Something i see is that they see how easily it is to destroy a man. One little word or accusation from them and its all over. What disgusts me is that they are aware of this and revel in it. They literally are dangerous to even be around now and they love it and have no shame in making it clear they know it.
The society we live in today turns relationships into a big game that no one wins. Not men or women. Relationships based on lust are doomed to fail because you need something much deeper to stand the test of time.
@@BrettM-lw2zt Men get duped as well. Women are not as innocent as you may think lol. People who decide to sleep around regardless of gender are fools because they don’t realize how valuable their sexual energy is. I’m coming from a traditional perspective so I believe In terms of pair bonding as well as vitality you must only give this energy to your spouse who you carefully choose. Sex itself can create life and is an exchange of energy so there must be caution. The problem with society now is that it has cheapened it into something like junk food. Think of dating apps and just swiping through faces like it’s a menu.
Great discussion. As a conservative female, I would disagree with one thing: A man who wants a healthy relationship should not be dating females who pose on social media. This is setting yourself up for a high failure rate by trying to find a devoted woman from a pool of highly narcissistic sexual attention-seekers who need validation from men online. (He mentioned asking your GF to stop posing on Instagram so you can get serious)
I thought the same thing. But once he gets the girl and prevents her from posting on Instagram, will he vow to stop using the app so he won’t continue to go and look at other women on there too? Seems a bit hypocritical…
@@Cinerouquine he said that because there is almost no woman who dont do that kinda stuff. i gues thats why he said that.. and honestly i cant even remember he said that.
Just like the guys over at Mind Pump talked about the importance of good relationships, having Rich Cooper on might help a lot of people rebuild their relationships towards something healthy that matches reality
I am sorry this gent is disappointed by women. I'd like to say the 'disappointment' is not gender specific.... it seems to be so difficult for all people to find loving, reciprocal relationships. I reckon 'fakebook' and 'online shopping' for a partner has degraded the entire situation.
The problem is there are good men in the middle who make a good living. Close to 6 figures but maybe not fully 6 figures. But a lot of women insist on an above average guy with an above average income, when they themselves are average women. Not bad wonen, not unattractive women, but very much on the same level as the men they dismiss. Quite disappointing for decent guys who earn a good living to hear "not good enough" from someone who realistically is in the same average segment of society. It makes the problem look one-sided when you consider this phenomenon
"I am sorry this gent is disappointed by women." wreaks of female passive aggressiveness. Yet another common behavioral characteristic men are tuned off by.
At my local counseling center, a therapist told me, "All the professionals are having affairs. Boys will be boys, and girls will be girls. The psychiatrists are as crazy as loons." She also had no qualms about telling me about her affair with a priest who lived rent free on church property, and ate most of his meals at church, so he didn't need his money, and he gave her gifts, she said. So much more about the "therapists and the therapy".
"Tricky landscape for men right now...." said Mike... As a widower of 3 years after 32 year great marriage - I cannot AMEN you more ! I never dreamed finding another woman - anywhere NEAR the caliber of my late wife - was so insanely challenging. So many divorced damaged women OR widows / divorcees with full bank accounts & feel NO need for a man in her life. I bet I'm seeing 20-30 single women & men (less men cause we die earlier) that roughly COULD get together for companionship & marriage but don't. Only 1 romance or remarriage amongst those 30 potential matches ! Whats more insane is I'm a Christian & this is amongst a senior highly churched / Christian group. Can't imagine if / how much the #s would drop amongst a largely non-Christian group ?!?
Married 29 years and after seeing my 2 widowed, older sisters re-enter the dating world I've practically begged my husband to work on his health to lower his risk of passing prematurely. I think I'd rather stay single and lonely than go through the dating process again.
@@Washingtontree Wow that's a wise course of action ! May i ask their ages & how they're looking for eligible men ? If you like I'll say how I am. On fitness there are SO many ways to improve / extend our potential lifespan. I'm on a major fitness quest at 60 years old - basically it's a full time job remaining fit & building muscle. Eat Carnivore - Ketovore, cut out liquid sugar calories & minimize other sugar & carbs. Try to walk 8,000 steps daily - 4 miles. Hydrate to 1/2 your body weight in ounces. Up the # by 1 ounce for every ounce of Soda, Coffee or Alcohol consumed. Major health risks - heart disease, cancer, diabetes all slash by 3x doing this. Fun sports like Pickleball, hiking & cycling can burn calories / build muscle too. This is my basic routine & really works well !
@@psalm2forliberty577 Both of my brothers-in-law were 54 when they passed in 2020 (neither from covid). My sisters were 49 and 53. They have both remarried. One had a marriage that only lasted a year bc it ended up being a terrible match. She has since married again and much happier. They mostly used Christian, online dating sites. It seems that many men misrepresented their true identities, including married men and ones that had no clue about Christianity. I think I'd rather stick to the traditional ways of meeting like church and mutual friend connections. I prefer face to face contact. I guess I'm a little old fashioned. We don't have a perfect marriage, but we've managed to work through the bumps and kind of grown up together. I feel like we are a pretty good match. It seems like the chances of hitting that jackpot more than once in life are next to impossible. He says that he doesn't see me being the type to run out and get remarried. Besides, I have a pretty large family, so they could keep me busy! 😉 Sounds like you are taking good care of yourself. Eating right and being physically active does wonders for the body, mind and spirit. It has gotten me through many a trial. I call exercise my antidepressant. 🙃 My father had dementia, along with arthritis. I think he was most likely insulin resistant. I, being the stubborn person that I am, am bound and determined to do everything I can to prevent going down that same road. I walk at least 4 miles per day with a 30# backpack and catch as many hills as possible. I lift weights 2-3 times a week and do keto/carnivore. I'd like to start doing a bit more biking. We have some nice trails along the Columbia River that I've walked, but never riden. I, like you, choose to not drink my calories. I occasionally have fruit, but have not eaten sugary treats in ages. That stuff now gives me an instant headache. It's just not worth it! Good luck on your health journey! May God bless you!
When you have sx with others, you create soul bonds with each other. Their issues become your issue, and visa versa. Basically, you can catch their insecurities and mental issues....
yes and no.. it depents .. if you have any control as a men you do not bond.. noth even with your wife.. as a woman you lose in that topic. unless you mentaly ill .. at that point you can be a prostetitute anyway. no one believes this until they see studies made bye the lgbtq community. woman who transition to be a men get a hormon treatment and they report at the beginning of that treatment, that they are 10 times more horney then ever in their life. and even if they have sex the horneis does not go away. and also that they fall that fast in love .. that alone should let people believe that is different for men.. people saying this for thausend of years that its not the same .. and then some one like you comes along the line and talk about energetic and love and fairytails.. and magic.. even brain sienticst say for a men to bond their needs another think then just sex. for a men to bond their are atleast 2 messenger substances in the brain ..for woman its just oxitosin.
I recently became multi-millionaire thanks to crypto. I bought multiple houses. But in my early 20s, girls in my age would not date me, they would date the bad boys and older men. Now that I am in my early 30s with money, these same girl who didnt want me, are hitting me up and im ignoring them.
I wasn't expecting this interview on the channel, I guess the red pill has truly gone mainstream, let's see how many progressives are subscribed based on the backlash in the comments.
This talk really hits home. As a woman in her mid-30s, I went back to school to get my master's degree two years ago... I never felt that I was attractive enough to play the dating game, so I put all my efforts into my career and school. Unfortunately, when you feel all you have to offer is to be a good person, that's not enough in todays age. Luckily, I have had a great guy for 6 years who continues to love me and support my ambitions despite all that. I met him at 28, and that was really pushing it. It definitely gets harder to meet the right person as you get older. Thank you Mike for inviting Rich on the program. It takes a lot of courage to say things people don't want to hear.
I am confused, Mike. First this guy says that a woman is done when they hit their 30ies then claims that women have a way easier time finding another guy....
@DavidStrickland-np1gm aha, I get it now, so a woman is either a stock in her 20ies or a scrap in her 30ies...while regular guys are not scraps but just regular
To clarify Women will find it hard to find a guy "That is decent and would settle down with her". Yeah she can find a new guy sure but the guys who will be with her are only in for sex and most likely have their own baggage (mental illness) as well. Trash will only attract Trash.
@@manucj229 no guys are too.. guys are a stock too.. but the difference is guys know it and woman blame it on men when they cant find a husband. that was the point i gues.
There's nothing casual about that. It's something that is the highest of intimacy and should only be shared with a lifelong partner and it's truly sick and it truly hurts people in all kinds of ways including spiritually to be connected to all these people.
I like conversations about dating and relationships. This makes me sad though since my romantic dreams haven’t come true. It also makes me sad to think that romance won’t last.
Yes, that's why in religions it's forbidden to have premaritial sex. For many of us it is too late but we can choose to spread the word and stop consuming people as if they are objects. It is not good for us in variety of ways.
Nobody, man or woman, is going to have a good relationship if they haven't found happiness in themselves by themselves first. This man is not happy, he's bitter, he needs to heal from what's happened to him, then his perspective will change. Men get stuck on the bad women too. I think it's because the "bad" ones, men or women, are very flirty & people get drawn to that. A lot of what is said here is true for both men & women in fact. Interesting conversation but it's confusing too, as a woman, I'm not supposed to have a job or career, but I need to have my own place, but he should be the provider (how when I've got my own place?) I'm 53 and grew up being taught to not depend on a man, to study and get a career, to "be it all" in a way. OK did that, what now? I think if men want women to be feminine so that they can take care of them & feel useful, then we need to go back to when women were taken care of, when they went from being taken care of by the family, then handed over to a man. But these aren't the times we are in. There is an evolution going on right now for sure. It's confusing for everyone.
True but he did say something like.. men should choose women who are (genuinely) interested in them. That's key and universally applicable to both women and men. You can't write a list of features like you're about to purchase a device and then measure a human being with a soul based on the desired features and expect a holistically fulfilling romantic relationship.
Average woman rejecting average men. Would you marry someone who feels they’re settling for you? Sounds like it will work it self out on the long term..🤷🏽
My mother had 5 children.. we found out later in life one of us was fathered by my father's sister's husband and the youngest has a different father as well, but we are not 100% who it is. 2 out of 5
A lot of this reminds me of those two women that went on a cruise for a "gurls getaway" and ended up getting it on with two workers there... then turned around and threw SA accusations at them.. even went on a media tour doing it. Then camera footage came out showing them willingly do it and exposing all the lies. Those poor guys were fired and everything. I wonder how their husbands dealt with it because it was clear none of it was true.
They have studied this in men now too and the more partners they have it’s harder for them to long term pair bond as well. So let’s stop the red pill take on this. And let’s not refer to women as “stock”
Why not have the same message but hear it from a woman? Some men might gain a good insight hearing their point of view: Diary of a CEO: czcams.com/video/-pdCDq_MTj4/video.htmlsi=ekG5a0HeCOSAj8DC
This discourse is really important but definitely watch out for calling into the red-pill rhetoric… whilst it appears to be about women it’s super duper destructive to men’s world view and in the long run I really believe it is poisoning men’s capacity to have happy lives. You don’t have to have anything to do with women who live life that way - they are welcome to do so and you are welcome to live how you want and grow your own positive, protected and healthy family space.
it can sertainly change the view of young or naive men.. but i think womans behaivior towards young men changes the view more then just listening to a video. one is instant response in reality the other one is just some brabelt words on a video with no real response in your brain.
@@soydansogukcesme470 yes agreed - big difference between the internet and real life… but often times isolated and lonely people gravitate toward the internet and it’s echo chambers to help validate those feelings of frustration, which then double down on the view that it’s shit and hopeless. I agree that there are women out there who perfectly embody the qualities he mentions but I also believe they are not the only kinds of women out there… “if you look for it, you will find it” feels applicable here
Psychology around relationships is a huge part of health and wellbeing. Thanks for taking a chance on learning about it and sharing it with your listeners.
@@BrettM-lw2zt I’m a complete human who happens to be female. I’m not a caricature or a stereotype. I am not “women”. You keep getting what you are looking for.
This is so true. We started to see this in China as well as other Asian countries. If a man doesn’t feel needed, then he doesn’t feel important to you. Then nothing can progress any further. Marriage declines, and women become stronger and stronger because they think they don’t need a man in their lives.
Rich is trying to solve spiritual issues from a physical perspective. He thinks love is just what you feel, what they do and say to you, other circumstances. Really love is a choice you make every day! The choice is how can i love them better. Because the default human nature is to think how can they love me. This guy desperately needs to read Genesis because it explains how and why marriage is exclusively God’s domain. Marriage was not man made but its a concept given from God. This understanding and acceptance of this reality is the first step to find the bliss he yaps about! Stick to health bro or get a Christian on to talk about spiritual issues.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😭🤣 😂🤣😂🤣 This is giving Ken from the barbie movie. According to his descriptions I must not be a woman or a man. There is way more nuance in attraction and bonding than what he over simplified this down to.
@@stevec3526Tell me you don't watch his content without telling me you don't watch Joker's content. Black piller? Lmao, good grief. I have to start questioning if people's ears are just for show & not functioning
Mike, idk if youre having dating issues since your divorce or what. Please have me on the channel to discuss. There are major evo bio, biochemical, social, political, and algorithmic drivers of this problem. It cannot be distilled down to women sleeping around. Its so much more complex. The topic is very third rail, though, so may not be podcast-able.
Main Points in Video 1. Introduction 2. Relationship Wounds - Rich made his relationship wounds his work. 3. Impact of Technology on Dating - Dating apps and smartphones have changed the dating landscape. 4. Gender-Based Judgments - A man is judged by his success. - A woman is judged on her sexual past. 5. Perception of Women - Women are beauty objects to men. 6. Facts and Perception - Facts sound like hate to people who hate the facts. 7. Successful Men - Successful men have options. 8. Women's Success - Women's success is not seen as attractive to men. 9. Gender Roles - Women are more masculine now. - Men are more feminine. 10. Promiscuity and Baggage - Promiscuity comes with baggage, including past relationship issues. 11. Historical Perspective on Marriage - Marriage was historically about the acquisition of in-laws and blending families for mutual benefits. 12. Optimizing Sex as You Age - Importance of nitric oxide, L-arginine, and L-citrulline. 13. Social Media Usage - Boys and girls use social media differently. - Boys take photos of things; girls take selfies. 14. Male Attractiveness - Women find men who engage in conventional male pursuits and dangerous activities attractive. 15. Long-Term Relationships - Tips for men seeking long-term relationships and dealing with male orbiters or exes. 16. Modern Relationship Dynamics - Discussion on returning to traditional relationship dynamics. 17. Financial Absurdities in Divorce - Discussion on the financial absurdities in divorce settlements. 18. Health and Aging - Discussion on men's health as they age and viral videos on the topic.
Great content, Rich!! however you say women want men that make more money, but many men and women are married that make about the same amount of money.. a good portion of women make more than men in marriages.. so money is less important now than it was many many years ago when women didn’t work..
This guy sounds bitter and seems to project his experience onto others. "Misery loves company." Maybe his bad attitude is his problem. Some of us are monogomist. Ive been with my husband for 23 years now since we were 20. Both of us come from parents who married for life. We have 3 kids and work amazing as a team and share a similar vision. We work hard, play hard, laugh, tease each other, and have fun. We both agree that every aspect of our relationship, including desire, is even better today than it has ever been. Things were exhausting when kids were young but once they started getting older, we've found new freedom. Things that work for us is for me to respect him and to appreciate his strength in the family, show him that he is desired. We communicate and joke around. We both work outside home and work hard to keep the home and family running smoothly. He is great at being understanding and supportive (cause women can be moody) If you want your wife to want you in the bedroom, you have to take care of her first. Hopefully, that will keep her "into it" and reward you!
@bob-ss4wx but then he talked about how he'll never live with a woman again cause it will ruin the sex. He sounds like a great guy that any good woman would love...
Interesting. Why does the man have to take care of you FIRST before you reward him in the bedroom? Why do you not think it is you take care of him first in the bedroom and then he takers care of you?
7:50 Hormonal birth control is only part of it. Back when HBC was introduced, there was a massive spike in the divorce rates....MARRIED women divorced the husbands they supposedly loved in their droves. So why would married women who supposedly loved their husbands start divorcing now that they can have sex WITHOUT having babies? It was because of money. . HBC triggered a huge number of changes that allowed women to go make money. Women started going in greater numbers to university, and importantly they could stay and finish the courses whilst still having the sex they craved without getting pregnant and having to drop out. New technology created jobs that did not require a strongback to do, that were not in heavy industry,and most importantly where the types of job women WANTED to do. The majority of marriages where because she NEEDED that man, and NOT because she wanted THAT MAN. Women only WANT the best. And the bottom 80% of men were NEEDED not WANTED. Take away a woman's NEED for that man's paycheck and protection and you null and void the reason the overwhelming majority of women got married the lower 80% men. Women have ALWAYS been interested in only the BEST. Its just historical they had to give a typical man what he wanted (sex, children,companionship) in exchange for his protection, provisioning and parental investment {PPP) Now women can get the PPP by making it her self or getting it via the government. Allowing her to only consider the top 20% of men. (Resulting in lower marriage rates and birthrates) Now all men and women pay taxes that fund government policies and projects that enable women to live without men, as so she does not have to be what a man wants inorder to make any individual man WILLINGLY give her the PPP. The more polices that are paid for by all men's taxes, to enable women to have the PPP without attracting and keeping any individual man in her life, the less women NEED the bottom majority of men. The less they have to care about what men want. The lack of marriages are possible a total Net Positive for men. Remember these were marriages of necessity not marriages of desire. These had a great chance of being sexless marriages of quiet desperation. Men are now not sought by women for their PPP NEEDS in the number they were before. So if society changes that enable men to get their sexual and desire for children needs met another way outside of these marriages of necessity that could be very good for men.
53:00 because women have more options than men, the only relationships that will last are the relationships that the women is CHASING, AND WANTING. If she is not chasing for a relationship WITH YOU its because she perceives she has better options elsewhere. Therefore its in men's best interest (and sanity) to be less emotionally invested than the woman. And to build up his emotional investment lagging behind the level he is receiving from her. Otherwise a man runs the risk of oneitis and over investing in a woman who does consider him better than she deserves.
I am really disappointed of this guest. There are plenty of other relationship experts with a more nuanced view out there. This one is only trying to push his agenda on everyone. If you do find this guests' views insightful, I am really starting to question your health insights (whether they lack nuance)
Audience capture also Mike is clearly paranoid about his manliness or rather lack of it and still butt hurt about the fact his wife dumped him. I feel kind of embarrassed for him after watching this with all his insecurities laid bare, sad really. I think that guy Rich is twice divorced and seems to be obsessed with never making himself vulnerable to any woman again, and looks for women he can essentially abuse and control. He has zero accountability for his own short comings as a partner and prefers to just blame women for his own failure. Its also a huge grift for him, he was trying to be some kind of youtube business guru but only got views when he bitched about his ex wife and so he leaned into that. His old "business" was exploiting people who were in a lot of debt with shady consolidation loans. Canadian law closed the loop holes that had allowed predators like him to operate and so he had to find a new way to make an easy and exploitative living and moaning about women and milking incels and other bitter men for money was his new cash cow. It very much diminishes the channel to have this man on here.
Well I don’t agree with him when he says that it’s a fairy tale for two people to have a long term relationship. It probably doesn’t happen these days. But it does happen and it did happen before. You just have to put the work in it.
These comments are something else....as someone who follows who is black, queer, and autistic you can save the dating, sex, and marriage advice. I welcolme your other content but this doesn't apply to me. I'm of the personal opinion that dating apps, casual sex and dating are fine as long as you know how to navigate it. Looking forward to the sex positive podcast...
21:17 I can tell you what modern women want, women want the power of men, the privileges of women, the accountability of a toddler, the responsibilities of an infant, and the superiority of God
This guest is living in his own fantasy world. 1. Most wages are not "high six figures" but lower mid five figures in North America and similarly low-ish middle class or lower in 99% of the world. 2. Most women don't sleep with several men and YET the marriages are a disaster because a girl's giggly sexual memories with a guy when she was young makes her remember him fondly and feel resentment towards a good guy husband that she marries. And because of lack of husband's authority and wife's submission. 3. Male job is not to be a clown alpha entertainer to the female. Male leads with confidence, female quietly or joyfully is his submissive helper. She thanks him for being her leader, he is then kind to her. Literally this is the way sexual chemistry and often enthusiasm existed in marriages throughout the world for thousands of years of human history - male is dominant sexually and in areas outside of sex, female both sexually and in areas outside of sex submits and feels feminine and serves male obediently or often from her own desire and feels feminine. Both keep their heart content from gratitude for family, domestic life. Most marriages in most of history EVERYWHERE were young marriages. SEVERAL had sincere love because the young female mind was soft and had not been hardened from vanity, money, status etc. Then in marriage there were clear cut gender roles of female doing the domestic feminine nurturing work (food) and cleaning and the male doing the harder work of providing - farming / artisan work / selling something in his shop etc., in which the wife assisted and the work as head of the household and planning and solving various domestic matters. And boys and girls of parents were raised for their respective gender roles. Marriage was for most people and not optional from the start. Girls pickiness did not exist because each guy, each girl were given offers or four to to five suitable candidates in the marriage market through matchmaking through community institutions. Female greed from too many choices from high school, college and wandering all around from 16 to 23 has been a disaster in this modern era and majority women will end up being single unlike a few lucky ones who will lead life in joy being enthusiastic feminine lifelong mates to their respective men.
Communication! Communication! Communication! If you’re having good communication with your partner, issues are brought up way before it’s a problem so there is no “nagging” or “ignoring “ by either party. If you start from the get go, and have conversations at the moment in an open, understanding way, I think could change the game for many. I totally get this isn’t going to happen with most that are having the issues you are talking about. Most of us were never taught this and the communication break down continues. I grew up with Grandparents. So much dysfunction and lack of communication. Classic old fashioned Japanese household. - Women do what the man says, don’t argue or talk back. I mean, my Grandpa once said,”…there was a time when women had to walk two paces behind…”🙄
Only Jesus Christ saves from hell. All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
Really going to find out who your real supporters are and who they aren't here aren't you. People say they want to talk about holistic health until they hear the parts they don't like.
Speaking from the woman's side (I transitioned from male to female as a teenager), a lot of men are not exactly dateable. They are often overweight, don't have productive hobbies, and addicted to risqué material. I'm in my early 30s and am married, but I'm still occasionally asked out by men, and I think that's because they like highly feminine, cheerful women. The looming wall is pretty scary though. Very interesting, Mike. Thank you both.
Decades ago I gave up on American women. Too many nutty feminists, single mothers, entitled gold diggers, and women with personality disorders. This is why I married my Japanese wife.
@BrettM-lw2zt - Eating healthy, working out, and taking care of my body are hard work! I'm definitely accepting my lot in life. I do accept those men for who they are, and that is why I wouldn't date them.
@@RachelRichards All woman wont date them. women only want chads. eventually after the wall they settle for an average man to secure resources. some still sleep with chads on the side.
Outside of Rich Cooper thinking that we came from a random fish that had the ability to breathe on land and somehow feed itself to give itself the ability to reproduce itself and eventually become a monkey that never grew a forehead yet here we are haha I do love his content. He absolutely understands how people work I understand anybody's gripe against religion since religion is merely a practice of worship, I just wish he would accept the fact that every science points towards design and not evolution. Love the show, Mike! It's not like the Lord has ever been against polygamy for men, only for women because we were made different. The very first commandment man was ever given was to cover the earth, and of course that's only possible with men having multiple wives and treating them all good. The "woman at the well" "had many husbands but never married" so I've had hundreds of wives even though I've never been married. I've just learned to treat them all really really well because it's good for everybody's heart
3The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? 4And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
@@debluetailfly King David had many wives and if he would have asked for another the Lord would have given him one, but when King David did what he did to his friend, that's where the issue was. Because we fail to adhere to simple ideas, like loving our neighbor as we love ourselves, Commandments get rewritten which is why we were told to love our neighbors as the Lord loves us, because then it takes away the option of being selfish. By that time in history, there was a big enough population that it could be one to one but the Lord never condemned Abraham nor King David nor any others for having more than one wife because it was necessary, and permitted. Remember the Lord's understanding is above our understanding but the Christ also knew that the union that is marriage happens anytime intercourse happens which is why it was written that the woman at the well had many husbands yet never married
@@Highintensityhealth A guy who speaks propaganda like his woke rant. But what about you? Do you have to hide your opinions because being honest will cost you money?
Thanks for having me on Mike
Something i see is that they see how easily it is to destroy a man. One little word or accusation from them and its all over. What disgusts me is that they are aware of this and revel in it. They literally are dangerous to even be around now and they love it and have no shame in making it clear they know it.
The society we live in today turns relationships into a big game that no one wins. Not men or women. Relationships based on lust are doomed to fail because you need something much deeper to stand the test of time.
@@BrettM-lw2ztYou're contradicting yourself here.
@@BrettM-lw2ztwomen never know if they're being duped (by men)... So give the dupers authority? Is that... Correct? Lmao
@@BrettM-lw2zt Men get duped as well. Women are not as innocent as you may think lol. People who decide to sleep around regardless of gender are fools because they don’t realize how valuable their sexual energy is. I’m coming from a traditional perspective so I believe In terms of pair bonding as well as vitality you must only give this energy to your spouse who you carefully choose. Sex itself can create life and is an exchange of energy so there must be caution. The problem with society now is that it has cheapened it into something like junk food. Think of dating apps and just swiping through faces like it’s a menu.
well as a men with emotional scars you win..
as a men who is psychopathic you win
if you narcicistic you win..
Great discussion. As a conservative female, I would disagree with one thing: A man who wants a healthy relationship should not be dating females who pose on social media. This is setting yourself up for a high failure rate by trying to find a devoted woman from a pool of highly narcissistic sexual attention-seekers who need validation from men online. (He mentioned asking your GF to stop posing on Instagram so you can get serious)
I thought the same thing. But once he gets the girl and prevents her from posting on Instagram, will he vow to stop using the app so he won’t continue to go and look at other women on there too? Seems a bit hypocritical…
@@Cinerouquine good point.
@@Cinerouquine he said that because there is almost no woman who dont do that kinda stuff. i gues thats why he said that.. and honestly i cant even remember he said that.
Agreed. These are all poor quality women.
Yeah- he was using it as an example. Keeps things in perspective here.
I did not expect a video about this subject coming from channel, but I do welcome it.
Agreed but truth is truth. That's what this channel is about.
Just like the guys over at Mind Pump talked about the importance of good relationships, having Rich Cooper on might help a lot of people rebuild their relationships towards something healthy that matches reality
@@bob-ss4wx How so?
I am sorry this gent is disappointed by women. I'd like to say the 'disappointment' is not gender specific.... it seems to be so difficult for all people to find loving, reciprocal relationships. I reckon 'fakebook' and 'online shopping' for a partner has degraded the entire situation.
How is 'social media / shoping for a partner' degrading the search for women to find quality men if i may ask.
The problem is there are good men in the middle who make a good living. Close to 6 figures but maybe not fully 6 figures. But a lot of women insist on an above average guy with an above average income, when they themselves are average women. Not bad wonen, not unattractive women, but very much on the same level as the men they dismiss. Quite disappointing for decent guys who earn a good living to hear "not good enough" from someone who realistically is in the same average segment of society. It makes the problem look one-sided when you consider this phenomenon
"I am sorry this gent is disappointed by women." wreaks of female passive aggressiveness. Yet another common behavioral characteristic men are tuned off by.
WOW, did not expect this! Thank you for the interview!
At my local counseling center, a therapist told me, "All the professionals are having affairs. Boys will be boys, and girls will be girls. The psychiatrists are as crazy as loons." She also had no qualms about telling me about her affair with a priest who lived rent free on church property, and ate most of his meals at church, so he didn't need his money, and he gave her gifts, she said. So much more about the "therapists and the therapy".
It has long been said that most people who become psychology majors do so because of their own problems.
That's pretty sick and that person shouldn't be a counselor.
So true. I had an acquaintance that married a psychiatrist. She once him him in the head with a frying pan. 🍳 😂
💪🏿These kinds of conversations typically get a little eye rolling out of me, but this guys takes are pretty spot on.💪🏿
"Tricky landscape for men right now...." said Mike...
As a widower of 3 years after 32 year great marriage - I cannot AMEN you more !
I never dreamed finding another woman - anywhere NEAR the caliber of my late wife - was so insanely challenging.
So many divorced damaged women OR widows / divorcees with full bank accounts & feel NO need for a man in her life.
I bet I'm seeing 20-30 single women & men (less men cause we die earlier) that roughly COULD get together for companionship & marriage but don't.
Only 1 romance or remarriage amongst those 30 potential matches !
Whats more insane is I'm a Christian & this is amongst a senior highly churched / Christian group.
Can't imagine if / how much the #s would drop amongst a largely non-Christian group ?!?
Married 29 years and after seeing my 2 widowed, older sisters re-enter the dating world I've practically begged my husband to work on his health to lower his risk of passing prematurely. I think I'd rather stay single and lonely than go through the dating process again.
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Wow that's a wise course of action !
May i ask their ages & how they're looking for eligible men ?
If you like I'll say how I am.
On fitness there are SO many ways to improve / extend our potential lifespan.
I'm on a major fitness quest at 60 years old - basically it's a full time job remaining fit & building muscle.
Eat Carnivore - Ketovore, cut out liquid sugar calories & minimize other sugar & carbs.
Try to walk 8,000 steps daily - 4 miles.
Hydrate to 1/2 your body weight in ounces.
Up the # by 1 ounce for every ounce of Soda, Coffee or Alcohol consumed.
Major health risks - heart disease, cancer, diabetes all slash by 3x doing this.
Fun sports like Pickleball, hiking & cycling can burn calories / build muscle too.
This is my basic routine & really works well !
@@psalm2forliberty577 Both of my brothers-in-law were 54 when they passed in 2020 (neither from covid). My sisters were 49 and 53. They have both remarried. One had a marriage that only lasted a year bc it ended up being a terrible match. She has since married again and much happier. They mostly used Christian, online dating sites. It seems that many men misrepresented their true identities, including married men and ones that had no clue about Christianity. I think I'd rather stick to the traditional ways of meeting like church and mutual friend connections. I prefer face to face contact. I guess I'm a little old fashioned.
We don't have a perfect marriage, but we've managed to work through the bumps and kind of grown up together. I feel like we are a pretty good match. It seems like the chances of hitting that jackpot more than once in life are next to impossible. He says that he doesn't see me being the type to run out and get remarried. Besides, I have a pretty large family, so they could keep me busy! 😉
Sounds like you are taking good care of yourself. Eating right and being physically active does wonders for the body, mind and spirit. It has gotten me through many a trial. I call exercise my antidepressant. 🙃 My father had dementia, along with arthritis. I think he was most likely insulin resistant. I, being the stubborn person that I am, am bound and determined to do everything I can to prevent going down that same road. I walk at least 4 miles per day with a 30# backpack and catch as many hills as possible. I lift weights 2-3 times a week and do keto/carnivore. I'd like to start doing a bit more biking. We have some nice trails along the Columbia River that I've walked, but never riden. I, like you, choose to not drink my calories. I occasionally have fruit, but have not eaten sugary treats in ages. That stuff now gives me an instant headache. It's just not worth it!
Good luck on your health journey! May God bless you!
I learned decades ago a guy needs to be half way between a Nice Guy and a Bad Boy.
When you have sx with others, you create soul bonds with each other. Their issues become your issue, and visa versa. Basically, you can catch their insecurities and mental issues....
Your comment is just magical thinking. There’s no science there at all.
yes and no.. it depents ..
if you have any control as a men you do not bond.. noth even with your wife.. as a woman you lose in that topic. unless you mentaly ill .. at that point you can be a prostetitute anyway.
no one believes this until they see studies made bye the lgbtq community.
woman who transition to be a men get a hormon treatment and they report at the beginning of that treatment, that they are 10 times more horney then ever in their life. and even if they have sex the horneis does not go away. and also that they fall that fast in love .. that alone should let people believe that is different for men..
people saying this for thausend of years that its not the same .. and then some one like you comes along the line and talk about energetic and love and fairytails.. and magic..
even brain sienticst say for a men to bond their needs another think then just sex. for a men to bond their are atleast 2 messenger substances in the brain ..for woman its just oxitosin.
I recently became multi-millionaire thanks to crypto. I bought multiple houses. But in my early 20s, girls in my age would not date me, they would date the bad boys and older men. Now that I am in my early 30s with money, these same girl who didnt want me, are hitting me up and im ignoring them.
Most younger guys are really immature. Younger women want to go places and do things and they don't want some guy who tells fart jokes.
I wasn't expecting this interview on the channel, I guess the red pill has truly gone mainstream, let's see how many progressives are subscribed based on the backlash in the comments.
This talk really hits home. As a woman in her mid-30s, I went back to school to get my master's degree two years ago... I never felt that I was attractive enough to play the dating game, so I put all my efforts into my career and school. Unfortunately, when you feel all you have to offer is to be a good person, that's not enough in todays age. Luckily, I have had a great guy for 6 years who continues to love me and support my ambitions despite all that. I met him at 28, and that was really pushing it. It definitely gets harder to meet the right person as you get older. Thank you Mike for inviting Rich on the program. It takes a lot of courage to say things people don't want to hear.
Interesting topic for sure. I feel it’s innate truth, but it’s not comfortable to speak about.
I am confused, Mike.
First this guy says that a woman is done when they hit their 30ies then claims that women have a way easier time finding another guy....
at 30 they can no longer get chads to commit. where regular guys are always looking for chads scraps.
@DavidStrickland-np1gm aha, I get it now, so a woman is either a stock in her 20ies or a scrap in her 30ies...while regular guys are not scraps but just regular
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To clarify Women will find it hard to find a guy "That is decent and would settle down with her". Yeah she can find a new guy sure but the guys who will be with her are only in for sex and most likely have their own baggage (mental illness) as well. Trash will only attract Trash.
@@manucj229 no guys are too.. guys are a stock too.. but the difference is guys know it and woman blame it on men when they cant find a husband. that was the point i gues.
Feminism comes out of the occult, Rachel Wilson’s book explains this very well.
There's nothing casual about that. It's something that is the highest of intimacy and should only be shared with a lifelong partner and it's truly sick and it truly hurts people in all kinds of ways including spiritually to be connected to all these people.
I like conversations about dating and relationships. This makes me sad though since my romantic dreams haven’t come true. It also makes me sad to think that romance won’t last.
Great podcast!!
Best crossover since the Avengers movie! It's such great news that you're Red Pilled, Mike
Rich's backdrop has an important point - Do The Work. Great interview
Really enjoyed this exchange.
Yes, that's why in religions it's forbidden to have premaritial sex. For many of us it is too late but we can choose to spread the word and stop consuming people as if they are objects. It is not good for us in variety of ways.
Nobody, man or woman, is going to have a good relationship if they haven't found happiness in themselves by themselves first. This man is not happy, he's bitter, he needs to heal from what's happened to him, then his perspective will change.
Men get stuck on the bad women too. I think it's because the "bad" ones, men or women, are very flirty & people get drawn to that. A lot of what is said here is true for both men & women in fact.
Interesting conversation but it's confusing too, as a woman, I'm not supposed to have a job or career, but I need to have my own place, but he should be the provider (how when I've got my own place?)
I'm 53 and grew up being taught to not depend on a man, to study and get a career, to "be it all" in a way. OK did that, what now? I think if men want women to be feminine so that they can take care of them & feel useful, then we need to go back to when women were taken care of, when they went from being taken care of by the family, then handed over to a man. But these aren't the times we are in. There is an evolution going on right now for sure. It's confusing for everyone.
True but he did say something like.. men should choose women who are (genuinely) interested in them. That's key and universally applicable to both women and men. You can't write a list of features like you're about to purchase a device and then measure a human being with a soul based on the desired features and expect a holistically fulfilling romantic relationship.
I blame Fleetwood Mac. Stevie Nicks just wanted to be told lies, sweet little lies.
When it rains it pours
Good intro song
Rich Cooper is correct. Glad to see you are open to a variety of thought.
Never heard of Rich Cooper before. From some of the comments here, he has some very untrue beliefs, but in this video he tells a lot of truth.
People that stand for something always have haters.
"Make your wounds your work" Ye, that's been my journey the past 5 years.
Average woman rejecting average men. Would you marry someone who feels they’re settling for you? Sounds like it will work it self out on the long term..🤷🏽
There have never been as many older available singles
My mother had 5 children.. we found out later in life one of us was fathered by my father's sister's husband and the youngest has a different father as well, but we are not 100% who it is. 2 out of 5
A lot of this reminds me of those two women that went on a cruise for a "gurls getaway" and ended up getting it on with two workers there... then turned around and threw SA accusations at them.. even went on a media tour doing it. Then camera footage came out showing them willingly do it and exposing all the lies. Those poor guys were fired and everything. I wonder how their husbands dealt with it because it was clear none of it was true.
They have studied this in men now too and the more partners they have it’s harder for them to long term pair bond as well. So let’s stop the red pill take on this. And let’s not refer to women as “stock”
As we discuss in the show, I think casual seggs and promiscuous culture harms men too. It’s not good for either gender.
womp womp, an hour long video posted 14 minutes ago and you were already crying at the 5 minutes mark
Exactly! Casual sex is the result of broken homes and loneliness. And it creates the same for both men and women
Why not have the same message but hear it from a woman? Some men might gain a good insight hearing their point of view:
Diary of a CEO:
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@@echd1yeah I would like to see the ratio of comment versus the real time spend to watch the video lol.
This discourse is really important but definitely watch out for calling into the red-pill rhetoric… whilst it appears to be about women it’s super duper destructive to men’s world view and in the long run I really believe it is poisoning men’s capacity to have happy lives.
You don’t have to have anything to do with women who live life that way - they are welcome to do so and you are welcome to live how you want and grow your own positive, protected and healthy family space.
it can sertainly change the view of young or naive men.. but i think womans behaivior towards young men changes the view more then just listening to a video. one is instant response in reality the other one is just some brabelt words on a video with no real response in your brain.
@@soydansogukcesme470 yes agreed - big difference between the internet and real life… but often times isolated and lonely people gravitate toward the internet and it’s echo chambers to help validate those feelings of frustration, which then double down on the view that it’s shit and hopeless.
I agree that there are women out there who perfectly embody the qualities he mentions but I also believe they are not the only kinds of women out there… “if you look for it, you will find it” feels applicable here
Great show…big fan of Rich Cooper…anytime I talk with a young man about life & women….i refer them to Mr Cooper!!!
5:43. Truer words were never spoken.
Mike, regarding getting a woman's opinion, consider getting on Karen Straughan.
So on top of dealing with lifes issues i gotta keep her entertained nah man
Psychology around relationships is a huge part of health and wellbeing. Thanks for taking a chance on learning about it and sharing it with your listeners.
When the state is the head of the household, isnt it a monarchy technically?
You are swimming in the shallow muddy part of the river and you are wondering why you are only seeing catfish.
@@BrettM-lw2ztmen have drastically changed. Have you had a look at average testosterone levels?
@@BrettM-lw2zt I’m a complete human who happens to be female. I’m not a caricature or a stereotype. I am not “women”. You keep getting what you are looking for.
Hate music with talk
This is so true. We started to see this in China as well as other Asian countries. If a man doesn’t feel needed, then he doesn’t feel important to you. Then nothing can progress any further. Marriage declines, and women become stronger and stronger because they think they don’t need a man in their lives.
Rich is trying to solve spiritual issues from a physical perspective. He thinks love is just what you feel, what they do and say to you, other circumstances. Really love is a choice you make every day! The choice is how can i love them better. Because the default human nature is to think how can they love me. This guy desperately needs to read Genesis because it explains how and why marriage is exclusively God’s domain. Marriage was not man made but its a concept given from God. This understanding and acceptance of this reality is the first step to find the bliss he yaps about! Stick to health bro or get a Christian on to talk about spiritual issues.
I’m so happy someone commented this way. He sounds like a jilted man.
This one is going to be good!
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This is giving Ken from the barbie movie. According to his descriptions I must not be a woman or a man. There is way more nuance in attraction and bonding than what he over simplified this down to.
You could've interviewed someone a bit more nuanced in this space like Better Bachelor versus Rich "Buy my soap" Cooper, but it is what it is
Joker is a clueless Black Piller. He often shows how out of touch he is. Often mistaking facts, misrepresenting the opinions and actions of RP guys.
@@stevec3526Tell me you don't watch his content without telling me you don't watch Joker's content.
Black piller? Lmao, good grief.
I have to start questioning if people's ears are just for show & not functioning
As an asexual, I have become more grateful for this over time. So many women have become entitled and have made themselves obsolete.
Really good conversation
In USA & Canada definitely put the assests & wealth generated while married is considered joint.
Mike, idk if youre having dating issues since your divorce or what. Please have me on the channel to discuss. There are major evo bio, biochemical, social, political, and algorithmic drivers of this problem. It cannot be distilled down to women sleeping around. Its so much more complex. The topic is very third rail, though, so may not be podcast-able.
It's very complex indeed, I agree!
How interesting. No doubt, the spouse is necessary for a real evaluation and discussion.
Wow, I had no idea Mike got divorced. It's been awhile since I've visited the channel. I'm very sorry to hear that.
Main Points in Video
1. Introduction
2. Relationship Wounds
- Rich made his relationship wounds his work.
3. Impact of Technology on Dating
- Dating apps and smartphones have changed the dating landscape.
4. Gender-Based Judgments
- A man is judged by his success.
- A woman is judged on her sexual past.
5. Perception of Women
- Women are beauty objects to men.
6. Facts and Perception
- Facts sound like hate to people who hate the facts.
7. Successful Men
- Successful men have options.
8. Women's Success
- Women's success is not seen as attractive to men.
9. Gender Roles
- Women are more masculine now.
- Men are more feminine.
10. Promiscuity and Baggage
- Promiscuity comes with baggage, including past relationship issues.
11. Historical Perspective on Marriage
- Marriage was historically about the acquisition of in-laws and blending families for mutual benefits.
12. Optimizing Sex as You Age
- Importance of nitric oxide, L-arginine, and L-citrulline.
13. Social Media Usage
- Boys and girls use social media differently.
- Boys take photos of things; girls take selfies.
14. Male Attractiveness
- Women find men who engage in conventional male pursuits and dangerous activities attractive.
15. Long-Term Relationships
- Tips for men seeking long-term relationships and dealing with male orbiters or exes.
16. Modern Relationship Dynamics
- Discussion on returning to traditional relationship dynamics.
17. Financial Absurdities in Divorce
- Discussion on the financial absurdities in divorce settlements.
18. Health and Aging
- Discussion on men's health as they age and viral videos on the topic.
Nice video on sexual behavior and choices(mate choices).
Great content, Rich!! however you say women want men that make more money, but many men and women are married that make about the same amount of money.. a good portion of women make more than men in marriages.. so money is less important now than it was many many years ago when women didn’t work..
2 of my fav people together? Nice crossover, I didn't know you guys knew about each other, but it doesn't surprise me.
This guy sounds bitter and seems to project his experience onto others. "Misery loves company." Maybe his bad attitude is his problem. Some of us are monogomist. Ive been with my husband for 23 years now since we were 20. Both of us come from parents who married for life. We have 3 kids and work amazing as a team and share a similar vision. We work hard, play hard, laugh, tease each other, and have fun. We both agree that every aspect of our relationship, including desire, is even better today than it has ever been. Things were exhausting when kids were young but once they started getting older, we've found new freedom. Things that work for us is for me to respect him and to appreciate his strength in the family, show him that he is desired. We communicate and joke around. We both work outside home and work hard to keep the home and family running smoothly. He is great at being understanding and supportive (cause women can be moody) If you want your wife to want you in the bedroom, you have to take care of her first. Hopefully, that will keep her "into it" and reward you!
@bob-ss4wx but then he talked about how he'll never live with a woman again cause it will ruin the sex. He sounds like a great guy that any good woman would love...
He is mostly right. Whether you wanna hear it or not.
@@blahblahblue55 i mean he said for his life .. he also explisitly say others have to sort it for themself.
Interesting. Why does the man have to take care of you FIRST before you reward him in the bedroom? Why do you not think it is you take care of him first in the bedroom and then he takers care of you?
@@bolt9110 he's complaining that his women aren't interested in him in bed. Maybe he sucks in bed.
The mid 30’s woman have huge baggage of rage.
Rich 💪
7:50 Hormonal birth control is only part of it. Back when HBC was introduced, there was a massive spike in the divorce rates....MARRIED women divorced the husbands they supposedly loved in their droves. So why would married women who supposedly loved their husbands start divorcing now that they can have sex WITHOUT having babies?
It was because of money.
. HBC triggered a huge number of changes that allowed women to go make money. Women started going in greater numbers to university, and importantly they could stay and finish the courses whilst still having the sex they craved without getting pregnant and having to drop out. New technology created jobs that did not require a strongback to do, that were not in heavy industry,and most importantly where the types of job women WANTED to do.
The majority of marriages where because she NEEDED that man, and NOT because she wanted THAT MAN. Women only WANT the best. And the bottom 80% of men were NEEDED not WANTED. Take away a woman's NEED for that man's paycheck and protection and you null and void the reason the overwhelming majority of women got married the lower 80% men.
Women have ALWAYS been interested in only the BEST. Its just historical they had to give a typical man what he wanted (sex, children,companionship) in exchange for his protection, provisioning and parental investment {PPP) Now women can get the PPP by making it her self or getting it via the government. Allowing her to only consider the top 20% of men. (Resulting in lower marriage rates and birthrates)
Now all men and women pay taxes that fund government policies and projects that enable women to live without men, as so she does not have to be what a man wants inorder to make any individual man WILLINGLY give her the PPP.
The more polices that are paid for by all men's taxes, to enable women to have the PPP without attracting and keeping any individual man in her life, the less women NEED the bottom majority of men. The less they have to care about what men want.
The lack of marriages are possible a total Net Positive for men. Remember these were marriages of necessity not marriages of desire. These had a great chance of being sexless marriages of quiet desperation. Men are now not sought by women for their PPP NEEDS in the number they were before. So if society changes that enable men to get their sexual and desire for children needs met another way outside of these marriages of necessity that could be very good for men.
53:00 because women have more options than men, the only relationships that will last are the relationships that the women is CHASING, AND WANTING.
If she is not chasing for a relationship WITH YOU its because she perceives she has better options elsewhere.
Therefore its in men's best interest (and sanity) to be less emotionally invested than the woman. And to build up his emotional investment lagging behind the level he is receiving from her. Otherwise a man runs the risk of oneitis and over investing in a woman who does consider him better than she deserves.
Dating apps are chad targeting clubs for woman
I am really disappointed of this guest. There are plenty of other relationship experts with a more nuanced view out there. This one is only trying to push his agenda on everyone. If you do find this guests' views insightful, I am really starting to question your health insights (whether they lack nuance)
what was his agenda then?? i gues i did not get it..
100%. Men prefer tattoo free, debt free, virgins... period... weather you women like it or not..
Oof. Change the title to be gender nonspecific. This sounds soooooo chauvinistic
Audience capture also Mike is clearly paranoid about his manliness or rather lack of it and still butt hurt about the fact his wife dumped him. I feel kind of embarrassed for him after watching this with all his insecurities laid bare, sad really. I think that guy Rich is twice divorced and seems to be obsessed with never making himself vulnerable to any woman again, and looks for women he can essentially abuse and control. He has zero accountability for his own short comings as a partner and prefers to just blame women for his own failure. Its also a huge grift for him, he was trying to be some kind of youtube business guru but only got views when he bitched about his ex wife and so he leaned into that. His old "business" was exploiting people who were in a lot of debt with shady consolidation loans. Canadian law closed the loop holes that had allowed predators like him to operate and so he had to find a new way to make an easy and exploitative living and moaning about women and milking incels and other bitter men for money was his new cash cow. It very much diminishes the channel to have this man on here.
Be very careful about marriage and cohabitate, or pregnancy.
Look up who ge is in the self improvement and in real life.
Well I don’t agree with him when he says that it’s a fairy tale for two people to have a long term relationship. It probably doesn’t happen these days. But it does happen and it did happen before. You just have to put the work in it.
Common law marriages are very similar in USA.
Omg, this sounds like some masculine trap! Run ladies! 😂
These comments are something else....as someone who follows who is black, queer, and autistic you can save the dating, sex, and marriage advice. I welcolme your other content but this doesn't apply to me. I'm of the personal opinion that dating apps, casual sex and dating are fine as long as you know how to navigate it. Looking forward to the sex positive podcast...
😮 alot of labels there!
To your last sentence... it's impossible for grown people to have such convos on popular sites due to pc or whatever.
you said it.. "as long as you know how to navigate it".. sadly most people dont know. and theire is the problem.
Don’t bother.
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it's the same for men.
Take her body count multiple by 4.
I do enjoy 💊 and functional medicine.
Rich Cooper is the dude. Great interview
And if they a low body count and later feel later that they have been cheated out of experiencing more men, they'll bail then too.
It’s an expensive hobby but good horsemanship is very attractive in a man.
Maybe for horse women
@@offensivearch not just horsewomen, it teaches non predatory leadership skills and emotional intelligence.
@@laurengalan2760 since when? .. you get those skills everywhere else too.
I enjoy the topic, but can we invite guests who discuss actual men's empowerment (as opposed to red pill talking heads)?
❤☦ CHRIST IS RISEN ☦❤
❤💪💍🙏☦ GOD HAVE MERCY ON US SINNERS ☦🙏⛪🕊
21:17 I can tell you what modern women want, women want the power of men, the privileges of women, the accountability of a toddler, the responsibilities of an infant, and the superiority of God
This guest is living in his own fantasy world.
1. Most wages are not "high six figures" but lower mid five figures in North America and similarly low-ish middle class or lower in 99% of the world.
2. Most women don't sleep with several men and YET the marriages are a disaster because a girl's giggly sexual memories with a guy when she was young makes her remember him fondly and feel resentment towards a good guy husband that she marries. And because of lack of husband's authority and wife's submission.
3. Male job is not to be a clown alpha entertainer to the female. Male leads with confidence, female quietly or joyfully is his submissive helper. She thanks him for being her leader, he is then kind to her. Literally this is the way sexual chemistry and often enthusiasm existed in marriages throughout the world for thousands of years of human history - male is dominant sexually and in areas outside of sex, female both sexually and in areas outside of sex submits and feels feminine and serves male obediently or often from her own desire and feels feminine. Both keep their heart content from gratitude for family, domestic life.
Most marriages in most of history EVERYWHERE were young marriages. SEVERAL had sincere love because the young female mind was soft and had not been hardened from vanity, money, status etc. Then in marriage there were clear cut gender roles of female doing the domestic feminine nurturing work (food) and cleaning and the male doing the harder work of providing - farming / artisan work / selling something in his shop etc., in which the wife assisted and the work as head of the household and planning and solving various domestic matters. And boys and girls of parents were raised for their respective gender roles. Marriage was for most people and not optional from the start. Girls pickiness did not exist because each guy, each girl were given offers or four to to five suitable candidates in the marriage market through matchmaking through community institutions. Female greed from too many choices from high school, college and wandering all around from 16 to 23 has been a disaster in this modern era and majority women will end up being single unlike a few lucky ones who will lead life in joy being enthusiastic feminine lifelong mates to their respective men.
Communication! Communication! Communication! If you’re having good communication with your partner, issues are brought up way before it’s a problem so there is no “nagging” or “ignoring “ by either party. If you start from the get go, and have conversations at the moment in an open, understanding way, I think could change the game for many. I totally get this isn’t going to happen with most that are having the issues you are talking about.
Most of us were never taught this and the communication break down continues.
I grew up with Grandparents. So much dysfunction and lack of communication.
Classic old fashioned Japanese household. - Women do what the man says, don’t argue or talk back. I mean, my Grandpa once said,”…there was a time when women had to walk two paces behind…”🙄
All new low Mike.
Only Jesus Christ saves from hell. All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
Thank you for sharing the word
Using Bible quotes like this is quite mindless, immature, unwanted. And yes, I am a practicing Christian.
I just unsubscribed over this one.
Really going to find out who your real supporters are and who they aren't here aren't you. People say they want to talk about holistic health until they hear the parts they don't like.
Migtown
Speaking from the woman's side (I transitioned from male to female as a teenager), a lot of men are not exactly dateable. They are often overweight, don't have productive hobbies, and addicted to risqué material. I'm in my early 30s and am married, but I'm still occasionally asked out by men, and I think that's because they like highly feminine, cheerful women. The looming wall is pretty scary though. Very interesting, Mike. Thank you both.
Decades ago I gave up on American women. Too many nutty feminists, single mothers, entitled gold diggers, and women with personality disorders.
This is why I married my Japanese wife.
@BrettM-lw2zt - Eating healthy, working out, and taking care of my body are hard work! I'm definitely accepting my lot in life. I do accept those men for who they are, and that is why I wouldn't date them.
You are not, and never will be a woman. You can't speak as a woman.
@@RachelRichards All woman wont date them. women only want chads. eventually after the wall they settle for an average man to secure resources. some still sleep with chads on the side.
Wow unsubscribed so fast
I just downvoted your comment. Get the hell out of here.
Cry more
I can't stand Rich "buy my soap" Cooper but I'm not so fragile to unsubscribe
Grow a damn spine please
Ya. Truth hurts.
Because of what exactly? The fact that society has lied to women about how casual sex is empowering?
Exactly they avoid accountability - self-righteous individuals @@DavidStrickland-np1gm
Outside of Rich Cooper thinking that we came from a random fish that had the ability to breathe on land and somehow feed itself to give itself the ability to reproduce itself and eventually become a monkey that never grew a forehead yet here we are haha I do love his content. He absolutely understands how people work I understand anybody's gripe against religion since religion is merely a practice of worship, I just wish he would accept the fact that every science points towards design and not evolution. Love the show, Mike!
It's not like the Lord has ever been against polygamy for men, only for women because we were made different. The very first commandment man was ever given was to cover the earth, and of course that's only possible with men having multiple wives and treating them all good. The "woman at the well" "had many husbands but never married" so I've had hundreds of wives even though I've never been married. I've just learned to treat them all really really well because it's good for everybody's heart
3The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? 4And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? 8He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. 9And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
@@debluetailfly King David had many wives and if he would have asked for another the Lord would have given him one, but when King David did what he did to his friend, that's where the issue was. Because we fail to adhere to simple ideas, like loving our neighbor as we love ourselves, Commandments get rewritten which is why we were told to love our neighbors as the Lord loves us, because then it takes away the option of being selfish. By that time in history, there was a big enough population that it could be one to one but the Lord never condemned Abraham nor King David nor any others for having more than one wife because it was necessary, and permitted. Remember the Lord's understanding is above our understanding but the Christ also knew that the union that is marriage happens anytime intercourse happens which is why it was written that the woman at the well had many husbands yet never married
@@debluetailfly regardless, it's easier to meet Rich where he is than it is to force him to be where we are.
Uh oh, MAGA noise. Be honest and stop hiding your belief system.
What’s MAGA noise?
@@Highintensityhealth brother, I have no clue what he is up on about.
@@Highintensityhealthsounds like anything they don’t like hearing
@@Highintensityhealth A guy who speaks propaganda like his woke rant. But what about you? Do you have to hide your opinions because being honest will cost you money?
@@peteray3967you’re a weirdo dude
It’s almost like God knew what he was doing when he created us 😁