I don't want to be intimate with my spouse part 2 - solutions
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- čas přidán 5. 12. 2020
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Definitely not on the same page. One person is seeking solutions. The other is in denial and is refusing to admit to any problems existing.
May Allah make it easy
Valuable information. Open communication is critical. Even though it can seem daunting it's very important. Also, I love the art. Who is the artist?
Jizak Allah
The art is just printed canvas with calligraphy
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@@nufailanoon may Allah help you
Jazaka Allah khayra, just one thing (hopefully useful), your mic is touching your clothe the whole video,but ma cha Allah your message remains great anyway
SA, How does one go about contacting you preferably over email as I don't have social media etc? JAK
Brother I would like to hear how you can address issues when the woman has bad health and cannot be intimate due to this. I can give details if you wish and would even like to have some sessions with yourself in the future.
And what can you do ,if you dont wont to built a realation,if you are the one (woman) that is holding back BECAUSE you are afraid that he hurts you like he always does ,you cant trust him anymore and you dont have any feeling for him anymore after 22 years of marrige and 5 grown up childeren
salam aleikum sister, as gabriel talked in the video about this, such a couple has to seek a third opinion and get counceling. Talking about the trust issues and hurt feelings in a constructive manner,trying to solve this together. trust is important. someone has to speek up when their trust ist getting affected by certain actions. and to be honest, it's not possible to give a judgement based on this little information.
So I am still not clear about what is emotional fulfillment?
Emotional fulfilment means your wife gets the feeling that you love her. Its not like you are saying I love you, I love you, I love you, she must feel it. Be more romantic, spend more time, some candlelight dinners etc
@@medicoma8649 ok Jazak Allah khair
@@ibnamanot Talk to her. Pay attention to her instead of your phone. Listen to her when she is talking to you and make her feel important. Atleast your asking questions. It shows you care. May Allah make it easy for you brother.
@@nasraqaali7050 and instead of hanging out with your friends
That's very wrong advice ... Guys if you don't feel it doesn't talk about it with your wife (at least not the way he express it) ... If you gonna talk give hints or talk directly about what you want ... Avoid at all costs saying " Hey, I don't feel the passion anymore" or "We are not like old times" ... Cuz things gets high and gets low and maybe you are in the low area when things get high the woman will keep remembering your words about you don't feel the passion and will feel so angry about it.
Please don't express your negative feelings that's so so bad advice, Cuz things may get better later and your passion is back but her/his passion isn't back cuz you broke someone's heart.
Instead, Jump to what you want instead of expressing your negative feelings ... that's enough of a hint that there is a negative feeling and a problem.