'If i didn't leave my marriage, I'm sure I'd have been killed. In one beating, he broke my jaw.'
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- čas přidán 17. 08. 2021
- Faith Mwiraria was married for 13 years. She married the lover of her life immediately after college. However, their marriage didn't end with 'a happily ever after tale.' Faith remembers of constant beatings and numerous cases of infidelity.
In one instance, he hit her so hard that he broke her jaw!
When Faith made a decision to leave, she googled on divorce cases, wrote her own petition and represented herself!
God help me to be a good parents to my children, this story teach me how supportive parents are blessing to their kids.
With your story swts we sure we'll get our perfect matches..and take care of the lovely angles dear...
When will women learn to love themselves??? I'm tired just like his father was 🥺🥺🥺
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you may not understand
When a man hits you once run away because the next time he will kill you! There's no shame in leaving an abusive marriage or relationship 👏
True true! Run and run for the hills gal!
If only women would follow this advice, many lives would be saved. An abuser never changes
True...am a victim too
Very very true... But I imagine it's easier said than done especially for marriage
Am a victim but it's not easy.hawa wanaume toxic nikama shetani their have something ata ukijaribu kutoka unajipata tu unarudi.but pray pray pray and God will make a way.
Ignoring the red flags just because you want to see the best in people will cost you someday
✔️very correct
Me too I went same in my ex husband he used to beat and kama singeamua kutoka kwake ata mimi ningekuwa nimekufa not once he tried to kill but God is Faithful niliweza kutoka
The sweetest part of this interview is from 23:00-25:00
The lady is so beautiful Jamani and then she had to go through this. Kwahiûha kîûra rûga
Mwai how do u do it highlighting the exact recorded time?
Mom, I saw everything. I can see how you are working hard to see us through school. You have taken me to the most prestigious school in the Republic. Mom you will be the most prestigious Mom very soon. My sister Cindy and Bro Adrian we have vowed to work hard. Give us time mom. You will testify be strong Mom. Your son, Keith.
Wow Keith!
Keith be blessed....waooooww you and your siblings work hard to make your mom proud. Keep up.
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Wow!
Be blessed
Thanks for making mummy's life bearable.God bless you son
Women it's high time when we see red flag for the first time just get out.We should live by principals and decisions.l lived In a toxic marriage for 25yrs and this story is similar to mine.l hard an accident and my legs were frustractured niliwekwa chuma anacome hos mpaka ananiitisha pesa ya fare na nimlevi.Ati unasema ati you are praying for a man to change he can't change at any cost.l decided and moved out.
Thankyou for the courage of sharing your story you
have saved someone's life
This girl has a big big heart.
Wichunge muno muno, murimu wa muchoka. niguo, uriaga, mundu. wihoke, Ngai. Ngai, Ngai.
Mundurume tiumwe. wimenyerere ona, riu, riu, no akuhenie. Na mithaiga. he, ciana uhoro, kiumburo, niguo, mahone.
Normalise leaving when you see red flags , including emotional neglect (not abuse ) and financial manipulation NOT when he hits you. You don't owe him your entire life for him to waste . He owes you the aspect of being a good and honest partner . Love yourself .
Nimecheka hapo kwa 'ikara hau wanogoka niugucoka gwaku' your dad was already tired of you going back to the abusive hubby am glad you pulled out May God bless the work of your hands
Faith is a beautiful woman who is well composed.there is God of another chance faith. Take care of those bundles of joy that God gave to you. Stay 💪💪
You are a very strong and intelligent woman Faith. You made the right choice.May God bless you abundantly my daughter . It shall be well with you and your children.
@@marykaritu138 Thank you very much mum, I miss how I used to work for u in Chaka. Thanks for having supported my business. I miss u.
@@faithmwiraria4330 hi faith, please share your email. I want to reach out to you.
Great information girl. Good work
Wao Faith...you are a strong woman. Thanks for sharing your story.
Faith you are soo beautiful You have a bright future as you gave your story ,I related with a lot of it,I ran after 25 yrs of marriage and one day I will give my story it will build someone.
Faith your presentation is on point,, keep going mamaa
You shall look back and give a testimony
I agree with her, the best support is from parents
That man was nothing but a user and a manipulator..
Wooi the guest is beautiful and very composed
She's a brilliant lady.
I can relate to an abusive marriage please leave immediately. God will see you through. Nothing is worth it. Live for your children. This is because your children will suffer.
Monicah thanks alot.faith thanks for sharing your stry.
This lady sounds like she would be far ahead doing exploits in life had she not entangled herself in a messy marriage so early in life. But God is a restorer of life. I pray that her star rises and that she inspires many
Faith there is God of another chance take heart my dear ..I wish one day I meet kagoni...to share God bless you abundantly kagoni
Monicah kagoni
Such a lovely story thank you for sharing faith. And women, if you meet a man that treats his wife like this and you think he will treat you any different, you are very mistaken
Very encouraging story.
Pole Faith. Thank God u r alive and supporting your kids. God will walk with you. Monica asante sana 4 this interview. Barikiweni sana
Eagerly awaiting for it monic
Faith is beautiful ❤️, intelligent,bold and courageous,very hardworking, courageous and very very blessed.Am proud if her for making the right decision...You are the chosen one
I think there are mistakes women make when in such situations. One decided to leave him but decided she wanted to have another child with him, that’s was unfair no child deserves to be brought in such set up, especially when you have already to decided to leave the man already. Secondly, blaming the other women, seriously the man hit her, broke her jaw, disrespected her family, cheated and she stayed all through. Obviously, her husband was a master manipulator, he got her to stay no matter what he did, surely he could have easily manipulated other women too!!!
When she said baby no 3, I got done!!!!
Many men have the charm that take their partners minds hostage. Madam epic mistake came in way of bringing in the decision 2 have a third child with the abusive monster. The demon of death was hanging over her head.
Kagoni thanks for all your stories especially this and this lady Faith let her focus on children now.
Faith thanks for ur courage to share it out.Ur one courageous lady.
Good show so encouraging nake host soft n good listener
Am learning alot
Faith ur Bold Brilliant and Beautiful,, Ur strong too I left my Marriage 7yrs Reke turere ciana God is there....
Waoh what a story.... Faith God will provide for you...and God will give you a partner at the right time🙏
Beautiful hardworking Lady...truly, how people fail to appreciate the gift before them....is mind boggling...
Faith your story is quite informative. You are a strong woman.
The pain women go through [or one partner] before they leave marriage is too much. Let us stop waiting till death. I'm glad that Faith Mwiraria came out of this. May the Lord remember all families. Keep up the good work @Monica Kagoni.
Very true. You might think you are staying for your children but you may die in the process. It's better to be single and alive. 💖
In abusive marriages it's children who suffer the most.
It's not worth it
Faith i comment you for walking away and sharing your story. Keep shining mama
I love your videos and I wish to meet you one day.May God bless you.
Faith is a lionesses by nature. So articulate. Congratulations for your simple and educative narration Faith and Monica
This is a very tough situation,may God visit all the people facing difficult situations.
Thank you for having courage to share your story, it will save a woman stuck in a toxic marriage or relationship. We should normalize leaving when violence kicks in.Hugs n love🤗❤
You had very supportive parents..you indeed blessed despite the hard times you went through
Very crucial to have supportive parents coz most don't, in fact they insist you to stay in those abusive marriages and inthe end ukiuliwa wanaanza kulia 🤔🤔
waiting eagerly
Oooh my God I know this Lady very well from Chaka, Feei ulienda wapi, she used to carry my son when she was doing transport business. The hubby was a womanizer and a in Kiganjo Town. Feei you did well to walk out. We miss you gal come back to Chaka.
Love love your shows please interview Mumbi Kibathi too
Thanx 4 the medic he was a good Samaritan God bless him ever
Yes, Jidraff God bless u.
Sound quality is excellent
It's better to be single and happy than stayed in a abusive marriage,Beautiful lady🥰🥰🥰🥰don't worry trust in God he is the provider of everything.
Ngai tuiguire thaa....wenye hatujaolewa tunaogopa doa .kulingana na visanga zilizo ko......ihikoini gutiri thayu Ngai aguteithie😰😥
tuned in well well nikiwa Doha 🇶🇦🇶🇦
one slap kiura ruga
ruuuuuuuun gal run for your dear life. better be single alive and healthy than staying in an abusive marriage
Faith is such a strong woman. May God keep you.
waoh this lady is very composed I like her............thanks monic
Very good gal. Nimepitia mengi kuliko yake. But better put our trust in God.
Such a beautiful lady kweli beauty doesn't matter Kwa relationship she is very cute to have gone through all that
You are soo beautiful 👌 you don't deserve those treatment ❤️❤️wamucoka niguo uriaga mundu
Woiye 😭😭😭women go through alot in their marriage. All because you want to make it work. Sorry for going through alot may God see you through ur a strong woman but the best thing you are alive and you have supportive parents
In this world I've come to realise that my life is more important than anything else.
I'm 31 years old .got myself a good job and somewhat financially stable... I'm at soo much peace with myself that I'm scared to get married cause of all the stories that I keep seeing and actually cause of what some of my friends are going through in toxic relationships...May God bless this lady and her future and to all the women suffering in silence 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The fact is God has remnants, and good men's are there still.
Amen🙏🏾🙌🏾
Am not lucky too😥
Karibu moyoni mwangu
@@lucykinyua8620 😣🕵🕵
That story is so sad but interesting
Wah her story is almost mine, me pia sahii labda ngekua dead if I never worked out with my 2kids....
This lady is very intelligent & enterprising
Woiye sad story 😢, mimi huona hivi naogopa kuolewa. Alfu l love her Hardworking ni wife material 4 sure.aki wababa wa saudi 🇸🇦 na wababa wa Qatar 🇶🇦 ni bure kabisa, wakikuja gulf wanasema ni singles alfu wana changes
Wanawake kama nguo.makeboi wanawake woiye😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Alafu wives zao kenya wanakaa na dryspell so sad.Am happy for u mama atlst ulijitoa na uko sawa .be blessed 🙌. Madam monicah thanks kwa story atlst tunasoma kakitu.❤❤❤
wah umeona hio game
Sio wote wako hivyo.Hiyo ni tabia ya walevi na malaya.There are good men out there kwanza huku Qatar who don't sleep around and care for their families back home.
@@reginahkagiri1333 imgne ni sad sana aki😭😭
@@simongitu7311 true dear but sio wengi dear, nd saudi arabia still kuna madem wako kwa kafil nd hawana hizo tabia.l feel 4 woman mwenye Ana date sai.🙆♂️🙆♂️🚶♀️🚶♀️
Never used the majority word..use man or woman...in life we have good women and man that all
Hey faith..Gods blessing..ngotea tutoto.
Kagoni you are doing a good job. No riding jaw nditagwo kini tondu "kini is gum". "Jaw itagwo ruthia"
You are Avery patient,wise and a strong woman, God will restore to you all you lost including a happy marriage.
Amen. God is not a man to forget, I trust in him fully.
I know this lady from Chaka, Faith,pole sana
Information is power
Waiting
Thank you mum for sharing your story imenifunza mob
What! I know Faith in person but I have never known all this. Faith is full of live, hardworking and loves her kids with all her energy, so this is the reason. I know her son who went to Mangu High School after exemplary performance. Faith be strong! There is a reason for everything. God will reward you in double portions even another Marriage be patient.
Oh went through the same,I can relate
This story has me shedding tears long after watching it. Many hugs to you and your babies. Salute to your daddy and mommy for their support.
One day I will my story😥😥😥
Waaaaaah, those words...run for your life. Those words I also recieved years back. Funny enough I also can relate to loans that were taken with the log book and personal property. At the same time, there seems to be a certain personality that behaves like this. I've always seen it as manic depression. They don't want or know how to do business, but will take advantage of a certain target. And you said it well Faith, we don't marry trying. We marry to actually start a family life. But whom we marry is the problem.
I can relate.
This story is a replica of my current situation....weird enough....
my ex is also from Mweiga
This Narcissistic people -land in the hands of good women who they end up messing up and mistreating.Pole for what you went through...
You are soo beautiful..lea watoi wako they will b your greatest pillar in future
Madem walizaliwa 80s wana shine kuliko hawa watoto wa 90s😍😍😍😍😍😍
Sad story to hear about it now
It is not easy to leave a Narcissist
One day I'll gather courage to share my story
Ngai akinyanerie
Amen
Please do it helps
Plz do i know it gonna help
I hope you will dear mom
I know the lady very well...very handworking from chaka ..l didn't know she had gone through all that wah..hugs mami
omG?tha man is narcissist.may GOD HELP FAITH.faith as much as women have kids at there heart you got your life.thanks for sharing the story.
Why good people who have golden heart meet bad people
I never understood
They are a good catch for the enemy...who comes to kill, steal and destroy.
@@doreenshii563 ata Mimi Naishindwa kwanini
@@davidkinyaki i never understood this
I think some pple are created to help others live. But most of the times,they end up suffering.
I can relate
The guest is gorgeous.
Wanahamam kwisha... Waschana wa Saudia kemboi I die now 😭😭😭😭😭
The context in which abuse happens is what maintains and sustains it.
The manipulation and mind games makes it very hard for victims to break loose.
But love to blame victims.
Faith you will go far.l say like Dr Anne Muratha kiura ruga
Empower women to stand and voice to deal with issues going on in their lives...
I know this lady very well she is my customer in Meru.
Faith, am very sorry we talk a lot but you've never opened up to me, though you call me mum. From the way we talk I feel every thing is not okay. I now
Mum nitakuja tuongee. Thnk for watching
Wah, I knew something about the couple but not all this. They were my neighbours in Chaka, all the best Faith
Hi Huro, congratulations on ur new appointment I heard about it. Say hi to mum I love and miss u guys in Chaka.. Friends forever!!
@@faithmwonjirumwiraria1030 Thank you so much, I will pass the greetings, salimia watoto sana. More love
Wow very inspiring...
I have been there not accepting the red flag but now i made a decision to move on
Mimi nimestuka Sana na sitasema kitu but God 🙏 guide our children
Women should avoid being desperate for love.alafu always look for red flags...and once you leave dont ever come back..finally asiyeskia la mkuu huvunjika guu
Desperate is the key word. Even her father in law asked, why should we come when we know atajirudisha tu!!!
Faith was married to a narcissist.
Very true
I thought so too
That's it and the husbands family was narcissistic as well very dangerous and dramatic people... Its good she decided to walk away otherwise it would have ended worse than what she already went through coz narcissists don't change ni drama after drama which feed narcissistic supply
nope i doubt ,nilisoma na hawa wawili in high school she was the head girl na yeye alikuwa headboy i tyhink he should be given a chance for him to talk
Whenever I see such situations women go through I always pray that the generation we are bringing up should be taught both genders how to treat each other so as to avoid such situations