OBVIOUS Signs GUYS Didn't GET

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  • čas přidán 7. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 33

  • @tinadill284
    @tinadill284 Před 2 měsíci +24

    I feel like a lot of it is the guy not wanting to come off wrong. So, is girls sometimes need to be like “yes I like you” 😂

  • @Oddballkane
    @Oddballkane Před 2 měsíci +14

    Basically, guys are scared of misreading the situation. Girl dresses provocatively he doesn't want to assume and get called a pervert so we girls should just tell a guy I want you to do this right now.

  • @CartoonEric
    @CartoonEric Před 2 měsíci +19

    If a girl showed attraction to me, my first question is, "What's the catch?" Because there is always something.

    • @user-pb8mt4gk3l
      @user-pb8mt4gk3l Před měsícem +3

      same for me , and sometimes i think " where's the candid camera ? "
      when you get burned too many times , you prefer an icy plain than a sunset beach , it's normal

    • @BePatientSeeLove
      @BePatientSeeLove Před měsícem

      Sometimes there's a catch sometimes women just are horny😂😂😂 and lastly sometimes they wanna know more about you she also said I'ma fun person to talk too

    • @justinthebeau2590
      @justinthebeau2590 Před 15 dny +2

      Never trust a beautiful woman especially one that's interested in you. Magneto

  • @Icalasari
    @Icalasari Před 2 měsíci +7

    Story 11 - ...He outright said what happened. He said "Yes, it was too late"

  • @jmac4910
    @jmac4910 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Wow. First story, right off the bat. I felt so bad for the guy, I tuned the video off by instinct. Guess I'll finish listening to the video now, lol.

  • @anderstermansen130
    @anderstermansen130 Před měsícem +3

    The first one was way too personal. Who was allowed to write about my confidence with women, or rather, lack of it?

  • @mrsg8996
    @mrsg8996 Před 2 měsíci +3

    These stories make me feel lucky to be dating in my 40’s. There has been no guess work (for the most part) and everyone I’ve been out with has asked for consent to touch, cuddle and kiss. I’ve been the same. Those who didn’t ask were very upfront about what they wanted.
    One of my biggest pieces of dating advice is to ask if you are unsure of their signals l, or want that physical interaction. No matter how innocent or raunchy it is. Be respectful and don’t take it out verbally and physically if you are rejected. A no does not always mean never and you don’t want to burn that bridge or ruin your reputation.
    If your date gets upset you ask or finds it a turn off you are better off not with them because they definitely have issues developing communication and might not understand the importance consent.

  • @DragonbornMike-ym2er
    @DragonbornMike-ym2er Před 2 měsíci +3

    Maybe I'm just sensitive. But if a girl's way of asking me out is to pull me away, pin me to a wall, and have her friends block the exits. Nah, I'm not taking that chance.

    • @liuqmno3421
      @liuqmno3421 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yeah, he did the right thing to be cautious. Hopefully the girl got better strategies nowadays lol

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil5718 Před 2 měsíci +3

    *_"Obvious"_* signs = An Oxymoron

  • @davidpumpkinsjr.5108
    @davidpumpkinsjr.5108 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Women: What do I have to do to get a guy to know I'm into him.
    Me: Tell him you're into him directly. Guys are stupid and often don't pick up on subtlety.

    • @Toongeek45
      @Toongeek45 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Or playing it safe! If we're wrong, we're a pervert!

    • @drippysi3379
      @drippysi3379 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Dam who hurt you 😭
      And nah hinting doesn’t help especially when it makes it seem like yall hinting at 3 different things just be direct

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 Před měsícem

      You can be plain, simple and direct with a guy, and he will suspect there is a catch of some sort. Like a wicked joke.

  • @melaniescribbles
    @melaniescribbles Před měsícem +1

    As a female autistic introvert with social anxiety; bold of you to assume that I'm brave enough to be giving him ANY signs. Like, I'm not doing that until I catch signs from him (and if it is requited; my dense *ss probably won't catch on anyways 🤣).

  • @randymarsh4709
    @randymarsh4709 Před 2 měsíci +2

    *recovering fat kid" oof I felt that one but didn't grow up attractive lol

  • @ZeroTheOtter
    @ZeroTheOtter Před 2 měsíci +1

    Think guys are for te most part either genuinely clueless or don’t wasn’t to miss read the situation. Even when you are being direct it seems, lol.

  • @StrideResearch
    @StrideResearch Před 2 měsíci +1

    9th grade I was having long phone calls with a girl in 10th grade and we would hang out occasionally because she lived close by. We were in her room with her parents home but they never checked on us. She had told me that her and her exes had sex in the past and later on she told me “what would you do if I pulled out a condom right now” and my dumb virgin brain did not connect the dots. When it was time for me to leave I was gonna walk home and she told me she would walk me halfway so we got to the local park where there was an inch of melting snow on the ground she took me behind a tree was tried to take my pants off me to what I can only assume now with a lot more experience at hand was to fellate me. Again had no idea and thought she was joking around because we both had kind of a raunchy sense of humor. This happened like late 2009 and it didn’t dawn on me until a nicotine fueled runaway train of thought in 2021. Every now and again something similar pops into my head and I can only chuckle and chalk it up to a fair loss. Someone pour one out for all the homies that missed some hints while we were becoming men.

  • @austinfowler2707
    @austinfowler2707 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Oooooooooooof story 1

  • @darthhatchet
    @darthhatchet Před 2 měsíci +12

    For the guys watching this 90% of these scenarios will never happen to you.

    • @Fischer_king
      @Fischer_king Před 2 měsíci +3

      Only 90% 😂

    • @madwolf8615
      @madwolf8615 Před 2 měsíci +3

      True lol

    • @ninjachickn9952
      @ninjachickn9952 Před 2 měsíci +1

      So, I will catch the hint?

    • @darthhatchet
      @darthhatchet Před 2 měsíci

      @ninjachickn9952 nothing is impossible and wish you good fortune on recognizing the hints

    • @ninjachickn9952
      @ninjachickn9952 Před 2 měsíci

      @darthhatchet Thanks, and you too. May you live the happy life just by noticing the major detail that starts the relationship (I tried to sound poetic, but my English is limited)