@@Eli-kq7qt lol. I dated my ex and initially thought he was ugly. It was sort of for less genuine reasons but also sort of not. I gave him a chance bc he seemed to genuinely adore me (hed known me for 2 yrs and fell in love at first sight) and I loved the attn and how he almost saw me as a god. I could've just kept him in the friendzone forever (and j was aleays honest that I saw him as just a friend...) but at the same time, he was so persistent that i felt like....what the heck. I was like...let's see if i could be not shallow and see past a man's looks and see if i could love him for his "soul", so yeah i gave it a shot. He eventually became more attractive to me and soon he became beautiful in my eyes, physically and just in personality. But i ended up breaking up with him bc we were incompatible in many ways and he was a little too into me and moved things way too fast. Anyhow, i say that to say, u can date someone u think is ugly for a mixture of reasons.
@@cassidycasimirisme Exact same story with my ex. When I first met him i found him to be U-G-L-Y. Sometimes I was repulsed when he would try to flirt with me. That lasted for a few weeks. Once I got to know him I liked his personality a lot. He adored me to death. Gave me all the attention I ever wanted a man to give me. Long story short I fell in love with him like crazy. He persued me a little longer then a year before we started dating. Someone wanting you so badly make you feel some kinda way. He also once said he never tought he could ever be with all girl like me. Before we got together his friends already told me that I was exactly his type. We broke up for the same reasons you broke up with your ex. Later when I was not in love anymore I could not understand how I ever found him phscly attractive 🤣! But yeah we made sweet love so...... I think for us women how someone treats us is everything. A guy can be hotter than hell but if he mistreats me I'm out.
I love that Loni waits until 3 minutes and 40 seconds in after they have all explained something in great detail to tell them they missed the point of the question 😂😂
Loni is right they missed the whole damn point starting with Jeannie dodging the damn question saying "maybe they mean inner beauty" smh get outta here with that mess
I came looking for her comment because as usual, the media has taken it out of context. Tamera just kept it real. Someone who is gorgeous doesn't always act gorgeous!! Thanks for seeing the humor in her statement
Just because a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean I’ll marry her just because she’s beautiful. Beauty will attract me and your personality will either run me off or have me stick around
Tamera gets on my nerves at times she doesn't misses an opportunity to talk about her Son's looks and I don't believe for A moment that her Son gets on her nerves because she Idolizes him too much along with her Precious Husband Adam, I just wish that she gives it A break. Adrianne, was on it you're not looking at A person's heart on the first encounter, she kept it 💯💯💯!
It’s shallow for a man wanting a woman who’s beautiful. You have women today who not only want a man to be handsome but 6’2” or taller, making 💰💰💰 and have a big Johnson.
Men : I want short young skinny white women with long hair with big butt and breast People : cool Women: I want a man with a ...... People : OMG WHAT A SHALLOW BITCH I HOPE YOU BURN IN HELL
My boyfriend is 5’4” and it’s really sad that I’m the first girl who hasn’t rejected him because of his height. He’s awesome and I wish more people had seen that in him!
+Irene Martin Stop lying you’re a guy You always see ugly guys with hot girls but you never see an ugly girl with hot guy , men just want to victimize themselves Men are more shallow than women
Yeah when the topic was brought up they said it should be labeled as gold digging too I would skip it as well. A guy being attracted to looks is not the same as looking for someone to support them
Man, sometimes listening to these conversations is like watching a guy trying to reel in a shark with a fishing rod. Loni be spinning that reel non stop and they're flapping their tails and fighting it. What's more shocking to me is how one person can go off topic and they all go down the same road. Y'all are TV hosts, how is it so challenging to stay on topic just because someone else didn't?
Yes..lol I don't think a man or a woman is shallow for wanting someone with a pretty face...because is their preference. Same way like how I want someone with a good face and a good personality which is just my preference.
Reason so many relationships fail;If all that draws you to someone is physical attraction you're in for a rude awakening. Could be beautiful on the outside and frightening ugly on the inside.
"Beauty is when our physical, emotional, and spiritual beings come together in perfect harmony. Only then is beauty revealed in it's truest form." -Chinese Proverb
Firstly, Tamera’s hair, outfit, comments, everything 😍 Secondly, was the question about a man wanting a beautiful woman or ONLY wanting a beautiful woman? The “only” makes a big difference 🤷🏾♀️
My exact comment I’m glad someone else noticed that , if it’s ONLY then yes he’s shallow for looks if it’s in addition to the important things then he’s just asking for the whole package and everybody wants that ideally some get it some settle in certain areas.
Exactly! There's nothing wrong wanting attractive and gorgeous woman or man, but if it's the only thing you want, then it's the problem. Especially if you aren't that yourself. Too many guys want a stunning woman no matter how unattractive and even ugly they are. That's just so unrealistic and so shallow. Then at the same time they can bash unattractive women with no morals. I believe in equality even in this. You can't get ten, if you are 3. I believe that best relationships belong in the same class. They don't have that many differences be it looks looks, money, social class or whatever. But in the end if guy acts like an idiot, looks mean nothing. Woman or man can be most stunning person alive, but if they are mean, rude, stupid, shallow who only care about themselves, there's nothing there. Most beautiful person can become really ugly so fast. Persona makes the real difference. Unattractive person becomes much more attractive when he is smart, loving, understanding, interesting and exciting.
Most men settle for what they can get. Most men can't attract some1 they see as a 10. That's very rare that you're her 10 & she's your 10. Successful men in their 40s 6ft 2 or better, attractive can demand what they want which is usually 8 or better, no kids, under 30. Also 10s usually suck to date. It's like "is she gonna do anything besides show up & look cute with her list of demands" If a man has never dealt with the 10s he probably wants see if he can attract them. My 7-8 to me, that's bringing gifts, says "hey this Sunday I'll cook for us," a real down was sista that's who I'm wifing up.
Facts but the thing is one last longer than the other. Is it fair for the man with the wallet to reup for a newer model when it comes out? Unfortunently relationships based solely on these dynamics don't last. and how a lot of beautiful older women end up alone or.
Gregory Robinson Yes, but this is just how men & women are wired. Men are visual creatures & enjoy being with a beautiful woman. Women are wired to mate with the Alpha male, the one who can protect & provide. It’s just nature. A woman’s beauty & fertility has an expiration date, that’swhy we have to be strategic. As a man ages, his bank account & his value increases, while a woman’s decreases. Women need to be adored so I feel a man should be highly attracted to his woman in order to do so. Men need respect, a woman has to feel safe & secure to do so & submit. Not shallow at all💕
The only thing a woman has to be is good looking.. The modern woman want looks ...money and status.. Much harder .. Women don't date poor men (unless he's been in prison) .. Men marry poor women ...Men have it much harder .. Women want it all .. This is why men are not caring about dating or marrage and women can't see it ..
The fact that they're even discussing this is pathetic. Both sides want to find a attractive mate. Now what's attractive to me may not be what's attractive to the next man, it's that simple.
@@Kenyagirly uhhh can you not be a jerk? she was making a valid point. Whats the point of marriage if its only for looks. Looks fade but soul and personality do not. You could be the most beautiful person alive and have the ugliest soul. While people who are considered "ugly" can truly be the most beautiful people alive.
There's nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful wife, but it is shallow if that's the ONLY thing you care about. Don't dub pretty souls for pretty faces.
All broads want big money .. So all I want is a bad bitchhhh point blank... Perfect means personality smart cooks and quiet no kids no STDs........Perfection for cash ...
@Kirsty Birsty Than in all likelihood she will drop him the moment another man comes along who "makes her feeeeeeel alive" and/or makes more than her. That's assuming she will marry him at all. Until then, it's quite common to see women lording they're making more money than the man over him.
@Privateo Privy not really. tom brady wife make way more than him. there are other factors not just money though. but in general its true just not always
All the rich men I know are married because men with money need somebody to pass their legacy onto and to maintain their public image i.e at fundraisers etc.
They’re not talking about when you know the person already, just answer the question ! That’s why I agree with Adrienne and Loni, everyone is beautiful to someone period !
I love Tamera for this!!! "Sometimes your kids can annoy you", but you love 'em. I have actually, never heard a celebrity say this. Totally, relatable 🙇🏽♀️😘🙇🏽♀️
@K O Yeah it does make sense it's just that these days people are obsessed with women being "strong and independent with no need for a man" so women looking for a provider is looked down upon.
Most women are shallow because imo they get praised for being shallow. there's no shame in being shallow so most women do not see a problem with it. If a guy were to dump a girl for being unfunny, having zits, or something small he's shamed by everyone for dumping a girl for a very small reason. but a girl can dump a guy for the same reasons or more such as just being bored or wanting him to earn more and most people will praise her for it.
+ cam Merkerson nope, men are 10 times more shallow and picky than women That’s why men are kill each other and hate each other While women always support and love each other no matter what
i disagree to an extent. ive met men who care for a good personality. But yeah it is common for this generation to dub pretty souls for some pretty faces.
Joey actually had a nickname among the other NSYNC guys and it was “FAT ONE” from his last name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣his birth name is actually Joey Fatone (=Fat One)
Idc what this guy says...every man wants a wife that is physically beautiful to him and that does not make him shallow. She can be beautiful and have depth. But no man will marry for depth alone. He has to find her beautiful too.
@@9188jenni the way I look has nothing to do with who I am. beauty will fade and chnage. But who I am and my importance and preciousness will always be the same. Also sorry if that sounded rude. I am just so passionate. Because I struggle with my looks and I am so much more than my looks.
@@trinialvarado3408 I think my comment is misunderstood and I understand now why. You struggle with your looks. We all have insecurities and struggle at some point. Do you also feel like a man cannot find you attractive physically? My self esteem was low and Ive felt that way before....Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If a man is attracted to you, it will include traits that cannot be seen with the eye but ALSO your looks, despite how YOU feel about your looks. A man will love you! And he will love looking at you too. Beauty radiates from the inside out!
@@9188jenni Yes I do feel like men do not see me as physically attractive. And it breaks my heart. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I feel like most guys think don't think I'm physically attractive beacuse their are a lot of more attractive traits that I don't have like being hourglass shaped and having clear skin or a big butt. So on... And I hate that I'm automatically not good enough to be someones true love because of that. All I really want is love.
I remember in highschool I had a huge crush on this one guy he was gorgeous and my best friend was like naw he is fugly as hell. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
yea Loni always think theyre missing the point hence her usual annoyed look. What the man explained is what Tamera also explained but in a different way.
Nette yea they were trying to be deep and have a heart to heart telling what makes a person ugly or attractive, going around the mulberry bush. They all were Jeannie for minute😂😂😂 I felt loni’s mood, like is he shallow or no?
Joey is aging well. I like this mature look on him. Honestly I didn't notice him much in NSync. I was JT fan. Maybe my taste changed over the years, I don't know.
I WANT JOEY to do guy day Friday every week! He’s funny, has chemistry with all the ladies, and brings a man’s view. I’m all for girl power and equality but let’s not cut men out all together. Daytime talk is sorely lacking in testosterone these days
Joey Fatone can get away with it because of charm and he understands blending in and making his point in light digestible manner. Steve Harvey worked because he told women what want they want to hear in a funny way, occasionally being truthful if the girl was so out there even the audience was like hell no she crazy. Other than Chris Hemsworth I feel like they wouldn't pick a guy that would give you straight testerone based views. It would have to be a metro/ beta male for daytime women viewers to handle that perspective.
It's shallow if that's the primary quality he's looking for in a partner. All men want to be with a woman they find attractive, but actually stating that that's what they're looking for can be a bit off-putting.
We all have our type, beautiful is not the same definition to everyone. Date someone who you are attracted to, not necessarily just physical . To end this I agree with Tamera.
@@Sp1n1985 male gold diggers are rare because most men lack the physical attractiveness to be able to leech of a wealthy woman. Men are way more thirsty and are way more often self made than women.
@@outsideworld76 they exist though and tbh they usually Leeching elderly well "taken care of" 💰 widows. And they are also looked down upon by men but also mildly envied for pulling a chick move (being lazy and living the high life, with required banging old lady box)
My personal thing is I just want a woman that is in it through better and worse . Looks may fade but a great heart will never fade and that’s why I’m single now.. still looking for a woman with a good heart ❤️
It is shallow. Yes they can like what they like but it can be still shallow. If a woman only likes a man with A LOT of money - she likes what she likes but she is still being shallow to a degree or a gold digger. And I think the question implies that he may not be as handsome as the woman he wants.
FilMAD Camp but everyone has things they are attracted to. Biologically speaking, men are attracted to young beautiful women. Women are attracted to men who can provide. I don’t think it’s shallow, unless that’s the only quality they’re looking for.
FilMAD Camp The same apply to a a man. I don't see anything wrong about it, if it's not the only thing, and you don't act as a jerk because of it. But if you 3 and want ten and believe you deserve it and that's the only thing you are interested in, that makes you pretty damn unrealistic and shallow.
Every man has a different definition of beautiful, and every human is entitled to spend life with someone they are physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to. A man isn’t shallow for wanting to be attracted to his wife.
Define beautiful tho because some men think beautiful is Instagram model and Jeannie is not being realistic we don’t know the person until we meet them and get to know them
Nobody is gonna date someone they think is ugly. Period
Unless there in it for other less genuine reasons....
lol, true
XO_Nyasha 😂I have, he was so funny and fun that looked passed his adult acne, jacked up teeth and awful Physique
@@Eli-kq7qt lol. I dated my ex and initially thought he was ugly. It was sort of for less genuine reasons but also sort of not. I gave him a chance bc he seemed to genuinely adore me (hed known me for 2 yrs and fell in love at first sight) and I loved the attn and how he almost saw me as a god. I could've just kept him in the friendzone forever (and j was aleays honest that I saw him as just a friend...) but at the same time, he was so persistent that i felt like....what the heck. I was like...let's see if i could be not shallow and see past a man's looks and see if i could love him for his "soul", so yeah i gave it a shot. He eventually became more attractive to me and soon he became beautiful in my eyes, physically and just in personality. But i ended up breaking up with him bc we were incompatible in many ways and he was a little too into me and moved things way too fast. Anyhow, i say that to say, u can date someone u think is ugly for a mixture of reasons.
@@cassidycasimirisme Exact same story with my ex. When I first met him i found him to be U-G-L-Y. Sometimes I was repulsed when he would try to flirt with me. That lasted for a few weeks.
Once I got to know him I liked his personality a lot. He adored me to death. Gave me all the attention I ever wanted a man to give me. Long story short I fell in love with him like crazy. He persued me a little longer then a year before we started dating. Someone wanting you so badly make you feel some kinda way. He also once said he never tought he could ever be with all girl like me. Before we got together his friends already told me that I was exactly his type.
We broke up for the same reasons you broke up with your ex. Later when I was not in love anymore I could not understand how I ever found him phscly attractive 🤣! But yeah we made sweet love so......
I think for us women how someone treats us is everything. A guy can be hotter than hell but if he mistreats me I'm out.
No. Men can have standards just like women can have standards.
Not according to social norms these days. But, that's outside of the autistic community. We're pretty open-minded when it concerns standards.
Go on Twitter and tell people that and see them go after you.
@@undeaddragon5235 Twitter is for the dead inside sheep. Instagram is for self centered ghouls. Beware of both
Kalyssa S I do agree with you on Twitter but I don’t know anything about instagram or care to
Kalyssa S I agree
I love that Loni waits until 3 minutes and 40 seconds in after they have all explained something in great detail to tell them they missed the point of the question 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol
Funny
"Y'all missed the whole point of the question... as always." Lol Loni! 😂
Men be wanting 10s and they're a solid 3.5
Same thing for women
not even 3.5 sis you being generous
The same fucking thing for girls as well so stfu hypocrite
You girls all want good looking men. When you all kook like trash too
@@Kenyagirly again its not womans fault they don't want you
It's only shallow if he wants to marry a 10 no matter her character
TruthSheTold so true
That's most men
Agreed
Your character and your looks are what make you a 10. Not your looks alone.
Looks alone don’t make you a 10
I feel like if someone really loves you, then you become the 10
Say it again for the ppl in the back!!! Agreed!
Loni is right they missed the whole damn point starting with Jeannie dodging the damn question saying "maybe they mean inner beauty" smh get outta here with that mess
Five Star Corgi Butts thank you
Lol I like Jeannie but sometimes the things she says come off as cringey and politically correct.
She always calls them out on that because they tend to always go off topic and not answer the question
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Exactly... we all want something attractive to look at..
nazia period 🙌🏾
Yes, nazia.
No it's not, if a person is pretty they are pretty if a person is ugly they're ugly, stop being pc @nazia
That's why I look in the mirror every morning and realize how fly I am
"Some times he just ugly"😂😂😂tamera cracks me up
lol i read this a soon as she said it
Yo that comment sent me 😂💀
I came looking for her comment because as usual, the media has taken it out of context. Tamera just kept it real. Someone who is gorgeous doesn't always act gorgeous!! Thanks for seeing the humor in her statement
Lol I was like yoooooo 😂😂😂
He may be Soo cute.. but may be bad ass hell
Just because a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean I’ll marry her just because she’s beautiful.
Beauty will attract me and your personality will either run me off or have me stick around
MisterStun Yea but she still have to be attractive,She doesn’t have to be a perfect 10 but who want to be with a Person they find very unattractive
Exactly, well said. Also, if they can cook, clean or want children.
My grandmother always said “Men like what they see, women like what they hear” and that is so fucking true.
Tamera's stylist has been DZOING IT!!
Lmaoo I love her hair!!
Right?!? They had a lil rest break while she was out sick and came back poppin af lol! She looks great!
Yes! She’s been on POINT
Well she looks awfully heavy they need to accommodate
Tamera gets on my nerves at times she doesn't misses an opportunity to talk about her Son's looks and I don't believe for A moment that her Son gets on her nerves because she Idolizes him too much along with her Precious Husband Adam, I just wish that she gives it A break. Adrianne, was on it you're not looking at A person's heart on the first encounter, she kept it 💯💯💯!
don’t marry her just for her beauty, but don’t marry a woman you don’t find beautiful.
So accurate!!!
EXACTLY
Best comment on here.
Averii H 👍🏽
Don't get married at all men
Everything a man wants is considered shallow these days. Smh.
alansjf33 yeah that is true
@@Karll541 JOIN #MGTOW NOW AND BE FREE
So its shallow for a man but, if women want a handsome husband they're not?
It’s shallow for a man wanting a woman who’s beautiful. You have women today who not only want a man to be handsome but 6’2” or taller, making 💰💰💰 and have a big Johnson.
true man
Women discriminate against short guys, a feature you cannot change
Men : I want short young skinny white women with long hair with big butt and breast
People : cool
Women: I want a man with a ......
People : OMG WHAT A SHALLOW BITCH I HOPE YOU BURN IN HELL
My boyfriend is 5’4” and it’s really sad that I’m the first girl who hasn’t rejected him because of his height. He’s awesome and I wish more people had seen that in him!
+Irene Martin
Stop lying you’re a guy
You always see ugly guys with hot girls but you never see an ugly girl with hot guy , men just want to victimize themselves
Men are more shallow than women
@John Something
Wow are you writing a textbook?
Do a Report?
The length of this shows your dire need to be seen or heard are you lonely?
@John Something FACTS MAN!!! Thank the Gods someone has a brain.
Ade was keeping it real. The first judgement is based on looks unless you are friends.
And so was Joey Fatone.
Onur Bb right
Whos Ade? 🤔
@@lrainmarshall9966 adrienne
@@lrainmarshall9966 Adrienne
I’m loving Joey they need to have him back 😂
ELISA SINMI And Admitting that Joey Fatone lied to us that he wasn’t the rabbit on the masked singer
I agree this man makes my 10.
He is funny and thinks things through and more importantly listens to the women around him❣
ELISA SINMI he’s hilarious 😂
YES! I'm sitting here like am I wrong for wanting him as a regular on girl chat lol
He's fine...👀🤣
lonnie is right. everyone totally skipped around the question.
Exactly. If the question was shallow then it has to do with looks so all this conversation about personality and such was a waste of time.
Yeah when the topic was brought up they said it should be labeled as gold digging too I would skip it as well. A guy being attracted to looks is not the same as looking for someone to support them
@@rickeyjones729 I'm half way with you on that. They are equally shallow to me but neither of are wrong in my opinion also
Man, sometimes listening to these conversations is like watching a guy trying to reel in a shark with a fishing rod. Loni be spinning that reel non stop and they're flapping their tails and fighting it. What's more shocking to me is how one person can go off topic and they all go down the same road. Y'all are TV hosts, how is it so challenging to stay on topic just because someone else didn't?
I wasn’t attracted to my husband when in first met him now I’m all over him all the time (:
Must have found out he got money
@@chuckbareika5478 you're a fool.
@@chuckbareika5478 notice how common this "my current f_ck stick" wasn't attractive looking to me at first..But now. Comments women leave?
That’s awesome
Chuck Bareika most men are broke especially black men
I like how Loni brings them back to the topic, as alwayss 😜
Yes, but she didn't give her opinion either.
Yes..lol I don't think a man or a woman is shallow for wanting someone with a pretty face...because is their preference. Same way like how I want someone with a good face and a good personality which is just my preference.
@@roseofsharon1009 because she read the comments from previous times she gave her opinion 🙄😕
@@roseofsharon1009 she's seemed out of it lately
Onur Bb i dont think they went off topic. I think they were finding the context first
"Y'all missing the whole point of the question as usual"
lmaoooo facts
I was looking for that comment. Thank you (Merci 🇫🇷 ) ahah
FACTS!
As usual 😹🤦🏽♀️
lmaoooo sis said “as usual”
Lonis so damn rude. She thinks she's always right over everyone else
Reason so many relationships fail;If all that draws you to someone is physical attraction you're in for a rude awakening. Could be beautiful on the outside and frightening ugly on the inside.
“BEAUTY FADES! DUMB IS FOREVUAAAAHHHH!” -Bianca Del Rio
"Beauty is when our physical, emotional, and spiritual beings come together in perfect harmony. Only then is beauty revealed in it's truest form."
-Chinese Proverb
“Well now you just BECAME UGLY!!” 😂😂😂😂
lol, true/
Hilarious 😂
Firstly, Tamera’s hair, outfit, comments, everything 😍 Secondly, was the question about a man wanting a beautiful woman or ONLY wanting a beautiful woman? The “only” makes a big difference 🤷🏾♀️
My exact comment I’m glad someone else noticed that , if it’s ONLY then yes he’s shallow for looks if it’s in addition to the important things then he’s just asking for the whole package and everybody wants that ideally some get it some settle in certain areas.
Loni tried to bring it back to the original question, which was a simple yes or no question, but they added things and made it complex.
Shaysongz1989 It’s because it’s not really a yes or no question. It depends on the context.
Exactly! There's nothing wrong wanting attractive and gorgeous woman or man, but if it's the only thing you want, then it's the problem. Especially if you aren't that yourself. Too many guys want a stunning woman no matter how unattractive and even ugly they are. That's just so unrealistic and so shallow. Then at the same time they can bash unattractive women with no morals. I believe in equality even in this. You can't get ten, if you are 3. I believe that best relationships belong in the same class. They don't have that many differences be it looks looks, money, social class or whatever. But in the end if guy acts like an idiot, looks mean nothing. Woman or man can be most stunning person alive, but if they are mean, rude, stupid, shallow who only care about themselves, there's nothing there. Most beautiful person can become really ugly so fast. Persona makes the real difference. Unattractive person becomes much more attractive when he is smart, loving, understanding, interesting and exciting.
Most men settle for what they can get. Most men can't attract some1 they see as a 10. That's very rare that you're her 10 & she's your 10.
Successful men in their 40s 6ft 2 or better, attractive can demand what they want which is usually 8 or better, no kids, under 30.
Also 10s usually suck to date. It's like "is she gonna do anything besides show up & look cute with her list of demands"
If a man has never dealt with the 10s he probably wants see if he can attract them.
My 7-8 to me, that's bringing gifts, says "hey this Sunday I'll cook for us," a real down was sista that's who I'm wifing up.
He’s choosing me based on my beauty, I’m choosing him based on his wallet. Masculine & feminine energies. Yin yang
Facts but the thing is one last longer than the other. Is it fair for the man with the wallet to reup for a newer model when it comes out? Unfortunently relationships based solely on these dynamics don't last. and how a lot of beautiful older women end up alone or.
Gregory Robinson Yes, but this is just how men & women are wired. Men are visual creatures & enjoy being with a beautiful woman. Women are wired to mate with the Alpha male, the one who can protect & provide. It’s just nature. A woman’s beauty & fertility has an expiration date, that’swhy we have to be strategic. As a man ages, his bank account & his value increases, while a woman’s decreases. Women need to be adored so I feel a man should be highly attracted to his woman in order to do so. Men need respect, a woman has to feel safe & secure to do so & submit. Not shallow at all💕
The only thing a woman has to be is good looking.. The modern woman want looks ...money and status.. Much harder .. Women don't date poor men (unless he's been in prison) .. Men marry poor women ...Men have it much harder .. Women want it all .. This is why men are not caring about dating or marrage and women can't see it ..
David Rodgers Men don’t get to that point until much later in life after they’re divorced or have gone through hell with the woman they chose
Not same wallet can change in a month your personality character and looks are forever men dont have the same wall.
The fact that they're even discussing this is pathetic. Both sides want to find a attractive mate. Now what's attractive to me may not be what's attractive to the next man, it's that simple.
I don’t get it, you should most definitely be attracted to the person you marry....
Yes, but also to their personality and other things.
@@Kenyagirly uhhh can you not be a jerk? she was making a valid point. Whats the point of marriage if its only for looks. Looks fade but soul and personality do not. You could be the most beautiful person alive and have the ugliest soul. While people who are considered "ugly" can truly be the most beautiful people alive.
Nellie K. Adaba you can be attracted to his personality
natasha A. Right
Yes.. Looks an personality in my opinion are equally important. Unfortunately most women tend to settle in the looks department.
Wanting to marry a “10” and wanting to marry someone you find beautiful isn’t necessarily the same thing
its the same exact thing its called standards
Also a 6 is still a beautiful woman. No need to go to extremes.
Lmao when he said " bless you " i was done😂😂
I married someone that I was attracted too. Bonus was she is smart and beautiful to me.
"I've dated five, twos." lmaooooo 😂
I like Joey being there, hes a good co-host pannelist.
Love Tamara’s hair here ..... 🗣Tamara I love ur hair! 😻
Looks get you the interview. Personality gets you the job.
Jeannie: beautiful wife may mean beautiful heart
Me: 🙄
I'm with Loni, the convo drafted somewhere else
The question uses the word shallow so logically they didn't mean it personality of matters of the heart.
Why is that man giving me Adam vibes?😂
Omg so I'm not the only one?! 😂😂 He's funny, modern and friendly af
Mayb that is how Adam gonna look when he starts to beard like him...
Marwa Ali It’s so interesting to have someone refer to him as “that man” lol. I listened to his music in my childhood 😂
“That man”? Put some respect on Joey Fatone’s name!
@@samanthaweaver233 exactly
Beautiful people don’t worry about this bs
THANK YOU LONI!!!!!! Omgggg so tired of them talking around a question and misinterpreting everything
There's nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful wife, but it is shallow if that's the ONLY thing you care about. Don't dub pretty souls for pretty faces.
All broads want big money .. So all I want is a bad bitchhhh point blank... Perfect means personality smart cooks and quiet no kids no STDs........Perfection for cash ...
I love ade's whole look. From hair, make up till outfit
It’s pretty basic I like Tamera’s more
I prefer Adrienne's natural hair texture, but the purple looks great on her.
Today is about Tamera’s look and her look only 🗣
A real smart man doesn't marry at all.
Privateo Privy facts! 💯! Stay woke my friend. And spread the word
Bingo
@Kirsty Birsty Than in all likelihood she will drop him the moment another man comes along who "makes her feeeeeeel alive" and/or makes more than her. That's assuming she will marry him at all.
Until then, it's quite common to see women lording they're making more money than the man over him.
@Privateo Privy not really. tom brady wife make way more than him. there are other factors not just money though. but in general its true just not always
All the rich men I know are married because men with money need somebody to pass their legacy onto and to maintain their public image i.e at fundraisers etc.
“ it might be the icing on the cake but it’s not the cake itself” first time hearing that and that really hit well.
*_No it’s not shallow to want a beautiful wife.. As long as he’s not superficial about it.. Beautiful can mean many things.. Not just physically.._*
I agree, girl!
Say that to all those girls. Who only want to date good looking men
@@Kenyagirly loool you bitter because u can't get a gurl
Many people I've thought was average looking became REALLY attractive to me when I got to know them
they meant physically
This color really suits Adrienne ❤️
They’re not talking about when you know the person already, just answer the question ! That’s why I agree with Adrienne and Loni, everyone is beautiful to someone period !
I love Tamera for this!!!
"Sometimes your kids can annoy you", but you love 'em.
I have actually, never heard a celebrity say this.
Totally, relatable 🙇🏽♀️😘🙇🏽♀️
I don’t like the guy that every woman wants😒🤢 that is so unattractive, especially if he’s leading women on.
"I don't want nobody who's loving everybody, I need a shy guy, the kind of guy who's loving only me🎶"
@@bernak4541 Where are u. If u need a man hit me up at fyemcdonald@gmail.com
@@dumpd6227 Hahaha I'm good... Her comment just reminded me of the song lol I'm in South Africa fyi
@@bernak4541 I've been to Johanesburg love South Africa
@@dumpd6227 oh yea, that's dope! I live in Johannesburg ☺️
Men want a woman that is a 10 and they're hardly a 2.2 🙄
And then complain when women say they want man with wealth lol
Ella Skills just like women want a provider when they can’t provide for themselves
Ella Skills girl HUSH😂 women wake up and rearrange their entire faces then. Go judge MEN on how they look 😂 like ?
And if she is a 10, she’s bat-sh*t crazy!
@K O Yeah it does make sense it's just that these days people are obsessed with women being "strong and independent with no need for a man" so women looking for a provider is looked down upon.
THANK YOU LONI FOR TELLING THEM THEY WERE MISSING THE DAMN POINT AS USUAL!!
Today’s young women are the most shallow. This show is proof.
@regalblue41 They've hit the wall, including that landwhale who hit the wall after Frosh Week.
Most women are shallow because imo they get praised for being shallow. there's no shame in being shallow so most women do not see a problem with it. If a guy were to dump a girl for being unfunny, having zits, or something small he's shamed by everyone for dumping a girl for a very small reason. but a girl can dump a guy for the same reasons or more such as just being bored or wanting him to earn more and most people will praise her for it.
Notice how you said “young women” , it’s because they’re the attractive ones
If women were half as shallow as men , men life would be nightmare
+ B. K. Hutterer
Wall = men shallowness
+ cam Merkerson nope, men are 10 times more shallow and picky than women
That’s why men are kill each other and hate each other
While women always support and love each other no matter what
He got the Alec Baldwin vibes!!!
💯💯💯
Loni throwing shade but straight FAX! Usually the other three go totally left field on topics ALL THE TIME
I'm here for Joey on the panel! 🙋🏾♀️🙌🏾
I wouldn't want a one word answer, Elaborating is sometimes needed and appreciated...Thanks Adrienne, Tamara and Jennie...
Answer the question! They always trying to sound politically correct and not sound mean! BE REAL!
Main reason why I miss Tamar on this show. She was blunt
Sometimes he is just ugly........LOL I was not expecting that neither was LONI
Using her son as an example was not cute
“Bless you” 😂😂
That question is so broad, as there's so many defining definitions of beauty. Whether it is from inside or outside. Period!!!!
Jeannie is reaching. Most men especially below 30 ain't looking at a woman's beautiful heart. LOL
Bitch your just a fucking ass feminist who think girls are better then men
@Michelle Appiah the same could be said for you girls too
@Michelle Appiah all you girls care about. Is how good looking the guy is. And how much money he has
martinski Wtf calm the eff down, why are you being so aggressive and disrespectful?! You seriously need therapy.
i disagree to an extent. ive met men who care for a good personality. But yeah it is common for this generation to dub pretty souls for some pretty faces.
I like this guy on the panel lol
Michelle Appiah omg I know NSYNC!! Idk why I didn’t recognize him.
Michelle L. Yess he is!!
Joey actually had a nickname among the other NSYNC guys and it was “FAT ONE” from his last name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣his birth name is actually Joey Fatone (=Fat One)
Me too! I didn't recognize him at first.
Idc what this guy says...every man wants a wife that is physically beautiful to him and that does not make him shallow. She can be beautiful and have depth. But no man will marry for depth alone. He has to find her beautiful too.
Damn it I was hopeing someone would love me for who I am and that's it.
@@trinialvarado3408 that is who you are...
@@9188jenni the way I look has nothing to do with who I am. beauty will fade and chnage. But who I am and my importance and preciousness will always be the same. Also sorry if that sounded rude. I am just so passionate. Because I struggle with my looks and I am so much more than my looks.
@@trinialvarado3408 I think my comment is misunderstood and I understand now why. You struggle with your looks. We all have insecurities and struggle at some point. Do you also feel like a man cannot find you attractive physically? My self esteem was low and Ive felt that way before....Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If a man is attracted to you, it will include traits that cannot be seen with the eye but ALSO your looks, despite how YOU feel about your looks. A man will love you! And he will love looking at you too. Beauty radiates from the inside out!
@@9188jenni Yes I do feel like men do not see me as physically attractive. And it breaks my heart. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I feel like most guys think don't think I'm physically attractive beacuse their are a lot of more attractive traits that I don't have like being hourglass shaped and having clear skin or a big butt. So on... And I hate that I'm automatically not good enough to be someones true love because of that. All I really want is love.
I remember in highschool I had a huge crush on this one guy he was gorgeous and my best friend was like naw he is fugly as hell. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
I really love Loni's laugh guys....lol. Whenever she laughs, she always make me laugh. She has a great sense of humor.
yea Loni always think theyre missing the point hence her usual annoyed look. What the man explained is what Tamera also explained but in a different way.
Nette yea they were trying to be deep and have a heart to heart telling what makes a person ugly or attractive, going around the mulberry bush. They all were Jeannie for minute😂😂😂 I felt loni’s mood, like is he shallow or no?
THANK YOU ADRIENNE I BEEN SAYING THIS FOR SOO LONG👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
TAM's HAIR is the BOMB!!!! BEAUTIFUL!!!!
Tamera's hair is so beautiful! I love big hair!
Joey is aging well. I like this mature look on him. Honestly I didn't notice him much in NSync. I was JT fan. Maybe my taste changed over the years, I don't know.
he looks like he could older than 42 to me, so I disagree..
Whaaaaat?! Was wondering where I know him from 🤣
Loving Tamera’s WHOLE look! You go, girl!
Loni “y’all missing the point of the question as usual “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lol so true
I feel like Joe's looking like James Loni's boyfriend. He's cute!
And that's why she's been quiet on this panel. She thinks so too.
I WANT JOEY to do guy day Friday every week! He’s funny, has chemistry with all the ladies, and brings a man’s view. I’m all for girl power and equality but let’s not cut men out all together. Daytime talk is sorely lacking in testosterone these days
Mary Loves Makeup77 Wendy man enough for me!
*girl power* wtf is that?
Joey Fatone can get away with it because of charm and he understands blending in and making his point in light digestible manner. Steve Harvey worked because he told women what want they want to hear in a funny way, occasionally being truthful if the girl was so out there even the audience was like hell no she crazy. Other than Chris Hemsworth I feel like they wouldn't pick a guy that would give you straight testerone based views. It would have to be a metro/ beta male for daytime women viewers to handle that perspective.
Mary Loves Makeup77 is that a joke. “lets not cut men out all together.” honey that is the opposite of the problem
thank you loni! i was saying the sane thing while they were all talking. they were not answering the question lol
I love when the guests make Loni laugh 😂 it’s tough to make a comic laugh
It's shallow if that's the primary quality he's looking for in a partner. All men want to be with a woman they find attractive, but actually stating that that's what they're looking for can be a bit off-putting.
Thank you, others are loosing their minds in this comment section.
@A I exactly.
I'm with Loni here. They completely missed the point
LOL that Loni "ya'll missing the whole point to the question"
Oh Tamera..your hair is absolutely beautiful! I love this look😍😍
We all have our type, beautiful is not the same definition to everyone. Date someone who you are attracted to, not necessarily just physical . To end this I agree with Tamera.
Yes!
Lets keep it real. No one wants an ugly partner.
are women shallow for only considering men with 6 digit incomes and over 6 feet tall as average at best?
PunkShockRock definitely
So nobody judges gold diggers?
@@nellaeight5251 I can't tell if you are suggesting gold diggers are a good thing and exclusively female?
@@Sp1n1985 male gold diggers are rare because most men lack the physical attractiveness to be able to leech of a wealthy woman. Men are way more thirsty and are way more often self made than women.
@@outsideworld76 they exist though and tbh they usually Leeching elderly well "taken care of" 💰 widows.
And they are also looked down upon by men but also mildly envied for pulling a chick move (being lazy and living the high life, with required banging old lady box)
My personal thing is I just want a woman that is in it through better and worse . Looks may fade but a great heart will never fade and that’s why I’m single now.. still looking for a woman with a good heart ❤️
tamera's looking like an angel 😇
I know right, she’s so perfect ugh!!😍❤️
It’s not shallow. Everyone has what they like, just make sure you also meet the standard of the type of person you like
It is shallow. Yes they can like what they like but it can be still shallow. If a woman only likes a man with A LOT of money - she likes what she likes but she is still being shallow to a degree or a gold digger. And I think the question implies that he may not be as handsome as the woman he wants.
FilMAD Camp but everyone has things they are attracted to. Biologically speaking, men are attracted to young beautiful women. Women are attracted to men who can provide. I don’t think it’s shallow, unless that’s the only quality they’re looking for.
FilMAD Camp The same apply to a a man. I don't see anything wrong about it, if it's not the only thing, and you don't act as a jerk because of it. But if you 3 and want ten and believe you deserve it and that's the only thing you are interested in, that makes you pretty damn unrealistic and shallow.
He said “where do you want to eat? Idk where do you want to eat? Well, guess what? You just became ugly!” 😂😂😂
Everyone is shallow & women are more shallow than guys
Billy Johnson amen.
Preach it brother Johnson
the truth
That's an understatement.
A women needs a little depth, 6 inches or so....
For me of course not! We all have our own standards and taste and that's perfectly fine
Torrie Lashae I so agree. But you can't be a jerk to other people because of it! 😎
Jeannie is so naive. When this example says the guy wants beautiful, pretty sure the guy mean physical beauty.
She knows
All you girls care about is looks and money
No your just a fucking ass hypocrite!! And not all guys are the same
Every man has a different definition of beautiful, and every human is entitled to spend life with someone they are physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to. A man isn’t shallow for wanting to be attracted to his wife.
HE NEEDS TO BE INVITED BACK AGAIN!!! SO ENTERTAINING!! AND GOOD, FUN CONVERSATION!!
Loni's face when Tam said that about Aiden 😂😂 #auntloni
#NotMyBaby 😂😂😂
Put the camera back on Tam!!! I just wanna look at her all weekk ... her style her hair her make up her shoesss everythingg... YES SIS!!! 😍👏👏
Steffi Ann, yes gawd. Now...THAT'S beauty!!!!! : )
I just want to say Mrs.Adrienne you did that transformation baby girl 💖✨😍
Tamara's hair is stunning!
Define beautiful tho because some men think beautiful is Instagram model and Jeannie is not being realistic we don’t know the person until we meet them and get to know them
exactly
That's fine too if that's their standard
Kiara Buckley basically
True
Instagram model arent look at for marriage, its nothing but lust
Tamera... loving the hair and whole outfit!!!!!
Tiffinee Magee my fave so far🌸🌺🌸
Tiffinee Magee yes she looks great
I like the guess co host... great input
I loooove Joey! So happy to see him here.