7 Reasons Why You Hate People
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- čas přidán 5. 12. 2020
- Do you ever ask yourself, "Why do I hate everyone"? If so, here are seven reasons why you hate people and how to overcome these negative beliefs. It's normal to feel aggravated by others sometimes. It's even common to strongly dislike or borderline hate certain people who you deem terrible.
But hatred toward other people can cause problems, and it can have an adverse effect on both your personal and professional life. That said, do you really hate people? Or is there something else that's bothering you?
It's important to look within and not just jump on the 'hate wagon' - especially since there's so much negative influence on social media - mainly because of cancel culture and the misunderstandings surrounding cultural appropriation.
If you're wondering why you have so much dislike toward humanity, watch this video to find out why you may feel this way - and how to stop it.
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I spend 90% of my time alone and I still hate people lol
Yes! Same here
I like it when I spend time alone because it gives me more time to reflect on people I've dealt with in the past and currently deal with. I'm able to see people for who they truly are through deep meditation. Nothing gets by me anymore. I stay away from fake people
Yeeeaass
I hate others. I used to think I hated being in the spotlight but that’s just not true. What I hate is conversing with other people. Call me arrogant or an asshole but people are needy, they are boring and they take so much effort. I hate having friends but I’m the type of fake person who secretly hates everyone while being loud and happy looking like a real extrovert. Geez. Life sucks cause I don’t know how to be true to myself.. wait no I do I’m just to cowardly to do so..
i like her, thats the way i feel too. where is that nuclear football at?
The happiest moments of my life is when i'm not around people. People are just stressful and irritating to deal with on a daily basis.
Agree
And I thought it was something wrong with me
Big facts
طنش تعش تنتعش
Same
I hate people because of how they treated me in the past. I’ve lost my trust in everyone.
Same I have no friends and I don't miss them at all
It’s okay you can’t trust anyone that’s life
same. i do crave genuine friendships in my life but since i know 99% of people are just shit i just prefer being alone
Yup same here 7 years going
I hate people because of how they treated me in the past. Oh and how they treat me in the present. Oh and how they will all universally treat me in the future. Hundreds of people. Basically no exceptions. I do not care what happens to humankind
If hating people is wrong, I don't want to be right.
word. I am sad to cut off my family and friends but they are all fucked
Real
😂😂😂😂😂 Although this is funny you all see what God has to deal with. If you can give people more compassion you would start liking people 😊
@@KiaYoung7 -I'm known for that. The less human interaction I have, the happier I am.
😂😂 amen
Humans are over rated, over hyped, and insane.
That's funny!
they sure are. They are a bunch of drones and zombies. You can see how dead inside they are by looking into their eyes
@@sarcodonblue2876 Maybe you just have a bad friend group.
Hope you feel better soon.
No kidding, if it weren't for sex I don't think we'd even look at each other. We're nothing but self obsessed monkeys
@@melissaCgreenwood That's not true.
I know plenty of people who are loving.
Even if it a minority, it's still there.
I’d rather spend time with animals, they make more sense to me.
I always said dogs are better than people. 😊😊🐶🐕
@@RitaMBuda-tz6bi they are. More tolerable also. You always know where you stand with a dog. If they don't like you, they bite. People will look at you and secretly dispise you, or not so secretly.
@@randybrisendine2043 that is so true. I'm generally a well liked person, but I know people who just despise me for no reason. Especially my sister-in law and others who don't even know me. I never said or did anything to offend them. I'm more of an introvert and widely misunderstood. Not complaining, just explaining.
@@randybrisendine2043 oh! And one more thing, I love dogs and they love me. That's why I adore them so much. 🐶🐕😁😁💖💖💖👍👍
Yeah just like my mom and it's a great thing
From my experience I find that People lie a lot, bully a lot and are highly judgemental
“People lie a lot “ facts
Same
Society is totally corrupted by greed, narcissism and psychopathy.
You never lied in your life?
@@punhosdepano5805 no
No one is genuine anymore. Just selfish and immoral
Spot on. Our species, btw, is the most destructive. Humans are a form of cancer on earth.
Love(Both Romantic or Friendship) and Kindness is Dead in This Cursed Dark World, i hate this World...
@@MorganHyde-ie5ru probably true when you look back. Sadly.
@@MasterofTheUniverse1337 same. I feel so out of place.
@@Ladyjojo695 I know, you feel Like an Alien on This Dark World but it seems our Souls are Not Corrupted by all this Selfish, Perverted, Immoral Madness and we should be Thankful for that.
When you deal with narcissists and fake friends, it drives you to feel this way.
👍
Thats is right, you ball everyone as a narcissist and think I better not get too close to anyone because they might want to use me up for their evil disgusting games, so its safer to be alone and get away from others and so u don't start looking for victims yourself to do the same shit narcissists did to you. Its a Hero mindset, a lonely one.
I feel like I’ve become the narcissist though
@@jaylac.960 normal.....but you are not otherwise you wouldn't care
I feel like the narcissist or egocentric or whatever ego-other word because I just wanna deal with myself and I'm done with people and I feel like everyone around me is wrong and I'm right, I'm living life to how it SHOULD BE and everyone else is restricting themselves and not having fun, I'm enjoying having fun by myself.
I hate people because they are fake. They don't care about feelings. They just know how to show off and if you can't, you are the most disregarded person 😥
I hope someone who truly cares about you a your feelings will enter your life. ❤
Replace "people" with narcissists. Some people are nice
I couldn't agree more. People are so dissapointing and always have ulterior motives. I hate them too. They always have you think one thing and it be the next. They treat you differently around their other friends than if you two were alone. No one is real anymore.
Very very very true
I feel you.
I work in EMS (Paramedic) and absolutely hate people. The sheer level of stupidity, complete disregard for anyone other than themselves, the levels of violence and cruelty people inflict on each other. I see all this on a daily basis. People are horrible.
That goes with the type of job you have
@@Sharperthanu1 True. You're 100% correct. I'm not complaining, just an observation. It is what it is. I would never say, "Nothing shocks me" because just when you think you've seen the craziest thing you think you'll ever see, well, tomorrow is another day.
Why in the world would you choose to be a paramedic when you feel that way? I don’t get it at all. That’s like being a veterinarian and hating animals. Crazy. Find something else . . .
@@ravenfeathesDVM Because the majority of people I see want and need my help are quite grateful to see me and my co-workers. It's the people I see that have inflicted violence upon others, or what they have done to others that makes me hate those people. I'll respond to a call where someone has repeatedly stabbed someone, then 2 hours later, being taking a woman to the hospital to have her first baby. I love my job and would never do anything else.
@@ravenfeathesDVM also sometimes people think they will like a job and initally dont hate those people, but through experience you see aspects that are annoying, stressful and so on. For example I did an internship at an animal hospital and EVERYONE told me that it is the job with the highest suicide risk.
I hate people because they bullied me for a long time, no one helped me.They still look at me like I’m weird
Me too, it just gives me anxiety and depression because of people
Hard isnt? To see as an "special" 🥲
I felt this cuz this happen to me but I try to tell myself everyday if I know I’m weird and gonna act weird and people can’t accept it fuck em all I gotta say 🤷🏿♂️
Fuckem
fuck other people mate, it's better to be alone!!! **or with furry friends like cats, dogs**
When you’re completely surrounded with toxic people,you learn how to hate everybody.And that hatred tends to run deep.
The key is staying away from toxic people
@@chidede Unless it’s your job to be around them then you’re screwed.
Sadly true, but we can fight this & life can change for us :)
Or turn into ww3....
And then the toxicity moves on continuing over and over to it's next target.
I hate them they hate me, it’s mutual
true..
And they made bad environments
The words of a true poet🤝
Same,but they hate me more then I hate them
@@KydLives well that just sounds like the voice of my depression
One of my happiest times of my life was when there was no people outside during the pandemic. I enjoyed driving around and walking around with no need to see people and no interaction.
My life did not change anything pre-pandemic from during pandemic time haha, dont know if that makes me sad or a visionary lol
Plandemic
It was way better for me to ride my bike without being aggressively harassed by cars.
Yes
I was bullied since elementary to today and I’m 58. I HATE bullies and so I’m a introvert because I don’t want to get beat up or stabbed. This whole world is evil and there’s more bad than good.
Do u have a family (wife/kids or are single)?
Don’t let people like this make you think you’re wrong to hate most people. Almost everyone will stab you in the back if they stand to gain anything from it.
"Almost"
Correct! I'm just about retirement age, with no family to inherit my estate. So far, I've had four people trying to wiggle their way into my money. Too bad, suckers! My estate is going to a veterinary college. I don't know which is worse, that they tried to manipulate me, as confirmed by a bank manager, or they thought I was so stupid that I wouldn't figure it out.
@@pmarie-se3tz Excellent, good for you.
@pmarie-se3tz my parents dangled money and possessions in my face and told me "we're spending ur inheritance ". I said go for it I'd rather live in the gutter. Never wanted their crap anyway. Got my own crap to give away 🤣
Good for you. Give it to who u want. Animal health and welfare is where my stuff will go also. I don't have any family now either 😆
@@pmarie-se3tzI'm glad you figured them out🎉🎉🎉 may all the future animals be better souls than many humans
I truly dislike people.. they just fake & always talk behind your back even family.. I like being alone by my self
Me too, I mean I gave them a chance and they hurt me so never again
@@leovaldez3283 feels bad to be you, lol. unless you can somehow live 80+ in solitude contented.., i doubt that..
@@BiggestAzzHoleEver I can do that, books are my form of escapism so they can get me through anything
People are Toxic
Same I Tried So Hard But I Get Dissapointed Everytime
Watching this because I'm fed up with people arguing with me for no reason, gaslighting me, insulting me, ignoring me and just holding me to a higher standard than everyone else.
I don't like being around people often because I am tired of always hearing about politics, race, sex, appearance and money in pretty much every conversation I have. Believe it or not, there are other things to talk about, like hobbies, nature, music, books, good relationships with others, goals etc.
So True My "Sister/Brother"👍🏻.
Amen ❤😊
True .......fruitful conversation lies here
I felt this cuz that’s what I be feeling and going thru everyday , so that’s why I keep it simple and just stay alone at times
Social distancing and quarantine have been the best thing that has happened to me in my adult life. Made me realise that 99% of people in my life serve no purpose and are just fakes
What about the 1%?
@@FortworthYT that 1% is genuine people.
that's not true, I have tons of proof that it should be 99.9%
I don't give shit what people thinks bout me 😏
I never give two fucks bout humans coz I don't owe them nothing... well the way how I see it is nothing ever comes of helping others coz In the end you can save neither, others nor yourself.
100%. I am hoping for another lockdown, or at least society needs to retain certain aspects like, social distancing, working remotely and limiting the number of people in stores at one time.
I'm introverted and don't really hate just feel better when they're not around
I can agree there
I agree every time I go outside I hate it .. I feel so insecure and judge by everyone ... I feel like I’m walking weirdly and I just want to hide . My mom makes it worst cause she keeps complaining about my acne to everyone she meets like : yeah she doesn’t want to take off her mask cause she hates her acne and then they laugh .. it just hurts me more and more and I wanna hide I wanna disappear forever from everyone
I'm not an introvert but I do prefer them not being around
@@Nemenyan I also have acne :') . And yeah I just feel like an outcast everywhere I go
I'm an introvert but I do HATE people cuz i always have a problem with them everytime i spend with few people.I rly dont like anyone's personality..What a weirdo am I?
People are mean, rude, disloyal, fake, 2 faced and generally just out right selfish. I’ve had one good friend in my life and I’m 39 yrs old… I want to like people but every time I put my trust in someone they make me wish I hadn’t.
“Hating People is Better than Trusting them”
It’s not so much hating but “distancing”
I don't hate people, as I grow older I leaned that my tolerance for ignorance & immaturity has decreased.
That's good! I think I'm there also!!!
Yes!
I meant that it’s relatable
I don't practice hate .hate is a disease how l see it. Keeping distance from such annoyances the best way to deal it. gotten no time for drama. Xcept for my job l don't meet up with anybody easily Believe me 👌🥰💕 the peace you get ...
@@saywhatyouwant888 you must not go to family reunions. LOL 😄
Strongest people are ones who stand alone.
@Jack Freeman they die a lot faster🤷🏾♂️
Yeah. That standing together stuff only works in movies and TV shows.
@Jack Freeman We work only togheter when we need to survive and actually have backgrounds for helping each other. Right now, we have survived, so no
@Jack Freeman let me have a laugh: ahahaha.
@@penancethemutantgirl2935 it’s impossible in this mean world people are hell lot selfish
I deeply hate almost everyone around me because even those 'close' to you tend to disrespect your boundaries. And when I defend my boundaries suddenly I'm viewed as sensitive, aggressive or overly dramatic. I can't stand that anymore. I grew up in an abusive household and those scars will never go away so naturally now as an adult I don't take bullsh*t from anyone anymore.
I learned that I'm perfectly fine whithout friends & whithout family. I'm the person I can always rely on. In two months I move away in a better apartment with neighbors who are a little more considerate and I'll start a new job with fewer working hours where I don't have to be a 'teamplayer'.
Can't wait to start over and this time I'll fully embrace the life of a loner.
always stand your ground and fight for what you believe in and only coward stay quiet and go with the crowd and pretend like there is nothing wrong , when something bothers me i instantly open my mouth , also we need to stay away from negative people that we don't like , they only destrurb our peace and that's anoying .
I use to be social in middle school and high school, but once I went to college and unfortunately got around fake people, I truly started to recognize my introversion and began not wanting to be around people.
College people are extremely ruthless and hurtful
That sucks and all but my roommates keep ketchup in the public fridge and tbh I think that’s worse than what you went through
"Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist."
- George Carlin
If only every cynic is an idealist, though.
I remember being so open with people but not now. I just learned to hate people because of them. Things just pile up. People are bad for no reason. I'm better alone
I agree with you
Alone for life
I love being alone!
I m so better alone
I want or need 700 k to retire forever , il invest n have passive income n work the job I like
Once you’re fully alone it’s so much better , you can do anything you want in the world without others peoples opinion affecting you , feels great when you can be yourself without giving a shit of disappointing them
@@SarukiLIAS ikr,
That's true happiness
I’m happy being a introvert, I’ve walked into a room full of people and they all stopped and looked at me and all I could feel is hatred from them and I didn’t even know them. You would have thought I walked into the room and told them that I just killed their whole family. I prefer to be alone and hang out with my dogs, animals have never looked at me with accusing looks. It’s exhausting to be around people, besides I don’t trust people. When you are falsely accused of something you never did, it makes it even easier to stay away from them.
I never grew up in a loving and nurturing environment, my mother told me I was a mistake at 10. I had no emotional support and had toxic friends and family, that's why I ended up saying "People hate me so let me hate them''. This whole "you're not better than them" doesn't phase me. Love and kindness didn't do shit for me.
Your life will be shit without love and support. 😔
I grew up with divorced parents they were both loving and nurturing to me as a kid but the people I met made me feel the same way you do I hate the human race alot. Try to get a per like a dog you don't need human love if an animal can love you :) I'm sure you'll discover what is like to be loved from an animal
Being alone makes life easier. Get tired of people that pretend to be smart, good, honest, normal, trustworthy. Pretend to be your friend, to like you, and pretend to care.
I don't hate them, i just do not trust them for all the reasons i have mentioned! This is reality! Almost forgot to mention, i've had two friends throughout my life that i would trust 100%. Both of them committed suicide. both were highly intelligent. Both were real. All the nasty deception was too much for them.I know what they went through. ( I FEEL THEIR PAIN )
I'm sorry 😔 to hear that 😢 real and right people always live short fuckin life
I’m so sorry you went through that!
It’s tough out there.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Work retail for a while, you will hate hate hate people
Yes yes!!..I hate it..retail is the hardest ....
Call centers, trust me it's worse. Just like the internet, since you're not face to face making eye contact they feel more anonymous. The up side is that they can't spit in your face or grab your ass. Also if they deny anything it's all recorded. Man people are dumb, deceiving fucks.
My daughter would agree with you on that! Customers can be so rude!
This is so true it's scary. Working at a busy gas station made me absolutely hate people to the extent that I just want them away from me. I want to drive 100 miles from the nearest person
Amen!!
I just have a zero tolerance for rudeness, selfishness and just dicky behaviour. And that’s everywhere.
The main reason I hate most of society is because when groups of people and even individuals see me they feel threatened by me. Being treated like I have no value. Automatically categorized without knowing me. This has been the story of my life for many years. The pandemic just amplified the manure even further. Before, I believed that people would eventually see past their own stupidity and things would get better. Now I just ignore most of the trash (people) around me unless they show that they possess genuine value (not financial status). Now, I take pleasure in knowing that they are the ones who have nothing to offer. Go figure.
I'm right there with you. I've been constantly treated like I'm a threat to people just because I have common sense, and a set of values that represent order. Unfortunately the rest of my generation (Gen Z btw) are all idiots and treat me like an outcast and those with common sense in my generation still treat me like an outcast. For me hatred is all I feel when around others, one thing I benefit from it all though is at least I'm not some idiot.
Well it’s true. You probably give that off and no one likes you bc of it.
In my experience, most people are garbage. That being said, I don't necessarily "hate" people in the traditional sense. I'm just much happier having them out of my life. Living away from people and society is one of the best decisions I've ever made. Makes for a stress-free, peaceful life.
Right stay away from gossip, drama and all negativity
@@eaglel5558 I wonder why people gossip for anyway it’s kinda a waste of time
Exactly
Congrats!!!!
Absolute garbage
I don't like socializing anymore 🤣 this is so unhealthy I can stay in my room for daysss just working and stuff without feeling guilty of not socializing with family and friends. I just don't care about what they think of me any more. I don't care If I lose all of them.
I’m almost to that point
Been there and its the best feeling, its so nice not giving a crap I went through that during quarantine it was so lovely, but then school reopens and all the old shit just came back.
I don’t like humans and I don’t like myself because being a sack of meat with a a mind and personality is truly awful but my close friends are the only reason I’m still here never turn your back on your friends no matter how depressed and negative you are because if they are truly your friends and not just aquaintances they love you and trust me the day you lose everyone who cares about you and actually enjoy your company you will be miserable and life will have even less meaning
@@matthewaleman4401 I'm glad you have friends. Coz I only have myself 🤣 the only thing that keeps me alive was getting my pay check 🤣
@@matthewaleman4401 what about toxic family
Feel annoyed?
Hate?
Man they ruined my happiness and changed me into the worst version of myself. I was full of life and joyful, I am dead inside and I'm only in my 20s.
I understand why murderers kill. They were pushed to this by those around them. They had their happiness DESTROYED.
Me Too i'am Just 30 Years Old and feel empty inside because of this Pathetic Human Race and so Called "Life"...
I hate people who are extroverts and force everyone to be extroverted. Nothing wrong with loving to talk or wanting to make friends but it's extremely difficult for an introvert to fit in in a group since people will find you weak or worthless if you're generally quiet. It's why I admire people who accept solitude, It's hard to belong to people whose natural internal goal is to socialize as much as possible. I guess I'm just too introspective.
I could see why. It’s not like I can’t talk bruh. I don’t care too. Plus I have the best grammar
I feel like to the extremely extroverted, I am just another body to hang out with. Most of them don’t have anything interesting or insightful to say for me to want to engage with them. I just find the act of empty socialising and engaging in mindless chit chat/small talk painfully boring. I really don’t get the appeal of dulling our consciousness in loud music and alcohol so parties in general aren’t for me. I appear to be ‘boring’ to people who enjoy these things.
Silence is power, it's the weak that think of it as weakness. You get to observe and listen, when you eventually talk, you already know what they are all about.
As an extrovert, I try to make people feel included. I’m sorry if you feel like we make you feel weak. That’s never been my intention. I respect introverts just as much.
But what’s the point in hanging out with your friends if you’re not talking or doing anything. It would be better not be to friends with a mannequin.
Practising forgiveness allows the people who hurt you a second chance to treat you like shit.
I'd rather paint the planet in blood, forgiveness won't do a damn thing.
I'll forgive just for my mental health but Im definitely not gonna let them be around me anymore. I'll just disconnect every communication I have with them.
@@scarletemperorrocky8900 That's horrifying.
I confirm
@@cyberstarz5084 that‘s the thing to do.
Bc when one does not forgive it does only hurt themselves.
Forgiving makes your heart soft towards other people instead of making it bitter...
But forgiveness ≠ reconciliation, that’s right said...
I have no tolerance for fakes, liars and ignorance. I wasn’t always like this but as I have gotten older I want to be alone more and more.
Same, i think now i am better off alone. I'm sick of some fake friends, maintaining friendship, etc etc. I don't care if people calling me anti-social, extremely introvert or whatsoever people really making me sick these days..
I just get easily annoyed with everyone and know I lack empathy. I learned at an early age to only contribute my voice to a conversation if it’s worth my while, if not I’m not listened too. Idk, I know it’s a me problem. I just hate long conversation, sharing spaces, etc.
It’s not to say I’m narcissistic. Trust me I thought I might be. I have one or two traits, but it’s just me. I don’t understand how people always need to fill in silence, lack common sense, etc.
Can't stand when it's dead silent and people feel the need to say some dumb pointless shit. Like stfu !!! But then I'm the bad guy for thinking that way.
I love reading the comments, because I know I’m not alone in the way I feel
❤️❤️❤️
Took the words right out of my mouth.
Same
God bless you
Do you like these people?
Let me tell you why: because every single time I've been around people they either traumatized me, judged me and abused me. I also witnessed a group of them abusing a cat. I'll never trust people in my damn life again. Most are awful human beings.
I don't like police
I don't like teacher
I don't like army
Humans are evil in nature
I try to always stay aware of this fact
@@nikkicherry6559 why dont you like the army
@@milandijkgraaf6808 lots of toxic individuals here
@@freemindds355 you mean the chick above me or the whole comment section???
The horrible experiences i had with people being gossiped about, slandered, and hurt by their words and actions has caused me to isolate myself, choosing to do things alone, and not wanting to get married and have children.
Same
To many people act entitled and just plain ignorant. 😡
If you want my forgiveness, then your apology needs to be louder than your disrespect was.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤝💯❤️🧲
i don’t event want apologies... disrespect me and leaveeeee
Yeah people like to give that half-assed apology and then make the same mistakes they did before
Man I could not have said it better myself.
YAAASSS
I don't hate people, I just have extreme feelings of discontent and disgust toward them
I think its safe to say other than friends and family i just hate literally everyone i see because I don’t know what they’re capable of, they may look friendly at first but they might be a bad person. Seeing alot of the “faith in humanity restored videos” dont even work for me anymore, i see A LOT of people do bad stuff to others and it makes me sick. Can’t believe the world i live in is called home 😕
Agree with you, that's how I feel.
@Jaz R i guess your right
I feel the same way.
It’s easier to hate and to look at things negatively when you’ve been around a lot of negative experiences with people who took advantage of you. You know yourself, you know what trust means, you know how to communicate, you understand what love means, you recognize your own mistakes and worst moments, you can bulldoze past hatred.
They say the mind is a prison because we let people live in our minds rent free. Perspective changes everything, everytime.
The scariest thing of all is that people are getting worse.
True that
Im tired of them, some people are good just the rest are trash
Yes, they are so dumb I feel like an alien seeing them also most of them are racist but when you treat them the same way they treat you, they get mad
Don’t even get me started on these people that act hella *funny style* when you talk to them.
You're being far too kind...they're fkn demons.
People are assholes, they not looking at your personality, they always looking for something that benefits them FIRST.
Don't forgive anyone, always pay back the person who hurt you, and make sure it will be as painful as possible.
Got It ! Thank you !
This statement literally gave me dangerous thoughts
I feel you man... but this might spiral out of control rather quickly even if you are smart about it.
@@WIKUS70 Yeah, sometimes being too clever by half , can backfire...
This is someone telling life what it can do with its lemons. Life better watch it's house.
I hate people because they judge me too quickly. I can feel their eyes on me, and they automatically think I'm some bad guy or something. And, people are just assholes, no fucking manners at all, no self awareness. I've tried and tried to be open to others, but I've given up. I don't care about other people anymore, forget them. I only care about myself now. I don't even greet anyone anymore, I don't say hello, nice day, etc. I just pass them by without even a look, smile or a care in the world.
The more I work on myself and level up the less I want to be around people. Everyone seems so fake and if I say something I’m looked at like I’m crazy. I prefer spending time with myself and working on my mind and my body.
I just think humanity is bad for the world
The comfort of being alone leaves you much more relaxed than being in groups of people. Awm
As Charles Schulz said ― “I love mankind. It's people I can't stand”
So what you wanna do then BBQ or grill? It's the air head geniuses I can't stand. Go watch mankind from yo window then Charlie!
I like 1.
He wrote that in comic stripe with Charlie Brown supposedly speaking.
Great quote
I hate mankind too
I’ve spent so much time in isolation and love the peace 😂 I notice how irritable I feel around people lately. Literally typed “why are people so annoying” and this video popped up lmao
"Agree to Disagree." - Not all opinions deserve respect, and very, very few people deserve respect. Just remember that people will almost always be irrational. Most people would genuinely rather die than admit being wrong about even the pettiest of things. No, I am not exaggerating. Sure, people might re-evaluate that comparison if they had a near death experience, but before that, unless you've heard someone admit they were wrong about something important before, then do not EVER bother to argue with them because it will be a waste of time. Not because their opinion deserves respect, but because they are irrational.
"You hold grudges and struggle to forgive... it only hurts you... it's time to let go." - Wrong. Very wrong. Make no mistake, if people deserved forgiveness they would never have screwed you over in the first place. Attempting to forgive someone is nothing more than an invitation for that person to behave in the exact same way they did before. Do not forgive. Do not forget. Cut that person off. Does it hurt? Sure. Does it hurt more to have people who pretend to be your friends and see you as nothing more than an accessory to be manipulated and discarded without a second thought? Yes. That hurts more. Trust me.
And here's the secret. Holding onto that hatred, and refusing to forgive. That IS letting go. That's what letting go really is. Accepting the problem can't be fixed and doing something else. People aren't worth forgiving. They do not deserve your love. They do not deserve your respect. And if you keep running into the same brick wall, then try to find a way to live for yourself, and no one else. Now, don't confuse this with becoming a selfish scumbag who hurts others intentionally. What I'm saying is do what makes you happy simply because it makes you happy. And to hell with everyone who ever hurt you. Never speak to them again.
That is the closest I've come to peace is this world, and it's genuinely renewed my will to live.
I don’t hate people, but 16 days in quarantine alone brought me so much peace and happiness
Same I had months in lockdown it was lovely
Oh?
I went to the shop last night when I knew that lockdown had relaxed but was still unpleasantly surprised when I saw teenagers drinking and shouting in the street. Lots of people suddenly all drinking in the outdoor seating area of a pub etc. I can be quite social but I much preferred it before. Why does everyone have to get slaughtered on alcohol and feel that thats so amazing etc. Not a fan.
I hate my mom for taking A motel job. And living in the motel. Knowing that I Have a lot of problems with talking to people and I think peoples voice's sound nails on a chalkboard. And she lets anyone in the office to have a party. And I can hear them screaming from my room on the opposite end of the house part of the motel. Just beside room 9. Oh and room 9 normally is where the Karens go.
@@milesmonaco2625 oh one reason why i hate people cuz they said they hate cream the rabbit
I love being friendly and nice but I don’t like when people get personal. That’s when the drama starts and it really angers me
Keep it polite and friendly on the surface until you can get the fc away from them
Yep the workplace sucks
Yeah that's when you wanna punch someone in the face.
Yeah fr, short and cordial.
If you are surrounded by trashy people and deal with them on a daily basis then its 100 percent appropriate to feel this way and its nothing wrong with you.
Introverts do not have trouble with socializing, they have trouble with talking about superficial nonsense.
Just thinking about ppl be pissing me tf off
On god like why do people have to be aware of me 🤬🤬🤬🤬
I wish to have my own planet far away from this earth and have unlimited resources and any other thing that i always fucking wanted
@@D00DM00D that would be great
Sameee33
@@D00DM00D maybe after death?
Who knows? you can create your own world? Maybe you can wish for anything you want.
Reading the comments actually made me feel better because I always felt like I was always alone. My mom raised me to always be nice to others, help others, treat everyone with respect, always help out someone in need. After following that mindset and working with customer service you kinda just see the dark side of people. Help too much they take advantage of you or if you don't help at all your the worst human being in the planet to them and that type of stuff kinda makes me not want to interact with anybody and it always felt like no one would understand me and just look at me like some negative person which I am aware of but life kinda set me this way and I want to change it but don't know how or where to begin.
SAME.i don't understand this world!
@Abdikarim Abdi can i talk to you to i want to make humanity better
Its complicated
I felt this so much, retail can jade even the most humble people. I reckon us sad employees all over the world should quit at the same time, and watch the economy burn and watch all the entitled customers beg for it back 😂
You just explained my feeling perfectly. I also work in customer service, enough said. Lol
I hate mainly 2 things:
1. I hate how emotional and sensitive people are. They don’t think with their mind and can’t take opinions without being hurt and whiny.
2. I hate how people want me to change when they should change too. They should be open/minded.
I hate having nosy coworkers 🗿
Social media and politics are two of the many reasons why I don't like people.
@gigi marie Thank you for agreeing with me. :D
Very true.
Especially the blue bird
When you're real, your circle is almost nonexistent.
I agree. I rather have a circle of one than to be surrounded by selfish, untrustworthy, and fake people
God: “let’s make people have different opinions, would be boring if everyone liked the same thing. What could go wrong?”
People: harass each other on the internet and physically.
Yeah, I have no reason to like people other than the ones I know I can trust which isn’t that many. The internet just sucks.
So what if it was boring if everyone liked the same thing, life would be more peaceful and tranquil that way
I believe that most people are very very dumb, when your intelligent it’s hard to want to go out or talk to people 99% of people I come across have the iq of a donut, so theres really not much to look forward to conversation wise or socially, I spend a lot of time on my own , if its too much time alone I spend it with friends only to find conversation boring and most the time toxic nothing in common than I revert back too isolation , that’s were I’m happiest . But people are progressively getting dumber due to social media. So we’re doomed, focusing on health and fitness, isolation and family guy Re-runs is where it’s at. I’m bored but I’m happy and never deal with drama.
I don’t like people because:
1. I just don’t want to deal with any of their sensitive and
unpredictable emotions and personalities.
2. I really hate when they make me change the way I am
3. I really hate when walking in the public, it got me stressed out what they would think or feel of me.
4. I hate being obligated to the same nice things when they did something nice to me when I didn’t ask for their help.
5. I hate social sanction for a light cause or unnecessary “faults” I’ve made.
6. I hate when they make me overthinking,
7. I hate to think that what I’d say would make them offended.
8. I hate when they disturb me with their unnecessary talkings when I just wanna be in silence.
9. I hate when they do unnecessary gatherings to do some useless chattering.
Woah this feels nice to get this thing out of my system.
Omfg same😭😭😭
#1 is 100% accurate, you are literally walking on egg shells with them
It goes both ways
You are 100% true same here last two lines are one of most irritating thing i have ever faced
It just sounds like you have some basic self esteem issues 😅
I just hate the whole Humanity itself. Everyone wont give a damn about anyone, noone will help. If theres someone that does help, they prob just do it for CLOUT.
This, politics and social media contribute to my disdain for people. I hate politics and social media, especially TikTok and Twitter.
@@penancethemutantgirl2935 those reasons are one of the main parts of why I despise humanity so much
@@InsertName159 well don’t worry humanity will be destroyed someday so...
@@shadowfuture1378 its taking too long
@@InsertName159 well then I don’t know what to tell you man... just wait patiently humanity will be destroyed someday
What my hate is based on is how disloyal and two-faced people are. Also their lack of ethics, principles, morals and how quick they are to betray you.
When I had friends and wanted family relationships, I kept getting into trouble my life was a mess. Now I keep to myself and I completely got my shit together.
I’m more comfortable not being around people. I’ve aways hated people but more happier with my animals
Our negative feelings toward someone get stronger as bad experiences with them pile up, and these negative thoughts trigger the fight-or-flight
Absolutely! I've been dealing with the fight-or-flight issues most of my adult life. My problem used to be that I am a people pleaser that hates conflict. It's ruined relationships with family etc. I am learning I can't run from everything/everyone but some humans are extremely difficult to deal with😅
Agree, e.g. two Nepal women in the office are so low, gossip every 5 seconds, talking about this person that person in the office, complaining what they are doing, making fun of coworkers...... stupid nasty pronunciation and intonation bother me all the time! Nobody wants to be around with garbage like that!
For me it's flight or freeze
It's a total mind fukk when narcissists blame you for all the problems they're causing. Like where the f do they think the negativity is coming from. That's a toxic double whammy. When you're not even allowed to be angry to keep up some bizzarro charade where they're totally innocent.
It Triggers my F anger I'm not myself when my anger outbursts on someone...
Humanity isn’t worth the hate. They aren’t worth much of anything, honestly. I severely doubt they will ever get their act together enough to be worth anything.
I don’t like people because they’re inconsistent, selfish and I don’t understand them. At this point everyone feels like soulless robots.
I know what you mean but im not a robot and I know right from wrong
This!
condescending and self-righteous!
this was apparently part of an untreated psychotic episode, if many of you feel the same as I did, it may be worth talking to someone
FR people are like real life npcs
Why is it that everyone throws that “learn to forgive” nonsense? I have forgiven people who’ve done me wrong, and did I feel? Nothing. I hated them more.
That’s why you shouldn’t forgive people but you should just forget about them anyway man their going to die eventually in the end
Just focus on achieving your goals man
Gotta agree
Revenge is actually what makes me feel better
Not forgiveness
I just give people one shot. They screw up, they’re done. They’re out of my life and officially don’t exist anymore. The only time I think about them is when I imagine them facing karma. (Yes I’ve gone mad)
Y'all are messed up, and toxic too.
“you need more time to be alone”
so accurate, I don’t hate people because I stayed in my house for a long time, for real, sometimes I don’t understand why some people would hate the world, it’s beautiful and full of ways to make myself happy, but I can also understand why they feeling this disgusted emotions, you are being to close to people, distance makes perfection.
The best part of my day is when I'm sleeping.
The worst part of my day is waking up and realizing that I am still living in a dystopian shitshow I have no control over and I can never escape it.
The reason why I don’t like people and having attention from people:
1. Anger issues
Yeah especially if they do shit to upset you
@@gabrielguzman6018 ikr lol
honestly thats me rn
Bruh I've got betrayed so often I don't want to socialize anymore so I quit all the friendships I had and now I'm feeling much better than before cause I have time for myself
Gee, i wish it was that simple for me.
Six month late but bruhh I don't even talk to people and I get hated on like whaaat?!
(Bruh)😄
yah but still ahve to deal with as*holes at job
My problem is I read people as soon as I meet them, I start analyzing everything they say. And then I see right through them and the horrible person they truly are and when I tell you MOST people are actually awful people. This is why I rather be by myself. Sometimes I think I do it too much because I start making mental checklist for every person I meet and then it just starts adding up till I eventually hate them. I may not tell them I hate them, I may not act hateful towards them but inside I know how ugly they are and it’s disgusting and I hate myself for surrounding myself with ppl like that
Reading this gave me alot of anxiety but you do you you are so scary 😨 👻👺
I don't interact with anyone, even at work, I avoid all people. I've cut myself off from everyone I've ever known, I don't leave my house at all, and if anyone contacts me I make sure that they absolutely regret that decision.
At least someone contacts you.
40+ years now, I've only met about 3 people I can tolerate for more than a few hours. I don't care if people have different opinions, but most don't know how to have an actual intellectual conversation without turning it into an argument. As for an office job, how many times can you hear good morning & happy Friday without wanting to run out screaming? And the interruptions? They have no concept of concentration & focus. Boundaries? No one listens and a lot of them are bullies who get upset if you live a different way from them. In short, almost all people suck. If I could live alone with animals for the rest if my life, I'd be okay with that. People are usually two faced and fake.
Couldn't agree more
Bipolars says hello
I hate talking to people
I hate meetings where I have to socialize
I hate being in the spotlight
I am a introvert
I deal with mild sadness
I want to be alone
I don't like talking on the phone
I get very nervous around social interactions
I hate huge crowds
And I am a introvert :)
I hate others. I used to think I hated being in the spotlight but that’s just not true. What I hate is conversing with other people. Call me arrogant or an asshole but people are needy, they are boring and they take so much effort. I hate having friends but I’m the type of fake person who secretly hates everyone while being loud and happy looking like a real extrovert. Geez. Life sucks cause I don’t know how to be true to myself.. wait no I do I’m just to cowardly to do so..
@@FrostyM22 exactly I hate talking to people because there always on there phone and also there so loud like there always screaming like I can hear you. Also there inconsiderate and rude, they don't care about anybody but themselves.
Omg same
🐈
i'm definitely not an introvert lol but i feel anxious when i'm being stared at or stalked in an intensive way i think i'm still not over that weird stalking ssshh experience
i only have like 5 persons that really understand me i have a lot of unconventional experiences that when someone is not open minded enough they'll think i'm making up stories (which is painful when you're being vulnerable with them then you're judged) even my nanay maybe that's when i learned how to stand up for myself
will anyone believe if tell someone that some random youtubers are reading my comments? even when i hear that myself and stalk my own fb and ig i won't believe it
i want to socialize offline but i just have a lot of stuffs i need to do, learn and i need to heal
That I can agree on
The older I get, the more I hate humans.
It’s people not me- animals don’t cause me issues
Imagine if the world was filled with introverts and no extroverts. Life would be more peaceful 🥰
Not all extroverts are bad. I am an extrovert but i respect everyone's personal space. And do not bother anybody.
I couldn't agree more.
@@littleari7872 true. Funny thing is I love socializing with people but get super tired fast after socializing. So meaning I’m an introvert who loves hanging out with friends whenever I have the energy. But, alot of my friends are extroverts because I know everytime they are with their friends. They’re a lot more happier and i could see that. Not all extroverts are stereotypes. Idk why people can’t understand that. But yes, I’ve seen a lot of good people who are extroverts. They make the world a more vibrant place. It’s the people with shitty personality or habits or so that makes the world feel like crap.
@@bunxsx475 yupp. Thanks for understanding. I hope you are having a good day.
I did need this comment. Where I come from, they think introverts are fucking wrong.
P.s I hate my life.
I am an introverted person and feel like crying over tiniest of things, my family would never get me and keep fighting with me over pity issues, life is hell!!!
Life does suck generally for most.
@@tomjones7089 yes it does, take care, probably everything would be fine:)
How old are you?
Life is beautiful, people are ugly, water is wet, and others they bug me
@greg acosta will consider the advice, Thanks...
Staying home is better than being around sheeple who tell me who I am based on the writtings of strangers. They don't know themselves.
For Me Hate Is Contagious. I tend to build hatred if others are treating me with the same act. The more love you share and get. The less hate you feel
Reason I hate people is I see daily people trembling and stepping over others, bullying each others and doing really sick sh*t into each others. I want to love all the people, but when I all the time see all kinds of downgrading, self centered and hateful deeds from people towards other people it suffocates me day by day. And worst part is that I can't even blame them. Whole success centered, egoistic and feeling punishing system is what raises and rewards em on this kind of behaviour. Sick and tired, hope to find joy someday.
oh my god exactly. I was just writing about getting fired and you described exactly who i dealt with.
I can give you mine:
1. I am _reeeaally sensitive_ and can't understand the meanness
2. People supposed to love me, tortured me instead, as a child
3. Nobody has energy to heal and help others when we all just deal with our own suffering
4. I see so much greed and selfishness from people in power, I can't handle it! 🤮
5. There is so much I unpredictable behavior
6. People think others can't see easily how disgusting some are in their poisonous self-interest
7. I think I'm from another planet, I simply can't comprehend society run by serving the interests of the powerful
I keep getting fired and I guess the most common reason is 'personality' clashes. My family agrees that even though I've been working on myself for 20 years, these people I worked under were complete assholes, I still need to change to hold employment. These are the tasks I've been given at almost 50 years old by family members so I can hold a job: Be more controllable, be like the 20 year olds, don't ever talk, learn to lie a bunch, suffer while listening to $100k+ earners talk for an hour or more about dumb bullcrap that I have no interest in even though it drains the life out of me and I even get sick from it, and not only should i pretend to care about it all, I should actually care. Gotta love when people tell you how to feel, how to act, literally how to be, constantly telling you you're doing it all wrong even though you daily strive to be a hard worker, kind, thoughtful, helpful, happy. Nope. That doesn't keep you employed. Sucking up to people with massive egos is the only way. goddamn is that so difficult. it goes against everything I cherish in me. just to be independent and not be bullied and harrassed by family for not working, to feed myself. Absolutely completely sucks.
some of us like that .....
but we need to make our life easier not more difficult
Its better to be oneself n fight the rest of assholes rather than be a fake version of yourself, a hypocrite
If you tell people your personal business, they WILL eventually use it against you. I can't stand people anymore. I stay home other than running the necessary errands.
Same. Trust no one.
Getting plenty of verbal abuse from nasty,totally hostile strangers here,as well as being traumatised by so many bullies over the years. I did nothing to them,and I now do my best to avoid people whenever I can.
It never pays to be good, humble and show humility to people it never ever rewards you, don’t be deceived you won’t get it back ,you’ll pay a price for being nice in a bad way, you’ll end up in a dark place..
HAVING A GOOD HEART WILL LAND YOU IN SOME BAD SITUATIONS.
Your comment is gold, true facts
It doesn’t pay when you expect a certain reaction from them. I’ve worked in retail for years and realised if I’m humble towards shitty customers it elevates the situation even slightly, and that was enough for me. When I don’t take it personally, I come out of it with no regret knowing I did the right thing. And you never know, you might make a lasting impression on them to be more kind in future. However, there are days were I don’t feel like being warm cause I don’t have the energy, and there shouldn’t be any shame in that either. I don’t blame you it’s only decent for someone to give it back, but making yourself humble for a an expected response is a form of people pleasing, something I’ve been slowly undoing for years. People pleasers tend to forget people are peculiar and flawed.
I don't do it to get paid back or something, in fact, it's even better if they ignore and never come in contact with me ever again afterwards. I help because i feel sorry for some and i imagine how I'd feel if i was in their situation. As selfish as it sounds, i do it for me.
Fucken facts.. i don't give shit what people thinks bout me 😏
I never give two fucks bout humans coz I don't owe them nothing... well the way how I see it is nothing ever comes of helping others coz In the end you can save neither, others nor yourself.