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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • an audio i made with alan watts’ speech “falling into love” put together with ‘get you the moon’ by kina, so all rights to both of them:) also gifs aren’t mine, just found them on tumblr to put in the video for context, so rights to the makers of the gifs as well. you can use this audio if you desire to.
    Well now really when we go back into falling in love. And say, it's crazy. Falling. You see? We don't say "rising into love". There is in it, the idea of the fall. And it goes back, as a matter of fact, to extremely fundamental things. That there is always a curious tie at some point between the fall and the creation. Taking this ghastly risk is the condition of there being life. You see, for all life is an act of faith and an act of gamble. The moment you take a step, you do so on an act of faith because you don't really know that the floor's not going to give under your feet. The moment you take a journey, what an act of faith. The moment that you enter into any kind of human undertaking in relationship, what an act of faith. See, you've given yourself up. But this is the most powerful thing that can be done: surrender. See. And love is an act of surrender to another person. Total abandonment. I give myself to you. Take me. Do anything you like with me. See. So, that's quite mad because you see, it's letting things get out of control. All sensible people keep things in control. Watch it, watch it, watch it. Security? Vigilance Watch it. Police? Watch it. Guards? Watch it. Who's going to watch the guards? So, actually, therefore, the course of wisdom, what is really sensible, is to let go, is to commit oneself, to give oneself up and that's quite mad. So we come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity.

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  • @shaunalk8142
    @shaunalk8142 Před 5 lety +6381

    “Love is an act of surrender to another
    person”
    Is the realist thing I’ve ever heard.

    • @briannagonzalez941
      @briannagonzalez941 Před 5 lety +5

      lol middle schooler

    • @shaunalk8142
      @shaunalk8142 Před 5 lety +33

      Brianna Gonzalez nah I’m not in middle school kid I’m 17, it’s just a very true thing In my opinion

    • @dunklock2668
      @dunklock2668 Před 5 lety +33

      Brianna Gonzalez you’re the middle schooler if you think that this isn’t the most realest thing ever to be said about love

    • @zanderdadios1807
      @zanderdadios1807 Před 5 lety +7

      Yeah word I'm 16 and I almost cried lol cuz its true

    • @shaunalk8142
      @shaunalk8142 Před 5 lety +4

      Dunklock owl plays zander dadios
      Exactly! thanks you guys 💓

  • @789Kermit
    @789Kermit Před 5 lety +8346

    *falling in love with someone who doesn't feel the same is the worst*

    • @reeseychu
      @reeseychu Před 4 lety +59

      *agreed...*

    • @illusion5631
      @illusion5631 Před 4 lety +16

      Yup

    • @jonahmuller840
      @jonahmuller840 Před 4 lety +78

      That‘s why we‘re all here :\

    • @mariieebae
      @mariieebae Před 4 lety +5

      Tony Harker right 🚶🏾‍♀️

    • @BDR.Kriminal
      @BDR.Kriminal Před 4 lety +38

      Fuck this man fr fr i hate this rn part of me wants to cry and die when i wanted to give her the world and other part of me wants to get up and show her what i could have done

  • @Dayne-wq8hq
    @Dayne-wq8hq Před 4 lety +7118

    My mom didn’t sign the permission slip for this feel trip

  • @deann4342
    @deann4342 Před 5 lety +5505

    Get you the moon and alan watts is an all time emo collab

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +36

      Skye Shaver bro i know i was so emo when i made this

    • @rubywhite3197
      @rubywhite3197 Před 5 lety +10

      Skye Shaver I knew I recognized snows voice in the background

    • @iiiout8984
      @iiiout8984 Před 5 lety

      So u literally saying that the author alan watts is emo or what lmao ?

  • @chloehepperle5886
    @chloehepperle5886 Před 5 lety +1774

    Me thinking to myself: This guy's insane
    *_But he's also a genius_*

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +12

      Chloe Hepperle rightttt

    • @BEEFlad
      @BEEFlad Před 4 lety +6

      Alan watts is something else. He's amazing with words, he has a ways to put words on thing that are so difficult to explain

  • @elishasaff1440
    @elishasaff1440 Před 4 lety +5022

    I’m not crying at 2am listening to this in the dark feeling oh so alone.

  • @cristina-vn8hn
    @cristina-vn8hn Před 5 lety +3990

    Maybe if I fall in love with my depression
    It will leave me too

    • @pisssxckeren4649
      @pisssxckeren4649 Před 5 lety +66

      mine never left me and my pro officer said its okay to be sad for little time. not for 14 years though. I feel like a lot people or even everyone has depression if you think about it.

    • @nimmieshakes4061
      @nimmieshakes4061 Před 5 lety +14

      I wish this was true

    • @abimorningstar
      @abimorningstar Před 5 lety +28

      Dumb_asf no... sadness and depression are two different things

    • @thegrejdj7540
      @thegrejdj7540 Před 5 lety +5

      Moonlight metaphors exist

    • @abimorningstar
      @abimorningstar Před 5 lety +4

      Thegrejdj they weren’t using a metaphor... they were comparing and they were wrong

  • @bellamariac7812
    @bellamariac7812 Před 5 lety +12741

    *It’s completely dark in my room and there is a thunder storm outside while I’m listening to this...*
    *I’m not crying...you are*

  • @gracefields2279
    @gracefields2279 Před 4 lety +1360

    The crazy thing is that he’s just speaking logic.. it’s literally nothing special but the truth.

    • @explore2265
      @explore2265 Před 4 lety +14

      Grace Fields the truth is special ;)

    • @rockingchairsofpiss1404
      @rockingchairsofpiss1404 Před 4 lety +4

      And that in itself is special

    • @quinncooper1836
      @quinncooper1836 Před 4 lety +3

      except that it’s never spoke

    • @comradeneedham1480
      @comradeneedham1480 Před 4 lety

      Grace Fields the special part is the fact that he’s telling the truth when everyone else is lying to themselves

    • @davidkrautsieder4540
      @davidkrautsieder4540 Před 3 lety +2

      Thats whats so great about Alan Watts he explains everything in a way that seems so logical amd you can understand everything all of a sudden and that to me shows thag hes a genius because the better you are at something the easier it seems to others in my personal experience

  • @rileywagner3216
    @rileywagner3216 Před 5 lety +1872

    with this audio... there is always that one person. you think about

    • @defend1841
      @defend1841 Před 5 lety +6

      Agreed

    • @Pvt.pigeon
      @Pvt.pigeon Před 5 lety +5

      You are actually correct:(

    • @lizzie5002
      @lizzie5002 Před 5 lety +1

      Exactly😖

    • @elainebottcher214
      @elainebottcher214 Před 5 lety +1

      right, my ex:)

    • @GriZPyro
      @GriZPyro Před 5 lety +6

      I won’t lie. She’s beautiful. Anyone can call her anything to stop me. They can tell me anything. No matter what I will see past it. She left me 2 months ago. There hasn’t been a day she left my mind. I will trade really anything for her to be “mine”. 💔

  • @milo1200
    @milo1200 Před 5 lety +7825

    This is beautiful. Painful, But beautiful.

    • @miahehe1219
      @miahehe1219 Před 5 lety +2

      milo oh yeah yeah oh yeah yeah

    • @Nexus16543
      @Nexus16543 Před 5 lety +5

      Man what is happening to world i only see ppl using arnolds picture wth?!?!?!?

    • @edwindominguez4627
      @edwindominguez4627 Před 5 lety +2

      Alen Basic Ik I always think it’s the same person but if it’s not.. it was kinda special ig, till you pointed it out

    • @Toxic-ev1xg
      @Toxic-ev1xg Před 5 lety +2

      @@Nexus16543
      The world is changing
      And it's getting sadder and sadder every second and it's not going to change

    • @Nexus16543
      @Nexus16543 Před 5 lety

      @@Toxic-ev1xg hahahah i hope it would get better May Allah help us all in our difficulties and hardships through this life and other Ameen

  • @bunni583
    @bunni583 Před 4 lety +2500

    *falling for someone who has feelings for your friend hurts.*

    • @kissanminttu2350
      @kissanminttu2350 Před 4 lety +14

      hopelvesstbh/ don’t worry, I know that feel too..

    • @AndreaLopez-qi8pi
      @AndreaLopez-qi8pi Před 4 lety +16

      I fell for someone who fell in love with my sister 💔

    • @lailahokay8437
      @lailahokay8437 Před 4 lety +4

      Rxsez 🙂frl!!! Then all u fo is see them slowly fall in love

    • @joshbarragan2063
      @joshbarragan2063 Před 4 lety +5

      Andrea Lopez same but with my brother, but crazy part is that after months of crazy emotion for this person and with it all settling down to disgust she then told me she loved me. Now I don’t really know how to show affection idk it’s weird but I ended up telling her not to love me in comfortable alone. sry for venting on CZcams

    • @hannahgibson6389
      @hannahgibson6389 Před 4 lety +7

      I like my best friends boyfriend.... but I’m not a bitch I leave their relationship alone and let them be happy because I know what it feels like to get my back turned on and stabbed with my recent ex..

  • @poopiebuttfartt
    @poopiebuttfartt Před 5 lety +944

    "Human touch, we need that from the ones we love as much as we need air to breathe." - Five Feet Apart - Stella

    • @purplerain5567
      @purplerain5567 Před 4 lety +1

      I didnt get to see that movie but i wanted to is there a happy ending? did one of them die?😓

    • @Demol1tion-lovers
      @Demol1tion-lovers Před 4 lety +1

      Purple Rain I will not say who, unless you’ve already seen it. But no spoilers without consent

    • @user-dm4wm6ln3t
      @user-dm4wm6ln3t Před 4 lety +2

      Purple Rain just watch it

    • @funckymonkey5233
      @funckymonkey5233 Před 4 lety +3

      That hit me right in my heart

    • @purplerain5567
      @purplerain5567 Před 4 lety +2

      Hail Satan you have my consent

  • @georgia4082
    @georgia4082 Před 4 lety +6198

    Hey you!
    Yes you
    Stop scrolling
    Breathe
    Relax
    And please just listen to me..I know how you feel..we all know how it feels but pls don't give up everything is gonna be okay..
    I love you❤

    • @nasersalem619
      @nasersalem619 Před 4 lety +79

      Still Ballin u legit made me smile, i love u.

    • @vertexlobster4667
      @vertexlobster4667 Před 4 lety +37

      Thanks I really needed that I will give the rest of my love left too you I am sorry there’s not much left it’s all I have I believe you need it and so I give you the rest of me

    • @georgia4082
      @georgia4082 Před 4 lety +10

      😊💖

    • @rolandemuller6248
      @rolandemuller6248 Před 4 lety +9

      Thx 😘😍❤💋

    • @madaiabigail1863
      @madaiabigail1863 Před 4 lety +8

      thank you.

  • @disday5527
    @disday5527 Před 4 lety +6194

    Psychological fact: You were thinking about someone while watching this video. Someone you have fallen in love with.

    • @amelialoves_sp
      @amelialoves_sp Před 4 lety +256

      Light i was thinking about how im not in love with someone omg

    • @miastoffler2590
      @miastoffler2590 Před 4 lety +47

      my ex boyfriend, yes

    • @briwalker5392
      @briwalker5392 Před 4 lety +246

      I don’t think I’ve fallen in love with them, I think I’ve fallen in love with the image I’ve made in my head about them.

    • @irismarek2756
      @irismarek2756 Před 4 lety +65

      Man I was thinking about anime characters haha

    • @gabesleepy9240
      @gabesleepy9240 Před 4 lety +18

      B R I ._. we learn the hard way, i hated to admit it was true

  • @xonataly159
    @xonataly159 Před 5 lety +3634

    Well I have no faith in the word love anymore.
    Love sucks.
    Hearts break.
    Tears fall.
    Feelings come at you
    like a rushing fire

    • @lnk2473
      @lnk2473 Před 5 lety +39

      Looks like you're going through a tough time doesn't it well listen life will get better and that's a promise you may have gotten heartbroken or left you may have f***** up they may have f***** up but it doesn't matter you can be depressed for a moment but you have to move on you have your whole life ahead of you. Find someone else that can replace that spot I feel your pain and I feel your heart but listen sometimes it's best to move on you can't just stay depressed the whole time if you ever need me I will be here I will give you my scram my snap just so you have somebody to talk to just because I don't like seeing other people be hurt

    • @lnk2473
      @lnk2473 Před 5 lety +3

      My @ for everything is gavyn.depaul

    • @paigealainahorner3912
      @paigealainahorner3912 Před 5 lety +35

      What sucks is how many people use that word. Love. Especially when they don't know what it is.

    • @SyuhaidahFadzil
      @SyuhaidahFadzil Před 5 lety +6

      Stand back up, there's so much more love out there. More people who are willing to give the best love that you deserve. Dont give up now.

    • @userunknown3573
      @userunknown3573 Před 5 lety +3

      CULT KTD I have no faith in love anymore either
      Love sucks
      Hearts break
      Lives are lost
      Lives crush
      People leave
      Tears fall
      Tears rush
      Like a rushing fire
      And my heart can’t take no more so I have given up on love I more heart brake and I’ll be broken and give up

  • @byebrother
    @byebrother Před 5 lety +466

    this makes me sad because i know that no one has ever felt this way about me :/

  • @marshallclement6133
    @marshallclement6133 Před 4 lety +2132

    Mom: go work at Mac Donald’s and care for yourself.
    Friends: dude stop being a cry baby.
    *Music: Hey, is everything alright? Don’t worry you’ll be safe soon.*

  • @emmamarie5378
    @emmamarie5378 Před 5 lety +3346

    i’m in love w my bestfriend who passed exactly a year & a day ago today due to being murdered for protecting his mom , he was only 16 and his sister & mom were also murdered 💔

    • @ZZ-so1ky
      @ZZ-so1ky Před 5 lety +169

      I'm really sorry for you😔 He must have been a great person 😟

    • @emmamarie5378
      @emmamarie5378 Před 5 lety +63

      Zoe Zwaka thankyou so much , he really was 💔

    • @jayvenc5403
      @jayvenc5403 Před 5 lety +44

      Wow that’s deep ❤️

    • @armandoarmijo9010
      @armandoarmijo9010 Před 5 lety +65

      That's so sad to hear especially since I'm in love wit my bestfriend and I'd do anything to protect her and couldn't deal wit it if sumthin happened so your really strong and keep yo head up

    • @eller3794
      @eller3794 Před 5 lety +30

      emma marie I am so sorry ❤️ I will say a prayer for him tonight and I bet he is in a better place and I bet he is watching over you! And if ur not religious that is okay too but I just wanted to let u know he’s in a happy place :)

  • @mollienisiamore5576
    @mollienisiamore5576 Před 5 lety +2133

    Me:”Hello tiktok”
    Tiktok:”welp lets just take this sound”

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +19

      Stitch Vlogs wait what is this a sound now?

    • @Hamburgaufdieeins
      @Hamburgaufdieeins Před 5 lety +10

      Ali Caringola yesssss the first seconds are trending!!

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +8

      yo yo omg where can i find this

    • @jackiemartinez9600
      @jackiemartinez9600 Před 5 lety +3

      Ali Caringola tik tok😂 btw this is rlly good!

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +7

      Jackie Martinez ahahaha thank u i just wanted to see if they could pull up a link so i could see it 😎

  • @sandy5928
    @sandy5928 Před 4 lety +1009

    I'm afraid I'll never find true love, and that's painful too

    • @justinkempkes1313
      @justinkempkes1313 Před 4 lety +68

      Heyy, trust me, you will. I recently did too. I never thought I would, I'm not like other boys, I'm a bit more fat than others, I don't have a good hair or anything and I don't like me for who I am. Yet, she was the one who accepted me for who I truly am. She could've chosen any hot guy in school, but... she chose me... You'll find someone too, you really will.

    • @aatreyobanerjee4216
      @aatreyobanerjee4216 Před 4 lety +4

      @@justinkempkes1313 good story itll help others

    • @nathanbarnes8869
      @nathanbarnes8869 Před 4 lety +13

      True love come when you need it not when you want it ❤️

    • @GrilliCici
      @GrilliCici Před 4 lety +2

      At 16 years old i find my true love, you dont have to find it immediately 😂

    • @antoniarge3253
      @antoniarge3253 Před 4 lety +6

      same. Like, I feel like nobody could ever really love me

  • @tylerwilliams6016
    @tylerwilliams6016 Před 5 lety +1055

    I was thinking of the one special person the whole time during this...

  • @shamlessxroyalty
    @shamlessxroyalty Před 5 lety +1177

    I miss him so much and he doesnt even remember who I am.

    • @avaragsdale1818
      @avaragsdale1818 Před 5 lety +20

      I know I’ll think about him every day but he’ll forget me in a day

    • @Canseeyt
      @Canseeyt Před 5 lety +3

      I remember ❤️

    • @briannagonzalez941
      @briannagonzalez941 Před 5 lety +18

      back in 3rd grade, i met a boy. we became best friends and i had feelings for him and i didn’t know if did too. one day at lunch, we were sitting down and he looks at me all nervous and i look at him, and he asked me “willll you go out with me?” while tilting his head. and i literally just stared at him, i was speechless for some reason and then a couple seconds later he’s like “just kidding eric wanted me to ask you” and i look at eric and eric is eating his hamburger and he looks up from his hamburger all confused, he wasn’t even paying attention to what was happening. anyways so i knew that was an excuse bc my dumbass didn’t give him a respond and i wanted to say yes but i just stood there. anyways a couple months later, they were making him switch to another classroom and i forgot why. i was so sad bc he was my bestfriend and we had so many good memories. but i thought that even after he switched out of our classroom, we were still gonna talk. but i was wrong. after he switched we completely stopped talking, i would see him in the hallways and we just didn’t acknowledge each other. he started hanging out with the “cool” people and ik we were only in 3rd grade but that shit broke my heart, he had a girlfriend and new friends and i was sooo upset. one day during breakfast, he wouldn’t listen to a teacher so they moved him to sit somewhere else, they made him sit in front of me, and he looks at me and says “i did not want to sit near you” he says that all angrily. and i look at him and i say “i don’t wanna sit with you either” and i left the table and went to class. anyways, i dreaded the last part of the year, i hated seeing him because i would always miss what we had, i literally to this day i don’t know why he stopped talking to me, he hated me for some reason and i have no idea for why and ik he hated me bc he would always act rude towards me whenever i saw him. 4th grade comes along and we’re still not talking. one day, he stopped coming to school. he left, and i haven’t seen him since that day. and i was so upset because i missed him, i hated how we ended and i wanted another chance with him. he left without even saying goodbye to me which broke my heart even more. anyways i still think ab him to this day, he was my everything back then. i don’t even know where he’s at, he literally just vanished in the middle of 4th grade. but i low key miss him, his personality was just one of a kind, 5 years later (rn) and i still haven’t found anyone with the same personality, we were such best friends ugh i miss him sm

    • @erisoperr
      @erisoperr Před 5 lety +3

      i feel u all the way bb

    • @Ari-zt1xm
      @Ari-zt1xm Před 5 lety +2

      shamelessxroyalty
      Feel you and understand you more than anything this past month

  • @shaylavallee9554
    @shaylavallee9554 Před 4 lety +673

    I hide my pain so much. I'll be balling my eyes out and when I hear my mom coming down the hall way I wipe my tears and put a smile on my face. I'm so hurt, I recently lost my best friend after 8 years and I can't get over it. I'm fucking broken man, I hate the person I've became.

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety +5

      Same

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety +6

      Crying every night

    • @bazzakunt
      @bazzakunt Před 4 lety +6

      I felt like that for such a long time, I became depressed after I began getting bullied and my girlfriend broke up with me.. I felt like there was no one, I wanted to end it all on the spot, but I got help for my issues and it helps, trust me. Go see a therapist, they really do help, I hope you get better!

    • @dannipeters25
      @dannipeters25 Před 4 lety +5

      Just keep on going you'll be ok Believe in yourself

    • @courtknee1674
      @courtknee1674 Před 4 lety

      shayla Vallee do you need to talk? if so please add me on snap : friskysponge

  • @sharmane_2289
    @sharmane_2289 Před 5 lety +433

    “I hope you fall in love, and it hurts so bad, the only way you can know, you give it all you have,
    and I hope that you don’t suffer, but take the pain, I hope when the moment comes you’ll say
    I lived”

    • @rudyvaldez8103
      @rudyvaldez8103 Před 5 lety +2

      Sharmane W the arty remix is ❤️

    • @jessicablake9979
      @jessicablake9979 Před 5 lety +1

      the song is so true because it feels like torture just knowing someone you love is with someone else

    • @jay-leebusque-blackburn6747
      @jay-leebusque-blackburn6747 Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for that, that is lovely. Is it part of the song's lyrics? I didn't really pay much attention to the music...

    • @morningstars.6408
      @morningstars.6408 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jay-leebusque-blackburn6747 it's from one republic - I lived

    • @ioanagilorteanu
      @ioanagilorteanu Před 4 lety

      this is one of my favourite songs in the whole world, you really blessed my day

  • @keganboy6103
    @keganboy6103 Před 5 lety +72

    This audio hits me harder than any other audio ever has.

  • @nathanmartinez2121
    @nathanmartinez2121 Před 4 lety +259

    “Love is an act of surrender to another person” it hurts but it’s so true

  • @ashyymarievlogs
    @ashyymarievlogs Před 5 lety +509

    always has and probably always will be my favorite audio to listen to. its not just the message that touches me its the he says every word and the 1960s' vibe i get while watching.

  • @kylie3816
    @kylie3816 Před 5 lety +265

    i was in love with him and he told me he felt the same, but he threw everything away. he missed out on someone who would have given him the entire world.

  • @thechickensarewatching4593
    @thechickensarewatching4593 Před 4 lety +331

    I just love his voice it’s.... comforting

  • @skyemc5455
    @skyemc5455 Před 5 lety +29

    Falling in love with someone who says they feel the same when they don’t is the shittiest feeling. That feeling of false hope. The feeling of wanting but never getting.

  • @isbelsoto2047
    @isbelsoto2047 Před 5 lety +226

    Falling in love with someone who is already with somebody else is pretty painful

    • @alexanderborek2262
      @alexanderborek2262 Před 5 lety +3

      I know how u feel. Same thing is happening to me right now

    • @sammybobany
      @sammybobany Před 4 lety

      Isbel Soto
      God always has a plan for everyone. Trust me, I’ve been there. Even though I haven’t really loved anyone, I’ve lost friends and God always had a plan for me. When a door closes a new door will always open, always remember that. 💞

    • @andres.6126
      @andres.6126 Před 4 lety +1

      Pretty Reckless yeah ok👀 I’m a minority within a minority being black and gay, and your telling me your god has a plan to keep me from a 4 year depression I’ve been in? I see these successful CZcams couples who can travel the world to see each other but where is that for me? Where is your god then?

    • @bridgetcampsey9627
      @bridgetcampsey9627 Před 4 lety +1

      i’m going through this right now :,)

    • @idiotmcgee9772
      @idiotmcgee9772 Před 4 lety

      I feel that

  • @wheretheavocados5596
    @wheretheavocados5596 Před 4 lety +167

    Well now really when we go back into falling in love
    And say, it's crazy
    Falling
    You see?
    We don't say "rising into love"
    There is in it, the idea of the fall
    And it is goes back as a matter of fact
    To extremely fundamental things
    That
    There is always a curious
    Tie at some point
    Between the fall
    And the creation
    Taking this ghastly risk
    Ah, is the condition of there being life
    You see, for all life is an act of faith and an act of gamble
    And the moment you take a step
    You do so on an act of faith
    'Cause you don't really know that the floor's not going to give under your feet
    The moment that you enter into any kind of human
    Undertaking in relationship, what an act of faith
    See, you've given yourself up
    But this is the most powerful thing that can be done, surrender
    See, and love is an act of surrender to another person
    Total abandonment
    I give myself to you
    Take me
    Do anything you like with me
    So, that's quite mad
    Because you see it's letting things get out of control
    All sensible people keep things in control
    Watch it, watch it, watch it
    Security?
    Vigilance
    Watch it
    Police?
    Watch it
    Guards?
    Watch it
    Who's going to watch the guards?
    So, actually, therefore, the course of wisdom
    What is really sensible, is to let go
    Is to commit oneself, to give oneself up and that's quite mad
    So we come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity
    The moment you take a journey, what an act of faith

  • @juciefruut8433
    @juciefruut8433 Před 5 lety +414

    I legitimately cried at the end not because of love because it’s true life is crazy I can’t put it in words what I feel.

    • @belmaokumus9946
      @belmaokumus9946 Před 5 lety +2

      TheMrMussolini I know exactly what you feel, I can’t describe it either but it’s freakin overwhelming

    • @sheeebb5970
      @sheeebb5970 Před 5 lety

      i’m so glad you said that. i’ve been feeling that way for so long and i cant explain to anyone how i’m feeling. so i just keep it inside and it’s killing me

  • @alicaringola4943
    @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +1613

    don’t know if anyone will see this, but let me know if u have any video recommendations. tryna make a new video soon :)

    • @yezzylps
      @yezzylps Před 5 lety +5

      Ali Caringola about a boy saying he misses you and you miss him but he’s confusing
      Kinda .. Romeo and Juliet

    • @anyaberchtold
      @anyaberchtold Před 5 lety +5

      Maybe another Alan Watts audio with some lo-fi song in the back

    • @emilyspertus
      @emilyspertus Před 5 lety +5

      how it feels when u are in love with someone but are too afraid to tell them

    • @mackbaileyy
      @mackbaileyy Před 5 lety +1

      Best friend related stuff or internet friend stuff❤️

    • @danielagonzales6
      @danielagonzales6 Před 5 lety +5

      Being afraid to love

  • @_rain-storm_
    @_rain-storm_ Před 3 lety +38

    "Falling in love is like giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart and trusting them not to pull the trigger"....

    • @oh_knee7173
      @oh_knee7173 Před 3 lety +1

      im the one who shot

    • @maryam4971
      @maryam4971 Před 3 lety +1

      @@oh_knee7173 you've broken a heart. Sigh

    • @tishasahota700
      @tishasahota700 Před 3 lety +1

      He didn’t pull the trigger for two years. But then once he did, he killed me.

  • @SImplyBrittany96
    @SImplyBrittany96 Před 5 lety +175

    You know what’s strange? I don’t think of anyone when I listen to this. I’m not tied to anyone or longing for anyone. I’m content being by myself. I’m okay with just me. I loved the audio when I heard it and wanted to listen to the whole thing.
    Love is something we can’t live without on this earth. We wouldn’t survive without it. However, being loved by the right people is what is most important and the fact that no one comes to mind when I listen to this means that I’ve finally reached the place I’ve longed for the most. That place is being brave enough to say that I have to love myself before anyone else and I think I’ve finally found that.

    • @marlaaceves7418
      @marlaaceves7418 Před 5 lety +2

      Brittato I wish I can relate

    • @ThePunkrocker1992
      @ThePunkrocker1992 Před 5 lety +2

      You are amazing thank you for this

    • @remivallot3401
      @remivallot3401 Před 4 lety

      This is beautiful

    • @stopplayingthegame
      @stopplayingthegame Před 4 lety

      I thought you were lying at first by saying you were content by yourself, but that statement was well explained. As an extremely introverted person who always wanted to live on an island by himself, I can say, that this view is naive and everybody wants to have the super strong human connection with another person that exceeds the connection with your own blood family. I hope you come to love yourself and then love another.

  • @averystewart298
    @averystewart298 Před 5 lety +708

    Usually I'm the kinda boy to always smile and make others happy and that's my main goal so when I'm not feeling happy I hide it so they can be happy and this is crazy to say but I loved someone who told me he loved me so o fell for him but after a while he got a girlfriend and left me in the past

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +26

      Yeet Delete i’m sorry i hope u get someone better because everyone deserves someone sm better. i know what it’s like but trust me one day u will find someone

    • @ronniewinningham2662
      @ronniewinningham2662 Před 5 lety +2

      I feel you

    • @aye_204
      @aye_204 Před 5 lety +1

      Oml 😭😭

    • @Vilevic666
      @Vilevic666 Před 5 lety +1

      Me too

    • @laniceboyd986
      @laniceboyd986 Před 5 lety +2

      Yeet Delete i love you💕 just incase no one told you today

  • @wettowelotaku4906
    @wettowelotaku4906 Před 4 lety +45

    Just when I thought I found a
    reason to wake up.
    i lost it...

  • @kalijade7833
    @kalijade7833 Před 5 lety +859

    Word of advice don't watch this while on your peirod 😭

  • @hi_im_genesis
    @hi_im_genesis Před 5 lety +199

    I’m going to take a huge leap of faith. I’m going to tell the person I like that I like them. I’ve fallen and it’s their choice to help me up....
    or not.
    Edit: They helped me up.

  • @chinkyboi756
    @chinkyboi756 Před 4 lety +37

    “There is only on who is powerful, and his greatest weapon is love”- Stan Lee

  • @loonytheworld6480
    @loonytheworld6480 Před 5 lety +128

    The song is "Get You The Moon By Kina(ft. Snow)" for all of you wondering💙

  • @daviddastoli4880
    @daviddastoli4880 Před 5 lety +89

    Never has the line “in madness, lies sanity” made sense before watching this video

  • @savageunicorn167
    @savageunicorn167 Před 4 lety +44

    Person: "What's your biggest fear in life?"
    Me: "Not finding that special someone..."

  • @cryptid096
    @cryptid096 Před 5 lety +95

    It's fooled me once. I feel in love with you, but you lied, tricked, and betrayed me. I moved on
    It's fooled me twice. I fell in love and you wanted to 'just be friends'.
    It's fooled me thrice. I fell in love, she lost interest in me, and fell for someone else.
    Love could be a gift, but for me it has been endless pain. Yet I still wear a smile, even if it's fake. I pretend to be strong, even when I'm weak. Because I'm a guy so I "can't show weakness"
    So I keep my pain locked away. No one sees it, but I have to deal with it. Dying a little more everyday. Sitting. Watching. Waiting. For what you may ask? I'll wait for love in it's truest form. It may never come, but I'll be here.
    Waiting...

    • @talienrosa8523
      @talienrosa8523 Před 5 lety +2

      Dead_Memezz this was deep man

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety +4

      Man i m exactly in the same situation and can not tell anybody cause i m a boy and need to be strong... :(

    • @clayzor8231
      @clayzor8231 Před 4 lety +2

      I feel you. I fell in love with a girl who played with me because of that love, for 5 years she strung me up and tortured me and it’s taken this long to be okay thinking about it. Recently I fell in love again with a guy who was everything to me, he lost feelings and now stares at me from the back of class rooms. We broke up about a month ago now and I haven’t even looked him in the eyes since, I can’t look directly at him. It’s hard, going through all of this, trust me I know. It’s such a common saying but it will get better. As time goes on you’ll be able to look back on these loves with your soulmate in your arms and it’ll be okay. I promise.

    • @tomdylan7426
      @tomdylan7426 Před 4 lety +1

      Dead_Memezz same 😥

    • @madaiabigail1863
      @madaiabigail1863 Před 4 lety +2

      and that’s okay, we’ll wait together. only genuine love is worth waiting for. and all that agony and pain, builds you for them

  • @tayswiftlvr
    @tayswiftlvr Před 5 lety +178

    I was just about to search for this audio and it randomly came into my recommendations... *Fbi open up*

  • @dogboy4621
    @dogboy4621 Před 4 lety +51

    I’ve watched this video to much that i think it’s illegal

  • @elysemeyers1256
    @elysemeyers1256 Před 5 lety +128

    this video made my friend and I realize we are deeply in love with each other. Thank you.

    • @danielhuegel1177
      @danielhuegel1177 Před 4 lety +12

      Elyse Meyers awesome. Happy for you two. Wish you two the best of luck

    • @julesking8355
      @julesking8355 Před 4 lety +3

      How has it worked or didn't work out

    • @LostChxrry23
      @LostChxrry23 Před 4 lety

      This just made life a little bit sweeter

    • @EthalaRide
      @EthalaRide Před 4 lety +2

      ​@@julesking8355 yeah weeeeelll. Didn't work out. Let's just say that. I was in love with the person I thought he was, the person HE thought he was, but getting to know him more intimately I realized he was way pettier and needier than even he realized. Soon, I was his _sole focus_ rather than him trying to grow and better _his own_ life for _himself._ He moved from one addiction to another until I became his new addiction and I couldn't deal with how dishonest he was towards himself, so I broke up with him. For the later parts of our relationship, I didn't feel I could be honest with him about things. I had to walk on eggshells all the time to not hurt his feelings. I learned more about myself and in doing so learned I was worth more, my love was worth more, and it wasn't his fault, he just needed to grow too, but I outgrew him.
      It was a leap of faith. I took it. And he caught me, held me close.
      Then the hold got tighter. got longer. _He wouldn't let go when I said enough._
      He held me down until I couldn't move.
      Would get between me and anything else I was focusing on when we were together. I was always honest about who I was from the very beginning, how independent I was, and that I was looking for someone just as independent and self-assured, and in the beginning, _he was._ Until he became nothing _but_ his insecurity.
      I felt free when I left him. Felt bigger and stronger and more independent than when I first fell for him.
      *_I don't regret it._* The time we spent together was genuinely happy and good. But it was one of those loves where you were only supposed to meet and be together for a certain period of each other's lives, you know? We needed each other in that moment and we worked, _but it wasn't forever, and that is _*_okay._*
      I gave myself to him, but recognized when it was enough for me. Now I know more fully what I want in a partner, and will be even more ready to _take that leap of faith again, someday. I know it_

    • @julesking8355
      @julesking8355 Před 4 lety +2

      @@EthalaRide beautiful story 😢

  • @mythos6771
    @mythos6771 Před 5 lety +75

    I fell from a chair while filming and I used this audio. And when I fell the part of the audio was: “falling”
    I hate myself for laughing every time I listen to this..

  • @skyehope8586
    @skyehope8586 Před 4 lety +18

    Falling in love of trusting someone with a part of yourself and believing that they aren't going to destroy it

  • @sonias805
    @sonias805 Před 5 lety +71

    Why am i addicted to this??
    it have been on repeat the entire day 😂✊

  • @taylorbigelow7142
    @taylorbigelow7142 Před 5 lety +55

    “In madness, lies sanity” 🤧😶

  • @burenyuu8815
    @burenyuu8815 Před 4 lety +38

    Who’s crying their selves thru new year? mee🙋‍♂️

  • @williammoore2313
    @williammoore2313 Před 5 lety +168

    I gave everything I had to a girl even changed myself for her. She left me for her ex through text, that was 2 years ago and I will never be the same.
    Edit: 2 months ago I made this coment and in those 2 months a lot happend. Thank you all for ur support and kind words but for about 1month and 17days I have been having the best relationship of my life so far. That ex did try to get with me again but I kicked her to the curb. Things couldnt be better right now. Thank you all.

    • @CryBaby-eu7fo
      @CryBaby-eu7fo Před 5 lety +3

      You'll find someone, sorry that happened

    • @amaliamacareno1489
      @amaliamacareno1489 Před 5 lety +4

      William Moore same boat buddy

    • @audreymarie6541
      @audreymarie6541 Před 5 lety +1

      i'm so sorry :( i promise not all girls are like that and you'll find the right person ok?

    • @NoName-rf6kr
      @NoName-rf6kr Před 5 lety

      William Moore almost the opposite for me my boyfriend said I was the only one till I found him sending nudes to his ex

    • @pablo3156
      @pablo3156 Před 5 lety

      William Moore i am so happy for u 😉😉

  • @maddy-os5cn
    @maddy-os5cn Před 5 lety +521

    it’s really hard to know that you developed feelings for someone that you’ve never talked to and they don’t even know you exist. i’m pathetic.
    edit: thank you all so much for the loving replies, i am in a little bit of a better place in life, i love you all :}

    • @nathanbrown7872
      @nathanbrown7872 Před 5 lety +3

      totally tubular I get it trust me

    • @sammybobany
      @sammybobany Před 4 lety +10

      totally tubular
      hey, if they don’t notice you then fuck them. They don’t see how amazing you are and if they can’t see your amazingness than they’re lost. 💞

    • @taylortollison4789
      @taylortollison4789 Před 4 lety +2

      Ik u don’t know me but ily:)

    • @susannah8256
      @susannah8256 Před 4 lety +4

      totally tubular no, you’re not pathetic. They are for not noticing you. Sis you’re a badass and don’t let them change that

    • @Julissa.Bookss
      @Julissa.Bookss Před 4 lety +3

      I can relate to this 100%

  • @vanessanaglovska5471
    @vanessanaglovska5471 Před 4 lety +59

    *Falling in love with someone that doesn’t feel the same is the worst*
    here’s my story
    We were so friendly when we first met we got along right away and understood eachother... 4 months later he told me he had to move and we kinda opened up to eachother telling eachother about our lives. i miss that because i found out that he liked me those days when we first met but said that he just got over it like nothing. and i’m on the other side realizing that i really truly loved him. now that he’s gone 1,300 miles away we won’t talk often and he’ll get used to the school and place he’s at and i’ll just fade into a memory that’ll seem like he never even had. *it’s the scariest thing.*

    • @MinecraftBorn2pvp
      @MinecraftBorn2pvp Před 4 lety +4

      Did he truly mean it when he said he got over you quickly or did he say that so you wouldn't hurt over him and move on your with your life and be happy as that's what anyone truly wants for someone and that's to be happy. What if he's 1300 miles away listening to this song on repeat just like you. Try and speak to him you never know. Take the fall.

    • @redditreader9875
      @redditreader9875 Před 4 lety +2

      @@MinecraftBorn2pvp so beautiful. You are truly kind stranger 😭❤

    • @MinecraftBorn2pvp
      @MinecraftBorn2pvp Před 4 lety +1

      @@redditreader9875 I wrote it from my heart. The butterfly effect is amazing. Take care my friend and thank you for the nice comment ^-^ xx

    • @teddybroosevelt6826
      @teddybroosevelt6826 Před 2 lety

      God shut up. Stop seeking attention. Nobody cares

  • @einokuuluvainen
    @einokuuluvainen Před 5 lety +10

    Imagine looking stars at Night and listening this. How beautiful.

  • @lilligriffith539
    @lilligriffith539 Před 5 lety +16

    Love can be such terrifying, sad and a amazing thing

  • @_3rniiee
    @_3rniiee Před 4 lety +15

    Its called a crush because thats what they do to your heart . 💔

  • @lynettetorres8615
    @lynettetorres8615 Před 5 lety +371

    This is so good omg I love this ahhh I’m in love

  • @alysiamarroquin714
    @alysiamarroquin714 Před 4 lety +49

    You know what the sad thing is that you’ll never know if someone loves you

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety

      Yep :(

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety

      Happend to me, had crush on someone she had crush on me and yeah did not tell me....

    • @Potatoman-ye1ci
      @Potatoman-ye1ci Před 4 lety

      Banny Means well why didn’t you do it it’s not her job to start it

    • @Eric-cc4rl
      @Eric-cc4rl Před 4 lety

      @@Potatoman-ye1ci idk man i am a shy guy and yeah

  • @jarrodpapier432
    @jarrodpapier432 Před 3 lety +4

    Having to force yourself to not love someone anymore since this person no longer needs you.... is by far the worst feeling for me

  • @nedflanders2462
    @nedflanders2462 Před 5 lety +80

    I hurt the girl I'm in love with. She is with another man, and I keep my distance out of fear of hurting her again. We spent years together, and I never loved someone so hard.

    • @der38er91
      @der38er91 Před 5 lety +1

      Kyle Hartman stfu and tell her

    • @eatfreshbrains
      @eatfreshbrains Před 5 lety +1

      Go after her idiot

    • @kelsr7960
      @kelsr7960 Před 5 lety +2

      I’d suggest you go after her if you feel you’ve bettered yourself. But if you’re not in that place, don’t do that to her. Leave her be. You gotta wait until you can love her to the fullest extent. I hope it works out. Genuinely. Love her in the way you should’ve. And love yourself even more than that.

    • @gagewannemacher165
      @gagewannemacher165 Před 5 lety

      Good luck! I hope the turn out is good! I really hope you guys get back together. Stay positive and keep your head up

    • @silvia4577
      @silvia4577 Před 5 lety

      Ned Flanders any updates?

  • @bonniec1699
    @bonniec1699 Před 5 lety +31

    it’s 12:01 and i’m falling in love with someone who isn’t interested.

  • @gotbusted7528
    @gotbusted7528 Před 4 lety +8

    i’ve been crying for 2hours 😭 i really miss the good ol’ days, the good memories spent with a special person that left me 😔🍃💔

    • @TheBigManz
      @TheBigManz Před 4 lety

      GotBusted I wonder why she broke up with you
      Maybe cause you play fn ?
      And you have a fn pfp

  • @chloesmith4300
    @chloesmith4300 Před 5 lety +39

    i’m in love with someone who lost feelings for me because i didn’t admitted how i felt about him sooner

  • @gimmedafoodb4199
    @gimmedafoodb4199 Před 5 lety +123

    You see I’m in love with this boy, and I never wanna lose him, when I younger I always said “I’m not gonna let a boy control my happiness” but I am and Ik it’s stupid but he’s the best he makes me so happy, I wanna spend the rest of my life with him and I’m only 14 Ik it’s stupid, but I know I love him, I really do, 100% I do, and I don’t think I’ve trusted anyone that’s not in my family like I trust and love him

    • @kileigherinn5621
      @kileigherinn5621 Před 5 lety +7

      Gimme da food Bæ literally the same thing with me. i’ve never met someone like him and i’ve never been this happy with someone and had so much hope for our relationship. i really don’t know what i would do if we ended like i’d be so heartbroken and i really don’t want anything to happen like that. i’m so much in love 🥺

    • @_.Riley.Quinn._
      @_.Riley.Quinn._ Před 5 lety +3

      Don't give up on him, I almost lost my forever... We had it Rocky but you have to give yourself and let him hold your heart in his hands and give him the power to crush it but trust him enough not to.... If he loves you he'll make sure he's there

    • @oliviamurphy4175
      @oliviamurphy4175 Před 5 lety +3

      Me too😌 I had a crush for a while but it turned into me falling more and more for him

    • @nevaehsmithpeters1574
      @nevaehsmithpeters1574 Před 5 lety +1

      Gimme da food Bæ my aunt and this dude fell in Love at 14 they are now In there 20s with 2 boys (3years apart) and are getting married in August

  • @kay865
    @kay865 Před 3 lety +3

    i’ve never been in love.
    i don’t believe in it honestly.
    i hope that one day i find someone who i can share the special feeling with.
    or just someone to feel alive with.
    cuz right now i’m all i got

  • @reneekramer6216
    @reneekramer6216 Před 5 lety +19

    This literally made me cry for no reason wtf?

  • @hollyheart8642
    @hollyheart8642 Před 5 lety +106

    I wish I hadn't fallen in love.
    I wish I hadn't fallen so far.
    I wish nobody knew.
    I wish I regretted the love I fell into.
    💚💙

  • @awqaz319
    @awqaz319 Před 4 lety +19

    If life is hard... dying must be easy💔

    • @connerwebb5587
      @connerwebb5587 Před 4 lety +5

      Come on down here to hell. It ain't all that bad. We get our daily punishments around 3AM and the rest is just free time to haunt ppl or spend in the bar

  • @audreybloxham3640
    @audreybloxham3640 Před 5 lety +11

    For some reason my favorite line is “between the fall, and the creation”

  • @alicaringola4943
    @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety +1968

    hella promoting the new vid i just put up bc it took me two weeks to make but check out my new vid “what’s the content of love” it’s got alan watts too hehe

    • @mado.143
      @mado.143 Před 5 lety +2

      Ali Caringola seen it!

    • @alicaringola4943
      @alicaringola4943  Před 5 lety

      Jillian Winfree yeah for sure

    • @WithoutHesitation
      @WithoutHesitation Před 4 lety

      Ali Caringola stop fucking up his philosophy teachings with your fucking wackass edits and music

    • @druidspoe7833
      @druidspoe7833 Před 4 lety

      1 hour version of this please

    • @druidspoe7833
      @druidspoe7833 Před 4 lety

      @@WithoutHesitation bitch stfu and fuck off

  • @alligrace4920
    @alligrace4920 Před 2 lety +1

    love is an act of surrender and that’s why it hurts so bad when your left broken and alone

  • @Flipsk88ter
    @Flipsk88ter Před 5 lety +66

    If this video put you in your feelings like it did for me drop a like.. Well done!

  • @lilliansigrist8890
    @lilliansigrist8890 Před 5 lety +13

    “...and love is an act of surrender to another person.”
    thank you. those are the very words i needed to hear at this moment.

  • @bodilgerritsen604
    @bodilgerritsen604 Před 4 lety +8

    I love the comments under this sorta video’s it is always so sweet and ‘happy’ but also depressed so you can relate to things❤️

  • @chickenn5528
    @chickenn5528 Před 4 lety +7

    falling in love but scared of commitment because of the past , but when you see that person moving on it stabs my soul

  • @jemimashahzad1299
    @jemimashahzad1299 Před 5 lety +8

    Love never hurts, it’s the ppl who hurt us. Love itself is beautiful and I happen to be a firm believer of it. It’s hard at times but for your lover it’s worth fighting for

  • @16mrmoose
    @16mrmoose Před 3 lety +5

    She wouldn’t see me all of 2021 cause of “covid” and my gut told me in February that it was over. But I tried to tough it out, just for me to wait till May for her to break my heart. I can deal with losing a girlfriend, but I can’t deal with losing my best friend. I hope one day thinking of her and our memories no longer hurts. I wish I knew that we were making memories the whole time, I was too busy having fun.

  • @maddygeckler
    @maddygeckler Před 5 lety +10

    the moment you take a step you do so on an act of faith ❤️

  • @moldybunger5275
    @moldybunger5275 Před 5 lety +9

    This speech has helped me throughout so many times of my love life and now I truly think I’ve found the one for me and I couldn’t be any happier

  • @Connor_.
    @Connor_. Před 2 lety +2

    I lost the girl who I truly loved, doubt she’ll ever come back, miss her and what we used to be every day, I still believe (and really hope) we are destined to try again some day ☹️🤞🏻

  • @ZIAD2122
    @ZIAD2122 Před 5 lety +8

    "We come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity"

  • @shaniac22
    @shaniac22 Před 5 lety +16

    That happened to me... last May, didn't even realize how much I liked him until months later(met him online btw). It sucks cause I can't get over him. I confessed thinking it'd help somewhat and he could take it as a compliment but I wish I just never met it, he doesn't cross my mind anymore, he lives in it

  • @maxine4665
    @maxine4665 Před 4 lety +16

    The worst feeling is falling for a person who exists only on the screen.
    The worst feeling is wanting to hug this person so bad but you can't.
    The worst feeling is wanting to talk to this person with tears in your eyes because it's the only one person who makes you feel happy but you can't.
    The worst feeling is when you want to do something more than anything else but you can't.

  • @rainydaykora
    @rainydaykora Před 5 lety +76

    I lover her so much, but my mom is homophobic and won’t let me see her, so we broke it off after nearly two years. It’s been about a month and a half, and we talk almost every day, but it hurts. It hurts more than I’m willing to tell her. And we went a week without talking, and she said it’s because she wants to distance herself for her mental health. And now she has a crush on one of my best friends. And I’m supposed to be able to listen to her talk about her all the time, as if I’m not about to break down. I’m not okay. This isn’t okay. My first breakup shouldn’t be like this.

    • @lily-dz7vi
      @lily-dz7vi Před 5 lety

      update?

    • @rainydaykora
      @rainydaykora Před 5 lety +3

      CREEP We still talk, and we’ve agreed that we still love each other, but she doesn’t want to date because of the fact that we can’t see each other very often; only every few weeks. But I want her to be happy, and if that’s what happiness is for her, I’ll let her have it. I’d let her shoot me in the face if that would make her happy, honestly.

    • @lily-dz7vi
      @lily-dz7vi Před 5 lety

      jjangjjang man boomboom awwww

    • @rainydaykora
      @rainydaykora Před 5 lety +1

      Bruce Marshall Dude that’s literally me. Like I’m tryna be all emotional for these white girls but in all real I’m like “lol loser ur suffering haha”

    • @lily-dz7vi
      @lily-dz7vi Před 5 lety +2

      ok, a boy told me he loved me and missed me after we broke up, right? He sent all these things abt how he barely gave me a sample of love, and that he wants to show me real love. Obviously, I was not over him either. Last night I was feeling happy and then told him I loved him, and earlier morning he legit says “is it weird that i love you as a friend” and I had to hold in my anger so badly. For 3 text messages I was “cool” but I had to be like “oh hell no, you really be playing with my feelings like this”. Even the most loveliest boys, girls too, will break you. I still like him, but he is not on my friend list atm.
      Since this happened to me, I want to warn whoever is reading this; if someone shows you love and appreciation the first time you date, then don’t break it. You keep holding on that relationship, you’ll feel better than ending it, like I did, and I regret it.

  • @miafolgar3914
    @miafolgar3914 Před 5 lety +12

    This describes everything, literally. This is so powerful. 😭

  • @taehyungslefteyebrow7171
    @taehyungslefteyebrow7171 Před 4 lety +67

    *I thought he loved me back but instead he was just playing with my feelings..*

    • @fmltfvt7913
      @fmltfvt7913 Před 4 lety

      Mood, with 2 different boys this year. Does someone gonna love me ? Like falling in love with me or idk. Currently in bad mood af

    • @crruptwrld
      @crruptwrld Před 3 lety +1

      Same here. Played with my heart

  • @whiteboy1256thst
    @whiteboy1256thst Před 5 lety +4

    I lost a relationship that at the time didn’t feel like anything, but after she left things came over my head and realized I lost a big part of my life, I regret everything that I have done to her. I wish I could to her again but she hates me deeply. Weird to say but I didn’t know the meaning of love until I met her. She added meaning to a life of being happy and waking up in the morning with a smile, knowing you have someone right by your side when everyone leaves is the person that impacts you the most. And for me it was her.
    Truly I understood why she left, I was a piece of shit, afterwards sometime I learned that respect is the key,people called me a douche but now call me a genuine guy, or a class clown. I realized that putting smiles on people’s faces was priceless to me, means the world. I wish I could go back in time with the knowledge I have now and support and love those who I turned my back on, because now...now I know that who I was before wasn’t meant to be forever, who I am now I will be forever, genuine, caring, and passionate about what I do and love.

  • @leoncvlt2699
    @leoncvlt2699 Před 5 lety +5

    Its like
    Im falling in love
    Again.
    But
    With no one
    Just with me.
    I’ve never felt this kind of happiness since the last 3 years, i learned alot through my depressed time that i need to have more love for myself in myself bc no one will love you more than yourself. I’ve been into several relationships while i was depressed and it was so hard.So who ever is struggling with relationships, focus on yourself first and i know you can do it boys and girls❤️

  • @laynegaffney9497
    @laynegaffney9497 Před 4 lety +5

    The first time I watched this I was single and I damn near cryed myself to sleep that night and now months later I am in a relationship and rewatching it makes me think about how much this audio has impacted my life for the better

  • @demilol1992
    @demilol1992 Před 5 lety +9

    when you messed up
    a good relationship , and you really want a second chance but you aren’t getting it.

  • @meadowhansen1207
    @meadowhansen1207 Před 5 lety +23

    I love this so much but it hurts.

  • @daviddastoli3926
    @daviddastoli3926 Před 4 lety +1

    This man was on a whole other level

  • @abigailortiz5575
    @abigailortiz5575 Před 5 lety +10

    It hurts to watch this and think about how I treated the someone I dated the way I did and then finding out I was in love with him when it was too late R.I.P. Jason ❤️

  • @graceschannel3178
    @graceschannel3178 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Whem you fall in love you lose yourself obviously you find a new version of you but you lose your old self too thats why it hurts so much whem it ends. We have not only lost the old version of ourselves but also the new one they built for us

  • @Edog77947
    @Edog77947 Před 4 lety +1

    It’s hard to cry for these years of keeping it all in you just get used to it