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  • čas přidán 13. 07. 2024
  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Alex Jett, a porn actor in Los Angeles.
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  • @AlexJettXXX
    @AlexJettXXX Před měsícem +753

    Hope you all enjoy this interview! And thanks to Mark for giving me a platform so large to give some inside information about the porn industry out. I think its really important for people to know before they jump in, cuz once you start anything adult related online; everyone will find out and there is no real going back. Anyone who says otherwise if trying to sell you something
    Also, I'm mildly autistic so I have a hard time with eye contact 😅 I usually don't mention that to people in person cuz thinking about it or bringing it up usually makes it worse haha

  • @stevendenny5667
    @stevendenny5667 Před měsícem +2171

    Calling non-porn people 'civilians' like he just got back from a tour of Fallujah.

  • @Jivolt
    @Jivolt Před měsícem +2081

    From private investigator to privates investigator.

  • @yonikki
    @yonikki Před 26 dny +610

    It's so weird that porn is legal while prostitution is illegal.

    • @scarletoracle
      @scarletoracle Před 25 dny

      They're both destructive and will ruin people's lives

    • @janzupanzu
      @janzupanzu Před 25 dny +25

      Is it in US? I'm asking because I don't know and it seems interesting because as far as I know it isn't too much hidden, even on streets? Where I'm from (Europe) there prostitution itself is not illegal but pimping is illegal (so one can sell their own body but not others).

    • @yonikki
      @yonikki Před 25 dny +22

      @@janzupanzu Prostitution is illegal in the United States in 49 states and all U.S. territories, except for some rural counties in Nevada. Nevada allows each county to determine its own prostitution laws.

    • @DilluminatiKD
      @DilluminatiKD Před 24 dny

      Yea. Because the government can't sell people's bodies. But it can steal your money and put you jail for it.

    • @NikkieRoxxx
      @NikkieRoxxx Před 24 dny +53

      Porn IS prostitution in front of cameras!.... usa does have weird laws

  • @jedsterr3884
    @jedsterr3884 Před 27 dny +182

    “That’s where the degenerates go”. Most honest thing I ever heard and of course we knew this.

  • @Jivolt
    @Jivolt Před měsícem +750

    This is an incredibly interesting interview. Not what I expected. Candid, straightforward, and honest.

    • @StormyJBlake
      @StormyJBlake Před měsícem +27

      And he seems so genuine and honest. Very smart and likeable guy so if he wants to leave this industry, he'll be OK.

    • @soopsammich4533
      @soopsammich4533 Před měsícem +11

      I definitely didn't expect such a smart, honest person.

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 Před 28 dny +6

      me too! sitting here shocked at how much i like this.

    • @BurchMike1
      @BurchMike1 Před 26 dny +8

      He did a fantastic interview. Like you said, not what I expected.

    • @CatJuarez
      @CatJuarez Před 25 dny +3

      I feel the same!

  • @demivydE
    @demivydE Před měsícem +674

    The myth of " safe sex" In porn and beyond -- I'm glad that this young man is honest about it

    • @noneyerbidness
      @noneyerbidness Před měsícem

      LOL, what 'myth'?? No one with a brain thinks sex in porn is safe.

    • @naomibetancourt7644
      @naomibetancourt7644 Před 29 dny +3

      What's the time stamp?

    • @BigBadJerryRogers
      @BigBadJerryRogers Před 29 dny +16

      Safe as in what can be cured. Nobody outside of porn goes and tests that often, so there's that. They know what they have or don't have more than the general population does.

    • @nickfries4317
      @nickfries4317 Před 29 dny

      ​@@naomibetancourt7644 11:15

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb Před 29 dny +20

      Porn was meant to be fantasy and voyeurism. It wasn't meant for the rest of the public to act it out or even try to get a job in porn.

  • @Yut00bisSUS
    @Yut00bisSUS Před měsícem +377

    abusing your johnson with pills and needles to the point where you need an integrated pump is wild

    • @laverdadescatolica5
      @laverdadescatolica5 Před měsícem +23

      Say “Johnson” again. I like the way your lips jiggles when you say “Johnson” 😀

    • @thebensman9786
      @thebensman9786 Před měsícem +28

      The way i self-abused my Johnson as a teen 👋🏻, it’s a miracle I made it through without having to get an internal inflater 😆

    • @laverdadescatolica5
      @laverdadescatolica5 Před měsícem +4

      @@thebensman9786 Johnson!!!! 😀

    • @laverdadescatolica5
      @laverdadescatolica5 Před měsícem

      @@thebensman9786 “internal inflator” 😀

    • @laverdadescatolica5
      @laverdadescatolica5 Před měsícem

      @@thebensman9786 “internal inflator” 😀

  • @GannonKupkoSr
    @GannonKupkoSr Před měsícem +96

    Mark, you need to bring this guy back... so well spoken and honest. And informative.

  • @EmEm872
    @EmEm872 Před měsícem +430

    This was a really interesting interview. I think the more positive viewer reaction to Alex compared with many of the OF interviews is that it didnt feel to me that he was trying to sell me something or convince me how necessary or important sexual content or services are. He shared the positive and negative of the industry. I wish you all the best in finding a new direction, Alex.

    • @theaveragesouthafrican168
      @theaveragesouthafrican168 Před měsícem

      There is Absolutely no Positive to the industry, its all average dudes getting average or above women to sleep with them.🤣

    • @hummingbirdenthusiast1481
      @hummingbirdenthusiast1481 Před měsícem +11

      Totally agree great interview Alex!

    • @elrich500
      @elrich500 Před měsícem

      D

    • @kimberlytownsendpalmer8219
      @kimberlytownsendpalmer8219 Před měsícem +9

      Wow! Respect. This guy has thought it through & tried to protect people. Thank you for this one.

    • @bobmalooga335
      @bobmalooga335 Před měsícem

      Women base their entire self worth on being sexual. They don't have any hobbies so for a woman to admit sex doesn't really have any value is getting them to admit they are completely worthless.

  • @oOBlahBlahOo12345
    @oOBlahBlahOo12345 Před 27 dny +39

    I appreciate how open Alex is about the behind-the-scenes and the reality, and find him to be easy to understand and down-to-earth. I’m surprised he’s a bit of a shut in, bc I feel like he could probably have tons of friends. This was a really great interview.

    • @DD-po4ul
      @DD-po4ul Před 6 dny +1

      Sometimes people don't want friends.

  • @suzannaflores1164
    @suzannaflores1164 Před měsícem +449

    I'm a "civilian" who is also yet another case of an adult with a skewed view of the world due to finding porn WAY too young.
    My 12 year old child brain had no way of knowing that I was using it as a coping mechanism for depression, anxiety, generational trauma and alchohism and possibly autism.
    I didn't see drugs or liquor in the home, but the emotional neglect was there while my parents were doing their best to provide for me. Lots of yelling and blaming, growing up.
    After 16 years of porn and love and sex addiction my neurodivergent brain finally came to terms with stopping addiction, thanks in part to finding this channel and therapy 5 years ago. Civilian or not, porn is ruining way too many lives starting with adolescents

    • @CMA418
      @CMA418 Před 29 dny +26

      And if porn doesn’t do it religion certainly will.

    • @crustinagohard9049
      @crustinagohard9049 Před 29 dny

      ​@@CMA418 lol there's literally no way to compare the damage porn does to your brain, to the effects religion has on someone. Pornogrophy changes your brain on a chemical level. Look it up if you think I'm bs'ing.

    • @markduckworth9470
      @markduckworth9470 Před 29 dny

      @@CMA418 Stupidest comment ever.

    • @KokiriKid7
      @KokiriKid7 Před 29 dny +4

      Preach! Proud of you

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Před 29 dny +3

      What. How u as a woman were addicted for that long. What? U actually have more issues that a guy addicted to it.

  • @gustavoespinal1867
    @gustavoespinal1867 Před 28 dny +142

    He looks like he could be Joseph Gordon’s levit little brother

  • @hungariancottageadventure77
    @hungariancottageadventure77 Před měsícem +314

    its a shame this interview ended, i felt it was just starting to get interesting

    • @Natasha_dor
      @Natasha_dor Před měsícem +70

      Same! Mark needs to bring him back for part 2. I rather watch him than Rebecca updates

    • @hungariancottageadventure77
      @hungariancottageadventure77 Před měsícem +25

      @@Natasha_dor I never watch Rebecca

    • @MrRdh567
      @MrRdh567 Před měsícem +9

      @@hungariancottageadventure77 Me neither. She got on my nerves.

    • @SagalDuran
      @SagalDuran Před měsícem +5

      Rebecca AKA Ahmed I feel sorry for them but then I think this is literally the life they chose. They coulda stayed with their rich family 😂

    • @SagalDuran
      @SagalDuran Před měsícem +8

      This guy is interesting albeit he suffers from anxiety like myself and talks fast just to try to fit in so much as he has heaps to get off his chest 😂

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 Před měsícem +222

    Alex seems to be level headed with common sense and compassion for others. I hope he gradually gets out of this type of profession and picks up a skill or degree that will not depend on being young or having a handsome face.

    • @kerriegavin9066
      @kerriegavin9066 Před měsícem

      😅😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😅😅😊😊😊😊😅😊😅😊😊😊😅😅😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😅😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 27:52 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 27:54 😅😊😊

    • @r3games1985
      @r3games1985 Před 29 dny +10

      He's not even good looking or young. What are you talking about?

    • @sp2435
      @sp2435 Před 29 dny +8

      @@r3games1985yes he is

    • @robindore258
      @robindore258 Před 28 dny +11

      ​@@r3games1985He's cute as hell

    • @tingtong8781
      @tingtong8781 Před 25 dny +3

      “Profession!” 😳

  • @nancydupuis8083
    @nancydupuis8083 Před měsícem +186

    I appreciate that he brought out the issue of how porn effects young people. I dissaprove of porn but like that he is very level headed and honest.

    • @cutetreytn
      @cutetreytn Před 28 dny

      Porn is great. You must not be watching the wrong stuff.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 Před 18 dny

      You can't have soul ties with 100s of victims while being a victim, and getting multiple personalities, then you can't really be level headed

  • @CarlanaGringa
    @CarlanaGringa Před 28 dny +67

    It’s so nice to hear someone being so open and honest about the industry.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 Před 18 dny

      This is light work and not even half the story of what actually goes on

    • @phnigra111
      @phnigra111 Před 13 dny

      @@m.htruth8880 indulge us

  • @charliemiller1934
    @charliemiller1934 Před měsícem +126

    Thank you for being honest Alex great interview.

  • @tulipchic34
    @tulipchic34 Před měsícem +140

    I’m a pretty liberal person but I think the availability of porn these days is sad. It’s corrupting young peoples minds. They think porn sex is normal which doesn’t make it l that enjoyable for women

    • @guenthersteiner3311
      @guenthersteiner3311 Před 21 dnem

      The orgasm of women is most affected. Don't worry about anything else. Not that its creating a generation of degenerates.

    • @ManuMiAS
      @ManuMiAS Před 21 dnem

      what about gore? most of tv shows they show gore as the most normal thing, you have now people even going worse showing dicks exploding you have The Boys and shows alike being more and more edgy, people are getting desensitized about violence but seems like protestant only care about porn or nudity

    • @John-o8l
      @John-o8l Před 7 dny

      Liberal people are mentally ill but I agree with you on this

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy Před 6 dny

      Blame men. It's us who pay for OF, porn way more than women.
      Blame men for feminism because we allowed it for continuing to approach them
      Blame men for sperm banks because women can happily go there to get pregnant
      Blame men for approaching women who put makeup, fake eye lashes, fake nails, body surgery
      If we had standards women would fall in line because we do the approaching.

  • @KarlaElaine100
    @KarlaElaine100 Před měsícem +46

    Seems like an intelligent, straightforward man. Seems this business has impacted his ability to be vulnerable and think of sex as intimacy rather than a job. I hope he eventually meets someone who loves him someday…if he can reciprocate that.

  • @josephine6480
    @josephine6480 Před měsícem +73

    How does he say he’s in a secure industry after reiterating the decline and how little money he’s making?

    • @GhostLyricist
      @GhostLyricist Před měsícem

      He probably meant porn in general, is a secure industry. It's just changing, you're going to see the big companies die out and individual creators take over, which is what we're seeing right now with OF. It doesn't make sense why a girl would work for a company today when you can sign up for OF and get recurring revenue for yourself.
      Everything is thin sliced today. Instead of having mega corporations taking huge portions of the pie, you're seeing a decline in companies, but creators make up the entire pie. It doesn't mean porn is dying, it's just saturated and spread out. There are tons of girls getting paid thousands of dollars a month by OF and it's not going to slow down. Even male creators that collab with female creators that are very successful on OF. The days of the fat constant checks from AAA porn companies are gone though.

    • @ahill4642
      @ahill4642 Před 29 dny +19

      At that point when he said that I think he was just referring to the fact that he reached a certain level of success that allowed him to be self sufficient, buy a sports car, etc, which put his family’s mind at ease about his career choice. But the industry is declining, etc, and he’s having to adjust now.

  • @TheBadTam05
    @TheBadTam05 Před měsícem +491

    Thank the lord I’m a civilian!

    • @beatewagner7.2934
      @beatewagner7.2934 Před měsícem +13

      You make me laugh.😆
      Exactly my thought...
      I was thinking to write this as a comment...

    • @sitdowndogbreath
      @sitdowndogbreath Před měsícem

      guess who has higher STD rates I'll give you a hint take a look at Houston right now

    • @greeneyedbandit5035
      @greeneyedbandit5035 Před měsícem +10

      Yessssss Indeed 🎉

    • @user-yr4mo3iz4d
      @user-yr4mo3iz4d Před měsícem

      prude

    • @zackamania6534
      @zackamania6534 Před měsícem

      You might see more “combat” as an enlisted man but yeah I’ll take my laid back civilian sex having schedule

  • @seefeelsixtynine
    @seefeelsixtynine Před měsícem +339

    The abuse in the industry needs to be exposed ..it was briefly mentioned but glosses over

    • @theaveragesouthafrican168
      @theaveragesouthafrican168 Před měsícem +8

      Yeah shame, poor girls who were raised somewhat correct but wanted quick cash then realized its degrading and soul sucking and then want to make claims, given there are some cases but look at a case like Felicity Feline or Gaia Page did 3 scenes I think each with the same production company then cries wolf afterwards. First time and they leave cool I understand and you did things against your will you did not sign up to, then sue and get them in prison but not in the cases I gave.

    • @Gh0stH0stTwenty2-2s
      @Gh0stH0stTwenty2-2s Před měsícem +30

      The abuse has been exposed forever and a day now. The majority of people who watch porn are WELL aware of the abuse. But don't care. It's never going to change. Talking about something past a certain point only makes want people to ignore it more.
      It's funny how people think once "awareness" is brought to light that people will change. Rarely the case.

    • @laurasims6369
      @laurasims6369 Před měsícem +29

      I saw porn at an early age and it definitely did not help my life at all

    • @Gh0stH0stTwenty2-2s
      @Gh0stH0stTwenty2-2s Před měsícem +7

      @@laurasims6369 who said anything about it helping?

    • @brandimyhren6317
      @brandimyhren6317 Před měsícem

      Registered sex offender making porn? Kinda seems like the place for these people to work? No one else would hire them but Disney. Lol

  • @user-qj4nq6ky9c
    @user-qj4nq6ky9c Před 25 dny +105

    I dispise the porn industry. My own daughter was caught up in this. It cost us plenty.

    • @stanley1554
      @stanley1554 Před 14 dny +8

      I resent them as well. The pigs who send their money to work for them in this industry and the creeps they hire to manage their pornography business are beyond evil. They pray on misguided young people and it's a shame

    • @naturestreams4033
      @naturestreams4033 Před 14 dny +2

      But we all watch porn😂

    • @stanley1554
      @stanley1554 Před 14 dny +8

      @@naturestreams4033 not all of us, but you have a valid point, just about everyone does or has some time

    • @JohnDoe-uk6si
      @JohnDoe-uk6si Před 12 dny +2

      So was the great Morpheus's daughter.

    • @DARTHNEWS
      @DARTHNEWS Před 11 dny

      I definitely dont. My wife handles all my needs and more. ​@@naturestreams4033

  • @lauramason5667
    @lauramason5667 Před 29 dny +25

    In college, I took an elective class on human sexuality on a sidenote, I came to my midterm unprepared and I didn’t even know there was a test that day and I got the highest score in the class. A perfect 100. The teacher made me stand up in the whole class clapped for me. It was really funny.. We had to write a paper on a subject we could choose. I went to a porn shop about 10 miles down the road from the university and visited. I’d never been to an adult toy store so to speak. I remember there were really young men in the the store. I don’t know if there was an age limit on entering the store, but they seemed definitely like teenagers. I remember thinking how it was that this was their first introduction to sex. What are they going to learn about women from porn? Absolutely nothing . If used, porn should be side note; not the main course. Nice interview. He’s an honest guy. Best wishes. ❤

    • @elizabethkettle2323
      @elizabethkettle2323 Před 25 dny

      It seems as if a lot of men are "educated" via porn, which puts real women in a difficult position.

  • @CitizenChemical
    @CitizenChemical Před měsícem +197

    This was a very transparent view on this industry. Also the consequences on society... Indeed that button 'press that you are 18' is childsplay for a 12 year old.. Its a true danger.

    • @janetpersons7647
      @janetpersons7647 Před měsícem +16

      I was going to comment the same. He is very honest about all the destruction.

    • @libertywarren3122
      @libertywarren3122 Před měsícem +5

      I agree whole heartedly.

    • @MaLanick87
      @MaLanick87 Před 29 dny +2

      Literally...

    • @NikkieRoxxx
      @NikkieRoxxx Před 24 dny +1

      Or "enter credit card # to verify age" ... they borrow it or steal it from someone else!

  • @ImJeff1965
    @ImJeff1965 Před měsícem +93

    Open and well spoken!

  • @AvaLeBlanc
    @AvaLeBlanc Před měsícem +55

    This is definitely one of my favorite interviews on this channel. I hope for a part 2!

    • @hungariancottageadventure77
      @hungariancottageadventure77 Před 29 dny +1

      @@AvaLeBlanc me too, I think it was only just getting started

    • @PeeweeHermanSoles
      @PeeweeHermanSoles Před 27 dny

      ​@@hungariancottageadventure77 He doesn't do foot stuff. He's a nothing nobody.

    • @MRPERFECT_79
      @MRPERFECT_79 Před 23 dny

      Hey ava wanna do a collab?? Asking for a friend 😂

  • @user-wl2md5kz7k
    @user-wl2md5kz7k Před 24 dny +8

    I pray that this man realizes how dark and disturbing the porn industry is and that he still has time to change his occupation. Porn has really messed me up in the head. I wish I never had fallen into this kind of sin but I’m slowly trying to work on my self to get out of the addiction

    • @Tamar-sz8ox
      @Tamar-sz8ox Před 8 dny +1

      No matter who you are
      No matter where you are
      No matter where you’ve been
      No matter what you’ve done
      RISE above ❤

  • @aeneas-sails
    @aeneas-sails Před měsícem +55

    Mark' is a much more active presence in this interview, and the interplay was excellent, with Mark providing a foil for Alex's more expansive responses. Nicely done.

  • @tinelovesallmusic
    @tinelovesallmusic Před 29 dny +63

    Teacher here. Really appreciating what he said about a minimum age for watching porn.

    • @freezo244
      @freezo244 Před 20 dny +3

      It always freaked me out in my 7th grade English classes to know there were boys in them who watched porn. Those poor girls…

    • @DH-uw3us
      @DH-uw3us Před 11 dny +1

      I'm also a teacher, and there was a 2nd grader showing students porn on his ipad at school. Apparently his parent had been watching it at home, and forgot to log out of it before the kid brought it back to school. It was a whole mess.

    • @freezo244
      @freezo244 Před 11 dny +1

      @@DH-uw3us this makes me so sad. Stay strong, teach. You’re on the front lines of this war. 💪🏽❤️‍🔥💪🏽

  • @DrunkNancyPelosi
    @DrunkNancyPelosi Před měsícem +56

    I’m glad he’s honest ( especially towards the end) about what it does to the mind and society. This is one of the most interesting SWU episodes I’ve seen 👍🏽 great work

  • @susantanner3087
    @susantanner3087 Před měsícem +50

    Great interview. Would love a follow up someday.

  • @johncena04101
    @johncena04101 Před měsícem +197

    Glad he mentioned the stuff about the diseases. They always claim its so clean.

    • @VintageTexas59
      @VintageTexas59 Před měsícem +16

      It's a sloppy job...mess everywhere.... 🙄

    • @greeneyedbandit5035
      @greeneyedbandit5035 Před měsícem +9

      Probably not clean at all

    • @paulgremmen2820
      @paulgremmen2820 Před měsícem +13

      They all have ghsv1 or ghsv2 or both and don't get tested for that

    • @runningkirkwa2934
      @runningkirkwa2934 Před 29 dny

      ​@@VintageTexas59especially if performing colonel anges. Can get messy

    • @bv5515
      @bv5515 Před 29 dny

      @@paulgremmen2820 i guarantee you've fucked someone with one or the other without knowing

  • @ImranAnsari1234
    @ImranAnsari1234 Před měsícem +28

    Please interview porn addiction recovery experts

  • @femtoeclipse860
    @femtoeclipse860 Před 28 dny +29

    Why ruined your pipe to the point where you need a pump to push liquid into it. This guys honesty is appreciated and is very educational.

  • @TaterTots380
    @TaterTots380 Před měsícem +34

    Very interesting interview! Thank you Alex & Mark

  • @imbroken3860
    @imbroken3860 Před měsícem +57

    This was an intresting interview! I absolutely love this channel! So many walks of life we all get to see and listen to their stories & i am totally here for it!

  • @ironman6432
    @ironman6432 Před měsícem +133

    He seems very normal , smart , has common sense , and honest , and is comfortable in his own skin

    • @dihe1392
      @dihe1392 Před měsícem +15

      Idk about smart

    • @SagalDuran
      @SagalDuran Před měsícem +19

      He has anxiety (like myself) the way he talk so fast to try to get so much dialogue released. No he is definitely not comfortable. God bless him tho he seems nice.

    • @bernadettewilkie5996
      @bernadettewilkie5996 Před měsícem +7

      Disgusting

    • @marlismueller4496
      @marlismueller4496 Před 29 dny +5

      He doesn't seem happy inside

    • @videosonyoutube5588
      @videosonyoutube5588 Před 29 dny +1

      As he's shifted to behind-the-camera performing, he's become more notable for starting Twitter beef with other people in the industry. Sometimes it's justified. Other times it's not. There was an infamously petty moment where he celebrated a male performer he had extremely minor Twitter drama with a year prior getting into a serious motorcycle accident. There's no way that didn't get him placed on a few "don't hire this guy" lists.

  • @scarletoracle
    @scarletoracle Před 25 dny +258

    Porn is such a destructive plague.

    • @michaelenglish1992
      @michaelenglish1992 Před 22 dny +3

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @rudewords
      @rudewords Před 21 dnem

      @@michaelenglish1992 Porn addict.

    • @mariaweydert7505
      @mariaweydert7505 Před 20 dny +16

      Agree

    • @gemimarigby2471
      @gemimarigby2471 Před 19 dny

      @@michaelenglish1992 of course you find it funny because you’re male. The industry exploits women and children more than anybody, males on occasion, but most of the categories are abusive towards women and cater to men.

    • @cl5193
      @cl5193 Před 18 dny +11

      Oh definitely.

  • @underratedszn6549
    @underratedszn6549 Před 28 dny +53

    Bro called us “civilians” 🤣🤣

    • @liquidmagma
      @liquidmagma Před 21 dnem +3

      Also said he had 700 scenes "under his belt". 😆😆😆😆

  • @MelissaGonzalez-ch1dw
    @MelissaGonzalez-ch1dw Před měsícem +46

    I like the way he openly speaks about this topic. He gets to a transactional point 😅
    He doesn’t seem to try to convince anyone, he just seems honest, like he has nothing to loose by speaking up his experience and perspective.

  • @leevancleef358
    @leevancleef358 Před měsícem +97

    This guy seems like a pretty good dude...I wish him well.

  • @user-zf1mv5vd3j
    @user-zf1mv5vd3j Před 17 dny +6

    I appreciate very much what Alex shared with people on CZcams. I would add that drugs are a huge problem in the porn industry for many younger women and men.

  • @catholiccrusader5328
    @catholiccrusader5328 Před 28 dny +14

    No thanks! I'll stay the course and stick to my beloved wife of 33 years. 😇

  • @splender88
    @splender88 Před 28 dny +20

    Porn nowadays is pretty aweful videos are thrown together with the performers covered from head to toe with tattoos. The only fans is even worse. Alex seems like a good guy I appreciate his honesty.

    • @gemimarigby2471
      @gemimarigby2471 Před 19 dny

      Its the abuse and drug use that it’s evil and underage kids being raped

    • @shawty8140
      @shawty8140 Před 11 dny +1

      Wtf😂

  • @karong7017
    @karong7017 Před 24 dny +21

    He's so lost and hurting. He's shamed and can't consistently look at camera/ or Mark, audience though he feigns not to be. The act is just transactional to him which is sad and shows he's broke. Prayer for healing and deliverance.

    • @holliedeffenbaugh6566
      @holliedeffenbaugh6566 Před 8 dny

      He's autistic...he states the fact and explains thats why he has issues making eye contact and looking at the camera...
      You'd be surprised at how much of the population is on the "spectrum"...at one end or the other.

  • @KoalaBeer.
    @KoalaBeer. Před měsícem +103

    I believe porn is terrible for our mental health, great video though.

    • @r3games1985
      @r3games1985 Před 29 dny +10

      You know what's more terrible for our mental health? No sex at all.

    • @ahill4642
      @ahill4642 Před 29 dny

      @@r3games1985 Some experts will tell you that porn addiction prevents you from having sex at all. That it demotivates and takes away your drive, give you unrealistic expectations in real life… many negative things.

    • @esahm373
      @esahm373 Před 29 dny

      @@r3games1985Porn is not sex. It cannot substitute real intimacy with a romantic partner

    • @TheVid54
      @TheVid54 Před 28 dny

      Religion is far worse for the mental health of young people.

    • @user-yg8tq6cd1m
      @user-yg8tq6cd1m Před 28 dny +2

      🎉 it's a choice

  • @wvhollargirl7549
    @wvhollargirl7549 Před 29 dny +20

    I love he quoted George Carlin. He is obviously intelligent and articulate. This interview is interesting and could go into more detail.

  • @Astar9988
    @Astar9988 Před měsícem +16

    Alex, you exemplify Positive Mental Attitude! Enjoyed your honest, intelligent interview.

  • @VAPIDISM
    @VAPIDISM Před měsícem +17

    Good interview, he was open and honest.

  • @sophiexxttv
    @sophiexxttv Před měsícem +16

    I really enjoyed this interview! Alex seems like a great guy. I appreciate his candor and points of view!

  • @Mark-ye8ro
    @Mark-ye8ro Před měsícem +12

    Awesome video! Really insightful and really helps put everything into perspective! Thank you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS Před měsícem +190

    Wow, I never even thought about it that when you get paid to have sex it changes your mindset on it. like wait now I have to have sex for free with people like a partner?? And he has to put free sex in his schedule, that’s wild

    • @breannathompson9094
      @breannathompson9094 Před měsícem +37

      I mean, this is why people dont want to date sex workers. It does absolutely change the way you can even bond with people since sex is a bonding thing, and you cant turn it off for sex work and turn it back on for your partner, it just stays messed up unless they leave the industry and get therapy.

    • @Nobody-Nowhere
      @Nobody-Nowhere Před měsícem +12

      @@breannathompson9094 Most likely it does not change, it was this way before and that lead to this work. Normal people don't do sex work.

    • @wussboyd1
      @wussboyd1 Před měsícem +8

      There's no such thing as free sex.

    • @robr268
      @robr268 Před měsícem +2

      ​@wussboyd1 as a trick definitely not 😂. I been paying for so long I would feel guilty not doing it for free!

    • @seacawk8259
      @seacawk8259 Před měsícem +1

      ​@wussboyd1 yes there is...with your hand...😂

  • @gdaygday1209
    @gdaygday1209 Před měsícem +24

    Really interesting interview. Thanks for sharing, and Alex, I wish you all the best moving forward. 😉

  • @pedromiguel3227
    @pedromiguel3227 Před měsícem +20

    Another surprising interview. Such a well-grounded, intelligent, and morally-centered person.

  • @aguatriste
    @aguatriste Před měsícem +22

    Excellent interview. I love how freely and frankly Alex spoke. He's a good and honest person.

  • @kareng6049
    @kareng6049 Před 29 dny +7

    Thank you Mark for the interesting interview and Thank you Alex for your honesty! Loved this because he just seems like a cool young man, very friendly. SWU is one of my favorite CZcams channels. 🥰

  • @rumham7466
    @rumham7466 Před měsícem +90

    Yea as far as OF and chaturbate and such.. it’s weird how so many people are okay with doing porn now.

    • @greeneyedbandit5035
      @greeneyedbandit5035 Před měsícem +3

      I know

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay Před měsícem +23

      Well when a 1200 sq.foot house costs over 350k now, people are getting desperate to achieve the "American Dream".
      I'd probably do the same if I was young and fit and inherited this inflation and decreased quality of life in America.

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb Před měsícem +1

      ​@Mmmmkaaay no it doesn't. You all are exaggerating the cost of living and what you think you deserve in life.
      No one in America is struggling financially. These people are full of it.

    • @marqqqddr
      @marqqqddr Před měsícem

      @@9395gb Saying "No one in America is struggling financially" is wild O.o

    • @MagicMaster515
      @MagicMaster515 Před měsícem +38

      @@9395gb No one in America is struggling financially???? Tell that to the childhood hunger rates, the increase of homelessness, the crumbling public infrastructure.... What an ignorant comment.

  • @pinkdink1210
    @pinkdink1210 Před měsícem +12

    When Alex was asked about any lessons he learned, and it took him a few seconds to respond I was thinking word for word what he said next.
    I love it, the golden rule, treat other's how you want to be treated.
    That's when you know somebody is truly a good person, from my experience at least.

  • @jaytodd878
    @jaytodd878 Před měsícem +21

    Very good interview Alex. Enjoyed your honesty and perspective.

  • @jaydasolai2559
    @jaydasolai2559 Před měsícem +20

    Really great interview per usual.

  • @CathiaSanchez
    @CathiaSanchez Před měsícem +93

    He said the line of work doesn’t affect him and in the same breath he says he’s agoraphobic

    • @breannathompson9094
      @breannathompson9094 Před měsícem +17

      And he has to plan "free sex" if its a partner, like wtaf.

    • @reginaldbstewart395
      @reginaldbstewart395 Před měsícem +7

      @@breannathompson9094he does it so much he is immune to it. Kinda like if you do plumbing all day you don’t want to do it when you get home.

    • @johnnymorrisonthethird
      @johnnymorrisonthethird Před měsícem +24

      Or he was agoraphobic before getting involved in porn, which may have made it easier for him to take that path. Childhood development and the human experience is wild sometimes.

    • @CMA418
      @CMA418 Před 29 dny +17

      Plenty of people who never did porn are agoraphobic. Correlation does not equal causation.

    • @r3games1985
      @r3games1985 Před 29 dny +3

      He was agoraphobic before porn.

  • @Xoxotaybabe
    @Xoxotaybabe Před 29 dny +17

    Mark thinking the porn industry is clean with no diseases 😂

  • @WitchKitty79
    @WitchKitty79 Před 17 dny +5

    I had a patient once who had the pump. He suffered from dementia and would keep it inflated quite often, I just think he would fidget alot and that was one of the things he'd fixate on. It was so gross - the implant itself, it was like a hard plastic thing that was about 1.5 inches wide and maybe 3 to 4 inches long. It was ALWAYS hard and palpable. It has the little plastic pump in his right nut and it took quite a few pumps to get it "inflated" fully - so what it felt like is that there is a plastic bag attached to the hard piece that makes it more pronounced and full, rounded and "appeasing". In order to deflate it, you had to squeeze the ball REALLY REALLY HARD. He had a catheter and because his fixation was his penis/penile implant, the tension created by the implant being inflated and the "pull" of the catheter itself, he had a literal rip down the underside of his penis that was about 2.5 inches long. It was incredibly irritated and raw. I'm sure you can imagine how horrible it really was. It didn't matter how we tried to position and tape it, he would always manage to undo anything we tried to prevent further injury and encourage healing to the area.
    He was a resident/client on the skilled unit/rehab side of the Nursing Facility of which I was one of the charge nurses, meaning that he was admitted with the hope of improving, and possibility of returning home. He did not. One day the facility had a small event that a group of people came to play music for the residents. They had wheeled this man to the atrium and placed his chair towards the back of the crowd. The activity lasted about an hour and in that time, the aides that worked with me had said they thought he was taking a nap. Only, he had died, and in the hour he was sitting there, he was ice cold by the time I HAD to perform CPR (because of the orders in his chart). I ended up breaking 4 of his ribs. It was awful...... Of course we were not able to save him. His brother came to me afterwards and apologized for not answering his phone whilst us performing CPR on his brother, he being POA said he would never had made me do that. I had felt so conflicted the entire time #1 because he was obviously gone-beyond anything we could do to save him, yet I was legally obligated to try. And, he had declined to a very bad place mentally and physically in the past few weeks he'd been with us, not to mention that he was nearly 80. He had a right to die with dignity. Not for me to crush his ribs (which btw is common in CPR, especially with the elderly).

  • @marials9245
    @marials9245 Před měsícem +21

    Very interesting interview!

  • @brianplunkett4002
    @brianplunkett4002 Před měsícem +62

    People really misunderstand the word Porn Star.

    • @freebee8221
      @freebee8221 Před 10 dny

      Prostitute would be a more fitting term.

  • @reneeturcottecicigoi9435

    This was my favourite interview of yours so far. Thank you.

  • @thebluechevy175
    @thebluechevy175 Před 24 dny +2

    What a great interview. Actually quite informative. Thank you Alex for being so open and honest.

  • @nephie1979
    @nephie1979 Před měsícem +25

    Alex told the 100% truth on a lot of things we as civilians wouldn't have known..wow thank you so much..I didn't realize people still paid to watch porn since it is on so many sites...he is so right that a new profession would likely be the right choice especially since he is only making enough to get by and not come up. The realest thing he said also was porn does change kids' views on sex. I was 8 when my brother found our parents' collection, and my sister and I black mailed him to let us watch, or we would tell. Watching porn at a young age did definitely change the way I view sex. The thing is, I don't know anyone who didn't watch porn or a dirty movie as a child.

    • @acooksla
      @acooksla Před 28 dny +3

      I didn’t

    • @nephie1979
      @nephie1979 Před 28 dny

      @acooksla Well, I'm happy you were not exposed to the viewing that we were.

  • @SiljCBcnr
    @SiljCBcnr Před měsícem +62

    "The needle" and "the pump" - damn

  • @bindearoxana4042
    @bindearoxana4042 Před měsícem +10

    This was calm and interesting. Thank you both for making it happen.

  • @editsbymonika
    @editsbymonika Před měsícem +72

    Porn is a horrible thing for society. Let’s not kid ourselves.

    • @laverdadescatolica5
      @laverdadescatolica5 Před měsícem

      Did you just say “porn… for … kid” ya pervert? 😀

    • @RedTitan5
      @RedTitan5 Před 18 dny +2

      But you can't blame people doing that... Job is hard nowadays

    • @shawty8140
      @shawty8140 Před 11 dny +1

      Trying to survive is hard

  • @o2a943
    @o2a943 Před měsícem +93

    It's striking how less delusional and more emotionally stable he is in comparison to the Female sex workers we have seen on this channel. That says a lot about male vs female sexuality and its consequences.

    • @GruntHumor
      @GruntHumor Před měsícem +28

      Look up the average industry time for males and females that are in the adult industry. The average length for females (it's around 6 weeks or 6 months, can't remember which), where as men in the industry stay in until they get forced out by Younger men. That tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about the mental toll and differences of sex work

    • @o2a943
      @o2a943 Před měsícem +1

      e@@GruntHumor that's true

    • @ericamccalla2794
      @ericamccalla2794 Před měsícem

      Yep!

    • @ericamccalla2794
      @ericamccalla2794 Před měsícem

      Right?

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 Před měsícem +18

      I feel like some of the women exaggerate and talk falsely about how great it is and how much money they make, to make themselves feel better about selling themselves to weird men.

  • @Sick_Boy.
    @Sick_Boy. Před 29 dny +36

    Imagine going through all that degenerate activity and in the end of the journey, you’re still paying rent.

  • @manhalen7046
    @manhalen7046 Před 6 dny +4

    Hes on the mark about young kids watching porn, it is really alot more damaging than people realize.

  • @christinemarie1659
    @christinemarie1659 Před měsícem +7

    Really solid interview. I would love to hear more from Alex

  • @charissemodeste6489
    @charissemodeste6489 Před 25 dny +3

    Hi Alex!
    I enjoyed your interview. I appreciated your relaxed and straightforward commentary.
    You're a cool dude and wishing you the best of everything.

  • @GoondocksCastle
    @GoondocksCastle Před měsícem +38

    "I'm kind of angora-phobic."
    That's good, bro, those little bunnies don't deserve to be made into sweaters.

  • @lynnverleyen426
    @lynnverleyen426 Před měsícem +15

    porn really has fucked things up. guys in the fifties lost their mind when a girl showed part of her leg. now we look worse than animals and have to degrade each other to get off and need tjis extreme shit. its sad.

    • @db16548
      @db16548 Před 5 dny

      We are animals....

  • @darvennorris
    @darvennorris Před 29 dny +29

    I remember when the allegations against P. Diddy were first coming out, and I saw 50 Cent claiming he had seen a video of Cassie, Diddy's long-term girlfriend at the time, involved in a group sex scenario. He mentioned that he brought up what he saw to Diddy with serious concern, but Diddy seemed unfazed. Instead, Diddy was more curious about who had shown him the tape, acting as if it was no big deal. It's one of those stories that seems so extreme it's hard to believe, especially since 50 Cent has a longstanding feud with Diddy. However, after hearing this porn actor mentioning his participation in a similar situation involving a celebrity's wife, and it being consensually filmed by all parties, it makes more sense. This leads me to believe 50 Cent's claim about the video of Cassie and explains Diddy's lack of concern.

    • @alyciamarie4163
      @alyciamarie4163 Před 22 dny

      There was a man arrested at a Trump hotel in Miami. He was shooting st cops and during his arrest claims to have been a s slave for diddy

    • @gemimarigby2471
      @gemimarigby2471 Před 19 dny

      Yet 50 cent raps about pimpoing and beating women. None of them care about harming women, or at least in their words. Clearly not P Diddy at all.

    • @darvennorris
      @darvennorris Před 19 dny +1

      @@gemimarigby2471 I never claimed 50 Cent was innocent or did I take sides. At the time when I saw the clip of what 50 alleged he saw, I didn't think much about the situation, especially if Cassie consented to the video. I don't judge lifestyles when all parties are of legal age and consenting, but abuse is a different matter. I wondered why someone would want to see their partner with others or why Cassie agreed to it. Again, I'm not judging; everyone deserves love and redemption, except child predators, but that's a separate issue. Some things are as they appear, while others aren't, and we can never truly know what happens behind closed doors.

    • @krellman7
      @krellman7 Před 16 dny

      Not to mention the recent exposure of Diddy raping other male stars when they were younger such as Justin Vieber when he was 15 years old. Also included Will Smith and several others.

  • @imaz2616
    @imaz2616 Před měsícem +95

    The thing about guys in my generation vs older men is that we go with anything and pretend it's normal as men. This is why I respect OLDER generations of men so much.

    • @towerofresonance4877
      @towerofresonance4877 Před měsícem +2

      Good!

    • @dihe1392
      @dihe1392 Před měsícem +5

      Maybe the people in your circle

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 Před měsícem +1

      Untrue!!

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay Před měsícem

      Oh, you mean older men who bought porn on VHS back in the 80s? Or the ones who just shtooked their secretaries beneath their wives' noses? Those men? 🙄🤣🤣

    • @SagalDuran
      @SagalDuran Před měsícem +1

      It's true 80% of the time at least

  • @ziggy8757
    @ziggy8757 Před 29 dny +5

    interesting interview. we need part 2

  • @brianrichard6300
    @brianrichard6300 Před měsícem +5

    The honesty of Alex is amazing. I have been watching his screens for about 10 years now. I feel bad how the industry abuses the people that generate all the money.

  • @bb-fx4mm
    @bb-fx4mm Před měsícem +73

    I did crime scene cleaning in Florida for 10 years. I started in 1997, when there was only a handful of companies. It was very lucrative at that time. Many mom and pops sprung up and watered down the business with unprofessionalism. There is a lot to know. Research your area to see how many are there. Be professional. courteous and respond quickly 24/7. It will be slow starting, but word of mouth will be key.

    • @kr00m
      @kr00m Před měsícem +27

      You should share some tales with Mark. I would watch!

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 Před měsícem +6

      How exactly does that? Don’t the police have to be involved? Or am I confused lol

    • @Jivolt
      @Jivolt Před měsícem +7

      Insomniac with Dave Attell (tv show) did an episode with a crime scene investigator. It takes a special kind of person to be able to do that work.

    • @bb-fx4mm
      @bb-fx4mm Před měsícem +9

      @@kr00m I ;ive in Thailand now. I see Mark has been here before, so maybe. I have tons of stories. Thanks.

    • @bb-fx4mm
      @bb-fx4mm Před měsícem

      @@rumham7466 The police are involved to a point. Once they remove the body. the mess is the homeowners responsibility. We always billed the clients homeowners insurance. Was never denied.

  • @AndyGarcia-s5r
    @AndyGarcia-s5r Před měsícem +9

    What an honest fellow…. Great interview

  • @bena.4422
    @bena.4422 Před měsícem +10

    This was a really good and interesting interview.

  • @ricorogers9319
    @ricorogers9319 Před měsícem +17

    This was the most honest and "matter of fact" interview I've ever seen😅

  • @eliselook
    @eliselook Před měsícem +9

    excellent & insightful interview

  • @distresseddamsel77
    @distresseddamsel77 Před měsícem +6

    Love this one. It's like, I wish he was a friend of mine so i could chat him up. He seems really intelligent. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @JR-pc5pj
    @JR-pc5pj Před měsícem +9

    A lot respect for Alex. Probably risky for him to do this interview. Best of luck to him in the future.

  • @lindsaysmith2401
    @lindsaysmith2401 Před měsícem +16

    He's nice and honest and maybe a little lost. Wish him well.

  • @bodyloverz30
    @bodyloverz30 Před měsícem +41

    Golden Era of Porn, is 70's-90's.

    • @aliensoup2420
      @aliensoup2420 Před 27 dny +18

      VHS and home video was a boon for the industry. The internet was over-kill, allowing everyone to get into it, which ruined the quality.

    • @brockman562
      @brockman562 Před 20 dny +2

      Jenna Jameson, Savannah 😍

    • @aaroncastillo5598
      @aaroncastillo5598 Před 20 dny

      Exactly. My mom did porn during that era lol

  • @lilman0820
    @lilman0820 Před měsícem +9

    Great interview

  • @thewatcher4552
    @thewatcher4552 Před 8 dny +2

    😢💔 “The soul that sinneth, it shall die” “What shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world and lose his own soul?”

  • @Buddy69Love
    @Buddy69Love Před 23 dny +1

    Hey Mark, excellent interview, thanks for sharing Alex with your SWU community. Stay safe my friend. 🙏

  • @teresalehtonen8499
    @teresalehtonen8499 Před měsícem +32

    " women dont pay for sex" .. well they do, I know a male escort who worked only with women. There was also this very famous reality-tv series of men in Las Vegas who worked as escorts for women. They did really well. Even my friend who is a beautiful young woman hired Nick I believe is his name, as she had holiday in Vegas. Not cheap.

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb Před měsícem

      Its very rare for women to pay for sex. The predominant clientele are men.

    • @BUGZYFANG
      @BUGZYFANG Před 15 dny +8

      Hes lying 😂 you know nothing… i been in this business over 20 years.. its always been men and only men

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb Před 15 dny

      @@teresalehtonen8499 you know 2 women. But the stats show that the majority of clients are men. Most women will not and do want to pay for sex.

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb Před 15 dny +3

      @BUGZYFANG agreed. They desperately want to believe that it's women hiring prostitutes but it's not. That's so rare that it's non consequential to the sex industry.

    • @metaphysicalfractionals4509
      @metaphysicalfractionals4509 Před 11 dny +1

      That show was so fake and was not reality.😂

  • @mysmirandam.6618
    @mysmirandam.6618 Před měsícem +31

    I love how open he is

  • @TamaraLeaMusic
    @TamaraLeaMusic Před 26 dny +4

    This young man has transferable skills. He is smart and what he knows could transfer to other areas of work. I hope he sees his worth as a human being in this earth.

  • @AngelaSharp-dq7oq
    @AngelaSharp-dq7oq Před 23 dny +2

    Such a nice young man. Well spoken and smart. It’s refreshing to hear someone share their story so openly and effectively. May he have continued success!

    • @cathygail9204
      @cathygail9204 Před 21 dnem

      @@AngelaSharp-dq7oq really? This lifestyle is leading him straight to hell. He should be prayed for so that he repents and turns his life over to Christ.

    • @AngelaSharp-dq7oq
      @AngelaSharp-dq7oq Před 20 dny

      @@cathygail9204 only God knows his heart. He may be saved and going to Heaven. All sin breaks Gods heart but it doesn’t change the love. Be careful passing judgement on others. The route this young man is taking is not an accident, it could be the very tool that leads him straight into the arms of God. Although his choices would not be mine, I can appreciate how well spoken and smart he is. Many times the world gets caught up in the actions of others and forgets they’re real people with hearts and minds that deserve respect.