I'm Trans, He's Gay and we’re engaged?! | EP. 2 | The Blake Debate
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- čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
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Liam is such a gentleman. Seeing this relationship is so inspiring. They’re both so conscious of each other’s feelings. The way they support each other is really heartwarming. The little niggles with each other make it all the more perfect. I love it.
Greetings from NW Washington. My wife of 17 years is trans and we've been together for 26 years. She is a force of nature. You two are priceless. A trans marriage can have ups and downs, just like any. Keep your humor, remember to laugh, love and support each other and every thing will take care of itself.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
No such thing as a trans marriage.
Marriage isn't trans.
No such thing as a trans marriage
No such thing as a trans marriage
Hello fellow NW Washingtonian!
I loved the "dribbling" scene. You two are already just like an old married couple and this from someone who has been married for 25 years. I'm glad that y'all did Liam's side. It helps me to better understand what my wife is going through as I become Alexandra.
So happy for you❤❤❤
It speaks volumes how Liam loves you Blake and we are here for it!❤
It’s Alexis, Blake is their last name
@teridoster5840 my bad😅🤦♀️
I really love how open you guys are and how honest Liam is about his emotions when you transitioned
Oh btw we have the same policy on “making friends” before going to sleep. I think it’s these little things that keep a relationship together 😊
Liam is so lovely, what a supportive and thoughtful person - you’re a lucky girl 😊
Of course you’re lovely too, you are such a great couple!
Not only are you both such sweet people and a silly cute couple but how you relate to each other and your audience is absolutely aspirational.
I’ve known other couples who experienced transition and it’s clear to be seen that when you love each other more than “something about” each other things can change without losing the magic.
I absolutely adore the love and respect you both have for each other. I must add Alexis you're absolutely gorgeous!!! ❤
Well that went quick...please feel free to do longer ones if you like lovelies 😊
Its wonderful two humans so different can live together harmoniously
Great video!!! 🥰 On a technical note though, the left/right audio channels were swapped. (inversed from where you each appear on the screen)
I love you two, the love & respect you have for each other is so apparent in all your videos & it's so good to see
Awesome I love y’all Podcast together this is Amazing!! I know it helps all of us in some way whether mindset and/or what someone currently going thru or curious about all together. I LOVE!!
I can tell you both are in love. Liam, you found Miss Right (Miss Always Right)!
Your relationship is so beautiful, it truly makes me smile to see how you both look at each other.
What I appreciate about the two of you is that you are both calm, rationale, empathetic and humorous. You are both doing more to elevate the trans community than people who present as angry and self-indignant. As a straight elderly woman who wants to learn and understand, I would like to thank you both for teaching tolerance and respect.
You guys are nailing this!! Love you both!!
You can see the joy in akexis now being whom she really is in her life
Aww you guys are such a testament for us all 😭 reacting in the short term can ruin the long term and its soooo amazing that you both just saw how it was gonna go and took it in your stride ❤ absolute goals ❤
I so enjoy watching the dynamic between the two of you. Such a healthy relationship!!!
Just love the channel and you guys are so charismatic! You guys are teaching me so much, not just about trans issues, but about love, respect, and acceptance. Love love love you both!
You two have the best camera energy, you just bounce off each other 😊
Okay, this is my life from the not going out without makeup from the 0-1000 mood swings. You are the best, Alexis, and so relatable. Also, you both are so refreshing to watch. Thanks for the best content!
Both so respectful and loving ,match made heaven.
I hope always happy together!
Unstop force ❤
Another great video. So glad I found this channel.
Love you guys and the new podcast x
Randomly came across this channel, this was a very fun video to watch and you are such a lovely couple! Very genuine and loving and nice to see such positivity.
Yessss!!! Alexis with the People putting things in boxes.. People will FOREVER fear what they don't understand.
I absolutely love the two of you. I wish more people were as open, honest, and true to themselves as the both of you! :)
I spent 27 wasted years in a cliche hetero marriage only to find out I was transgender at 50. The marriage died. No shock there. My previous self was an over compensating pig. Glad he's dead too. Hormones made me wonder if I wanted a cliche hetero husband. Didn't matter, no one wanted me. GRS set me free, and again, no one wanted me. Not men, not girls. And I had thrown in the towel prepared to die alone. And then I met my wife of 6 years, another transgender woman. Who was also surviving a horrible life experience. She doesn't hate her 'thing' the way I hated mine. But she acts more female than I do in many ways some days. Long story short anyone can find someone if you ditch the labels. We are not two gay men in denial, and we are not two lesbians either. I love my wife solely on her merits as a person. She's the only person to ever love me entirely. She's the only person to never lie to me ever. And she's my cute young thing as she is 9 years younger than me.
Absolutely love your videos together!!! ❤
You two are 💯 what people need to see/hear. Alexis, you have been so honest and truthful; Liam is a testament to that and it's so wonderful you can do this together! Please keep doing this as a duo (if only ever so often). Both of your individual journeys matter and should be heard, but together you are 🔥!❤
Priceless. I absolutely loved it. You two, your love, all your banter, and I am GOING TO MAKE a crisp sandwich. 💜
You two are just too cute. Thank you for sharing xx
Not trans, but it's very good for my mental health to see decent men that love unconditionally. This was very healing to listen to. Btw, loves, your podcast should be even longer, u have great on screen chemistry.
You guys are the best! My favorites! ❤
Amazing podcast ❤ you 2 are so so good together ❤
Love the podcast, really would love a hr long one. Maybe do a live ? 😊
an hour wow haha could be talk for that long lol - well we will see how it goes! Thank you so much and yeah we might go live at some point! x
You guys are adorable! 🥰 Alexis you are pure class I swear it.
You are an amazing couple, so perfect and respectful of each other. I think all couples could learn something from the pair of you. You are amazing ❤
Love your personality Alexis you're so wholesome!
“Is it though?” Liam is hilarious! You are both so lovely. I love you guys. 💜
I love you guys 💗 You're so cute together and cant wait to see more of you! 😊
Thank you Alexis and Liam...for your honesty ..LOvely people you two!!! You are so helpful to making people understand , Be well
Alexis it is amazing that a lot of things are coming out and sharing as what a female and a trans female feels so intensely. Love 💗 you two!
Your relationship is beautiful and a lot of people could learn a lot from you both ❤️
Oh Alexis, those hot flashes are no joke 🔥
I find you both absolutely delightful and so real!! This podcast is my new thing
Love you guys so much! What a gorgeous couple!
Love how genuine they are.
Of course no one is perfect so I’m glad Alexis and Liam show that they have little arguments like most couples do but also show that they love each other.
Liam is such a caring partner abs very respectful, you are a lucky woman which i am sure you already know great video looking forward to the next episode.
Love you guys ❤❤❤ from Australia xx
LOL. "We never argue". We just launch things at each other. 😍 You two are the greatest. 💞
Never had a hot flash until perimenopause. They are brutal.
I think you two are such a beautiful couple and are extremely lucky to have found each other. ❤
Great video!
Just two lovely human beings navigating the trials and tribulations of Life together with love, respect and humour. Xxx
You two are so adorable ❤
I’d love to have a conversation over tea with both of you. Question for the future video would be, has Liam felt any decline in his physical attraction to you, has it changed at all, perhaps even increased somehow?
You two are just the cutest couple and so obviously love and respect each other! I love seeing good people happy!
You have an absolute gem there Alexis ❤
I have so much respect for you guys ! Just a straight guy excepts you as the way you are ! Bless you both and keep up the good work
Lol 👏 👏 definitely a part 2 i really loved this! Also i have a question. How did you come out and explain it to your mutual friends, your family Alexis, and Liam's family as well, and how was their response? I hope the 2 families are happy and accepting ♡ and did Liam's friends and family ask the same questions that the audience asks?
Extremely humble duo ❤
I think you two are just soo refreshing and I love you as a couple. I think even Stevie wonders can See that you two are perfect together and were just made for each other.
You both have made me smile soo much my face hurts and you have both made me laugh soo much my stomach hurts. 😂
Would you be able to do a poll in your channel and ask who wants longer videos and who doesn’t. Because I would of happily say through an hr long video of this and I know there will be soo many others that would as well. Instead of you having to break it up.
I mean personally I think all your videos need to be an hr long at least. Lol. 😅
But I have noticed you don’t really do longer than around 20ish mins. So was wondering if that’s because that’s just what you feel comfortable doing and don’t really wanna do longer than that. Which is obviously totally fine. Or, is it because you don’t think people spoiled sit through longer than that. Do you not think people would watch hr+ long videos from you?
Because if it’s the latter then I can assure you that is not true and I’m pretty confident in saying that av large majority of your subscribers would happily watch videos that long from you. So yeah I just wondered if maybe you would do a poll and then you could see for your self what the majority think.
Anyways, please tell liam that we all love him and think he is just the best. So are you Alexis. An I’m soo glad I came across your stuff back when I did and have been able to see you grow in both yourself and in your social media media as well. It’s just been soo awesome to be able to basically go along the journey with you. If that makes sense lol.
I really hope one day I get to do your nails for you as I’m a nail tech and I really don’t think we live that far from each other actually. So yeah I’m putting that out in to the universe that one day I get to do your nails for you. 😊🥰🫶🏼💖
I for one would love to watch longer videos. There's tons of topics to talk about and it doesn't always have to be serious it can be fun stories etc.
@@horror-core 🙌🏼 🙌🏼 so there is at least 2 of us lol I’m sure we can find more to join the bandwagon. 😆
You guys are such a great couple ❤
GUYS 😍 you’re so good, i love the level of innate respect you have for each other - my aim is to a relationship like yours one day ❤
You two are just delightful ☺
Awww! You two are so great together.
I admire Liam for saying you, Alexis was an effeminate gay man, because that is what makes you now, a feminine trans woman. You are both brilliantly special humans.
Such a cute couple
Love to see and hear your storys ❤❤❤
I love you two. ❤ You have such a positive chemistry, the way you talk to each other shows how you guys love and respect one another, it is almost touching. Watching you debating is quite relaxing. Liam is sweet guy and compliments to you, Alexis, I like the way you present yourself and you look lovely... kind, classy woman!! (This is coming from a straight woman who has nothing to do with LGBT.) 😂😊 Love from your Czechia fan!
Liam is ace, he's a proper inspiration of a bloke showing strength and honesty. A true gentleman Loving her for who she is and she's such a lovely girl.😊
aww you guys are so sweet 🥰
Wonderful ! More !
I have to say I freaking love you two!!! I have really enjoyed watching all your videos, and I smile the entire time.. Liam loves you so much, and you love him as well.. it's honestly so beautiful to watch.. I'm a Transexual man, and for about 13 years, my girlfriend and I were socially a lesbian couple. Now, we are seen as a heterosexual couple at the beginning of my transition. I was so scared I would lose her. However, today, we are stronger than ever, and the main reason for that is because I am now truly the best me I can be! I am happier and because of this i am better for her.
Ahahahaa soooo glad you Liam laughed when you said Do-Do…..
I am also mid thirties and cannot help but laugh if someone says that too!! 😂😂😂
I love your channel. Your open honesty is so refreshing. Also, the realness of your relationship of what you share is so relatable and I am not part of the LGBTQ community. You make it make sense for the people who might not of understood it. Thank you for sharing your journey. I love watching you two. Sounds like me and my husband with in menopause. So, I assume Liam just loves your for you! That's the best. Thanks for explaining it Liam. It makes sense. You loved Alexis for her. No matter who she is.
Thank you for being so honest, I find it fascinating the difference hormones makes on male and female bodies. Menopausal women quite often get prescribed oestrogen to stop hot flushes which occur when our own hormone levels drop off.
You both are awesome❤
You guys are probably my favorite couple on You Tube. I love watching you together.
I admire Liam because he continues to love you through it all ... through all the labels that we all deal with... and he maintains candor as well as dignity.
Just love you guys
If you wonder... I am a straight grandmother who has an open mind about such things long before it was hip to do so....
Keep on keeping on...
Liam and Alexis the two of you are so wonderful to listen to and I love 💗 how you have such nice Chemistry and love 💗 for one another. I love to listen to both of you. Keep your head up and heart open and mind clear and body healthy and you will soar! 💗 Love, kisses, and hugs 🥰
I love y'all's dynamic
Love you two! Just some audio feedback: Im hearing Alexis in my right ear, and Liam in my left, and it's a bit discombobulating!
agree too 🎉
Hmmmmm not sure why that is. I get what you mean though I can hear it myself I’ll do some googling x
Yeah we only noticed this after it has been mentioned- Liam already knows why - we recorded in stereo instead of mono - he said it will be sorted for next time
The new debate format is fantastic. Those hot flashes started to happen for me right away, my whole chest would start aching and get insanely hot. I actually ended up coming out to my boss way sooner than I had planned because I’d have to go outside and have a moment to compose myself after such an intense new feeling.
2u are great together!!!
10:50 oh yeah...that's the estrogen!😂😂😂😂 I don't feel bad, my roommate never uses the recycling bin like he's supposed to so he's gone to putting an empty clothes basket in his room to collect recycling in 🤦🏼♀️
Liam: "funky 🕺 funky 🕺 funky 🕺"
Alexis: "okay thats really happening right now"
When i tell you i howled at that. Liam is a golden retriever personality 100% and it is the essence of life 👌🤣🤣🤣
Haha thank you ❤ x
I love you two. Such a sweet and positive couple. I saw somewhere about Alexis getting a cold and her deeper voice coming through - I remember in French class telling the teacher I couldn't read out loud because I had a cold - she said 'What, the French never get colds ?!?'. I had to do a french accent with a cold and it sounded hilariously awful !
You have a relationship that I wish I could have. 💗💗💗
You two are so cute ❤ I have a question for both of you but mostly Liam. What do you think about people leaving when the other person comes out as trans. I know you two are really open minded but I still am interested in the deeper thinking about the topic from you two. Especially Liam because he was in this situation of you coming out. Love you both it's a fun podcast ❤
I will try cover this on the next episode! ❤ xx
Love this ❤❤❤
Oh liam its the hormones darling you may have to deal with 0 to 6000 every so often 😂😂thank you for being so honest with us and this will help so many trans ppl. Well done 👏 on your 2nd podcast ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Do you realize how crucial this information and education you’re sharing is worth? As a biological female, I felt so excited to hear a (previously male), literally feel what a woman feels as/with female hormones and can give an honest opinion about the crazy moods! It’s groundbreaking! Thank you! 😘😘
I'm not even past the intro but I had to say, Your makeup is beautiful and I wish you would do a few videos on how you learned to do it properly. I am a 47 y/o woman who grew up as a homeschooled tomboy that basically live her dad's pocket. I spent all my time with him on the farm we didn't have a tv and I grew up before internet so I have never learned to put on makeup. I think you would be a perfect makeup teacher!
You two are so adorable
You're a lovely couple and lovely people ❤️
I remember when I came out to my girlfriend of more than 6 years about my realisation that I didn't want to continue trying to fit into that male role but that instead I was going to transition. It took her more than 5 seconds to get over accusing me of having lied to her for all that time and she asked for a week to think through how this affected her. After that week, she told me that we could try to continue our relationship but that she saw no chances really. In the meantime I had much time to try to imagine things being the other way around. I only ever came to the conclusion that it wouldn't have taken me 5 seconds to know that I would support the person I love and worry about the details as they come. So, by the time she was ready to tell me that we could try to not break up although it made no sense to her, I was ready to finally end that relationship. It was only the last straw of course. Now seeing that what I thought I would have done isn't unrealistic, it makes me glad that I escaped her when she left me a chance.
This is not to diminish either of you or your experiences; what you have described is an incredibly normal long term relationship.
Absolutely, you have lived your own challenges together.
However, any relationship faces challenges; people grow, they change, there will be losses and wins.
This is lovely to watch, thank you for being so honest. I wish there was more content like this - honest rather than performative.🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈♥️
You are a couple made in heaven, I love you guys
I had to be on hormone replacements for 6 months to try and treat my endometriosis. They basically shut down my hormonal system because estragon contributes to lesion grown and my god those 6 months were worse then the 7-8 years I was going through puberty and my body was already used to estragon I cant imaging how it effected someone who never had estragon before
Also I love the way Liam looks at you it melts my heart ☺