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  • čas přidán 13. 07. 2024
  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jayda and Angel, a couple living on Skid Row.
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  • @elysianlagom2113
    @elysianlagom2113 Před měsícem +2321

    In a different life, they could have been a killer model couple!

    • @coldcloakmusic6630
      @coldcloakmusic6630 Před měsícem +225

      Yeah they’re both beautiful

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +24

      So what? Why is this important?

    • @lizstallard9902
      @lizstallard9902 Před měsícem +167

      ​@@Toonces666I believe it was just an observation.

    • @Lorenz-lw5bs
      @Lorenz-lw5bs Před měsícem +14

      this is so sad to think about wow

    • @itswhatever6950
      @itswhatever6950 Před měsícem +37

      @@Toonces666you mad at a beautiful bw and a wm together ? 😂😂😂😂

  • @queennubianuniverse
    @queennubianuniverse Před 29 dny +612

    They talked about him abusing her so casually, as if it’s just a natural element of any relationship.

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder Před 28 dny +77

      Even Mark referred to them as a loving couple after hearing about the DV. Crazy.

    • @aitheuhc
      @aitheuhc Před 22 dny +76

      Everyone talking about how great they look but they should be apart. He is not good for her.

  • @stephownsyourface
    @stephownsyourface Před měsícem +1871

    She’s not ok

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      he's not ok he sukd guys up to support her prego then they didnt have lT he'sGAYY4EVER

    • @saramerhar6464
      @saramerhar6464 Před měsícem +227

      She needs to get away from him :( he is a dreamer and shes a doer, and guuurrrl you have it in you to do better! ❤

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      @@saramerhar6464 NO SHE DONT yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 Před měsícem

      You think so?
      They're drug addicts living on Skid Row having to sell themselves, and do everything you can imagine for money, like, how on earth could anyone be okay in that situation?

    • @carlosbent5046
      @carlosbent5046 Před měsícem +83

      His not well either 😢toxic per they need to be apart to rise....

  • @nichellefreightman1213
    @nichellefreightman1213 Před měsícem +1257

    You can tell she wants to get away from him. She's telling all the business because she's ready to get clean and leave him

    • @zhumusic-ng9tr
      @zhumusic-ng9tr Před měsícem +111

      She wants to change you can tell, he holding her back

    • @user-my6yn1uo3b
      @user-my6yn1uo3b Před 29 dny

      ​@zhumusic-ng9tr Noone can hold you back from getting clean if you're ready. Trust skid row is a fucking jungle. They need to separate and treatment. She can do that at any time

    • @Hollister146
      @Hollister146 Před 29 dny

      Is he her pimp?​@@zhumusic-ng9tr

    • @hextorcampis6113
      @hextorcampis6113 Před 29 dny +16

      It doesn’t seem like that at all. Seems she wants to continue but is upset the guy doesn’t

    • @deefitzpatrick5810
      @deefitzpatrick5810 Před 29 dny +40

      She’s dopesick and getting sicker by the minute and meanwhile he’s just fine because he has plenty onboard. He got his and she didn’t...and she’s irritated and resentful because of that. It’s easy to be optimistic and make great plans when you’re feeling fine but it’s a whole different story when you are dopesick.

  • @SkillTrill713
    @SkillTrill713 Před měsícem +1195

    Damn sista you gotta shake the spot nothing good will come from a relationship with this dude. He fears your betterment because then he’ll have to suffer alone. Break loose.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @user-lf9uo2de4z
      @user-lf9uo2de4z Před měsícem +33

      Absolutely 💯 I agree 👍🏿

    • @jennifergannuscio6086
      @jennifergannuscio6086 Před měsícem

      THE ROT IS INSIDE OF HER!!!

    • @lindsaycromartyward3173
      @lindsaycromartyward3173 Před měsícem +9

      9:49 Mark. Spoke. My. Exact. Life.
      Girl. I remember 22. Now 42 exact…
      Hit me hard on a soul level but beautifully written and well executed commentary for real. Setting positive vibes to the sick and suffering and idk if anyone heard her- LOVE (aka, HIM- what she is living currently there as “love”) is HER ADDICTION and idk I felt like that went over their heads but I understood and truly see the inner soul sickness part of addiction is equally the same. “Love” addiction on this type of level is not very much spoken of, studied, or especially empathized and spoken about in any type of non judgmental/biased way. Hopefully once the children of this generation are grown, they can finally break down the barriers and the stigma to arrive at a better understanding and therefore hope of being able to help fix this. Idk the answers it’s so sad and just ugh.

    • @marietjevanderloo6442
      @marietjevanderloo6442 Před měsícem +15

      Pain is looking for company

  • @pamdemaray9866
    @pamdemaray9866 Před měsícem +1034

    I hate his hand on her leg . It feels like a ownership of her . She's not touching him at all but he never let's up . He is definitely keeping her down. She needs to get free and go to rehab , I think she has a really great chance at a better life .

  • @prettygirlprogression
    @prettygirlprogression Před měsícem +665

    She’s so naturally gorgeous. God please cover her and keep her safe allow her to wake up and get the real help and see her self worth. I pray he cleans himself up and gets help too.

  • @ReactionRabbithole
    @ReactionRabbithole Před měsícem +571

    Her body language, she does not want to be there with him but they're in survival mode

  • @lf1496
    @lf1496 Před měsícem +1146

    Two beautiful kids wasting away. This is mad tragic. America is falling apart.

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +21

      WORD. You can say that again.

    • @MaltonEdwards-kp7in
      @MaltonEdwards-kp7in Před měsícem

      Lol they DO NOT represent anything about the USA...they dwell in the creases.

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před měsícem +33

      America is going to hell in a handbag it's sad to say.💔💯

    • @mikeodonnell6231
      @mikeodonnell6231 Před měsícem

      It's been falling apart. This country is a complete shit hole

    • @BC-ti7oo
      @BC-ti7oo Před 28 dny +11

      You think it's falling apart because you frequent this channel. I'm not saying it's OK, but these kind of things have always been happening. A vast majority of America is peaceful, healthy, and safe. Maybe you should move to the slums of South America or India if you think America is so bad.

  • @sherylbrown6943
    @sherylbrown6943 Před měsícem +281

    Mark help her get out of this and away from him 😢

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +28

      Mark is not Mother Teresa. He does more than enough already.

    • @jamesbaker-fu2zi
      @jamesbaker-fu2zi Před 24 dny +8

      She gotta help her self only person who can do it,there's only so much other people can do

    • @siyadede
      @siyadede Před 4 dny

      Why did you make it your job to stop someone else's call for help though? How much mark does impacts you how? ​@@Toonces666

    • @ashleyrockett6
      @ashleyrockett6 Před dnem

      He only helps white girls who rip him off OVER and OVER again 🙄

    • @1Atlantys1
      @1Atlantys1 Před dnem +1

      ​​@Toonces666 Why is she not worthy of Mark's help? Mark has helped others-- done tons to help, "Rebecca" ? Is it her "skin tone" that offends you? Smh...

  • @_creepykitty_
    @_creepykitty_ Před měsícem +552

    Girl..... You had to buy your own birthday cake. If you're not going to acknowledge the big reasons you should leave this relationship and lifestyle, at least look at the small things. They matter too. YOU matter. RUN!!!

  • @laceyelizabeth816
    @laceyelizabeth816 Před měsícem +882

    He's way more high than her believe it or not. She's so uncomfortable right now and he is cruisin. They definitely need to separate and get clean. She's more ready for that than him.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @endtimesninja1235
      @endtimesninja1235 Před měsícem +66

      Yeah he's LOADED

    • @laceyelizabeth816
      @laceyelizabeth816 Před měsícem +117

      @@endtimesninja1235 big loaded and she's in withdrawal but she's being strong for this interview and him

    • @endtimesninja1235
      @endtimesninja1235 Před měsícem +1

      @@laceyelizabeth816 yeah she sick af. He's worthless I've known a lot of dudes like him. I did 26 years in them trenches

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před měsícem +10

      You have it all worked out! In your head. Foo l

  • @Ali-Renee
    @Ali-Renee Před měsícem +1148

    *The modeling industry would love her. She has such a unique look. These babies are in for a lifetime of pain if they don't get clean. I was a junkie fro 19-35yo. I'm nearly 9 years clean & still have issues bc those years of poor life decisions still affect me today*

    • @sheepnomore8063
      @sheepnomore8063 Před měsícem +51

      But you are clean now! Kudos to you for that. Try not to focus on the negative aspects. I'm sure seeing something like this makes you appreciate where you are now.

    • @Ali-Renee
      @Ali-Renee Před měsícem +43

      @sheepnomore8063 I have a wonderful life. I didn't mean to sound so negative. My 16yo daughter is an honors student at an elite Jusit school, I'm a home owner, I make a great living, I have beautiful relationships in my life. I just wish I had a different career & I have some health issues that are a direct result of years of using.

    • @ahti29
      @ahti29 Před měsícem

      @Ali-Renee why are you counting?To know how much you lasted this time?You are a junkie or you are not.When you carry this with you,you will never be free from it.Forget it and move on with a decision,that you dont use anymore.Thats it.

    • @lindajohnson6539
      @lindajohnson6539 Před měsícem +1

      @@Ali-Renee

    • @timmywitty1432
      @timmywitty1432 Před měsícem

      @@Ali-ReneeJesuits rule this whirled, not a good group.

  • @kdavis1104
    @kdavis1104 Před měsícem +130

    After this interview he probably put his hands on her because she was very verbal about what he does to her behind close doors . I think this was her cry for help ! I really hope they get better . They would not be a bad looking couple

    • @jenjay2432
      @jenjay2432 Před 29 dny +11

      Exzactly what I was thinking...

    • @horrorbabejada5561
      @horrorbabejada5561 Před dnem +1

      I don’t know about that “I hope they can get better.” I know she can get better she deserves better I am sorry, but once an abusive man always an abusive man no man has an excuse to ever put his hands on a woman and no man should ever feel that comfortable and opened about talking about abusing someone they “love” drugs or not especially when it’s other men sexualizing her and causing her harm !!

  • @sarahG3013
    @sarahG3013 Před měsícem +278

    Watching this woman breaks my heart. I can barely understand her. Shes extremely sick and looks very uncomfortable 😢

  • @joyrn7663
    @joyrn7663 Před měsícem +143

    Jayda. RUN girl. Far away from him.

  • @Lilybet1316
    @Lilybet1316 Před měsícem +560

    I wish she would step away from him, she has so much potential and he is holding her down. 🙏🏻

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      r u delonsiial he had sex with men for her durng pregancy he should of been left her

    • @jean55547
      @jean55547 Před měsícem +13

      she's holding him down

    • @magallanesagustin4952
      @magallanesagustin4952 Před měsícem

      ​@@jean55547how so?

    • @reggiecarter9378
      @reggiecarter9378 Před měsícem +35

      @@jean55547how when she’s the one trying to get sober and he’s the one beating on her.

    • @user-my6yn1uo3b
      @user-my6yn1uo3b Před 29 dny

      ​@@reggiecarter9378she is high as hell right now. Noone keeps you using. She can say anything she wants. She hasn't done anything differently then him

  • @Sinneranne
    @Sinneranne Před měsícem +206

    She’s too pretty. I hope she finds her peace and get clean away from drugs. 💟

  • @sarahG3013
    @sarahG3013 Před měsícem +260

    Hes holding her down n keeping her strung out so hes not alone...smh

  • @Nadine9461
    @Nadine9461 Před měsícem +186

    wohh. I have the impression that Mark trivializes the domestic violence experienced by this women. Its not just about Skid Row. This dude is CLEARLY violent with her.

    • @Emi-t1d
      @Emi-t1d Před měsícem +9

      She said that in a previous interview.

    • @rebeccamoney1589
      @rebeccamoney1589 Před 29 dny +6

      You are absolutely correct! I agree with you 100%!

    • @JosephHPaine
      @JosephHPaine Před 28 dny +16

      I don't think he's trivializing it. If he harps on it too much this pos will just end the interview and leave. He just wants to encourage her to leave him subtly.

    • @jhandle900
      @jhandle900 Před 21 dnem +2

      ​@JosephHPaine yes, you can only nudge and hope.

  • @sallygroutage1093
    @sallygroutage1093 Před měsícem +437

    Its " time "soon", he says... there is the problem! Soon is a dream, NOW is action

    • @TibiSemper
      @TibiSemper Před měsícem +19

      Exactly, 💯 he's not ready to do what needs to be done as yet.

    • @katharinase614
      @katharinase614 Před měsícem +4

      Not soon right now he needs to say

    • @tallyannklitzke932
      @tallyannklitzke932 Před 29 dny +4

      @@TibiSemperbut she seems ready. It’s sad.

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 Před měsícem +154

    She definitely needs to get away from him. He's abusive, controlling and manipulative.

  • @alabamagirl1363
    @alabamagirl1363 Před měsícem +228

    Omg I’m tired of this lifestyle and I’m only 6 minutes in. I hope they get clean and live their ultimate dream. If you’re reading this, you CAN do it! I have faith in you. Sending love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @priscamolotsi
      @priscamolotsi Před měsícem +12

      I’m with you. I couldn’t bear to watch all of this. No wonder Mark has been going to therapy.😢Just listening to this can depress you!

    • @kymberlycourage
      @kymberlycourage Před 20 dny +2

      Right!! I’m exhausted. I can’t even finish the video. I thank God for my life and my own manageable problems!

    • @alabamagirl1363
      @alabamagirl1363 Před 20 dny

      @@kymberlycourage these videos should be shown in school. Drugs are not cool. They ruin lives.

  • @0oohhhlala
    @0oohhhlala Před měsícem +411

    This was so heartbreaking to watch.

    • @mzzzmonique
      @mzzzmonique Před měsícem +4

      I agree.. don’t think I’m gonna be able to watch it in its entirety 💔🥺

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před měsícem +3

      Yes 💔

  • @isbsjxbxns
    @isbsjxbxns Před měsícem +265

    the guy is not ready. the lady seems tired

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před měsícem +7

      Yes 💯

    • @MariThula
      @MariThula Před 29 dny +5

      Unfortunately she’s way too high to recognise it

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před 28 dny +1

      @@MariThula 👍🏻💯😞

  • @MineChanclas
    @MineChanclas Před měsícem +385

    She wants sobriety BAD. And that’s all you need in order to have it! You just need to be so sick of that lifestyle. I tried for 15years and couldn’t quit until I finally made my mind up.
    You can see that he’s hanging on to her so hard- her body language says LET ME GOOOO

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 Před měsícem +14

      The way he won't let go, is sketchy as he||.....very telling

    • @rocoustilerocoustile4320
      @rocoustilerocoustile4320 Před měsícem +9

      He's Spanish lol. Spanish and whytes are like that.

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před měsícem +8

      Yes I think she's tired of the junk.

    • @lindsaycromartyward3173
      @lindsaycromartyward3173 Před měsícem +4

      Amen to this

    • @user-my6yn1uo3b
      @user-my6yn1uo3b Před 29 dny +3

      No she knows how to say the right thing & manipulate because she is a survivor. She Is so LOADED in this interview!! And wont even admit that shes an addict. At leats the boy does. Mark just said neather one of them are any different then they were years ago. I pray they split up and get treatment. ❤

  • @Simone-ql8jg
    @Simone-ql8jg Před měsícem +48

    Please tell everyone you interview in CA about Tarzana Treatment Center. They offer detox, residential care and sober living for dual diagnosis. The program saved my life and I came from these same streets. FYI ❤

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme17 Před měsícem +144

    8:29 why would Mark gaslight them and say they're a loving couple??????? Wtf do you see love? They need to hear the TRUTH

    • @nicolestargell8323
      @nicolestargell8323 Před měsícem +10

      I actually thought the same thing. However, I thought about the relationships that he sees. This actually may be the best of what he sees.
      That’s just a different place to experience, I’m sure.

    • @girlcalledmango
      @girlcalledmango Před 27 dny +15

      He's manipulative. Even the fact that these people are often high when he interviews them. Can they really consent to this?

    • @mchirdon1
      @mchirdon1 Před 24 dny +4

      3:25 mark says how they laugh a lot and seem pretty happy, then she breaks down almost in tears. It triggers her so Mark keeps going for more truth/content.

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA Před 28 dny +41

    This girl is so beautiful. Not that beauty is everything but her looks could potentially get her out of the lifestyle she's living. I hope a major modeling agency sees her and offers her the opportunity to get clean & rehab with the offer of employment (if she'd even consider it). I could see her on the runway or ads for major labels (Gucci, Prada, Fenti, Calvin Klein, Polo/Ralph Lauren).

    • @user-sz1pc7ef2i
      @user-sz1pc7ef2i Před 4 dny

      That’s what I said especially in the black in white picture I could see her features more in I was like dang she’s beautiful in the face she don’t even look as rough as half of the other girls doing prostitution and js drinking in smoking weed she was a soft smooth beautiful face imagine if she js got cleaned up she would definitely go far in modeling and he could too

    • @ComewithHope
      @ComewithHope Před 22 hodinami

      The model lifestyle for someone who is already an addict will only exacerbate addiction...more money more access

  • @aliamonique192
    @aliamonique192 Před měsícem +309

    With drugs his violence only will escalate. I afraid for her. I see the abuse because im a victim of DV.

    • @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
      @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614 Před měsícem +47

      @@aliamonique192 he’s very abusive and all about HIMSELF and what’s best for HIM , he’ll just drag her further down into the pits . He doesn’t share the stamps on the card with her and blames her for other men harassing HER, he won’t step to those other men .. he’s not a good individual, he will get wayyyy worst the more time goes by .She has to escape him , he’s a charming devil who puts up a good front for the camera .

    • @TibiSemper
      @TibiSemper Před měsícem +27

      When she was saying that when she brings him something he's mad, when she doesn't he's mad and then when she deals with men he's mad. But he deals with the women. She's his scapegoat for his life being as it is, maybe that's why he doesn't want her or both of them to get better it takes self reflection and owning up to mistakes you've made.

    • @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
      @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614 Před měsícem

      @@xoxopixiedoll no , I haven’t.
      I will go back to watch so I can get a better understanding of his situation from the beginning stages of it all .

    • @jennaphillips5075
      @jennaphillips5075 Před měsícem

      @@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614

    • @jennaphillips5075
      @jennaphillips5075 Před měsícem

      @@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614

  • @amy_crosby
    @amy_crosby Před měsícem +231

    Jayda, I hope you will see how abusive Angel is to you. It’s not normal or OK for Angel to abuse you. His jealousy is not normal. Run, get away from him. Go to rehab or a women’s shelter and lose contact with this POS. Make a plan and get out! I’m sorry for the loss of your baby. 🩵🥺

  • @barbaraalamazani7353
    @barbaraalamazani7353 Před 23 dny +17

    She has that beautiful Sudanese, Ethiopian, Somalian look. She could do high end editorial magazines! So sad!! 🥺

  • @ljljlj9263
    @ljljlj9263 Před měsícem +226

    His hand on her leg is a sign of CONTROL 😢

    • @rib.7809
      @rib.7809 Před měsícem +11

      Thought the same!!!!

    • @youtubeuser6317
      @youtubeuser6317 Před měsícem

      I guess It's ok, because she is his bitcр in this relantionship

    • @tinam761
      @tinam761 Před měsícem +23

      It’s not just his hand on her leg … that can be just connection and support… however… she’s leaning back a bit, she’s not connecting with that hand on the leg.

    • @Emi-t1d
      @Emi-t1d Před měsícem +12

      She said he hits her & is controlling in a previous interview.
      He said he inspects her entire body daily to check every scratch & spot in an effort to "protect" her in a previous interview.

    • @youtubeuser6317
      @youtubeuser6317 Před měsícem

      @@Emi-t1d hi is alpha

  • @Maxcat22
    @Maxcat22 Před měsícem +367

    He is a manipulator
    This is sad

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 Před měsícem

      Dudes a fvkking creep. He can't even let go of her during this interview...imagine when the cameras are off, and they are alone. Dudes a text book narcissist

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 Před měsícem +6

      Yes

    • @girlcalledmango
      @girlcalledmango Před 27 dny +9

      And as broken as her, just displaying it differently.

    • @MariLionheart
      @MariLionheart Před 27 dny +2

      ​@@girlcalledmangotreu that.

  • @tatiger28
    @tatiger28 Před měsícem +304

    He’s using her and she’s in love. He’s a complete narcissist, him wanting to pimp her out for more drugs and her being pregnant at the time all bad. Maybe that’s why she has miscarriage which is sad. Being a giver to narcissist will make you like this. 😢 Breaks my heart 💔 as a young female.

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore Před měsícem +37

      Narcissist means more than just self centered.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @r0guedoll
      @r0guedoll Před měsícem +51

      @@sugarsoreexactly, the internet learned the word and now use it in every other sentence

    • @deerheart87
      @deerheart87 Před měsícem +8

      ​@@r0guedollexactly 💯

    • @annatannehill716
      @annatannehill716 Před měsícem

      , it's a buzzword nowadays and people throw it around without actually knowing the clinical definition ​@@sugarsore

  • @PlusVK22
    @PlusVK22 Před 23 dny +38

    10:00 After the interviewer and the boyfriend disagree with her saying that she "gives, gives, gives", she totally disconnected for the rest of the interview from that point.. playing with her hair... That was messed up for them to do that to her smh.. she was done when her bf said "thank you, Mark".. she knows he got that abusive, prideful ego boost validating him while invalidating her.. men always team up against women no matter what smh. She was pouring her heart out and being the most open and honest, and she constantly gets treated like she's invisible and like what she says doesn't matter...

    • @Dbby888
      @Dbby888 Před 3 dny

      She needs therapy it’s deep rooted

  • @HappyMe-o4w
    @HappyMe-o4w Před měsícem +144

    I'm crying 😢😢😢 they are babies.

  • @angelacarlton1550
    @angelacarlton1550 Před měsícem +405

    She's 99% already gone and he doesn't even realize it. It sucks her back in over and over but she's about done with his sorry ass.

    • @candyce6233
      @candyce6233 Před měsícem +19

      Yesss. And the sooner the better

    • @tinam761
      @tinam761 Před měsícem +41

      His sorry ass ??? Why is it on him??? She’s the one barely able to speak in this interview.
      They both struggle… they are both humans and I wish the best for them. Just quit with the bullsh1t … he is not responsible for her choices and vice versa.
      I literally would love to see them sober and productive in life … they could maybe a have great life together.

    • @subekennedy9554
      @subekennedy9554 Před měsícem +5

      ​@tinam761 completely agree

    • @whoknowswhocares885
      @whoknowswhocares885 Před měsícem +10

      There is nobody in the right and wrong here, none of them have the means to help themselves at this point.

    • @racheldeck2399
      @racheldeck2399 Před měsícem +13

      Toxic codependency

  • @canadianboyee
    @canadianboyee Před měsícem +91

    She could be a model

  • @InnaDeep
    @InnaDeep Před měsícem +52

    They are both absolutely gorgeous. The modeling industry, social media, & CZcams would definitely be successful for them if they cleaned up. They're so young. I pray they can get themselves together

  • @Bob-kk2vg
    @Bob-kk2vg Před měsícem +339

    Talking about your significant other’s miscarriage as a “bummer” blows my mind. Wow. That hurt.

    • @potted-mint
      @potted-mint Před měsícem +46

      He's a child

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Před měsícem +66

      He also stated,"She's okay, she can (still) produce."🤨

    • @carolseven3802
      @carolseven3802 Před měsícem +1

      Thank you! Maybe he can hear this from a man.

    • @carolseven3802
      @carolseven3802 Před měsícem +2

      @@UniqueLivingGreennot about the word choice.

    • @carolseven3802
      @carolseven3802 Před měsícem +9

      @@potted-mintimmature but not a child

  • @theawesomest2850
    @theawesomest2850 Před měsícem +187

    She’s too good for him, even in one of the prior interviews he said that HE introduced her to drugs. He is her cancer

    • @marietjevanderloo6442
      @marietjevanderloo6442 Před měsícem +6

      He was the one? He's bad news!

    • @girlygi8
      @girlygi8 Před měsícem +8

      didn’t she say she’s been on drugs since 12 years old??

    • @theawesomest2850
      @theawesomest2850 Před 26 dny

      @@girlygi8 he drugged her with fentanyl. She hadn’t tried it until then

    • @MorenikeGO
      @MorenikeGO Před 26 dny +17

      She was already using drugs (crack). But he uses both crack and fentanyl, and intentionally tried to also get her hooked on fentanyl by secretly drugging her. He’s definitely not a good influence, but let’s not pin her initial drug use on him. They were both addicts when they met.

  • @elizaschaeffer34
    @elizaschaeffer34 Před měsícem +45

    This girl needs to ditch this guy. He’s got something up-narcissistic, sociopathic, anti social SOMETHING is not there for him
    He won’t let her speak, silencing her, she has been gaslighted and brainwashed into thinking she’s the problem. He grabs her leg not out of love and support but control and domination.
    I don’t like it.
    She needs to move on from this dude.

  • @xxxxxx-tq4mw
    @xxxxxx-tq4mw Před měsícem +76

    Jayda needs to walk away from this manipulator before he goes too far and deletes her existence.

  • @Joye_to_know
    @Joye_to_know Před měsícem +126

    She is so pretty..and she doesnt realize it...I hope she seeks the help she needs.

  • @antagonisticmedusa
    @antagonisticmedusa Před měsícem +97

    crazy how beautiful they both are despite being on the streets and on drugs

  • @sup393
    @sup393 Před měsícem +88

    These two. Separate please. Good on you Mark. Let them have it

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před měsícem +2

      You separate them

    • @sup393
      @sup393 Před měsícem +6

      @terrytownsend5583 they have to do that for themselves

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před měsícem

      @@sup393 that old chestnut. Aka you are all talk

    • @111.blackice
      @111.blackice Před 27 dny +1

      @@terrytownsend5583 wtf. how is she supposed to break them up, and why would she go about that? it's obvious they shouldn't be together: that's an observation.

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před 26 dny

      @@111.blackice nothings obvious

  • @lifeofshe3424
    @lifeofshe3424 Před měsícem +42

    They are both so deeply traumatized and codependent + active addicts. Though she is tired, she is not tired enough to leave and some of the comments about him “dragging her down” are not very compassionate. It is evident he is very resentful of her, and likely for a number of reasons - she’s feeding (nurturing, even) his addiction, she’s sold her body to provide for them both & feed their addictions, people are willing to help her and provide for her (even if it is drugs), she’s carried and miscarried their child, she’s able to rationalize (albeit fleeting) and envision a future for herself (very likely without him) and even abstain from drugs. Much of his need for control is because he has none over his whole life and he’s starting to lose control of hers too. Up until what seems like recently, the active addiction is what has consistently reinforced their codependency and trauma bonding. The tiny fleeting moments where she regains her own independence and can actively think coherently and want more for herself is a threat to that, which severely triggers his abandonment issues and/or what he views as love and stability.

  • @southernsoulfarm
    @southernsoulfarm Před měsícem +93

    Imo she needs to get away from him 😭

    • @deerheart87
      @deerheart87 Před měsícem +2

      Other way around , he is smarter than her

    • @sherine5487
      @sherine5487 Před měsícem +15

      ​@@deerheart87he introduced her to drugs

  • @WakingRay
    @WakingRay Před měsícem +82

    He's keeping her down. She clearly wants out.
    Hope someone helps her get out of there.

    • @lysergicflacid
      @lysergicflacid Před 27 dny +5

      she said it herself in her solo interview. She said she never use to talk to boys before she met him because she learned that boys can easily lead her down the wrong path

  • @Babyneedanewpapi
    @Babyneedanewpapi Před měsícem +176

    She looks so broken 😢

    • @marieneu264
      @marieneu264 Před měsícem +27

      She does. It’s crazy they do the same drugs and he looks completely different than she does.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      they both r did yall forget he had sex wth men to support her prego then they didnt even have lt

    • @rebeccaadamski7743
      @rebeccaadamski7743 Před měsícem +11

      Yeah so true and he's only going to make that worse. She needs to get the hell away from him, sooner rather than later

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      @@rebeccaadamski7743 yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @thankor
      @thankor Před měsícem +5

      There both victims of the drug use he’s not any worse than her

  • @Queen.323
    @Queen.323 Před měsícem +67

    They are both gorgeous wow.. could both be supermodels 😭

  • @roostershooter76
    @roostershooter76 Před měsícem +94

    I can't watch past 5 minutes, but I can tell she doesn't want to be with him. He's possessive and acts like he's trying to control her.

  • @drew7515
    @drew7515 Před měsícem +52

    I remember a time i was homeless, only money i was able to make was through doordash. I was dating someone at that time, almost made no money through doordash, but two days before her birthday and the day of i hustled so much to make sure i was able to buy her a birthday cake, card, and a gift. Sure it took all my money but it was worth it. He didnt even get you that cheesecake, run

  • @MC-po7ev
    @MC-po7ev Před měsícem +37

    I feel like she is over him, but can't get away.
    I could be wrong, but something is off...

  • @nancyb7495
    @nancyb7495 Před měsícem +64

    Hope they both get clean but she needs to get the hell away from this guy. He’s literally physically abusing her because of his jealousy and has no problem admitting it bc he doesn’t see it as being that wrong. He’s blaming her. Blaming her for everything.
    That has nothing to do with drugs. That’s his personality.
    I hope they both get help..

  • @TibiSemper
    @TibiSemper Před měsícem +76

    This makes me sad, you can tell shes ready to leave this life, idk if he is. They are at different points in their life. Maybe because he looks more put together hes not seeing this addiction as so much of a problem. I hope they can get the help they need whether together or apart. So much life to live its so heartbreaking 😢

  • @fabiennesaam4307
    @fabiennesaam4307 Před měsícem +81

    Jayda, get away from him! God bless you!

    • @GiGi_to_3
      @GiGi_to_3 Před měsícem

      why just her? He should get away from her too. Addicts are toxic to each other

  • @myahollandia3552
    @myahollandia3552 Před měsícem +84

    1 word TRAGIC😢

  • @KrystleVoss2013
    @KrystleVoss2013 Před měsícem +69

    Thats her down fall shes a giver

  • @sarahrupert5320
    @sarahrupert5320 Před měsícem +30

    Wow, her body language says it ALL.

  • @princess_maya_
    @princess_maya_ Před 27 dny +16

    She looks like a super model! I hope she gets clean and gets discovered!

  • @wj-s4378
    @wj-s4378 Před měsícem +38

    Please, babies, get help. You're still young. Turn it around now. I have no idea what you both go through, but I see you as my kids. My son lost his life to drug addiction. He wanted to escape the pain so badly that he took his own life. It's been 7 years since I lost him. I will be praying for both of you to get clean, a job, and a roof over your heads. I want you both to know I love you and would love to wrap my arms around you and take you away from the life you're living. But unfortunately, the two of you have to do the work to get off substances and out of the situation. But know there is help if you ask for it.❤❤

  • @PeonyPapi
    @PeonyPapi Před měsícem +24

    She’s so ready to leave. I hope she gets the strength to take that final step. They have so many programs for DV victims. On a side note, they are both very beautiful.

  • @shyamlynn243
    @shyamlynn243 Před měsícem +21

    So he'll admit to putting hands on her but blames it on the drugs...This only gets worse unless someone accepts the fact they can't handle their emotions and actually takes steps to correct this, and puts in all the hard work. God help the both of you and the rest of us because we surely do need all the help we can get.

  • @lifesavercandy3239
    @lifesavercandy3239 Před měsícem +46

    She is so beautiful. She has to step away from him because he is violent and it could mess up her beauty. He is not ready so she has to let him go.

  • @Toonces666
    @Toonces666 Před měsícem +19

    I am SO tired of hearing how good-looking the couple is. So what? How does this matter?

    • @avalondreaming1433
      @avalondreaming1433 Před měsícem +10

      Pretty is a privilege. Pretty is currency in the world. Pretty opens all kinds of doors. You can deny it all you want but it's the God's honest truth. People are not treated equally. Imagine the difference of everyone being happy to see you wherever you go, versus people looking at you with disgust or laughing at you, or just ignoring your very existence. They were given a huge blessing and they are throwing it away.

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem

      @@avalondreaming1433 Pretty is fleeting. You have to have some substance and intelligence or the world will eat you alive.

    • @leilanikieti3883
      @leilanikieti3883 Před měsícem

      @@Toonces666And many people have both. In this world every advantage you have counts. Clearly these people have less access to educational resources than resources that are god -given (their looks). You’re commenting on nearly every comment that calls them attractive… idk why this triggers u so much, but there’s nothing wrong w ppl pointing out at least one compliment that will on this bleary video. The fact that this videos is garnering so much attention is partly due to their attractiveness as well.. which expands their pool of viewers who can potentially reach out to them. Wishing you peace.

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer Před 27 dny +1

      And, they are NOT beautiful. That's the interesting part. When a woman is truly attractive, the haters come out and criticize her because they are jealous.

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer Před 27 dny

      Most women are jealous of pretty women, and they show it.

  • @lamesafilipinofoodclub6202
    @lamesafilipinofoodclub6202 Před měsícem +40

    Get away from this guy…holy crap look at her body language she is physically moving away from him and He is clutching onto her he pulls her back in ..this is so sad

  • @shiamaxwell3482
    @shiamaxwell3482 Před měsícem +166

    He’s abusive, he wants to continue drugs , she wants off and away from him. Looks like she’s tweaking and he’s gaslighting her .

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      WRONG yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

    • @fabiennesaam4307
      @fabiennesaam4307 Před měsícem +12

      Agree 👌

    • @endtimesninja1235
      @endtimesninja1235 Před měsícem +6

      Bingo

    • @TibiSemper
      @TibiSemper Před měsícem +19

      He was always speaking over her. When she was trying to explain herself he just leapt in almost as if she wasn't there.

    • @user-sk2px6ox7m
      @user-sk2px6ox7m Před měsícem +1

      Agree

  • @katttpiffnsam
    @katttpiffnsam Před měsícem +129

    Man, shes way more real about the situation that they are in, hes probably saying the same bull shit to her every day about getting sober

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage Před měsícem

      yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally

  • @Isnotreal42
    @Isnotreal42 Před měsícem +93

    Dude, angel…think outside the box brother, think outside the box, LIVE OUT SIDE THE BOX BRO. BEGIN NOW

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před měsícem +2

      Start by not using cap lock

    • @Isnotreal42
      @Isnotreal42 Před měsícem +10

      @@terrytownsend5583 Read it again but replace angel with Terry

    • @magvs_mæstro216
      @magvs_mæstro216 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@terrytownsend5583superficial much?

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 Před měsícem

      @@Isnotreal42 it’s hard to take note of a cretin who thinks outside is two words. Batty boy.

    • @elizaschaeffer34
      @elizaschaeffer34 Před měsícem

      @@terrytownsend5583caps indicate emphasis. Calm yourself terry.

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme17 Před měsícem +40

    11:25 You can tell she's sick of hearing his crap

  • @sallygroutage1093
    @sallygroutage1093 Před měsícem +75

    He's making excuses, she's ran out of excuses , it seems

  • @nonconformist4887
    @nonconformist4887 Před měsícem +19

    He needs to let her go. Young People now days think toxicity is normal

  • @lightpee
    @lightpee Před měsícem +52

    Such beautiful youngins🤦‍♂I hope they get better

    • @xxXSpookyGirlXxx
      @xxXSpookyGirlXxx Před měsícem

      I hope both of you find the strength you need to get clean. I love you. God loves you.

  • @JeanniePadua
    @JeanniePadua Před měsícem +9

    I heard exactly what she said... love is get drug of choice. It took me 30 plus years to figure out that I had to love myself. I thank God that I was never in a dark situation for too long but as a teenager I remember wanting to be loved so bad that I would have robbed the sky of its stars to make another human happy because their joy gave me joy... that was not purpose so it would always end bad for me. Now I know exactly what makes me happy and I won't settle for anything less. I would rather be alone and focused on my faith and love for myself than expect another human to do better.

  • @newkingdom6750
    @newkingdom6750 Před měsícem +36

    She's beautiful.. like supermodel beautiful.. but not recommending that industry either.. it would probably be same story different day.. but she needs to gain some confidence, let Mark help her, and get away from this guy.

  • @thebrock12
    @thebrock12 Před měsícem +18

    These two people are toxic for each other. As long as they’re with each other they’re not gonna quit doing drugs.

  • @lashayxo
    @lashayxo Před měsícem +34

    She does not want his hand on her

  • @mellowdiva64
    @mellowdiva64 Před měsícem +63

    Damn fentanyl AND crack? He gna be cute young corpse 😭😞

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore Před měsícem +13

      You'd be amazed at how much the human body can handle.

  • @Queennnn_4
    @Queennnn_4 Před měsícem +19

    💔 my heart breaks hearing their story really hits different for me because they're so young and seeing them in this condition. I wish love and peace of mind on babygirl you are beautiful Jayda my love 🥹 I pray this addiction breaks away from you 🙏🏽 Blessings to both of them

  • @mumziam
    @mumziam Před měsícem +16

    Oh dear! Just babies... Cant see this ending well.

  • @sallygroutage1093
    @sallygroutage1093 Před měsícem +25

    Well said, Mark...spot on😊

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme17 Před měsícem +34

    5:55 This is a trauma bond

  • @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
    @fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614 Před měsícem +51

    They are both good looking , imagine if they didn’t do DRugz, I could see them being a social media influencer couple , they have the look. Hope they stop , what a waste of some good genes if they don’t ,

    • @marieneu264
      @marieneu264 Před měsícem

      @@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614 imagine if they got clean, and made a social media channel about their journey and trials and tribulations. They could do great things!!!!

  • @st8275
    @st8275 Před měsícem +86

    Duckie Thot and Timothée Chalamet in the upside down world. Smh

    • @rib.7809
      @rib.7809 Před měsícem +8

      OMG 💯💯💯💯💯

    • @sheniquereid2161
      @sheniquereid2161 Před měsícem +14

      She reminds me of the beautiful Anok Yai. Just naturally gorgeous.

    • @atlmcd
      @atlmcd Před 28 dny +2

      LMAO

  • @Xyz46786
    @Xyz46786 Před měsícem +76

    He is a sociopath.

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +17

      I don’t think so. I just think he’s young, immature, and selfish.

    • @Emi-t1d
      @Emi-t1d Před měsícem

      ​@@Toonces666 She said in a previous interview he hits her & is controlling.

    • @girlcalledmango
      @girlcalledmango Před 27 dny +5

      He is a broken young person just like her.

    • @WinTW9
      @WinTW9 Před 25 dny

      @@girlcalledmango Yup, both broken yet still attracted to that lifestyle, quite frankly they both require some therapy, (DETOX), before the drug cooks them up badly

  • @Smashley8708
    @Smashley8708 Před měsícem +11

    Get away from HIM BABY GIRL!!! YOU DESERVE BETTER AND I KNOW YOU WANT TO CHANGE 💔 I CAN FEEL AND SEE IT!! YOU CAN DO IT, HE DOESN'T WANT TO CHANGE OR BE SOBER . I HOPE YOU BOTH THE BEST EITHER WAY💕💕

    • @VonMilk
      @VonMilk Před měsícem

      Same goes for him !!! They are better off without each other

  • @cdavis1286
    @cdavis1286 Před měsícem +15

    This is sad 😞 Help her mark !!! Send her to another state for rehab . She’s young and beautiful she has a good long life ahead of her. He’s keeping her down . This is abuse , I was once a DV victim . She’s a baby 🙏🏾 .

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +2

      Mark is not Mother Teresa. He does more than enough already. Give me a break. Besides you can’t force people to take help. They have to want the help.

    • @cdavis1286
      @cdavis1286 Před měsícem

      @@Toonces666 you’re 💯 percent right . He can’t help her but he needs to at least give her more confidence on being strong and go to rehab and not resulting to drugs . Call a hotline and escape if he doesn’t want to go to rehab. If that boy loves her she will understand and get clean or let her go.

    • @cdavis1286
      @cdavis1286 Před měsícem +2

      @@Toonces666 also he has done more than enough and it’s very sad that people isn’t taking his advice rather then more money just for another fix

    • @cdavis1286
      @cdavis1286 Před 26 dny

      ** He

  • @dianakiger3027
    @dianakiger3027 Před měsícem +22

    shady life, he is using her truth be told

  • @malaiyamaximo6466
    @malaiyamaximo6466 Před měsícem +14

    I never comment on these videos but but his energy was very menacing and she should run as fast as she can.

  • @roninja6929
    @roninja6929 Před měsícem +25

    They are a beautiful couple. It is so sad. They need stability and need to get totally clean. I know it's hard to say but it can be done. Work towards getting their own place, start a family when they are ready not too soon and only when they are clean. Keep going together guys! I have been with my partner for 25 years and she used to self harm and use and she cleaned up and we have kids now and a home. Stay strong out there !

    • @Sarah-vl1ct
      @Sarah-vl1ct Před měsícem +2

      They are a beautiful couple???😮

    • @lf1496
      @lf1496 Před měsícem +2

      ​​@@Sarah-vl1ctshe looks like a Sudanese model , a runway model, he's handsome too..

    • @pamdemaray9866
      @pamdemaray9866 Před 27 dny

      @roninja6929 The last thing she needs is to stay in this incredible toxic relationship. She .makes the money and yes we all know how , and he spends it on drugs . He is a ball and chain and she will drown if she doesn't escape. Good for you on getting your life together , but he is a narcissist and enjoys the life style that goes with the skid row mentality. He is possessive and he admits to putting his hands on her and that's NEVER ok . He talks about pimping her out in a round about way . They are not a cute couple they are in the pit of addiction. I don't know why every one singles in on how pretty or handsome they each are . They are sick , unhealthy , strung out and young . She needs counseling to heal her soul and find her self worth on her own two feet. His hand on her is a sign of ownership not love . She never touches him and even leans away . With help I think she can regain her life but him not so much . He enjoys the walk he's taking. His someday , soon , will probably not come . I have seen addicts get better but they wanted it more than breathing. I hear her , she's ready him not so much . He will find another girl if and when she leaves. I just pray it's before she does have a child because that's when shit gets real . Run girl run before you can't. JS

    • @pamdemaray9866
      @pamdemaray9866 Před 27 dny

      @@Sarah-vl1ct WTH is he thinking.

    • @roninja6929
      @roninja6929 Před 10 dny

      @@pamdemaray9866 if me and my wife had listened to what our supposed friends said, and they said things like you say we would not be together now. We would not have our beautiful mixed race kids, not had our wonderful life together. She is a terminally ill now and I am watching her die over the last few months. Those friends of hers and mine that said we should not be together are nowhere to be seen. They have not helped or supported us in life, just gave shitty advice to leave each other, get clean and have therapy. We have fought the world and in the end we have won, even though the fucking creator is taking her from me. I just see similarities between them and us, they should stick with it. You can see that they are both still on it and she needs to get off. People change and get stronger and can do together. Broken jigsaw pieces sometimes just fit. These two just need to find normality and any couple like them can do it....if they really love each other.

  • @1azhelenmo
    @1azhelenmo Před měsícem +27

    they are both babies still

  • @gailsprangers9388
    @gailsprangers9388 Před měsícem +9

    He's not good for her. I agree. They have to get clean away from each other. He knows what to say, that's all.

  • @maybelater2650
    @maybelater2650 Před 11 dny +2

    What a beauty 😢 hope she can recover.

  • @rebeccarocklynnx
    @rebeccarocklynnx Před měsícem +17

    They both could be models if they got clean

    • @Toonces666
      @Toonces666 Před měsícem +5

      Yeah, that would fix everything. Do you know how much drugs play a part in the fashion industry?

  • @gailmendez5465
    @gailmendez5465 Před měsícem +8

    Jayda you need to take care of you baby!!! This boy is bringing you down and will drag you without a care.

  • @awakenede4485
    @awakenede4485 Před měsícem +24

    He doesn't want to put in the work to do better but she does

  • @Sheislove144
    @Sheislove144 Před 10 dny +3

    As a woman that was abused by men in past he is abusing her and isn't safe ! He will.end up hurting her 😢

  • @roel.vinckens
    @roel.vinckens Před měsícem +12

    Poor kid's right hand expresses all his insecurities that try to keep her down. She needs to get out. He needs to move on.