Our Coming Out Story pt.2 - Meet the Mazelins (Alec)
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- The good, the bad, the ugly, we all have a story about one of the scariest days in our lives. And for most people in the queer community that happens to be our COMING OUT story.
Tune in to hear Alec share his, telling you a little bit about his journey along the way.
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You can see the love they have for each other....the way Brian sits, looks at his husband Alec. I see the love. Continued Happiness!
I’m Jamaican but grew up in the USA. I cant imagine living in Jamaica and coming out. 😯…I’ve heard horror stories about gay people in Jamaica ! You are powerful and brave. This channel is going to explode!! Love love love the content.
It is very difficult and it was a tough decision that required a lot of thought at the time. I’ve experienced first hand many of these things people tell you about, some of which weren’t shared, but we both believe putting images out there for the masses to see will help in normalizing gay relationships and others just seeing us as other normal people in society. We are happy that especially in Jamaica we have been able to challenge people to be more inclusive in our own little way. Thanks for the love ☺️
Your videos are compelling and encouraging to everyone, no matter their sexuality.
Thanks Sophia, that’s more than we ever could have hoped for 🙏. We appreciate your support and encouraging words 😊
As a 60+ year old (who still looks 40ish) physically challenged gay individual I have resolved to watching coming out stories and living vicariously through couples such as you two. I must say, of all the stories I've seen thus far yours (both parts 1 & 2) are the best. In fact, I'm sitting here almost in tears! You two are an amazing gorgeous couple who look damn good together! I am happy for your engagement and look forward to seeing pics from your upcoming wedding (which I hope you will post on youtube). Thank you again for sharing your story and I wish you the best in all life has to offer. What an inspiration you both are! May God continue to bless you.
P.S. Continue to post your videos; I look forward to seeing more....
Your comment literally has left us in awe. We are soooo humbled that you have enjoyed us sharing our story so much. We will definitely make sure to post the wedding photos on CZcams and hope to have a video of some sort for you guys as well. This truly feels like a little family here for us so we will definitely continue to keep you guys in the loop. Thanks so much for the kind words and wishes and take care 🤗 💜
Hello again Brian and Alec (my new favorite couple). While I do appreciate your response and marvel at your relatively newfound relationship, I must confess that I was a bit taken aback by your receptiveness to the idea of "potentially" bringing a third party into your relationship. At the risk of being somewhat intrusive (but not meaning to), as an elder statesman who values "LOVE and COMMITMENT" and holds it to the highest esteem, I would encourage you to rethink this concept, even as a form of occasional recreation; this in my opinion is the quickest way to souring a relationship and bringing it to an abrupt end. What the two of you have now is beautiful and magnificent and quite honestly what I think many straight couples would kill for (including myself). Perhaps, I'm being a bit overly dramatic for this day and time, but being the incurable romantic that I am this is only my opinion. For goodness sakes you guys, please keep my fantasy alive! Much love to the both of you!!!
Hey Shelton 👋. We appreciate you being able to be open an honest with us as well as being invested in the success of our relationship so we haven’t taken any offense to you expressing your thoughts. In answering the question we have talked about it at length, and with most things that we talk about in our relationship we just haven’t listed out the “potential” of exploring that avenue as we know the nature of the relationship may change as we grow together. It really wasn’t meant as confirmation but like with anything, we know with time our views may change and at risk of people calling us out on being inconsistent we don’t knock anything being possible. As we said we feel no motivation at the moment to go that route so don’t worry the fantasy is still there! It’s the same view we have with additional children at the moment, however over time that may change too.
We definitely cherish what we have and acknowledge the newness of it all too. I think what both of us took from being able to talk about these taboo things so candidly was us fostering an environment with each other where we can be extremely honest even when they may be difficult. So no plans on the table for such activities right now 😅.
Oh y'all need a 3rd?! Hi, my name is Tuscan
@@TuscanWonder 😆
Alec, your story touched my heart in so many ways. The love your mother has and displayed towards you brought me to tears. However, I feel both Brian and you have loving souls, so loving you both should come easily! From my experience, some of our older family members base their opinions on old traditions which has not evolved. However, we still love them and we find a way to look past their feelings and find our happiness and tribe. ❤ May God continue to bless the both of you!
Love you Alec and wishing only the best for you and Brian. Glad your mom shared your channel with me.
Thank you so much Auntie Judy! I love you too. We appreciate the wishes as well 💜
It’s me again 😃 Alec, I can relate to a lot of your coming out I think I was labeled early in life. What’s funny about my life is that I came out to my best friend who is straight was upset with me but what the funny part is that he embraced me and has been a great friend. Thank you both for sharing your coming out story!!❤️❤️. Be Blessed
Hey Gregory 👋! That’s actually really similar to me as well. I never gave an update because the video was getting long, but to this day that guy is like my brother. Me coming out eventually made us closer and I was even his best man at his wedding. And once all goes as planned I hope to have him as mine as well. We appreciate that you watched both our stories and enjoyed them 😊. Nuff blessings to you! 💜
I loved part 2 as well. I subscribed. Thanks, guys, for sharing your life with us. I didn't know you two live in Orlando or (Saint Cloud). That's what's up. I'm in Seminole county (Longwood).
We’re happy you could enjoy both parts of getting to know us and our journey as gay men. Oh nice, so you’re actually pretty close! 🙌🏾 for the Florida boys!
To say I am in awe of your strength and dedication to each other would be an understatement. Being much older than you guys, seeing the courage and strength this younger generation has is so inspiring. Anyone throughout history that caused change to happen did so at great risk but they never backed down and brought change, which is exactly what you two are doing. But it is your strength and your love for each other that will continue to get you through those hurdles. I really enjoyed both these videos about your lives and coming out story. Continue to hold your heads high. I know it hurt you Alec, over your friends response to your coming out to her. A true friend would care about you unconditionally. That is how we weed out the ones who claim to be our friends compared to the ones who truly are our friends. For every negative person such as this, you will gain 3 or 4 more friends in their place. Just bless the negative ones on their way and move forward with the friends who prove themselves as your real friends. Thanks again for sharing! Changes are coming because of the two of you for the better. Be safe and be blessed!
I watched both of y’all coming out stories beautiful couple
🙏 awww we appreciate it loads!
I know that's right, Alec. Those of us who watched Degrassi now him as Aubrey Graham lol. I used to love that show.
Lol that show literally helped me grow up and understand my own feelings
Your channel is very important for many people. Your life-stories teach and inspire. Your humanity is a light in these difficult times. Thank you for sharing your humanity with us.
Oh wow we are so touched by these words Christopher! Thank you so much 💜. That really makes us happy. Much love to you 🤗 🥰
The part when you mentioned the support system you received from your family and your mom that touched me because that's not something u see everyday or rather often this is so beautiful ❤️
Trust me, and I acknowledge that I am so blessed to have that! Definitely do not take it for granted. I wish that my experience was what more people in our community would have when coming out. I’m so grateful 🙏 😊 (Alec)
Chicky you delivered your story beautifully. Watching the video the love you both share for one another shows❤️. Love to you both auntie tracey
Thank you 😊. It really wasn’t an easy decision to not just share, but do so publicly, but Brian has definitely been such a source of comfort and courage for me. Thank you for the kind words 😊🥰
It’s your life hun and you just have to live it. It’s what makes you happy. ❤️
Big up Alec Modda anyweh she deh. My A1 day 1. Heart of Gold.
Mi seh! That woman is everything! And you know she loves you too
Sis I cried. Like bawl real tears. Lord Lipo, Alec is just an inspiration.
Ohhh gosh it better be happy tears lol
Thanks again for your response guys and as per your inquiry, I am doing well. As is and will always be the case, my sole interest is seeing couples like you survive and thrive. Having missed out on this opportunity myself, I take comfort in knowing that people in "our community" are happy (in love) and living their best lives. As I continue to follow your videos, please know that I am rooting for you as a power couple!
Thanks Shelton and happy to know you are doing well. We definitely feel that support and appreciate it so much. Take care until next time ☺️
Please, please keep posting videos at least for now. I want to reinforce what you’ve been told before but your love story, your journey is so inspirational for those who are struggling with their lives as gay. For me. I was 54, divorced and a father before I was strong enough to come out and live MY truth. I am 6 videos in and plan on watching everyone. I’ve already cried a few times and sure I’ll cry lots more. Thank you ❤
Hello Brian and Alec! I appreciate your candid response to my expressed concern. I am always quick to take note of successful gay relationships and use them as an opportunity to quell the notion among opponents that "our love" is just as significant and meaningful as any other couple (and not simply about engaging in sexual proclivities). I've had friends over the years who have seemed to take a particular delight in exploiting their partners at the time (who were new to the experience) leaving them often to believe that there is no such thing as a true committed gay relationship; the idea of it simply being a game is therefore perpetuated, causing emotional hurt and distrust (among other partners they might encounter). So, again it is always refreshing to see couples like you who can support my idea that gay relationships can and do work. Thank you for being a positive example for those who might just be coming out or for the "straights" who feel their relationships are matchless. Take care guys and may God continue to be with you as you take the next step to matrimony!
Hey Shelton! We’re so happy to hear back from you. We truly mean it when it is that we say we appreciate your input and concern and of course we will always be as honest as we can with you. Even though it may be through just CZcams comments it’s amazing how much we grow to really have some sort of bond with you that we interact with and we can feel your concern and care through your words.
We know how things in the community can be and we hope that we can continue to be some form of example (we know no one is perfect, but we can try! 😆) for a positive result. Thanks as always for the love! And hope you are taking care of yourself 😊💜
This is a powerful video and I appreciate your honesty. I can't wait for the day when we all can be free just to be.
Thanks so much Sophia. Us sharing is really in the hope that people can either see themselves, or someone close to them in us, and understand that there is hope as that person who may be suffering isn’t alone. Also that even though the road may not be easy there is the possibility of finding bright light on the other end 😊. Thanks for watching 💜
Love your coming out story. I enjoyed it wishing you guys nothing more but the very best.
Thanks Maisha. Sharing in the hope that it helps someone out there possibly struggling with similar experiences too. Much love! 💜
Everytime I watch one of your videos I'm more happy I found your page. Long and happy life to both of you.
After watching both coming out videos, you guys are such an inspiration for others who are probably having a hard time trying to come out to their friends and family. It’s all about showing the love and support and knowing that everything will be alright. Can’t wait to see more videos on the channel. Big up yuh selves!
Hey Andre! Thanks as always for the kind words man. We definitely hope it touches other people out there and let them know they aren’t alone and that it’s a process, but one that’s well worth it once you have the right people in your corner. Definitely more to come though. Big up yourself too! Nuff love! 💜
Alec looking at Brian trying to end the video 😂. Thanks for sharing your story, one to which I can also relate.
Haha don’t worry next video we are perfecting that outro.
Thanks for listening to our stories!
I don't mind. Continue doing what you guys are doing I love it!
Oh dear how do I start , I have been watching your vlogs all day & this one really touch my heart “coming out” Love is Love . Upset with your friend she can’t support you on your wedding day of course this is past & you r happily married & living your life with the one you love & who truly Loves you . Big up ya self & do the do. ❤❤❤
Awww thank you for all the support Janice. It is unfortunate, but life has a weird way of unveiling the things that hold you back so that you can move forward in a more enriching way. Definitely choosing to focus on all the blessings and leave the negative behind. 🥰💜
I understand and acknowledge your point of view with your mother. Your mom is a tower of strength and a role model of LOVE and if the world was as appreciative as well as understanding of how any individual with there parent(s) within society can just let PEACE and LOVE reign, then that would be a catalyst for all to emulate.
Blessings @meetthemazelins.
Alec, be strong, you got this.
Brian, you build your world of love with your mom and enjoy the new journey as she embrace you as the person you are......Living your truth.
"Congratulations"
To be honest I couldn’t be more grateful with my mother and how she has handled all the news in stride. I really wish all people in our community had that same kind of support and “coming out”. (Alec)
We definitely feel as though we are surrounded my so much love and support and that is just amplified by all the love and kind words you guys on CZcams have been showering us with! Thank you so much 😊 💜. We appreciate it more than you know.
Most Jamaicans face that challenge of people asking, your such a nice and handsome guy, why don't you have a girlfriend. There are men out there now who have girl friends or wives and are suffering inside. Jamaica is such a beautiful place but a hard place for us to survive in.
Alec, the way how your family and friends support you, its rare but amazing. I don't have that because everyone just push me aside but I will still keep my head up and stay focus.
I love that saying too - you cant hurt me with what I've already accepted.
Just to share though, the vibe between you two is so pure, its very uplifting. I really pray that no matter what, you both will remain together for a long time. They always say that gay relationships don't last too long however there are many that last a lifetime. Stay in that many 🙂
Hey James! Sorry for the late response. Yesss I think we all have been through that interrogation of when you going to settle down or why we don’t have girlfriends.
I really do count myself as lucky though that my friends and family embrace me the way they do. I know that isn’t the reality for everyone especially in Jamaica. I must say though that it took me so long to come out (at 29) because in the back of my head I needed to make sure I was in a place where I knew financially I was not dependent on anyone and emotionally that I prepared myself for the possibility of things not ending positively. I’m sad to hear that you have been isolated the way you have, but in times like that if you even have one friend you can count on I would tell you to lean on them. Those friends are our chosen family and definitely help us to get through those hardships.
We really appreciate those special and heartfelt words! We really are touched and we will try our best! Much love to you James. Stay blessed and keep safe. Much love to you from us 💜
Thank you so much and your most welcome 🙏
Congratulations to you Both on your journey may your lives be blessed and fruitful for both of you.
Thank you so much Bernard! We really appreciate the blessings and well wishes. Much love to you 💜 😊
@@MeetTheMazelins your very welcome
Degrassi was my show too! I remember watching it in 2nd grade being way too young but still😂😂. Great video!🖤💛
Haha oh no! You just made me feel so old just now considering I was watching this in the 6th grade 😆. It really was instrumental for me at that age though as it was the first time I wholeheartedly connected with a character on tv growing up. It was a great show though! Thank you 😊
Big up Alec from Spot Days 👏🏾 My respect forever bro.
Thank Chev! U know the love and respect is mutual my brother 🙏
Guys continue to do you,life is great ,live it..I'm definitely gonna celebrate 🍾 with you guys on your special day.again , love you guys...I don't know I'm straight but I just love gay people as friends..love is love🥰
Thanks so much! We appreciate the fact that you support our community at large and acknowledge that at the end of the day we are just people like everyone else. That respect is all that we could ask for. We are excited to share the special day with you all too!
Amazing ... Positive energy all around , happiness overload. Such happiness is not meant for everyone
We definitely do count ourselves as lucky that we are able to step out into our truth proudly and be so widely accepted. It’s really a shame that not everyone is met by the same love and support but we hope by us sharing our stories that we are able to help in normalizing LGBTQ presence in our countries, especially in more conservative communities. Thank you for all the positivity and love 💜 ☺️
Hey guys, just finished watching your part Alec and honestly I must say I felt everything in what you have shared with us. I must commend on your strength and positivity throughout. I must also commend on your families support behind you. Jamaica still has many steps to take in which the diversity of each person are and I hope it will revolve soon. Thanks again for your story, you have truly given my me hope and reassurance in being who I truly am. One love 🇯🇲
Thank you so much. I really would not have been able to go through with it had it not been for the amazing people around me. I really do see it getting better one day for us all, and this is just one of the steps. Thanks so much and I wish you all the best on your journey too 🤗
You guys are fabulous! Keep on marchin' and inspiring the next generation....well, all generations!
Thank you so much Michael! The support you guys give us definitely motivate us to keep going!
Alec be true to your self love you guys wishing you the best you both seems to be so in love , I love your story
Well there is no turning back for me now. So I definitely will. We’re both so happy that you can see the love too and you celebrate it Ava 💜
I enjoyed the bloopers on the other video. I loved the quote added at the end of this one. Also, kudo's to you both for how you were able to navigate the storyline in a way that the viewer could understand.. sidenote: I've honestly been trying to figure out the connection to your channel. And tonight I realized you both give off "healing " energy. You don't speak over the viewer head, your word choice isn't harsh or judgemental.. you speak with us, with understanding, and it's comforting. These videos also reassure that noone is alone in a situation or feeling, there's someone somewhere who relates. ✨✨💙
We’re happy you were able to connect with them both! In our relationship we really have had to navigate differences between each other, especially when it came to language and culture so I think that definitely helps in us being able to communicate our thoughts to viewers in an easy to understand way.
We’re happy to hear that we give off that “healing” energy of which you speak as we really do hope by sharing our experiences others in similar or adjacent situations feel comforted. It has been cathartic even for us to be sharing these things so publicly so not only does it help other people but it helps us heal and deal with our own traumas too by acknowledging them but realizing we have moved into a more positive space now in our lives 😊. Thanks for watching, and for the kind words! 💜
As always I”m late to the party let me first say I’m SOOOO HAPPPY for you both! I’ve watched a couple of your videos today as well as follow on instagram , its so refreshing how your love and respect for one another just fills the room. You two are truly truly blessed to have one another and I sincerely pray that you cherish and love, be blessed and prosper all the days of your lives. Everyday won’t be a party but keep intentionally waking up everyday loving one another on purpose. My heart is full for you both and again best wishes and peace and blessings!!!! Thank you for sharing your amazing journey!!!
Better late than never Troy 😆. Thank you so much! We’re happy that our love resonates through the videos and that you can feel it through the screen. I hope you know that it also extends to those who support us as you guys fill us up too. We count ourselves as blessed for sure, and know that everyday won’t be easy, but we are prepared to put in the work. We can’t predict the future but know that we are both committed to do all we can to have our future together prosper. Thanks for following us on the journey and encouraging us along the way. We really appreciate it 🥰💜
Better late than never Troy 😆. Thank you so much! We’re happy that our love resonates through the videos and that you can feel it through the screen. I hope you know that it also extends to those who support us as you guys fill us up too. We count ourselves as blessed for sure, and know that everyday won’t be easy, but we are prepared to put in the work. We can’t predict the future but know that we are both committed to do all we can to have our future together prosper. Thanks for following us on the journey and encouraging us along the way. We really appreciate it 🥰💜
Hey Brian and Alec ! Your families are so blessed to have two amazing young men. Lots of love to the Mazelins ❤️
We are truly touched and humbled by these kind words Leon. Thank you so much 😊. Sending lots of love your way too 💜 💙
I am from Jamaica and I am fear to do it , Big up your mother Alec I am feeling so good that your mother stand for you , Brian I a love how you stand up for your husband Alec as a Jamaican husband to be at that time .
Yes my mother was truly an Angel and helped me in being able to adjust after coming out.
Keep on winning and shinning
Thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing your stories. I can relate to both of you guys. Keep spreading the love and positivity.
We appreciate you for taking the time to watch our stories. We’re so happy you could relate to them too. Definitely a testament to the fact that none of us are alone. We definitely will. Always love! Much love to you too Kem 💜
Thank you both for sharing your story and your bravery. Alec story hit home because that is many LGBT jamaican story.
It truly was our pleasure. The support we get from you all is what keeps our will to continue these conversations our community needs to have more of. Thanks for supporting!
congrats guys you are such in inspirtation to many people. love is love and as you said everyone has to find his own version of happyness ... big hugs from Belgium
Thank you so much ☺️. We definitely believe so and just want to spread that message as far as we can. Big hugs from us too!
Can I just say how heartwarming and lovable you both are!! Your positive and genuine energy radiates through the screen. Alec, thank you for being so transparent in your coming out story. You guys not only have a new subsriber in me, but a new supporter in you guys as well. :-)
Hey Marc! First off, we both just want to give you a warm welcome to our little family here on CZcams. We are humbled by your words and truly appreciate you reaching out and showing us some love in a world that often times does the opposite. Thanks so much and sending love and blessings your way man! 🙏
Love your story!
Thank you so much!
Omg I love Degrassi! I grew up watching that show too, Paige and Alex made me realize I was different, as well as this other show South of Nowhere on “ TheN” now called Teennick channel.
I remember south of nowhere too! Thank god for “The N/Noggin” cuz if it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t have seen any sort of pre teen appropriate representation that I needed growing up. I’m really grateful I did have that else my development might have been a very different story!
@@MeetTheMazelins I agree 💯, that show helped me as well through my development too, FYI beautiful couple, love both of you coming out stories, keep it going ! I’m subscribed now.
@@lovelivenic4606 thanks for the compliments sub 😊! And welcome to the family! Excited to continue sharing with you all
After watching both parts of y'all's coming out stories. I realized that there's bits and pieces of your stories that are similar than mine. Thank you for spreading positivity and sharing y'all's life to the world. I appreciate you and hope have a great rest of your week.
Thanks so much Leah. It's always so funny how we all really do have so many similarities when it comes to our struggle coming out. I'm hoping your end result was more on the positive side though as we know that isn't necessarily always the case. Much love 💜
I like your videos guys. On my free time i just binge watch you guys. Yall just adorable and amazing couple. I haven't come out myself I'm afraid to be rejected by my family
I celebrate and appreciate you guys.
I am trini,rican and bajan Bigups
We appreciate that so much! Big up to you as well! Much love 💜
I love y'all so much, cried for half of this💖🥺
We hope it was happy tears! Can’t thank you enough for the support. Nothing but love for you too! 🏳️🌈💜
I love JFlag and the work they are doing.
I am forever indebted because they played a huge role in me taking the next step of my journey to accepting myself completely and giving me purpose at the same time in seeking to pay it forward 🏳️🌈
@@MeetTheMazelins I have worked with them am truly impressed with their resilience and sticktoitness. Yes I am 🇯🇲and mek u my own words 🤣🤣
I am too amidst all the obstacles they keep on pushing! Haha u know that’s how it has to go sometimes 😂. Message was communicated clearly and that’s all that matter 😆
Great couple I like what you said at the end you can’t hurt me with something that I have already admitted to the world , god bless both of you and always stay in love cause love always win 🥇🙏🙏🌞🌞
Thanks so much Dennis. And it’s so true…once we have taken control of our own power no one can take that away from us. Much love to you 💜!
Thanks so much Dennis. And it’s so true…once we have taken control of our own power no one can take that away from us. Much love to you 💜!
Alec how does your culture accept gay relationships? What was and is it like for you growing up gay and how did you manage your sexuality and emotions?
How did you feel with your sexuality mentally emotionally and spiritually? At the end of the day you are still Alec and Brian 2 men whose only difference is your sexual preference. Your goals ambition purpose are still the same but you chose a male to fulfil and compliment you on this journey. Enjoy the journey and each other. And keep learning cuz life never stops teaching.❤🙏your new England friend
Hello guys I was watching your wedding on TV and I could not leave a comment and it made me cry I am straight I stumbled on your video by watching other CZcamsrs and I really like you guys Brian remind me of my husband who passed away the first expression that people get when they see him is that he looks mean but when they get to know him he's the sweetest thing. Alec ? I have not seen a video where it tells what kind of job you were doing before u got married the treats you made at your wedding I said he must had been a chef. Brian do not take this the wrong way but I think if you would cut your beard down a little it will bring out the handsomest more I always laugh and say not only you but people who has a very short haircut and a long beard it looks like the head is turned upside down still love you guys I'm going to keep watching and catch up as much as I can❤
Alec! Loving the channel! So much strength and purpose🤎🙌🏾
Thank you so much friend 🤗. Means a lot coming from you! 🙌🏾 💜
I ❤ Love u guys.Very happy 😊 for u.Continue to live your best life 💖. U have a friend 💖 That support you in B-More (Maryland)
Thank you so much for the kind words Jacquelyn. We are happy to know that too! 💜
Just finished watching a few of your videos and saw your Subscriber count jump within the last couple of days (I think). Your stories are amazing and I'm so glad you shared it with us.
Allow me to help boost your sub count. 😉
Yes it definitely did! We aren’t even sure what happened but literally in the last week it tripled and we are so humbled. It really has been our pleasure sharing with you guys and also having people share with us. Lots more to come. And thanks for the love 😊. Sending love your way too!
@@MeetTheMazelins thanks for the love! I really hope you both do well on here! Congrats on the engagement☺☺
Thank you. This was a very deep and meaningful story. Thanks again
Thank you for taking the time to take it in Munyaradzi. Much love to you 💜
I’m so happy for y’all I wish yall nothing but the best congratulations
Thank you so much Christian 💜
Love love love this episode ❤️❤️
Hmmm I wonder if I could take a wild guess why 😝
So very interesting! I love hearing coming out stories. You guys deserve each other, and I wish you the very best of luck!
Trust me, we feel very blessed! Thanks so much 💜
I just love the intro
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Thank you for sharing your story Alec
Happy to share! Thanks for your support.
Thanks for this Alec. So relatable for so many in the community. Thank you both for sharing
And thanks to you guys for supporting and encouraging us as always ❤️
💓💓💓💓💓💕💕💕 loved every moment of these two videos! Definitely helpful and inspiring. Thank you both!💓
We are so glad! Thanks for watching and for the kind words! 💜
Love you guys, always! 💜💜💜
We love you sooo much too Geri 💜💜💜
You are such a beautiful pair of guys, both emotionally and physically. Thank you so much for sharing, not only these but also other parts of your life together. I wish you only the best for your future. 😘😘 It still horrifies me that your safety was even a potential issue! When will people in this world grow up and mind their own business! You really are beautiful in every way.
Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰. We feel so much love and acceptance in this space that we really never expected and really motivates us to continue spreading our story for others who can relate, and even for others who can’t do they can see what it’s like walking a different path.
It is sad that safety is a legitimate concern for just “being” or living our truth. But unfortunately that has been and still is the reality in this world, when you are a minority of any kind, whether defined by race, culture, sexual orientation or gender identity, etc. But it’s good to see that there are many working towards inclusion, understanding and acceptance on many fronts and choose love everyday when they wake up. That to us is encouraging.
Thanks so much for the love! And sending love your way too 💜
Very inspirational 🎉🎉
🙏🙏🙏 thank you 😊
Beautiful video ❤️
Thank you 😊 🙏
Beautiful stories. Keep inspiring Jamaicans and other like minded folks 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Great video.
Thank you Paul 🙏🏽
I'm from Antigua and I knw how coming out can be the whole horror of it. Keep been be-you-tiful. Love u both
Thank you Natasha for that beautiful reminder. Hopefully by people sharing their stories we make it easier for other generations growing up to have the process be easier and know they have a community of people who share their experiences as well. 😊🥰
Great video, 😘
Thank you 🙏 🙏
Thanks for sharing ❤
Thanks for watching!
Live your truth, love ❤️ wins 🌈.
Say no more! We definitely will! #lovewins ♥️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜
I used to watch Degrassi, too.
I love y'all so much guys
Thanks for taking the time out to comment and send some love our way! We really love the support u guys give us 💜
Congratulations 🍾🎊🎉🎈
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Oh it’s Alec. I think I wrote it wrong somewhere in the comments.
I am very sorry about that Alec.
Sending my love ❤️🫶
Haha that’s ok. It’s no biggie. Doesn’t bother me much as I know your kind words are directed at me. That’s what matters most! Much love 💜
Waiting for the next video! Cuz! ❤️
It will be here in less than 3 hours!!!
I just wish I can have this kinda of ❤
We hope that you do find it as well. Everyone deserves love but we know it definitely isn’t the easiest thing to find. We hope you find exactly what you have been looking for! Our hearts go out to you and hope when the time is right it will come your way 💜
As a heterosexuals guy, I could never understand why heterosexuals' feel so offended by people in the LGBT community...Why be offended by people choices in life????.... I think it's guys not confident with their sexuality or just DL.... In the Caribbean I know it is rough being GAY, I watched guys getting physically abused... I remembered in College we had this guy from Jamaica transferring and this guys was out to make Gay guys life a living hell and funny enough he had no problem with LGBT females... I use to laugh at others being bullied, and when meeting my wife who was studying social service I realized I was fueling the fire by entertaining this fool... Live your life..... Anyways just came across your video..... Hope you keeping safe over there, cause I witness the struggle
We really appreciate your perspective as a heterosexual man. It really helps in being able to spread the message of inclusivity when it comes from the mouths of people outside of the queer community as well. There is definitely strength in numbers. It definitely has not been an easy journey for either of us, as for many in the community, but we definitely have seen so much improvement in society and are optimistic about the future that the progress will continue. We are keeping as safe as we can though, and luckily have a lot of support locally. Thanks for reaching out, we really appreciate the sentiments! Take care to you and your wife and thanks for spreading love!
Bryan , I was able to relate to your experience about coming out .
Alex and brain your coming-out story something else but I want you guys to listen to this song by Travis Greene all things are working for my good it is intentional
Thank you. We definitely will try to give it a listen Marva. 💜
I just want to say to you I understand where you're coming from but my growing up in Jamaica was not easy I wasn't even having an affair with nobody They tried to stole me I had to fight for my life and trust me there's a God up there he always protect me so the time now in Jamaica is kind of a little bit different but And the seventies going into the 8th was not easy at all I'm happy for you I'm proud for the 2 of you because life is changing everything is changing and just keep your head up I'm so proud of you the boat of you
Hey Mark! I can only imagine how difficult it would have been growing up gay in Jamaica in that time. I've always told people even when I was growing up Jamaica felt like a very different place than it is now for gay men. I've been lucky enough to grow up in a time where we have seen some level of change for the better. I can only hope that it continues that way though and that one day we can live freely in the country of our birth. Im glad though that God carried you through and you have lived to be able to talk about your experience. Thanks so much for the kind words and sending love your way too! 💜
You guys are beautiful. I hope Jamaica will change one day
Thanks so much Harry 😊. We truly do hope so as well. In the meantime we will continue to love out loud 💜
I loved Degrassi
Really was such an important show for me growing up!
It hurts my heart what gay people had to go through
It really is difficult for so many of us. Luckily we both can say we made it out on the other ends of our stories with some sort of positive resolve. So for that we are grateful!
Most of my friends are straight and the things they say about gay people,it actually turns off and it's really difficult to come out I guess I have to be in the closet for a long time,but not free
We’re sorry to hear that you feel as though you are struggling and have no way out in regards to you group of friends. But I believe that if people really love you that even though complicated the love should speak more volumes than any differences you may have. Sometimes in this life we unfortunately have to lose to win and that includes people in our lives. I hope that you are able to find some sense of community with others in the future though where you feel you can be your full self without having to worry. It’s not an easy process by any means and you can go at your pace so no need to rush. We wish you luck with your journey and know we are here still if you do want to ask anything 💜
I like How Brian be there for you . I am from Jamaica and I tell my self some Jamaican do not show love to each other especially when it come to love straight or not I not even do not love the work gay they should have a different name for it , you both of you are my role model . may God bless you both , I watch the wedding video wow it sell off , long life and blessing in your marriage life both of you
We appreciate the love and are touched by your words! Thanks so much.
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Thanks so much for that Rhonda 🥰💜
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Are you still friends with the guy from the beach?
I am! We acknowledge each other as family now even. He has showed up for me countless times since, even when people have come to him about my sexuality. He’s proudly said publicly that regardless of my sexuality he loves me like a brother. He is singlehandedly the reason I really had faith in being able to come out to straight male friends later in my life. I was actually the best man at his wedding two years ago as well. So we are very much still friends 🙂
@@MeetTheMazelins Awww 💓 i am so happy for you guys.
@@nichole1659 thanks so much. I really couldn’t ask for a better support system in my corner 💜
Very beautiful people, of course I love you
Did you get married with civil or religious wedding?
Thank you so much. It was a civil union
I wanted to hear why the female friend couldnt support Alec. Did she explain?
Hey Lorenzo. Well tbh the only explanation given at the time was because of teachings of the church and being uncomfortable with the thought. We had stopped talking for months after that. After posting this video we have been able to speak and agree to disagree on certain things, but made a commitment to try and work on accepting each other for who we are and moving forward with a more open and honest friendship while re-learning how to interact with one another in the healthiest way possible. Hope that answers the question! Much love 💜
@@MeetTheMazelins Wow Yes that fully answered my question.. Thanks.
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Thank you! Sending lots of love your way 💜
@@MeetTheMazelins Thank you bros for sharing your Beautiful Loving Relationship 🤗
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How bad is it really for gays in Jamaica?
Well the scale of experiences is very vast depending on what part of Jamaica you are in. I must say that admittedly in the last 5 or so years Jamaica has improved much when it comes to accepting persons of the LGBT community. Visitors generally have little to no problem if they are the popular areas of the island. However for those that live here the experience is quite different. Some may have the means to stay out of places where they may face major discrimination, but for most they are still scarred from how bad things used to be and believe showing any signs of “gayness” is a threat to their lives to put it frankly. Most of us regardless of where we come from can probably share several stories of our lives being threatened by the assumption alone. So it’s not common for people to “come out” in Jamaica. So even though things have improved in recent years it definitely is far from what we all would hope it would be, particularly for those living here. We hope that helped answer your question Gregory 🙂
Alec, a scorpio!? I'm sorry, I had very bad experiences with Scorpio men. They are cheaters and manipulators. Never again would I want to be with a Scorpio. Hopefully, Alec is changed now for the better. Not to be mean or anything but just my opinion.
That’s pretty unfortunate that you’ve had such a negative experience with Scorpios but i don’t judge people based on their signs. Alec has been the best thing that has happened to me and obviously one of the best relationships I’ve ever been in (hence the engagement). People that know Alec and have known him for his entire life have nothing but great things to say about him so there would be nothing for him to change. I love him for who he is then now and in the future. I hope you have better luck finding love with whichever sign your heart desires also thanks for your concern 💜
@@MeetTheMazelins Well, you're right. We can't judge a person based on a zodiac sign... I used to feel the same before but then I noticed a pattern. But anyways, that's just my life. May you two always remain together, happy and prosperous. You two are a very handsome couple and I've subscribed here because I did connect with you. All the best and lots of love ❤️
And We really value the support! Nothing but love! 😊
@Layla Cartelina hey if you know somebody that has Beyoncé coin that wants some PR services don’t hesitate to hook us up! 😂. Thank you though, we try 💁🏽♂️
You guys are amazing I saw the video on Instagram and I immediately started following ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ don’t stop sharing the love
🥰🥰🥰. Thanks for watching and welcome to the fam! As long as people see value in what we share we will definitely continue 💜