If a WOMAN DUMPS YOU - This is ALL YOU CAN DO
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You are fired!.
Hallelujah my beautiful woman came back.
she got upset I talked to her dad she told me not to -- after 2 years.
I stayed in my man frame even when I was hurting inside.
she found out a month ago Im seeing another girl.
no woman orders me, she admitted her mistake.
God bless everyone.
Men dedicate a huge chunk of their life to a single specific woman. Then when the slightest thing goes wrong, she’ll rewrite history, conveniently forget all the good that you’ve done for her, &then find another man. In her mind, there is NO loyalty - only present & future value.
Spot on bro!
Absolutely! Never make that same mistake again.
I hear ya - Ryan!
If you want a woman to Chase you - never give her the Validation that she’s looking for!
That’s your Power over her - Never hand your Power over to anybody - it’s yours to Keep! If you do, it’s basically Over!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
You're exactly right. That's how the modern females are. It's due to the inflated ego and endless supply of options these females feel like they have trough the rise of social media and dating apps. Once they realize they lost a real good man because they were playing games in their early 20s, it'll already be too late bc they'll hit the wall and become sad lonely and depressed. These good men got hurt in the past but the pain makes them stronger and they eventually learn how to use that energy and channel to other things and improving their lives.
So what's the point in being in a relationship then?
This guy 100% knows his stuff. Get your power back and let these women do what they want and stand on the decisions they make, while we bring the attention and focus back to us. That is the only way to level up and make anyone regret playing games with you. We’ve gotta get colder this summer, let’s get to it👌🏽.
Big Facts💯
well said! tq👍🏽🙏🏽
Just blew seven years I'm heated 😤
He didn't steal your girlfriend, he stole what was most probably your problem.
A man usually spends so much time and money on his woman that after getting dumped he ends up feeling like a fool.
I was dumped last week. Together for 11 months. I went to chik fila and my bill was so low and it's because I'm single lol
If you miss a bus, all you can do is wait 10 minutes for the next bus.
or start walking
Bro, my bus is every 30 minutes.
When a woman breaks up with me I just find another one (if I want to). Never forget, a woman is replaceable. Nothing to lose any sleep over.
agreed
Had to learn it the heard way
Most men don't have lots of options, they don't have the abundance. That's why the teaching is important
Absolutely100%🎯
@@hagmax1531 Completely disagree with you. An over supply of women available. Ask me!
For someone who’s been in a 7 year relationship before dumping her ass, please listen to this man. Learn to have strength and composure and keep focusing yourself. What y’all are forgetting is the more of a high value man you become the more options you actually have. I like to follow a 80/20 rule and even apply this to everything in life. Regarding this, 80% of your focus is on YOU. No matter what as a man you’re #1. Non-negotiable. 20% is on women. It’s not a priority. It’s not a need. It’s a want. Understand where you invest your time. Time is currency. Therefore you want a good ROI. Stay solid Kings.
Dumb!
Do ALL of this but, _DON'T_ take her back. Move on. If she can get bored of and abandon you once, she can do it again.
Ask any woman who dumps a lot of men. The reason why being cool and saying “ok” works is bc most men either get mad, super sad or beg them not to do it which is a huge turn off. They’ll later even tell their friends and laugh about it.
When you act like it’s no big deal it intrigues them bc it’s unexpected and different. He’s right.
But if she dumped you once and you get her back she will dump you again if you don’t do it first so maybe it’s not in your best interest to do this.
Organize a party. Celebrate that you got rid of women that doesn't respect you. 🎉
Lol I did exactly this, just texted ok and she came back crying few days later. Thank god I knew this by myself
They always come back if you handle it like a man.
"Love is the delusion that one woman is different than all the others." -- H.L. Mencken.
The more you care the more she reject you always reward good behavior and punish bad behavior she will always respect you eventually focus on your goals and replace her
I was about to call my ex so we can "finish things well" since we broke up just in a stupid fight. After watched this I won't just do it. Until we randomly see each other somewhere and I am 10 times better than now.
yes, especially on the part of being 10 times better. maximize yourself in every way possible.
Am in the exact same position actually. But I wish she will contact me
After my divorce, I found my spine. Changed everything.
Wish i had a video like this 8-10 months ago.. instead i stumbled across a blue pilled marriage counselor for advice and completely destroyed my relationship. Thank you casey for doing gods work.
Gods work?? Buwahahahaha now thats funny
Casey, Corey Wayne, and Todd Valentine are killing the game!
I recently split from a woman who I thought was the one
Everything seemed great, things were flowing, there wasn’t a doubt in my mind
Then she abruptly ended things, wasn’t even a pullback, just sent me a text one morning ending things
Fortunately I went against what I wanted to do and just said “okay”
It was so hard because I wanted to react and do something to try and work it out
But I held strong, went no contact and began moving on
It was hard but it made me stronger
This was recent so I haven’t heard from her so idk if she’ll ever come back but I don’t care if she comes back and if she does she’ll have to work for my attention again
exact same situation here bro, 7 years though together and she ice cold dumped me no warning sign over text 3 days ago. I begged for a day then I stopped, apparently after 25 to 30 days they always come back if you continue to stay strong and worry about yourself. The minute they see we don't care anymore they come back. It's so hard to let go though
@@adriankelly7624 wow sorry to hear that! 7 years has got to be tough, so much time and energy invested....mine was short I can't lie but in that short period, by far the best I've ever dated, I didnt even think women treated men how she treated me any more...made me feel like a king
I hear 30 days of absence is where they really begin to question if they made the right choice, and it's best to stay strong no matter how bad we may want to check on them...I've been no contact with mine for about 30 days now (we did randomly run into each other at the mall a week ago but we didn't engage, just said hey and kept walking)
However I will say each day I did no contact my confidence actually grew, like every time I fought the urge to talk to her, was like a mental win, really built my confidence
Now I gave 3 I'm talking too right now, so I really don't care if she comes back now and if she does, she's not automatically getting her top spot back
Hope it works out for you! Stay strong
@@ingrained2train update??
@@giovannimorgan8728 about a month ago she reached out to me, first hit me with the “hey stranger hope all is well” text…I didn’t respond then the next day she sent a long text apologizing for how she ended things, said I didn’t deserve that because I was so great to her. I simply said thanks no need to apologize…I met another woman who literally checked all my boxes, and we have an amazing relationship now, so it wound up being a blessing in disguise she ended things
@@ingrained2train it seems like for most dudes it’s always a blessing in disguise. Hope it’s like that for me too.
I just got left, but when this happen I accept she was cheating on me and say "Okay" to myself, that's meant I got mentally strong, this video was really helpful, thank you man
I try not to be bitter and I find peace when I focus on self improvement and retaining lessons learned from previous relationships. People sense bitterness and there’s no place for that in my heart or yours, whoever reads this.
Made the mistake of forgiveness for my ex after she cheated, so she went and did it again... Should have gave her the gift of missing me after the first time...
Sounds like something else i know -_-
Fuck her friend
This is exactly I needed right now. Thank you Casey. Great work! I learned a lot about how to be a man with you. Working on the come back, hitting the gym twice a day, eating well and looking better, feeling better! Increasing my testosterone levels and doing the cold showers.
Man you're legend.... wish I could discover your channel 10 years back.. had fucked up life past those years dating, same mistakes, begging, misery,start fresh again, repeat the next cycle and at the end head full of questions what's so ever fucking went wrong keep thinking why?? why?? And why could she do that to me after everything we had being through together... literally your the first person am every hearing such advices and mental injection... thank you so much am preparing to be stronger now.. p.s got fucked up by a gal only last week but this time I won't repeat.
Uncle C keep at the grind like you always do. You value traditional virtues!
I totally agree. This is true for all kinds of relationships. I've always lived by this principle, I don't beg anyone to be with me, they choose to stay by my side and they'll have my loyalty as well, but they're free to leave, so I let them go - I say "okay". In my opinion, all relationship problems must be solved in the relationship. If the other person has no interest in taking your well being into consideration as much as they take theirs - or as much as you're willing to take theirs - accept the incompatibility between you two and move on. Good friendships and romantic relationships are based on mutual respect and boundaries. If someone uses threats of abandoning you if you don't act the way they want, or actually break up to make you chase them, this person don't really like you, they like the validation you give. They'll be always looking for external validation, either coming from you, or another source. Of course, I'm not saying we must be stubborn when we're wrong, self awareness is needed to understand our own flaws and recognize our mistakes. I'm referring to when the other person is being unreasonable, manipulative and/or disrespectful. This is immature selfish behavior, in the best case scenario - if you're not actually with a narcissist, 'cause it's beyond immaturity - NEVER put up with that. Have self-respect. It hurts to have someone you like/love betraying your trust or leaving you, but you have the responsibility to stand by yourself while you go through this process of grief, don't abandon yourself too, men and women.
very beautiful comment, thanks for sharing
@@badseedbdo I appreciate your compliment 😊
lost someone I was seeing for a couple of months today. This really helps thank you!
@@gaviningalls3549 It's good to know what I wrote is helpful.
As someone that went through a lot last year, I know the feeling.
I wish you the best, Gavin!
Cheers to this, well articulated. comment points 10/10!
Men have nightmares, go outside their comfort zone, overthink the living shit out of us, put in effort, make plans. Woman, just say yes or no. Goddamn life is hard.
Thanks for making this video. It helped me stay forward and focused!
Thanks for the reminder Uncle C! 👊🏻🙏🏼✨
Great video casey as always.
I need to make sure to use this my self.
Casey, thank you for your content. I sincerely needed to hear what you said in this video.
Casey thank you! I’m a one-percent-er and I’m glad you put it in a perspective where it helped me see my value even more.
your confidence is everything mate, cheers!
Maybe the best video I've ever seen from you🔥🔥
Thank you Casey
Thank u for being here man ur helping us alot
I watch him daily, guys I wish you all will win in your battles!
Such great wisdom, wish I knew this back then but oh well we live and learn 💪🏼
Why is anyone ever upset she leaves? That’s like Christmas. By the way, the best response to a woman leaving is to say, “Thank so much for bringing this up because I was thinking the same thing.” They will chase you immediately. Try it.
Have you tried it? If so, how did it work out for you?
This sounds like cope
If you react like is not important or you have other options she will chase you. You have to aswer stoic, without any emotions, cold, and leave. She will beg you in a few days for sure. Never beg or chase, instead move on to build your future.
You and develop attraction channel are the only relationship channel i trust
Just got out of a little situationship myself,,,,tbh immediately I thought how can I improve my quality of living. Much love to her but I gotta keep growing 💯
thank you! very helpful during a rough time..
Casey keep up the great work .I am a member of theMGTOW alliance at 66 I have had enough.If it's going to be hard work then I am not interested.When my wife wanted a divorce I did not contest it .Best day of my life .No more nice guy anymore.It does not work and never will .Stay strong guys guys .Work on yourself.Ve happy always.
Expensive but worth it!
The truth has been spoken!
Casey u r a contemporary prophet.
Great vids man!
Well I'm 54 years old and it's nice to have someone remind you how to be a man again. Simple things we were taught growing up but the TV and the politically correct garbage has somewhat scared the modern man . Just be a man. You're the captain she's the 1st mate if she sucks throw her overboard.
And remember health before wealth.
good on you for doing your best! its a year later and you're huge 💪
wow Casey - you da man (thumbs up on every point)
It simply works that way. Plus - believe in yourself and show confidence in your future.
Damn, this advise is so solid. I made the same mistakes, I blamed myself for mistakes I never did. Now I'm erasing my presence from her life , it'll hurt but it is necessary.
This is good advice. Now doing it is a little tougher. I’ve never had anyone take a break up like that unless it was their idea to break up. But it’s the only real hope you have of reconciling later is if you don’t let her get to you, or him.
Wish I had this dude's advice when I was in high school.
"Okay, take care" works like a charm every time. Btw... don't EVER take them back when they come crying a week later 😄
Very smart for a young guy.. Very smart in General .
Casey you are a blessing❤
Totally true, mate!
I agree 100% I learnt this after the fact
Selflove is key. 😊
Thank you bro for giving me the solution...... I was completely heartbroken.......
I can tell you from multiple experiences that this doesn’t really “work” either, but you sure feel a helluva lot better about yourself. And in the long run, you’re glad it didn’t work.
That poor dude. Just got to get back on your purpose and keep moving forward.
He will get stronger and a better man out of that for sure 💪
@@maormizrahi4192 Agree
Thanks for teaching. I am applying this right now, I called her out for posting her profile online behind my back -- its been a month of no contact back then she said for an excuse "I told you not to call my family dude idk how I feel rn thats way not okay. u crossed the line and I posted cause sometimes people help and I'm sick of asking you", no one orders me what to do. Seems she is still learning she looks like JONI MITCHELL one day I will play this song for her "don't it always seem to go that you don't know what you've got till it's gone"
Depends on the Mitsubishi. Great video.
Good video again. Thanks!
You are way too good!
Great work and video
Spitting facts.
Very good video !!
Thanks. My 3rd gf / coworker just broke up with me recently. I needed this. ☝🏾👌🏾😎😇😈
DONT date Co workers!!!
Dude Casey is a fuckjng mind reader. I literally just had this happen to me. There was no cheating, but she broke it off with me. I said OK and haven't spoken to her. But I'm having trouble moving on.
Look deep down into your self, know what you have passion for, set goals and target and you begin to feel free
Remember, Energy goes where Focus goes
You can't say okay and sit at home and hope to move on
Go hang out with thoughtful and interesting friends
Note: Do not find a Rebound ‼️
@@MasculinityR Energy goes where focus goes on spot on bro.Well said 🔥🔥.Basically we have to focus on hobbies and other activities.Once our mind becomes accustomed to it.
We can easily move on.
Oke so the best way to move on is to put your focus on your passion and literally meeting new women.
Anu dude guy etc crawling back to his ex .They will not appreciate it .I cannot stand desperate women and they will not appreciate you either .move on and find someone better
So why would you ever want to go back to that if given the chance! keep walking
Very hurt. Very damaged. Very devastated.
Wish I knew about this, I feel so embarrassed for begging a woman to stay with me,years later I'm 10 times better with myself, guess I can thank her for that.
listen to this man.
If you are in a position to say OK when she breaks with you, means you would have frame all the time and it would have never gone to this point being dumped.
The women leaves you because you lost frame since long time and when it happens it's imlossible to say OK because at that moment your frame was gone since long time.
Frame equals high levels of testosterone which brings an attiutude of not giving a fuck which women love.
No testosterone, no frame, equals break up.
Attraction is very simple and based on biology and the best form of biology are male and female hornones.
If over analyzing was a person! ☝️
Hallelujah my beautiful woman came back.
she got upset I talked to her dad she told me not to -- after 2 years.
I stayed in my man frame even when I was hurting inside.
she found out a month ago Im seeing another girl.
no woman orders me, she admitted her mistake.
God bless everyone.
So she's your girl again?? How did it happen?
Good take.
U just gave me a mindset
My woman or Ex just up and left me after 10 years. It's been 2 to 3 weeks now and I still can't heal. I'm so heartbroken and trying hard to find inner strength. I feel like I lost myself completely 😔💔
I’ve been there dude. You need to stay strong. Feel what you have to feel, as fast as possible. Study your last 10 years and analyse where you fucked up your masculinity. Force yourself to date other women, take care of your body, let time heal and remove her from your future ideals
Johnny, it's only a short time. You were with her 10 yrs. Chill out and don't contact her.
After 10 years together, 2-3 weeks later may as well be the same day it happened. Unfortunately it will take a while for the grief to pass but stay strong & don't contact her. Eventually she will realize the mistake she made. Hang in man.....
Love this Guy
thank you Casey Zander for your constant support
Casey zander is giving me South African vibes pay careful attention to his speech if you're from SA🤔🇿🇦
No he's a mongoloid... probably east coast...
It's hard when she has a handicap and you're not trying to be in a reactive state. It's difficult to lead when you have to continuously have to recalibrate to her state of being and stamina
Men with a future, and women without a past!
Facts. But better to be alone. Woman will always realize to late.
You shouldn't have to fight to get someone to stay with you. If you have to do that, they aren't the One your looking for. This person doesn't really respect you, so why do you want to fight for someone that doesn't really respect you.
Everyone has a right to like, or dislike you, and people rarely ever change. So trying to supposedly win someone back is extremely likely to fail, and if you do get them back, it's likely to be only temporary. Either way, your very likely wasting you time, and life on someone who doesn't really look at you, as you look at them, and why would you want to be with someone like that??
The One for you should be easy, because they will be as interested in you, as you are in them. You should have very similar likes, and dislikes. You should want to be around this person, want to experience things with them all the time. Attraction will only get you so far in a relationship, eventually, you'll see the real person behind the beauty, and your likely not going to like them.
If you're looking just for s3x, then none of the above matters. If you're looking for the One, a relationship for life, then attraction is only the first step.
If you got dumped, that's a sign hitting you over the head, that she's not the One, and move on. It's her life, and she doesn't think your her One, or she found someone else to give her bigger treats, either way, she isn't your One. So understand that, and move on. Finding the One isn't easy, but when you do find the One, it should be easy. Because it should be natural to be with them.
Don't change yourself into something you think that they want, because people can rarely really change, so you'll eventually get tired, and relax, and go back to who you really are, at that point, the relationship will probably start to sink. Don't set yourself up like that. If she doesn't like the real you, then she's not the One. There is a reason why divorce rates are so high, because attraction only goes so far. Eventually, you're going to be in the same room with someone, you wouldn't even want as a friend, because your likes, and dislikes so don't match. Yet, you gave this person the most important position in your life....... huh! Doesn't make sense does it.
EXCELLENT COMMENT !!! You're "spot on" CORRECT in your "thinking" !!!
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This is an awesome comment thanks
Great video
Thursday night 21 April 2022. Thanks, Casey.
Thanks Casey so I've been talking to this chick for a week and she was so open to me, I've noticed in the past few days she hasn't been messaging me alot as she was the good thing I haven't asked her anything I'm just waiting to see what's next and I exactly know what to do if she feels it's not working out thanks to you.
Texting a woman on phone a lot, or everyday is validating her too much. She will start to see herself on a pedestal and feel she's better than you. You have to behave high value, that your time is precious. She hasn't earned that level of attention. How she earns it? She shows burning desire by meeting you on a date. She complies by action. If she doesn't comply and makes excuses, she has no burning desire for you, there's someone else in the picture or she just wanted attention, validation to boost her ego by wasting your time.
While I agree with everything you said, most will watch this and go through the motions of saying "ok" and pretending to move on while not actually moving on. This video is like giving dynamite to children.
This can also be true.
Moving on is a process but in that moment saying ok is the best thing.
Then after that we will have emotions about. But in that process we need to pause and reflect on how we was in that relationship and look to where we was not in our proper frame.
Once we see that with clarity we also say ok to our self. Then look at that as a guide as a lesson for self improvement.
Then turn our focus toward self improving in our self and our actions.
While also putting our self back on our purpose with a stronger zeal for that success.
Then give that some time for progress made then get back out their and meet new people and try agian.
Well pretending to is better than getting all crybaby or butthurt
Thank you bro
Good work
I did everything wrong although I knew what I was supposed to do but I wasn't strong enough. It was in a poor mental situation and deep in conflict mith myself. That's why I couldn't resist to act like a fool and embarrasse myself.
If you want to be a strong man inside a relationship and you want to stay strong whenever she lives you, you must enter the relationship as a confident man that has choices. Otherwise it will end like my relationship. Build yourself before you chose to settle down otherwise she will leave you 100% . It's women's nature if you like it or not
good lesson
MY MAN.
The part about a woman breaking up with you and you simply say OK, also is the best advice you can get. I don't care if you are a more emotional dude and hurt or whatever. Say ok, leave and then vent to a close friend or family member and move on.
From personal experience i will say something you shouldn't do. I am able to detach emotionally when it comes to betrayal pretty quickly, so when i found out my GF at the time had cheated on me, I knew it was over. Ended it, and hooked up with 2 of her 5 closest friends over the next 10 days before i moved out. I did this bc i could and knew these two were into me. I didn't tell her about it or rub it in her face bc i pretty much knew she would find out eventually as women can't keep secrets and talk. This happened in my early 20s, and I would not do it again. While it felt great in the moment, it actually created more drama in my life (which i hate), and ended up ruining some mutual friendships when i had to cut others out to get away from it. Sad part is this ex still dm's me and tries to "reconnect" and this happened almost 8 years ago.
Absolutely!
Nice I like what you are doing. ,✌️✌️👍👍👌👌
2:33 true for every man thats coming here.
Excellent advice that recognizes the emotional dynamics of 21st century women. But given its truth why would any man have difficulty detaching from them and instead construct his self-worth subject to their capricious feelings?
Bro I have a "friend" who his girlfriend dumped him. He was (and he is) very needy and wants to be with her 24/7. That's crazy. He is like I gave you a 700$ compromise ring, Versace bag, I bought you all this dinners... I told him what to do... but he still does needy behaviour. Even I am thinking to leave him as a friend because I really feel his needyness with me too as friends!
Send him this video
don't leave him in that situation Sir ..he needs you ..we dont know soon you will experience what he has experience from his girlfriend..
💯 all this even if you have built a home and family together I did the opposite at first and looked perfetic listen to this guys and learn 💯