My Mom is a Thalidomide Survivor

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
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    Intro - 00:00
    What is Thalidomide? - 00:50
    My Mom's childhood - 03:40
    My Mom bit her brother - 04:58
    Realizing her disability - 06:45
    My Mom's amazing artistic talent - 08:07
    My Mom's high school experience - 09:35
    High school peers' perception of my Mom - 11:45
    Life after high school: 13:43
    My Mom had twins: 14:01
    My Mom's concerns of Motherhood - 14:55
    My Mom is a different "variant" of human - 16:44
    Adopting her disabled 3rd child: 17:36
    My Sister, Priya on following my Mom's example: 18:54
    My Mom meeting her husband, Keith - 21:07
    My Mom's 4th child, Sarah - 22:19
    Sarah's unique view of womanhood - 22:47
    Dealing with her husband's declining health - 24:08
    In remembrance of Keith Grover - 24:52
    My Mom's recent success as a Marketing Specialist - 27:08
    "She never takes a day off" - 28:09
    Priya on my Mom breaking stereotypes - 28:49
    My Mom's blessings throughout her life - 29:36
    Difficulties across all US Thalidomide Survivors - 31:25
    "The Forgotten Survivors" and "Wonder Drug" release - 33:40
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Komentáře • 76

  • @AndyP
    @AndyP  Před rokem +11

    (This video was re-uploaded after making a few adjustments) >>>
    Subscribe to my Mom to be notified of her film’s release: youtube.com/@Grovercommunications
    Pre-order “Wonder Drug” by Jennifer Vanderbes: www.jennifervanderbes.com/wonder-drug

  • @ihrie82
    @ihrie82 Před rokem +6

    Found this on Reddit on the documentary sub. Your Mom (and the other victims) will not be forgotten!

  • @Pelenaiful
    @Pelenaiful Před rokem +8

    I'm not from USA, I had no idea what Thalidomide was, I'm 99% certain I'll never meet you or your family in person but I still watched till the end and got really invested in your/your mom's story. This was great, keep up the good work.

  • @DJSkandalous
    @DJSkandalous Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great story and very insightful. Well done 👏

  • @zenomalley
    @zenomalley Před 9 měsíci +3

    I am also disabled and I think you're an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing this story. I've always been interested in the thalidomide story. Wanted to hear from real survivors. You deserve to have your voices heard.

  • @padego58
    @padego58 Před rokem +5

    A remarkable and beautiful woman, thank you for this.

  • @Jaxxons_NeNe
    @Jaxxons_NeNe Před měsícem +2

    I’m also a Survivor of Thalidomide and thought I’m much younger I have had a horrible time managing to get to go to regular school and not being able to work due to my disability and the discrimination of just my physical appearance. I have fought through life to accomplish as much as I could and if nothing else to prove others wrong. I just wanted to thank you for highlighting your mom and telling everyone just what a disabled person can do.

  • @the_stagnant
    @the_stagnant Před rokem +7

    Incredibly moving. This is what a great family looks like.

  • @memif
    @memif Před rokem +26

    Wow. randomly got this recommended and this is really hearttouching. i’ve always heard of thalidomide poisoning but to see that it wasn’t a hinder is amazing. i myself am currently studying graphic design and this is so inspirational! tell your mom hi from us!💜💜

  • @user-go1ht8zi8i
    @user-go1ht8zi8i Před 5 měsíci +2

    Amazing lady one is proud to have for a mother. God bless her.

  • @lottiex2243a
    @lottiex2243a Před rokem +4

    This was a beautiful video honouring a beautiful woman, thank you for sharing

  • @azamatturlykhanov6245
    @azamatturlykhanov6245 Před rokem +6

    Man, you're all so lucky to have such a strong and beautiful mom, bless your family

  • @gutenachtgeschichten4717

    what a lovely and inspiring woman

  • @StarxLolita
    @StarxLolita Před rokem +22

    This is beautiful. I had to share it around, especially with my own mom. Your mom is a thalidomide survivor, but that isn't ALL she is. She sounds wonderful.

  • @aziz9921
    @aziz9921 Před měsícem +1

    What an amazing woman!

  • @BeelzeKid
    @BeelzeKid Před rokem +13

    your mom is a star shineing so bright that she lights up the right path for several ppl ... she is so strong and able that im takeing nots for my own life ... your documentation about your mom enabled me to have hope in humans once more .... im sad ... i need to look on things more like her ...

  • @abbdabb6219
    @abbdabb6219 Před rokem +2

    What a beautiful Mother and story.......thank you for sharing her💜

  • @emgregory528
    @emgregory528 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Beautiful lady! Beautiful family!

  • @invisibleuser_d9fe3H1obHj7

    I did a High School report on Thalidomide children. Never thought someone could really survive it. Cool beans.

  • @rafaelamello1760
    @rafaelamello1760 Před rokem +2

    i clicked on this thinking it was an oompaville video haha but i ended up feeling very touched by it! great video

  • @mudlark4099
    @mudlark4099 Před rokem +3

    Your mom is a warrior. 🦁

  • @foxycinquantuno3361
    @foxycinquantuno3361 Před rokem +3

    This was really interesting! Your mom seems awesome (and she has great kids.) Also, people definitely stare at your sister because she's beautiful, lol.

  • @ojasch4366
    @ojasch4366 Před rokem +3

  • @Peaceisful
    @Peaceisful Před 7 dny

    Thank you!!

  • @WandaPoitra-nj3og
    @WandaPoitra-nj3og Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing this story. Your mom is awesome.

  • @ameanasaur
    @ameanasaur Před rokem +3

    I needed to see this today. Thank you so much, your family is amazing :) I cracked up when your grandmother was introduced lol

  • @sayspeedrave
    @sayspeedrave Před rokem +4

    I don't know why CZcams graced me with this video but I'm glad it did. Your mom is so strong and loving.. it shows in your guys' demeanor. I'm going to buy that book, even though I had no idea what Thalidomide was until today.

  • @MiniWeeMoose
    @MiniWeeMoose Před rokem +5

    So thankful that the CZcams algorithm brought me here, this is absolutely beautiful and one of the most wonderful gifts you could give to the amazing person who is your mother.
    She has to be one of the most incredible people I've ever gotten to learn about, and one of the best mothers.
    As someone who is disabled and doesn't have a good mother (who I haven't spoken with in over a decade,) mother's day is something that's lost meaning to me. It's really healing for me to learn about good parents, especially mothers, who have given their children a loving, supportive upbringing. And your mother did so much more than that; just hearing her adult children speak truly shows what an amazing parent she is and what wonderful gifts she's given to her children.
    Thank you for sharing this amazing woman with us and please give her a hug for me ❤

  • @elladony2999
    @elladony2999 Před rokem +3

    im from rochester too:))) this was recommended and i love it, your mom is a strong woman!!

  • @Jose-Gonzalez-cfl
    @Jose-Gonzalez-cfl Před měsícem

    What an inspiring woman. Wish her a mother's day from a whole bunch of us here whose mom's aren't physically present anymore. And happy mother's day for all of you mothers and motherly figures. Moms rock!

  • @anntunaley9974
    @anntunaley9974 Před měsícem

    I was born in 1962 as well. Thank God my mother didn’t use it, but I have FAS bc my mother drank so much. I’m also physically disabled from a rare genetic disease. But I wasn’t diagnosed with either until almost age 60. I live in Oswego, NY, very close to Rochester. I was just there yesterday. Your mom is a rockstar!

  • @itsfrytime
    @itsfrytime Před rokem +2

    This was so sweet and beautiful, made me smile several times as I watched it. Thank you!

  • @maroulio2067
    @maroulio2067 Před 10 měsíci +1

    A beautiful, amazing, talented, intelligent, loving woman! I am happy to see this reaching so many viewers. This touched my heart.

  • @ac0152
    @ac0152 Před rokem +4

    The fact that this came out right after mother's day warms my heart. I know she must feel extremely loved this week you are an amazing son! This is an amazing story that needs to be told and definitely needs more exposure you and your mother are doing special work.

  • @calouma5642
    @calouma5642 Před rokem +1

    Really loved this documentary about your mom and thalidomide in general! When I started watching I didn’t expect to watch it til the end but it was very engaging and I’m amazed by both your skills and your wonderful mom. Your whole family actually seems really great and wholesome.
    I hope many more people will watch your video, I was actually really surprised by the low viewership compared to the care and effort that definitely went into making it.
    Love from Germany

  • @neverescence
    @neverescence Před rokem +2

    Such a well-done video and I'm so glad to have been given the opportunity to meet your family. It's really a gift to everyone to have this document and it'll be a beautiful keepsake through the years

  • @wesleymclaurin2990
    @wesleymclaurin2990 Před rokem +2

    Leaving a comment to increase your viewer engagement, great vid

  • @Tleetify
    @Tleetify Před rokem +2

    Glad YT recced me this and I hope it gets more recognition and love from others too. Amazing video man, and very insightful. I'm sure your mum is very proud!

  • @rosemarywife
    @rosemarywife Před rokem +4

    a beautiful and well edited video. thank you for sharing her story this mother’s day ❤️ excited to see the documentary!

  • @Neine
    @Neine Před rokem +3

    I love this video!!!!!!! WDYM it only has 889 views what the fuck it' so good, so inspiring!! Your mom is AWESOME

  • @mariopaintcomposer5975
    @mariopaintcomposer5975 Před rokem +3

    i cant wait to watch her documentary!!

  • @amisawsan
    @amisawsan Před rokem +4

    im so happy this was in my recommendations

  • @anntunaley9974
    @anntunaley9974 Před měsícem

    Your mom is so pretty. I’m glad she’s had a good life and a good childhood. And wow, what an amazing artist.

  • @essy6020
    @essy6020 Před rokem +2

    commenting for exposure ❤ god bless you guys

  • @eldoodooface6353
    @eldoodooface6353 Před rokem +2

    I'm and Andy P. too! Thank you for sharing your mother's story, I have recently been finding out a lot about Thalidomide because I guess that's what CZcams has chosen to give me in the past few months but I am so glad I saw this. I am now on my way to go watch your mother's documentary. Thank you so much for sharing this video.

  • @darknsunny2638
    @darknsunny2638 Před rokem +1

    Amazing

  • @mangoboba1322
    @mangoboba1322 Před rokem +2

    I didn’t know what thalidomide was until now. Thank you for making this video. You’re mother is such an amazing person! I look forward to watching the documentary!❤

  • @Smooveandpretty
    @Smooveandpretty Před rokem +3

    This was a great video I’m surprised your channel is still small.

  • @spac3c4d3t
    @spac3c4d3t Před rokem +3

    this deserves more views smh, your mom is a wonderful person all around 🥺 and your family seems lovely, what a heartwarming story

  • @kael9664
    @kael9664 Před rokem +3

    beautiful, I'm so happy I watched this to the end.

  • @peachshred4797
    @peachshred4797 Před rokem +2

    Only a few minutes in but this is genuinely so well done. Thank you for sharing.

  • @BambiJuice
    @BambiJuice Před rokem +2

    Thanks for sharing this story, very well produced and informative. I had no idea about Thalidomide.

  • @Jaggerbush
    @Jaggerbush Před 5 měsíci

    Like many, im not sure how i got here but I'm glad i did. Wonderful story. Wonderful family. Your mother is amazing.

  • @m.c.1387
    @m.c.1387 Před rokem

    This is absolutely beautiful!! My heart is full!!

  • @Lulu-dq2gr
    @Lulu-dq2gr Před rokem +4

    Thank you for sharing her story! This was so informative and well edited

  • @flawbertrobert
    @flawbertrobert Před rokem +2

    Wow, what a wonderful video about your mother. What a great woman. I definitely learned a bunch today :)

  • @tiramisu7544
    @tiramisu7544 Před rokem +3

    Thalidomide poisoning and it's effects are so sad. Hope your mom is doing fine though

  • @Algrenion
    @Algrenion Před rokem +6

    i am so, so grateful to have been recommended this video. What a beautiful tribute to an incredible mum.
    i have chronic illnesses and honestly, i often let my pain and my status as "disabled" define me and what i can do. But your mother is so right; it's about how you look at it. Hearing you guys talk and laugh about her life as a whole, not just focusing on her limitations, was really moving.
    hoping that the next time i wake up and think "what's the point" when i'm faced with going to a lecture or getting stuck into an art project, i'll think of you guys :)
    ps. more people should make tributes like these for their living relatives. You can sense so much of the love and inspiration you have for hher from this video ❤❤

    • @AndyP
      @AndyP  Před rokem +2

      ❤️❤️

  • @shi_nee_unofficial
    @shi_nee_unofficial Před rokem +2

    This video is truly inspiring, along with your mother,who seems like such an amazing person.

  • @mizzyminaaa7705
    @mizzyminaaa7705 Před rokem +2

    your mom is an amazing person who is so inspiring!!! thank you for sharing this with us. Im so surprised I never knew much about this, learning about it is crazy and im excited to see her film.

  • @dbfbobt
    @dbfbobt Před rokem +1

    Surprised to discover thalidomide is still used for some conditions. Not for pregnant people.

  • @minkagoldstein9228
    @minkagoldstein9228 Před 16 dny

    What a world tragedy! I knew Dr. Helen Taussig who was the first MD to say that it was dangerous and caused birth defects.

  • @veryloweffortmemes
    @veryloweffortmemes Před rokem +2

    This is amazing man, badass but going after Disney is low as sin so I respectfully ask yourself to take a long walk off a short pier fresh boy

  • @keesvandelaarschot3149
    @keesvandelaarschot3149 Před 2 měsíci

    I know it as "Softenon" I read a lot about Thalidomide which a know as Softenon, but why do I read nothing about the DES-hormoon. Given from 1947 till 1976. I am a DES daughter I was born in 1950 and ..... as a lot af DES-daughters and sons can not have children because of this medicine given to my mother. I look like a woman, I feel as a woman but ... as I always say ... my factory is empty and can have no children. I am 73 years old now, never ever had my "period" then only a little bit of oestrogene I have Osteoporose and artrose. But .... I am a happy woman and married with a lovely man for 48 year and he said: I am married with you because I love you and not to have children. Sometimes when I look how it is going in de world now, ... I am happy we have no children.

  • @samjanssens1509
    @samjanssens1509 Před rokem

    if these kinds of videos would be a mandatory watch in youth development, instead of watching retarded ticktock dances 24/7 this world might look different

  • @BeelzeKid
    @BeelzeKid Před rokem +2

    you get an imidiat like for spotlighting the greatest person in your life , your mom , she set the stage for your life :D
    but let me followup with an incredebly evil question ...
    how is the c19vax diffrent from what happend with tolidomite ?
    our tolidomite suvivor told us not to ... cuzz we where able to se on her arms what unstuddied medicine does

    • @GynBlaise
      @GynBlaise Před rokem

      There's so much misinformation out there about the COVID-19 vaccines that I have to respond. First, the COVID-19 vaccines have been studied. They use mRNA technology that's been around for decades to fight other viral diseases. Also, unlike thalidomide, the COVID-19 vaccines (Pfizer and Moderna) received both an emergency use authorization as well as full approval from the FDA. Thalidomide was never approved by the FDA.