It does! I think that’s okay. Lol That internal feeling is what sparks change often. I’m glad they are listening and not trying to make excuses and shift blame. Cause I see people do that all the time.
@@downbad2874Being quiet is best. It shows they’re listening and understanding. We knew since Elementary School women had 2 sets of rules. One for the friend they like and one for the boy they really like. It’s not like the one friend is zoned out because he’s able to hit it as well but if shit goes left, she’ll cut him off completely, yet keep giving the next one chance after chance and we as men will call you out on the bullshit, especially if you’re crying to us about it.
Bruh the silence in that room spoke volumes. Big dawg is right, if you have standards that you follow rules you go by and someone doesn’t abide by them there’s consequences. But when you let people slide and no consequences happen that’s when problems start, we teach people how we want to be treated.
Thought he was gonna talk about the women that say they're gonna act right for the right man but the way they act daily pushes the right man away from seeing that energy
There is no need to add humor onto the realness and the deepness of what was just stated. The mouth speaks with the heart feels, actions speak louder than words. Silence equals acceptance.
The 1st dude spoke stone cold facts. The other dude is annoying and a consistent panderer. Every time someone gives women some accountability he gotta come in with "OHHHHH BUT MEN!" 🙄😒
hes speaking facts about what women need to do to protect themselves. on the other hand, wish more men would operate based on principle and not just take advantage of people
Thank you. I've been saying this for years. Women have different rules for men and get mad when the man they didn't hold on their square takes advantage of them. I argued that consent should apply to all men at all times. I'm a bouncer. I get women coming to me saying that a particular guy grabbed her or started dancing behind her and that he is creepy. I kick these guys out. But I see a more taller or attractive man do the same thing and no problem because she finds him attractive. But the rule should apply to these men to.
This is true for most, but not all. I made a pack with myself to not have kids out of wedlock and only with a good husband and family man. I stand on that standard. I don't care how much I like you, how good you look to me, how much money swinging out of your pockets in my direction...I stand on my square and it seems to make them even more curious. smh
You can't argue with our experience and the men who have been truly desired by women know the difference. I would only add that it's terrible for you to take advantage of someone who really rocks with you. That's messed up.
MEN ACT LIKE THEY DON'T KEEP COMING BACK TO US AND DON'T WANT TO LET US GO EITHER, SO DON'T THINK IT'S US THAT KEEP COMING BACK ALL OF THE TIME, FELLAS GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS, Y'ALL KNOW THE BALL BOUNCES BOTH WAYS 🎯💯🔥🖤
Crazy how we act like all black men and women are this whole collective. These conversations are played out in a general sense. The same issue is at play whether it’s the man or woman in these scenarios. Accountability!!!
That may be, but for most women ..it's true. Been there my damn self, and ran that game in my youth. Never failed. The difference was that I grew up, and later apologized to all of the ladies that I wronged.
No. Both people should love each other equally and make equal efforts and contributions within a relationship. I don't know where you heard that saying, but I can guarantee you that anyone who utters such a phrase is trying to justify being able to do less work in their relationships whilst receiving more benefit.
The crazy part is he didn’t acknowledge what it’s like for the guys who experience the “rules”….they now know the you’re giving them rules because you don’t like them as much.
Exactly! So if a woman is giving a man "rules", that's a great indicator to not waste another second of our time peperusing her cause there's somebody that that same woman isn't giving rules to. Our ego will lie to us and tell us to try harder and try to convince somebody to like us. If it feels like I'm pulling teeth then I'll just charge the whole situation to the game.
If women want to see men stop violating them, women have to have administer consequences unilaterally. How about the men he speaks of respect more than consequences and respect some type of morality and not violate.
He’s speaking FACTS. 💯🙌🏽😮💨 We as women have to change this narrative ASAP. We have to hold the same standards & stand on business for everybody. Some mehn do this as well but for the most part we do it the more.
Now that’s the reason these conversations are senseless did you hear the response from the women after the man said stay down for yourself to the women still couldn’t accept it dam shame
So damn true, you hit the hammer on the nail. Im going thru this now. It's hard, no doubt, but at the end of the day, come correct or stay the f out my way. I dont chase half steppers. In or out, you can not have it both ways when it comes to me. Me, or options, im good either way.
I agree that women let up on men they love and like. We need to stop bending rules. Unfortunately 99% of relationships and marriages would fail and men know good women dont want a dysfunctional, broken home. I disagree that men respect consequences because they wouldnt try womens boundaries if they did respect consequences.
Some* men don't respect boundaries, and some women don't respect boundaries. Women are just as likely as men to mistreat their partners, and men are just as likely as women to enable mistreatment from their partners.
I back that 💯. I’ll also add that that trauma from those relationships out the burden 10 times on the next phase to have to put in extreme effort to get minimal in return. Oh you let go your own standards and let that guy do you any kind of way but treat me like I’m the one that cheated simply because I make a joke that you didn’t like or I’m not paying attention enough to see that hint you threw out the second you threw it. Now I don’t pay attention to you and don’t care lol
@@albaptiste8691: What do you mean “How?” I know quite a few men who take a lot of sh*t off their women, lying and cheating included, based on how that woman looks. They are more concerned with having a “hottie” and what it does for their ego than about actually being happy in their relationships. I also know men who treat their more beautiful girlfriends better than those they had or have who were less attractive.
I don’t think he’s implying women are responsible for the way men operate overall but they are responsible for the options they give a man they see is unfit for a relationship based on her wants and not what’s good for her but that’s my most humble opinion
@@R.Yvette.X. people are influenced often by what they see that seems successful and right now bad men seem to be getting most of the ladies attention so that will influence other men or young men growing up to feel that’s the way not all people follow but the truth is most do so if ladies are falling for bad men in abundance then that will help to make more and the bad men feel justified because they are winning in their opinion
@R.Yvette.X. where you get that inference from? Nothing like that is even in the video. Clearly he is referring to a class of men that have not learned to set his own boundaries and therfore challenges the boundaries of others in an unhealthy way. We keep telling you to stay away from those me.
Imagine having to make a grown man do right? Whew.. it’s on the floor. He better get closer to God and learn discipline. That’s a terrible message to put out there, as if men have no morals, dignity, or maturity unless it’s forced on them. To my real Kings, I’m sure you are just as confused as me by this.
Stop using "loose" as an insult for women. There is ZERO scientific evidence suggesting that sexual promiscuity causes a woman's vagina to become less tight. This is a lie that men conjured up to encourage other men to shame/distrust women who have had multiple sexual partners.
PREACHING !!! Quiet ass room.
Yk they spitting when the room gets quiet. The truth hurts. 😢
It does! I think that’s okay. Lol
That internal feeling is what sparks change often. I’m glad they are listening and not trying to make excuses and shift blame. Cause I see people do that all the time.
So now they quit it’s a problem which one y’all want them to do
Both genders do this so there was no need to speak
@@downbad2874Being quiet is best. It shows they’re listening and understanding. We knew since Elementary School women had 2 sets of rules. One for the friend they like and one for the boy they really like. It’s not like the one friend is zoned out because he’s able to hit it as well but if shit goes left, she’ll cut him off completely, yet keep giving the next one chance after chance and we as men will call you out on the bullshit, especially if you’re crying to us about it.
Exactly that is why men never fell for the 90 day rule bs because we been knowing this. 💯
Bruh the silence in that room spoke volumes. Big dawg is right, if you have standards that you follow rules you go by and someone doesn’t abide by them there’s consequences. But when you let people slide and no consequences happen that’s when problems start, we teach people how we want to be treated.
He's speaking FACTS!! Come on ladies...
Thought he was gonna talk about the women that say they're gonna act right for the right man but the way they act daily pushes the right man away from seeing that energy
The man who was wearing the hat was speaking facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️
There is no need to add humor onto the realness and the deepness of what was just stated. The mouth speaks with the heart feels, actions speak louder than words. Silence equals acceptance.
Agreed, And That’s Not The First Time Humor Was Added After Speaking Honesty.
The 1st dude spoke stone cold facts. The other dude is annoying and a consistent panderer. Every time someone gives women some accountability he gotta come in with "OHHHHH BUT MEN!" 🙄😒
Spot on, they are quick and rush to sleep with some men while friend zoning some others
hes speaking facts about what women need to do to protect themselves. on the other hand, wish more men would operate based on principle and not just take advantage of people
The silence was LOUD 😂.
What Tripp wanted to say at 0:55? 🤣
Rightttt lol
He thought about something that still sits well with the ladies in the room but quickly realized he shouldn't add anything to straight facts
His mouth was moving . 🤣 He wanted to say something for sure.
He’s totally right and all what he said was like a mirror, so if we don’t like it, this is a good opportunity to change
😂you could hear a roach pissin in that audience 🤣
FACTS😊
What I noticed from these individuals they talk a good game. But none of them live or follow the values that they talk about. Especially the women.
They just be talking
Makes for entertaining content.
TBF Kitty (the gorgeous darkskinned lady that normally comes on the show) is happily married.
@@drtash21that bitch ain’t married
Except for Tripp and Kitty.
The truth brings discomfort to those on the wrong side of it .......BUT but but he's so fine 😂😂😂
Remember this fellas women make up rules for guys they like vs the ones that have to prove themselves
I agree, but a man she's not attracted to will never prove himself no matter what he doe$.
Thank you. I've been saying this for years. Women have different rules for men and get mad when the man they didn't hold on their square takes advantage of them. I argued that consent should apply to all men at all times. I'm a bouncer. I get women coming to me saying that a particular guy grabbed her or started dancing behind her and that he is creepy. I kick these guys out. But I see a more taller or attractive man do the same thing and no problem because she finds him attractive. But the rule should apply to these men to.
This is true for most, but not all. I made a pack with myself to not have kids out of wedlock and only with a good husband and family man. I stand on that standard. I don't care how much I like you, how good you look to me, how much money swinging out of your pockets in my direction...I stand on my square and it seems to make them even more curious. smh
U just agreed with him....his whole point was standing on your standards
@@xay6361 Correct, I agree with Trill...he's the truth.
I have a woman I don't want to lose.... So I act accordingly.
Not one hand clap 😂😂
Bruh had all them women shook....the silence was the answer 😂😂😂...long time since i seen a group of black women that silent 😂😂
I agree with That man said. And That's True. Set Boundaries and Standards
100% FACTS!!!! NO LIES TOLD
This is sad it shouldn't be man vs woman or woman vs man. Please become one.
You can't argue with our experience and the men who have been truly desired by women know the difference. I would only add that it's terrible for you to take advantage of someone who really rocks with you. That's messed up.
0:14 is absolutely true. As we get older (mature) no one, no matter the person, you hold everyone to your set of standards. 🙏🏼
MEN ACT LIKE THEY DON'T KEEP COMING BACK TO US AND DON'T WANT TO LET US GO EITHER, SO DON'T THINK IT'S US THAT KEEP COMING BACK ALL OF THE TIME, FELLAS GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS, Y'ALL KNOW THE BALL BOUNCES BOTH WAYS 🎯💯🔥🖤
THAT PART!! I know men married to women who cheat and disrespect them and their a@@ ain’t went *NOWHERE!* 😂
Clearly bitter
@@xay6361: U.R.A.🤡
Straight FACTS. 💯
@@xay6361 I'M NOT BITTER, JUST STATING FACTS #EXPERIENCED
Crazy how we act like all black men and women are this whole collective. These conversations are played out in a general sense. The same issue is at play whether it’s the man or woman in these scenarios. Accountability!!!
I noticed you never hear applause when the men on the panel makes a valid point
Exactly 💯
Lies plenty of video where there are
@@downbad2874 drop the links I would like to see.
Quiet as hell in that room 🙏🏾
women wont change , sitting and talking about it won't change anything . its good , ur really doing us men a favor
This is a bunch of bull....ain't nobody got time 4 games & the back-n-forth! That's just insane!💯
Well you keep believing your pretty lies … he’s telling the truth and you still find a way to disparage it
Y’all broads are gone
So you agree with him
That may be, but for most women
..it's true. Been there my damn self, and ran that game in my youth. Never failed. The difference was that I grew up, and later apologized to all of the ladies that I wronged.
Maybe to you
Sadly, I know for SURE they don't🤦🏽♂️
He's right
There was a saying that use to float around a lot and apparently it's still true:make sure he loves you more than you love him.
No. Both people should love each other equally and make equal efforts and contributions within a relationship. I don't know where you heard that saying, but I can guarantee you that anyone who utters such a phrase is trying to justify being able to do less work in their relationships whilst receiving more benefit.
The crazy part is he didn’t acknowledge what it’s like for the guys who experience the “rules”….they now know the you’re giving them rules because you don’t like them as much.
Exactly! So if a woman is giving a man "rules", that's a great indicator to not waste another second of our time peperusing her cause there's somebody that that same woman isn't giving rules to. Our ego will lie to us and tell us to try harder and try to convince somebody to like us. If it feels like I'm pulling teeth then I'll just charge the whole situation to the game.
Absolutely
players are now giving away the game because the times we are living in calls for it.
If women want to see men stop violating them, women have to have administer consequences unilaterally. How about the men he speaks of respect more than consequences and respect some type of morality and not violate.
He’s speaking FACTS. 💯🙌🏽😮💨 We as women have to change this narrative ASAP. We have to hold the same standards & stand on business for everybody. Some mehn do this as well but for the most part we do it the more.
Y'all can't
@@samuelrigaud6595 I’m practicing this now 😅 It won’t happen overnight.
@@tinyking11 emotions and excitement are difficult to manage 🤷🏾♂️ good luck
@@samuelrigaud6595 You ain’t lying. Especially excitement.
Ain’t NEVER going to happen! 😂County swole @$$ Pookie will ALWAYS have access to them drawls. 🤣
Facts
Now that’s the reason these conversations are senseless did you hear the response from the women after the man said stay down for yourself to the women still couldn’t accept it dam shame
I actually thought this convo was going to go in a different direction 🤦🤷
Whoa!! 🫰🏽🫰🏽
The ladies were ready to jump in at the end lol
Solid.
So damn true, you hit the hammer on the nail. Im going thru this now. It's hard, no doubt, but at the end of the day, come correct or stay the f out my way. I dont chase half steppers. In or out, you can not have it both ways when it comes to me. Me, or options, im good either way.
Women move fast..!...
From my experiences they want marriage and kids yesterday....
I agree that women let up on men they love and like. We need to stop bending rules. Unfortunately 99% of relationships and marriages would fail and men know good women dont want a dysfunctional, broken home. I disagree that men respect consequences because they wouldnt try womens boundaries if they did respect consequences.
Some* men don't respect boundaries, and some women don't respect boundaries. Women are just as likely as men to mistreat their partners, and men are just as likely as women to enable mistreatment from their partners.
I back that 💯. I’ll also add that that trauma from those relationships out the burden 10 times on the next phase to have to put in extreme effort to get minimal in return. Oh you let go your own standards and let that guy do you any kind of way but treat me like I’m the one that cheated simply because I make a joke that you didn’t like or I’m not paying attention enough to see that hint you threw out the second you threw it. Now I don’t pay attention to you and don’t care lol
No. Rules apply for different ways to each person individually aspect of support and money 💰
It’s not always about money. Womehn be having secx and have babies by bums everyday. It’s about looks, connection and vibe for some women.
I have to admit. He’s not lying. But *MEN* do the same thing. 💯
How?
@@albaptiste8691: What do you mean “How?” I know quite a few men who take a lot of sh*t off their women, lying and cheating included, based on how that woman looks. They are more concerned with having a “hottie” and what it does for their ego than about actually being happy in their relationships.
I also know men who treat their more beautiful girlfriends better than those they had or have who were less attractive.
It goes both ways
💯 agree
So it's up to the woman keeping boundaries and sticking to them to validate if a man can and will be faithful
I don’t think he’s implying women are responsible for the way men operate overall but they are responsible for the options they give a man they see is unfit for a relationship based on her wants and not what’s good for her but that’s my most humble opinion
It's never on them to strive to be righteous men and move with integrity.
@@R.Yvette.X. people are influenced often by what they see that seems successful and right now bad men seem to be getting most of the ladies attention so that will influence other men or young men growing up to feel that’s the way not all people follow but the truth is most do so if ladies are falling for bad men in abundance then that will help to make more and the bad men feel justified because they are winning in their opinion
Sorry for the long response
@R.Yvette.X. where you get that inference from? Nothing like that is even in the video. Clearly he is referring to a class of men that have not learned to set his own boundaries and therfore challenges the boundaries of others in an unhealthy way. We keep telling you to stay away from those me.
Men only respect consequences.
🎯!!!!
My rules stay the same
Nope
And you can not like him with his mess more that you respect yourself
You know me, tell him he's wrong.
Imagine having to make a grown man do right? Whew.. it’s on the floor. He better get closer to God and learn discipline. That’s a terrible message to put out there, as if men have no morals, dignity, or maturity unless it’s forced on them. To my real Kings, I’m sure you are just as confused as me by this.
I BLAME A LOT OF THESE PREACHERS IN THE CHURCH THAT PANDER TO THE WOMEN!
"WOMAN THOU ARE LOOSE" without ANY ACCOUNTABILITY for themselves!😂😮 👀
Stop using "loose" as an insult for women. There is ZERO scientific evidence suggesting that sexual promiscuity causes a woman's vagina to become less tight. This is a lie that men conjured up to encourage other men to shame/distrust women who have had multiple sexual partners.
This is modern society tell us how to interact and deal with each other in our relationships , dating and marriages smh pathetic
🎤 drop
Serious question. WHO IS THE LADYVAND WHATS HER NAME?
The video title and whats discussed within are two separate topics... good video tho
L❤❤
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