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When sunnah meets practical advice it is such a refreshing perspective brought upon this subject that we don’t hear much often if not at all. We need this in our lives, thank you Gabriel جعله الله في ميزان حسناتك
I have built 45years of marraige and never once treated with any heartfelt intimacy. Purely a means to satisfy primal urges on my husband's part. That's a long time to go with no genuine love or affection. Why didn't I leave? Allah knows best.
I don't understand how this umma can be so ignorant. I'm sorry for you but remember that each time you feel pain, God prepares many rewards for you in the next life. So much that will wish to have suffered more. May allah grant you paradise and ease your pain
@@goodflowh this is why Allah swt created hellfire because many people like them deserve it. He also created heaven for people like you who have patience and go through these struggles, may he grant you everlasting patience and peace
Prophet muhammad peace be upon him said not to go to your wife like the camel goes to the female camel. You must start slowly with kisses and nice words
I understand his points, but for most people sex for the first time is an uncomfortable adjustment that doesn't produce much pleasure for most women. One day you are talking and the next day you are naked in front of one another. The wedding night just cracks the ice, satisfying intimacy takes a while to to become a norm. Wedding night is just getting used to a new norm, far from special !
Oh yes 100 percent I feel icky that you have to be clothless in front of another man. To actually be comfortable it’s only after you become a mother then it’s a bit easy otherwise oh no it’s a nightmare every might.
wait.. I don't understand this explanation of the Hadith. I was told these 7 days are a timespan for the virgin to get used to the man and if she is too scared and shy to have intimacy there will be no fault on her. I am a bit in shock right now that intimacy is to be expected on the wedding night, especially if she barely knows the man. What about getting to know each other more intimately first?
Marriage can be great between husbands and wives , it's up to us either to make it or break it , wives always has this " headache ' excuses when husbands wants to show his affection towards her , sisters the headache story doesn't work anymore
@@dibmalek6412 all u have to do is look at the prophet pbuh! just follow what he does and your wife will be happy insha allah. Br Grabiel also talks about what women likes and most of them are really accurate so u can watch his videos too...
My dad said its unrealistic for there to be love , connection and friendship between husband and wife. And marriage is just about getting on with life. Is it true? Because i want to marry a boy if he is my best friend and we have a connection and attraction. But my dad just wants me to marry someone he picks from the homeland country. He said what im looking for is unrealistic and not in the real world. ... Are most marriages based on getting married just to get on with life? And people just marry whoever the parent chooses??
Nooo! That is very wrong! That is a cultural thing that's goind on but not really what Islam says. You should rather marry someone you love, who has deen and you think you will get along with the rest of your life!
He had to have deen and good manners. And by deen it's not just praying he must also know basic hadith. He must act on what God and his prophet said and not the culture. Don't fight your dad and show him the hadith that shows he can't force you to marry what he wants. But also on the other hand, don't let your emotions make you chose an idiot because he is tall and good looking.
Purple bear, yes your dad is right. True love comes after marriage. Marriage is real life, real love, and love put into action and practice everyday, and that is service. Love is not a feeling, love is doing. Media has perverted and made love a degenerate thing, it has reduced it just to lust. Lust is like a drug, adrenaline rush, but there is nothing concrete there. There's no comfort, no sakinah, no trust, no guarantee that he will be there after he gets what he wants. Beware of the lies of this world about love and marriage, and listen to your father, he is right and he will never lie to you.
Should I go for full body waxing before first night, the result is good but it is extremely painful procedure especially for men, I have done it twice.
Nope, if you have too much hair then trim it. Use the hair cutting machine on different sizes to shorten it. Don’t put it on 1-2-3 coz your wife will be uncomfortable. Go to gym, do planks. Push ups pull ups. Try to learn her before you to get intimate. Ask her questions and friendly. Hug her and assure her since she can’t get intimacy assurance from others. Marry a pious woman so your life will be beautiful. Be kind and generous. Learn to control your urges and angers. Be a man who knows what how when to do things. Watch the Muslim skeptic on CZcams
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I dont get why he does not have so many viewsss😢 such good content
He dose it for the sake of allah. Views dont really matter to him. :)
Because most of the men don't actually want to know the religion in the correct way
When you goes to any comment sections , mention his you tube channel , it's only now with great disappointment I discovered his channel ,
When sunnah meets practical advice it is such a refreshing perspective brought upon this subject that we don’t hear much often if not at all. We need this in our lives, thank you Gabriel جعله الله في ميزان حسناتك
I love this man for Allah's sake. Hope to meet him one day.
Al-Romaani the Love Doctor - may Allah subhanna wa ta ala blesses us all with much love between Allah, our spouses, family and friends 🤲🏿
JazakAllahu khairun.
I'm always a bit nervous thinking about it but wallahi you made it sound so natural and beautiful. MashaAllah!
Brother, you have broken it down, and kept it 💯. Thank you. Jazak Allah khair.
May Allah (S.W.T) bless you for sharing this important messages
very important topic. may Allah reward you. Amin
I needed this JazakAllah
Love the advice, may Allah bless you
I'll make sure to share and like your videos so that your channel will grow more ❤️
I have built 45years of marraige and never once treated with any heartfelt intimacy. Purely a means to satisfy primal urges on my husband's part. That's a long time to go with no genuine love or affection. Why didn't I leave? Allah knows best.
I don't understand how this umma can be so ignorant. I'm sorry for you but remember that each time you feel pain, God prepares many rewards for you in the next life. So much that will wish to have suffered more. May allah grant you paradise and ease your pain
Try to talk him ???
May Allah bless you brother Mashallah I’m a muslimah and I really love your content, keep it up 👍
Thank you sheikh, but I couldn't stop blushing when you were describing those things. May Allah bless you.
🤭😂
Assalamualaikum wR wB, great thanks
Good idea: Keep things simple and Sunna. 💯
"how you going to get the numbers if you don't make the love " hehe tnx I will use this line one day ;-)
This is a great and perfect video
KISS - Keep It Simple and Sunnah
Pray together👫
Give sweet
Laugh
Holding hands, touching, talking
Don't jump like an animal and do it with excitement
U know there a problem with us when hijab tutorial and muslim couple get more attention from muslim than these golden video 🥺 may allah guide us
Nice point 😊
Like my ex pushed me away from him emotionally, he yelled at me and mocked me and enjoyed making me cry on our first night and every night there off.
May Allah heal you :(
Not enough info I have given here, he did so much damage to me I ended up in the hospital and I still suffer. His family was no less bully.
@@goodflowh this is why Allah swt created hellfire because many people like them deserve it. He also created heaven for people like you who have patience and go through these struggles, may he grant you everlasting patience and peace
this is why I'm scared to get married most of my ethnicity boys are like this and my mother won't let me marry outside my culture. I hate my race boys
@@goodflowh I hope you left him.
Mashallah
Saving this for myself and siblings
Culture that contradicts the sunnah makes me sick
Prophet muhammad peace be upon him said not to go to your wife like the camel goes to the female camel. You must start slowly with kisses and nice words
Absolutely
12:34 😂😂😂😂
I understand his points, but for most people sex for the first time is an uncomfortable adjustment that doesn't produce much pleasure for most women. One day you are talking and the next day you are naked in front of one another. The wedding night just cracks the ice, satisfying intimacy takes a while to to become a norm. Wedding night is just getting used to a new norm, far from special !
Oh yes 100 percent I feel icky that you have to be clothless in front of another man. To actually be comfortable it’s only after you become a mother then it’s a bit easy otherwise oh no it’s a nightmare every might.
@@Ak-qj1lf Just a quick question, Why does the process of becoming a mother make it easier ? Is it because you squeezed a baby out of you ?
@@marlonhosten4693 lol the way you have posed I guess so. It’s not that discomfort.
@@Ak-qj1lf Oh OK, I just wanted to know, Shukraan !
Are you male or female
Lol this is like going on war
Respect from 🇩🇪
Try these videos in the roads of our country 😏
wait.. I don't understand this explanation of the Hadith. I was told these 7 days are a timespan for the virgin to get used to the man and if she is too scared and shy to have intimacy there will be no fault on her. I am a bit in shock right now that intimacy is to be expected on the wedding night, especially if she barely knows the man. What about getting to know each other more intimately first?
Watch part 2 of this series sister. Gabriel talks about this subject beautifully in that video.
@@brighteststar77 You're right. JazakaAllahukhairan
Marriage can be great between husbands and wives , it's up to us either to make it or break it , wives always has this " headache ' excuses when husbands wants to show his affection towards her , sisters the headache story doesn't work anymore
sounds personal
I suppose against her will does?
probably too scared to have intercourse maybe idk or nervous
Hhhh who says so
@@SS-kp7hw No just talk about the real issue, that’s why feminism have destroyed our woman’s, and you are an example
Ah man I want to marry but I need to work on myself
This needs more views😭
exactly! im not even married and listening to this makes me smile so much, as a women yes this is what we want
@@jojo-qm7ve what do women want you specially
@@dibmalek6412 all u have to do is look at the prophet pbuh! just follow what he does and your wife will be happy insha allah. Br Grabiel also talks about what women likes and most of them are really accurate so u can watch his videos too...
@@jojo-qm7ve umm oky sister.
How how are you if I may ask?
@@dibmalek6412 I'm fine alhamdulillah
My dad said its unrealistic for there to be love , connection and friendship between husband and wife. And marriage is just about getting on with life. Is it true? Because i want to marry a boy if he is my best friend and we have a connection and attraction. But my dad just wants me to marry someone he picks from the homeland country. He said what im looking for is unrealistic and not in the real world. ... Are most marriages based on getting married just to get on with life? And people just marry whoever the parent chooses??
Nooo! That is very wrong! That is a cultural thing that's goind on but not really what Islam says. You should rather marry someone you love, who has deen and you think you will get along with the rest of your life!
He had to have deen and good manners. And by deen it's not just praying he must also know basic hadith. He must act on what God and his prophet said and not the culture. Don't fight your dad and show him the hadith that shows he can't force you to marry what he wants. But also on the other hand, don't let your emotions make you chose an idiot because he is tall and good looking.
SubhanAllah that is more or less force marriage. SubhanAllah no.
No problem In your dad trying to find someone for you, but in the end it is your decision if you like him or not
Purple bear, yes your dad is right. True love comes after marriage. Marriage is real life, real love, and love put into action and practice everyday, and that is service. Love is not a feeling, love is doing. Media has perverted and made love a degenerate thing, it has reduced it just to lust. Lust is like a drug, adrenaline rush, but there is nothing concrete there. There's no comfort, no sakinah, no trust, no guarantee that he will be there after he gets what he wants. Beware of the lies of this world about love and marriage, and listen to your father, he is right and he will never lie to you.
are you married?
Should I go for full body waxing before first night, the result is good but it is extremely painful procedure especially for men, I have done it twice.
So, brother you have 2 wives?
@@tasneemmohiuddin8380 no buddy but insha'Allah, make dua😀
Please dont it sounds unnatural for a man
Bruh....your not a girl. No
Nope, if you have too much hair then trim it. Use the hair cutting machine on different sizes to shorten it. Don’t put it on 1-2-3 coz your wife will be uncomfortable. Go to gym, do planks. Push ups pull ups. Try to learn her before you to get intimate. Ask her questions and friendly. Hug her and assure her since she can’t get intimacy assurance from others. Marry a pious woman so your life will be beautiful. Be kind and generous. Learn to control your urges and angers. Be a man who knows what how when to do things. Watch the Muslim skeptic on CZcams
funny, during driving, not very serious
Guy talks to much
Too*.
you sound like your wife would DEFINITELY be happy to lose her virginity to you