Dating Single Moms: The 7 Harsh Truths
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- čas přidán 17. 07. 2024
- Today I want to talk about a topic that's been on my mind lately: Dating Single Moms. I've had my fair share of experiences in the dating world, and let me tell you, Dating Single Moms comes with its own set of challenges.
In this video, I'm going to break down 7 Harsh Truths of Dating Single Moms.
Dating Single Moms is not always easy, especially in the world of modern dating. But hey, that's part of the adventure, right? As someone who's been in the game for a while, I can tell you that dating advice is key when it comes to navigating this tricky terrain.
So, what are these 7 harsh truths that I've discovered about Dating Single Moms? Well, let's dive in.
Truth #1: You will never be the priority. Yep, you heard me right. When you're Dating Single Moms, their kids will always come first. Whether it's a last-minute hockey tournament or a late-night fever, you have to be prepared to take a backseat sometimes. Trust me, I've been there.
Truth #2: She will not stay at your house for long. This one took me by surprise, but it's a reality when you're Dating Single Moms. From personal experience, I can tell you that my single mom girlfriends never stayed the night at my place for too long. It's just the way it is.
Truth #3: She is looking for a father and support. It's natural for Dating Single Moms to seek a partner who can step up and support them, both emotionally and financially. If you're not ready to take on that role, it might not work out in the long run.
Truth #4: The baby daddy will always be in the picture. This one can be tough to swallow, but it's a reality of Dating Single Moms. Whether they have a good relationship with their ex or not, the father of their child will always be a part of their lives.
Truth #5: The child will not listen to you. It's important to remember that you're not their father, and in some cases, they might not be open to listening to you. It's all part of the package when you're Dating Single Moms.
Truth #6: There's a risk of child support after a break up. This is something that can catch you off guard if you're not prepared for it. When you're Dating Single Moms, there's always the possibility of being asked to contribute financially even after the relationship has ended.
Truth #7: Stretch marks. Yep, I said it. When you're Dating Single Moms, you have to be okay with imperfections. Stretch marks are just one example of the physical changes that can come with motherhood.
So there you have it, guys. Dating Single Moms can be a rewarding experience, but it's important to go in with your eyes wide open. Remember, modern dating is all about being honest with yourself and your partner. And if you're looking for some dating advice, well, you've come to the right place.
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There is NO upside to pairing up with a single mom.
And don’t dare to try and discipline 6 year old Billy,but”man up”when he’s 16,needs bail and a lawyer
Exactly my gawd...
Agree. If you stopped at #1: 'you're never going to be a priority' is enough. Like you, I have no kids and don't want to tailor my life around anyone. I do not recommend ever dating a single mother. The drama with the ex is enough to say no to also. All of your points are great and any one of them on their own is sufficient to not date a single mother.
Thanks for the comment. Exactly, you're never going to be a priority
I love the approach on your channel. You're actually a kind and considerate person. You tell it how it is, but you're not an a**hole to women and I appreciate that :). You have your opinions, which everyone is entitled to, but at least you're not a jerk like most guys on the internet.
Thank you - I appreciate this ;-)
Instead, I'll take the daily nut kick option.
Haha right on
Kids don't need a 'father figure'' they need their father.
Agreed
Pairing up with a single mom is like volunteering for prison.
Sad but true
Don't bother with a single mom unless she's doing 100% of the pursuing and is unequivocally interested in you. Only then might you be _somewhat_ of a priority. Otherwise the list will look like:
1. The kids
2. Herself
3. The father (no matter what, he's still a big part of her life)
4. Her friends
5. Her cat
6. You
7. Houseplant
Yes very true. I'm ultimately not a fan as I don't have children
How old are you bro?
I’m 50 wbu?
@@silverbachelor Just turned 30. Great content dude!
Other issues of dating single m-o-m:
1) If she is a single mother but not a widow, find out the truth: why is she single? Talk to her ex. Was she cheating, or acting like a bad wife? The chance of that is high. A mother with child should not leave her husband unless he is absolutely worthless. Was she hoe-ing around and got a child out of wedlock? Maybe she does not know who the baby daddy is because she was sleeping with multiple men.
2) Many times the single mom keeps physical relationship with the baby daddies, behind her boyfriend's back. It is hard to find out because baby daddy comes to visit her without raising suspicions.
3) When break up with the single mom occurs, you have a heartbreak due to separation after the attachment you built with her kids who have started calling you daddy and you treated them as your kids.
On the plus side, it is easy to hook up with single m-o-ms.
Haha yep - hook ups are a lot easier
@@silverbachelor why do you think it's easier? just curious because everyone says that
@@anonanon7553 -- They are desperate to find a beta provider who will help her raise her kids and pay for her and the kids. In other words, she needs a babysitter and an ATM.
@@anonanon7553 Easier to date single moms?
@@silverbachelor easier to hook up with.