WOMEN PULL AWAY and LEAVE MEN who make these HUGE MISTAKES - Why women pull back
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Women like heavily drinking/drugging men a lot. You know it yourself I suppose.
Do not get women back. Work on yourself to get your optionality back.
That's exactly what I'm doing
And if you do get her back, it will be different. Not as enjoyable. Improve and move on.
@@jeeed6390 Especially if she's had other ding dongs inside her ... Never go back to a chick who's had other ding dongs inside her after you.
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Yuppp. My game plan is to just relax and be myself every time . I don’t stress about trying to impress a women . Because if she doesn’t like me, I know for a fact that there are many other women that will like me . Be yourself fellas, a women should fit your program, you shouldn’t try to change your personality to prove your worth to a women . This is the real game and it always works ✅
The irony is sometimes a woman that has been acting very feminine and into you suddenly rejects you, say "I'm busy" etc. is not because she's busy but because deep inside she feels that she doesn't deserve that treatment from you and she feels overwhelmed from you offering it to her. That why when a girl that's been banged and then ghosted by attractive guys and she comes across a strong man that genuinely loves her and cares for her, she'll treat him like shit in return
Modern women have been "programmed" by social media to be more confused than ever about what is truly valuable in regards to her emotional/biological welfare.
Yep, it all comes down to peoples core beliefs about themselves. People will try and validate their core belief and a girl with low self esteem will assume that the guy is fooling her and look for any reason to discard him
@@lucac1714 Narcissism.
Maybe she reject you cuz she just not that into you lmao.
And you started overthinking how slut they are lol
I want men to understand this, not every Woman is going to think or behave like Casey is speaking here, this is for modern dating but if she's a godly woman or so the odds might be different. Not all women look or value the same thing in interest.
5 ways you lose your girl:
1) Talking too much
- Sexual tension: your silence + her talking
- At her instead of to her
- Fluff talk and approval seeking
- Kills masculine energy
2) Building "comfort"
- Too much comfort kills sexual tension
- Woman view comfort differently than men
- Comfort comes from masculinity
- Social calibration is needed
3) Living in sedation
- Any sloth-like behavior
- Emotional engagement in fantasy (spectator sports, video games, politics)
- No real impact in your life, yet you care
4) Being easily manipulated
- Tests
- Games
- No backbone
- Easily sad, happy, frustrated, or any emotion
- Creating problems
- Needy
5) Bring zero masculine sexual energy (in the bedroom)
- Proper seduction
- Way you talk/voice
- Eye Contact
- Touch
- Leading in bed
- Leading by expressing what you want
Good points but I think men feel like they need to master everything which isn’t true. I don’t come in with any of these mindsets. I just be myself and if she doesn’t like me there will always be other women that will like me so I don’t give a fck lol. But yeah men don’t feel like you need to be perfect. Women are not God , we should only try to impress God. When it comes to women , dont try at all just be yourself, they are not God lol you have literally nothing to prove to anyone but God 💯
Well every man failed at this. Will a virgin woman friend zone you like a sexually active woman????? Let's put it to test.
@@Thetruth24351being yourself is a trap in itself if you come across as feminine in your personal attributes. You can definitely adjust and make changes accordingly. Don't change for them but for the good of yourself.
@@Thetruth24351if you can't adjust for someone, then don't be in a relationship.
@@Thetruth24351you dont even need to prove anything to God. He loves us unconditionally.
"A woman must see you as a driving force at all times"; seems exhausting and pointless to men of authentic value.
Only exhausting if you have to 'act' like it. If you are like that all the time, then no need to act. You can just be.
THE MORE I WATCH THESE VIDEOS AND THE AMOUNT OF WORK NECESSARY TO ATTRACT,KEEP AND ENTERTAIN GIRLS THE LESS I WANT TO DO IT. life is much more than spending 99% of energy this way.....better to better myself for me and forget women..
I felt exactly the same way, but losing my woman brought out this masculine drive in me I can't explain. Women are FAR better to you when you act right, pass her tests and knows she can't replace you. She'll do everything she possibly can for you if you bed her right and focus on your purpose. I've spent more than 20 years alone. I've made all the mistakes with women. I think the work to be with a woman is worth it... just never get too attached or married.
Your attention has no leverage, bro talking about men who watch sports and play videogames living in the fairytale land, bruh shes living in the fairytale land 😂 shes glued to in stagram filled with remted sportscars, short vacations and magic filters. She doesnt care about you taking time to cold approach her because she got her entire national basketball team in her DMs 😂 and she thinks she can have them all. As a masculine man grounded in reality you can only compete with other men, you cant compete with her fantasies.
Apps and phones have broken the dating game, it is broken, dont get too invested, its a zero sum game, result is always 0 no matter what you do.
fuk u talkin about@@djocharablaikan8601
@@djocharablaikan8601 true
@@djocharablaikan8601I feel what you’re saying. It’s all jealousy of what others are doing. Then when you wallet can’t afford that. You’re no longer what she cares for.
Alright personal self assessment on my last relationship
1. I built too much comfort
2.I got too invested in my feels and too emotional with her
My solution is to practice my game more and maintaining it and practice controlling my emotions and becoming more stoic
I feel ya on this. My results have been way better with women with once I stopped opening up so much and sharing/revealing too much about myself. Stoicism and "less is more" and staying somewhat mysterious helps a lot I feel
Yup never talk about ex-gfs
@@jran4095 yep I never do. I had a bad date once rail me on questions about why my past relationships had failed and I tried answering the questions as if I was in a God damn interview. Looking back I should have refused to answer them
@renegadezen7841 too bad when I first started dating CZcams didn't exist I had to learn everything on my own but yea all the things I read on here make me remember and kick myself 😂
@@jran4095 yep definitely. But even if you did watch CZcams back in the day, the concepts don't sink in until you experience them for yourself in real life.
Have an abundance mindset when dealing w women and you won’t ever worry about them pulling away
I can honestly say, attracting a woman is tougher than landing on Mars
Not at all - just have the courage to not be ordinary
Man's got a whole scientific study on the board 🤣🤣
3.14 (pi) x masculine frame ÷ lack of interest = pussy (exponent before multiplication)
Got dumped 2 months ago. After 8 months. I'm 38, shes 26. Your videos have pointed out a lot of the shit I fucked up on.
I felt this… I see my wrongs in previous relationships I had aswell. My outcome for it all is just learn and dont make the same mistake twice.
We learn from our mistakes. But, I doubt you could have done anything right. In time, it goes from love to money. I lived in the Far East (bad example). But, I learned that "love is money" and gender roles. It's totally zero passion and intimacy. That's what men fall in love with. Young ladies can too. But, she was approaching the wall. At that point, it's more like the Far East, purely about money (but having a Chad to show off like a Gucci bag). Peace.
@troyb7112 I had a growth mindset during but was in a fog. Stuck in my feelings and emotions. The breakup woke me the fuck up and I've been using the suffering to move forward, learn, and grow. I'm grateful for it all, it got me here. All the best to you bro, we're not dead. So tomorrow is another chance.
@bobbruce4135 yea I'm fairly certain I sabotaged and she monkey branched. I'm only guessing been no contact and don't look at any social. It woke me up to a lot of shit I had to square away. So really I had time with a great girl and got the best motivation of my life out of it.
Women break up with perfectly good men all the time. You can never satisfy a woman and they're always looking for the bigger better deal. Improve your life for yourself, not for some woman.
Anyone that thinks this man has all the answers or speaks gospel, you're kidding yourselves. It's good stuff, but he's certainly wrong here too. Acting like 1 size fits all women? Good luck with that! Take what you think can work for you. The main thing is never let a woman change who you are. You can slowly lose yourself day by day, and then all a sudden, you dont know why youre doing certain things, or acting in such ways. Stay true to you. Work on you. And dont chase anyone that wants nothing to do with you.
"Death by a 1000 concessions"
What your saying should be a given Sherlock. The main thing is you learn something from someone and tailor it to you!
He is explaining how to deal with low level narcissistic women not balanced normal ones.
@@marksoutofzen no it works for every women i had been with nice girl once and when i was toxic like he tells and other stuff she chased me like madly and after sometime when fell for her and started showing emotional side and being too attached to her she left me .
Now i realized my mistakes after watching his videos and trust me this rule works with every women no matter how pure she is
@@johanliebert6859 How old are you? Young I guess. When you meet a balanced women you do not have to go to these depths and play games. Long as you remain strong and mentally indepedent not codependent. I have had more experience than you and Casey Zander put together of women and I am now 52. I know what he says is true but not once you meet a women without the issues that plague most women today.
MEN!! Very simple without all this homework. #1 and #1 only. (Invite her into your frame and make sure she follows your frame. For you young rookies...than means you set the term/rules/boundaries from the very 1st interaction. Women will do there best to try to test you over time again and again and those boundaries. DO NOT EVER deviate and if she wants to not abide to your rules she has to KNOW ALWAYS you will dump her asap and she has to know you can easily replace her. Its really that simple. If she is in your frame and respects you she will never leave
That’s bullshit about downtime or “sedation” kills attraction. I was always having fun and my wife never had a problem with it and our sex life was always intense together. As long as you own ALL THAT IS YOU including your lazy side and you own that with entitlement and confidence, she’ll stand by you through anything. Ironically what ruined our marriage was I had an anger problem and she wanted me to stop being angry so often so when I changed it for her, that’s when she lost interest and left. It was only when I stayed as I was flaws and all that she wanted me because before I changed she was literally obsessed with me. Lesson being: Never change who you are for a woman.
Learning more in the comment section 😂
I truly am getting annoyed with these dating coaches teaching "Game" of a woman's mind like a pimp.
This is only teaching you sexual or lustful intimacy for sex. It has little or nothing to do with real authentic attraction for love that leads to marriage regardless of status, looks, and greed of this world. It is a lie that every man and woman thinks the same way or believes in the same goals for a relationship
@StonerSteve97 yep, I been married 19 years and 2 kids later, still going strong. You want relationship advice? Get it from a married dude.
@@KFJNo what do you say about a guy who spends all his free time watching Fox News and trying to make you watch it or watch documentaries about things you disagree with..? Stuff like the ESG scores etc. I get sports and being excited for that, but someone who gets upset that you don't want to watch Fox news and political stuff all evening when hanging out or a two hour documentary about crirical theory and Marxism?. When you point out flawed thinking, He becomes visibly upset. You would say that's typical male thinking?
@@loveangelc idk, I watch newsmax
Great teachable moment! Appreciate the knowledge and insight.
The Parts about no fantasizing and differences of the word "comfort" for men and women are amazing advice. Nice work
This is the best video you've posted so far. Well said Casey, thank you
Casey. Much gratitude. Exceptional presentation. Quality advice supported by reason. Wish you continued success with your endeavors.
#3. The tone is on point.
This video is incredibly helpful and one of the best i've seen in your channel.
If you show that you dont really care wether she is with you or not specially in the beginning of an relationship.
She will most likely simp for you to get your attention.
Besides if you lose a woman then there are plenty of other women to replace her with if she starts pulling away from you or even worse are cheating on you.
You are the best my man keep up the great work. No one better than you on these subjects
Awesome video Casey, I appreciate you so much.
"You look like a big baby!" I cant stop laughing at this. Thank you
10:00 damn! Thats right!!!! Politics is fantasy
I constantly get upset at politics and it doesnt benefit me
This is GOLD !
Ayyyy uncle z good video as always, keep up the good work my dude 💪
Thank you, this goes beyond women, it applies to life in general.
1. Talking too much
2. Building “comfort”
3. Living in sedation (lazy, video games, etc.)
4. Being easy manipulated
5. Bringing zero masculine sexual energy
Thanks
Bro I see dudes like this pull and keep girls literally all the time
@@TheColtonStreeter Bro it’s how she perceives you that matters..not saying none of this works but no matter what you do it’s how she see and feels about you
the water is wet🤡
Great life lessons. Wish I figured it out earlier. Honestly do what he says. It is a blueprint for success with woman and life.
This dude is Spot On!
Thank you bro!
Wow that's brilliant, great video
It’s more than picking up women this stuff makes you better man
I have actually done the things Casey tells you not to do with women to get rid of two of them. It works like a charm.
Fantastic Casey. A bit late for me. But learning how i went so wrong as a young men is great to know.
100 percent, I wish the whole world watched this video.
Just constantly study and train. Commit to making yourself strong in all aspects of your life. Have good friendships full of hobbies(hes not wrong about video games and sports but theres a balance, dont over indulge or indulge too much, she needs to see that you can have gun but not be so invested in it to where it controls you). Stay focused on living your life to the fullest. Never let her see you break down the way men need to sometimes. Break down to your mother/gma and/or other men. That doesn't mean you can't open up to your woman but never break down to a woman you have already shown much weakness to and hasn't been in a good relationship with for at least 4 years. Biggest thing is just building and maintaining your confidence. If you can always stay stoic under pressure you should never lose a woman you want to keep.
Great characteristic, knowledgeable Genius speeches
God bless you
So easy to mess up a good thing with a woman 😂🤣🤣 lost count the amount of times I’ve done so.
Bro, it looks like as if I am preparing for an exam of getting girls.
Each and everyone is different.
We have our own sets of goals, ambitions and desires.
I have seen ambitious men to fail more with girls rather than those flirty playboys.
Hence, let's keep things simple.
We complete our circles.
No body ever did, and no body will ever do that for us.
Other than that everything is an add on.
Even, following all these points holistically to be a fake chick magnet too.
The right one always stays because they know your potential.
They will choose you over and over again no matter how many drawbacks you have.
Hence, my advice to all men, just keep aims, work hard to fulfill them, be honest and be patient.
You will get the best (for you) in no time.
Peace 🤘🏼
Men: Follow this if you want to die with your dicks in your hand.
Yes u re absolutely right
The analogy of speaking in a living room with your close family is 👍
True. I like men who feel and express (justified) emotions, but not to let themselves to be ruled by emotions..
Great video. Thsnk you
This is crucial information.
Great info looking forward to correct my manhood.
Good points, I lost my girl due to regarding points 1,3,4. I’m back with her tho but she still behaves toxic, disrespectful. Still need to work on masculine traits such as being emotionally stable / not easily manipulated etc.
I can't tell if Casey's vids make me excited to try this new knowledge in my next relationship or avoid women altogether.
1. Talking to much
2. Building comfort
3. Living in sedation
4. Being easily manipulated on a emotional level
5. Bring zero masculine sexual energy & in the bedroom
Yes I seen the white board as well 🤡
I love this
This works!!!!
nice breakdown
I don’t see a man playing video games to be an issue with women like my sister’s husband plays them and she doesn’t have a problem with him.
Yeah that part makes it seem like men aren't allowed to have hobbies. It's ridiculous. Everyone needs down time to do things they enjoy. All work and no play is not healthy.
I think those were just some examples of being too emotional, like being angry all day watching fantasy football or throwing temper tantrums on your video game. Being too emotional where it affects your mood, especially around her, shows you're extremely too emotional. Even when that's not even beneficial for yourself.
Age matters too. Dating a girl now who left her husband because that's all he did.
I promise you tho, in your 30s and 40s, a woman will come out to the shop and take tools out of your hands to have her way with you, but never a Gameboy. 😏
These guys don’t get it. They pick one little thing out here and there and just dig on it. It seems they don’t have the common sense to grasp the most basic principle of the point he’s trying to make in a given example.. This dudes dropping gems and their wall is up due to insecurities
@@StonerSteve97 your name is stoner steve. I hope you're listening to what he says about stoners and alcohol 😂
Great video
Really wish I knew this shit years ago. About to be 23 and would love to have known this at 18.
Lol, 23? That's the end of life .. there are men who act like this when they are 50
Haha, 35 and learning it hurts more than 23, young fella! You have a lot of life left to mess up and learn from before you try to Keep a Woman, but it's good to know these principles early and hone them! Good on you for bettering yourself so soon in life!
This is 100% I once sat in a date and just let her talk and only replayed by questions so she could talk coz i was so high ..after 30 min she says do you even like me? whats going on here i kissed her immediately and touched were I needed to after 1 hour SHE took me to the bathroom in a club nextdoor - Im here coz you remind me the things I automatically did when I was myself and content with life...cheers
I recognize LRH tech. the org board and language patterns. very effective application of lessons.
I like your Cap 👍...
Really nice...
#5 is by far the greatest weakness that I see in men. There are so few men who understand the power and necessity of seduction for women. Married men, even ones that were once good at this, seem to forget it once they get in ltrs or marriages. I see this constantly. Every guy should read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Most men fall into the archetype of the Anfi-seducer (literally the type that turns women off) as soon as they get emotionally attached to a woman. Even Mystery apparently fell into this trap.
bro this information is like gold lmao
This is exactly what went wrong on a date I was on i was filling in the dead space with fluff talk and she went from 100 to almost zero because I was much higher status than her but gave her way to much comfort
Thanks
I know women who have literally said, I called it off because he talked too much, she just wanted him to shut up to keep the sex going
Same, I’ve had women say your so interesting when I’m literally just letting them talk and nodding my head and then they try to seduce you 🤣.
That inner game is dialed in bro.
I experienced the lose of a couple great girls over the sedation ( games, movies, sports)
I love it when you go over sports and sports fans. One of the biggest wastes of time.
Idk how many video of urs i ve liked
Uncle c! back in the office!
Using munipulated instead of manipulated will most likely make her walk away 😂
All facts
Facts.
This it. #MBT
So be a warrior.
Be concerned and taking care of her isn't the same as overly caring which is seen as weak.
Never step out of this character they love. 😂
I'm not giving up watching boxing bro.
Mind blown
I love the part discussing "sedation"! OUTSTANDING!!
He’s good looking!.!.
This type of videos are just excellence!
Strength is more mental than physical
I like your analytical approach. Have you ever seen the movie Magnolia starring Tom Cruise? Masterpiece.
one of your better videos in awhile.
but for the love of all things good in the world -- please unlearn "mew-nipulated"
Yea smoking & drinking could be a game killer
I have been enriching my time with valueable activities for years (gaining knowledge, testing possible career paths, perfecting my speech to serve me, etc.). The only "bad" habit that I have kept over the years is smoking cigarettes and my question is this: Will this habit emasculate me over time or is it irrelevant?
The cigarettes wont emasculate you but they will make you smell like an ashtray
3:47 Well Zander, I tried this experiment. I sat down and closed my eyes and pictured myself back in the living room of my Folks' house. The last time I did this would have been the 1980s when I was 5 or 6.... I saw us huddled round a small TV watching Diego Maradona (RIP) single headedly (admittedly with some help from God) beat the English..... Yet somehow , I don't think this is what you mean!?
I got into hella sedation this summer
💯
By collecting little pieces of the puzzle, drip fed to you it will take you a long time to get the full picture.
A week from now you could have all the information you need, you could be implementing all of it and beginning to see real progress.
Based upon years of insight and experience. More knowledge than any dating guru can supply with marketing videos and expensive coaching.
Or a year from now you will probably be still scrolling through
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Hey Casey, if you'd like to implement any AI automation into your business model at all I hope I can be an asset.
Listening to music is sedation as well don't forget that
The problem we have as men is we're not mind readers we really dont know what shes thinking.
The root problem is not being a Chad. Sensual tension is imperative. But, never do it if geo-maxing as it will gross them out (all fake love). If you're in the Far East, you must fluff talk about green cards, marriage, babies and lead with the wallet (lots of $$$). Even Chads must know that in time he will need to be wealth. So, know she's not yours, it's just your turn. Chad lites can truly benefit from this information. But, none of this advice will work with ladies from the Far East where relationships never involve love.
Speak English not catchphrases in this baloney
My advice to u folks is:
Jus b yourself with a woman.. dont b needy or desperate.. and if its meant to be, it wil anyhow happen.
@Casey Zander So I have a question: For the third point, what do you request a bunch of intellectually minded individuals do instead? What is fun and engaging that doesn't seem a form of sedation?
the bottom line is that you will only get laid if you are a stoic, emotionless, buff dude with a six pack, six inch dong, and six figure salary and six feet tall of course
actually playing the sports instead of watching them. Nothing wrong with enjoying a game or rooting for a team even, but if you're degenerately gambling, getting caught up in fantasy sports, or if your emotions are influenced by pro sports then you should reevaluate how you occupy your leisure time.
What is a V Card?
“Watching spectator sports will strip you from your masculinity”
Seriously. That is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard 😂
Not really.
YOURE watching grown MILLIONAIRE men, who could give two F’s about YOU, while you sit there and invest your time…. watching other men play a GAME.
It’s pathetic
Think he means getting overly attached to it, that it creates an unnecessary emotional response.
Does this work on wife too or only girlfriends
At 11:50 what did he mean by saying "leaver", did he mean "lever"?
He says, "can't trust to actually have lever"?
vcard ? what does that mean
So complicated, I don’t know how to apply
Casey, never ever stop doing this sht.. i want to die watching your videos, being always with each day the best version of me