How to Become Your Best When Life Gives You Its Worst | Peter Sage | TEDxKlagenfurt
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- What would you do if you became the only non-criminal locked up in Britain’s most violent prison? That’s exactly what happened to Peter Sage. His world was turned upside-down when he served 6 months as the only civil prisoner in one of the UK’s toughest jails, but ended up winning acclaim, friends and a national award for his work that changed the lives of many prisoners. In this TEDx Talk, Peter shares his story along with how you can deal with the toughest situations and become your best when life gives you its worst. Peter Sage is a well known international serial entrepreneur, author, philosopher, personal growth expert, and teacher. His unique way of looking at and relating to life has inspired millions of people worldwide to reinvent themselves. Whether by improving or turning around a business or developing a new and empowering psychology through practical yet profound shifts in awareness, Peter hopes his insights and teachings can offer something of value to those who seek it. To find out more about Peter, visit his website www.petersage.com and subscribe to his CZcams channel at / petersage007 This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
"If you're complaining about something that already happened you're wasting your time"
So I shouldn’t worry about anyone else becoming a casualty of the same problematic people? So long as I have survived I can now move on?
@@DR-nh6oo There will always be exceptions to "the rule"
The only way I can counter this statement is if you’re at a restaurant you gotta make complaints.
@@juavang1833 How else will they know what mistakes they are making, and if they can’t take constructive criticisms, that is the clue to never go back.
Not sure this is completely true. Sometimes complaining (respectfully) can lead to having the situation corrected, compensation, better self reflection, communication, or wisdom.
Just what I needed
"your environment does not define you, it simply gives you the oppurtunity to find yourself."
Well said .
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Excellent quote
Hello Kynaat
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I can't even process the dude's mentality. He's so high on the emotional maturity level.
He so isn’t he is just a self promotion freak
People lie, very often people who tout all this postivity stuff, never suffer much in life, tend to have things relatively easy.
Right! He sounds like just another motivational speaker. Hence the Tony Robbins quotes in his talks.
@@CraigsOverijse ugh. Sod off.
@@CraigsOverijse did someone trick you in the past? and you're still sad and angry about what happened?
"The strongest force in the human personality, is the need to remain consistent with how you define yourself."
When I was younger I always hated TED talks because they’d play them in school all the time. 15 now and I can’t stop watching. It’s amazing how much you can learn from these people. Props to this great guy for bringing such a great lesson to everyone.
It all depends on your approach to learning, at school the teachers try to cram their student with as much as the curriculum demands, which can mentally exhausting. If you maintain the 'yearn to learn' it becomes far more pleasurable, to learn without educational pressures. As you're starting to realise Amber.
OMG same and im 15 and im always listening to them! lol
@@hookbeak3516 yeah I wish I had that desire to keep learning I was smart but hw wasnt my thing and yeah I'd say just all the curriculum I got exhausted and stopped trying as much, big regret I could have easily done way better and absorbed alot more knowledge that I now see in a lot of situations are nice to have
Its all abt who you surround your self with
You were lucky that you got all the motivation from your school. I've come here after life lessons.
"Freedom is a state of mind, and nobody can take that away from you" - more important than ever these days
"Behavior follows mindset. Not skillset". That hit.
As soon as i was arrested i thought (Who i am and what i want is now irrelevant) I did not turn my self back on until the day i was released. Ashamed to say i was a Criminal that deserved it, but now proud to say i am not any more.
The first step to transform yourself is acknowledging and being able to call yourself out when you know you’re in the wrong. Big steps ahead of you my brother continue to be a student of life. 💪🏽
@@user-gz4ko4lj8h Yes
Going through something right now and stumbled upon this. I cried during this talk from gratitude. This definitely hits different when you are weathering the storm. Peter Sage always comes through with the wisdom.
i totally agree with you
I equally am. I had to replay this video and take it in word by word. I hope that in one year from now I will revisit this reply and add a like to it after moving past what I am going through at the moment.
Your environment never defines you, it simply gives you the opportunity to define yourself. Wow
You have taught me to accept where I am in life today.
Uh-huh . If there was a light at the end of his dismal tunnel , then there's probably one at the end of mine . I've never done any jail time .
How do you do that ? How do you cope with big career fail and regret? I am in such pain due to a catastrophic career choice and dont know how to deal with it..
Anyone who has read the famous book Think and Grow Rich knows that every adversity carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit. Peter’s inspiring story is a stunning example of how to apply this concept in the real world and turn an obstacle into an opportunity to help others! Bravo!
everything i needed to hear after years of panic attacks
Me tooo...
Same ! Chronic migraine sufferer here .
I fucken hate panic attacks I yousto think people were bs about em but karma came around and I was having em didn’t even know what tf was goin on it came when I least expected it still tho as bad as they feel I always try to fight it every time 💯 never in my life has gave me that type of feeling it’s different from any other pain I’ve felt (anxiety & panic attacks) I’ll never underestimate em again i really had to work to at least get through them I’m glad I don’t have em constantly nomore
@@Serratosteven I also did not understand panic attacks and by mistake have told a few people just to "get over it". "It's all in your head". But once i had my first panic attack, i completely understood the sheer terror they were going through. It is a type of feeling that I would not wish on anyone. What helps me when I experience these is immiedetly grounding myself in the moment by calling out three objects around me. And then touching three objects. And then I'm back.
@@sottosotto4056 never thought of that technique hopefully i won’t have anymore it’s been about 6 months but still it hurts to the point where I’m like damm I never new I had these feelings before stowed away and I be boxing and was always a stand up guy a lil cocky I had to-humble myself after those incidents I just knew that I wasn’t as tough as I thought I was aha still tho the last time I had one it was like the 3-4th one that month and I was already adapting a lil to it not saying I couldn’t feel the pain because I forshure did but I was Conscience of it and my self talk was my way back to reality
My eyes popped open when he said change the mindset! Exactly! A close family member of mine needs to watch this! I’m so happy I clicked
AMAZING talk, so very inspirational! (Best part? “I’ve never seen anybody so happy on their first day of prison!”)
Simply coming into acceptance to where you are right now.
This man is so powerful. THANK YOU!
14:58 "...the best trees don't grow in the best soil, they grow in the strongest winds. So if you want to be the best version of yourself, start praying for strong winds, and don't complain when they show up."
I've heard that many people pray for patience...and then they proceed to go through situation after situation where their patience is pushed past their limit.
As for myself (already knowing that about people who pray for patience), a few years back I prayed for strength. Guess what happened...I ended up going through situation after situation that was like those "strong winds", so that over and over again I have felt like I was pushed so hard that I was at my breaking point. (A few times, I did feel like I had been broken.) I still don't feel like I am strong-enough to bear the burdens in my life...but I'm stronger than I was before, stronger than I was months ago, stronger than I was years ago when I prayed for strength. It worked, but I had no idea what I was asking.
This is a good analogy in the video. It clarified and gave me words for what I already realized had happened. Now I understand that when I prayed to be stronger, I was praying for "strong winds" to come, I was inviting change to come in my life. I don't like the wind...but I now know that I don't have to fear the wind or shrink back from it.
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Another important tree analogy that I have learned from is from the Bible (Jeremiah 17:7-8) about being
"like a tree planted by the water that extends its roots by a stream, and does not fear when the heat comes".
Like how this presenter, Peter Sage, had a purpose in mind when he went into the prison, ... I think that it is important to know where your strength comes from. It matters that you know what you believe, and that no matter the circumstance, you can choose how you face it.
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CZcams always gives me what I need
Perks of having a personalized algorithm for your suggested videos.😄
Thank you Peter for this gift. You are generous and inspiring.
Valuable life lessons, great job Peter Sage.
Thanks Peter. You are the real deal. There are only a few coaches outside who are able to walk the talk in those circumstances. You live what you teach and its a pleasure to have you as a teacher. Thanks again for this inspiring video. And btw I think it was a gift for the inmates to have you there.
well said
Truly one of the most inspiring talks I’ve ever heard! I listen to it every few months and no matter what’s going on in the world this video always lifts my sports
What an incredibly gifted beautiful man. Peter , I've been going through a very tough time the last while and you miraculously showed up on my phone feed a month or two ago. You have been comforting me and helping me get better at viewing life as an adventure without even knowing it. Your wisdom is so far reaching.
Just came across Peter Sage last week and I am now following him. Amazing teacher, coach, person. He was created to better others. God bless Peter Safe.
Wow he's the most positive person ever. That's a super power
Very powerful and inspiring. We need to have this as a course in our secondary schools to help give the students the resilience they need to move positively and purposefully through their lives
The way he has expressed is just Phenomenal and his journey reflects positive attitude.We always complain about our adversities.
"Life is not a comfort centric experience but a growth centric experience"
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So many powerful messages in this video. Thanks so much for sharing!
Thank you so much. You are always surprising us with your energy and motivation. Again one of the best talks by Peter Sage.
I just lost a friend of mine from suicide on Sunday( 28/05/22) at Rhodes University in South Africa.
I’ve been looking for an inspiration to move forward because my exams are here
Thank you Peter for sharing your amazing story! Very few inspirational speakers would have passed the test of applying what they teach in such hard circumstances. You're a huge inspiration for the world!
Terrific talk, very moving, look forward to seeing more of your work
Wow, what a story! I cried from half of the video all the way until the end. So inspiring!
Thank you so much. My brother at age 43 was unjustly sentence to a similar prison in America since then my mother and my sister have died from heartache because we can’t believe that someone innocent like my brother will be trapped in a prison he’s been there for 14 years and we worry about his life every day
So sorry to hear that Debbie. Send a copy of this message to my assistant at D E A at petersage dot c.o.m and I'll have a copy of The Inside Track Letters Sent to him with my compliments.
Peter's Ted talk combined with his recent book release "The inside track" will most definitely raise the level of consciousness of every human being that reads/listens to them. The best 10 dollars I have ever invested.
I think that was the best Ted talk ive heard yet. Impactful, sensitive, interesting, wish it had been longer- and I dont say that often.
Truly inspiring story. It’s one thing talk-in the talk but quite another walking it. I will be sharing this amazing story with my all my family, friends and business network.
God bless you Peter.
what a great ted...
Yes it is, loved it, I am also sharing it.
What an inspiring orator! "Many of the gifts in life that come to us come wrapped with a thin layer of problems. Probably to stop somebody else from stealing our gifts."
Freedom is a state of mind is ultimate which I will remember throughout my life. Such a personality achieved every thing even if has nothing. Thanks for such a great real life story of the presenter.
I really like this man, he speaks the truth and delivers it in a way that makes me want to work harder.
He is very handsome too!
@@phyllismknapp6038 😂😂😂
That was beautiful. You are amazing Peter. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏
Really good speech I was in prison in Ireland for 10 years I can relate to that speech, very good and smart positive bloke
Wow, what an incredible talk! His words hold so much power and truth!
I'm glad I've discovered this guy. Great speaker.
This is a powerful speech combined with real-life experiences that is one of a kind. I'm thoroughly inspired.
Peter Sage - A Beautiful Gift that keeps on Giving
this resonated with me on so many levels and the end made me see things so different.
Amazing Talk. Thank you Peter for shining your light in this world so brilliantly.
There is a always something good in everything challenge in life. It is seeing a reason and purpose. Your perception and attitude is everything! Love this story Peter! You planted seeds that changed lives! God bless 🙏 you!
This is without doubt one of the best Ted talks I have seen. Some wonderful lessons for us all!!!
Fabulous speech Peter Sage. So many gold nuggets of information. One of the best Ted talks I've listened to.
Amazing guy, amazing share, just like his last ted talk ! keep it up Peter !
I loved this as usual!! Peter Sage has a way with his words and his analogies, so we can better understand the way of life and the situations we are put it. Really just gave me a different perspective on the way I will now look at conflicts in my life so thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you🙏🏼 I really enjoyed hearing this today👏🏼
Refreshing to have such profound principles taught through the lens of experience not theory. Seeing amazing results in my life having applied the principles mentioned in this ted talk. Thanks peter!
He is very powerful and drives it home.
I needed to hear that, thank you.
This was one of the best talk's I have ever watched. Thanks Peter.
So powerful! Thank you!! 💝
Thank you for this. I believe that conquering patience and like you said unwrapping the paper to see the gift in adversity are top notch to living a life with meaning
Awesome, inspirational talk. A man that truly made the most of a bad situation and helped a lot of the guys inside to get through their situations.
Thank you for the significant reminder!
God works in wondrous ways! He turned your adversity into an opportunity to make a big impact in the lives of people... just like the prisoners you helped. I pray that more people would be like you... helping to make the world a better place to live in.
Awesome, as usual from you, Peter. Currently reading your book, The Inside Track (got a signed copy from our friend Elliot Reeves, of Inspired Edinburgh, ex Edinburgh Real). Not a page without some valuable insight. I wasn't expecting it to be this good, yet i've been a bit of a fan for 5 years. Still remember the day i stumbled upon your words. Changed my life.
Thank you.
Dear Mr Sage,
You are a true inspiration.
You have the art of untying knots without actual touching the knot!
Thank you.
Love your attitude! So inspiring! Thank you for helping me see things from a different perspective😊
I'm glad I've discovered this guy, straight talk no bs advice
agree!!!
epic! what an amazing mentality ! thank you so much for sharing your story ! so enlightening !!
One of the best ted talks, this is so inspiring and compelling
If you enjoyed this, you should get his book, The Inside Track. I’ve been doing personal development for almost two decades and everything I need is in this one book. I’ve read it four times and it’s my go to book when I’m being tested by “earth school” Peter’s teaching add significant value to my human experience which isn’t always cupcakes and awesomeness
think I will, is his stuff still working for you?
This man is a Saint. I feel so grateful to have seen this. Thank you 🙏
thank you I needed this today
Yessssss!!!! Peter Sage so proud of this talk, you made me cry and you inspired me at the same time. I am so looking forward to seeing what you are going to do next and i am glad you are out of there my friend. Big Hug.
One of the most valuable tools that I've learned from you is that Life is a growth-centric experience. It's still hard to realize what an example that you've set in such an environment and thanks for showing and inspiring me what's possible!
yes agree.
this is definitely one of the best Ted talks that I have ever seen in my entire life, i mean not just inspirational, but also really really applicable!
Wow I really feel I was directed to your talk. I've found myself in a job where I am working with kids who have not had the best life chances and I want to help them. To be more to have a wonderful thriving abundant life gor them and their children and to break generational lack. I didn't how to really help them achieve this and you have just showed me. Thank you so grateful 🙏
Thank you for sharing this video, I am going to play it this week in my groups. This is awesome, thank you "Mud or STARS"
This man speaks very powerful words.
Thank you so much❤ I really need this
Yesss Peter!
I really love this talk, empowering!
So uplifting and inspiring! I love the gems on his FB page too.
Very powerful mindset shift.
Amazing story. Thank you for sharing.
Wow, he really did create something out of that horrible situation!
Thank you for this wonderful sharing .
So, amazing. Thanks for sharing best & real experience.
Inspiring!!! Shine and make a difference wherever you find yourself!!
Amazing stuff Peter! Being in Peter’s circle has been life changing to say the least.
Great 'talk'. Really well structured and delivered with wit and passion.
This was great! It takes a lot of guts to take a situation like that and turn it into something positive. Awesome.
Great man. Bless you . Define yourself and believe yourself. Hope you inspire motivate infinite people. Bless you and all your dreams come true.
Awesome, needed right now during covid!!!
Powerful and important talk!
This man is amazing and his talks help me 100% . Thank you Peter
Thank you. God bless you.
i don’t know why this video has under a million views… this man is brilliant!
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Amazing. Thank you Peter Sage.
Beautiful positivity, thank you xx
I am so very touched and inspired by your story I lived so much of it I am using it as a tool to help others living. A life of gratitude