hahaha...same situation here....so i just decided not to use instagram....

  • @daniel-py9lc
    @daniel-py9lc Před 8 měsíci +4

    Gonna give it a try, you got potential bro, keep it up

  • @Babyy_girl
    @Babyy_girl Před 4 měsíci

    I feel so called out rn. These tips made me realize for the first time why i don't want to quit Instagram and why i keep coming back... a part of me apparently thinks what’s going on in the lives of some strangers is important and i never acknowledged that formyself.

  • @nikunjsethi7237
    @nikunjsethi7237 Před 8 měsíci

    High quality advice for real. Like the idea of 1 to 1 conversation without edits

  • @user-mi9gt4ki6x
    @user-mi9gt4ki6x Před 6 měsíci +4

    ok, but what is up with the glasses changing on every cutscene?

  • @laibaa2845
    @laibaa2845 Před 8 měsíci +5

    So glad this was recommended to me 😊

  • @CodexBS
    @CodexBS Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks for the screen zen recommendation. I’ve been looking for something like this and it seems promising! I don’t actually use insta, or snap, or TikTok, but I am using CZcams and discord too often, so I hope this helps. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      glad! hope it works & have a tutorial and another set of tips (i forgot while filming lol) coming soon!

  • @everettsanchez8946
    @everettsanchez8946 Před 5 měsíci +1

    It was already crazy that the title and the situation of the person in this video is incredibly relatable, but the top comment also helps me to realize that a lot of us are in the same situation. I am also an artist looking for a solution in a world full of people who don't understand the severity of these terrible platforms the damage it's doing to society. Not only is everyone addicted but they've now created a world in which artists need to keep up on social media to have any chance of being successful. It's terrible

  • @david_vodicka_
    @david_vodicka_ Před 8 měsíci +6

    Nicely done video. I really need to avoid using instagram so often, thanks for the tips!

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      Thanks for watching! yes, me too. they’re designed to be easy to use so it’s an uphill battle.

  • @sanakchandra
    @sanakchandra Před 8 měsíci +5

    Also,
    Don't post too many stories or pics of yourself reasons being 1. Your privacy is not respected online, people can misuse them.
    2. The anxiety related to validation from others will also greatly reduce.
    Next, do the same with all of your other social media platforms like X, snapchat, etc. My personal opinion is to delete snapchat account. You don't need to know what's going on in someone else’s life.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      yeah def some socials are worse than others and it’s best to be secure & safe online

  • @mohsinsiddiqui961
    @mohsinsiddiqui961 Před 7 měsíci +2

    the mute option is actually so overpowered, i scrolled to the muted stories and saw people i havent seen anything about in years and i realized they were completely irrelevant in my life and I saved so much time by not knowing what they were up to

  • @robbeuhh
    @robbeuhh Před 8 měsíci

    Actually some useful tips with nothing chaotic. You got yourself a like and sub 🤝

  • @DamianAI9
    @DamianAI9 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Social Media is Social Engineering

  • @Haroombe
    @Haroombe Před 8 měsíci +3

    As I kind of merged my insta for yt and personal, I just turn off the notifications completely and set a limit for like 30 min a day. Also I follow japanese ppl bc I am learning japanese so whatever few minutes I spend on insta will somewhat productive

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +1

      that’s also fair tbh it’s honestly way more complex than i could make it in a 5 minute video

  • @lottevanhecke
    @lottevanhecke Před 8 měsíci +1

    YES YES YES.
    Thank you for this. I love the idea “use your apps like a grandparent”. It helped me so much.

  • @mariamcu84
    @mariamcu84 Před 8 měsíci

    i appreciate you so much for this video man. also ur completely new to me but im so happy to see ur video doing numbers 😭❤️

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      thank you! it’s doing number bc you watched and commented! it means a lot to me i appreciate you :)

  • @Lyulff
    @Lyulff Před 8 měsíci +5

    Not your glass constantly changing 💀

  • @kelechi_77
    @kelechi_77 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I liked a lot of the tips here, but what advice would you give to someone who wants to do CZcams but also needs social media for promotion and all that? I always found it difficult when people say to delete social media when if you run a business or a channel, social media is pretty paramount in its growth.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +4

      dude honestly. no idea. i’m no expert. maybe if my channel blows up (like it is rn) i’ll have to learn that and i can tell you then. but rn i feel like i don’t have a clue

    • @kelechi_77
      @kelechi_77 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@tristansaucedoyt It's alright bro, I juust followed all your rules and damn it's great, I used to have dread opening instagram because it always made me feel like I have a bad life, but now that I muted those I don't want to see and unfollowed a bunch of random celebrities, it's now exciting to just open just to see what your real friends are doing

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      aye glad its working! Another is close friends and the accounts you wanna see? I might do a follow up with those tips and others but just play around with it! there's ways to make it way better

  • @The_Wizard_010
    @The_Wizard_010 Před 8 měsíci

    I just came upon this video and I'm going to try Screenzen for sure! Your channel is great and I think you deserve a lot more subscribers. Your stye of editing is also very nice.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      thanks! I'm just having fun lol. screenzen is awesome

  • @khokon_m
    @khokon_m Před 7 měsíci +1

    yes, definitely a close friend. thanks for the tips bud

  • @66_priyeshgurjar97
    @66_priyeshgurjar97 Před měsícem +3

    Reels laughing in corner 😂

  • @mishaalfareez5751
    @mishaalfareez5751 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Crazy how i just reinstalled insta and this video pops up

  • @keiarna
    @keiarna Před 7 měsíci

    How can a video been so inspiring & funny?! Thanks Tristan, using Instagram like a grandma from now on

  • @Shmyrk
    @Shmyrk Před 7 měsíci +2

    This was really great, man. You just taught a 35 yo a thing or three. Keep it up! 🙏🏽

  • @jeevanjophy
    @jeevanjophy Před 8 měsíci +3

    what's the name of the app at 2:22 ? great work btw

    • @FallumAintNoFraud
      @FallumAintNoFraud Před 8 měsíci

      Okay okay I got you!! It’s called ScreenZen, I had to change the quality and zoom in to get it 😅

    • @etharva
      @etharva Před 8 měsíci +3

      screen zen

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +3

      just put the link in the description! sorry about that!

  • @nlcphoto
    @nlcphoto Před 8 měsíci +8

    Good info… imma mute you cuz you deactivate and reactivate your instagram too much

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +2

      this is a good idea. I'd mute you (too many high quality posts you celebrity) but I love harassing your stories and thats what I'm optimizing my instagram for :D

  • @tomeryoutube1068
    @tomeryoutube1068 Před 8 měsíci

    My man just started a CZcams channel and decided dropped some of the realest and most practical advice ever

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci +1

      ahahaha thanks dawg!! just posting what i wish i coulda seen 5 years ago lol

    • @tomeryoutube1068
      @tomeryoutube1068 Před 8 měsíci

      @@tristansaucedoyt haha yeah, good thing we’re taking those steps tho

  • @safaabahar2786
    @safaabahar2786 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hi Tristan, I am not one of your friends or family members, but I am happy that I found your channel. I am also happy that the video has almost 200k views which I don't think u expected. So, you are a great youtuber and trust me sponsors will reach out to u soon ;)

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      certainly did not expect it! Yeah! I'm surprised and happy w the growth! thanks for the comment!

  • @user-jg2xp1ni2m
    @user-jg2xp1ni2m Před měsícem

    ok this is the most useful video on the topic ive seen,thanks!

  • @Sakshi-ws3vo
    @Sakshi-ws3vo Před 6 měsíci

    i cracked at your honesty of subscribing with 8 followers

  • @beingbetter_kim
    @beingbetter_kim Před 6 měsíci

    Wooh, i follow to link in description and saw you in role a "product face ", it's really great achivement buddy, keep going 💪

  • @samtustra
    @samtustra Před 5 měsíci

    Hey, nice video and tips. I really like that you don't do a lot of editing or random attention grabbing stuff, yet the video is entertaining.

  • @rodrigogundim4978
    @rodrigogundim4978 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Idk how to explain, but i enjoyed a lot the video, not only the tips but also your kind of humor

  • @BeRealWithYade
    @BeRealWithYade Před 7 měsíci

    You got this signature sass that I can't explain but it's awesome lmao. Thanks for the fun video you got my sub!

  • @naveenbenjamin9930
    @naveenbenjamin9930 Před 5 měsíci

    Subscribing to your channel for these media health vids since they're super helpful! But I am looking forward to seeing what type of content you do in the future.

  • @Hackerisitic
    @Hackerisitic Před 8 měsíci +1

    "Who else would watch this?"
    No one can leave this gold tier content bro. Well deserved lmao.

    • @tristansaucedoyt
      @tristansaucedoyt  Před 8 měsíci

      thank you lol. Genuinely did have like 8 subs when I filmed then berated my brothers so it was at like 10 when I posted. insane

  • @Eazy106
    @Eazy106 Před 8 měsíci

    This is the best video ive seen for this subject. Ive done these like only following people ik. It works. No need to follow people who would never talk to you or know you exist.