I'm being induced at 37 weeks pregnant.
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- when you're watching this, I will be in the hospital being induced. my induction should take place Monday December 12th. I know inductions can be a controversial topic, and while I don't judge what others want to do, I was completely against them and this was never part of my birth plan. please watch the video before commenting any negative opinions regarding inductions, this was medically necessary. I can't believe I'm about to meet my baby girl!
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I´m a mom too and I was induced at 38 weeks... When you are having a baby there is no such thing as "anti...". The important thing is for you and your baby to be healthy and safe. Everything will work out fot the best. I´ve been here for years yet rarely comment. Sending much love from BRAZIL, Ana
I’m not a mom but This right here! I understand that a lot of women have an ideal plan for their birth but giving birth isn’t something you can totally plan for. The ultimate goal should just be to have a healthy mom and baby!
Reminder from a student midwife that it’s OKAY to grieve what you wanted in birth. It’s okay to have a birth plan and to want things to go a certain way and to be upset when they don’t.
@@Jasminerainl For sure ; )
Excuse me, but what's an induction?
Just in case no one told you… what you’re experiencing is completely valid. Your grief over your birth plan is valid. Your grief over the three weeks you thought you’d have is valid. Your joy about meeting your baby is valid. It doesn’t matter what anyone else has gone through or that they’ve “had it worse”. I wish you/baby good health and a smooth delivery. ❤
This comment right here
If it’s any comfort to you or anyone reading, I was induced from medical necessity both pregnancies at 37 weeks. It took out a lot of the anxiety around wondering when things could happen suddenly and if things would go wrong before I could get to a hospital. I felt a lot of comfort being monitored 24/7, and knowing I’m in a place with access to help and professionals at any given second.
I hope things go smoothly, safely, and beautifully for you and sweet baby girl.
Pregnancy and delivery is so mind-blowing to me, I have so much respect and awe to this who go through it.
Fr me too I could never like shout out to those who want and already have kids
Mee too. I'm a 30 yo woman and I could never go through pregnancy and delivery (I don't want kids). I have *so much respect* for all the women out there who do it. I could never.
Didn't even realise being 'anti-induction' was a thing. I thought people got induced because it was medically necessary, and who would be anti wanting the best for baby and mother? Hope you are all doing well Sarah!!
Me either I was always induced but I would like to experience my water breaking since this is my third pregnancy
My water broke at 36 weeks. Anything that doesn’t go according to plan is so scary. I’m sending you love 😭
There’s absolutely nothing shameful or wrong about needing an induction, you are taking care of your body. Pregnancy can be very unpredictable and can be scary, but no reason to feel ashamed over your concerns, non of them are stupid, they are more than understandable. I wish the best for you and your baby Sarah❤
SARAH you are already such a good mom to your baby girl, seeing the way you get emotional about having to protect her in the real world before she’s even born shows the level of care in your heart. Even if you didn’t get the natural, spiritual birth with laboring at home like you envisioned you should be SO proud of yourself. Maybe you can have a postpartum ceremony and pamper yourself with baby girl and make it into a new years tradition so you can really get the full effect. All the best to you, Ryan and of course her 💝
aww that’s such a good idea!
I recently had a miscarriage, & I just want to say watching your videos has helped me so much, I've grown up watching you & for us both to be moms was absolutely wild to me. I can't wait to see your baby girl & wish you all the best! No one can tell you how to be a mom or have the right to judge your choices. Sending positive vibes. x
I'm so sorry about your miscarriage, hopefully things will workout for you in the future
@@chillytoes1 thank you, we are hopeful 💖
sending much love to you
I'm so sorry for your loss 🫂 I lost my first baby, my daughter Journey, at 20 weeks along in 2001 when I was 20 years old. The grief gets easier to carry but you never forget. Much love 💖
@@anxietastic_depressionista I’m 23 & all my husband wants is to be a dad so I was like okay we can try it’ll probably take a few months…2 weeks later I was pregnant. Things happen for a reason & I know our bodies are truly incredible & know what’s best & its “not my fault”…I just hope I don’t have the same experience again because I honestly don’t know how I’d get through it.
I was induced at 37+3! Everything went great. Wishing all the same for you 💜
Mourning the pregnancy at the end is soooooo real. I loved pregnancy, and it was so natural and easy for me. I completely understand.
Same. The only “baby blues” I had was mourning my past like and being pregnant.
I envy that feeling I had horrible pregnancy's for all 3 especially this third one
don’t feel rushed to get back to yt if you’re struggling, or not ready. enjoy having your sweet girl with you 🤍 we will be here to support you when you are able to post. we love you sarah!! sending you so much love and quick healing.
I’m not a mother, never plan to be. I don’t know a lot about pregnancy, birth and such. But what you’re feeling is completely valid. You’re allowed to feel anxious. You’re allowed to not feel confident. You’re allowed to be worried. You’re allowed to not be excited about this change. You’re allowed to be disappointed your plan that you were attached to isn’t happening. But trust your doctor, trust they are doing what’s best for you and your Bub. They want you and baby to be as safe as possible. Try and prepare yourself best you can, but once you’re in the moment you won’t care about all the little things. You’ll be focused on labour and meeting your little one. And once you lay eyes on them, everything will feel okay. Perfect. I’m sorry things aren’t going to plan. Best of luck and I know all will be okay ❤ sending all my love and support to all three of you.
I was adamantly against induction and medical intervention too. It feels heartbreaking to feel like the body has betrayed you. But honestly, a year later, I’m grateful to have had doctors who had my best interests in mind. It is their goal to ensure you and baby make it through safely and as healthy as possible.
Sending you lots of positive energy and wishing all the best for your little family. 💞
This!! Thank god for medical professionals who take care of us through such dangerous times. There's such a tremendous pressure on mother's to do things as "natural" as possible. Then we blame ourselves when things don't go that way. The goal should always be ensuring mother and baby are safe and healthy ❤️
I was induced at 41 weeks, and it was my biggest fear as well.
My son is here, and he's healthy. That's what I wanted, and I wouldn't change a thing now.
I am so, so sorry you're going through this. You, Ryan, and baby are in my thoughts. 💜
I was induced at 41 weeks as well. My daughter didnt care at all, she was just super sleepy, everything went really well
Edited to add: first and foremost, I’m so sorry things are happening like this. I was induced at 38 weeks due to high blood pressure also! Everything went well. You can and you will do this! Pretend you’re at home and do everything you would have done otherwise! I also felt robbed of my birth experience and it has taken time to come to terms with that. Give yourself that time. Talk about your birth memory with your partner and grieve what you may not have gotten. Lots of love
I am currently 20 weeks pregnant, and your videos have been a big help and comfort to me throughout this pregnancy! I sincerely hope there isn’t any negativity on this video - you are absolutely doing what is best for you and your baby!
My sister had preeclampsia and I had to rush her to the hospital to get a c-section one afternoon after her BP kept increasing. She had other complications and a c-section was the plan. She also wanted to wait but for the health of the mother and the baby, it was time. Don't be so hard on yourself, pregnancy does crazy things to the body. I suggest watching Raw Beauty Kristi's birth video, nothing went according to plan and she struggled with not getting her birth plan go down. It's heartbreaking but her baby is now 1 year old and after a lot of hard times she is doing better as well.
Being induced isn't horrible or scary. Due to complications, all my labors were induced. They were ALL wonderful experiences, complication free. ❤️
That’s awesome. I tap to your blessing of no complications and wonderful experience!
I’m also being induced in few weeks which will be 37+ 2 days because they’ve gotten three high readings in my blood pressure. But I also have lots of fluid. I’m nervous, both my husband and I are. But we are trying to be calm and pray it all goes well. So thank you for sharing your experience! ❤
@@hlongshlongs8729 I hope your induction is as smooth as all mine were ❤️
Pre-eclampsia has nothing to do with your anxiety. It is actually caused by a problem with the blood supply to the placenta. There are risk factors for it (pre existing high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity), but you didn’t cause it by being anxious or consuming caffeine, etc. Though it can be serious, it is also quite common. Everything will work itself out just fine. Take care of yourself and your new love!
Please God protect her as she labors and brings her baby into this world. Blessings to you Sarah, you got this.
Sending all the good vibes your way Sarah. I know it’s scary. You’re going to be an amazing mother- you already are by making the best/safest decision for you and your baby.
Preeclampsia/gestational hypertension is rarely caused by anxiety. It usually has something to due with how the placenta formed early on and the vessels there. So, do not blame yourself. Also, pre-eclampsia is more common with 1st time pregnancies, and the risk is lower with a second.
I hope everything went well for you and your baby! ❤
Don’t worry about people’s opinions about your choice. You did what was best for both of you!
This is not your fault, ok? Don’t blame yourself.
I was induced at 28 weeks due to extremely low fluid surrounding my daughter. It was nerve wrecking to go into a doctors appointment and being told “You’re being induced in three days”. I knew it was what was best and safest for me and my daughter. Went to be induced and she was born early the next morning🤍 the best birth plan is mom and baby coming out safe and healthy. Wishing you and your baby a healthy birth🤍🤍
Pregnancy and childbirth is such a life changing event and experience, and it’s absolutely OK to grieve the loss of the plans that you had during such a tumultuous time
I had a very similar experience in July with my first. I wasn't anti induction but I wanted to know what it felt like to go into labor naturally. I went in at 38 weeks and my bp was high. They wheeled me down to be monitored & told me if it stayed high i was being induced that day. It went down and labs were fine so I monitored at home the next day it was higher. I went back to the hospital to be monitored again and was given an induction date 3 days later. My heart is with you. My induction was very positive very minimal pain for most of the time and it was amazing. You truly won't care about how she got here when you hold your baby girl. But you do have the right to mourn the birth you dreamed of. Sending you the best of luck, well wishes and good vibes.
I was induced at 38 weeks due to gestational diabetes and the fear of her being too big and some other concerns so I know how hard it is to let go of your ideal plan and timeline and come to terms with the new course that’s taking place. Whether it’s Monday, Wednesday or a week from now, the important thing is you both come out of this safe and healthy. Sending you all the positive vibes and hope everything goes as smoothly as possible!
It sucks that you weren't able to do all the things you'd planned and I'm so sorry that you had to change it all so quickly. You're doing what's best for her and you and honestly, that's all that ever matters. You do what needs to be done for your children and that's being a parent 💜
I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant & you are such a comfort to watch. I just want you to know that it’s okay to feel disappointed that you aren’t getting what you want. I feel so much for you because I feel the same way. My worst case scenario is the exact same as yours. Just allow yourself to feel disappointed but enjoy your birth no matter how you get her here because at the end of the day you’ll have the greatest gift- her being here!
i love you Sarah.
Ive followed you for YEARS, through the fashion and hair dye, the psych vids, the thrifting, the halloween decos. I feel like we've grown up together, ive always related to you through these different phases of our lives. you're amazing, you and Ryan are about to start something incredible with this new little life. we dont judge you, your health and the health of baby is what matters more than anything in this situation, in any situation. your body is absolutely miraculous and powerful and so incredibly strong. you are infinite, you are power and light! This baby is so so lucky.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If you truly don’t read these comments until after she’s born, then CONGRATULATIONS!!! I’m so happy for you. Tami
I'm devastated for you.
I was induced at 37 weeks for severe SPD. There are plus sides to induction. It takes the guess work out of it, you know your final day just you and Ryan, you know that following morning you'll become parents, you know the next time you walk in the door, you're bringing your baby girl home, you don't need to panic about where you'll be when your waters go, if ryan will be with you, the panic of getting to hospital etc.
I know emotions are high and you’re worried about so much right now. Just know everything is going to go fine and soon you’ll be back home with your new baby healing and learning the whole mom thing. Don’t worry about your channels, your followers will be here for you when you get back!! Worry about yourself mama ❤
I am not a mum nor a youtuber so I won't pretend to fully understand the pressures of either. As a long time fan, all I can say is focus on yourself, your baby, and Ryan. Your life is more important than your work schedule (easier said than done, I know). Take all the time you need and don't worry about us - we'll be right here whenever you are ready to come back
Sending you positive energy for the induction! I was also induced only because my daughter didn’t want to come out.
I'm so sorry things didn't go as planned Sarah! I hope holding her in your arms soon will make everything stressful melt away. I'm praying that things go well during your delivery! I also don't think it's at all stupid to be suspicious of induction especially so close to Christmas, many people who don't need inductions end up being pressured into them by their doctor as you know, and that's such a valid fear to have.
Hello Sarah, I’m so sorry this didn’t go as planned for you. I was terrified of a C-section but with my last daughter, complications arose and I had to have an emergency C-section at 32 weeks. We’re all healthy & fine now, she’s my miracle baby ♥️ Everything will work out how it’s supposed to. Good luck
Your grief for your birth plan is completely valid. I understand how you feel anxiety is the worse sometimes. I an sending all the good vibes to you and baby girl. Don't worry about work or updating us we are here to support you take all the time you need to rest recover and enjoy your baby
I chose to be induced when my blood pressure started getting high. Hugs, I'm not gonna lie and say it went easy, but I was able to avoid a c section so I was happy about that.
You got this, Sarah! Sending you all the luck and love in the world 🖤
I can't imagine the anxiety from this. Sending you love and support through this process. Whatever you have to do for you and your baby is best, don't beat yourself up
You are so strong to make this choice, and I hope everything goes well!
You are going to be such an amazing mother. 🖤
Wishing you all the best in your delivery. I had to be induced (for old age 🙄) in my last pregnancy and I want to tell you it does not hurt more than natural labor, it’s just more sudden contractions closer together earlier in the labor process which might be harder to deal with. I found breathing through contractions the best way to get through them and managed to have three deliveries without epidurals.
Good luck!
Hi, mama! I actually went into labor at 37 weeks. My daughter is perfectly happy, healthy, and developing as she should. ❤️ she did spend some time in the NICU due to not latching during feeds, but she was discharged within a week. I hope everything works out for you. ❤️
Sarah, you are being so unbelievably brave! I'm so impressed with your honesty and positive attitude.
That sweet baby girl will be in your arms soon and your life will never be the same again in the very best way ❤❤❤
I think one thing Medical providers could do is to be very clear with moms that while you might have a plan and an idea of how you want your pregnancy/delivery to do, it’s a physiological process that cannot really be predicted or controlled. Your body is gonna do what it’s gonna do and you’re just along for the ride. I had a low risk pregnancy, young, no risk factors, and I ended up with gestational diabetes an oversized baby, and a c-section at 37 weeks.
Sending you so much love & hopeful thoughts Sarah! I’m a midwife in the UK & an induction doesn’t mean having to throw away your dream of a peaceful, calm labour. Get your healthcare providers on board as soon as you arrive - dim lighting, music, calm voices, aromatherapy, wireless monitoring etc can all help to make the experience more home-like & less clinical ♥️ wishing you so much luck for the birth of your beautiful daughter - you have done amazingly!! Xxx
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BABY SARAH!! YOU AND RYAN ARE GONNA BE THE BEST PARENTS EVER! I WISH NOTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOUR FAMILY ILY
I was brought into the world 13 weeks premature to save my mother's life. I'm grateful the doctors made that decision and put her life first. Thankfully my lungs were well developed and I survived, but both me and my mom would probably not be here today if they didn't get me out when they did. I don't think people realize that being pregnant, no matter how modern the medical system is, can still be life threatening to mother and/or child and hard decisions have to be made fast.
I’m preparing myself for this right now, I’m showing quite a few symptoms of ICP and know very well that if I do have ICP I’ll probably have to be induced early. I’m going to see the doctor today and get some answers but I’m preparing myself for them to tell me I need an induction. I also really wanted to labor at home and go med free, I’m experiencing all of the same doubts and fears that you expressed. One thing that’s helped a bit has been watching positive epidural free induction stories to reassure myself that it is possible and I might not get everything I’m wanting out of this birth experience, but I can still stay positive and take things as they come. I have my values and I know how to advocate for myself (because I’ve spent my entire pregnancy preparing for a med free birth and expecting a lot of pushback), and my husband is super supportive and ready to advocate for me to have some semblance of the birth experience I’m wanting.
Wow going through this exact experience right now and it feels so relatable thank you for sharing
I had my first at 35, so considered “geriatric”. I got induced at 41 weeks as 42 is very high risk, particularly for older moms. Well, my baby got stuck when he was partially out. A previous gynecologist told me in my early 20s I was “narrow” down there and may have trouble in the future. While pregnant, this crossed my mind and I brought it up to my new OBGYN- she said she didn’t think that was true. Turns out there was some truth to it 😂 so I ended up in an emergency c-section because his head was getting swollen and he was distressed while wedged in my pelvis and cervix. With baby 2 I didn’t want to essentially do both again, so opted for a c-section from day 1. I would have liked to have them with no help, but then again, there are so many variables. I could have had tearing, prolapse, hemorrhaging, etc- who knows. We can only control so much and I’m grateful for my uncomplicated outcomes despite surgeries and for the innovation and science available to us.
Wishing you the best for whatever type of recovery you’re going through!
My sister was induced at 37 weeks for gestational hypertension too... She had a very 'go with the flow' attitude so I think it helped. By the time she was ready to push, she pushed her daughter out in 30 minutes. My niece is now 3.5 years old and the spunkiest kiddo ever! You've got this, mama!! We live in the Sacramento area as well, so if you need somebody to talk to who has gone through the same, I'm sure she'd be happy to chat!
You’re allowed to feel sad and upset. But just remember, the health of you and your daughter is what matters most. When you are holding her, everything will feel worth it. Sending you love and hugs, you got this ❤
I was very anti c section (for myself) but after a day of labor my daughter's heart rate started being weird and I needed an emergency c section. Turned out she was sideways and would've gotten stuck if I had waited. My point is whatever is best for the baby is a good thing even if it disrupts your plans! Remember to take it easy on yourself, be kind to yourself, postpartum is hard. I'm sorry it's stressful but you got this! Go mama! Love you Sarah, good luck 💕
My baby girl was breech so I needed a scheduled c-section. I didn't want to risk complications just to have a "natural" birth. Things never go to plan with birthing our babies but all we can hope for is that baby and mum are safe and healthy. You haven't done anything wrong, your body has just grown a human being. However she comes into the world is right for you and her. What your feeling is completely valid and natural, be kind to yourself ❤️
Sending you love.
I had an emergency C Section with my first (on December 19th!). I contracted HELLP and my platelet count was insanely low. While it was super scary and confusing, I appreciated that the doctors talked me through everything.
I rarely comment on anything but I just wanted you to know that even though this is super scary because it's completely out of your control and unplanned for, it isn't your fault. Anxiety can't always be controlled at all, no matter what you do and how it effect your body is also not always controllable. Like, I suffered from hair loss since 2012 and tried everything to "calm down" but it really isn't that simple. I've also been a parent for over twelve years now and unfortunately, I blame myself for so much but I think that's a part of being one. A good one. Since you always want to make things "better" or different to make sure your child comes first. You will be a wonderful mom with the coolest of interests! I hope you'll forget those feelings as she's here and I wish you all the best. Hugs from Norway!
I had to have an emergency c section at 27 weeks due to bad preeclampsia. This happened this past January. It's hard to believe he will be a year soon. He is doing fabulous and is growing like crazy.
The most important thing is that you and your baby are as healthy and the delivery is as stress free as possible. This is in no way a bad representation of you as a mum. You are doing your best 💗sending so much love to you and your family
I’m so sorry things aren’t going to plan. All of your feelings are 100% valid! I can say with confidence though that once she’s here, all of these feelings will pass. You’ll wonder how you could have possibly gone 3 more weeks without her earthside. I hope you still have a beautiful, safe birth. Can’t wait for an update. 💕
Sending you, bubs and your partner so much strength and love. You’re doing so good. Hope delivery goes well and you’re holding your girl soon ❤️
Sending you so much love! You are going to be a great mother!!
As a mom, I know the guilt you're feeling. It's so difficult to not go back and think that you should have done things differently. You're going to be such a good mom. Please know that this is out of your control. Nothing you did caused this. You will get through this❤️
As a mom of two "kids" in their twenties, TRUST ME, neither of them remembers anything and it was so traumatic. They are beautiful and happy. You just need to fucus on being happy with this blessing. Thinking of you and can't wait to meet your little one.
I had an emergency c section at 36 weeks, because of high blood pressure aswell.
Now my 3 month old boy is sleeping in his bed beside me. 😊
There is no such thing as “anti” this and that when it comes to delivering your child, the only thing that matters is you and baby girls safety and health! ❤
Don’t expect anything and don’t regret anything! Everything will be fine 😊
Wishing you all the lucky in the world for a safe and speedy delivery! I know this news has been tough, I can't begin to imagine, but I'm hoping meeting her soon will all be worth it. Lots of love!
You got this! Sending all the good vibes your way!
Sorry things didn't go quite to plan, but I'm still so happy for you! Congrats on your beautiful baby girl ❤
Sending you so much support, I’ve been watching you for about a decade I think! Incredible to see you here now. Just glad you are looking out for yourself and doing what’s right for you. Hope everything goes smoothly and you stay happy & healthy 🖤🖤🖤
Wishing you all the best! I'm surprised anyone would be anti-induction. If it's necessary it's necessary. A bright side to meeting her early is that your baby won't end up being a Christmas week baby like me. It's annoying for your birthday to get second billing to a holiday my family isn't even religious about lol. 13th/14th is perfect to escape getting lost in the Christmas chaos!
Your feelings are SO valid. ❤
Baby’s health comes first- of course. I’m so excited for you to experience motherhood! You’re going to be so amazing.
My daughter just turned 4 in November. Time flies. Enjoy it all. ❤
Try not to feel bad about your birth plan not coming to fruition. I am a mother of 4 and I was encouraged before my 1st child was born to create a detailed birth plan. I never did it again with any of my children because I quickly realized that there is no planning birth it is a very raw vulnerable and unpredictable experience. Every single one of my pregnancies and deliveries were completely different from each other. Yours is a unique experience and there's no way to be able to plan that. You are a strong powerful woman hold your head up!
I also was induced early because of preeclampsia! I totally understand, I wanted to be natural as possible but the baby’s safety comes first
Your concerns are totally valid, you're an amazing mother, you're doing what's best for your baby, you and your family. I hope everything goes well and you get to meet your daughter soon ❤❤❤❤❤
When you explained your journey I got flashbacks of mine! I was induced at 38 weeks due to high bp too! I did always have protein in my urine but I think it was a combination of my anxiety too. I’m so scared to have another baby because of it but I did have a healthy baby girl! I’ll be keeping you and baby in my thoughts and prayers mama! ❤
Oh, Sarah. 😭 Seeing you cry absolutely broke my heart. I'm so sorry that things aren't going the way you wanted.
Don’t worry about what anyone may or may not say. Everything you thought you’d do- may and will probably change. And that’s okay. This is Motherhood. When your pregnant your body does not belong to you anymore. So you do what you need to for your tiny human. I hope your induction goes swimmingly and you have a healthy tiny human. Congratulations and welcome to the club! 😊
I just finished and wanted to add that the best induction story is you get to meet your daughter. Everything else doesn’t matter. ❤
No matter what, people will judge you for something when you are a mom. I had a requested Csection. Lots of people are against that. However you have your baby, that's the right way. Excited for you to meet your daughter ❤️❤️❤️
Congrats Sarah! You did it! All the best to you and your family. ❤
Your feelings are valid! But don’t let your perfectionism make you feel like you are failing! You are doing awesome and I’m happy to hear you will meet your little one soon! Can’t wait to hear what name you and Ryan picked!
Thinking of you Sarah ❤❤❤
I am so sorry. Preeclampsia is a very very scary situation. It went undetected for my sister in law until she went into a seizure before the baby was ready to be born. He was thankfully delivered safely and is 5 now with no health issues. His mom was strong and made it through as well. She actually just had her second baby, another healthy boy. Your pregnancy experience is your own, and so are the plans you originally made. So every feeling or concern you have is valid. Hoping for joy and safety for your family the next few days
I want you to understand that what you are feeling is valid and as someone who was inducted and also ended up with a c-section that the safety of you and your baby is paramount, I know that however she makes her arrival will be a beautiful and memorable one.♥️
I'm sorry that it's a less than ideal situation. I hope the birth goes as smoothly as possible and meeting your baby is wonderful
My heart goes out to you Sarah! 💕 My pregnancy also ended much sooner than I wanted and my birth plan did not happen. My water broke on December 10th and I delivered at exactly 32 weeks. I LOVED being pregnant and there was so much left I wanted and planned to do! The last thing I ever wanted was for my boy to be in the NICU and we aren't sure when he will be home yet, he was born premature but very healthy with no other issues. I found out after getting pregnant that I have a didelphys uterus so baby only had half to work with and I feel like my body failed him to an extent and I wish I could have given him more. I thought I had at least 7 more weeks so I get not being ready and having all of my Christmas and New Years plans thrown away. But I'm so grateful he's safe and doing well now that he's here! All of your feelings are valid!
I was induced as well, but I was 3 days past my due date. Even if she made it to term, you'll never be completely ready for them to be here! Do not stress about that. Nothing will really be to your standard and that's okay. I was very nervous to be induced, but I did not have a bad experience at all. I'm sure she's already here so this advice won't mean anything, but maybe another preggy mama will see it. Make sure to ask for a peanut ball! And eat 1 last good meal before you go in. you won't be able to drink or eat once you go in but get all the ice chips. I put my birth plan on a google doc and shared it with my partner and my mom so they could advocate for me while I was laboring.
I was born naturally at 37 weeks and I'm a (relatively) normal woman now! I hope everything goes well with you and your beautiful baby :)
Sarah! Sending all the love to you and Ryan. You got this ❤
I think women would be a lot less stressed during pregnancy if they didn’t set hopes & expectations for ideal experiences, plans, or try to control so much of the process. It’s just not a process you can control. We even go overboard with restrictions and excluding ourselves from things during pregnancy. This is all very new in the history of pregnancy and child birth. Women have been having babies forever, more often with no knowledge, much less the internet to obsess on. There isn’t much use in being for or against procedures, fantasizing about perfect birth stories, or agonizing over every little thing we put in our bodies. The human body is going to do what it’s going to do and, for the most part, regardless of how much we fuss about doing everything right. As long as you exercise moderation and take good care of yourself, it’s important to trust your body and your doctors to know what to do, and to be ready to roll with things as they arise. I’ve seen so many women distraught over their experiences not going as planned but the concept of being able to plan it is just not realistic. You’re gonna be just fine sweetie. Trust your doctors and try to roll with the flow. A healthy baby is all you’ll care about in the end. All the books in the world can’t prepare you anyway. I would focus less on how you want the experience to be for yourself and more on doing what they recommend to end up with a healthy baby and you’re gonna be great. Once a baby is in your arms, everything that led up to that moment doesn’t matter.
I got induced at 37 weeks too for gestational hypertension after I took a little fall into my belly ❤️ I'll keep my birth story to myself but my recovery was quicker than I thought and I had a healthy baby.
Best of luck in your birth and recovery Sarah. ❤️
I had an emergency csection with my first at 37 weeks 3 days baby girl was completely healthy! Had a bit of jaundice so we did have to stay an extra night. She's turning 5 years old at the end of this month and she's the light of our life! I'm sure your daughter will too wishing you all the best 😄.
You got this!! I had my mind set on a natural birth my water broke the day before my due date so I thought I was getting what I wanted. 12 hrs later I was in so much pain I needed relief. 12 hrs after I stopped progressing at almost 9cm, baby heart started dropping n they wanted a c section which was my worst nightmare. But then it came to no other choice but to getting baby out asap. After everything having my daughter in my arms everything all stress went away. You're going to be a awesome and amazing mother.
Sending you and your baby all the good vibes... everything is going to be OK .. lots of love
I was induced at 37 weeks for high bp. Everything went perfectly. And my daughter is perfect! I think when it comes to you’re health, you should do what’s best for you and baby! I hope everything goes well! Sending you all the good vibes!
Student midwife here - your feelings are VALID. it’s okay to have grief / anger / fear around what’s happening right now. It’s important to make sure you have support around you right now and if there’s anyone you can talk to in order to process things during this fourth trimester (postpartum) that can be very helpful. You’re going to be an amazing mother.
also don't feel the need to rush back to yt, we'll be here. enjoy your time with your family, and taking everything good about this process.
I was also induced at 37 weeks. This and your birth story video really just show me and I think everyone else that you're such a caring and concerned parent already
I was induced at 37 weeks too so I can relate to what you're going through. I remember bursting out crying when the doctor first told me. As others have said here, your feelings are valid.
I hope everything is going well. Thinking of you and sending lots of love to you and your family from the UK ❤️