Deaf Man Marriage Proposal Story
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- čas přidán 28. 11. 2023
- In today's video I answer a question that we got a lot on Sign Duo's last video a year and half ago- what happened with the marriage proposal? I tell you the whole story.
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THEYRE back
Yep! We’re back😮
I was coming to the comments to say the same thing. It’s been too long, SignDuo🙌🏾
@SignDuoChannel missed you guys ❤ hope you're doing well congratulations on the proposal
The fact that she said “what’s special is our love.” That’s beautiful bro! Glad yall are loving and experiencing life together! Thank you for taking time to share y’all’s story! Excited for another new video!
Thanks a lot bro!! Your comment means a lot to me. Really makes me happy
@@SignDuoChannel for sure bro! I’ve followed y’all for a long time. It’s always good to see how y’all support each other and compliment each others lives. You still a big gearhead/car guy?
@@ragingblazemasteryes will always be a big car guy, even though right now no projects 😅 eventually I’ll pick something up. Hbu?
@@SignDuoChannel I feel that 😂, nah no projects right now either.
@SignDuoChannel I've on and off looked at your channel for so long hoping you would come back. I love your channel. Best to you and your family. Happy holidays!!!!!!!!
i started tearing up when you described how perfect and beautiful the night was. i’m currently engaged and we’re planning a small elopement/micro wedding and the thing i’ve learned the most is that the love and expectations of you and your partner are what matters. family, friends, and society all have an idea of what your experience should be, but if you and your partner are happy, that’s what it comes down to.
I absolutely agree with everything you said! Congrats on your engagement and good luck with your micro wedding/elopement and hope you have a blast!! ❤
The proposal isnt the important thing, we've been married for 34 years, and its just one of many stories we have about our lives together. The best part of your story, to me, is how well you communicate with each other about your ideas and feelings. that is the hallmark of a wonderful relationship. Congratulations to you both.
Wow, congratulations on 34 years! Really admirable! Thanks a lot ❤ any tips you have on lasting 34 years? Haha
Yes, that home proposal sounds lovely! It’s not about big, extravagant, or impressing other people. It’s about your relationship and the love you have for each other. Same with a wedding. It’s okay to elope and not spend so much money on a one time event, rather spend money on a honeymoon, a vehicle or a house.
Your little family is great! Best of luck to you all… and a lifetime of respect and happiness!
We were very cozy and it was a great experience. Well said! Thank you for the kind wishes ❤
You just described a beautiful and perfect proposal. Christmas lights, favorite pup, the person you love all snuggled up by the fire.....that is beautiful!!!!! I am glad that you didn't record it and turn a beautiful private special moment into a CZcams moment. Some things don't need to be recorded. Congratulations.
Hahaha yep! Perfect! Thanks for respecting and supporting privacy of our special moment ❤
I was going to comment but you said everything I wanted to say, and you said it better :)
A proposal shouldn't be done to impress the internet. His proposal was romantic perfection.
Well said!
@@SignDuoChannelI think the privacy aspect almost makes it more special and more beautiful! It was a proposal for you two and about the love y’all share. You didn’t do it for the liking or attention or congrats from other but simply to show your love to one another 🎉
Was thinking the same thing. Absolutely perfect proposal!
The man of my life said to me one day out of the blue "Let's get married." And I said "I agree." No ring, no special occasion. No audience. It's not a competition. Having crossed paths with each other was the best thing that happened to the both of us and no object or amount of money can do it justice. Even today, after almost 14 years of marriage, I still jokingly say to him "Will you marry me again?" And we can laugh about it. 🤣
Side note: I am extremely happy to see this update. You guys keep doing what you do. Hugs and love.✨💕
Yes this is what I want. just a conversation between two ppl who love eachother. nothing crazy. for me at least.
OMFG i'm actually tearing up. I can also see that a lot of others in the comments teared up too!!! I think that just shows just how special it was, dont worry!! WE ARE SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS! 🥺
Thanks so much!! Love you all!
Congratulations 🎉🎈🎊💕💥🤩
I might be bias but home proposals are the best 😊 My husband didn’t even “propose” to me, it was over multiple conversations when we decided to get married. He kind of suggested we get married and I agreed. Then over a couple of more sporadic convos told our expectations of our marriage and long term goals. And the final conversation about it I told him okay, “I’ll ask off work one Friday so we can do it” So a little time went by and one day he was like “Hey, when are we going to go get married?” I was taken aback. I told him, “I didn’t ask off for about another 6 months, just in case you changed your mind and wanted to back out of us getting married” 😂 So he told me of course not, let’s go already. So I asked off the next Friday. We filed at the court for the license, and went to one of our county precincts where a judge married us. The judge asked us if we where waiting on anyone? We said No. Rings? Nope. Quick wedding or longer wedding? Short. We just looked into each others eyes and kissed when it was time. & you know what? It felt romantic and intimate and I wouldn’t change a thing about it. It’s like she said “What’s special is our love.” Especially for us as two shy people, it was exactly what we wanted, and felt magical to us the entire time, it was magical for you two, and that’s all that matters 💞
I’m so glad you guys are back! My husband proposed in a simple but very meaningful way as well. We were on vacation with my family but we had an extra 2 days there alone. We went to a nice dinner and when we returned to the Airbnb, we opened a bottle of wine. Under this single ceiling lamp in the kitchen (it was like a spotlight), we talked about our relationship and how much we meant to each other. Then my husband went to the other room and came back with a ring. He said that it was a year from that day when he knew he loved me. It was perfect for us. No crowds, no overwhelming pictures or anything. Just us in a kitchen, drinking some wine and talking ❤ We celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary in September!
Love to have you back here with this story! People would be surprise as to how not perfect the relationships with perfect proposal stories are ! Love that you did it on your own terms 😊😊
It’s good to be back! Hahaha yeah I’ve always heard of that type of thing happening. Thanks for your uplifting comment and support ❤️
OMG I CAN'T BELEIVE THEY'RE BACK. I ALMOST BROKE MY MOUSE I PRESSED IT SO HARD.
as an introvert myself, that would have been the perfect proposal setting for me. Just between me and my partner in a cozy home setting. I find it so much more romantic that way. thanks for sharing!
You guys are great. My husband proposed to me over the phone.lol😂. That was 44 years ago. Keep it real!
First of all I'm very happy you are back online. A lot of us missed you and felt a bit abandoned. Thank you for coming back to share your proposal story, and to let us know you two are ok. Secondly, CONGRATULATIONS!!! I wish you all the happiness in the world. And third, your "home proposal" was perfect. Where it was done makes no difference because it is a private matter between the two of you. When I see videos of public proposals I usually cringe because they are always so awkward. Plus, what if the woman wants to say "no"? Talk about embarrassing! In my mind a proposal is a deeply personal exchange between two people, and it should be done out of the public eye. Well done!!! Again, I wish you a lifetime of happiness together.
This! I completely agree. When I proposed, my wife first asked "What did my dad say" and after I explained it to her, all while on bended knee, I said "Well?" She of course said "Yes!" =)
My brother & my sister in law did the same thing! They were watching tv with their big 3 dogs around them. They were joking about something on the tv & bam, my brother pulled out the ring. My sister in law was so shocked & happy. It was very them since they’re homebodies. Congratulations to you two!
My husband proposed to me on Christmas Eve morning when we were opening our stockings in front of our Christmas tree before heading to family festivities back in 1999. We got married the following year; 2000; during December. Because this time of year is my favorite and is really special to me. Congratulations to you both and glad that another couple chose the same time of year. Our anniversary is now part of this special time of year. We now will have been married for 23 years as of December 9th.
My husband randomly proposed on a random weeknight, no pomp no fanfare, and were still together 11 years on-I think I would have died if it were some huge spectacle! So happy for you both and never feel like you need to meet someone else’s standards. You don’t need to prove anything to anyone except each other! Congratulations!!
I feel like doing things differently can be so scary. My wife and I ended up eloping and people had a lot of mixed feelings about it but I kind of realized none of it mattered, I just wanted to be married to her. Whatever way works for you is the right way 🥰
OMG!!!!!!!!!! was not expecting this on my feed!!!! I just submitted my final assignment for my first ASL class ever, what great timing! You guys were the main reason I became interested in Deaf culture and the language. So excited to have you back!
I was so worried that this channel wouldn't post anymore videos 😅
Haha don’t have to worry about that just took some time
This is the best comeback ever. Period.
Aw thanks! ❤
I'm stoned right now so I thought I was tripping about seeing an upload from you guys. Anyways, glad you guys are back.
Lmao! Not too stoned, this video is real and it’s here buddy 😊 but thanks a lot! Good to be back
Glad to see you guys are back. Used to watch your vids all the time.
As for your proposal, there is nothing embarrassing about having a home proposal. You guys are down to earth people. You don’t have to be showy, extravagant, or anything like that. All that matters if it’s special and Ellen was happy. Proposals at home can be very special and intimate, something that you may not get with a crowd watching you.
Congratulations and welcome back. Look forward to see more of you guys 😃
I'm so proud of both of you. I was starting to worry if y'all got split or something. I'm so super excited. It's doesn't matter where you propose at. I had weird proposal back in 94 and my husband walked in the bathroom where I was busy putting on my makeup for our date night. He asked me to married him, I was thinking about why the bathroom where he could had done our proposal anywhere in the house. He said, he was scared and nervous because he wanted me to married him. It's funny though but we got married one year later on September 27th. It's nothing wrong where you wanted to propose at. As long you loves each other.
Once it’s somewhere special to you and someone that means everything, that’s all that matters! ❤❤❤
Simple proposals, with or without a ring, are always the best way to go, at least in my mind. As long as you are both happy, that’s all that matters.
Looking back, I agree and I’m happy I kept it simple and purposeful! Thanks! 😀
What a perfect proposal! We can all see the genuine love you have for each other and your proposal story was evidence of this. No frills necessary. Just deep, deep love. Congratulations.
Thank you for your kind and uplifting comment. ❤
I don't like extravagant things, and I don't want to be embarrassed by a big crowd. You did it perfectly for the two of you. That is very special!
It is such a heartwarming story. In my country, many girls will never receive their proposal rings due to cultural differences. So I understand how special this is for a girl. Most people on social media try to entertain the audience rather than express their true feelings to their love. So I think you did it in a great and special way that you both will remember for the rest of your life.
As an introvert myself, I completely understand not wanting to make a huge show out of an intimate moment. As with over the top, extravagant weddings, gimmicky proposals seem to be geared at impressing or outdoing others instead of focusing on the couple simply confirming their commitment to each other. I think your proposal was perfect for the two of you and incredibly romantic. I am very happy for the both of you and wish you a long, happy life together! I hope you can keep the actual wedding as simple and meaningful as the proposal. BTW, great to have you back! We missed you!!!
"I can propose again" is one of the sweetest things ever.❤
I absolutely LOVE your engagement story. All of these big productions, the extravagant proposals - they seem more about the "likes" on social media than about the two people who are promising their love to each other. I so hope that more and more people go your route - back to making the moment a beautiful, intimate, loving milestone in their lives. If you and Ellen had done it any other way, neither of you would be true to yourselves in that very important and special moment. This was perfect. I wish both of you SO many more years of happiness, love and laughter.
I’m so glad to see you back! I hope this year hasn’t been two hectic. This love story has me so jealous! I wish you all the best ❤
Glad to be back and honestly so grateful for all the kind comments and support! Best community ❤
I'm shy too and I don't know that I would like a ton of people present if I was being proposed to either, so I completely understand. And I love that you guys made it your own, and it was meaningful to you. That's the most important thing. The simple things and SO underrated!
All the love and support! ❤
“What’s special is our love” man that really is beautiful. Something I’ll try to remember for a long time
That’s a beautiful story and your love towards each other have no limits. Hope you’re going to be so happy together
I hope so too 😊
started tearing up as soon as you described that night and your conversation. i can also feel how special that night probably was, and how special your love is for one another.
Omgggg!!! I’ve missed you guys so much!!! Hope you guys have been amazing!! Ahhh congratulations on the proposal 😭😭 I remember first time watching y’all till now big hugs two both of you!✨🫶🏻🤟🏻
Just glad to see that the both of you are happy and healthy
Thanks! We are doing well. Hope you are also!!
So glad you’re back!! I have been learning more and more ASL, work at a deaf school for a while!! I never realized how helpful watching your videos have been!!
Thanks! I’m always so glad to see comments that our videos help with learning sign language! That’s why we always make sure to caption accurately so everyone can follow along 😊
You did it your way. And that’s all that matters. Congrats to you both, and welcome back. I am learning so much ASL because of your channel. ❤
Yes! Thank you for your support. Also, glad you can utilize our videos to learn sign language smile 😃
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Hi, Sign Duo. I love your proposal. It sounds like something out of a romantic movie, and I love that it was at home. Nothing big or fancy, just about the love between the two of you and the life you have together. The fact that you two kept it personal is incredibly beautiful. I have watched your videos for over a year now, and I love you guys as a couple. I love ASL and you guys have taught me so much. I wish you both every joy in your engagement and marriage :)
Congratulations, so happy for you guys! A very personal experience you can reflect on when you turn 85 and look back! Best wishes to you both.
Yooo congratulations my boy! Ya know what, life is short and life does not need to be a hundred percent perfect. Keep up positively! LET’S GO 🤙🎉
I think it is so amazing that you didn’t let the social media culture change the way you two share life’s special moments. Being at home on the couch with a sleeping dog and Christmas tree sounds perfect to me too. Congrats♥️♥️
oh I love your proposal story it's so cute!!! I personally think that sometimes it's better if proposals are private, it doesn't need to be this huge public thing for it to be true or meaningful. You stayed true to yourself which I think makes the proposal 100% more authentic and beautiful 😊❤
Agreed! Thanks for your kind comment ❤
Well this is a lovely surprise
Hey Andrew. What’s up buddy 😊
OMG I’m not crying, YOU’RE crying . . . 😭 so beautiful! So choked up over here! And I knew you were engaged because I’m one of those that watches all your videos, all the way through to the end. Because i love you guys & Miss Java and love being a part of your YT family. My proposal story is that Bob invited me over to his house and was showing me something in the kitchen and opened up one of the cupboard doors and pulled out a ring box from amongst the kitchen plates and handed it to me! I opened it up and he didn’t say anything at first. My mouth was agape and i just couldn’t stop looking at this ring. . . Still waiting for him to say something!!!! I finally asked, “What is this for?” LOL He said “will you marry me?” I said OF COURSE I WILL! After some moments, i read the box and the name was from a local Pawn shop. I asked, “You got this from the Pawn shop?” He smiled, “Yes, is that okay? I know the owners and they gave me a discount!” 😂😂😂😂😂 well this isn’t our first marriage to each other, we are both a bit used as well. Which is why I was started to sob when Ryan said Ellen said this is about our love, not about where or how you propose, but that it comes from the heart! ❤Love you guys! CONGRATULATIONS! 🎉🎊🎈🍾 LOVE, Laura DuBose
My husband proposed on Christmas Eve in my parents basement and it was perfect! We also got married in Vegas so we're clearly not fancy...but that was back in 2010 and I don't regret a thing! Can't wait to hear the wedding story eventually!
I'm so excited to see a Sign Duo video!! My proposal was minimal too and I was so happy. We are still married 11 years in.
Such a beautiful proposal story! The most important moments in a relationship are usually very private ones.
I’m so happy you guys are back!! Missed you a lot!
I'm so glad you posting, congrats again! I love the story, something simple , sweet, and meaningful to both of you
So glad to see you back!!❤️❤️❤️
I loved this story - thank you for sharing!
OMG YOUR BACK!!
That was a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing and so glad you're back! ❤
I'm so glad to see that you're back!
So happy you posted a video & shared the beautiful story❤
That was a beautiful proposal story! ❤
So glad to see a video from y’all again. I think your proposal is completely up to you and needs no expectations. Congrats!
TY 4 sharing. Please keep doing it. Lot of us appreciate the lift. Well done mate.
That is so sweet! So glad you made a video, love y’all 🩷
I was literally thinking about you guys last night! What timing, hah. Great to see you again!!! 🙌💕
I never cry but this made me tear up a bit, amazing story and I’m so happy you’re back!
Glad to hear you're Back !❤
My husband and I just gradually started talking about it after dating a few years and at some point realized we just wanted to be married and spend all (well most!) of our life together. We just kept getting happier and happier. Our wedding was lovely but low key, too. Perfect for us. Best of luck; you two seem like lovely people.☺
Omg i don’t think I’ve ever clicked a video so fast ❤ welcome backkkk 🥰
Haha thanks for being here so quick! It’s good to be back :)
I’m bawling I just love you two!! Congrats again on your engagement, no matter how it’s done what’s important is your love and commitment to one another which clearly transcends time! Cheers to the next chapter!! 🎉
I'm so happy and thrilled to see you back! Your love story is beautiful!
Yay u guys are back! Love learning and practicing my sign along with you guys, so happy you guys are flourishing and happy!
Omggg a few days ago I checked out your channel 😢 so happy to see you guys posted again ❤ happy marriage!!
So so happy to see this video notification pop up!!
Wow ☺️ You both had a conversation about feelings and vulnerabilities and decided on something that suits you as a couple…it doesn’t get more special than that! 🎉 I hope you’ve both had a fulfilling year, full of love!
so happy yall are back!!
YaY!! You guys are back. I was super excited to see your video popped up.
Im glad you guys are back. And hope you have been living your best life. Hope there are more videos in the future. ❤😀🤟
Aww! This is sweet. 😌 Thanks for sharing your story with us. It *is* special no matter how you propose!! It’s special to find someone you love and to be loved back and to spend the rest of your life together. I’m so happy for you two! Congratulations on your engagement! 💛
Welcome back and with such a beautiful story! I think that was perfect!
That's a beautiful proposal story, Im so glad you guys are back on CZcams and thriving!
What a beautiful proposal!!!❤🎄🐶 You two are so lovely and I’m glad it happened the way it was meant to happen🥰 May you share all the love and happiness in the world! Thank you for sharing!
Aww you guys ❤️💐 loads of congratulations! Your proposal felt like a Hallmark movie. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Wish you guys tons of toasty and cuddly nights together.
You’re back! We missed you both!!
Happy that you guys are back! Congrats on the engagement!! ♡
Beautiful 🙌 You did it perfectly, not for show. It was personal for you both. I'm soo happy for you both! May God continue to bless you both in your next chapter!
Awww Congratulations!! So happy to see you back ❤❤💍👰🏻♀️🤵🏻💒🎉🍾🥂👏🏼❤❤
I'm so sooooo happy to see you guys on here !! 🥹🥹🥹🩷 blessings forever and more to you two!
I am SO HAPPY for you and so so glad to see a new vid
So good to see you again! Missed the videos
Good to be here! More to come 😊
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So glad to see you're back! I really wanted to keep following you and learning ASL so I hope you continue to post! As for the proposal, a girl just like sincerity and genuineness. It doesn't have to be crazy or sensationalized. Sometimes those impulsive moments are the best because they aren't all planned out. My dad proposed to my mom in the same way: "Hey, you want to get married?" And she said "yes!" She is a complete romantic but he wasn't (he's since passed away), so she knew how hard it was for him to do that, so for her, that's what made it so special. Congratulations to you both!
Such a cute story, thank you so much for sharing with us and best wishes to you both! 🥰
No way you’re back!!!! Wooooo
im so happy for you guys ❤
Welcome Back we miss you ❤ and Congratulations get Engagement. We are so excited about excited News. ❤❤
So excited for you both! It made my day seeing a lost from you, I got engaged this year too and it really is a new chapter in life but a beautiful one
im so happy you guys have returned! i hope the best for you and your wife!
😍😍😍😍 CONGRATS!! 🎉 💍
I miss you guys too. But glad you guys are back. I was like yes he's going to talk about their disappearance .... lol but nope lol I'm glad you guys are good though ❤
" he's going to talk about their disappearance" this made me laugh, makes it sound like they were kidnapped or in witsec or something XD
Glad to be back! Lmao 😅thanks though! We are doing good 😊
@@mallorykane2843lol oops I didn't mean for it to sound like that lol ❤❤
So glad youre back !
Congratulations! And welcome back we have missed you guys