Diana on being a young Widow

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  • @khethamabaso2898
    @khethamabaso2898 Před 3 měsíci +44

    8.2 views but only 285 likes.... we need to keep our podcasts alive. The likes are so important. Can we please support our people

  • @patiencemacauley8822
    @patiencemacauley8822 Před 2 měsíci +30

    Presenter please control yourself and be careful with the words you use. She did not go to sleep with a dead husband! He died on their matrimonial bed in his sleep. May his soul RIPP ✝️

  • @thinazondeka6969
    @thinazondeka6969 Před 3 měsíci +31

    This story reminds me of how my mom died. My dad had prostate cancer, he was on stage 3. He literally couldn't do anything. My mom was the one helping him. Dad woke up to my dead mom. Most painful thing is that he couldn't even touch his wife. He asked my sister to turn her so that he can see that she's really dead. He head to spend an HR plus next to his dead wife waiting for avbob to come get her. He followed his wife a 4weeks later. My mom died From heart attack. She couldn't accept that her husband was going to die.

    • @dieketsoarcilia63
      @dieketsoarcilia63 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Iyooo....this is so sad hey....am so sorry

    • @thinazondeka6969
      @thinazondeka6969 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@dieketsoarcilia63 it's okay, It happened in 2011 so we got used to it.

    • @user-po3vy1pn2v
      @user-po3vy1pn2v Před 2 měsíci +2

      Sorry to hear u story to bury 2 parent same yr was painful prostate Canser is dangerous u

    • @mantuza7
      @mantuza7 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sorry to hear your pain

    • @loniamalatji5454
      @loniamalatji5454 Před 28 dny

      😢

  • @apehekiemieze4141
    @apehekiemieze4141 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Sus Diana ,you are blessed having your mother during the toughest moment. My husband passed away on 22 June 2021 and mind you, I was alone due to Covid-19, and my mother died in 2014, so it was rough without a mothers love 😢but the grace of God keeps me strong this year we are celebrating his third year in heaven. To God be the glory the Lord take and the Lord gives. After his deaths, many good things happened to me and my children 💔 😢Yohhh. ...the pain of death is unbearable as a young widow at the age of 37 years 💔 😢... Prayers and hugs 🫂 from Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @user-hu2ui6nq3e
    @user-hu2ui6nq3e Před 3 měsíci +14

    Diana is a natural story teller. I'm laughing yet I tuned in set to listen to a very sad story. Keep growing stronger, girl!!❤

  • @menniekumalo3276
    @menniekumalo3276 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Not a long of things scare me. But the thought of losing my husband shakes me to the core😢 Strength to the lady😢😢

    • @Boity_Lehihi
      @Boity_Lehihi Před 3 měsíci +1

      Not only loosing him, but leaving you with young children 😢😢😢😢yohhhh

  • @thinakhoza8237
    @thinakhoza8237 Před 3 měsíci +4

    For me, it's about the entire family worshiping together! Be well Sis'Diana❤

  • @MrsJay-il5db
    @MrsJay-il5db Před 3 měsíci +6

    I admire this brave woman, may God keep you and your children. Love and light! 🙌🏼🤎

  • @malnozi
    @malnozi Před 3 měsíci +8

    I like this lady mahn ❤❤❤ so well poised, calm natured, articulate and gracious.

  • @lindiwemadonsela3410
    @lindiwemadonsela3410 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I am proud of sis Diana. Your journey will bring healing to many. All glory be to God

  • @kgomotsopriscillaramphalen2367
    @kgomotsopriscillaramphalen2367 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I really appreciate coming accross this podcast,i resonate with so many things that Cc Diana said.I became a widow at 37 and i never saw it coming,it hit me hard and i ended up being depressed.I consequently lost my job due to depression.My life took a turn left the day he died,nothing was ever the same.The heartache i went through was too much and i never healed.Today i am back working on contract and i still have the trauma of loosing someone i love,i do not date becoz i am protecting myself from the heartbreak.This loss affected me and my children's lives,i was unemployed for six years with no source of income and deep in depression.I missed out on my chidren's milestones coz i was forever alone in my bedroom,no lights and hardly ate.Attempted suicide several times but i am still here.I thank God for keeping me safe to date.Loosing a partner is not a joke.

  • @NonoMakena
    @NonoMakena Před 3 měsíci +39

    So true my dear! when your husband puts you first. Its so easy for you n mamazala to get a long. His boundaries must be very clear n the rest just falls into place.

  • @paulinatsoletsane7115
    @paulinatsoletsane7115 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I shared a tear after watching and listening to this brave woman,it remines me when i lost my dearest mum,the pain its unbearable,i couldnt cope,i definatly want a copy of that book

  • @t23663
    @t23663 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Aww man❤❤❤. Im just happy her husband loved her until his last days. Also the words of wisdom from her dad? She has been surrounded with so much love❤

  • @user-fv4kv5eo2c
    @user-fv4kv5eo2c Před 2 měsíci +2

    😭😭This story is very painful it reminds me of losing my partner of 46 years within 3 days during covid in 2021and last year during Good Friday my son was killed. At present i don't want visitors 'cause they will ask you questions like what happened and so on.Diana my child i feel for u but God is always with u and has given u some strength.Be Blessed.

  • @RoseKotana
    @RoseKotana Před 3 měsíci +8

    This was eye opener I always complain how my husband not giving money while he does everything in the house and me working and never ask what I do with my money but Wow when she say his debit orders and him doing grocery part I just realized I am ungrateful thank you

  • @nthabisengmoshana8589
    @nthabisengmoshana8589 Před 3 měsíci +3

    She is so calm and tells her story in such detail, I really enjoyed the episode. Strength to Sis Diana and her kids

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Life neh. Im shutted....im loving the fact that you are now strong... id ont want to say you have healed but you are strong....sending love and light

  • @olgabila7020
    @olgabila7020 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Whoow this is amazing,thanks nwana papa may God continue revealing Himself through you proud of you gal❤️❤️❤️

  • @palesas6301
    @palesas6301 Před 3 měsíci +2

    The amount of times she referred to her father ☺️ ❤️

  • @ThaboMogolola
    @ThaboMogolola Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you Promise I got my copy.thank you so much for your kindness and to Diana I'm looking forward to the healing journey through this book

  • @pamelamashaba4515
    @pamelamashaba4515 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great interview, well spoken Sis Diana ❤

  • @matanato01
    @matanato01 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Yo Promise, this was such a relatable interview. My prayers to Sesi Diana and her family, may she find peace and healing. I would like to know if she has an audio book in Xitsonga, we recently lost our father and I would like to get it for my mother.

  • @mildredmenda4451
    @mildredmenda4451 Před 3 měsíci +7

    This really touched me. I am a Kenyan, I am a new window. I lost my husband last October 2023. I am still in disbelieve that my husband is no more. I really need to get that book. I will appreciate it. Thanks

    • @karehat5241
      @karehat5241 Před 3 měsíci

      Hugs mama 🫂 frm 🇰🇪.

    • @blossomdeejohn7699
      @blossomdeejohn7699 Před 2 měsíci

      You are nor alone sis. Hugs n comfort sending you from 🇳🇬

  • @samanthazungu9222
    @samanthazungu9222 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is so informative and scary at the time...my sister you are strong...thank you for the book❤❤❤

  • @katmatlou
    @katmatlou Před měsícem

    She fell in love with his character and values as well as the way he treated her. She did not care about his looks or his money.❤❤

  • @melvisgumbo
    @melvisgumbo Před 3 měsíci +4

    Thank you for this podcast. This is the reason i subscribed.
    Thankful for the book, can't wait to read it.

  • @khanyisamaluleke6399
    @khanyisamaluleke6399 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I think I need this book,I lost my grandma in November and I am really struggling to get over her death

    • @Ownnarrativepodcast
      @Ownnarrativepodcast  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Send us a WhatsApp on 0837799601 and we will give you. You just need to organise delivery

  • @ladytee9019
    @ladytee9019 Před 3 měsíci +2

    😢😢😢😢This is traumatic she's a strong lady 💪 ❤❤❤❤

  • @emillypesanai9855
    @emillypesanai9855 Před 2 měsíci +1

    thank you Diana very insightful and you are very intelligent

  • @sipandrelax
    @sipandrelax Před 3 měsíci +7

    Felt like she’s talking about my husband, the only thing I enjoy doing is cooking for my family but going to the mall, doing shopping it’s not my portion. Have to up my game in appreciating my husband hey, I remember getting shocked just a few months ago when I wanted to buy nappies, the price shocked me coz my husband is the one who always buy things in the house.
    I learned a lot from this episode, thank you Diana and thank you Promise for always bringing best guests 🙏🏾🫶🏽

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela
    @unlockwiththandomaumela Před 3 měsíci +7

    This interview is powerful 😊
    So relatable nje... My husband is that discription. My husband is an awesome guy, buys groceries and shops and just sorts us out.
    I must appreciate my husband more. 😊

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM Před 3 měsíci +1

      I love comments like this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
      Please appreciate that guy

    • @unlockwiththandomaumela
      @unlockwiththandomaumela Před 3 měsíci

      @@ntokotoPM absolutely, I'm blessed to be honest ❤️

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela
    @unlockwiththandomaumela Před 3 měsíci +6

    ❤❤❤A man of his word.
    My husband is just like that 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @user-nf7ol5yd2l
    @user-nf7ol5yd2l Před 2 měsíci +1

    We love you, Mam Diana ❤❤❤

  • @johannapudyane9230
    @johannapudyane9230 Před 3 měsíci +1

    As soon as she mentioned my home town Modimolle where the book is being couriered the most 😭😭😭our friends are loosing the husband’s at a very young age..this is very painful to watch..#love and light to you mommy…

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This took me bck, loosing my husband wasn't easy,I was also depressed after my husband's passing

  • @kabophirinyane4612
    @kabophirinyane4612 Před 2 měsíci +1

    ....."walking into that house" its been 13 months since my mum passed...but its still very very hard for me...the past 2 months have been very hard i dont know why...its like i shut down all over again....its been a roller coaster...sorry Ma..God will see u thru..🇧🇼🇧🇼 pls have an ebook for us across the boarders🙏

  • @karabomoncho
    @karabomoncho Před 3 měsíci +2

    Her husband's passing was exactly how my dad passed... Just when she thought he was well, he passes

  • @ntwananoNdima
    @ntwananoNdima Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow wow. What an emotional & impactful episode. Very deep

  • @maytshifularo5415
    @maytshifularo5415 Před měsícem

    The way I cried watching this video. Death is painful.

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Yoh lefu lona, aowa hle!

  • @mammusomanale7598
    @mammusomanale7598 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I think I will need it as I’m still struggling with the loss of my sister who passed on 19/3/2023 just 4days after she accompanied me to airport when I was going back to work in Saudi Arabia!😔😔I had to go back home after just working 1 shift for her burial! I felt robbed because she was everything to us as our sister and aunt to our kids!! My mom passed away in 2020 during lockdown and I couldn’t go home to bury her due to lockdown and unavailability of flights between Mzanzi and Saudi Arabia😢😢😢

  • @phumzilemoilwa9742
    @phumzilemoilwa9742 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Yhooh this journey is painful I don't wish it to anyone I lost my husband 28 July 2023 because of cancer 💔💔

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Sesi Promise❤ you never disappoint

  • @rhodahmakgosa2
    @rhodahmakgosa2 Před 3 měsíci

    Love and light mothers 🥰😍🥰

  • @bontlemoraka5452
    @bontlemoraka5452 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I lost my husband and the father of my 2 boys in 2021 and I am still struggling to navigate life. Loosing a husband when you are still young and will small kids is no child's play

  • @user-nf2mm8sg7j
    @user-nf2mm8sg7j Před 3 měsíci

    Well spoken sis Diana❤

  • @thembisilemsiza942
    @thembisilemsiza942 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Love this ! I almost gave up coz story started in the middle without intro 😅 glad I stuck it out 😊

  • @boitumeloratshefola2508
    @boitumeloratshefola2508 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Mama Diana I ❤ u💐

  • @dimakhoele6058
    @dimakhoele6058 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Death shouldn't be a scary process..I guess she did see that death was peaceful

  • @lamlapota6040
    @lamlapota6040 Před 3 měsíci +5

    When she said " one thing's my husband never thought me , is to live without him" 😭😭😭😭😭
    It's been a year since my Hubby passed and I've been struggling with many things Sis Diana mentioned, groceries, buying clothes specially undies for my daughter and how he never thought me how to live without him.... 2days without eachother felt like a lifetime, now that I'm doing this life thing without him feels like a bad dream everyday and I praise myself everyday for doing my kids laundry, washing dishes and cook for them because WOOOOW it's a struggle 😢😢😢😢
    But I thank God everyday for strength to look at my kids without crying 🙌🙌🙌

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela
    @unlockwiththandomaumela Před 3 měsíci +1

    Leadership belongs to sis Diana. 😂😂You just do it yourself mogirl as long as you are an independent woman. Young girls must learn to push his independence. 🎉🎉❤

  • @user-zq7sl2tu2q
    @user-zq7sl2tu2q Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yoh Diana's story is sooo sad .stay strong my girl. Woman OF strength I salute you ❤

  • @thinakhoza8237
    @thinakhoza8237 Před 3 měsíci

    Very brave sis'Diana, yhoooo 😮, the line about realising that he was no more! Anyways, your life was well lived with him, may his soul continue to rest in peace.

  • @mahlogonolophokanoka7183
    @mahlogonolophokanoka7183 Před 3 měsíci

    I can relate so much to this, lost the father of my child 10 years ago, gets harder each year because the older I get the more cognisant I am of who and what i have lost.
    It's a journey, a long lonely one.
    Hai, nna re bo kedibone 😅
    Shuuuu

  • @kgomotsoegulube7570
    @kgomotsoegulube7570 Před 3 měsíci

    I need this book

  • @karaboslife5269
    @karaboslife5269 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @juliamahlangu5340
    @juliamahlangu5340 Před 3 měsíci +1

  • @marietabingatati5914
    @marietabingatati5914 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Mindfulness to the “eh, eh, eh, eh”

  • @Notesfrommypad
    @Notesfrommypad Před 3 měsíci +5

    The host is so rough😰
    “He died inside your bed!” Aybo gal kanti wena ubufuna afe under the bed? Also it was their bed not her bed.
    “You slept with your dead husband until five?” You seem to be highlighting crazy stuff and not how sweet it was that he died in her arms❤ akere he was the love of her life.

    • @thulisindane9989
      @thulisindane9989 Před 3 měsíci

      Yoh! She looks bored and rude!😢

    • @tebogolemao3389
      @tebogolemao3389 Před 25 dny

      Exactly, aaai Promise sometimes her reaction and questioning 👎
      The husband died next to the love of his life

  • @mahlatsemakorowa5955
    @mahlatsemakorowa5955 Před 3 měsíci +1

    😢 very deep

  • @agnesbasemera
    @agnesbasemera Před 2 měsíci

    Hi, thanks for the caurage, in Uganda

  • @mphothiedilorraine
    @mphothiedilorraine Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m in Durban where can I buy the book

  • @Its_just_soso02
    @Its_just_soso02 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This episode was very emotional, Sis Diana may God give you strength to keep your family together.My father denied me a relationship with him last year May(i am born and breed in Botswana,he lives in South Africa with his other family).....I just can't heal from all his words,i wish i could eraser it all in my head.
    All i want is to have a relationship with him and most importantly be able to accept the way things are
    Love and light to everyone going through a tough time 😢❤

  • @bongythwala9840
    @bongythwala9840 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Yazi one kwavele kwahamba kahle emshadwen kuvele kushone oyedwa

  • @apehekiemieze4141
    @apehekiemieze4141 Před 2 měsíci

    I am in Namibia 🇳🇦 how to get the book 📖 ...

  • @fundimashishi5357
    @fundimashishi5357 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Eish .my fears all along.... when I divorced...I had in me that I dodged the bullet I was always afraid of...losing a partner by death.i thought of that pain and it always felt paralysed...Im soo afraid to get married again...just because of the pain i imagine💔

    • @Notesfrommypad
      @Notesfrommypad Před 3 měsíci

      You can’t live in fear mama, you need God’s intervention, he is a wonderful counsellor 🙏

  • @EmmaZoe-wm2wc
    @EmmaZoe-wm2wc Před 2 měsíci

    My best friend lost her husband after being married for 1 year six months, she must get this book

  • @thinakhoza8237
    @thinakhoza8237 Před 3 měsíci

    The question about "how the banks knew that the hubby had passed on"? Hayi, sengathi akuhambanga kahle kwi Presenter/ Host. Anyways, thanks to Sis'D, she answered it so well, in a very mature way.

  • @naomemabula5107
    @naomemabula5107 Před 21 dnem

    I need the book

  • @sheronsnethembancube2693
    @sheronsnethembancube2693 Před 3 měsíci +3

    This host always has the same story with the greater it's me?

  • @daphneymabasa3817
    @daphneymabasa3817 Před 3 měsíci

    I need it for my niece, I'm un Kempton Park West

  • @angiemakintane1383
    @angiemakintane1383 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I am definitely buying myself a copy. Ke u ratile.❤

  • @dima309
    @dima309 Před 2 měsíci

    Aus Promise you definitely a Jeanette Jackson look alike🎉

  • @nosisekodidi3111
    @nosisekodidi3111 Před 2 měsíci +2

    binge watching these episodes cause I love Promise but her lack of emotional intelligence and sympathy is so off putting. A dog dies bathong a human being passes on!!

    • @tebogolemao3389
      @tebogolemao3389 Před 25 dny

      Toooo Promise need serious coaching, she has great interviewee's but her line of questioning and lack of emotional remorse bathing aaai
      She puts me off honestly

  • @WetsoMogorosi
    @WetsoMogorosi Před 3 měsíci +1

    i would react exactly like Promise if someone told me their husband passed next to them.😭yooh!

  • @marietabingatati5914
    @marietabingatati5914 Před 3 měsíci +1

    No offense; when you listen carefully you will “hear it”

  • @maropengmasemola4902
    @maropengmasemola4902 Před 17 dny

    Mom Diana's story wanted the giants like Relebogile Mabotja and Madam Speaker for me Promise is still in grade RR not yet uhuru

    • @Ownnarrativepodcast
      @Ownnarrativepodcast  Před 17 dny

      LOL sadly the giants are not really giants in Gods eyes and thats why Grade RRs like myself are having these conversations

  • @Lovyours
    @Lovyours Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi 👋

  • @emillypesanai9855
    @emillypesanai9855 Před 2 měsíci

    presenter give the interviewee time to explain not to sound like Diana. Diana has her story let her tell it out. presenter asks questions

  • @Khenzi-so7hq
    @Khenzi-so7hq Před 10 dny

    His stingy tht one

  • @Khenzi-so7hq
    @Khenzi-so7hq Před 10 dny

    Limpopo men are not romantic wena des one where does he come from😮

  • @user-kn5iq8oh5m
    @user-kn5iq8oh5m Před 3 měsíci

    Try to be Kenyans, Hadi munatweng English

  • @Khenzi-so7hq
    @Khenzi-so7hq Před 10 dny

    Plz let's not worship husband like if is God if it ws you he would have replaced you wth another woman 😢😢

  • @ndwandwewasendwedwe7964
    @ndwandwewasendwedwe7964 Před 3 měsíci

    Dirty Diana

  • @MashuduMakwarela
    @MashuduMakwarela Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow, sis Diana. I enjoyed listening to your story. We thank God for the beautiful experience you had. You made me think when you said, "Your husband didn't prepare to live without him". Life is so unpredictable, I just thought for a moment, am I? I am also married ha Makwarela 🫂