Men Will Reject Women Who Shoot Their Shot

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  • čas přidán 30. 08. 2023
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Komentáře • 42

  • @gomz6296
    @gomz6296 Před 11 měsíci +48

    Guys definitely don't like women who shoot their shot. That doesn't mean they will reject you outright, they'll probably just use you. I have done it before, but I'll never do it again. Monna must lead.

  • @thembamasuku3813
    @thembamasuku3813 Před 10 měsíci +24

    I think the notion "Women have options" is very misleading. I think they have options from a place of attention or ukushelwa nje in general but as for quality in the very same options thats a different story itself. I know quality is very relative from woman to woman BUT quality men are very hard to find for most women.

    • @KNathi1
      @KNathi1 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yeah but in a world where you get a lot of proposals, statistics dictates that you are more likely to meet a quality guy than if you have far less proposals.
      The odds are in your favour.

  • @tebohomado4990
    @tebohomado4990 Před 11 měsíci +9

    The guy was cooking. Life as a man is tough.

  • @zamangubane1900
    @zamangubane1900 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Urshhh, what an all rounded queen. Beauty with brains and a dash of whit ❤. Another great show guys, keep up the good work

  • @vuyisilemlangeni3354
    @vuyisilemlangeni3354 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you Ash. The father of my child is one of those guys that values himself based on money. To an extent that at a point he was brok. He didn't come see us.

  • @Kobotian
    @Kobotian Před 7 měsíci +4

    Yoh I shoot my shot with a friend and he rejected me. Guy didnt even speak to me for months. Worst mistake ever. Never again🙄

  • @sarcynick
    @sarcynick Před 4 měsíci +3

    Our Grandparents' primary motive was survival, Our parents' primary motive was standards of living and now my generation's (Gen Z) motive is Quality of life

  • @OrtheP
    @OrtheP Před 11 měsíci +6

    I shot my shot once and we dated for a good 2 years 😊

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I love this conversation shame, I shot my shot many times mna, I only got rejected once and his reasonings were valid, he had just lost a wife in a car accident and was healing. But yes it was painful. The success once we're also nice

  • @rebaonetau4127
    @rebaonetau4127 Před 10 měsíci +5

    I love conversations this side.😅 Well, I personally feel like if we were taught about soul ties from an early age, we would be in a better space mentally and spiritually. As you said religion, culture and western medicine is addressing issues such a teenage pregnancy. So I feel like the gap is in transparency. For example think about how there was Adam and Eve eating a fruit, then boom there's Abel and Cane😅.. another example think about that elderly nurse who'll judge a young girl going for contraception.. My point is, if things were said clearly and harshly enough... a lot of things would be clearer. And I feel like Life Orientation somehow shapes how one could think of themselves . I remember how I felt after learning about being sexual active and different sexual orientations.

  • @breslygaseb5465
    @breslygaseb5465 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Bonga: it's 11K...🤣

  • @siphomabaso721
    @siphomabaso721 Před 11 měsíci +1

    The yin to the yang comment on expectations is so true. 🔥

  • @gugulethu4155
    @gugulethu4155 Před 10 měsíci +2

    First time watching this channell... enjoyed listening the conversation like the male view on relationships is spot on..will definitely subscribe!

  • @Mrtdogg101
    @Mrtdogg101 Před 11 měsíci +7

    What you lead with is what would be expected of you. I know guys with women who have money, some who don't have much of it, women love some dudes for their humour, resourcefulness (whether it comes with money or just handywork). Different people have different gifts and from experience and observation its what you lead with that would determine whether she sticks around when ish hits the fan. Most guys (especially ) those who lead with money are use it as a way of papering over cracks in their inadequacies. A secure and well rounded man will be able to survive and attract women throughout the ups and downs of live. Chelete e botlhokwa but like Khuli Chan said...nyuku dont make a man!

  • @BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams
    @BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams Před 10 měsíci

    We'll definitely see Bonga in the next epi☺️

  • @jeansophia2092
    @jeansophia2092 Před 2 měsíci

    Geeezz Given spiting gems 💎

  • @MivuyoMtwa
    @MivuyoMtwa Před 8 měsíci +5

    Why are they all coming yo SA, why not go to Ghana or Nigeria,the biggest economy in Africa.
    Instead they are all flocking to SA.
    We are not coping,our schools are bursting, our hospitals are 70% full of foreigners.
    Ghana does not allow SA to work there, even in our companies, MTN,Stanbic or ABSA. Nobody screams zenophobia in Ghana.
    When Ghana government locked Nigerian businesses, no one screams xenophobia in Ghana.
    Xenophobia is worse in Ghana and Nigeria, but only SA is targeted for xenophobia.
    Let's not be biased against SA, you are no better in West Africa.Even your laws in Ghana are xenophobic!

  • @bhilaoliver262
    @bhilaoliver262 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow bro, you are right man. It is not easy to approach a good-looking lady.

  • @sibongileveronica1787
    @sibongileveronica1787 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Shoot my shot and he Ghosted me 😢

  • @tshephangtsheoga7551
    @tshephangtsheoga7551 Před 25 dny

    I didn’t shoot my shot because of fear of rejection. I just know that he knows that I like him but he decides to not say anything about it. So I’m just reading in between the lines he doesn’t like me back. So it’s cool 🐹

  • @unathincube3401
    @unathincube3401 Před 3 měsíci

    The recruitment budget is always more than the running funds . Remember that

  • @suitelife1781
    @suitelife1781 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm curious as to why do you have it where we can't see everyone in the conversation. It would be nice to see the everyone. I just started watching the channel.

  • @neotau9535
    @neotau9535 Před měsícem

    Don't do it,bona never again will I shoot my shot because guys get big heads and then your reminded "you wanted me not the other way around. "

  • @kgothatsolee3470
    @kgothatsolee3470 Před měsícem

    Being the girl with a nice body i can tell you. Most of the attention is sexual and not guys who actually want to take you on dates and treat you right. 💔

  • @suitelife1781
    @suitelife1781 Před 8 měsíci

    The exact same thing is going on in the West and it has turned on it's head bc now younger women are having a difficult time finding husbands. They are having to get the bag for themselves and eventually winding up lonely or tired or both. It is very, very sad. This is an important conversation.

  • @Mo-Mo809.
    @Mo-Mo809. Před 11 měsíci +6

    i was flirting with a guy and i started liking him , i got impatient and shoot my shot and he rejected me😅,only to learn he was very much married.

  • @tinytomas3773
    @tinytomas3773 Před 9 měsíci

    Also guys it starts at young age to set standard for themselves....❤

  • @redibonemohlamonyane6239
    @redibonemohlamonyane6239 Před 11 měsíci

    Nooooo that comment, "o batla go nona go feta moo" is soo wrong. People should stop thinking they have a right of comment on other people's weight.

  • @leratorosemary9513
    @leratorosemary9513 Před 4 měsíci

    I shot my shoot back in varsity and it landed for 3 years😂😂😂Bonga tell them all they need is rizz🤣

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Před 8 měsíci

    That security comment on Bonga was off. People who make such comments are wrong.

  • @itumelengkomana4390
    @itumelengkomana4390 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Lol I think huns who get rejected by guys just don't have rizz.

    • @theconversationcapital
      @theconversationcapital  Před 11 měsíci

      Lol Bonga would absolutely agree with you 🤣

    • @siyabongamchunu8481
      @siyabongamchunu8481 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Unfortunately 99% of Women don’t have rizz and I don't blame them they always get attention

    • @tinytomas3773
      @tinytomas3773 Před 9 měsíci

      This is so true, well established people don't like to accept any form of not normal.....any form or shame they just don't want 😢

    • @Michaelist8616
      @Michaelist8616 Před 3 měsíci +2

      What is rizz please

    • @tshephangtsheoga7551
      @tshephangtsheoga7551 Před 25 dny

      @@Michaelist8616co ask

  • @mantsi2704
    @mantsi2704 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Women should have high financial requirements for their partners because they carry most of the risk. If you're sexually active, you carry the pregnancy risk, women die during childbirth, it's a woman's body that's on the line and that should come with a price. Men who can't afford to bheja must not date until they're able to. In the olden days, men couldn't even touch a woman without paying lobola and her family giving a stamp of approval, nothing has changed, men still need to pay to access women.

    • @mantsi2704
      @mantsi2704 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@nontheyet yes I will not have sex with poor men. That's my choice with my body. Lots of women who will do it for free, go find them and stop fighting those who have set standards

  • @llt4726
    @llt4726 Před 10 měsíci

    😂😂😂Lavos😂😂😂How do you even spell it🙈🙈🙈

  • @mfundomaweni9121
    @mfundomaweni9121 Před 9 měsíci

    To judge and convict a subjective opinion over one rejected experimentation is unfair.