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"The child is not a monster". I think that part is really important, because we can feel really bad person/lazy/egoistic when we fail. Thanks to videos like this, I knew about reparenting some months ago, and I think working on visualize our inner child and talking to him/her nicely is really important. Thank you for this content!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
You are such a brilliant team, Alex, you do such a great job illustrating the tricks the inner child wants to play because it simply needs truth, guidance, compassionate discipline, attention and a responsible and reliable adult (ourself) by its side and leading the integration with Shen.
Unbelievable! This was one of the best life lessons yet! Absolutely life changing for those who are willing to stop it now! Thank you both so very much for the wisdom you bring to the community.
I can’t wait to not procrastinate anymore! I did the golden thread and realized I had a bully older sister but now I don’t care what she thinks anymore. I can succeed. I can do it now! ❤
Hi there! It's wonderful to hear that you've made such a positive shift using the golden thread technique. Recognising the influence of your past and choosing to move beyond it is a powerful step. Remember, you have the strength and determination to succeed in your journey. If you ever wish to share your experiences or gain more insights, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Continue to believe in your progress and know that you can achieve your goals. Kind Regards, David
Oh my God! This was the most eye opening video yet! I’m so excited to recognize at 71 years old there’s hope for me to GET this life lesson! Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
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Really, really helpful. Thank you so much. You work so well together to explain really clearly how to follow The Golden Thread. Your Life Lessons are brilliant! Thank you.
That's so amazing. I scare myself with all the things and I think big picture all the time. It becomes daunting and terrifying, then I do nothing. Yet, when I talk to my own children about big daunting things, I say what you are saying. I help them break it down into small portions. Yet, I don't do that with myself. I am learning so much! Gosh, thank you! Also, I just didn't know I was making myself feel this way. I have always thought I was owning my things, but I have said so many times, why should I have to work so hard after all I've been through. I'm just in awe. Again, thank you.
Excellent video!thanks to David and Alex.Narcissistic parents give you a complex belief system so there is quite a lot of them to reprogramm. Basically narcissists programm the child to abandon his real self.Among the false beliefs are: I must always obey,what I feel or want doesn't matter I can't set boundaries with others.It's always my fault.I'm worse then others.Guilty,unlovable,shameful,not good enough.It's a maze of false beliefs adult children of narcissists live in.Would you make a video on that topic? Incredible JOB you guys doing!!!Deeply appreciate! !!!Thank You both!
Thanks for sharing your experiences and taking the time to watch the video - we apprentice it! As you say, these are complex and important issues - we have covered some of them in older videos that you may like to check out: Healing Toxic Shame czcams.com/video/o6VRiMRIHmY/video.html Letting Go of The Past - Childhood Trauma & Living in The Now czcams.com/video/eoiZex2C9SI/video.html Childhood Trauma Recovery - Inner Child Healing czcams.com/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/video.html How to Let Go of Guilt, Shame + Regret czcams.com/video/oX9YxIWrEAc/video.html Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships czcams.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/video.html Let us know what you think... Alex + David x
I have been watching your videos for about a week now. I am uncovering so much about myself and my inner child. As a matter of fact, I just sat down and had a talk with her. This video helped me to bring to the surface some daddy issues that were unconsciousely attracting me to emotionally unavailable men. I told my inner child that we don't need to do that anymore. We can just "stop it.'" I want to thank you for your generosity. Please continue to share your wisdom.
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This video gave me hope. And motivated me to work with my inner child. You show me how important it is. I was lacking self confidence in my relationship and couldn't make the right decision. Thank you for the knowledge.
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I cannot help but love love and express thanks for this video. This is the best video on dealing on a deeper level. I am forever thankful for this lesson. 🌸
I am really seeing how often my inner child uses "I feel" statements in order to convince me to just give up. Largely because I have a lot of experiences as a child of emotions not being allowed. My inner child uses this quite often in order to avoid the necessary tasks in my life.
Hi Michelle, yes focussing only on the feelings can be used as a distraction or avoidance as you suggest. Perhaps you could inquisitively ask your Inner Child why she wants to now avoid certain situations? Then listen for the answer....
I want to share one example.When I need to stand up for myself and confront someone however respectful and gentle my body experience a full panic attacks as if awaiting harsh punishments in response :telling,insults and threats.Inner child gets scared and goes into panic mode
My guess is the body sensations of panic is somehow automatic subconscious reaction to those internalized false beliefs like an alert:danger danger.Fight or light response.
I just wanted to write as your comment was very much myself too. I get very nervous when I want to say something, always respectfully to someone. people are not used to me doing it so respond in a dismissive way and I feel worse!
@@sharonford7443 thanks for sharing 🙂 - have you watched these videos? You may find them helpful: How to Stop Caring What Others Think of You czcams.com/video/KvR1lVbQ1K0/video.html You Are the Creator of Your Emotions NOT a Victim of Them czcams.com/video/WjJgsS36CxA/video.html Anxiety Therapy | Powerful Anxiety Help & Treatment czcams.com/video/5N7sC1yGZO4/video.html Alex + David x
@@mrsbutterflyrainbows6654 yes, and you can change this by working with your Inner Child to correct the false beliefs and misunderstandings in your belief system. You can stop CHOOSING to follow the inauthentic beliefs once you find and expose them, so they are no longer a 'subconscious default'. Have you watched our video on anxiety therapy yet? Anxiety Therapy | Powerful Anxiety Help & Treatment czcams.com/video/5N7sC1yGZO4/video.html
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you for your response. Yes I'm watching all and rewatching again and again.I need to reprogram this deep rooted subconscious garbage.Would you say it's best to distance oneself from family members who keep on pouring salt on the wounds they created to get some healing?
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41 years later, and I have came to Believe this very same belief.. I Chose Procrastination due to being Made to Believe, I Was Nothing, from My fare share of nasties..Physically, Mentally and Emotionally.. Post traumatic Stress Disorder, and borderline personality Disorder Labelled, from Mental Health, lived Experiences. Suicide, Self Harm.. I have lots of beliefs, that may very well be helpful to Us Both and All Having the opportunity to speak, would be A Blessing I Believe. Kind regards
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So point on!!! I love when you refer to Disney 😋 yes Disney messes with little kids mind 🙄 I know why I procrastinate - I am looking for instant gratification, it is so much more intresting to look at your video’s instead of cleaning the windows 🙈 it is much more fun to play instead of cleaning my room says the inner little one. So now we compromise, we first clean the room, it brings even buffer gratification when done and than we play together. Sometimes there is a resistance, but we have a chitchat and negotiate 😅 So now instead of raising 1 little one - my son, I have 2 to raise. Gues whitch one is the thoughest one
"Okay my darling, you've been creating these really big monsters. They don't exist. This is the way we're going to do it from now on. We're going to bring all these issues down to bite-sizes. We're going to deal with them one day at a time. I'm going to be with you all of the time and I'm going to listen to you. I know that in the past I may have ignored you and not dealt with your problems. This now is going to change, and we're going to start very slowly. I'm not going to judge you, I am not going to criticize you, and I'm not going to compare you to any other child. You and I are a team, and now we have to work together at the speed that is right for you, and we do not go on to the next stage until this stage is completed and we're both happy and you know what you're doing."
Hi David and Alex. I Definately connect with this video I really appreciate Alex's role play it helps enormously to get to the core of the situation..My inner child Definately likes to play the whole movie.. A massive Thank you.Denise xx 😊
Thank you for enlightening me about a problem I have with stone walling in my relationship. I have watched your videos before about inner child work but the light never went on till today. I suppose that the crisis in my relationship enabled me to finally fully understand how much the wisdom in your video applied to my problems.
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Wow!!! What an amazing video. I can't wait to get working on this. Generally in life that's not me, but I've got stuck in one area. 🤞🤞🤞🤞 I can get to the root now. Thank you so much for the guidance. I've cleared out such a lot of crap in the time I've been watching you two, I could have another 2 of me standing there 😂😂😂😂. Very grateful as ever. ❤❤❤
Thanks Evian - we really appreciate your support too! ...and thanks for taking the time to comment on other supporters comments as this really helps build a community for helping people. Alex + David x
I've watched sooooooooo many videos on self help etc etc over the yrs I've come across yere videos the last few weeks ye have changed me life ....im still struggling but I have more insight now .....❤❤
David & Alex, I am eternally grateful for your work. This video has been a breakthrough in my search to connect and understand the internal system missing connection. Telling me to do something (or an action list) has no effect which leads to procrastination. Unless I understand the system, how it works, make my own list, apply my version of a solution in a flexible dynamic system of action (experiential learner) I am stuck (Control, Superiority issue). Your method of teaching that combines multiple approaches for me to look and understand the multiple angles of experience approach methods through my internal filters. I am excited to understand more of the path. Learning the Golden Thread process by my questioning system is already helping removing additional blocks.
When you put things off, things start to back up one after the other. Then when you finally pick something to do sometimes you're unable to because you had to have done another task before you could complete the present one. Or things deteriorate, break down or go wrong which leaves you unable to complete the task. For example, I've been meaning to put some vinyl squares on the bottom of the kitchen sink to make it look pretty, I've had them since last year! Well, a couple of days ago I finally decided to do it and once I was done I put all the cleaning supplies back in. The next day I went to grab a cleaning spray and noticed a strong smell of bleach, for some reason unbeknownst to me the bleach container had leaked all over the vinyl so I had to take everything out again including the vinyl which were now useless. So yeah, it's better to do things when they're supposed to be done, it will save you time, money and stress!
Excellent guys.....very good video, cutting through the excuses, taking responsibility for ourselves, inquiring with the inner child. It’s given me lots to sit and think on and feel quite excited now. Maybe I’ll finally get that book written 🤣 loved your comments Alex about wanting to give the feature film version in HD when ‘dumping’ as it’s easy to do and so true when we want people to see how much we’ve been through, but as always noted EVERYONE has been through hard times and will continue to! Thanks for lessons and inner child talk again......bite size chunks get everything done. 👍👍👍
Hi Marie, it great to hear your feedback and we're glad you enjoyed the video! Let us know how you get on with your bite-sized chunks :) Alex + David x
You may also find this video on 'overthinking' helpful: czcams.com/video/u07ebATXzMo/video.html If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our CZcams Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ czcams.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
WHAT??? 6:09 what about people who struggle with depression? I have a hard time brushing my teeth! I know how to brush my teeth, I’m not scared or feel like I need to be the best at it. That’s at the smallest level….
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This really resonates with me !!! And this is sooooo me!! I’m an amazing artists and writer and I really don’t push myself! Because if I don’t get it right I want to run screaming 😂😂 I literally laughed out loud typing this 😂
Thank Rachael, we're glad you enjoyed the video! It's good to hear that you are getting more done already - this is living in flow or 'wu wei' :) ~ Alex + David x
Hi Antoinette, thanks for your support - we appreciate it! If you are interested to learn more about how your Inner Child affects your adult emotions, relationships and life choices, you may enjoy our INNER CHILD VIDEO PLAYLIST with the best of our Inner Child teachings: czcams.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
Hello .I really am stimulating and helped to shine by listening to David and hearing Alec thoughts and emotions transmit and read back a unique translation from mind body (tactile ) and shen as you both understand it. My question is about Shen. Is shen what the Hebrew text speaks of in Genesis 2.7. Breathed breath (NEFISH )of Life ..??
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Well I've Loved most of your videos, for all of them except this one which I didn't finish watching. I haven't progressed knighted all my life it's just started 2B significant. I'm not afraid of what someone else would think because they have no idea what I'm doing. I know that procrastinating is definitely not good and for some reason I have a very hard time making myself do things that I should run very slow at it. I know that not doing things I will fail! I know one but myself will know. It's a whole different ballgame and it's very strange like I'm working against myself. I have to use sheer willpower. I'm not sure why this is happening. Definitely something's going on with my health, so my energy is down
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I’ve had an epiphany! I am so angry at my unruly, loud and demanding inner child, I think I crossed a dangerous line! I have shouted to it that if it doesn’t stop it, I will take us both out and stop the struggle! I am so tired and exhausted from this lifelong fight. Suicide seemed the only option. It has become so evident that loving and healing my inner child is essential! It’s like living with a toddler in a constant temper tantrum. Love and healing starts now! I have been a cold and harsh self-parent! When the child doesn’t listen, shout louder and berate it more...I know where I learned that! That poor little kid needs my help 😮
Michele this is a wonderful insight - thank for sharing and well done! Give your little girl a hug and tell her she is loved and that from now on you will parent her differently and will be there for her. She may struggle and resist at first but be patient and she will come round and trust you as the awesome parent and guide you really are 😃 We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x
Wu Wei Wisdom : I have been doing guided meditations to access my inner child and I going to really get to work now! Any suggestions on modifying the super harsh internalized parent would be awesome. I am sure I am not alone in having had such a parent role model. It’s incredible how thoroughly we internalized the very same patterns that tormented us in the first place! !
Michele Curlee The last thing your inner child needs is you shouting at it. It suffered enough to be so unruly. Love it and give the best care. Have compassion and enquire good parenting skills. Your inner child needs a loving and a capable parent. The inner child is a part of you so it’s essentially you. Attacking it and blaming it creates some sort of mental illness. I see the inner child as a Russian doll. It is inside you not next to it. It’s you as a whole. Good luck.
@@pohkeee I would suggest using the Golden Thread Process we demonstrate in many of our videos. Start by asking: why do I choose to be a super harsh parent to my Inner Child if I know this will not work? This video may also help understand the subject of anger: czcams.com/video/gfxRG3Jdv1A/video.html
I think children take what their carers say as final word. Parents and carers are human and they make mistakes. Just because someone tells you something doesn't make it true. As an adult we must take responsibility for ourselves and our own beliefs.
Parents & carers do have to show a good role model, a good example for the children ; and they have to be careful about what they are saying to the children, it is called good education not black pedagogy. I know it is a big responsibility but having children is in fact not compulsory. Many thanks to Alex & David for showing us the way in order to mend the damage done by parents, carers, society etc. We need to be brave to spend the time on this because there is no other choice. Congratulations to you both David and Alex 👍
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I’m struggling with thinking of worst case scenarios then living in the fear. And just living in fear in general and also feel guilty for nothing and overthinking. Is there any vids that can help ? Thanks
Watching her reaction the whole time David’s messages says so much. She’s so uncomfortable. Imagine David saying all this to an actual child. That kid would be traumatized. Curious why there’s no negative comments. I wonder who 🤔 is deleting them?
...yes agree - just trying to work out whether David's uncompromising attitude is justified in this context or not. His bedside manner is a bit lacking...and I guess he will be completlely unapologetic about that. I also think it might be worth pointing out that there is a bit of 'northern brusqueness' going on here that viewers outside of the UK may not be familiar with. I doubt that you would get quite the same delivery from someone from the south of the UK, for instance (I come from the north myself and many of my relatives were similarly 'no nonsense' people)...'fire and brimstone' preaching from a former era comes to mind too! Actually, when you get to the 12 minute mark the uncompromising attitude drops somewhat and a more balanced delivery takes over. If you observe Alex at this point it looks as though she is thinking, 'Yes! This is the message, I have got you to the point of delivering it in the right way...' I think the message may be very valid (still evaluating) but by 18.30 David is back to wanting to 'strangle some of his clients'...probably not the Budhist way methinks!
Totally. She is over whelmed and tries to get him to speak kindly and compassionately. He looks like he's having a melt down. Horrific. I hope she's in a healthy professional relationship with him as it looks she needs to deal with him venting and losing it when asked a question. He appears to be a therapist who can't stand his clients and find them stupid
Thanks for watching and commenting! In the video, we talk about how the Inner Child wants everything its own way on its own terms, and can sometimes only want to do what she/he perceives as exciting/fun etc. Resisting these tasks may be part of that thinking. Why not ask your Inner Child why she/he resists - and follow the Golden Thread to find the core misunderstanding?
Thanks for watching and commenting! CCJ stands for comparing, criticising and being judgemental about yourself and other people. If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our CZcams Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ czcams.com/users/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
it almost sounds too good to be true... I can get to a place where I "relish" new challenges? I understand how to deal with inner child but I'm just put of 20 yrs domestic abuse being constantly put down made to feel stupid and less than and incompetent. his voice is recent and hard to shut out of my kind while I try to talk to my inner child.
Poor Woman, who asked the question, instead of a reflective therapist answering her, she was dealing with his angry inner child. No one who is seeking help deserves to be yelled at. If it does happen to him (after all he's only human), he should include that in the conversation and not pretend it's okay to say "I could turn my patient's neck".
Thank you for writing this. I just started watching the video and shocked at his initial words. Totally uncompassionate and could be very triggering for someone who is suffering and tired..
This guy is completely wrong. The reason I procrastinate has nothing to do with fear of judgment or criticism, and has everything to do with hard work. My goals require hard, arduous work and it is much easier to procrastinate and play a video game or watch a movie than it is to do intense physical exercise or to maintain the house. I would much rather curl up on a nice cozy couch than bust my ass doing yard work or lifting heavy weights.
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Love his no nonsense approach!
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"The child is not a monster". I think that part is really important, because we can feel really bad person/lazy/egoistic when we fail. Thanks to videos like this, I knew about reparenting some months ago, and I think working on visualize our inner child and talking to him/her nicely is really important. Thank you for this content!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
You are such a brilliant team, Alex, you do such a great job illustrating the tricks the inner child wants to play because it simply needs truth, guidance, compassionate discipline, attention and a responsible and reliable adult (ourself) by its side and leading the integration with Shen.
Unbelievable! This was one of the best life lessons yet! Absolutely life changing for those who are willing to stop it now! Thank you both so very much for the wisdom you bring to the community.
I can’t wait to not procrastinate anymore! I did the golden thread and realized I had a bully older sister but now I don’t care what she thinks anymore. I can succeed. I can do it now! ❤
Hi there!
It's wonderful to hear that you've made such a positive shift using the golden thread technique. Recognising the influence of your past and choosing to move beyond it is a powerful step. Remember, you have the strength and determination to succeed in your journey. If you ever wish to share your experiences or gain more insights, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Continue to believe in your progress and know that you can achieve your goals.
Kind Regards,
David
Oh my God! This was the most eye opening video yet! I’m so excited to recognize at 71 years old there’s hope for me to GET this life lesson! Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Im older too and am getting so much from this also!
Really, really helpful. Thank you so much. You work so well together to explain really clearly how to follow The Golden Thread. Your Life Lessons are brilliant! Thank you.
Thanks Victoria, we're pleased to hear you enjoyed the video! 😀 Alex + David x
This is so powerful.... Whew.... Appreciate your work
That's so amazing. I scare myself with all the things and I think big picture all the time. It becomes daunting and terrifying, then I do nothing. Yet, when I talk to my own children about big daunting things, I say what you are saying. I help them break it down into small portions. Yet, I don't do that with myself. I am learning so much! Gosh, thank you! Also, I just didn't know I was making myself feel this way. I have always thought I was owning my things, but I have said so many times, why should I have to work so hard after all I've been through. I'm just in awe. Again, thank you.
Excellent video!thanks to David and Alex.Narcissistic parents give you a complex belief system so there is quite a lot of them to reprogramm. Basically narcissists programm the child to abandon his real self.Among the false beliefs are: I must always obey,what I feel or want doesn't matter I can't set boundaries with others.It's always my fault.I'm worse then others.Guilty,unlovable,shameful,not good enough.It's a maze of false beliefs adult children of narcissists live in.Would you make a video on that topic? Incredible JOB you guys doing!!!Deeply appreciate! !!!Thank You both!
Thanks for sharing your experiences and taking the time to watch the video - we apprentice it!
As you say, these are complex and important issues - we have covered some of them in older videos that you may like to check out:
Healing Toxic Shame czcams.com/video/o6VRiMRIHmY/video.html
Letting Go of The Past - Childhood Trauma & Living in The Now czcams.com/video/eoiZex2C9SI/video.html
Childhood Trauma Recovery - Inner Child Healing czcams.com/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/video.html
How to Let Go of Guilt, Shame + Regret czcams.com/video/oX9YxIWrEAc/video.html
Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships czcams.com/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/video.html
Let us know what you think...
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Yes!! Exactly!! 👏😲🎉👍
"Mrs" rainbow butterfly...
Perfectly put !! 🎉😲👏❤
I have been watching your videos for about a week now. I am uncovering so much about myself and my inner child. As a matter of fact, I just sat down and had a talk with her. This video helped me to bring to the surface some daddy issues that were unconsciousely attracting me to emotionally unavailable men. I told my inner child that we don't need to do that anymore. We can just "stop it.'" I want to thank you for your generosity. Please continue to share your wisdom.
Hi Audrey Gilsig, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: czcams.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
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@@WuWeiWisdom Done. Thank you for your response.
This video gave me hope. And motivated me to work with my inner child. You show me how important it is. I was lacking self confidence in my relationship and couldn't make the right decision. Thank you for the knowledge.
Thank you for watching and commenting Dorota!
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Love it. Listen to you two all the time 😉
I cannot help but love love and express thanks for this video. This is the best video on dealing on a deeper level. I am forever thankful for this lesson. 🌸
This is amazing life changing - I can’t get enough of it - thank you.
I am really seeing how often my inner child uses "I feel" statements in order to convince me to just give up. Largely because I have a lot of experiences as a child of emotions not being allowed. My inner child uses this quite often in order to avoid the necessary tasks in my life.
Hi Michelle, yes focussing only on the feelings can be used as a distraction or avoidance as you suggest. Perhaps you could inquisitively ask your Inner Child why she wants to now avoid certain situations? Then listen for the answer....
I want to share one example.When I need to stand up for myself and confront someone however respectful and gentle my body experience a full panic attacks as if awaiting harsh punishments in response :telling,insults and threats.Inner child gets scared and goes into panic mode
My guess is the body sensations of panic is somehow automatic subconscious reaction to those internalized false beliefs like an alert:danger danger.Fight or light response.
I just wanted to write as your comment was very much myself too. I get very nervous when I want to say something, always respectfully to someone. people are not used to me doing it so respond in a dismissive way and I feel worse!
@@sharonford7443 thanks for sharing 🙂 - have you watched these videos? You may find them helpful:
How to Stop Caring What Others Think of You czcams.com/video/KvR1lVbQ1K0/video.html
You Are the Creator of Your Emotions NOT a Victim of Them czcams.com/video/WjJgsS36CxA/video.html
Anxiety Therapy | Powerful Anxiety Help & Treatment czcams.com/video/5N7sC1yGZO4/video.html
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@@mrsbutterflyrainbows6654 yes, and you can change this by working with your Inner Child to correct the false beliefs and misunderstandings in your belief system. You can stop CHOOSING to follow the inauthentic beliefs once you find and expose them, so they are no longer a 'subconscious default'. Have you watched our video on anxiety therapy yet? Anxiety Therapy | Powerful Anxiety Help & Treatment czcams.com/video/5N7sC1yGZO4/video.html
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you for your response. Yes I'm watching all and rewatching again and again.I need to reprogram this deep rooted subconscious garbage.Would you say it's best to distance oneself from family members who keep on pouring salt on the wounds they created to get some healing?
This video explained the process so well!!!!!
"My inner child wants to give you the feature film"...MASSIVELY BRILLIANT!!
Thank you very much 🙏🙏🙏This content was so beneficial ❤️
Glad it was helpful Fathi. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Your videos are amazing. I’ve been learning a lot with you. I started to hear David telling me to “stop it!” 😂
41 years later, and I have came to Believe this very same belief..
I Chose Procrastination due to being Made to Believe, I Was Nothing, from My fare share of nasties..Physically, Mentally and Emotionally..
Post traumatic Stress Disorder, and borderline personality Disorder Labelled, from Mental Health, lived Experiences.
Suicide, Self Harm..
I have lots of beliefs, that may very well be helpful to Us Both and All
Having the opportunity to speak, would be A Blessing I Believe.
Kind regards
Thanks!
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Thank you for your kind donation; the funds will go towards our new studio. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Thank you
You're welcome. Kind regards, David.
Thank you. When the student is ready...you show up. Great teaching. I'm so excited to do this work!
So point on!!! I love when you refer to Disney 😋 yes Disney messes with little kids mind 🙄
I know why I procrastinate - I am looking for instant gratification, it is so much more intresting to look at your video’s instead of cleaning the windows 🙈 it is much more fun to play instead of cleaning my room says the inner little one.
So now we compromise, we first clean the room, it brings even buffer gratification when done and than we play together. Sometimes there is a resistance, but we have a chitchat and negotiate 😅
So now instead of raising 1 little one - my son, I have 2 to raise. Gues whitch one is the thoughest one
Hi Natalie
Thanks for your comments and support and for sharing your story! :)
David
"Okay my darling, you've been creating these really big monsters. They don't exist. This is the way we're going to do it from now on. We're going to bring all these issues down to bite-sizes. We're going to deal with them one day at a time. I'm going to be with you all of the time and I'm going to listen to you. I know that in the past I may have ignored you and not dealt with your problems. This now is going to change, and we're going to start very slowly. I'm not going to judge you, I am not going to criticize you, and I'm not going to compare you to any other child. You and I are a team, and now we have to work together at the speed that is right for you, and we do not go on to the next stage until this stage is completed and we're both happy and you know what you're doing."
Alex that role play was so helpful! It helped me to understand where I was losing the thread
Thanks Rachael - I try to speak on behalf of all our viewers (and myself too!) so we can give you the most value from the teachings. Alex x
Thank You ☺️
Hi David and Alex. I Definately connect with this video
I really appreciate Alex's role play it helps enormously to get to the core of the situation..My inner child Definately likes to play the whole movie.. A massive Thank you.Denise xx 😊
Thanks Denise, it was great to see you both today in Derby! Alex + david x
This station is so great.
I love you guys!!! So much helpful perspective. Thank you
This is amazing. I've come to this video for the second time now. And I believe that I cleared the block of incapability.
I’ll watch it tomorrow. Lol. Sorry. I couldn’t help myself.
Thank you both all ur videos have really helped me a lot, i understand myself better and the fears have vanished. God bless u both.
Thank you for enlightening me about a problem I have with stone walling in my relationship. I have watched your videos before about inner child work but the light never went on till today. I suppose that the crisis in my relationship enabled me to finally fully understand how much the wisdom in your video applied to my problems.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thanks so much, you guys. This was great. I really like where you talk about the beliefs of the inner child. This video gives me hope. Love you guys!
Thanks for watching and commenting Bonnie - never forget how awesome you and your Inner Child are! Alex + David x
@@WuWeiWisdom Thanks so much
@@bonniespruin6369 you're welcome Bonnie! x
This is AMAZING!! Thank you for explaining it so clearly and honestly!
I like seeing David taking it at heart. Another very helpful video. Thank you!
Wow!!! What an amazing video. I can't wait to get working on this. Generally in life that's not me, but I've got stuck in one area. 🤞🤞🤞🤞 I can get to the root now. Thank you so much for the guidance. I've cleared out such a lot of crap in the time I've been watching you two, I could have another 2 of me standing there 😂😂😂😂. Very grateful as ever. ❤❤❤
Thank you for helping me understand.
Thank you as always for your support 😀x
Thank you very much for sharing wisdom for free. I really find your videos very usefull 😊
"We are all awesome but need to have emotional self control..
"I/"we've done well... 😼
Thank you David!! 👏🌞
Fantastic topic and delivery🙌 very much appreciate it.
Thanks Evian - we really appreciate your support too! ...and thanks for taking the time to comment on other supporters comments as this really helps build a community for helping people. Alex + David x
This is really helping me heal. Thank you 🙏🏽
Alex and David helping us Brits out again,thanks to them I can get out my bed in the morning.xx
Our pleasure Steven! Hope you're having a great day :) ~ Alex + David x
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you,yes the proverbial rollercoaster is on the up for now lol .bye 4 now
Yes!, great role playing Alex!! Nice! 😃 👏 & David too! ☺
I've watched sooooooooo many videos on self help etc etc over the yrs I've come across yere videos the last few weeks ye have changed me life ....im still struggling but I have more insight now .....❤❤
David & Alex, I am eternally grateful for your work. This video has been a breakthrough in my search to connect and understand the internal system missing connection. Telling me to do something (or an action list) has no effect which leads to procrastination. Unless I understand the system, how it works, make my own list, apply my version of a solution in a flexible dynamic system of action (experiential learner) I am stuck (Control, Superiority issue). Your method of teaching that combines multiple approaches for me to look and understand the multiple angles of experience approach methods through my internal filters. I am excited to understand more of the path.
Learning the Golden Thread process by my questioning system is already helping removing additional blocks.
On second review, I am connecting this with ADHD “Wall of Awful” from Brendan Mahan.
When you put things off, things start to back up one after the other. Then when you finally pick something to do sometimes you're unable to because you had to have done another task before you could complete the present one. Or things deteriorate, break down or go wrong which leaves you unable to complete the task. For example, I've been meaning to put some vinyl squares on the bottom of the kitchen sink to make it look pretty, I've had them since last year! Well, a couple of days ago I finally decided to do it and once I was done I put all the cleaning supplies back in. The next day I went to grab a cleaning spray and noticed a strong smell of bleach, for some reason unbeknownst to me the bleach container had leaked all over the vinyl so I had to take everything out again including the vinyl which were now useless. So yeah, it's better to do things when they're supposed to be done, it will save you time, money and stress!
Thank you for this its great!
Wonderful!
Excellent guys.....very good video, cutting through the excuses, taking responsibility for ourselves, inquiring with the inner child. It’s given me lots to sit and think on and feel quite excited now. Maybe I’ll finally get that book written 🤣 loved your comments Alex about wanting to give the feature film version in HD when ‘dumping’ as it’s easy to do and so true when we want people to see how much we’ve been through, but as always noted EVERYONE has been through hard times and will continue to!
Thanks for lessons and inner child talk again......bite size chunks get everything done. 👍👍👍
Hi Marie, it great to hear your feedback and we're glad you enjoyed the video! Let us know how you get on with your bite-sized chunks :) Alex + David x
You folks are very good and helpful. I enjoy your lectures. You teachings are aligned with Pete Walker's writings.
Im a Guru!
I truly enjoy this video and learned and understand I have work to do Thank you.
Thanks Carolyn, we're glad you enjoyed the video 😀 Alex + David x
Very good and informative. Thanks.
You may also find this video on 'overthinking' helpful: czcams.com/video/u07ebATXzMo/video.html
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I promise one day I will watch this video when I feel like getting around to it ;)
WHAT??? 6:09 what about people who struggle with depression? I have a hard time brushing my teeth! I know how to brush my teeth, I’m not scared or feel like I need to be the best at it. That’s at the smallest level….
Hello Leah, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
This really resonates with me !!! And this is sooooo me!! I’m an amazing artists and writer and I really don’t push myself! Because if I don’t get it right I want to run screaming 😂😂 I literally laughed out loud typing this 😂
Another brilliant one! Thank you so much! Wow! I've got some stuff done this morning and it was easy 😄
Alex that role play was so helpful! It really cleared up some questions I had and helped me to understand where I was losing my thread
Thank Rachael, we're glad you enjoyed the video! It's good to hear that you are getting more done already - this is living in flow or 'wu wei' :) ~ Alex + David x
Spot ON!!! You've got a new subscriber now.
Hi Antoinette, thanks for your support - we appreciate it!
If you are interested to learn more about how your Inner Child affects your adult emotions, relationships and life choices, you may enjoy our INNER CHILD VIDEO PLAYLIST with the best of our Inner Child teachings: czcams.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
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Very powerful! Thank you
Thanks Lori! 😍 x
Crude but effective
OMG thank you. This is me.
Great color green on you Alex!! 👍☺
Thank you for your video So helpful 🙏🏻
Glad it was helpful! Kind regards, David.
Hello .I really am stimulating and helped to shine by listening to David and hearing Alec thoughts and emotions transmit and read back a unique translation from mind body (tactile ) and shen as you both understand it. My question is about Shen. Is shen what the Hebrew text speaks of in Genesis 2.7. Breathed breath (NEFISH )of Life ..??
Wow u guys r amazing!!!!💝
Thanks for your support!
Another video that changed my life! Where are all your subscribers?
Thanks Marianne - we appreciate your support. Please share our videos with your friends as we'd love our channel to grow too so we can share our Wu Wei Wisdom as widely as possible 😀 Alex + David x
Well I've Loved most of your videos, for all of them except this one which I didn't finish watching. I haven't progressed knighted all my life it's just started 2B significant. I'm not afraid of what someone else would think because they have no idea what I'm doing. I know that procrastinating is definitely not good and for some reason I have a very hard time making myself do things that I should run very slow at it. I know that not doing things I will fail! I know one but myself will know. It's a whole different ballgame and it's very strange like I'm working against myself. I have to use sheer willpower. I'm not sure why this is happening. Definitely something's going on with my health, so my energy is down
Hello Diane, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I’ve had an epiphany! I am so angry at my unruly, loud and demanding inner child, I think I crossed a dangerous line! I have shouted to it that if it doesn’t stop it, I will take us both out and stop the struggle! I am so tired and exhausted from this lifelong fight. Suicide seemed the only option. It has become so evident that loving and healing my inner child is essential! It’s like living with a toddler in a constant temper tantrum. Love and healing starts now! I have been a cold and harsh self-parent! When the child doesn’t listen, shout louder and berate it more...I know where I learned that! That poor little kid needs my help 😮
Michele this is a wonderful insight - thank for sharing and well done! Give your little girl a hug and tell her she is loved and that from now on you will parent her differently and will be there for her. She may struggle and resist at first but be patient and she will come round and trust you as the awesome parent and guide you really are 😃 We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions
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Wu Wei Wisdom : I have been doing guided meditations to access my inner child and I going to really get to work now! Any suggestions on modifying the super harsh internalized parent would be awesome. I am sure I am not alone in having had such a parent role model. It’s incredible how thoroughly we internalized the very same patterns that tormented us in the first place! !
Michele Curlee
The last thing your inner child needs is you shouting at it. It suffered enough to be so unruly. Love it and give the best care. Have compassion and enquire good parenting skills. Your inner child needs a loving and a capable parent. The inner child is a part of you so it’s essentially you. Attacking it and blaming it creates some sort of mental illness. I see the inner child as a Russian doll. It is inside you not next to it. It’s you as a whole. Good luck.
@@pohkeee I would suggest using the Golden Thread Process we demonstrate in many of our videos. Start by asking: why do I choose to be a super harsh parent to my Inner Child if I know this will not work? This video may also help understand the subject of anger: czcams.com/video/gfxRG3Jdv1A/video.html
I have to say so myself another great video 😲thank you guys👪 so much and if no one tells you I will thanks for being there🙆
You're welcome Raven - thanks for your support! xx
So little views for such great content.
@42:00
Is our inner child wise?
I think children take what their carers say as final word. Parents and carers are human and they make mistakes. Just because someone tells you something doesn't make it true. As an adult we must take responsibility for ourselves and our own beliefs.
Yes! Thanks for sharing your thoughts Monique. x
Parents & carers do have to show a good role model, a good example for the children ; and they have to be careful about what they are saying to the children, it is called good education not black pedagogy. I know it is a big responsibility but having children is in fact not compulsory. Many thanks to Alex & David for showing us the way in order to mend the damage done by parents, carers, society etc. We need to be brave to spend the time on this because there is no other choice.
Congratulations to you both David and Alex 👍
That's me that's all me doctor got me 100%✌
thanks for sharing your work. i think that you can convey the same message in 30 minutes or less.
Hi Anna
Our teachings are unscripted and recorded live. We enjoy this more spontaneous and less formal way of teaching and hope that most viewers do too ;) ...We hope you still found the teaching useful! x
I’m struggling with thinking of worst case scenarios then living in the fear. And just living in fear in general and also feel guilty for nothing and overthinking. Is there any vids that can help ? Thanks
42:00
Watching her reaction the whole time David’s messages says so much. She’s so uncomfortable. Imagine David saying all this to an actual child. That kid would be traumatized. Curious why there’s no negative comments. I wonder who 🤔 is deleting them?
...yes agree - just trying to work out whether David's uncompromising attitude is justified in this context or not. His bedside manner is a bit lacking...and I guess he will be completlely unapologetic about that. I also think it might be worth pointing out that there is a bit of 'northern brusqueness' going on here that viewers outside of the UK may not be familiar with. I doubt that you would get quite the same delivery from someone from the south of the UK, for instance (I come from the north myself and many of my relatives were similarly 'no nonsense' people)...'fire and brimstone' preaching from a former era comes to mind too! Actually, when you get to the 12 minute mark the uncompromising attitude drops somewhat and a more balanced delivery takes over. If you observe Alex at this point it looks as though she is thinking, 'Yes! This is the message, I have got you to the point of delivering it in the right way...' I think the message may be very valid (still evaluating) but by 18.30 David is back to wanting to 'strangle some of his clients'...probably not the Budhist way methinks!
Totally. She is over whelmed and tries to get him to speak kindly and compassionately. He looks like he's having a melt down. Horrific. I hope she's in a healthy professional relationship with him as it looks she needs to deal with him venting and losing it when asked a question. He appears to be a therapist who can't stand his clients and find them stupid
@@steadjames thanks for the timestamp. The beginning was a huge turn off
I procrastinate cleaning and cooking am I afraid at failng at that?
Thanks for watching and commenting! In the video, we talk about how the Inner Child wants everything its own way on its own terms, and can sometimes only want to do what she/he perceives as exciting/fun etc. Resisting these tasks may be part of that thinking. Why not ask your Inner Child why she/he resists - and follow the Golden Thread to find the core misunderstanding?
Thank you for amazing self work videos. May i ask what does CCJ stand for ?
Actually, it's Criticize, Compare, and Judge.
@@bmoher2011 Thank you 😄
Thanks for watching and commenting! CCJ stands for comparing, criticising and being judgemental about yourself and other people.
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Thanks for helping out Bri :) x
Seems like a really useful video. I'll have a look tomorrow
Ha! ;-)
" liked"! 🙄👏🎉
it almost sounds too good to be true... I can get to a place where I "relish" new challenges? I understand how to deal with inner child but I'm just put of 20 yrs domestic abuse being constantly put down made to feel stupid and less than and incompetent. his voice is recent and hard to shut out of my kind while I try to talk to my inner child.
Dont you feel, procrastination is also bc they feel they are not worthy of success?
I need to loose weight
Poor Woman, who asked the question, instead of a reflective therapist answering her, she was dealing with his angry inner child. No one who is seeking help deserves to be yelled at. If it does happen to him (after all he's only human), he should include that in the conversation and not pretend it's okay to say "I could turn my patient's neck".
Thank you for writing this. I just started watching the video and shocked at his initial words. Totally uncompassionate and could be very triggering for someone who is suffering and tired..
I enjoy your insightful talks however I do find when you talk over the top of each other, cutting each other off it’s really annoying.
Glad you are enjoying the videos Lisa! x
i agree. i suggest that you let the person to finish talking instead of talking at the same time.
Good info. David's tone was pretty unpleasant though.
This guy is completely wrong. The reason I procrastinate has nothing to do with fear of judgment or criticism, and has everything to do with hard work. My goals require hard, arduous work and it is much easier to procrastinate and play a video game or watch a movie than it is to do intense physical exercise or to maintain the house. I would much rather curl up on a nice cozy couch than bust my ass doing yard work or lifting heavy weights.
And why do you fear hard work? You have question deeper...
life changing...tnx so much
😉I want to feed him a piece of lettuce 🥬 🐢
Excellent content tho, very informative. Thanks 🙏
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