What Is Sex Like for Straight Men? | Sex Ed
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CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro
0:28 How often do you think about sex?
0:47 When did you lose your virginity? How was it?
1:58 Do you get emotionally attached to girls you have sex with?
2:35 How much do you understand the female anatomy?
3:21 Can you describe what it feels like to ejaculate?
3:49 Do you care if a girl is fully shaved down there?
4:12 Do you care if your partner doesnât finish?
5:15 Have you ever questioned your sexuality?
6:49 Have you ever been self conscious about your penis size?
8:12 Are you afraid to try butt stuff?
9:32 How do you define consent?
10:30 Have you ever pressured someone to sleep with you?
12:08 Have you ever felt pressured to have sex?
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My heart goes out to the guy who told the girl no, but she didnât listen. Girls need to be more aware that we can coerce too.
@@yes.5142 No you
@@AreebProductions bruh shup
@@Alexjamesfreirik1556 bruh! Get a life
So true. I realized that I did something similar in a past relationship and looking back now I regret it wholeheartedly. We definitely need to be more understanding and accountable of this.
coercion requires some threat. It isn't just pressuring. You can pressure someone into sex or rape someone without coercion tho.
Interviewer: Can you name all the parts down there?
Guy: Iâm not a scientist
That made me laugh đ€Ł I was like bro đ
Lmfaoooooo
I am laughing so hard right now đ€Ł
I never knew any woman who could name all the guy parts correctly either...they might have known the â street nameâ, but the medical name was out of the question.
@@jamielynnwallace1125 yeaaaa but they keep our parts in global and national conversations. My thinking is that you ought to know how it works before you go chasing or trying to control it. lol
"Do you care if a girl is fully shaved down there?"
Guests don't get to redecorate.
Best line ever haha I'm gonna use that if I ever need to đ
i love how the guy in the beanie said he didnt believe it was his place & i wish all had that mindset.
Also it's so wierd like is she a child? Why do yall want it fully shaved
@@danielorlovaquinn
smooth skin feels nice i won't lie. i'm a guy and i get rid of my own hair down there. although i don't care if they have any if they want it
@Bob Birdsong Even when I've shaved mine, for some reason it's only smooth the first few hours - then it's all prickly and itchy and horrible đŹ
âI mean how much stuff could be down thereâ
that killed me. THEREâS A LOT OF STUFF down there
that whole segment I was cracking up
Iâve been scrolling for this comment!đłđ€Ż
I was dying at that bit. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
What's down there
i was like đ
It's good for women to see a male POV and vice versa.
@Joshua Barnett down bad
Women (feminists especially) won't listen to this sadly
@@jethroteece4750 thatâs flat out untrue. Misandrists wouldnât listen, any real feminist would
@@jethroteece4750 As a feminist, I listened to it. Try again.
@Joshua Barnett Relevance?
Dude in the dark blue hoodie seems like a really nice person
He's smart, getting good vibes from him
Yup I agree
Ikr
He was in the biden voters spectrum video
Was absolutely enchanted by him. The people closest to him must be really proud. I would be proud to know him too..
I didn't realise how much I just love listening to men talk honestly and vulnerably. And it sucks that men are portrayed to be sex-crazed and down to do it with any woman. That can lead to harmful stuff.
Yeah, and it is really ironic to just realise that women are the real sex-crazed gender, not men.
@@smendes2004 I think that's harmful too. We shouldn't assume anyone is sex-crazed. Most people enjoy sex but not all the time and not with anyone. That's the take away.
@Amazing World đđ
They perpetuate that stereotype the most đđ
@Amazing World Are you tryna prove her wrong? Lmao
THE GUY WITH THE GLASSES AND THE SEPTUM IS SUCH A KING OMG
I need his ig handle. Heâs so fine đđđđđđđ
@@siyakolisistanaccount5378 yesss someone pls đđđ
It sucks that men seemingly are forced to act like sex is the most important thing to them even if it isnât
Well said
yeah, and some of them believe it's true and it matters if u a virgin or not
Sex is important, love too
I can relate so much to this comment, it's incredible
Agreed! And men as a whole are portrayed as sex-focused in lots of media, making it a stereotype that some feel they have to live up to if they wanna be seen as masculine. Sex is important, but only a part of life!
Iâm so sorry for the mexican guy that was raped. people need to understand that consent goes both ways, it doesnât matter the gender, no consent is ALWAYS rape.
racist
@@hoesmad3225 How is it racist? The guy himself said he's Mexican. So it's not like op is assuming his ethnicity.
Which guy?
@@mayooo1516 its a joke foo chillđ
@@hoesmad3225 I am chilling, I just didnt really take it as a joke cuz calling someone a racist is pretty big deal
Iâm a straight woman whoâs a hardcore consent advocate, and I have to say that these menâs responses to whether *theyâd* ever been asked for consent really opened my eyes! Without realizing it, I think I had to some level unconsciously swallowed the cultural assumption that âmen always want itâ (though logically, I know thatâs not true). Will definitely be mindful about asking next time!
Nothing wrong with that. I am a straight guy and I seldom want âit,â and, well, you did kind of just assume/stereotype; _however_ , you did acknowledge this and grow, so imo there is nothing wrong with that and you should actually be proud of yourself for being so willing to change.
Pretty sure everyone is straight here lmao
There's a definitely a stereotype that society tells us that men want sex 24/7. That they think about it all the time and that they always want it. I'm sure there are women who think about it all the time too and want it a lot. I think about it a lot and definitely want it a lot but I want it with somebody that I care about. I do agree that consent goes both ways. It's unfortunate that there are people out there who say "fuck consent" and will stop at nothing to get what they want.
Bottom line is: Consent is hot. Rape is not.
@@JustLindaThings we donât think about it 24/7, more like a couple times per day
@@DKMetcaIf I'm sure some guys do though. Especially the perverted ones who will take everything you say and make it dirty.
As a 18 yo virgin male who has never been in couple, I found the pressure of the society overwhelming. Every time I meet a person that i didnât talk for a while they would ask me if I had a girlfriend. Or my friends who are joking around with the fact that iâm a virgin. They donât really understand that I want to learn to love myself before wanting to jump in a relationship that needs me to love someone else.
You are heading to the right path. âșđ
thatâs definitely the best way to go, love yourself first.
One of the best comments Iâve read. Keep on this path and donât let societal pressure get to you. đ
The same. I believe everything happens at is own pace.
I'm in your shoes, although I'm not sure I'll ever be ready for a partner. My advice is to be proud of your choices instead of being ashamed; after all, you're making a wise decision. The pressure to get a partner quickly ultimately ends in a broken mess of a relationship.
"How much stuff can there be down there?"
Alot. It's like a map of disneyland đ
WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide. Take the hint, dear wai
Babies are made down there- how could he think there isn't a lot of stuff T-T
They were all so clueless
Iâm a woman and I (!!!) donât even have a clue. Lol. Hope that makes you feel less uneducated.
the whole pacific ocean
The guy in the blue hoodie needs to be protected at all costs đ„șđ„ș
@@almondchip3490 what how
@@almondchip3490 do you mean the guy at 8:39?
I had the same problem and it was emberresing but when i learned to reacts and the right ones came it was easy
@@almondchip3490 you're confusing him with a different person. you mentioned the omegle jubillee video in another comment, but that's not the same guy as here.
There's two guys with a blue hoodie, which one?
The guy with the nose ring is so real, he shares a lot and I appreciate his honesty and openness. He knows himself and says things respectfully and objectively. I like his approach!
8:10 the guy saying that men also look at porn and think âi canât compete with thatâ was something we needed to hear and blew my mind
True
Tbh, I had no clue women thought like that at all
men think that way more than women do ......
@@Bayo106 study?
@@Bayo106 How would you know that? Have you been in both positions? People compare themselves to other people all the time regardless of gender.
the fact that the men were so perplexed at the thought of their partner asking them for consent was heart breaking. and for the man that was raped, made it even more clear how much consent is needed for both parties
I felt the same way. Broke my heart. With both of the sexual partners I've had, I've asked for consent, even if they were the initiated it. could never touch someone intimately or do anything intimate without their consent.
@@rebeccamace1534 Everyone is different, some communicate consent non-verbally as things heat up (Woman grabs his crotch to signal escalation, man grabs her crotch in response). It's always good to ask to make sure, but once a couple knows each other non-verbal communication can be okay too.
I think it's because people don't automatically assume that lack of consent means rape- meaning rape is a violent, painful act. But that's only in certain circumstances. Rape isn't always physically painful, but it's still damaging either way. Just like you don't have to hit someone to abuse them. Sex is an intimate act for everyone involved, so therefore everyone needs to be respectful. This doesn't just apply to men, it also applies to women. I once had sex when I was too inebriated to consent, I couldn't even voice the word no let alone get him off me. Was it painful? No. It even felt nice at times (from what I remember) but I felt dirty and trapped. The awful thing is, I don't even think he realized what was happening, and that's because we aren't taught about consent. Our view of rape is usually a worst-case scenario so the rest gets swept under the rug.
@@calliestreet1178 Would you agree that a new word should be made to distinguish intent? Like Negligent Rape, in cases where "The awful thing is, I don't even think he realized what was happening, and that's because we aren't taught about consent" as you said.
same. I agree. very sad....
It's so sad that most of them have never been asked for consent by their sexual partners, and one of them has even been assaulted. This is not okay
To be fair, the person initiating the sexual act usually should be the one asking for consent. Most of the time thats the guys so it makes sense that they were the ones asking.
@@lawrencelim9331 exactly!! Like if ur already on top of me.. Iâm kind of gonna make some assumptions
@@lawrencelim9331 Usually, guys are expected to initiate the sexual act, so I think they often neglect their own desire for consent. Probably due to peer pressure.
They could have been the ones that pursued and initiated sex with their partner, usually it works that way.
"If you're on top of me, I'm gonna make some assumptions" imagine if the one using that argument was a man.
It's simple. You said you don't want to do it, your partner should stop.
I don't like how these comments imply that nothing happened and he's exaggerating
I thought I would be cringing my way through this video but these guys gave genuine answers and really opened my mind to the male perspective when it comes to sex. I learned a lot from this and it was overall fun to watch.
You didn't cringe at the answers about the female anatomy?
@@leandrog2785 Don't get me wrong. There were defo some moments I cringed at but overall not as bad as I thought.
A Lana Stan !
that sexist to assume things only because they are men.
Why did you assume that? Bcoz they're men? Haven't answered.
âI think I did my due diligence and as such I think I came to a definite conclusion. Iâm team vagina definitely.â DUDE that got me weak!! That guy is my favorite
now you wonât know why I got that many likes&replies lol
Honestly
Forreal
@@almondchip3490 what video?
@@almondchip3490 wait huh?
No such thing as perfect awnser just preference and opinion
Jubilee has actually taught me more about society than my actual school
bro momento
School is not supposed to teach you about society in the first place...
@@mirabella2154 school is a form of socialisation...
Ikr
@@mirabella2154 us schools doesn't teach about society? Thats ruff. We go through all kinds of stuff in society. History, government, elections, newspapers, how law and order works, sexual education.. and so on. Lots of stuff regarding society.
All these guys make me feel safe. Each is so comfortable with their sexuality and it makes me so happy to see them take the questions seriously and answer them genuinely. Make this the norm. Also the fact that most of them have not been asked for their consent made me want to cry. I personally have never asked cause it never crossed my mind, but after this, i am fs going too start. Love this content
"I'm not a scientist or a major in anatomy" BRO YOU DONâT GOTTA BE
The black guy in the blue shirt is so cool, he's just so relaxed
Gayest straight man Ive ever seen
@@Be1smaht ???? this phrase makes absolutely no sense
He lies about his sexuality. As a gay i can tell. Unless he doesn't know that yet.
@@tiktokslavversion8022 you may be gay but im sorry , you do not speak for all gay people. He seems perfectly straight to me, he just doesnt have a fear and sense of masculinity
@@Be1smaht such stereotype
The black man in the blue sweatshirt NEEDS to do voiceovers ! His voice is sooo soothing and coolđ
Fr
He def my fav
It's that lovely whistle in the S
He has the best answers
He sounds like Jamal from on my block đ
I can't say enough how horrible it feels when you partner keeps trying to convince you to have sex even though you said no already. You feel guilty and sometimes push yourself to do it. It sucks.
Consent is a two way street. My bf and I constantly ask eachother whether we are comfortable with what is happening. And contrary to the stereotype, he has turned me down once or twice. Because he is also human and sometimes doesnt feel like havig sex and thats fine!
Consent can also be communicated nonverbally
@@Luxembourgish no tbh . It would kinda create problems because you know some people consider flirting as a yes when sometimes it's not . So it's better if we VERBALLY ask the other person before doing it
@@stupidcupcake8066 It's considerate to verbally ask, but couples who choose to initiate s3x with nonverbal communication aren't lacking consent.
That's the most cringe thing I've ever read. Lmao.
Just walk up to him without da clthes and thatâll get him đ€Ł
I felt so sorry for the guy with the bow tie when he said that he couldnât make his girlfriend come even though he tried his best and did a lot of research. So, to all men out there: not all women can orgasm easily - some donât even orgasm a single time during their entire life. But whether they orgasm or not doesnât necessarily depend on you. It also depends on them, on how good they know their own body and on whether or not they communicate what they like. As always, communication is key. If youâre not sure that your girl is enjoying it, just ask her what she likes and how she touches herself. And to all women: if you didnât come but still enjoyed it, tell your partner that the sex was good! Sex doesnât necessarily have to end with an orgasm - it just has to feel good
As a guy can I ask a question, is about 5 inches good enough for most women?
@@lifeisshrt7929 I canât speak for all women, but I can tell you this: sex is not only about penetration. Many women need clitoris stimulation (rather than penetration) to come or to experience pleasure (I hope CZcams is not gonna censor my comment lol), and speaking with some female friends of mine Iâve realised that several of us donât even see penetrative sex as the best part of a sexual encounter. Iâve also got some male friends with bigger penises who told me that it hurts their girlfriends to have penetrative sex with them. So Iâd say you have no need to worry about your penis size. If you want women to enjoy sex with you, try to ask them what they like and focus on it, and donât take for granted that they want to have penetrative sex. And if they do want penetrative sex and think that your penis is too small, you can still have fun together with dildos or other sex toys
@@lifeisshrt7929 honestly i would say yes. as long as you're in tune with what your sexual partner likes and dislikes, size is inconsequential.
One important thing to consider is if a woman is not in tune with her body or if she has some sort of mental blocks it can really stop her from enjoying sex or having an orgasm. Im reading this book come as you are and some people have a really hard time because that's just how your brain works....and I think that just means doing some personal work and maybe seeing a sex therapist or something.
"Sex doesn't have to end with orgasm, it just has to feel good"đđ»
Listen, if glasses and nose ring guy is ever on the east coast, I would cancel everything to have coffee with him
ughhh i know right
Yess
I wish you could. Such a wholesome comment. You could have said something dirty, but it was such a real and pure comment. Love that. âđ
Same. And his voice is just đ©đđ»
or peg him lol
I think the "pressure someone into sex" thing is happening so often without guys even realizing that they're doing anything wrong... especially as other guys pressure them to do it
This! As a girl I donât have a lot of experience with guys, but in my case three out of four have pressured me actually. And I bet they didnât know it.
Loved, loved, loved the transparency. It genuinely made me so happy. We NEED more of this from straight men.
We just need more straight men
At 11:58 you can clearly see the guy admitting that he was sexually abused....Just look how his expressions changes and how nervous he is to talk about it. I pray he is doing well.
I feel so horrible for him. His demeanor changed, his body scrunched up, his voice became shaky :(
That part hurt my heart. Definitely praying for him. đđŸđ„ș
its probably humiliating for him coz of the fact that he could get judged by the internet
đ„șđ„ș
The curly hair guy has such a hot way of expressing himself
He's super attractive
@@Bimtavdesign right?? x.x
He's FFOOIINNEEE
I KNOW RIGHT like heâs so charismatic wow
For me it's the guy with the light grey hoodie
alright so everyone has a crush on the man in the blue hoodie now right?
And the long curly hair đ€Ł
The curly hair guy with the jacket is absolutely so gorgeous. He looks like those fairytale boys who come and take you away far from all the sufferings to pleasure land. Gotta manifest to see him irl at least once in my life
This is actually really interesting to watch as a women đ
Periodt, literally đ
They really are so confused on female anatomy lmao
*woman
@@laurtary and women are confused about male anatomy
it really is!
Honestly, this might be an unpopular opinion, but I love how the blonde guy with the glasses owned his mistake. He owned the fact that he had pressured a partner for sex in the past, and doesnât feel good about it. Good for him. Heâs becoming a better, more mature person.
Yes! His maturity is so poignant and touching
And I love the fact that he didn't blame it on his age
Lots of men did that in the past because they themselves felt pressured to âget bitchesâ âlose the v cardâ etc. the pressure on men to be manly hurts women, but also men! Glad he realized what he did was wrong and owned up to it. Iâve been coerced a lot in my life, I wonder if the guys that did it recognize that itâs wrong like he did.
@@stopbeinginsecure4786 this! I feel like not enough people are aware of how bad pressuring men into being the s3xual and manly standard it's harmful for us women as well. Or these phrases like ''when she says no it means yes, women like to be chased etc'' these are such harmful stereotypes for both
. Also I'm so sorry you've been through coercion
why should that be an unpopular opinion lol
The black guy in the blue hoodie has a great personality! I like him so much!!
They picked a good group for this conversation. đ I liked their answers and it was eyeopening in a way. We really do live in a sex crazy society where if your friends aren't pressuring you the world is.
the guy who was raped gave me so much anxiety when he reacted to that question cause he had all the nervous, panicked ticks that almost threw me into a panic attack.
yes! his shoulders especially were so tense
I thought it was just me
@bey which one? Could u please tell me the minute
I almost cried when that part came in. Not bcs of I was empathetic of what heâs going through (not that Iâm not), but bcs that all of that ticks is just so uncomfortable
@@sharonzhong could you elaborate? i donât want to misinterpret your comment
It's crazy that everyone dismisses r*pe when it's a woman doing it. That guy who talked about being forced into something when clearly stating no. I feel so bad for him.
I agree. We need to talk about it more
@3D Animation Geek wtf? You are the problem dude
@3D Animation Geek bro...
@3D Animation Geek itâs comments like this that allow r*pe to still continue today. Iâm 5â11 and stronger than a lot of guys I know. Itâs absolutely possible
@3D Animation Geek Talk about ignorance
love the vulnerability everyone is presenting. it's hard to be this open with others for many people. Appreciate them all being so open.
When one of the guys said he had pressured his girlfriend it hit me hard. I was pressured by my boyfriend and he always justified it by saying we were in a relationship. And like the other guy said, even if you say it clearly some people don't stop.
Guy in the blue hoodie seems like the most caring partner a girl could wish for. You a real one, man.
thank you for typing dude and not black man etc, a lot fo people express it that way and I feel like it is unecessary
there are two men wearing blue hoodies. but I think these are all pretty dateable dudes.
@@shaun1364 that's your preconceived notions talking
@@shaun1364 hes gay or bi
@@N.O.A_YT I don't think so. Masculine gay men and bi men exist. I think he's straight he's just not the typical masculine man and that's ok.
The Guy With A Nose Ring And Glasses Is So Handsome.
yes
As a comment section, I think we have collectively named him blue hoodie guy, but I totally agree. Heâs also really nice đ
The more sensible things about sex he said the hotter he got lmao
@@annemcdougall919 Thank you for drawing the connection so I don't have to rewatch the video to figure out who "blue hoodie" or "blue shirt" guy is. Saw 3 top comments about this person without having any clue who was wearing what. I'm watching their faces. Unless their outfit is insane, my brain doesn't even register their clothing.
yes fr
11:10 I like that he was honest because so many guys are pushy and would never admit it
Iâm seriously falling for the guy with the long curly hair.
Respect to the guys that were honest about pressuring someone into sex.
why should we respect that?
@@fionagallagherapologist5968 for honestly realising their mistakes, taking responsibility for it, speaking out about it and regretting it... they probably taught a lot to young single men watching this video. We need to give people the chance to change and do better.
@@fionagallagherapologist5968 You will never solve a problem if you bury people in shame for their mistakes. Them admitting it shows hope for change.
Only House Stark Lives Matter that actually makes sense, thanks for clarifying :)
@@onlyhousestarklivesmatter Yes, well worded :)
â however theyre packaged iâm w/ it â best comment said
I wish I'd heard more of that mentality growing up. Society in general tells us vaginas are gross (usually to sell us some product or service), and being a straight woman I believed them. I didn't realize people can find it attractive regardless until my second serious relationship...
Sympppp
Quotes*
@@moshroomba That was a year ago chump, my grammar is better now, thanks.
@@picklepop44 what? im sorrry if i dont get the joke but i dont understand what you meant
Honestly one of the most genuine videos I've watched in a while.
"how ever they are packaged I'm with it" That was a good answer XDD
the worst pressure is when someone is basically asking for no0ds and they try to make you feel guilty for being uncomfortable.. do NOT be afraid to say no and block that person. (iâve done this just recently)
Yes!
Absolutely, never send noods to anyone
He/she could exploit you later, you never know
(But if you must, hide your face)
How do you define pressure in this scenario? For instance, if you ask "why" but you accept that they arent going to do it, is that pressure as well?
Never ever send nudes unless ur comfortable and itâs someone youâve known for a long time / ur significant other cuz ppl are crazy
@@cottoncandace7704 must?? Lol. If you "must" send nudes-- definitely get out of that situation if you can tf-
Also, people can send nudes if it's sexy to them , like yeah be aware of the dangers but if someone still wants to send nudes, that's on them .
why is no one talking about the guy with the long curly hair??? heâs gorgeous and so genuine!!
Thank you!
@@josuesorto3453 hope you are doing good!â€
@@elenol1310 thank you! I hope youâre doing well too!
he is so under rated ! and the guy with the cap , are they siblings or something , pure charisma!
Heâs fine asf
I love how honest these guys are. It was a breath of fresh air to see these guys express themselves and answer these questions with an open mind.
I love how open and honest these guys are. I wish more guys were like this and not afraid to open up about how they feel.
People watching this like :-
- in bed
- not in a full screen
- reading comment
So accurate đđ
Are you stalking me ?đ€Ł
How dare you call me out like that.
you got everything right lmao
Nope. On my TV on Chromecast
The guy in the black jacket has such a tender voice
Yeaa, he's such a sweetheart
Ikr
I like his curly hair đ„ș
Which one with the maroon shirt or blue?
@@DefineMorena yess he looks like richard ramirez kinda lol
I love how honest and unafraid to be vulnerable they all are. Appreciate this video so much
Anything youâd like to know?
At first I thought that I had never asked for consent with a partner and then I noticed that I have always asked for consent and I feel proud of myself! We are never taught to ask if a male partner wants sex, we are taught that they ALWAYS want to do it when in reality, there are times where they don't wanna do it and that is normal!!
Thanks for sharing this with us! :D
Man, preppy guy is such a pure soul. I hope one day he'll succeed in making a woman come.
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damn did you just indirectly roast the guy?đđđ
Heâs not. Weâre just going to disregard that he would put pressure on his girlfriends to have sex? đ
@@seryna6036 so trying to convince your partner who isn't feeling like it, is bad?
@@seryna6036 pressured how?... asking her?
I am so truly sorry to the man who was raped. So so so deeply sorry. I hope that you are able to heal. You matter. We see you and we support you. Your story matters.
Lol
@@jxckedgell3821 ?????? Are you a real person??
What is the timestamp?
@@Ace-uc5cj 11:48
@@rockyblak2 thx
Im so glad you spoke about consent and sexual pressure from the mans perspective because this get oevrlooked way too much.
this was so refreshing to watch and listen to, never quite viewed things from this perspective and I'm so grateful for their honesty
The amount of respect I have for these guys is huge. They all seem like deep, respectful, well-spoken, thoughtful men. I really enjoyed hearing their perspectives, and I hope they are successful and validated in whatever it is they are setting out to do with their lives.
Amen
the two guys that pressured girls into having $3X? such thoughtful gentlemen!
@@chanelghostin6060 I wrote this comment before I finished the video, and did not think to edit it. At the moment I don't even remember most of these people anymore, but I think it goes without saying that I don't condone that kind of behavior, and would be an asshole if I did. I do recall that at least one of the men who did this said he regretted it, and I can only assume that he was telling the truth, and has changed his behavior. I also have to say that I don't know the context that this happened in, but I automatically assumed that the men were already in a relationship when it happened (I may be wrong there), and this is the kind of thing of thing that many partners, male and female, have wrongfully done. If that's the case, then while it's obviously a shitty thing to do, it's not the kind of thing that (like rape) automatically makes you a horrible person. You shouldn't pressure partners into sex, but if you have done it, and realize you are wrong, regret it, and hopefully change and somehow atone for it with your partner, it is forgivable. From the way they were speaking about it, this was my automatic assumption. It didn't seem like it was anything as serious as rape, or blackmail. I thought they were saying they had pressured a partner into it, which is still wrong, nonetheless, but its just not the same thing. The men who did this did express regret for it, and so I assumed that they knew they were wrong, and had changed. I do not believe in holding something against someone if they have done this (although in many cases there should still be consequences; I understand that), which is perhaps why I did not think to edit my comment. Nevertheless, I may be wrong about the situation, I may have misinterpreted, or I may need to watch the video again. So if, after reading this, you still have a problem with my comment, please let me know, and share your perspective with me.
@@goodtimes8229 rape is rape.... and it does make u a horrible person no matter what circumstances. Just bcz theyre in a relationship never makes it ok
@@goodtimes8229 i get where ur coming from but since u arent the victim i dont think its your place to forgive this
As a gay person I love how some straight men these days are more open and confident about their sexuality thatâs a good trait tbh women love that being comfortable enough to know your own self
I think Jubilee is a false representation of the average man. It's a very left-leaning politically correct, tolerant channel. Which isn't bad or good. It just doesn't represent the average.
@Tara but its not..and you're not a man so its not a debate to be had
@Tara it really not.
@@JSaunOfficial
Being tolerant isn't good or bad to you?
@@dee-jh3bl Being good or bad was irrelevant to the point I was making. It was a factual statement, not a judgement call.
This is actually mad informative.
I wish I could b on a show like this, I would feel so much more confident talking about my experiences and being pressured etc. seems very nice to get that sense of someone listening with no judgement
the guy with the blue hoodie lives in my head RENT FREE
Omg same. Sure, he doesnât pay rent but heâs always baking cookies and it smells so good in here. Worth it.
I'd even let him live rent free in my apartment with me đđ
@@Dana-koc he donât want you đ
AAA IKR SAME
@ended era daddy issues? đ your parents didn't love you? đ
Yeah I think a lot of people needed to see this cause there's tons of coverage on women but I think we forget men feel pressures and have issues too (not to downplay or invalidate the womanly struggle) but this really provides a deeper understanding for people and another point of view. Thank you so much for this video Jubilee. Back at it again with the bangers.
Edit: Also the asking for consent!!! All partners should be asking for consent Lets live it up on removing the double standard wagon!! đđđ
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100% agreed
Men dont "forget they have real pressures" - women and feminist media do. The problem is men and women see consent very differently. For instance feminist women believe that someone who willingly consents to sex while intoxicated even with another equally intoxicated person., can retroactively withdraw that consent or not based on how they later feel. To a man this is a absurd idea because it would mean consent was decided later purely on the basis of emotion. It basically reduces adults to children who are incapable of being responsible for their own decisions.
Of course the only way this could work is if it is only used against men - as otherwise every other persons in clubs and bars tonight would be a rapist - but of course it would be pathetic to see men as responsible for womens willing choices. However many women apparently do.
@Wakanda And here is yet another comment which somehow circles absolutely everything back around to being the fault and responsiblity of men.
The fact that you haft to say ânot to downplay or invalidate the womanly struggleâ when mentioning men having issues also is proof that society is truly disgustingđ€ŠđŸââïž
i loved how honest and open these men are:) go off
This was so sweet and nice to watch, love an open conversation like that
This made me think about how we basically have the stereotype that men always want to have sex. I don't think I ever came across a situation either in real life or on the internet/ silver screen where the guy refuses to have sex. It never crossed my mind to ask for his consent... It's mindblowing how many aspects of our lives have been mistreated and overlooked.
Edward Cullen kept refusing Bella sex in twilight lol
It's beacause the general rule is that guys usually approach women more often. They are the ones who ''make the question " in a way.I don't know how else to explain it.
@@sonialuna5604 it's not like twilight was played on every tv screen for decadesđ
Yeah, I think it's because men most of the times are the initiators. So they naturally have already given their consent. But I definitely think it needs to be taught out to women and girls too
honestly, to me, men aren't so different to women. Cuz we are all human, so of course we don't always want to have sex. Plus, consent is wayy better. I don't like doing something without consent nor do I want to be involved in something unless I give consent to my partner.
I really liked how respectfully they all talked about this.
Agree
the bar is on the floor.
Not really, the guy with the bow tie basically admitted that he forced his ex to do something she wasnât comfortable with and he didnât seem sorry about it at all. He even justified it by saying it was fine because he knew her well
It's normal to be respectful đ
I love how open and honest these men are
I love how honest and honest they actually are
"in my first long-term relationship, my girlfriend never had an orgasm. AT LEAST FROM ME."
Oof.
It's okay every woman is different and remember sex doesn't have to end with orgasm, it just has to feel goodâ€ïž
@@user-my8qj I was just pointing to the fact that he implied his girlfriend at the time may have been cheating on him.
@@GadiAllTheWay yeah she's going around the block seeking the pleasure he isn't capable of giving her
i donât think he meant that she cheated on her, more likely heâs talking about her masturbating
@@lisahomann8819 That's a reasonable interpretation. He probably meant that, honestly.
I'm a straight male and I'm almost 22 and I'm still a virgin. I'm not afraid to tell people. I'm waiting until marriage. Not for religious reasons, but because I personally feel sex is the ultimate form of love, so I want to save it to my wife who is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I think there's unfortunately alot of pressure on men to either lose it early, or to regularly have sex. And alot of pressure on women not to have sex, and if you do, you get labelled these horrible things. I wish society would stop plastering sex everywhere. Its a personal and private choice. Nobody's business but the two consenting adults involved.
i respect this .. it's your body and it's your choice
Respect
This is a very mature decision to make, respect to you.
Personally I wouldn't want to marry someone if I don't know whether I'm sexually compatible with her. Good luck!
@@KaIubka does sexuality compatability hold a great weight when deciding a longterm partner? For me it doesn't at all. I'm not in a relationship for the sex, and we could have the worst time having sex but I'd be committed to the relationship regardless.
I love Love LOVE both buys on the blue hoodies!
wow, so much honestly, thanks for sharing this all!
This comment section did not disappoint. I love how you guys were so open I applaud you guys for that.
The comment section is horribly disappointing because they're falsely accusing the guy glasses and bowtie a r@p!st
@Anon, I think you might be reading this wrong because itâs saying that he has been raped. No hate though...I just think you might be seeing things wrong...
@@sadiet8105 Thanks for being respectful! Not talking about that guy, I'm talking about the guy in the bow tie. If you scroll down enough some are falsely accusing him of r@p3, for convincing his GF to have s3x one time. That's not r@p3.
@@Luxembourgish How isn't that rape tho? Just curious, no hate. I'm just confused
@@hanmira If you have only experienced one night stands and tinder you probably wouldnt understand
The gentleman in the blue shirt is soooo sweet!!! I can tell his mama raised him right!
@3D Animation Geek but he said he is straight so why are you so concerned about his sexuality bro??
@3D Animation Geek well I'm sure he doesn't care how he comes off to guys cuz he's straight đ
@3D Animation Geek straight guys are better đ
He is racist and has shown it on this channel on the Omegle vid
@@smalleballe7636 that isnât true yâall need to stop. Everything that he said is how I judged him. And he seemed to be a fine gentleman.
terrific video well done. thanks for being honest with your answers
LOVED all of these guys, really great people for this one. Would love to see more of the guy in the hoodie with the beanie and the guy in the You Matter hoodie with glasses
the fact that the guy in the blue top was so open to have that discussion with himself on his sexuality and stuff, that is very attractive to me because that just exudes confidence.
This! All my exes have been similar actually, very open and explored their sexuality in the past before reaching a conclusion. I think thereâs something about those guys that Iâm drawn to every time, even before I know about it
I donât mean to compare but I love that Jubilee picks normal regular people to represent their videos rather than the eccentric non modern ones like in other similar channels to them
yes, well said!
This seemed to have a good variety of guys. I was still very surprised about how many guys questioned their sexuality. Most guys I know (about 400 male Facebook friends) were born straight and never questioned it. Or at least never told anybody.
đŻ itâs refreshing to see
@@kennethreichelt
theres no way theyve never considered it cause 400 is a lot. its probably how comfortable ppl feel discussing it
Totally!
The comment section is surprisingly kind! I could get used to this đ€©
the guy in a suit says he has researched everything to make her girl finish,but could only name vulva lol.
To watch this as a woman was quite an interesting thing to do.
@Joshua Barnett mhm
@@majaashour-ciszak53 so no?
@@yazzy3177 no, I am straight.
Don't think that matters though.
@@foetusdeletus6313 so???
Yeah. It's interesting to see how we view things different. I am a gay man instead of a straight woman, so me watching this may feel different from how you feel about this video, however, the premise is still there.
Seeing how different gender identity and sexuality affect experiences is a very interesting topic that I would definitely want to delve into more.
(Sorry for the large amount of text lmao)
I canât even name all the parts of lady. And Iâm a lady.
That's a problem, babe. Learn your body, knowledge is power.
@@dianeaishamonday9125 Not really though. As long as you know that one that can be badly affected by external factors immediately like the vagina
Exactly
@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 thats why you need to learn, its ironic society really forbids woman to explore their sexuality even tho its THEIR OWN BODY, tell me, did you know that woman has 2 holes down there? not just one for pee and birth.
Sad. Omg get a mirror and learn it!
Very interesting video, I love how everybody was comfortable and honest. Very valuable video
I'm glad there was the question about being pressured to lose virginity etc because my friends constantly tell me to lose it or frequently make jokes about things they'll say when I do. Hearing that question made me realise how terrible those comments make me feel.
"I'm definitely team vagina, for sure" hahahah Loved that!
@Hayley Bagels what?
@@samuel3238 5:40 lol
The open honesty is astounding to me. This is amazing.
They are only representative of a very niche crowd of woke men who would appear on jubilee
@@poocrayon4588 yeah. I know. Which is a mix of positive and negative depending on how you look. I appreciate them regardless of whether or not they are a minority
@@jchapfly5422 No - this is the minority of dudes. It has nothing to do with being great or not - this simply isnt representative of the way most men think about sex - that doesnt mean men that dont think like this are a problem. Well I guess to some types it does.
While jubilee sample sets are often a bias representations, I disagree with the proposition of these opinions being the minority. To the data Analytics I go.
Love this video! Great job you guys!
I love how honest these guys were đ
âiâm definitely team vagina, for sureâ lmao i am a fan of his attitude!!
this was so refreshing to watch. kinda heartbreaking but so refreshing.
yeah i'm looking for more of this
1,000th like :)
Its interesting that a lot of them questioned their sexual identity
Its attractive to see someone CONFIDENT in their sexuality and someone who took the time to figure their own self out because it just benefits them more to be confident.
I expected this to be entertaining, I came out of educated and full of hope. Loving the open-ness, the honesty and vulnerability. There might be a better future out there yet