EMOTIONAL DAMAGE | The Unbelievable Story Of Steven He

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Komentáře • 306

  • @BrandenNHPT
    @BrandenNHPT Před rokem +162

    Steven is really intelligent! Emotionally and traditionally!
    Crazy to hear his actual self speak

  • @elaine378
    @elaine378 Před rokem +52

    I love how respectful steven was and didn’t make definite comments on things he wasn’t fully educated on

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani Před rokem +128

    Thank you for having him on your show. 😊

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 Před 11 měsíci +17

    The stark difference in enthusiasm between the hosts and Steve is giving me emotional damage

    • @AJ-ds5gf
      @AJ-ds5gf Před 11 měsíci +2

      Steven is exaggerating and playing up the enthusiasm tho.

  • @fattestedtravel
    @fattestedtravel Před rokem +14

    This energy mix is so strange

  • @TritonTv69420
    @TritonTv69420 Před 11 měsíci +45

    Wow this was by FAR my favorite episode! I really like this guy. I have always laughed at the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE thing. But listening to him talk I very much wish him all his success. He is a genuinely happy person and very considerate. That was such a fun episode to listen to. I just chilled on my couch (which I rarely do) and listened to the entire show. Great episode. Wow. I feel very happy and calm right now.

  • @branzilla7833
    @branzilla7833 Před rokem +212

    "What language does Ireland speak?" Emotional damageeeeeeeee 🤨

    • @InReality33
      @InReality33 Před 11 měsíci +8

      "That's trivial knowledge which has been proven not to be associated with IQ!" lol! Such a funny exchange.

    • @artsycrafts2293
      @artsycrafts2293 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Irish and English

    • @nacelnikprosiak1260
      @nacelnikprosiak1260 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@artsycrafts2293Irish is too hard for Irish people, they only learn english

    • @artsycrafts2293
      @artsycrafts2293 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@nacelnikprosiak1260 well as an person who lives in Ireland you still learn Irish in school and a few town speak full irish

    • @artsycrafts2293
      @artsycrafts2293 Před 10 měsíci

      @@nacelnikprosiak1260 also Irish and English are there official languages

  • @princekjtheartist
    @princekjtheartist Před rokem +24

    I can't even begin to describe how much I enjoyed this episode. When Steven talked about the dancing chef at the stall on his road to school, I had to pause because that was so impactful! Imagine how grateful people in foreign countries would be to live our lives.

  • @Salos1
    @Salos1 Před rokem +9

    I have a friend from Thailand who has only enough clothes to fit in a suitcase. If he buys new clothes he gives away his old clothes. He saved money like no one I’ve ever met. Never ate out unless he was treating you. And he’d work as much as our store would allow him to. His English wasn’t great and he couldn’t read well in English so he’d have me help him with his bank statements. I remember seeing him going from $1,000 to $5,000 in 3 months. He had to have saved almost every penny other than rent since we made about $2,500 per month where we worked

  • @richardnovikas920
    @richardnovikas920 Před rokem +32

    It's so unique to see the real person behind a character. So much thought goes into the whole creation process. Great guest!

  • @sagorikasinha4966
    @sagorikasinha4966 Před rokem +40

    Oh my gods, this is hilarious! Love Graham’s embarrassment for Jack’s questions😅

  • @rashadfoux6927
    @rashadfoux6927 Před rokem +13

    I really liked hearing about his story and experience growing up. It's so radically different from what I experienced as a kid, but somehow, also the same in feeling.
    He brings a lot of joy to the world

  • @Hacky4675
    @Hacky4675 Před rokem +13

    People had always suggested donating leftover food when I did restaurant management. The issue is the storage and transportation of the food to a shelter. If anyone ate the food and got sick the restaurant could be held liable. If food sits out past a certain point or the temp gets out of range it could cause food poisoning and has to be tossed.

    • @aurelianspodarec2629
      @aurelianspodarec2629 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Yeah, that's messed up isn't it.
      And people blame the restaurants for them tossing the food, instead of looking at the liabilities they could face and the fact people can get sick off tht food thus wasting even more money for an ambulance or grave person.

  • @Luis-Torres
    @Luis-Torres Před rokem +8

    Omg! Steven He is the ONLY ONE I have heard who shares my view on the whole glass half empty vs. Glass half full! Made my day!

  • @intuitive_duck
    @intuitive_duck Před 11 měsíci +4

    1:19:44 That is such a profound thought/saying. When I think about it, I can see why anger dissolves over time. I think, “what happened to you to act this way? I feel sad that you experienced that. It doesn’t excuse what you’ve done, but I can at least try to understand. I wish innocent/young you had a better life. I wish that can change for you in the future.”

  • @ArtistFormallyKnownasMC
    @ArtistFormallyKnownasMC Před 11 měsíci

    Finally got to finish the episode. This is definitely one I will go back to. So many gems. Love the perspective and the humor from such a unique life lived. Thank you for coming on the show!!!!

  • @JakeBroe
    @JakeBroe Před rokem +5

    Haha, that image you used of Dave Ramsey (with the voice bubble) is a thumbnail I made back in 2020 for a video. Awesome!

  • @ultimajp
    @ultimajp Před 9 měsíci +2

    I loved this one so much real and raw conversation! Keep up the awesome work all of you!

  • @gmurayama
    @gmurayama Před rokem +2

    Awesome episode! Thank you for having him!

  • @kendals3833
    @kendals3833 Před rokem +1

    Wow! He seem so sweet, humble and FULL OF JOY! how cool!

  • @GuyfromIndiana
    @GuyfromIndiana Před rokem +2

    Such an underrated podcast, but much needed. Well done!!

  • @Furstyy
    @Furstyy Před 10 měsíci +3

    Steven has such contagious positive energy radiating off of him

  • @ZacsMoneyFAQs
    @ZacsMoneyFAQs Před rokem +7

    Good Morning Everyone! I love this guy! He's hilarious!

  • @chideraudeh-peters5426
    @chideraudeh-peters5426 Před 11 měsíci +3

    This is the first podcast I've ever lostened to or watch till the end and I'd give anything to have the exerience of watching this for the first time. A+ all across the board, entertaining, informative and captivating. Wish both channels bigger futures ahead

    • @theultimatewarlord69420
      @theultimatewarlord69420 Před 2 měsíci

      Watch Uncle Roger's podcast interview with Two/Thirds - the podcasters being Jelly and SlogoMan, and why it's "2/3" is because Kwebbelkop was exiled from the group long ago. It was funny all throughout, but got so hilarious near the end before Nigel Ng changed into Uncle Roger, and I watched it the whole way through. I recommend that you should watch that podcast!

  • @FlorianGerlich
    @FlorianGerlich Před 11 měsíci +2

    I love how joyful Stephen is!

  • @ColombianLNP
    @ColombianLNP Před rokem +1

    This was a really really great podcast!!!

  • @rashadfoux6927
    @rashadfoux6927 Před rokem +3

    @1:06:00 I think the racism that we encounter in those situations of "being racist against the group your intrinsically a part of" comes from viewing someone as a part of the group, and not as an individual. Which is wrong. The "group" doesn't have feelings to hurt, but individual people do, and when we reduce someone to the narrow intersection of their personhood and group identity, it's really hurtful. And the heck of it that's often unintentional.

  • @mysikind8076
    @mysikind8076 Před 11 měsíci

    Good interview.

  • @TonyKimCre
    @TonyKimCre Před rokem +1

    Great talk

  • @francisyuweh706
    @francisyuweh706 Před 11 měsíci

    thanks for inviting Steven He and looking forward for ur next interviews

  • @extendedlimits
    @extendedlimits Před 10 měsíci

    I love getting to know more about Steven!! Interesting about the whole animal thing. My dad grew up on a pig farm, do he has a similar view as Steven. He would go out and feed a pig that would be on the table for Sunday dinner. To look at it through the lenz of culture and abundance vs necessity, I think that's really true. He such an open guy, I'd love to see more influential people like him!

  • @thecrystalpearl
    @thecrystalpearl Před 11 měsíci

    THIS WAS SO GOOD! 😂Especially the discussions of the *life hacks*

  • @1utube01
    @1utube01 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Such a great storyteller!

  • @brendabautista6710
    @brendabautista6710 Před rokem

    So good!

  • @ayysweetstea9339
    @ayysweetstea9339 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Very Interesting Life this guy lived you never really know what people have been through till you hear their Story!!!

  • @jimalvarez5042
    @jimalvarez5042 Před rokem

    The guests on this podcast have been awesome!

  • @jeffrounsville4961
    @jeffrounsville4961 Před rokem

    Great video

  • @OfficialGouda
    @OfficialGouda Před rokem +5

    had to click as soon as i saw him, thanks Jack and Graham!

  • @TheLazyIowan
    @TheLazyIowan Před 11 měsíci

    This entire podcast was amazing and hilarious.

  • @bigbones916
    @bigbones916 Před rokem +8

    In china they have relaxed on the one child policy due to the upcoming collapse in population but when it was in place if you were wealthy or in the government you could pay for the extra kids if not you would be forced to undergo a baby deletion and then you would be sterilized.

  • @solideights
    @solideights Před 11 měsíci +1

    I really like this episode

  • @thetommantom
    @thetommantom Před rokem

    Yep definitely want to see the new ones

  • @hoseav
    @hoseav Před rokem +28

    Such a Great episode💯 Could not stop laughing😂 ….Jack, you gotta spend some of that $600k+ and do some international traveling😂

  • @ZERONEINNOVATIONS
    @ZERONEINNOVATIONS Před rokem +1

    I used to live in Suzhou 蘇州 2002-2006.
    I revisited there 2018. That place was a totally different world. Everything developed, everything has changed.

  • @mikebarredo
    @mikebarredo Před rokem +1

    Steven and Graham the best of two worlds 👏

  • @therainbro
    @therainbro Před rokem +7

    I always use the emotional damage soundclip throughout my week 😂

  • @cathylocke9454
    @cathylocke9454 Před rokem

    He is amazing!!

  • @jacoblloyd2573
    @jacoblloyd2573 Před rokem +6

    This interview is straight clout for our coffee connoisseurs running the show

  • @marlarmoethwal9918
    @marlarmoethwal9918 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I love steven's vibe. He is quite an open minded person

  • @TaylorExchange
    @TaylorExchange Před 8 měsíci +1

    47:50
    Great guest and amazing story.
    Keep it up Graham, I feel each podcast Jack gets a little smarter 😂

  • @IngmarCrone
    @IngmarCrone Před rokem +1

    This guy and the things he says man, really cool

  • @ItsAlive111
    @ItsAlive111 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Steven He resonates not only to Chinese but any other immigrant moving to a new country in the West

  • @id_rather_NOT89
    @id_rather_NOT89 Před rokem

    I believe that to be accurate as well. Everyone is born with good intentions in their heart. Life molds us to be A holes or somewhere in between…

  • @66racer
    @66racer Před 8 měsíci

    Really good show, sub.

  • @intuitive_duck
    @intuitive_duck Před 11 měsíci +2

    Being able to afford to eat meat everyday is such an underrated blessing. I remember those days where
    we couldn’t. Hardly ever having fresh fruit like strawberries. Having central air was a rich person thing. I remember being happy with what I had though. As long as I could ride my bike & see friends I was happy.

  • @fattestedtravel
    @fattestedtravel Před rokem +3

    On the restaurants giving away food to the homeless shelters, they all stop doing that because if there’s ever a problem, they then get sued, because so many people are looking out for a hand out

  • @robinlundenius7822
    @robinlundenius7822 Před rokem

    LEGEND ❤

  • @tommih597
    @tommih597 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Having grown up in China as well I find so many of Steven's stories so relatable 😆

  • @JennyHoyos
    @JennyHoyos Před rokem +66

    love those money saving hacks!!
    (also, the $3 chipotle burrito isn’t patched yet 😉)

  • @thetommantom
    @thetommantom Před rokem +7

    Living on my own I am so modest I can't believe how my parents were able to to provide me with so much as a kid that you don't even know at the time

  • @bullshark3000
    @bullshark3000 Před 11 měsíci

    This video gave me emotional uplifting

  • @Thereisalwaysmore
    @Thereisalwaysmore Před 11 měsíci +1

    @40:59 I understand Graham, the thing is. Most of us find being a content creator as intangible. Yes it is possible to become an influencer but it will take time. It can take 2-3 years to maybe 5 plus years. Now a side hustle means to me. If I can apply for a job: it means i already have what I need and possibly the experience to get that side Job. It offers flexibility and a sustained hourly wage or paycheck. It has a means to an end.
    It provides me with the hope to cancel debt, save a few extra $$, or possibly early retirement. For me personally, it’s helping me pay off debt, save money 💵, and staying afloat.

  • @iLL_WiLL_
    @iLL_WiLL_ Před rokem +7

    41:25 Oddly enough, depending on when you found the creator and how much of their stuff you have watched, I have noticed CZcams recently recommend a lot of content from a year or two ago. I think it also heavily relies on how much content the channel has available, so if you have someone that does daily content you might not see those pop as much as let's say a weekly podcast like this.

  • @user-rt5mc6wo8d
    @user-rt5mc6wo8d Před rokem

    So beautiful

  • @kristinmolloy9749
    @kristinmolloy9749 Před 8 měsíci

    My favorite game to play while watching interviews with Stephen is "where's the Irish accent?" Because in random words it comes out and I love it.

  • @stellaglodek
    @stellaglodek Před rokem

    The glass half empty / half full bit at the end about perspective blew my mind lol

  • @frankweightlossjourney

    I love the setup! is it a temporary setup?

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani Před rokem +3

    He’s hilarious. 😊

  • @OG-Galaxy
    @OG-Galaxy Před 10 měsíci +1

    40:22 look at the guy on the left contemplating life choices and when this talk will end 😅 next get uncle Rogers on here

  • @Jaesais
    @Jaesais Před rokem

    Let’s go!

  • @InReality33
    @InReality33 Před 11 měsíci

    Steven is totally hilarious!

  • @JustianSethioHandoyo
    @JustianSethioHandoyo Před rokem +5

    New episodes please interview Steven's Dad & his cousin Timmy😅

  • @thetommantom
    @thetommantom Před rokem

    That was some instant improve

  • @michaelgoodrich5309
    @michaelgoodrich5309 Před rokem +2

    You should have a “young Jamie” equivalent to look stuff up on the fly to provide on the spot contextual information instead of pure conjecture whenever a subject is in question.

  • @korujaa
    @korujaa Před 11 měsíci

    he is great !!!

  • @kevinchin76
    @kevinchin76 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thx Stephen He... Sharing your life story and experience..I only know about you from Emotional 😭 Damage which I tot was from uncle Roger..., Ok will look up Asian Dad🥥🍍🐷😊👍

  • @ItsFrankieFigs
    @ItsFrankieFigs Před rokem +4

    To Uncle Roger English dude is fucking awesome.

  • @justynapoom2497
    @justynapoom2497 Před rokem

    In Poland we have a special desert that bakeries make from trimed peaces of cake and the leftovers. They add a little bit of alkohol ‚just in case’. I loved it, we bought it with my high school friends almost every day on our way to school or from school.

  • @tjstechub
    @tjstechub Před rokem +9

    Please give your visitors gifts at the end of the podcasts. The conclusion of your podcast always feel a bit underwhelming for me personally. I think it would be a great way to wrap up the podcast without making it look like it was just an exchange. Anyway, just a suggestion ❤️

  • @smellybearc7411
    @smellybearc7411 Před rokem +2

    Steven really enjoyed himself while the other dudes were like sure…

  • @SteakFromJakeFarm777
    @SteakFromJakeFarm777 Před rokem +3

    EVEN if as Jack speculates, some people are born differently (as he says ‘evil’), then it is still not something they chose, hence, they are still victims of their circumstance.

  • @charithsarathy2629
    @charithsarathy2629 Před 6 měsíci

    "my defence mechanism is acting stupid"....this is soo accurately relatable

  • @cwrk105
    @cwrk105 Před rokem

    Fizz is so cool!

  • @jnkhan82
    @jnkhan82 Před 6 měsíci

    This guy is the nicest guy you've had on your podcast. I love his childhood stories and how humble he is. Great podcast. When is Andrew Tate coming on? lol I mean, you're already at Tai.

  • @rajtiller5347
    @rajtiller5347 Před rokem

    50:25 Steven: “you know what I’m talking about, right?”
    Graham: “😐”

  • @amandaturner9903
    @amandaturner9903 Před rokem

    😂 I literally have a dino flosser in my hand about to use it as I was listening to about how Graham reuses his dino flossers. 😅

  • @justinwhite3220
    @justinwhite3220 Před rokem +1

    This guy is too funny , should be illegal 😂

  • @thetommantom
    @thetommantom Před rokem

    I would always go to Penn Station right before they closed but I tried to be not too late and everything was already all fresh and clean ready to close so it was the best but that why I try to go not too late that it not too annoying

  • @Labputter
    @Labputter Před rokem

    Ohhh Jack. haha He's so funny

  • @akinaguda
    @akinaguda Před rokem +2

    As a Nigerian, I can relate to a lot of the off-brand stuff and the DVD stuff xD

  • @pixie3760
    @pixie3760 Před 3 měsíci

    There's a Scottish comedian, Billy Connelly. He survived a horrific childhood, but he was one of the funniest men I've ever seen. It seems to be a common denominator that the rougher the childhood the funnier the adult. My example of Billy Connelly is just one example of a comedians tough childhood, there's others

  • @anthonybell3036
    @anthonybell3036 Před rokem

    That guys hilarious

  • @zx10bk
    @zx10bk Před rokem

    how is the co host on that Caleb Hammer financial audit show? GS fix your boy !

  • @the_shadow_realm5110
    @the_shadow_realm5110 Před rokem +2

    Graham and Jack need some vitamin D!! Looking a bit pale and sickly boys. Hope you're not burning out.
    Stay healthy and rest up!

  • @jimalvarez5042
    @jimalvarez5042 Před rokem +1

    Almost spit my drink at 47:50 🤣

  • @thetommantom
    @thetommantom Před rokem

    You know what's really crazy actually going to the movies and you actually see those recordings in real life that's like really actually getting the hand recorded version

  • @mexicanchinese
    @mexicanchinese Před rokem +1

    It’s OK Jack we all wanted to ask the same question. It’s OK ha ha ha.

  • @rebeccabath5276
    @rebeccabath5276 Před rokem +3

    Jack is the stereotype of Americans being bad at geography 😂

    • @Dauerglotzer123
      @Dauerglotzer123 Před 11 měsíci

      Atleast he reffered to it as ireland rather than europe 🤣

  • @yonatanbadash
    @yonatanbadash Před rokem

    Ghram you should do the shark tank thing with a bunch of youtube financial guys like he did the tv show

  • @ThePeterp55
    @ThePeterp55 Před rokem +1

    Got the comments section