Young Men Are Frustrated With This Current Dating Market
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Spoke to my father the other today and he asked me why won’t I have a girlfriend. I said I don’t have time for bad financial decisions and I have no plan to date someone who has higher mileage then 10 year old car. I work I keep my self in shape I pray here and there and I focus on my goals. I’m not planning to be emotionally exhausted while I work my ass off every day for someone who won’t appreciate me.
And what was his reply?
@@BurninVinylprobably same boomer rhetoric about going out and being yourself and that he'll find a good girl he just has to get out there, same dude who was probably dating middle schoolers when he was in college, yeah I've met boomers that did this 💀
@@MM-kk8uh make sense and also they told you it's your fault that you didn't make a family.
@@MM-kk8uh😂😂😂😂😂😂 yep
the real reason is you cannot get them
Proverbs 21:9 “it is better to live on a corner of a rooftop, than share a house with a quarrelsome wife”
Even the Bible gets it. 😂
@@k1ndr3dspiritsthe Bible gets it more than anything else. Proverbs and Ecclesiastes all speak about it
My place is a little bit bigger than a corner of a rooftop, so I guess I am doing ok
@@k1ndr3dspiritsThe Bible is God speaking to us…he definitely understands
Facts bro. God first
My dad was 40, and my mom was 23 when they got married. Still married and have a good life together. This guy has a point just saying.
So you're saying I should keep hitting on the 20 year old who is hot for me? Not sure if I want mixed race kids though?
Usually half breeds take on the black side no matter which parent is black?
WTF
@@JK-nj3bt I know a 19 year old that just married a 56 year old. Now thats a bit extreme, 23 and 40 isn't that crazy.
@@sethmarchese397 both cases are weird
It's getting crazier out there; women are becoming increasingly narcissistic, self-centred, and masculine. I don't want to be a doomer and give up, but I also don't want to be naïve about the whole thing either. "Is it even worth it?" is a question I'm sure many are asking themselves. The dating game is definitely getting worse, but it's still possible to manoeuvre; it's just not going to be worth the effort for many.
This sounds lame but knowing all these things now, all you can do is play life by ear and follow your heart.
And it's not worth the effort. I ain't playing today's level of game for one hookup. Lollll. You used to play that hard for commitment.
The chase used to be fun because it was worth it now not so much
Basically be prepared to work through all of your 20’s and just save. When your 30 finally you’ll say these clowns
Luckily 28 and I got to experience dating before covid. This dating market is beyond over. Its funny when they start bugging around 30. It kinda makes me smile when they hit 30 and noone hits them up. ( I dont want to be happy but its karma)
You'd be suprised with $imp$ never say never. If the woman is a GOOD FEMININE woman, it shouldn't matter how old or young they are.
Only Chad and Tyrone is winning in this Dating Market because they get all Woman for FREE 💯💯🙏
Chad
Tyrone
Little Pancho
@@SFBay69 You mean guys like Tom Brady? THE ULTIMATE ALPHA MALE? Exactly. Doesn't matter who the fuck you are.
Average/ugly guys are hated, and considered as creeps
@@SFBay69angryguymwa
Chad and Tyrone might be smashing these 304's but they are wasting their own time and training their minds to be wired to want the wrong thing. It comes at a cost to play this game, they don't just benefit. Everything in life comes at a price.
I don’t want a young girl who doesn’t want to go through the struggle with a young guy and want to skip straight to the cash and prizes. No thanks….i want a woman my age who isnt a victim or weak but who also isn’t masculine towards me. Maybe towards certain situations but not towards me. Wish me luck….
Bro don't bother... Being alone sucks but get used to it.
@@Jetsparx373 I am used to it lol, I’ve been alone 8 years. I’m not crying trust me
there's alot of bullsh!t going on.
Dating nowadays is awful, especially in your 30s. I’d love to get married and have kids but it’s so hard to find someone who’s single and around the same age.
Also dating apps are shit.
high value women are not single in their 30s, has nothing to do "modern time dating"
Don’t date women in their 30s that’s red flag city if a women is single past 30
@@Postermaestroyeah getting a 30 year old is very easy especially outside the USA but they are used up trash. I want a 20 year old.
@@perfection9669 You mean 16 let's face it, that's when nature tells them they are ready to reproduce.
@@TheTrueTrinity888 true but that's illegal in many places to destroy the family unit and pair bonding. She must go through 20 Chad/Tyrones and become a spinster unable to bond to hubby
I remember dating as a young man in 2000
I was 20
Was wayy diff then
Back then women dated regular dudes wit jobs
😂
Trump lost bro!
@@Trump4prisonxxx Yeah it's actually the deepstate (Illuminati Freemasons) who gives the orders. All the "Predsident" is are a fucking PUPPET, being pulled by the shadow GOV'T puppet masters.
This has been a problem even before then. But it was never this bad.
Yeah back then you still had a chance.
The farther back you go, the better the gender dynamic. I was in my 20s in the '80s. I was tough then because I was just starting out as a young man but I wouldn't trade it for any time since, that's for damn sure.
@@rei5309 exactly. You understand. The cutoff is just getting more severe.
*it's never been easy
I’ve dated younger early 20s and they are clueless about what they want and lack any self awareness almost always and also have addiction to phones and apps like tik tok..
Soft sweet feminine good looking and not ran through or manipulative? Yea good look finding that in 2024
From angelic princesses to sadistic monsters.
This world.. what the hell is going on?
This is not natural, the way we are supposed to be in an optimum state, at all!
I can’t even get laid to begin with so all that doesn’t matter to me anyway
Ever since my ex threw away a 9 month relationship like it was trash and blocked and ghosted me everywhere, I've pretty much given up on modern women. She actually gave me hope when I met her because she was everything I was looking for, only to turn out to be a narcissistic snake who immediately got on dating apps after discarding me. Never saw her of all people doing that.
I've gone on several dates since and can't click with any of these women. They're either masculine, rude, annoying, boring, or walking red flags. I've pretty much tapped out on dating and focusing on myself.
I give up on modern-day people on a whole way, sure I can make the the time in order to hear what they have to say after pent up indifferences, persecution, and whatever nastiness towards me in order to reflect on whatever information was shared after studding and analytically reading people's body language to see whether or not any potential connections could be salvaged which many of them unfortunately can't due to people's double mindedness, hypocrisy, double standards on a whole if only they were willing to crucify their own prides/egos and at least make an actual effort today the vast majority of people can't even do that.
Is anyone still actually trying? Lift weights earn money. Hold the line gentlemen.
im beyond frustrated at this point bruh im losing my marbles😂
We all are. It's OK. ❤
Your not alone
Fr man same boat here
You ain't alone brother, this world is weird as fuck right now
@@GhoulReviews indeed it izzz
Pookie and ray ray😊
😂
"MUST BE THIS. MUST HAVE THAT. YOU DON'T HAVE A CAR!? UGH. BBL, LOSER! GOTTA DROP MY DAUGHTER AT THE BABY-DADDY's CRIB and PICKUP POOKIE FROM HIS PAROLE HEARING!!"
-Upper Middle Class White Woman
People these don't understand that you only get one life. There's no reset button. They think "oh we can just forget about all the past" They think it doesn't apply. Your actions and choices always matter in life, and you will face the repercussions. A guy who is a predator messed up, if society finds out he will never recover fully. These people can improve, but once the damage is done, there's always some left. Most times too much.
IM REALLY FED UP FR ‼️ MAD AT EVERYTHING / EVERYONE
These new videos are on another level. And that's the way we have to move towards, higher and higher thinking.
It's societal, last generation was college aged men dating HS girls and sometimes even younger (yeah, I know) but guess what every man after that has to wait for a woman to now finish college (22 at least) start her career (25) and to of course, find herself (30 and up) yeah I'm not saying go hang out in front of HS at 40 but there is no reason you should have to wait so long to start a family which is what most men truly want.
Again, controversial take. But accurate.
Plus there's a certain switch that flips inside of women once they hit somewhere in 18-21 where something dies inside and ultimately as the options pour in, she becomes meaner and choosier. This is made worse since 2010 or so with tech. The new ivory tower. There's nothing we can do to change it and I'm certainly not advocating for consent law changes.
But then again, nature seems to think we should start this path much younger than modern society. We are completely ready to procreate at 14 on both sides.
@@SartorialisticSavage65I see Watchu mean
@@payrollrio yeh weird waters...but true...thanks bro!
I love your videos you nail it every time I thought like this forever I didn’t know if there was anybody else around that thought like I did. I always felt like it was common sense grouped with experience that showed us what was going on and also a lot of facts that I borrow from house MD! Everybody lies even if it’s just about something embarrassing. I used to question this narrative but I found out and some odd 18 years of being around and being able to collect this knowledge I’m 36 now so that’s why I say 18 about 18 when I started realizing what life was really about and the fact that a lot of humans don’t change not really, they’re scared of change is different. It’s strange it’s weird but it’s what we all need. It’s the one thing that happens all the time constantly but it’s the most. thing that most people are scared of it’s kind of wild that we live in an every evolving world and that we’re all so scared to change the ones that aren’t scared to change that take the leap and the risk rip the rewards. it’s so much better on the other side than staying in that complete safety zone, stay in safety zone for way too many years. I got pushed out of my safety zone and all the risks in rewards. It’s all been worth every minute of experience. I think a lot like you do and I mean almost to the tea like you do and you explain everything so well like I do like I was trying to say I haven’t ever really met somebody else that has the mind that I do and come back it up with all the explaining that goes with it and shows you everything that there is to know about all of the things that you’re talking about and it’s like I said you really do you nail it every time I like watching your videos and enlightening. Everybody could use a little little bit of.
I'm glad you made this video, it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $75k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️
😂😂 When he said you'd be better off dating a Hyena😂😂
you look like one LOL :)
@@Trump4prisonxxx llcoming from someone who has no pic 😅😅
@@PaulaMc14 Single mom alert!
I agree with everything terry said 💯✌🏽
4:27 Nothing but facts, bro! 💯
It’s been going downhill since social media & smart phones took over. We’re all replaceable. No one is loyal anymore. Marriage is dead.
Remain #sturdy !
Facts
Bro no cap
Men as a whole are gonna have to man up and rise up and take the dating market back by force, just like they did in the past
We have huge political obstacles now. Hopefully that can be addressed.
What started in the 60s, must finally be righted by the rational men of THIS time.
Lots of studs and ALMOST NO FEMININE WOMEN. I’m sick of itttt & I’m sad for our generation.
Yeah!
The number of alpha's are increasing but the number of real and angelic ladies are decreasing day by day
@@AWarriorFromGod literally 😭😭
I can only wish content like this was around when I was starting out in my 20s. Could've saved a ton of grief, anger, money and time. That was in the 80s and although I wouldn't trade it for today's world, it was still tough to get the girls we wanted.
I'm glad you made this video, it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife, $75k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️
I'm inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the biweekly stuff you mentioned
@@oliviadawson16it's spam from a bot
This is unfortunate. I just wish that dating was my my only real issue
blame the internet phones.
I'm forever getting stalked by wannabes proclaiming to be within a real relationship while the whole time I'm laughing internally while keeping my poker face on my only question is this why do these particular young and naive people linger around me like flies to a piece of steak thinking I don't already know what they're upto it's like attempting to knock me on my ass wasn't enough they want my SOULS life sauce too rather than work for it themselves and earn their own erghh!! I can only tolerate these floaters for so long before I'm zapped, only to recharge away from people. People are extremely weird/bizarre, which is most definitely for certain
@SartorialisticSavage65 they're everywhere, and there's nothing mean about this statement because it's a truthful one and the last time I was aware you have freewill along with freedom of speech that's assuming ofcource it's spiritually discerned speech and is based upon facts along with truth although I'm well aware that we can slip up from time to time the good thing about making mistake is that they can be rectified and prevented I fell for this type of behaviour over the years before my spiritual awakening hence why I choose to remain single than to just get with any girl/woman and I'd rather be picky on the guy lead roles I welcome into my life because even they have baggage that needs to be let go of and healed from if that makes sense?
Alcohol should be illegal for women, they have enough trouble as it is
Yes.
Alcohol and smoking
Age doesn’t matter for dating, as a divorced dad is a disaster in the 35-45 range
3:21-4:00.
Exactly.
12 year gap didn’t go well for my parents
I’m still recovering from the traumatic experience I went through when I found out my gf was cheating on me. I did so much to help her out with her well being and at home problems and she cheats on me.
.... I recently got a motorcycle and that doesn't even work on wmost women...😂😂😂😂😂
I really wish I knew what I know now back in Junior High or High School. I used to spend my late teens early 20's worrying about these chicks and validation from other people. I would've been making six figures by now.
@ 11:21 wtf is abys-samal?😂 It's Abysmal, pronounced (uh-biz-mall).
Listen to I Love You by Fontaines D.C. Every young man must listen to it.
Back in the day 20 years ago when half the population didn’t even even have a cell phone we didn’t have these types of dating and hook up problems like we do nowadays so you can thank the Internet phones for it
Dude at 1.5x speed of this video I can still notice some very lengthy pauses in between sentences. While that's just fine in a day to day interaction, the videos come off as more engaging when you deliver the message that you're trying to convey at a better speed.
Anyway... Don't take it too personally, whatever comes and goes in your life is sometimes because of the changes that you've made and why you'd deserve someone different. For better, for worse sometimes. It depends on the life choices you make. It's like there's a heaven and hell, but regardless of what it looks like, what bonds to you in the end is only what's closer to your destination.
You've always heard parents say to their kids "So and so isn't good for you." Or "They're just not the right person."
The person might be like "Shut up I'm gonna do what I want." but what happens in the end?
More often and not, it's true and you end with someone else.
Don't forget your umbrella it's going to rain.
Too many games played and only realuse what they lost when its gone ,Its too late then , Too much hassle tobe honest ,There are good men out there are real men out there who are good , its just finding them ,
The timesi guess bro.panics driving more agressive reactiins.
Guys on the spiritual recharge girls on the take
My nearly 11 son said he doesn't think im feminine but it's a bit hard to be feminine when you're kicking a football in the dirt, I asked him what was feminine to him he said feminine is very pretty, fragile and a gold digger! .... I dunno what to say to that. I can't rember the rest of that conversation but I found myself thinking about femininity a lot but I fould I wasn't having too much fun on the topic I think because it's another tab open in my mind that I don't need to worry too much about because it doesn't really do anything useful. I may be Single because I don't have any other choice LOL
It seems like the cutest couples meet in college
The cutest couples know each other from their closed private Friend-circle or from Childhood
Maybe back in the day where you actually had to TALK TO PEOPLE and there was no such thing as GHOSTING or HOOKUP CULTURE. People actually had respect for eachother back then.
The window of opportunity is when you're younger, high school, college, university. After that brief window, it's all downhill navigating a SMP of diminishing returns. You think its bad in your late 20's, try mid 50's and recognizing that no matter what you do, everyone else is going to be less than you, but often think themselves greater than you. Don't fret, get a passport and a prenup, or just stay single and rent now and then.
I am 25 years old and I am currently frustrated 😣 with the dating market. I still think 🧐 E-Harmony is the best option
or lynching
Bro I turn 25 when I am in BOOTCAMP for the US.Marines and friendly advice mate.....Stay the FUCK O FF of dating websites.
... The new girl upstairs swings her fist at my car but there's nobody in my car then she installs a video camera to watch my car 247For no reason at all just wants to look at my car and be upset about my car😂😂😂😂
As a handsome 26 year old who is a boxer and I walk in the yoga studio at my gym. Show impressive footwork and double crossovers jumping rope all the girls turn their heads but the SECOND I go up to one and say FK it lemme see. They know they could never ever ever keep me or manipulate me. Little do they know I’m a top salesman at a private placement for the movie industry and make 200k a month. If only they knew lol. I won’t let em know. Stay strong gents. Bump ur music get jacked stay low key keep small circle you’ll be fine!!!!!
You are like a 5-6
@@SFBay69 no
Agree man
@@Postermaestro he’s gay dont convince him he’s not gay.
@@SFBay69 weird ahhhh boyyy!
I’m going to do it anyway because I only have one life to live.
Have fun with that sport! I am going to spend MY life making the RIGHT choices so I know I mostly have no regrets and most importantly? LESS unneeded BULLSHIT! My life is lived with fucking PRECISION!
@@Paladin.Brandis wow so you don’t want to get married? You’ll need to blow off some steam eventually if you know what I mean.
Will you plan on being with another man?
That's not true bro you'll respawn somewhere after
Proverbs 31 10
The Roman empires most influenceal people to appease to get favored by the military was their wives.
Tell her what she wants and she tells her husband what she wants.
You either come back on your shield or victorious.
Thats what roman woman said to their husbands.
Passport and look elsewhere
They allll mac nastys bro
Mac nastys with smashed pastys
Wow so being a man is an epic, arduous, herculean saga of pain, extreme effort and futility and all for what?
Is the valuable woman in the room with us right now?
GO. SINGLE.
Im 62.who cares.😂
Make them laugh, be their friend, establish that rapport. When you know her fairly well you can always be upfront about everything, don’t waste time. Chics want to play around.
Go for the best looking chics you can find even at random. What I’ve found is the really good looking women don’t get talked to very much because most men are intimidated by them. Watch some “Andrew Dice Clay”. Be the man.
but you're also saying that you should pick a woman based on who she is rn, not potential. Why should the women commit to potential? That's why they go for older
No they go for older because they want DADDIES MONEY LMAO and young men are absolutely DONE putting up with this bullshit. NO wonder why they go for older dudes because men their age are done settling for some used up bar fly that wants a train ran on her WHILE ALSO BEING TREATED LIKE A DISNEY PRINCESS by a good man? HA! It doesn't fucking work like that. 🤣
Here he goes again with this yahl
Jesus Christ loves you and wants to spend eternity with you he died on a cross and resurrected the 3rd day for our sins just believe in him and you'll be saved. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
Not all of us women
Some of us went to the Bible to learn Gods love
Biblical Wifes roles to be their helper and partner
Biblical Husbands were given more muscle mass not to intimidate or bully but to protect and provide
I had to learn to be softer
But we women that walk with God have just as hard of a time as God unveils them to reveal who they truly are. The devil comes to conquer and divide the oldest trick in the book he comes to kill steal and destroy. Everyday when your feet hit the floor you have to choose which team you play for Love is a battlefield God is love fighting for souls love being part of Gods All Star Team but you're right ... Alone but but it has me in isolation for my transformation but the company I keep no longer serves me God never intended us to settle he wanted us to want more Go to Him as we are and I have more, learned more i love my life im comfortable in my own skin my own best company. But our dating pool is smaller but it doesnt have pee in it
Low quality women now
What about women?? is this a gender based channel 🤨
What ? You women have no problem getting dates . We can’t even get laid or dates. Foh
poor terry goes in circles
Men are not bad today, to be honest. They treat me sooo amazing now that I have become sooo feminine ugh it’s amazing! 💗🎀💞🌷✨🫧 I love men. They are sweet & smart & teach me things & keep me grounded.
ONLY WOMEN WHO SAY HORRIBLE THINGS ABOUT MEN….Act like a man with a man in their presence and then wonder why he is rude. You’re not acting right. Like ugh.
& so true….now that I am feminine and beautiful and sweet hehe…I am taken!!! You’re right💅🏻👛🎀✨!!!
Facts