Madam Speaker ON loosing her 1st born child on her Lobola day

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  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker Před 5 měsíci +398

    Thank you so much for having me Promise. If felt good being a guest for a change ❤❤

    • @Ownnarrativepodcast
      @Ownnarrativepodcast  Před 5 měsíci +7

      You where a breath of fresh air.. thanks sisi

    • @nellnkwe3649
      @nellnkwe3649 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ @madams_speaker

    • @chamburamekwane415
      @chamburamekwane415 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Madam u r lovable

    • @Ntuthu28_M
      @Ntuthu28_M Před 5 měsíci +2

      My mom passed away at 39 too 2005 but I was 14.thank you for sharing madam speaker❤love and light ❤

    • @Grow_with_Paballo
      @Grow_with_Paballo Před 5 měsíci +3

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rachelandrews5746
    @rachelandrews5746 Před měsícem +7

    Madam speaker's voice is rich and commands respect. I can listen to her the whole day. So glad you don't pretend. You are beautiful dark chocolate.

  • @mashiyamahlesp7942
    @mashiyamahlesp7942 Před 5 měsíci +34

    Madam Speaker, a woman who creates her own table and be served from it. Love how she knows her worth.. If we can raise more daughters like her, women would be really forces to be reckoned with.

  • @mpatikukame1727
    @mpatikukame1727 Před 5 měsíci +23

    Promise I really like these interviews you allow your guests to tell their stories without interrupting ❤

  • @mokgadimasoga9527
    @mokgadimasoga9527 Před 5 měsíci +18

    She is so interesting I could listen to her all day

  • @leratosasa4233
    @leratosasa4233 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I learned a lot from ths interview ❤ur a very strong woman madam speaker 😊

  • @simangelemunyai3756
    @simangelemunyai3756 Před 5 měsíci +38

    I love how you speak highly of your ex husband regardless of everything you want through 😊

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 Před 5 měsíci +38

    The way promise carried this interview… Chef kiss 👌🏿👌🏿

  • @sasham8102
    @sasham8102 Před 5 měsíci +40

    I was once Madam Speaker's ex husband. Unfortunately, my husband is an introvert and can't express himself. On the other hand, I'm expressive and defensive.Things were not good for almost a year, he resented me.He was paying for everything except giving me extra money that I was misusing while I was employed as well.
    I'll forever be grateful to God for granting me the wisdom to realise that I was taking advantage of him before he asked for a divorce. He wouldn't talk about it, but I knew what the problem was. I woke up one day and shook stubbornness and stupidity off me, and took responsibility. We worked on our marriage which had no other problems but my impulsive spending. We now put our finances on the table. I really thought there was a lot where it all came from. Taking accountability really saves relationships. Since then, we know when we have more and when we are short. When we are broke, we're broke together.

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I know that for my marriage to work, I had to let go of some parts of myself that I needed to survive my childhood. Because some parts of our character may have been necessary at some point in our lives, but are not necessary in other stages of our lives! Some ppl had to "survive" as children, but are still in survival mode as adults, instead of living fully! It takes a lot of maturity and probably therapy, to recognise that, acknowledge it, and be willing to let it go! ❤❤

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Před 5 měsíci +79

    I love how Madam speaker will help you remember your boundaries!
    Women sit in BOILING water while their husbands turn the stove up. And just say “sorry “.
    It’s such a breath of fresh air… and she’s the true definition of IT GETS BETTER ‼️ Let’s fix things, stick by your man etc but ladies; please don’t make the option of leaving that boiling pot too far fetched. Women also deserve to have a happy life.

    • @musie_mt867
      @musie_mt867 Před 5 měsíci

      Well said Elizabeth

    • @introverted.me.
      @introverted.me. Před 5 měsíci

      "Turn the stove up" has me floored 😭😭😭😭😭 😂😂😂😂

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 Před 4 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯

  • @mologadimologadi9461
    @mologadimologadi9461 Před 5 měsíci +20

    Oh my God, bless her, I'm literally bowling over regarding the baby, it's so painful. 😭😭😭

  • @phaladimagongoa8370
    @phaladimagongoa8370 Před 5 měsíci +12

    Financial Abuse is real guys! Most of us are in such marriages sadly😢😢 Big ups that you escaped the trap. The good heart neh....😢😢😢😢

  • @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021
    @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021 Před 5 měsíci +30

    What I love about madam speaker is that she is truly a speaker ❤
    Her voice is commanding, you are fierce madam 🫶🏽

  • @orearabilekgotle8690
    @orearabilekgotle8690 Před 5 měsíci +53

    I love how 2 of my favorite woman can come together and talk. We will have disagreements but we'll come together in the name of love❤️Maturity ❤️

  • @ayandasam2269
    @ayandasam2269 Před 5 měsíci +20

    2 women I love ke sana🙌 I broke up with someone because of being financial careless, I remember we went to a vacation and I found out this guy took R50 000 loan for vacation I saw ukuthi this is my future and I don't want it.

    • @user-pr3zd5lt4n
      @user-pr3zd5lt4n Před 2 měsíci +1

      I know what you're talking about I was in that kind of situation but I decided that I'm living this guys because he doesn't want to grow up

  • @rebeccaphakula9840
    @rebeccaphakula9840 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Finance is a deal breaker in a relationship 💯

  • @andiswapupa1637
    @andiswapupa1637 Před 5 měsíci +26

    It's my first time hearing her talking positive about her ex husband. ❤ She said he s Handsome with good heart.

    • @xhavaritakalani8670
      @xhavaritakalani8670 Před 5 měsíci +11

      She always does, in most of her videos she mentioned his good side. Just their main problem was the way he handled his money. But seemed to be good father to his kids

  • @tnonkosi8021
    @tnonkosi8021 Před 5 měsíci +21

    With physical death, you get emotional support, but divorce is the only death where you mourn alone. A huna vhalidzi.
    Ndi lufu lune na lila ni nothe ra dovha ra ni judge.

  • @xhavaritakalani8670
    @xhavaritakalani8670 Před 5 měsíci +24

    I wish you and owami can one day sit and talk.like this just share your experiences

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 Před 5 měsíci +3

      True this pettyness amongst us women must stop let's fix each others crown.love these two ladies so mature no drama.AND classes shame

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Can you referee?

  • @Mokgadi_masedi
    @Mokgadi_masedi Před 5 měsíci +27

    One thing about madam speaker she articulate very well❤

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před 5 měsíci +24

    Madam speakers dad's advise is the best ever ...I appreciate this episode very intriguing to watch. I love seeing our generation making our ancestors proud...it's amazing that we able to go through life,the good and the bad as well as be able to express our emotions with no fear what's so ever.

  • @nhlaposibongile2734
    @nhlaposibongile2734 Před 5 měsíci +15

    Yooh madam speaker, we have walked the same path of loosing babies, I lost my first at 6 months, and nothing makes sense to one during that time but God is always God, I only cried when the hearse came to fetch her for her last rest yooh....I beleive I grew to this strong woman I am today because of that loss, Gosh after the funeral I will find myself lost in the Ackermans baby section only when in there I will remember that I don't have a child anymore then, but yoday I am happy again I am a mother to a rainbow child❤🕯

    • @nette2144
      @nette2144 Před 4 měsíci

      AMEN!!! Halleluujah! He is the King of Glory!!!

  • @user-of6lu9ql4x
    @user-of6lu9ql4x Před 5 měsíci +9

    Madam speaker is effortlessly funny🤣Love how she calm she is about her situation 💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @masegonyambeni456
    @masegonyambeni456 Před 5 měsíci +28

    Listening to Madam Speaker talk about holiding her deceased baby took me back to 2021 when I was in the very same position. The nurses telling you to spend time with the baby before they take her away and you begging God to take you instead. I pray to get to the part of healing where Madam Speaker is now, it truly is inspiring.

  • @penelopemamba5665
    @penelopemamba5665 Před 5 měsíci +14

    The bread and butter must be Eskom mmmmh. Beautiful conversation. Love from 🇸🇿

  • @AntoniaMakwaeba85
    @AntoniaMakwaeba85 Před 5 měsíci +17

    I have so much respect for madam speaker, great interview as always❤

  • @Grow_with_Paballo
    @Grow_with_Paballo Před 5 měsíci +15

    Two intelligent women having a healthy conversation ❤

  • @tanginahelao
    @tanginahelao Před 5 měsíci +10

    I used to listen to MS on Tik Tok and wondering who is this lady really?? listening to and understanding her story made me have a newfound love and appreciation for her. Such a good narrator and such a brave and intelligent woman. I wish her the very best in this new season♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @thembimnaphu4919
    @thembimnaphu4919 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Madam speaker is a very strong lady❤

  • @tebogomacipa9048
    @tebogomacipa9048 Před 2 měsíci +2

    *Life happens to the living* powerful words. I really enjoyed this interview.

  • @Marthashiningstar
    @Marthashiningstar Před 5 měsíci +13

    Thats not love,u cant pay School fees butu claim to love the kids

  • @boitumeloagnesboitumelo5349
    @boitumeloagnesboitumelo5349 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am 31 years old and I feel that you are just talking about my life. I have changed so many physiologists and this session was sooo healing and i had a deep relationship interview. I loved this...

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Sent studio is super amazing

  • @lydiasekete3584
    @lydiasekete3584 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Madam speaker, keep on speaking and empower woman
    You intelligent, brave and courageous

  • @zanelekhumalo1393
    @zanelekhumalo1393 Před 5 měsíci +28

    Thanks to madam speaker for opening my eyes. I'm in the process of leaving my toxic marriage, I was in denial all along

    • @DearLisa
      @DearLisa Před 5 měsíci

      I know it might not be easy. I hope God gives you the strength and protects you ❤

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane Před 5 měsíci +22

    Thanks Madam speaker for sharing your story. I feel like you were married to my husband. I divorced him for pretty much the same reasons, I was exhausted.

  • @user-hq6lg2vh3m
    @user-hq6lg2vh3m Před 5 měsíci +10

    For me the way she looks she seems like a tall lady

  • @khulisomashau578
    @khulisomashau578 Před 5 měsíci +10

    I am so glad that I listened to her story because I feel like I never gave myself a chance to know her well through her work. Thank you so much Promise. 🥰

  • @ndilihonge7839
    @ndilihonge7839 Před 5 měsíci +5

    My two favorite ladies in one video,I love you madam speaker you are such a strong woman and that's my type woman.

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Love you both.. Strong beautiful women! I'm sorry for the loss of your baby Madam speaker❤

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 Před 5 měsíci +8

    I loved loved loved this conversation…. Am obsessed ❤️

  • @phililemosia6956
    @phililemosia6956 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Madam speaker is an amazing person, She is an engineer, fashion designer, motivational speaker, owns a CZcams channel wee kuningi nje kuningi umama wabantwana ,sister, frnd, aunt haibo konke nje 😊❤

  • @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
    @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Beautiful soul. Beautiful mind. Well spoken.

  • @tholangmoeketsi6093
    @tholangmoeketsi6093 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Oh Madam speaker it's first time hearing your baby story,so heartbreaking,it's true God revives you such a great woman,God bless you more sisi

  • @amantlematiti8265
    @amantlematiti8265 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I didn't know Madam speaker until this show . What a powerhouse , highly intelligent and incredibly articulate. I watched right till the end . You have gained a fan Madam ! Top tier content.

  • @marymulea4338
    @marymulea4338 Před 5 měsíci +6

    This episode really helped to heal yoh I lost my 12 month old girl I have trauma of neonatal ICU praying one day I will heal and speak about it like Madam thank you Promise

    • @nomzamogumbi214
      @nomzamogumbi214 Před 4 měsíci

      Me too ...I hate hospitals my newborn died in Nicu after 28days as well😢

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Madam Speaker is very funny😂😂😂.. I just love her ❤

  • @user-tv6lu3em2g
    @user-tv6lu3em2g Před 5 měsíci +4

    The power in her voice yerrrrrrrrrrr

  • @MothebanesweetnessTlaka-ig3hk
    @MothebanesweetnessTlaka-ig3hk Před 5 měsíci +11

    Loved every minute of this❤️

  • @nothandomadalane4041
    @nothandomadalane4041 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Very beautiful to watch, Madam Speaker indeed is a speaker because all I wanted to do was to listen to her speak.. ❤❤❤ Thank you MrsLaw for such a beautiful episode..

  • @Mo-Mo809.
    @Mo-Mo809. Před 5 měsíci +15

    Addressing issues in a relationship is a must,most people hold on to nothing hoping things will mericulously change.

  • @khanyisamajodina7684
    @khanyisamajodina7684 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Tada afta tada😂😂😂😂 girl you inspire me so much,we have similarities of life stories i can relate thanks for sharing your story,i lost 7 months old beautiful baby girl but when i think about her i literally cry i can't accept the will of god but youade me strong by sharing your story

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Před 5 měsíci +15

    The video quality is so crisp, really beautiful! Also loving the new studio. Enjoyed this conversation ladies❤️

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu Před 5 měsíci +7

    Love you madam speaker , you are so brave . You didn’t wanna please people or Ps by staying in dysfunctional merriage.

  • @kwenasemenya944
    @kwenasemenya944 Před 5 měsíci +13

    "Go ya seantlo" when your partner marries your sister after one passes on

  • @dikeledinaledi4066
    @dikeledinaledi4066 Před 5 měsíci +3

    It's true when they say don't judge a book by it's cover.
    Madam Speaker I have more respect for you more than ever before.
    Thank you Promise indeed

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Great conversation ladies! People who want to get married should listen to real life experiences. It's a survival kit homestly!

  • @mrsspringbok
    @mrsspringbok Před 5 měsíci +10

    What I’m learning here is the importance of pre-marital counselling. Most divorcees say they were red flags but they ignored them. Almost zero of them admit that a man just made a 360 change in a marriage

    • @tebogolesaba9520
      @tebogolesaba9520 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Pre-counselling is very critical
      Financial, Spiritual and Legal councellong

    • @mrsspringbok
      @mrsspringbok Před 5 měsíci

      @@tebogolesaba9520 I can’t emphasise it more it’s like having a navigator, constantly giving you directions each time you get to an intersection. Ofcoz it’s your responsibility to follow its directions. But imagine not having navigation at all, yoh! Disaster!!

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Před 5 měsíci +5

    The studio is so beautiful❤❤...a great interview.

  • @Reset_With_Louisa
    @Reset_With_Louisa Před 5 měsíci +2

    My favorite episode. You are doing very well and growing Mrs Law. Keep it to your own lane always❤️❤️Love and light Madam Speaker

  • @connymontsho
    @connymontsho Před 5 měsíci +3

    Madam Speaker you are strong, i was gon tell my baby's story crying

  • @ratshilimadzulani
    @ratshilimadzulani Před 5 měsíci +12

    The love i have for madam speaker❤

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Beautiful show indeed. I enjoyed listening to Madam Speaker. I really love her so much. Cheers 🍻 to you, Promis. ❤

  • @motshewamaope6879
    @motshewamaope6879 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much madam spreaker for sharing your story. I am touched in so many ways.

  • @Millibabe
    @Millibabe Před 5 měsíci +6

    Very nice to get to know madam speaker more ❤❤

  • @machego_M
    @machego_M Před 5 měsíci +3

    Yoh madam speaker you such a strong soul, i dont think i will get back to life after i lost my first child❤, more strength to you sis

  • @lebogangletlhare2443
    @lebogangletlhare2443 Před 5 měsíci +3

    My two fave❤.Beautiful interview Promise.well done mami.
    Love n light to you Madam Speaker,May your baby's beautiful soul rest in eternal peace 🕯

  • @nthabisengtimbane4572
    @nthabisengtimbane4572 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Life changing episode I loved watching your podcast

  • @vivyfitmom2154
    @vivyfitmom2154 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Promise i like how you handled this interview...very good

  • @miahwame1782
    @miahwame1782 Před 3 měsíci +2

    "Sometimes the things that you wanna work on, are things thats gonna kill you"

  • @lentjusharon8436
    @lentjusharon8436 Před 5 měsíci +2

    lol I screamed watching seeing this. I love you both SM♥️

  • @sindisiwesibiya3939
    @sindisiwesibiya3939 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Loved this, madamspeaker has a new fan❤.
    This was done so well Promise🎉

  • @Khensimangena
    @Khensimangena Před 5 měsíci +3

    For the first time I watch your you tube channel and gals I love you both ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kedibonerantho8281
    @kedibonerantho8281 Před 5 měsíci +9

    The first podcast I watched from start to finish. This woman is me, and I'm her. Thank you sesi for having her❤❤❤

  • @kgotatsomothle8075
    @kgotatsomothle8075 Před 5 měsíci +1

    enjoyed this episode.... oooh how i love Madam Speaker, they way she conduct herself👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @hildadavids217
    @hildadavids217 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Debt is a serious problem, it can break family. That is something that everyone must be careful about. I would prefer getting married out of community of property. What is yours is yours and what is mine is mine. Antinaptual contract is the way to go. If not, your assets will be attached because of your irresponsible partner.

  • @juliamosoane6113
    @juliamosoane6113 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Oh madam speaker you are so liberated.. i respect you so much.. i appreciate you sharing your story 🥺❤

  • @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153
    @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Beautiful interview Mrs Law, enjoyed it so much

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Před 5 měsíci +8

    Yeah let’s not even go there Promise, madam speaker can see the tension/beef your having with Owamie. I’m glad she didn’t choose to go there.. she knows the vile things ex husband do.

  • @Jcel4786
    @Jcel4786 Před měsícem

    I love this woman bazalwane , very powerful ❤

  • @colettemashigoane4262
    @colettemashigoane4262 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I enjoyed this interview. Thank you ladies ❤

  • @oitumetselekana
    @oitumetselekana Před 5 měsíci +2

    I really enjoyed this episode …very eye opening for those planning on getting married ❤️

  • @nthabisengmoshana8589
    @nthabisengmoshana8589 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed the interview, my only complaint is that it was too short, wished it was longer, she has so much to say. I love Madam Speaker

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Před 5 měsíci +9

    Promise, you’ve never discussed your deal breakers before😂😂🤣🤣 the narrative that was driven is that you have none!😂🤣

  • @palesa_elisa
    @palesa_elisa Před 5 měsíci +12

    😭The baby story had me crying bucket loads

  • @bongigarane4399
    @bongigarane4399 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great interview from start to finish. Loved it

  • @khumomahlase7245
    @khumomahlase7245 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Yah neh...may the good Lord carry you thru my sister

  • @paulushelena7819
    @paulushelena7819 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Jooog I learned a lot from this...this woman is intelligent

  • @nangasikade2992
    @nangasikade2992 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Helo. Queens❤...Thank you for this interview

  • @katebimbito3009
    @katebimbito3009 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Madam speaker😢may God perform wonders with your life❤

  • @user-zi9fe2pk2o
    @user-zi9fe2pk2o Před 5 měsíci +1

    Madam speaker thank you so much my dear for sharing you are a strong woman I love you ❤❤I wish you all the best ladies

  • @BK-lf1nw
    @BK-lf1nw Před 5 měsíci +21

    Promise, you are a gifted interviewer. I thoroughly enjoy how you are able to effortlessly connect with people and pull honest conversations from them.
    Please make these interviews 2 hours, I always want more 😂

  • @ItirelengLesufi-mo5uf
    @ItirelengLesufi-mo5uf Před 5 měsíci +1

    Loved this interview so much ❤️❤️❤️.

  • @hildadavids217
    @hildadavids217 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Madam speaker, you are a brilliant woman. You are elequent in expressing yourself. Thank you for helping the women out there.

  • @rachelandrews5746
    @rachelandrews5746 Před měsícem

    Perseverance you are so strong it seems you are having life easy. Smiling happy and positive. Everything will be OK. In God's own time.

  • @hymnistmapulaphaho7848
    @hymnistmapulaphaho7848 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Shuuuuuuu I think I love Madam speaker even more now❤❤❤❤❤And also you Sesi Promise you captured my heart

  • @roseannbarrows5266
    @roseannbarrows5266 Před 5 měsíci +1

    We need a part 2 I need to hear more loved this one 😊

  • @MukwevhoRofhiwaLeaneth
    @MukwevhoRofhiwaLeaneth Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience, love you so much ❤❤❤

  • @debbiethephoenix6451
    @debbiethephoenix6451 Před 5 měsíci +4

    In Setswana we call what Promise was describing “sea ntlo”… the practice of a man marrying his late wife’s younger sister .. my grandad did it with my grandmother 😊

  • @Zamashenge35
    @Zamashenge35 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Beautiful conversation ❤