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If you meet 100 Men tomorrow, 99 of them ain't for you. I felt that!! Real talk!
Facts❤
@Lula Delphine Young Absolutely! The relationship you have with yourself, will determine the relationships you have with others. Women need to understand that Singleness is the most important relationship they need to have with themselves firsts.
So true. That’s why ppl hide things
Or all 100 aren't for them.
Now that’s a word.
A good man doesn’t make him the right man !!! Amen
FACTS ‼️
Indeed
Preach
Indeed... Or vice versa.
Caribbean Beauty That’s right he has to be the one chosen for you. I just learned this! Wow!
It's so sad that some people will never go for therapy and allow themselves to receive breakthroughs and healing
Stephan held his own and gave a great interview! Much respect to this brother and his ministry.
Quad was very defensive and attempted to discredit the facts he was bringing. Sister Circle TV, you all could've done this segment without Quad being present. She needs to heal before she can hear and internalize helpful facts. #NoChasing #SeekGodFirst Men #PursueYourSpouse
She was not listening
E'ERBODY picked up their teacups at THE SAME TIME. 😭😭😭😭 Quad, Baby! You've got to forgive the man that hurt you, for you, Luv!
Quad has some more healing to do. Sometimes when you are operating in defensive and guarded energy, it can be difficult to receive insight when it conflicts with your pain and source of dysfunction. Take a breath, relax, and allow yourself to be open to a new point of view.
I agree with this. I need some healing. Hurts to talk about, but writing is okay.
Amen, and I was thinking the same thing....Let Stephan speak his speech and teach those that are opened to learn. ♥️♥️♥️
This brotha is so calm. He’s in the Lions Den and you could see Quad was on the verge of an attack smh. I think it’s sad that people who haven’t healed are giving dating advice on these large platforms. Because now we have a bunch of minions who agree and will do messed up things to others. That’s why I listen to Stephan and the Roomates and even Rebecca Lynn Pope they have all taught me that healing is #1 and self development through God. Something about all of them they seem at peace with themselves. I can see when people aren’t healed about things the trigger is sharp and sensitive.
The thing that I love the most is that Stephan talks about God and healing. I believe the key to any successful relationship starts with your own personal relationship with God. Knowing God, learning to hear from God, loving yourself 100% and letting God heal your wounds. Most people feel the need to be in relationships with the wrong people because they don't fully love themselves and loneliness. But when you do the work with God, when God does bring the right person along, that person will just add to your life. Everything about you should only get better.
Men are the hunters but men can only chase for so long. Women should not drag men along if she knows for certain she doesn't want to be with him. Life is too short to be wasting people's time.
Infinity, my guy and I just decided to take a break for this very reason. We need to individually get closer to God, listen and heal. Hopefully we'll come back together. You hit it on the head.
Drag along better yet just say im not interested
CORRECT
Right on point!
@@KyriannaLorielle what does that mean? Will you be free to date other ppl . Won't you two grow apart from eachother?
What I like about Stephan is putting God first before everything. You don't hear other relationship coaches saying that or standing on that.
Facts!
Yesssss
Yea not many of them do. Tony Gaskins is also like Stephan
Because not everyone is religious. And what does it ACTUALLY MEAN? Lol
@Abel Lewis thanks for the response but I still don't understand. I'm not religious and don't know what action that means.
Bring this gentleman back....and soon!!!! Interesting conversation! 👍🏽
Yasss, please and thank you 👍
They're around
Yes he is well informed 🙏🏽💕
He shut Quan down with all that foolishness she was talking! I was shouting!
Dang..he was really bout to lay into Quad then commercial.
how was it foolish most guys chase after 'bad bitches' and 'instagram models'
@@dance4life1208 yep no lies told! Men and women go for what looks good and not whose good for you.
yes, because i cant stand her ugly self
🙄Facts
I have never heard of Mr. Stephan but he is right..God should be first in the relationship & the couple should pray together & also for each other...This is great advice for singles who wants to be married..Thx u sister circle for bringing this young man on the show...I have never heard relationship coach or authors talk about God being a part of their relationship...I love this!!!
He’s the real deal. His books are great too, I’ve just about read them all, even the ones for men. Tons of applicable info if you are married or single.
Yes he has great videos
A "good mate" doesn't make them the "right mate", COME ON SOMEBODY!
Quad was so ready to talk. She needs to listen.
Dream on
she didn't lol
When he laid down the “chase” and put the hurt on the woman out there they got REAL quiet.
"Healing is the key to everything "
It is such a passionate topic but when you invite a special guest to your show please let them speak and give them the courtesy of not cutting them off.
MW 7 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
He hit a nerve with the woman wearing white. 😁
Right! It seemed She didn’t seek to understand what he was saying only to argue back....
50th Anniversary sure did. She’s the one that needs to be listening x10
Thank you! Exactly, can he talk, please listen.
No man will need to chase a woman who wants him in return. I'm raising a young man to know his worth.
Vontrail D. Preston
Amen sista...
Same! Heyyy momma!!
I agree, but I hope you are also teaching him a woman's worth as well & that it is okay to chase a woman, but there are limits & boundaries to that chase.
@@natashamitchell8863 no ma'am. I'm teaching him according to the word of God. That is all.
@@Viva__xo well that says it all, doesn't it. ♥️
"I'm never going to discount someone's evolution." ~ So wise and compassionate.
There's a difference between the pursuit and chasing. Remember that!
Yes! 🙌
I was thinking 💭the same thing.
Exaaaaaaccccttttttllllllyyyyyy
It's a real thin line too
I really admire Stephan for allowing God to use him, and his wisdom.
He definitely is making a difference in the lives of Men, and Women who have a desire for healthy meaningful true loving relationships, and strong marriages.
Each time I watch his great videos or read his books, I learn something new to enrich my life.
I'm so grateful to God that his son (Stephan) answered to the call on his life !!
I know it's God's time for people to experience True Love.
Thank you for bringing this Awesome Man of God to your show !!!
Awesome man of God! 🙌🙌🔥
He is legitimately good. This man knows what he is talking about and evaluates each side of the corner not just talking points or applause.
I’ve been following him on CZcams for a while. He’s helping me in so many ways. Love him.
You probably followed Steve H. too gurrrl. This is basic common sense. But I not knocking you I'm just making it plan🤔
Think it’s hard to hear God, if you are not submitted to him. We usually want God to stamp his approval to what we’ve already to committed to do.
💯
Say it louder....
Amen
Boom!
Preach !
Stephan has tooooo much wisdom. 🙌🙌🙌🙌😍
Anointed and appointed by the King of kings💯🙌🙌
No Man should Chase a woman
When you chase something that means something is running from you ... The right woman is NOT gonna run from you now I do believe a man Should pursue a Woman But chasing is the WRONG term
It should go both ways. If the woman shows she is interested forget that hard to get game
Chasing is NOT biblical. Isaac didn't chase Rebecca. Jacob didn't chase Rachel. King David didn't chase Abigail. Ruth did not chase Boaz.
That is true. It goes for all. Stop and think before it’s to late. From babies to your life. You can learn. But, you can’t find the one if you walk blind. So, be smart. After your dumbness. Relationship ppl call isn’t always a real one. A real one is when it comes it comes. Take your time. Don’t be the fool. And expect ppl to always understand you. Plan right. Because it’s no such thing is plans.
@Blessed Rivers & Streams no..she WANTS to be chased, wITHOUT chasing back. The brother articaluted to her and the others a man should PURSUE and a woman should PURSUE as well.,she vehemently disagreed and aaid a Man should chase the RIGHT woman...notice, she did not say the woman should chase back...and we know, when she says the RIGHT woman, she is really talking about herself..
Yes! I was just about to say THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHASING AND PURSUING!
Wow! He just Checked all the woman in his last statement, message. Especially the one who got smart with him lol.
I think he has some extremely valid points
Dam he spoke facts to her 💯💯💯
Quad's Body language says a lot and Trina sipping the tea for that long lololol
Facts 😂
Lol😂
Amen
Tea 😏
Shanetta Kemple 😳🤭🤣
Trina's face though when she said he came through with the lil broom and dust pan lol smh. * She was like really??guurrll lol u super rude* then proceeded to have a loooonnggg tea sip lmbo
Yea, but he respectfully got her together!
He means pursue not chase
She was distracted by the word and couldn't receive the message.
That's exactly what he said🤷🏾
EACH lady's SKIN!! Mrs. SYLEENA'S SKIN IS POPPPPPPIIIINNNNN 🙌🏾
I think it would be nice if Mr. Labossiere went on LipService (so long as the conversation is "appropriate" as with Rev. Devon Franklin)
I like this but Quad was defensive she need to calm down everything not about you personally but it's clear you think so.
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I agree 100% Ms
Exactlleeeee!!! His wisdom SHUT her CONPLETELY down..she talking about the high percentage of brothers lying,,he simply told her if 100 brothers approach you, 99 will be the wrong one..she didn't say Nathan,else rest of the show...i like this brother...very wise and Objective..
She has not healed... Quad needs to change her mindset, she does not have the monopoly on what constitutes a good relationships
He understood from her energy she still needs healing. He could discern that immediately. And yet he was still kind, gentle and patient. A true man of God. When we listen, we learn the most.
Get em Stephan .... proud of your accomplishments!
Amen
That hit Quad cause you can tell she want someone to chase her that's why the other girls start drinking they're tea...
@Nelear Walls WELL I think i have worn those shoes..bcuz I FEEL as tho at the beginning of a New friendship I think it SHOULD b a chase from that MAN if I'm wat HE wants...why I can't b a Chase..WE as women are NOT made to chase...ALL I'm saying is if he shows INTEREST after going to the voicemail, after me not responding for a day or 2 to a text or CALL ( I'm being a challenge and not being so available) I thought was a turn on TO a MAN ..I feel as tho THOSE TYPE are keepers..NOT the 1's that's like "Oh I ain't chasing her if she ain't chasing ME"..WRONG I feel at the beginning it should b about the WOMAN an once THAT WOMAN show that she wanna b kept by HIM I'm pretty sure he will know she's the 1 cus she's showing interest..PERIOD Idk I FEEL as tho MEN have downgraded to a woman's standards LIKE a WOMAN ( LIKE A BITCH) In my eye's IJS
Oh its funny I'm watching Steve Harvey show an he's telling this woman that even if she don't act as she's interested if WE (the men) want U we chasing U til we GET u..an I kw that..if a man is not chasing me I feel as tho he don't want me want me..he may like me but do u wanna b jus like 😏 ummm no...But if HE like I ain't going no where then I kw I got me a keeper..IJS
@@lealeahazel8093 but thats his point. Courting becomes a chase when the effort is one sided. If a man reaches out to you and you don't respond for 2 days? Thats a chase. Its mutual interest when she lets you know she wont be able to respond or be available. When she shows initiative than it shows him its potential. The man can be a prize as well as the woman. Both should feel that way
Nelear Walls I totally agree!!!!!!!!!
LeaLea Hazel you just said the exact thing this guy said the reason a man shouldn’t chase lol you must be single 😂😂😭
I think that closing remark about healing was about Ms. Quad. Sorry, not sorry.
Aja D.
Quad felt every word that man said, I believe his words kinda cut deep in her heart... She won't listen, unfortunately.
I agree!
He says that in all his videos and teachings :)
It was not about her... But she may be one who needed to hear it
Lol
How did I just found out about this guy... his speaking sense... preach 🙌🏾
The key to a successful relationship is..... " MUTUAL RESPECT , UNSELFISH LOVE ( doing for the other person because you love them not because you're trying to trick them into doing more for you ), Working as a team for the same goal , sacrificing for the common good of the relationship, " KEEPING OTHER FOLKS OUT OF YOUR INTIMATE BUSINESS... TOTALLY "!! , And remembering that myth about a " 50/50 Love " is total B.S. . Life is never that cut and dry. Ups and downs are part of life. Mainly " The effort and dedication you put into a relationship reaps it's own rewards.... As Long as Its Genuine " and you're not playing games.... KP
ACCOUNTABILITY: Relationship Check-Ups!!!💖
he so good, God has giving him so much wisdom
So much! Thankyou Lord Jesus😁
Quad miss the whole point but with all the tea sipping they thought Quad would get but she still miss the boat.
Marcia Paige 😆💕
I LOVE THAT! So true that we need to learn more about ourselves and our behavior in relationships if we want to be successful romantically. Too many people grow up watching dysfunctional relationships, but then attempt to create a healthy relationship. You don't know what you don't know and will have a hard time discerning what are good behaviors and what are bad ones.
Ladies thank you for bringing my favorite speaker, greetings from Zambia.
I think he said the right thing about the 99 but 1 because some women expect all men to be everything to every woman.Yet what some women don't get is everyone doesn't have your heart or is made like you and also that your not invisible.A man that is for you can see you and the qualities you have to offer if you'll show them.I think many women have the wrong female friends or like to hang out in and be apart of environments that promote women who they despise and then wonder why they feel over looked.Also another reason why men don't pursue these supposedly good women is because us men watch the F boys they pursue while their in between relationships.So to us your never really single and a health risk because many people are having unprotected sex during flings.
Wow...what he said at the end was profound. I definitely still have some healing to do.
It you meet 100 men, and 99 ain’t for you, the LORD has someone better. 😊
We as all people REALLY REALLY need to stop JUST stop and heal OUR self-esteem from inside OUT
Know who we are inside make our OWN self happy at PEACE with self.
This is what. I've done FOR myself
Iam so worth it. It's been very inlighting for me. Iam better for this most people dont even KNOW themselves in no WAY.
Truth,honesty and communication plus prayer
I feel as though it's not about the chase... when it comes to finding out who your divine partner is, it's more about the pursue!!
Important to note regarding accountability. This is not something that is expected or forced upon another. The couple are BOTH VOLUNTARILY ALLOWING THEMSELVES to be held accountable BY EACH OTHER. This is the part where women TEND to be active in their masculine energy and parenting their man. This is also where men because of feeling emasculated will passive aggressively STOP allowing you to hold him accountable. The power dynamic shifts to take/compete/demand instead of mutual give.
You canNOT and should not be low key bullying or forcing anyone to be with you or treat you right. People always do what they want. Instead we should be discerning the truth through their consistent behaviors. If they don't really want to be with you but are tolerating things for the benefits of you....you want to discern that early to either heal the WHY's or bounce EARLY on so as not to waste your time getting played or manipulated into giving your best to someone who is consciously assessing your weak boundaries and exploiting them to their self serving benefit (man or woman). But unfortunately because of our nature as women to nurture, it is more women getting played in this specific scenario. We should be utilizing our intuition to discern the TRUTH rather than utilizing our powers of manipulation to try and change the reality. Most often we rationalize in order to cope and end up playing ourselves. You can't make NOBODY treat you right or want you. When you think about it even IF you could WHY would you want to?
Say it again! hey Glory!! 🙌🙏
HE shut Quad behind UP
Excellent!! interview on personal relationships. Stephan knows what he is talking about.
I like the 3 months check up. Bond closer. Praying together. Having God in the relationship. Great points . Like the variety of perspectives.
Where was this guy all this time🤔 What wisdom and eloquence 💎👑🙏🏾💛
Wise and gifted man
Amen
I am at that stage of Trying to Heal....I thought I was Healed but obviously not because I have a good man, treats me good but I am guarded and I respond to him the way I responded to men who didn't deserve my time and Love. I am afraid to be vulnerable with him BUT I expect him to be with me and I know that is wrong!!! SMH.....So Yeah I need to heal more
@Nae Nae Thank you! Peace and Blessings to you!
This man is wise..he knows what is saying..he said it right we dont ask God about a husband or a wife..we are not healee from traumas ..we like to be comfortable..we ignore red flags
As a man I appreciate that you are willing to take RESPONSIBILITY for the work you need
@@jonwigfall Thank you! Peace and Blessings to you!
@Blessed Rivers & Streams Thank you! Peace and Blessings to you!
Speak Stephan, Speak! Love this man!
Why did everyone start sipping their tea when Quad started to go in? lol
Cuz THEY like "Oh lord here we GO wit her relationship questions"..
@Blessed Rivers & Streams nope ur wrong
They knew he would shut her down! Such as he did. Love him!
Ole Is it my turn to speak ass lady.. she throw pity parties. She a alpha lady but she soo bruised inside the mental about men period
Quad NEEDS TO LISTEN 🤐
HEALING IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING! Love that part Stephan!
Taking a moment to appreciate the different hairstyles on this segment!
Trina with that long sip🤣🤣
If you NEED to be CHASED?
ROB A BANK.
😂😂😂😂😂. Love it!!!
Lmaooo
😂😂😂😂
AMEN!!!
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Good words of wisdom Mr. Stephan. Please let him talk without cutting him off🙏🏽
Syleena Johnson looks beautiful!!
oh wow that is really her!
hold it down for us brother!
Yes women are smart must use that intuition No need to be on your back to prove to him you are good woman he know this ; Ladies have got to stop being a might as well date Having sex hoping hes the right man Praying hes not lying and you know hes a liar Whole your value!
Thanks for sharing many blessings.
🙏🏼💜🙏🏼 Very Beautiful Message. It was already on my spirit. Thank you.
That segment was absolutely wonderful! Thank you! ❤🙏❤
wonderfully insightful.
love stephan's energy & god-guided wisdom
This was an interesting segment, the passion and hurt from Quad was good because it is a shared experience world over. It would have been great had the team allowed the conversation to continue, its not about right or wrong but confronting hurt with healing truth. I believe this would have helped the thousands that watch.
What he said at 10:45 is similar to what Shan Boodram said a while ago treat your dating life like a new hiree. If you have a connection then you are eligible but not guaranteed promotion
I raised 3 sons as a young widow and raised them in the Lord. I have been saved since the age of 6 and I am in my 50s was a widow in my late 20s married my first boyfriend that I met at the age of 14. My sons are in their late 20s early 30s put God first still virgins by the grace of God all great careers and now looking to God to send them each their wives. I explained to my sons as young men how having sex without marriage is a tough road and it can cause a person to live a defeated life. The bible says sin leads to death and this is true. People want to get married but will not until they seek First the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness.
God will not send immoral people to moral people that seek Him because then they will not have peace in their home to listen to God's Holy Spirit to guide them correctly. God sees what everyone does. He knows the beginning to the end. When you seek God He will change your heart to be marriage material until then you will stay single or marry the wrong person. Many seek God for something and they will never receive this possession because God sees the hearts of all humans and knows what will happen after He gives you what you desire.
God has blessed me to guide people to His truths and many have had their lives changed because of doing things the right way. I have not had many troubles in my life because I choose to do things God's way because it works. God can outwait anyone and has more patience then anyone can imagine. God will allow a person to die single due to seeking the idol instead of seeking Him.
Dropping so much knowledge on us, thank you brother!!!
Thank you Stephan & Sister Circle for sharing your beautiful gifted
I love this! I have actually been following Stephan speaks for years. He is amazing and speaks/include God is even better! I sent him questions back in the day and he answered each one of them.
This is a true reality...displaying Beautiful sistah's in a positive light. I love them!!!! ❤
Just remember just because God gives you the yes doesn't mean that's it, they're the one and you don't have to maintain. God has said yes and PEOPLE mess it up. Not 100% of couples that didn't work out got a no from God.
Wow.Love his ending remark.
When I here this man of God speak I question & reflect on my relationships & think where did I go wrong.
I am loving this show,,,,,,,and so proud of Ms. Trina B. 😊
Great discussion...King love did it again.
There's a difference between chasing and pursuit. I need to be pursued!
The problem is women don't like to listen. Now this woman think she can tell a man about how men are better than he can smh.
But you're okay with him telling women how they are?
@@blahblahblah3722 What part was he trying to tell women how they are?? This is why a lot of black women struggle in relationships. Too combative and do not listen.
Facts
She was “listening to reply” instead of “listening to understand”...
N Jenkins facts
Av been listening to Stephen for a while now,GOD must be using HIM bcoz my life is transforming gradually.
tHE Sister Circle is the Real Talk Show for grownups.
I loved this interview
He's good! I purchased his book online a few months ago...now I'm actually going to read it!
God has to approve it first. He will also tell you who you will marry.
Bravo friend, well in my head you’re my friend.
Very informative and insightful
This is so good.
Preach! Only through, in and by God we are victorious, healed, and made whole. Jesus is the anwer. Amen
It’s funny ppl talk and think it’s a real relationship when it’s not. Going to fast without being smart about it. I ain’t perfect either. We all learn the hard way. The real true relationship will come when it’s time and you are ready. He is speaking the truth. The real love of your life. But, we mess with the wrong ones. This guys is amazing. Thank you!
GREAT panel of energy
Great interview ladies!
Valid point...
Great insight...
Yass stephan congrats!
Healing ❤️💯
This was really great I enjoyed and received the message