Laird Hamilton: Bullied by racists at school

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  • Big-wave surfer Laird Hamilton on being bullied for looking different than most of his Hawaiian classmates and the final straw after Hamilton retaliated to a bully who slammed his head against a desk.
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  • @Longjohnsilver58
    @Longjohnsilver58 Před 2 lety +28

    High School is the closest any of us will ever come to experiencing prison.

  • @sanddirtsnow
    @sanddirtsnow Před rokem +14

    Growing up with a white dad in Hawaii I saw so much prejudice and racism. It was fucked being a helpless kid seeing my dad get attacked for pumping gas by massive Hawaiians, but luckily my dad is 6'2 220 and grew up wrestling and boxing all his life. I got in like 8 or 9 fights in hawaii and have witnessed dozens more, moved to the mainland in high school and probably only saw 2 fights in a span of 4 years. Crazy how many more fights went down on the islands

  • @DrNoth
    @DrNoth Před 6 lety +283

    Thats the story of every white kid growing up in Hawaii unless your family is rich and you go to Punahou or another private school.

    • @talksolot
      @talksolot Před 5 lety +10

      go back to your country ahole

    • @finnthehuman28
      @finnthehuman28 Před 4 lety +28

      @@talksolot lol i know what word you were actually trying to say and you cant even be racist the right way. Settle down sis

    • @A_K808
      @A_K808 Před 4 lety

      big dog amazing, every word that you just said in that third sentence is wrong.

    • @ultimatefirecracker1486
      @ultimatefirecracker1486 Před 4 lety +7

      DrNoth go back to your country dont cry like a cow if the tables are turned in the US you can have your white privilege back

    • @jusbring610
      @jusbring610 Před 4 lety +1

      Yup

  • @d.tesneair5805
    @d.tesneair5805 Před 4 lety +28

    Making it "way too much work" is an awesome defense against bullies, win or lose.

  • @lisaalexander3298
    @lisaalexander3298 Před 5 lety +157

    I was born and raised on the Big Island. I am part Hawaiian, but because I am fair skin, I was treated as a “frickin haole from the mainland”.
    It was a hard lesson growing up being hated because of the color of my skin but also having the roots and the heritage of the islands.
    The one thing it did teach me is that it does not matter about the color of your skin, but who you are in the inside.
    It taught me to respect EVERYONE I meet across the board no matter what their Nationality, age, size, personal preferences are.
    That does not matter to me, it’s simply on who the person is and their integrity and how they treat others.

    • @jdenmark1287
      @jdenmark1287 Před 5 lety +10

      As a fellow Big Islander, I am so sorry that had happened to you. Not surprised though.

    • @abbynormall207
      @abbynormall207 Před 5 lety +14

      It happens to white kids/white people on US mexico border towns also.

    • @tomasrosser3433
      @tomasrosser3433 Před 5 lety

      Excuses me . how do you live? Hawaiian? Haule? Living among us?

    • @abbynormall207
      @abbynormall207 Před 5 lety

      @@tomasrosser3433 ?

    • @abbynormall207
      @abbynormall207 Před 5 lety +4

      @@tomasrosser3433 so it's ok to be racist?

  • @Furious_George
    @Furious_George Před 4 lety +90

    I grew up on Maui. He speaks the truth. I was the little sunburned haole boy charging the biggest swells. And getting hated on by the guys with no balls on shore... 🤷🏼‍♂️ lol

    • @Furious_George
      @Furious_George Před 4 lety +8

      Ordinary Guy never said I was bullied. Just a bunch of losers like yourself hating on good peeps. If that’s who you want to be, great. Go fuck yourself 👌

    • @Furious_George
      @Furious_George Před 3 lety +11

      Shot Uce I disagree. You think things would be better if Japan took the islands in ww2? Someone who has respect for the locals and land isn’t welcome because the color of their skin? No offense but that’s a bs perspective you have...

    • @Furious_George
      @Furious_George Před 3 lety +5

      Shot Uce lol run shit? Get a clue bro

    • @Furious_George
      @Furious_George Před 3 lety +5

      Shot Uce you’re a racist fuck. Karmas a bitch...

    • @Furious_George
      @Furious_George Před 3 lety +6

      Shot Uce that’s an apology? Ha work on your people skills bro

  • @brittanycecile
    @brittanycecile Před 3 lety +13

    I am haole born and raised in Hawaii. And my entire childhood was terrible

  • @JohannGambolputty22
    @JohannGambolputty22 Před 3 lety +56

    I’m a white guy who lived in Hawaii for a couple years. I left specifically because I just knew I would always be treated like an outsider. Beautiful place but that wears off quicker than you think. Love that I got to live there but I also love that I don’t have to live there. Aloha spirit is only skin deep. People are more passive aggressive there.

    • @brennenlobitos9857
      @brennenlobitos9857 Před 3 lety +2

      You guys are sensitive as hell in Hawaii we treat it as a joke but it’s far different back in the mainland you guys take everything so seriously

    • @PeepersT
      @PeepersT Před 2 lety +3

      Maybe you didn’t pass a vibe check

    • @prometheus5770
      @prometheus5770 Před 2 lety +1

      yeah whiteboi polynesians are still men and would protect their land but you got degenerated by subversive powers so you kneel to other races. you truly deserve how hawaiians treat you.

    • @JohannGambolputty22
      @JohannGambolputty22 Před 2 lety +7

      @@prometheus5770 And because of people like you I laugh when I hear about how racist white people are. You are no different than the KKK. Enjoy your hateful hypocrisy.

    • @prometheus5770
      @prometheus5770 Před 2 lety +2

      @@JohannGambolputty22 I am a middle easterner

  • @nickmc4550
    @nickmc4550 Před 4 lety +44

    I grew up in Hawaii I’m black and white but I look white and kids and ppl there were friggin brutal same experience as him and then some treated me like straight shit from day 1 4/5 yrs old all the way through high school.. growing up there builds effin character I tell yah.. lol

  • @reionic8925
    @reionic8925 Před 6 lety +36

    Great interview Graham! He seems like a badass dude keep up the good work man

  • @leesenger3094
    @leesenger3094 Před rokem +7

    I grew up in Hawaii. I lived in Haleiwa, Salt Lake and Aiea. I had to fight frequently all through school simply for being haole. Maybe I didn’t have to fight but I got tired of running from Hawaiians and Samoans and Japanese kids who hated me for just being white. So I stopped running and started fighting. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. That’s why I never back down from a confrontation to this day! Don’t start no sh!t, won’t be any. Gratitude Hawaii for the early lesson.
    I deplore violence now that I’m 51. But, I will always defend mine 100%!

  • @bgwhalley
    @bgwhalley Před 5 lety +62

    Did he call it, "Kidney-Garden?" 0:37

  • @clarkewi
    @clarkewi Před 3 lety +2

    Great interviews.

  • @yZstarAk1979
    @yZstarAk1979 Před 2 měsíci

    Righton Laird. Good interview, fortunate soundbytes. From schoolyard fights to death defying barrel rides; You rule bra. See you on North Shore🤙

  • @gabe5138
    @gabe5138 Před 3 lety +10

    “Didnt I hear that you tossed all the desks out the window?”
    Laird: “Absolutely *nodding head like it was an accomplishment*” hahahaha

  • @michaelkraus4135
    @michaelkraus4135 Před 4 lety +9

    He would of made a GREAT Linebacker or free safety ! He is half crazy !

  • @danielcolon2193
    @danielcolon2193 Před 3 lety +33

    Ignorance lives in every skin color man. Do the right thing! Love to all! 🌞🌊

    • @littlellama8405
      @littlellama8405 Před 3 lety +6

      Yea, in particular the people that colonized and oppressed the native population than use their culture to get rich and famous while laughing at captain cook and American colonization.

    • @robbingpetertopaypaul
      @robbingpetertopaypaul Před 2 lety +4

      @@littlellama8405 everyone is mixed up now, grow up

    • @littlellama8405
      @littlellama8405 Před 2 lety +1

      @@robbingpetertopaypaul really that's your answer? I'm mixed. But I for sure know I have more privileges than my black family. Don't give some fake equality comment.

    • @robbingpetertopaypaul
      @robbingpetertopaypaul Před 2 lety +2

      @@littlellama8405 yeah like complaining 😂

    • @littlellama8405
      @littlellama8405 Před 2 lety +2

      @@robbingpetertopaypaul complaining or educating? Obviously you think only your voice needs to be heard. What do you reckon we do, kill all the white people and take their land like you did to us? Or talk it out and empathize with the situation? Yea, you're so privileged you ain't got shit. Keep talking smack till we meet on the beach and see which option you go for. I sure hope you're 6'6 and up so people don't act a Karen.

  • @mattilevi
    @mattilevi Před 4 lety +30

    He’s right. The school system IS messed up. If someone assaults you in public, you call the cops and that person is arrested. If you are assaulted in school, there is nothing you can do without getting punished. They don’t arrest the student that assaults you. Cops don’t deal with assaults in school. You try to defend yourself, you get in in trouble and ultimately punished by the school as well. It’s a sad situation.

    • @love_agapi_m3976
      @love_agapi_m3976 Před 4 lety +2

      I was physically and verbally attacked in hawaii at 7 years old the first time. They didn’t do anything.

    • @littlellama8405
      @littlellama8405 Před 3 lety +2

      Maybe they should check the colonizer system.

    • @shoyupacket5572
      @shoyupacket5572 Před 2 lety +1

      that's how it is, local kids are taught how to defend themselves, not to expect some adult to help you.

    • @princessruth9155
      @princessruth9155 Před 2 lety

      Dude I know laird really well and he was an asshole to everyone so the locals used to beat him up. Now I see hes all entitled and famous & STILL an asshole, and the narrative changes. That guy bullied me everyday in school. Don't be fooled. And BTW how does he purport to own a beach? Who is the racist brah? Racism is a power tool. Hawaiians dont have the power here. Come on this is always the fragile stuff where hawaiians r racists. Who benefits here in our homeland? Certainly not us. #deoccupythehawaiiankingdomnation

    • @princessruth9155
      @princessruth9155 Před 2 lety +1

      @@littlellama8405 right on. #colonizernarrative

  • @johnny6904
    @johnny6904 Před rokem +3

    I grew up here in hawaii and married a haole girl from the mainland. My son looks pretty much full white.
    We've always home-schooled him because I know exactly what he'll get in hawaii public schools!

    • @mitch511
      @mitch511 Před rokem

      Must be proud to be "Hawaiian" lol.... "your" island is a joke and ur culture is weak and can't even keep ur own land lol.

  • @franksantos8494
    @franksantos8494 Před 6 lety +4

    Graham has an energy that puts his subject at ease, thus revealing their true self, great interviews and information, thanks!

    • @WAYNETALK
      @WAYNETALK Před 6 lety

      Frank Santos subscribe to me and I will subscribe back

  • @markbilodeau3312
    @markbilodeau3312 Před 3 lety +2

    Graham you are the best every interview is beautiful

  • @khultherro8613
    @khultherro8613 Před 5 lety +28

    Laird is actually lucky he grew up in Kauai. Oahu in town like Farrington High, or the West side at Wainae, or North Shore at Kahuku High he would have been jumped. There is hardly a one on one fight if you were winning. "Kill Haole Day," was a day where the whites would avoid going to school. Oahu schools were large schools compared to the small island of Kauai.

    • @LC-tr4ou
      @LC-tr4ou Před 5 lety +4

      Maybe one day haole will come in on kill haole day with a AK-47 and spray as many bullies and bullshitasses as possible not like is hasn't happened before.

    • @khultherro8613
      @khultherro8613 Před 5 lety +6

      L C . . .NAH! Not happening in Hawaii. Guns are for the weak and losers.

    • @tomasrosser3433
      @tomasrosser3433 Před 5 lety +1

      Uh i watch fights on youtube... No we fight one on one. Your full of shit! Most of the time.

    • @love_agapi_m3976
      @love_agapi_m3976 Před 4 lety +4

      OMG so true worse in Oahu. Though for some reason that I will always be grateful the Samoans always defended me. They volunteered to protect me bc they saw that I wasn’t stuck up or think I was better because I looked 100% white

    • @khultherro8613
      @khultherro8613 Před 4 lety +3

      Aloha If no violence on Kill Haole Day, it is because the haoles stayed away from school on that day. What school you went to?? Probably Kalani, Kaimuki, or school on the rich side of Oahu. Very few haoles in the inner city PUBLIC schools.

  • @cartoonkiller8805
    @cartoonkiller8805 Před 5 lety +56

    i was a white kid that grew up on oahu. you learn how to fight young. im one of the few white ppl that understands racism

    • @molonlabe459
      @molonlabe459 Před 4 lety +3

      I grew up in Detroit. No youre not asshole

    • @BrockLanders
      @BrockLanders Před 4 lety +31

      I grew up in Philly. The black people here are openly racist towards whites. That’s why I don’t buy into their BS victim mentality.

    • @Resistculturaldecline
      @Resistculturaldecline Před 4 lety +2

      It's as prevalent or moreso than the traditionally spoken racism, but a tight hush is kept on it

    • @thesaint8400
      @thesaint8400 Před 4 lety +24

      Try growing up in South Africa bru. We have no rights here, no access to public sector jobs, our farmers are literally experiencing systematic genocide. No one cares.

    • @shin-ishikiri-no
      @shin-ishikiri-no Před 4 lety +10

      @@thesaint8400 If I were white in South Africa I would seek asylum in Europe.

  • @db2184
    @db2184 Před rokem +1

    "Welll...it started the very first day of school!" 😂😂

  • @George-pw7md
    @George-pw7md Před 6 lety +14

    I spent the first 12 years of my life on the Big Island Hawaii and I dealt with racism on the regular. Wasn't too too bad though because my family was local.

    • @George-pw7md
      @George-pw7md Před 4 lety

      @Ordinary Guy Yeah, little bit, but I liked it. Good luck to you. You seem happy.

    • @jimjones3286
      @jimjones3286 Před 3 lety

      All your fighter you send to guam get thier asses whooped. Come to guam prim.

    • @George-pw7md
      @George-pw7md Před 3 lety

      @@jimjones3286 You seem really happy, man. Good luck to you.

  • @stevenculliton9112
    @stevenculliton9112 Před 5 lety +11

    Same here! Went to school on Oahu, 60s - 70s. Worst was Jr. High. I made friends with Larry Bertlemann , we had Wood shop together. He became what they called a Backer, I was seen with him, nobody screwed with me anymore.

    • @johnhunt2390
      @johnhunt2390 Před 4 lety

      What is a backer?

    • @stevenculliton9112
      @stevenculliton9112 Před 4 lety +7

      @@johnhunt2390 A local that you are good friends with, that has your back if anyone Fucks with you, like a Bodyguard so to speak, word got around, then they usually left you alone. They didn't Accept you, just left you alone.because you were friends with So and So ! Helped Alot.

    • @SuperElite27000000
      @SuperElite27000000 Před 3 lety +2

      @@stevenculliton9112 Yeah ok, so when a non-white moves into a predominantly white area they should find a "backer" as well and just accept the same terms as you did (or is that different?)

    • @stevenculliton9112
      @stevenculliton9112 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SuperElite27000000 That was kid stuff, in school, along time ago.. I'm not sure of your parameters? I would say make some friends as soon as possible, don't distance yourself. That gives a Negative vibe. Had some White Neighbors move in the Neighborhood that wouldn't talk to Anyone, They quickly got labeled, Too Good, Or Snobs ! To me a Friend is a friend regardless of Race, when doing stuff i don't even think, oh! John is Black or Fred is a Mexican. I worked with Jessie for 15 years, went to each others house, partied, everything. Only thing I did lay a Joke or too on him that would for sure be considered Racist Today! He would just come back with something like, F--k you, Pollock ! But in trying to answer your question, I would try to Find Friends , Not so much as a Tough Guy Backer, so as not to be cindered a Outsider ? I'm sure it sounds easier that it really is ? There are Good and Bad People all over, all kinds, makes and models , The choice is Yours, how to proceed.

    • @baguazhang2
      @baguazhang2 Před rokem

      @@stevenculliton9112 Hawaiian society sounds way too rigid. If you're white, you can't prefer to spend time with yourself or your family. You need to have a relaxed looking attitude and appearance, or you give off a "bad vibe" and people hate you.

  • @StreetTruckinTitan
    @StreetTruckinTitan Před 6 lety +5

    I you dont show fear to a bully or stand up to him / them it takes away their power over you. You might get your ass kicked but its better than being a ongoing target. At least theyll have some respect to you and will move to another target.

  • @jackstrada5263
    @jackstrada5263 Před 5 lety +47

    I was born and raised on Kauai and grew up with Laird. He is a few years older than me, and I looked up to him. He would always have the new issue of Conan the barbarian magazine, and we would look at it after school. He ended up lifting weights and becoming Conan, came back to Kauai and tuned up all the guys that used to f with him 🤣. Our dads were among a handful of surfers that moved over from California in the late 50s early 60s. They had it worse than us, by far. But going to Hanalei school I was bullied every day too. Then we moved to California after the hurricane hit in 81. In third grade I was bullying everyone in my school in San Diego, even the six graders. At recess I used to invite kids to line up and punch me in the stomach as hard as they could. After dealing with the big Hawaiians the kids in Cali we’re not intimidating at all. Then we moved back to Maui, and in ninth grade I made the mistake of beating up a local kid in my grade. For the rest of high school all his older brothers and cousins and friends we’re constantly trying to fight me. During lunch, waiting for the bus in the morning, getting off at my bus stop after school.The funniest part is after high school we all came really good friends. All the bullying and stuff really seems to be a school related thing.

    • @love_agapi_m3976
      @love_agapi_m3976 Před 4 lety +5

      I have found that it goes past school. Racism and bullies don’t always grow up after schools and they just continue

    • @spants1058
      @spants1058 Před 3 lety +1

      Ordinary Guy how do you know? Where you there? Uh, no.

    • @love_agapi_m3976
      @love_agapi_m3976 Před 3 lety +1

      s pants no I think he is local boy who doesn’t want to acknowledge the truth. Locals act like racism is only happens to them and that they are not racist or they still have the right to be. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi Před 3 lety +1

      This story took so many twists, but glad to hear you guys became friends

    • @g00dnatur3
      @g00dnatur3 Před 2 lety +2

      two wrong dont make a right -- don reciprocate the hate - end the bullying cycle

  • @jasonfernandez2035
    @jasonfernandez2035 Před 4 lety +2

    Where can I find the full interview? All I can find is clips from interview. I’d rather watch the full interview than a few minutes at a time...

  • @LoganCharlesII
    @LoganCharlesII Před 5 lety +5

    1:25 How Graham is looking at him

  • @alexcarter8807
    @alexcarter8807 Před 4 lety +9

    I grew up in Hawaii and had plenty of resentment but here on the mainland where I am now, I've heard story after story about how the kids here pick on each other here too ... just as bad stuff. So now I realize I could have grown up on the mainland and gone to an all-white school and get just as picked on for some other stupid reason. And as far as that goes, I'm not entirely white so I'd probably have gotten picked on for that.

    • @salmineo4132
      @salmineo4132 Před 2 lety

      Give the land back to the people you thieves

    • @honkeyness9427
      @honkeyness9427 Před 11 měsíci

      No - whites are the most tolerant of all groups

  • @islndaze
    @islndaze Před 3 lety +1

    1:24 interviewer looked dumbfounded, like Capt cook did that? I don't believe you lol

  • @TropicalGardenGuy
    @TropicalGardenGuy Před 3 lety +1

    Same thing happened to me!

  • @Hepkat11
    @Hepkat11 Před 3 lety +9

    Clearly you are a survivor.

  • @todd92371
    @todd92371 Před 2 lety +4

    " I threw him out the window..... it was one story of course." lol lol lol. Bad ass.

  • @chadtellevik5479
    @chadtellevik5479 Před 5 lety +19

    Oh man I heard Laird tell a story once of walking up to a bigger kid that was giving him a hard time. Laird smacks him across the face hard. The kid left him alone after that.

  • @pomoney34
    @pomoney34 Před 3 lety +1

    This is the way...(Manadalorian quote)

  • @xfighterband265
    @xfighterband265 Před 5 lety +17

    Try growing up in New York when Roots came out!
    you want a story I'll give you a real story!

    • @alexcarter8807
      @alexcarter8807 Před 4 lety +1

      I grew up in Hawaii and when Roots came out we watched it every night on TV. At least to me, it was how people coped with being discriminated against etc., I found it very inspiring.

    • @mrzed2349
      @mrzed2349 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm a new Yorker . Everybody is brutal in our city. That's what I love about my city

  • @billybaugus1249
    @billybaugus1249 Před rokem +1

    I have read about how people learned not to fuck with Laird pretty quick. I quote i read from Billy Hamilton went something like sometimes you want to smack Laird but you don't because Laird will beat the shit out of you. It was from a great book called The Big Drop. I highly recommend it. All about different big wave surfers and the hairy moments they find themselves in

  • @bigislander72
    @bigislander72 Před 5 lety +8

    Where is it that he said something like growing up he used to wish he was born Hawaiian because everything in the culture that was beautiful and good was...and being white was so undesirable.
    My feelings exactly growing up.

  • @joeblow1942
    @joeblow1942 Před rokem +1

    I lived on Maui and Kauai and the racism towards whites was INTENSE.

  • @norrinradd8923
    @norrinradd8923 Před 2 lety +1

    It's a rude awakening Hawaii is a very racist state if you're not a Polynesian.......

  • @prometheus5770
    @prometheus5770 Před 2 lety +3

    sjw s never speak of this somehow

  • @Californiansurfer
    @Californiansurfer Před 4 lety +2

    I grew up in shepersvil Kentucky, I had same experience, but the whole south if your black or other racism is normal.

    • @latinolawdog5067
      @latinolawdog5067 Před 3 lety +1

      Racism is normal anywhere in the world where humans exist. Period.

    • @georgejackson2631
      @georgejackson2631 Před 11 měsíci

      Which is why races should be kept separate.

  • @chrismak4859
    @chrismak4859 Před 5 lety +9

    He just needs a big board with lots more rocker!!!

  • @justinherbert9146
    @justinherbert9146 Před rokem +7

    I am white and was a victim of racism in high school where I was a minority, the majority of the student population was black - the black students would threaten me daily, take my money and hurl racist words at me -- I never complained to my parents or teachers, I took it -- but what it taught me was that no race has the market cornered on racism and cruel mean spirited behavior. Did I allow it to scar me? Hell no. It has had zero lingering effect on me -- but when I was going to marry and start a family I moved to rural, zero crime community with great schools so my children would never endure what i did -- and they did not

  • @analopeee
    @analopeee Před 4 lety +6

    luckily he wasn't on Oahu lollll

    • @anuetognaci1303
      @anuetognaci1303 Před 4 lety +7

      obamayomama9 I was born and raised in Oahu , I’m 19 and was always seen as a Haole to everyone there. My own family on my moms Polynesian side would call me Haole too. I never really felt welcomed anywhere because of what I looked like and because I truly knew how everyone felt about me looking white.

  • @davedave83
    @davedave83 Před 6 lety +19

    kindy-garden

  • @Xrplovr
    @Xrplovr Před 4 lety +4

    I bet barry wasnt getting beat down at Punahou

  • @SchuylerEByrne
    @SchuylerEByrne Před 3 lety +8

    Laird has come a long way...proud of him. He's giving the "lifestyle" of being a surfer a whole new meaning.

    • @princessruth9155
      @princessruth9155 Před 2 lety

      Hes a bully he was in school and its people like u that make shit up that makes him even worse. Lyon is the pono brother.

  • @danfloros4267
    @danfloros4267 Před 6 lety +6

    LH..LEGEND

  • @coopzpak485
    @coopzpak485 Před 3 lety +9

    I didn"'t know people from hawaii were like this.

    • @DS40764
      @DS40764 Před 2 lety +1

      Not all ,but some

    • @garysnow1475
      @garysnow1475 Před 2 lety

      In Hawaii whites get their asses kicked not just by the Hawaiians but by the Japanese and the Filipinos anybody really! In Southern California you get your ass beat by the Mexicans and blacks white people are victims everywhere. I'm sorry if that goes against The narrative of white gangs beating up on poor little minorities.

    • @alleyk9508
      @alleyk9508 Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah that’s crazy, this is the first I ever heard of it, I always thought Hawaiians were friendly . Guess not at all 🤷‍♀️

  • @pureposture
    @pureposture Před 2 lety

    Sounds like prison

  • @taivo5753
    @taivo5753 Před rokem

    I thought this was a Roger Federer interview 😮

  • @jansa940
    @jansa940 Před 4 lety +6

    I am white and grew up in a town with mostly white kids. Guess what people got picked on and beat up all the time for a variety of things, not because of skin color. You always have a percentage of any group that is dysfunctional, more often due to their home life. That is why I don't like the trend today of catering to parents of children that have emotional and discipline issues. They used to send kids like this to a special school, for students with discipline problems. It's too disruptive to the education process and often you will have other kids following their bad examples.

  • @azzamatic4190
    @azzamatic4190 Před 6 lety +36

    You don't know what it's like, being little, middle class and white

    • @johaunallen5284
      @johaunallen5284 Před 6 lety +7

      Azzamatic you don't know what its like being black and living in the hood

    • @pgmjoker
      @pgmjoker Před 5 lety +3

      Gotta love Ben folds

    • @user-wk8co4vh4c
      @user-wk8co4vh4c Před 4 lety +2

      @@johaunallen5284 "in the hood" lmfao

  • @99iwaena
    @99iwaena Před 2 lety +6

    My young brother in-law was a part Hawaiian with blond hair blue eyes. One day I was passing the school and seen him walking home away from the school and crying! That’s when he told me he was bullied and picked on constantly! Well, on that very day it was the last-time anybody bullied him, once they found out who he’s related too. 🤙🏽

  • @dylanweinandflannery1406
    @dylanweinandflannery1406 Před 4 lety +1

    1:27 mark

  • @stevenculliton9112
    @stevenculliton9112 Před 5 lety +2

    Barry Satori doesn't ring any bells. That was a long time ago! Was friends with Mark Liddell and grew up/started Surfing with Buttons! Started school at Jefferson Elementary, cant remember the name of the JR. High? Wonder Why? Ha! I did 10th grade at McKinley and start of the 11th till we moved to Florida. Wow! Good Old Days!

    • @caseylevins9900
      @caseylevins9900 Před 5 lety

      Steven Culliton If you went to Jefferson Elementary and McKinley High you probably went to Central Intermediate.

    • @stevenculliton9112
      @stevenculliton9112 Před 5 lety

      @@caseylevins9900 Thanks, That sounds like it. Was a Tough School, at least the first year. It was 1968,69 and 70?

    • @stevenculliton9112
      @stevenculliton9112 Před 2 lety

      @@caseylevins9900 Just remembered, I went to Washington middle, had shop Classes with Larry Bertlemann, became friends, that was helpful at McKinley later.

  • @johnhurst9534
    @johnhurst9534 Před 3 lety +2

    3 fights in Hana last 25 years because I am white, the last being Dec 2020

    • @johnhurst9534
      @johnhurst9534 Před 3 lety

      Keep items of value out of vehicle sightseeing. If on dirt roads off main highway, don't stop to talk with anyone. You will be fine yes much respect to locals

  • @TheBoss-gc1uk
    @TheBoss-gc1uk Před 4 lety +2

    2:21 yes it did. His stuttering says it all 😱😬

  • @VGLV888
    @VGLV888 Před 3 lety +1

    ☑️✅

  • @DRUMNICOdotcom
    @DRUMNICOdotcom Před 4 lety +1

    scrub.

  • @subarutime5089
    @subarutime5089 Před 3 lety

    I tgink when you do crazy shit it makes you more hamsome

  • @deanpesci5736
    @deanpesci5736 Před 4 lety +12

    I got plunked down in Ewa Beach as a junior in high school from California, and I can certainly relate. Borderline life threatening at times. Helped a lot when I met up with some of the other haoles in the hood that had been there awhile and taught me the needed survival skills. Ewa Beach was a tough place back then. Hawaiians, Japanese, Phillipino, Samoan, and every mix of them all. Freakin' crazy. You look at some guy in a way he perceives as not cool, which wasn't exactly hard to do, and it could mean an instant ass kicking. "Whatchyoufuckinglookingathaoleboy"?!!

    • @8x167
      @8x167 Před 4 lety +1

      I’m Hawaiian but born n raised I the country side and we hate those ewa scrubs.

    • @love_agapi_m3976
      @love_agapi_m3976 Před 4 lety +1

      You can get it trouble for breathing. I mean that literally

    • @rabbitazteca23
      @rabbitazteca23 Před 2 lety

      lmaoooo. I can just imagine them saying that to a white boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @raidahh
      @raidahh Před rokem

      u fault cuhz, y u kam down here u haole boy

    • @leesenger3094
      @leesenger3094 Před rokem

      You giving me stink eye or what? You wan beef? I broke yo face haole boi! Ah the dreamy days of youth on the islands

  • @quattro4468
    @quattro4468 Před 3 lety +1

    And this is not even considering the japanese who think themselves of royalty in hawaii.

  • @Laflareup1017
    @Laflareup1017 Před rokem

    Hawaii is the most racist place I've ever lived. People think middle american rednecks are bad, live in Hawaii and you'll find out

  • @coreyfalo3939
    @coreyfalo3939 Před 5 lety +6

    I'm Puerto Rican and moved to Hawaii ..my husband is a huge Samoan who grew up here and didn't warn me about the racism..and I got called haole ( spelled wring) and had no idea what that was...I felt they were so dumb they don't know how to tell a white from a Hispanic so I didn't take offense..

    • @libertydefenders8276
      @libertydefenders8276 Před 5 lety +12

      Hispanics can be white. I think its you who is dumb if you don't know that SPain is a WHITE country. YOu look pretty white to me!!! All people are racist, especially jews and non whites. whites are lEAST racist people.

    • @Lopezflies888
      @Lopezflies888 Před 4 lety

      Half white half Mex here....girl same LOL

    • @Lopezflies888
      @Lopezflies888 Před 4 lety +2

      @@libertydefenders8276 Dam your ignorant as fk. Hispanics come from Native backgrounds, hence why alot LOOK Asian.

    • @darrellpasion6933
      @darrellpasion6933 Před 4 lety +5

      @Tim 0341 umm, you're wrong, they're actually some Puerto Ricans of full European decent that has no indigenous or african blood in them.

    • @darrellpasion6933
      @darrellpasion6933 Před 4 lety +2

      Its because you're a white Hispanic, if you look white youre labeled as a haole in hawaii it doesnt matter what you're nationality is.

  • @jahineverybody
    @jahineverybody Před rokem

    I can’t say how growing up there is, youth can be brutal, but as an adult I’ve has an amazing time with the locals. Granted, I’m white, but I’m very dark skin, Rasta, with long beard and dreadlocks down to my thighs… I have a great memory from a time I was surfing, and had stashed some coconuts I gathered, and half opened in the brush. Big group of locals see me get out the ocean. Say my prayers and thanks for being able to ride the sea.. go get my coconut out the brush, finish opening on a rock. And drink coconut.. they couldn’t believe. Call me over. I talk to the elders, they say “everyone come meet Todd. He a Haole but he act more Hawaiian then most of you” 😅😂🤣.

  • @bighawaiianpunch3534
    @bighawaiianpunch3534 Před 3 lety +6

    Respect to him ik he still respects Hawaii and our people I'm native Hawaiian dark skinned I always grew up having white friends most of the time my bestfriends I was never racist to people for the color of they skin lol but not all racist in Hawaii are Hawaiian tho I have a hapa friend who is Hawaiian and ukranian and he was called a haole by some local Filipino I was like wtf you are the haole non Hawaiians calling a part Hawaiian kid haole cuz they look white even tho they are the actual foreigners but ya man I won't lie tho I never had a problem with white people grown here they usually the bois but sometimes tourist can get irritating there is a difference of mindset of the haoles here and the ones in the mainland

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi Před 3 lety +1

      Correct me if I’m wrong but I feel like a lot of Asians feel an entitlement in Hawai’i just because their the majority? I am Asian too btw so I don’t mean it in a rude way but it seems like that’s the dynamic even though it’s not their land

    • @blackwater7183
      @blackwater7183 Před rokem

      @@Ashley-km4qi Same thing happening in the states. It's not technically their land but there is entitlement because white people are the majority.

  • @danlum304
    @danlum304 Před 5 lety +5

    I'm part Hawaiian, dark skinned, and a surfer since small kid time. I took planny lickins from local guys too ... a dick is a dick no matter what their skin color is. But yeah, in the 60's haole kids could get beatings, just for being haole. I used to defend them against locals, if the beating was unwarranted and took more than a few shots for it. I invited my haole friends to participate in sports, which helped sooth things, especially f they were good at football, basketball, baseball, martial arts. Thank you Laird for choosing your words carefully in the segment, we have mutual surfer friends who are very strong Hawaiians who in turn have many close haole friends. There's strong respect. The difference between Laird and other loudmouth haoles, is that he reveres Hawaiians and their culture. Come to Hawaii and be disrespectful and you will get KO'd, no two ways about, no matter your color or where you came from. So tread very carefully.

  • @dats_krayzee
    @dats_krayzee Před 11 měsíci +1

    If you’re a HAOLE. You should understand WHY the ANIMOSITY surrounds YOU. Especially if you’re a WYTE HAOLE. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @gregorykillen4564
    @gregorykillen4564 Před 4 lety +9

    As guy who went to a private school who went through the same thing, I can totally relate to Laird's experiences. I came from a older family with parents that had grown up overseas, and I was surrounded by the children of baby boomer morons, who had instilled little to no discipline in their kids. I just didn't get their infantile bullshit humour !!!!!!!! And I still don't !!!!! Anyhow, I learnt how to fight pretty quickly !!!!!!!!!!

    • @noahbrooks8939
      @noahbrooks8939 Před 3 lety +2

      Hah wtf are you talking about

    • @gregorykillen4564
      @gregorykillen4564 Před 3 lety +1

      @@noahbrooks8939 The lack of responsible and accountable parenting that's evident in the children of baby boomers that's filtered down through the generations since, creating manifestly inadequate and irresponsibly self centred, materialistic, ego driven, pop culture centred, bunch of spoilt and selfish morons, who have since themselves married and now we've got the millennial generation !!!!!!!!!!

    • @rabbitazteca23
      @rabbitazteca23 Před 2 lety

      huh? Go sit down boomer before you break your back

    • @sadiegirl5312
      @sadiegirl5312 Před 2 lety

      YOU are the moron. Sick of being blamed for everything the millenials, Gen XEr, entitled little twits, just like you, seem to do. You who have pushed the effing mask crap, likely a moron in chief Biden voter. How ya, like that $6.00, $7.00 gas and $25.00 a lb prime rib!!!!!???? MOST BOOMERS VOTED FOR TRUMP WHO MADE ALL OUR LIVES BETTER UNTIL THE STINKIN DEMICRAPS STOLE THE ELECTION. IT WILL ALL COME OUT.

    • @nathanieltrinidad5880
      @nathanieltrinidad5880 Před 9 měsíci

      bro you seem like a pic me, like, I’m not like my other peers. I call cap 😂

  • @ponokunitomo7700
    @ponokunitomo7700 Před 2 lety

    808 all day

  • @robbingpetertopaypaul
    @robbingpetertopaypaul Před 3 lety

    my kapunas would beat me and anyone who called me haole. this new gen is soft

  • @bluetickfreddy101
    @bluetickfreddy101 Před 5 lety +10

    Bullying i feel builds some good character.
    From a guy who experience lots of it growing up.
    It was a common occurrence and think practically everyone at one time or another received their share.

  • @georgemartinez8405
    @georgemartinez8405 Před rokem +2

    I am Hispanic, from Laredo, Texas, but also lived briefly in Dallas, and San Antonio. Also visited Houston on several occasions. Never have ever been discriminated by any Caucasian. Why can't we minorites get along with Caucasians who do want to live peacefully with us?

    • @julian5711
      @julian5711 Před rokem

      george i cant stand you mexicans who try and act white. Im sure they did treat you poorly and you act like you didnt notice. Im hispanic from L.A and soon as i got around groups of white ppl in the NorthWest they act like punks and gang up on you. F whites minorities SHOULD NOT live peacefully with em

    • @georgemartinez8405
      @georgemartinez8405 Před rokem +1

      @@julian5711 I don't pretend to be anything! The 100% Mexicano said I wasn't Mexican and hated me with extreme prejudice. Not just me all the ones they called Chicanos. Yes I have British roots, but I'm not Caucasian. Their are alot of minorites who can and have lived peacefully together, and well those who do should be let so

    • @honkeyness9427
      @honkeyness9427 Před 11 měsíci

      Thank you for speaking up

    • @dinkleberg746
      @dinkleberg746 Před 8 měsíci

      Relax, Paco. La Raza has ethnic gangs too@@julian5711

  • @Hfvvhbbb
    @Hfvvhbbb Před 11 měsíci

    kids are tough, but to bad they grow up and never mature, and illegally take other peoples homes and call it a state

  • @heebadeeba7279
    @heebadeeba7279 Před 3 lety

    Kindergarten

  • @dennisrobbins7857
    @dennisrobbins7857 Před 3 lety +6

    We ALL experience the effects of bias and prejudicial treatment or mistreatment based on our physical characteristics at various times in life. I have light skin, light hair and blue eyes. From childhood through almost 7 decades on this planet assumptions about me have been made about my personal beliefs, my preferences, musical tastes, my assumed political beliefs, .... I've been included and excluded, invited to join in, or implicitly or expressly told to stay away based solely on individual perceptions and conclusions about me, based on my color etc. Physical altercations on public transit, bullied at school, invited to join and fully accepted into little cliques, promoted at work without merit, denied a chance to be heard, or conversely, granted an unearned legitimacy before I've spoken a view at all, ALL of us experience this and sometimes it's painful, .... we really don't know a person at all based on their appearance ...we've only seen the surface and the "who this person is" lies buried inside of that individual until we learn more..... that is life unchallenged and assumed

  • @sadiegirl5312
    @sadiegirl5312 Před 2 lety +4

    My son went to Damien School a boys school, because we could not afford Punahou....bullied for 4 fricking years. It has affected him to this day. Racist! My son ws blond with white skin! EXACTLY!!! TRUE!!!!

    • @ridjdnieksmw3834
      @ridjdnieksmw3834 Před 2 lety +1

      The go back to the mainland you’ll be the most privileged people there haole

  • @kt-tu6jl
    @kt-tu6jl Před 4 lety +1

    But Laird did the same shit once he became known in HS in Kauai

  • @banking-cartelmedia-cartel7206

    I believe in human rights for all.

  • @suzyh6633
    @suzyh6633 Před 5 lety +11

    He’s just telling HIS story growing up period. If a person is a racist or filled w/hate it comes out, just read the comments.

  • @gregorykillen4564
    @gregorykillen4564 Před 6 lety +2

    This guy looks fucking insane for 54yo. Shit he looks mid 30s if I didn't know any better!!!!!

  • @michaelbrewer9608
    @michaelbrewer9608 Před 2 lety +8

    I was a white kid growing up in Hawaii too. I can relate to all the comments below and to Laird's story.
    One thing I'm proud of now is my heritage and family line. Growing up in Hawaii, I only had my immediate parents. All the racism stuff, along with national PC trends, told me to stifle my European heritage. Now that I'm older, I'm proud of that.

    • @salmineo4132
      @salmineo4132 Před 2 lety +6

      Give the land back that was stolen!!!!!

    • @LochNessax3
      @LochNessax3 Před rokem +2

      @@salmineo4132 Modern people didn't take it. Go fight with the ghosts.

    • @salmineo4132
      @salmineo4132 Před rokem

      @@LochNessax3 what a weak argument....your ppl still benefit off all the lands and resources you stole ....and still steal! But play innocent.....the world knows exactly who you guys are!

    • @Pasha_Sabbah
      @Pasha_Sabbah Před rokem +1

      You are proud of a heritage responsible for theft, slavery and ethnic cleansing of native people? You whites are indeed a weird group of people.

    • @thepoopman7876
      @thepoopman7876 Před rokem

      @@Pasha_Sabbah you’re proud of a heritage that lost to the whites and still can’t get over it? You are a weird group of people

  • @JOSWAY787
    @JOSWAY787 Před 3 lety +5

    That’s what happens when people don’t like you bc of your SKIN, don’t feel so nice now huh?

    • @hhasslinger9601
      @hhasslinger9601 Před 3 lety +14

      Sounds pretty immature to associate this guy with racist whites from many years ago. Its racist of you to assume that he is/was an oppressor.

    • @JOSWAY787
      @JOSWAY787 Před 3 lety +4

      @@hhasslinger9601 ofcourse the same old comment again trying to turn the roles around. But from your pov you will never understand, the fact that millions of American kids go through this every day and nobody gives a shit but once a white man goes through it in Hawaii, he gets a whole tv interview about it.

    • @Ashley-km4qi
      @Ashley-km4qi Před 3 lety +1

      @@hhasslinger9601 from many years ago? There are STILL MANY racist whites. It’s funny how so many whites hate poc yet dream of coming to Hawai’i where pocs are a majority lol

    • @tillik1004
      @tillik1004 Před rokem

      @@JOSWAY787 You seem racist

    • @LittleCobra
      @LittleCobra Před rokem

      You sound like an absolute idiot by saying something like that! You’re just as bad as the average white man walking around being racist to innocent POC because of there skin colour.. something they physically can’t change. Grow tf up instead of adding more hatred to the fire. You fool

  • @gomoses100
    @gomoses100 Před 5 lety +3

    Das how da public schools in da aina stay. Bumbye dey all come togeddah and be bf wen school pau or get reunion. Das if dey still kickin.

  • @oldschoolfoil2365
    @oldschoolfoil2365 Před 3 lety +3

    As a Australian the british arrogance of captain cooks island damage lives on even in todays times.

    • @honkeyness9427
      @honkeyness9427 Před 11 měsíci

      I’m Irish, the English induced famine does not live on even today.

  • @brennenlobitos9857
    @brennenlobitos9857 Před 3 lety +2

    Let me ask any race that came to Hawaii and felt that Hawaiians/Locals were treating them horrible in any way just imagine your home or country or birthplace was stolen from you and you just had to deal with it and also using your home or country or birthplace to market off all the resources for that persons or countries benefit how would you feel about that? Well you can’t because it didn’t happen to you it happened to Hawaiians

    • @brennenlobitos9857
      @brennenlobitos9857 Před 3 lety

      You would feel angry at that race or country wouldn’t you so you must realize that locals from Hawaii hate races that come to our home treating it like it’s there home thinking they can do whatever the want to it. So you should stop complaining about being treated harshly throughout your life because Hawaiian were treated far worse then you ever was that there home stolen from them something that was precious to them you must put yourself in our shoes as well

    • @brennenlobitos9857
      @brennenlobitos9857 Před 3 lety

      Also we hate that your complaining about how you were treated because it not like your race is dying that you race is nearly wiped out I truly feel that it hurts that you treat locals from Hawaii like we’re the bad guys just because you were bullied from a race that is nearly wiped out a land stolen for your own enjoyment truly disgusting

    • @LittleCobra
      @LittleCobra Před 2 lety +5

      @@brennenlobitos9857 Stop trying to justify racism when theres other countries in this world that have gone through far worse than Hawaii and don’t have the same reputation for being nasty to foreigners.

    • @brennenlobitos9857
      @brennenlobitos9857 Před 2 lety +1

      @@LittleCobra ok so a race that dying out isn’t important how is that not as worse as anything else but still foreigners can’t relate that there race is dying out or that there home was taken away illegally by a bigger country banning the language being learned our race Is dying out so is our language just because foreigners came here. Wouldn’t you be angry if a bigger county took your home and you had to deal with it i didn’t think so

    • @brennenlobitos9857
      @brennenlobitos9857 Před 2 lety

      @@LittleCobra I wished that foreigners never came to this island at all

  • @eeeffert6042
    @eeeffert6042 Před rokem

    yet in surfing tons of racism; why no blacks surfing, Laird?

  • @skittlepuff
    @skittlepuff Před 2 lety +1

    It’s crazy to me they would be racist to white people who are seen as the more “beautiful” people and the majority who is not discriminated against in all other states. Maybe we should bring the racist Hawaiians to the other states so they know what it’s like

    • @user-ug1dh1zy4v
      @user-ug1dh1zy4v Před 2 lety +1

      The Hawaiians would fair pretty well in comparison. When I lived on Kauai nobody local would EVER be convicted of "a hate crime" for assaulting a "Haole", as the whole fkn island IS FAMILY (includes police/authorities) in one form or another.

    • @skittlepuff
      @skittlepuff Před 2 lety +2

      obviously not. look at all the discrimination that is being exemplified there to people with lighter skin.

    • @user-ug1dh1zy4v
      @user-ug1dh1zy4v Před 2 lety

      @@skittlepuff Maybe you misunderstood. Locals are not convicted of crime in HI bc they never get charged (by buddy/fam cops).

  • @carloscantu5616
    @carloscantu5616 Před 3 lety

    Were they racist to him the same way the white man is racist towards anyone who’s darker or have a different cultures in the mainland ?

    • @tillik1004
      @tillik1004 Před rokem +1

      Does that make it okay?

    • @LittleCobra
      @LittleCobra Před rokem +1

      Two wrongs don’t make a right smdh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @dinkleberg746
      @dinkleberg746 Před 8 měsíci

      of course not; they were worse

  • @craigpdyer
    @craigpdyer Před 2 lety

    They mentioned a lot of the issues on the island; however, they didn't go over the Hawaiian grooming gangs. It would have been nice to mention some of the things women need to lookout for in Hawaii.

  • @gomoses100
    @gomoses100 Před 5 lety +4

    He bettah go tank dem bruddahs fo toughening him up. Bumbye he learn

    • @jimjones3286
      @jimjones3286 Před 3 lety +5

      I can imagine if a bunch of haoles "helped toughen up" some hawaiians when they get caught alone, like it usually happens to the haoles out there. You'd be crying rayciss!

  • @agostinavelasquez1513
    @agostinavelasquez1513 Před 4 lety

    Vas coing Maire. Com

  • @hartantoj
    @hartantoj Před 6 lety +2

    1st

  • @themadtitan8408
    @themadtitan8408 Před 2 lety

    something tells me if he had darker skin no one would give a shit.

  • @gunnerhiro394
    @gunnerhiro394 Před 3 lety +1

    Ask any non-white kid growing up in the south - mid west - colorado, oregon - even west coast like california - they've ALL experience racism - good that whites feel it too - in the US.

    • @tillik1004
      @tillik1004 Před rokem +4

      Why is it good for someone else to feel something bad someone else went through? Should we all get cancer, too, so we know how cancer victims feel? Stupid.

    • @dinkleberg746
      @dinkleberg746 Před 8 měsíci

      So what?

  • @Exiria
    @Exiria Před 3 lety

    Bullying isn't good, but really leave the hawaiians alone your ancestors did the hawaiians wrong and they're still being done wrong. That's probably the real why of why it happened. No one wants to acknowledge all the bullshit or give the hawaiians any recompense

    • @user-ug1dh1zy4v
      @user-ug1dh1zy4v Před 2 lety +1

      The common man has nothing to do w/ the corrupt globalist elites. You are confused or stupid.