This was good! I think the thing missing from men vs. women is literally men don't talk! PERIOD! Women release every single thought and emotion to their friends, family or whoever they trust. Men keep it all in their heads and hearts. We may be worsome, but we not suffering in silence most times!
This scripture is very applicable to this episode, Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. James 5:16 We were created to be interdependent of one another. Have a sister or brotherhood. Also it doesn't necessarily have to be a sin, but advice on how to become better in all areas of our life.
Wow, I am genuinely amazed by the rarity of hearing men, especially our black men, who are willing to open up and share their true feelings about navigating manhood and expressing emotions. It's incredible that you guys are bravely sharing your own experiences and perspectives on real-life situations, and I'm genuinely grateful for your willingness to be vulnerable and shed light on these important issues. 👏🏾 Much appreciated ✨
I would love to point out that not all women are big on friends or sharing with friends either, especially introverted women. We may not feel safe to share and so many of us end up just as alone as some men are in dealing with issues 🤷🏾♀️.....just sharing another perspective
😂😂😂😂 The two of you just had me actually rolling on the floor!! Your humor and Brunes laughing at you is like watching a comedy show😂😂😂😂 This is good!!😂😂😂😂
Now this one is good. Having that circle of brothers as us women have our sister circle is good for y’all fellas. I said it before but I’m liking how authentic yall are being. I know the last podcast was in May, but run these back!!
“You are safe” t-shirt with the shoulder out aside, this really activated my “nurture” like how can I help my local Black Man lol. Jokes aside- we (women) really do care- it burdens me to see that heavy of a load on y’alls shoulders. Great Conversation! We love you Black Men. 👏🏽👏🏽 for the awareness and conversation.
The last statement near the end of the episode is very true. You can't do everything alone in this world but you must use your judgment because some individuals are plotting and don't care about your best interest. There is nothing wrong with letting down your guard because some men are prideful which can make some situations worst when all you have to do is ask the questions. #justmyopinion
After listening to this episode no lie the last 10 mins got me. It always gets to me how men say they can’t be vulnerable. Definitely give yourself grace as men. It is okay to make mistakes. One thing I had to learn as a woman: I AM NOT MY MISTAKE. He forgives us when we ask the first time: FORGIVE YOURSELF. Honestly, you’re already taking the steps to break what that “thing” is that’s causing you, in your eyes, to not “do life right” In this podcast: being vulnerable. we are aren’t going to get this thing called life “right.” God knew this. Like you said GO TO HIM especially if you feel you can’t go to anyone else. We’re supposed to go to Him FIRST anyway. Show those weaknesses amongst each other. I think I can speak on WOMEN, not girls there’s a difference, US WOMEN WANT OUR MEN TO BE VULNERABLE. Stop holding that ish in!! This podcast I think I’m gone have to put at the top. Yall opened up here especially the last 20 mins of it. let your feelings OUT! We do! It’s about how you let them out. Therapy is definitely helpful also having that circle of like minded men (for yall) as well as we have our sister circle (wise counsel & accountable). Okay that’s my spill. This was good yall 👏🏾
This episode made me a little emotional 😩 I love you guys (men) and I want y’all to have more safe spaces, even in each other. Accountability only works when the person feels safe enough to be vulnerable with their shortcomings or gray areas, I’m glad you guys addressed this here. I have 4 brothers and a dad…so the wellbeing, safety and success of men has a really special place in my heart. I’ve always tried to be that for my brothers and friends. Thank you for this podcast, I think it’s a great start to the conversation for your community and I’m hoping the fellas take heed. 🩷🎉🔥 The Book of Jon: funny, relatable, impactful…✅✅✅✅
This podcast is hilarious 😂 I don’t have a Mensa card but I got all 4 answers right to those questions. We need more laughter, it’s a lot of serious things going on in this crazy world right now. This podcast is a nice distraction. I like hearing the male perspective on accountability. A woman can say something to a man and he doesn’t always receive it until it comes out of the mouth of another man. Looking forward to the next episode.
This was a whole word. I appreciate the honest conversation about accountability and how men approach it. (I think that's KiKi that sings Something Has to Break)
Love your podcast series @Jonathan! Especially the earlier part with the unpacking and quizzes!!!Well-done, learning a lot about you guys!!! Big up to @Brunes 2! Learning from each other is way too gooo 👍🏽
Mannnnn this was such a good episode😮💨 To hear from the male perspective on dealing with life was so enlightening. I absolutely love this Duo and how raw and real you guys are 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I like the concept of looking at each other as resources.....instead of competition.....I think that would be great for men and women. Women share but sometimes, are just looking for agreement instead of seeing others as a possible resource to learn tips for success or progress.
So this Podcast reminded me a lot of the conversation with Dr. Yeager and Joshua Dubois. It was a very interesting p.o.v. on this topic. Accountability is very important even for women. Black men have it hard, and having that support among your peers is crucial for the success of your journeys. I do agree that being hooked up with the right peers is essential. The enemy would love to take your good and use it for evil. Great discussion. ALWAYS look to God to fill that empty space and He will replace it with His joy and those people that need to be on your team. Seek first the Kingdom of God and He will add all those things to you. Be blessed black men!
I felt that, we deal with most of life internally and alone but all it takes is that moment that you are reassured you are never alone. Personally for me that moment was in the back of a police car lol but it will always linger in my mind and will forever be my reminder. I don't know his name but thank you for that kind reassurance.
I saw a short clip of this on an Instagram story that was interesting, which brought me here to see the full podcast. This has actually been very insightful. I didn't realize the difficulty behind men being vulnerable, I knew that but not to this extent. Much respect to you brothers, seeing behind the curtain of the way men's minds operate is something that is good for women to know. Good job y'all.
Another good one, Jon! 💪🏽💯🔥 I mean, this podcast could very well be the catalyst that some men may need to jump start these conversations that they have been reluctant to have for the reasons you’ve mentioned. Now, they see convos may be uncomfortable, but it’s necessary and they CAN happen. You’re showing some real emotional intelligence in even embracing the need for this. I love watching y’all process it all.
Great topic and conversation. You both made some good points about communication. I experienced vision loss and God has really been working on how I communicate with my loved ones and others. In this season I realize how to be assertive, direct, and patient when completing a task or getting assistance. You're right about establishing great counsel. I am working on that right now, and when we realize we're not alone that helps to let go of unnecessary pressure.
This was a really good topic for the podcast on men and accountability. Hopefully Jonathan can find some healthy food options on his tour and let us know how the workout went at the gym?
My friend, one of your biggest fans, shared this with me to watch and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for this y’all! Very great conversation with unexpectedly hilarious moments. Keep it going 💓🙌🏽
I ain’t gone lie I thought he was pure 😂😂call me naive. But their back and forth about how women be was hilarious 😂 somebody need to remix that interaction
I loved this episode. Real talk! I think you guys may need a female voice, maybe two, for comparison because just as all men may not think the same way, all women don't either...ijs. Plus yall throwing out a lot of women think this women think that...we need accuracy( 😂) from women.
Brunes, I'm a women who believes that men need other men. It helps you to get a different view, on what's on your mind. I pray you find it within your self to open up, it will make you feel better.
This was really good as a mom of 18 yr old, i always try to make sure he has a safe space. But I will say I have seen men use each others weaknesses to hurt them. I think men don't do it like women do but i think men can absolutely be shady lol
Sounds like you’re saying the ppl you surround yourself with reflect the level of accountability a person wants. -- yes, we tryna live well mind, body, spirit
Jonathan you could literally post what city and you’ll be in and someone who professionally sells dinners or caters (and has healthy options) would be thirsty to bring you food and if it’s good it would likely promote their business 😂
I originally wasn’t gonna comment but me personally - when I talk about accountability I wanna know if you’re checking your homeboy about his behavior that literally terrifies / potentially harms women. Like if for example - your homeboy only wants a girl around when she’s drunk, you need to check him. But that’s just me. Also I think it’s actually kind of weird hearing two men discussing how women use information to hurt other women in the future and that’s awful. I remember being that way and I feel like as women as should definitely not be like that lol
OMG....this was good. Had me🤣🤣 when you said the N word twice. I was like as a man of God, you can use the N word? Then I was like he like the best friend in church. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wanna know Jon, did you name the podcast “Book Of Jon” for a reason? I remember an interview you did some time back & said JOB was your favorite book in the Bible. So the initials are JOB backwards. Just curious.
Very intuitive to notice that the B.ook O.f J.on is initialed JOB backwards, but seems it's really about him as he spelled it Jon as in his own name. I think the Job thing just coincidentally kind of worked out that way.
You are over thinking the whole thing 🤗 His name is Jonathan The podcast is about him hence why he titled it as the book of Jon🤗 It's not that deep sis 😊
Idk I just know that I need to know that my mans friends are super loyal to him and do hold him accountable of not just the relationship but are you eating right, working out, mentally are you ok, I want hi to be able to have vulnerable moments where if its something he can't tell me because of it being a "guy thing" then go ahead just so long as they are leading you in a path of truth and not just being irresponsible with you and your being.
Oop, Not jonathan tryna eat like me. Salmon Mashed Potatoes and Broccoli is my go to "meal prep", zuchini and onions when I need a lil razzle dazzle lol
This conversation is really making me realise that I actually need a group of brothers around me that I should do life with
We need an update next week on whether or not Jonathan showed up for the workout
yes
Yes we do
yess we doo!!
You already know he didn't based on how he responded 😂
This was good! I think the thing missing from men vs. women is literally men don't talk! PERIOD! Women release every single thought and emotion to their friends, family or whoever they trust. Men keep it all in their heads and hearts. We may be worsome, but we not suffering in silence most times!
This scripture is very applicable to this episode, Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
James 5:16
We were created to be interdependent of one another. Have a sister or brotherhood. Also it doesn't necessarily have to be a sin, but advice on how to become better in all areas of our life.
Wow, I am genuinely amazed by the rarity of hearing men, especially our black men, who are willing to open up and share their true feelings about navigating manhood and expressing emotions. It's incredible that you guys are bravely sharing your own experiences and perspectives on real-life situations, and I'm genuinely grateful for your willingness to be vulnerable and shed light on these important issues. 👏🏾 Much appreciated ✨
I would love to point out that not all women are big on friends or sharing with friends either, especially introverted women. We may not feel safe to share and so many of us end up just as alone as some men are in dealing with issues 🤷🏾♀️.....just sharing another perspective
👋🏾 💯
Thank you this 💓
love when Brunes plants doubt by asking "you want a hint?"😂🤣
😂😂😂😂 The two of you just had me actually rolling on the floor!! Your humor and Brunes laughing at you is like watching a comedy show😂😂😂😂 This is good!!😂😂😂😂
Now this one is good. Having that circle of brothers as us women have our sister circle is good for y’all fellas. I said it before but I’m liking how authentic yall are being. I know the last podcast was in May, but run these back!!
When a man shows his vulnerable side, the woman translates that to intimacy
“You are safe” t-shirt with the shoulder out aside, this really activated my “nurture” like how can I help my local Black Man lol. Jokes aside- we (women) really do care- it burdens me to see that heavy of a load on y’alls shoulders. Great Conversation! We love you Black Men. 👏🏽👏🏽 for the awareness and conversation.
Ya'll were extra with that "Who's holding you accountable?" intro😂. It was funny though🤣
Am dead the 8th commandment almost brought Jon Jon trouble. Genius!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The last statement near the end of the episode is very true. You can't do everything alone in this world but you must use your judgment because some individuals are plotting and don't care about your best interest. There is nothing wrong with letting down your guard because some men are prideful which can make some situations worst when all you have to do is ask the questions. #justmyopinion
This was good and real. I appreciated the humor and vulnerability. Saved but not siloed. Thank you black men!!
After listening to this episode no lie the last 10 mins got me. It always gets to me how men say they can’t be vulnerable. Definitely give yourself grace as men. It is okay to make mistakes. One thing I had to learn as a woman: I AM NOT MY MISTAKE. He forgives us when we ask the first time: FORGIVE YOURSELF. Honestly, you’re already taking the steps to break what that “thing” is that’s causing you, in your eyes, to not “do life right” In this podcast: being vulnerable. we are aren’t going to get this thing called life “right.” God knew this. Like you said GO TO HIM especially if you feel you can’t go to anyone else. We’re supposed to go to Him FIRST anyway. Show those weaknesses amongst each other. I think I can speak on WOMEN, not girls there’s a difference, US WOMEN WANT OUR MEN TO BE VULNERABLE. Stop holding that ish in!! This podcast I think I’m gone have to put at the top. Yall opened up here especially the last 20 mins of it. let your feelings OUT! We do! It’s about how you let them out. Therapy is definitely helpful also having that circle of like minded men (for yall) as well as we have our sister circle (wise counsel & accountable). Okay that’s my spill. This was good yall 👏🏾
Y'all two are hilarious. I enjoy listening to every episode.
This episode made me a little emotional 😩 I love you guys (men) and I want y’all to have more safe spaces, even in each other. Accountability only works when the person feels safe enough to be vulnerable with their shortcomings or gray areas, I’m glad you guys addressed this here. I have 4 brothers and a dad…so the wellbeing, safety and success of men has a really special place in my heart. I’ve always tried to be that for my brothers and friends. Thank you for this podcast, I think it’s a great start to the conversation for your community and I’m hoping the fellas take heed. 🩷🎉🔥 The Book of Jon: funny, relatable, impactful…✅✅✅✅
I love you for your comment 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This podcast is hilarious 😂 I don’t have a Mensa card but I got all 4 answers right to those questions. We need more laughter, it’s a lot of serious things going on in this crazy world right now. This podcast is a nice distraction. I like hearing the male perspective on accountability. A woman can say something to a man and he doesn’t always receive it until it comes out of the mouth of another man. Looking forward to the next episode.
This was a whole word. I appreciate the honest conversation about accountability and how men approach it. (I think that's KiKi that sings Something Has to Break)
Love your podcast series @Jonathan! Especially the earlier part with the unpacking and quizzes!!!Well-done, learning a lot about you guys!!! Big up to @Brunes 2!
Learning from each other is way too gooo 👍🏽
I am here for all of these podcasts!! Can't wait to hear you guys thoughts on this. I'm chimed in!!!
Health is wealth mentally and physically ties into healthier blood flow.
Mannnnn this was such a good episode😮💨 To hear from the male perspective on dealing with life was so enlightening. I absolutely love this Duo and how raw and real you guys are 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I like the concept of looking at each other as resources.....instead of competition.....I think that would be great for men and women. Women share but sometimes, are just looking for agreement instead of seeing others as a possible resource to learn tips for success or progress.
This was wholesome and healthy, God Bless both of you ❤☺️
This is a good podcast really enjoying this. It's twenty minutes longer but it feels short. I enjoy the vulnerability. Keep it coming
I love you, Jonathan, and your music
This was soooo good!!! Love to hear men talk about topics like this so us women can get a better understanding
So this Podcast reminded me a lot of the conversation with Dr. Yeager and Joshua Dubois. It was a very interesting p.o.v. on this topic. Accountability is very important even for women. Black men have it hard, and having that support among your peers is crucial for the success of your journeys. I do agree that being hooked up with the right peers is essential. The enemy would love to take your good and use it for evil. Great discussion. ALWAYS look to God to fill that empty space and He will replace it with His joy and those people that need to be on your team. Seek first the Kingdom of God and He will add all those things to you. Be blessed black men!
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I felt that, we deal with most of life internally and alone but all it takes is that moment that you are reassured you are never alone. Personally for me that moment was in the back of a police car lol but it will always linger in my mind and will forever be my reminder. I don't know his name but thank you for that kind reassurance.
I'm enjoying hearing men's perspective on how they handle life
Can only imagine the topic of the next podcast 😁
Keep 'em coming!
Thank you for being real Jon ❤
I saw a short clip of this on an Instagram story that was interesting, which brought me here to see the full podcast. This has actually been very insightful. I didn't realize the difficulty behind men being vulnerable, I knew that but not to this extent. Much respect to you brothers, seeing behind the curtain of the way men's minds operate is something that is good for women to know. Good job y'all.
Another good one, Jon! 💪🏽💯🔥
I mean, this podcast could very well be the catalyst that some men may need to jump start these conversations that they have been reluctant to have for the reasons you’ve mentioned. Now, they see convos may be uncomfortable, but it’s necessary and they CAN happen. You’re showing some real emotional intelligence in even embracing the need for this. I love watching y’all process it all.
It takes strength to be vulnerable
MORE A DIS! Cause y’all preaching
This is my first time popping into this
enjoyed listening while I took my eve walk.
Good stuff guys
enjoyable
This was really good!! Keep em coming because this truly enlightened me in so many ways✨
Great topic and conversation. You both made some good points about communication. I experienced vision loss and God has really been working on how I communicate with my loved ones and others. In this season I realize how to be assertive, direct, and patient when completing a task or getting assistance. You're right about establishing great counsel. I am working on that right now, and when we realize we're not alone that helps to let go of unnecessary pressure.
I'm tuning in for the second time. This is 🔥
Jonathan is very smart🏆
Thank you so much for this conversation
Awesome session!
Thank you, gentlemen!
Great podcast! Keep 'em coming!😊 🎉❤
I loved everything about this episode! It was 🔥🔥🔥! Thanks for sharing Jonathan!
Glad this conversation was had. Definitely gonna watch this again with the hubby.
Thank you for this dialog. It was really helpful.
I am 42 minutes in & this is enlightening!
This was a really good topic for the podcast on men and accountability. Hopefully Jonathan can find some healthy food options on his tour and let us know how the workout went at the gym?
I've just started watching your Podcast . Love it ! 😊
Just bought my ticket for your concert in South Africa,I CANT WAITTTT
My friend, one of your biggest fans, shared this with me to watch and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for this y’all! Very great conversation with unexpectedly hilarious moments. Keep it going 💓🙌🏽
Love the book of John. I think it's cool. I love it, keep up the good work.😊
Great episode!
So good Brunes and Jon. It'd be great if men start being more open... We are obviously different (men and women) but it would be nice to try...
I ain’t gone lie I thought he was pure 😂😂call me naive. But their back and forth about how women be was hilarious 😂 somebody need to remix that interaction
Love y'all
Jon def didn’t wake up to workout. 😂😭
👏🏾Good Stuff👏🏾
I loved this episode. Real talk! I think you guys may need a female voice, maybe two, for comparison because just as all men may not think the same way, all women don't either...ijs. Plus yall throwing out a lot of women think this women think that...we need accuracy( 😂) from women.
Really great topic! I’m excited for the next episode and I did see Jonathan eyes get a little glossy 😂
That's it Jon.
As soon as you said Ranoosh I knew that was STL 😂 great episode tho!
I’m glad Jonathan has friends that he can mirror 😅
I am loving this, eish😂
Pleasssseee…….A sing or a talk with Michael Bethany, amazing deep moment McReynolds x Bethany 😊
Brunes, I'm a women who believes that men need other men. It helps you to get a different view, on what's on your mind. I pray you find it within your self to open up, it will make you feel better.
Hey Jon, God bless y'all! Rice cooker has been helping me maybe you could use one on the road. Much love
Hit is great👏🏽
I would have loved to bring the female prospective to this podcast
That was actually Kierra Sheard. 😂
Yeah
I think some of why you don't show weakness in front of other men is the feeling of vulnerability.
This was really good as a mom of 18 yr old, i always try to make sure he has a safe space. But I will say I have seen men use each others weaknesses to hurt them. I think men don't do it like women do but i think men can absolutely be shady lol
😂😂😂 Jonathan McReynolds Johnny Mac love you 😘🎉🎉
Really enjoyed this one ♥️
Brunes looks like he wanna cry towards the end. 💫🩶
Jon...you can buy a griddle or burner and cook your own food on tour as long as you got outlets near you. #imjustsaying
Calling for angles is wild 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like you’re saying the ppl you surround yourself with reflect the level of accountability a person wants. -- yes, we tryna live well mind, body, spirit
I think y'all should have women as guests too in these type of conversations. It would be interesting to have that dynamic
My genius self, was thinking the two birds that Noah sent from the Ark were 1. Dove 2. Turtle dove 😂🤭
Jonathan you could literally post what city and you’ll be in and someone who professionally sells dinners or caters (and has healthy options) would be thirsty to bring you food and if it’s good it would likely promote their business 😂
We want to know if you woke up for the workout, Jon 👀 Ik my 5:30am workout be killing me. 😭
Hmmm, well perhaps you can receive a list of restaurants before your performance. And pre-order and have warmers to keep your food warm for you.
I originally wasn’t gonna comment but me personally - when I talk about accountability I wanna know if you’re checking your homeboy about his behavior that literally terrifies / potentially harms women. Like if for example - your homeboy only wants a girl around when she’s drunk, you need to check him. But that’s just me.
Also I think it’s actually kind of weird hearing two men discussing how women use information to hurt other women in the future and that’s awful. I remember being that way and I feel like as women as should definitely not be like that lol
OMG....this was good. Had me🤣🤣 when you said the N word twice. I was like as a man of God, you can use the N word? Then I was like he like the best friend in church. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wanna know Jon, did you name the podcast “Book Of Jon” for a reason? I remember an interview you did some time back & said JOB was your favorite book in the Bible. So the initials are JOB backwards. Just curious.
Very intuitive to notice that the B.ook O.f J.on is initialed JOB backwards, but seems it's really about him as he spelled it Jon as in his own name. I think the Job thing just coincidentally kind of worked out that way.
@@rndiva5850correct 😊
You are over thinking the whole thing 🤗
His name is Jonathan
The podcast is about him hence why he titled it as the book of Jon🤗
It's not that deep sis 😊
@judgeright2292 that's exactly what I said!
Idk I just know that I need to know that my mans friends are super loyal to him and do hold him accountable of not just the relationship but are you eating right, working out, mentally are you ok, I want hi to be able to have vulnerable moments where if its something he can't tell me because of it being a "guy thing" then go ahead just so long as they are leading you in a path of truth and not just being irresponsible with you and your being.
Even The Holy Spirit is a gentleman waits for us to ask at ask at times
Y’all Next Time Choose Danny’s you won’t be disappointed. I Promise!!! There food is always hot and pleasant.
😂😂 Maybe put a chef on the budget, 😂.
There you go using that bad word lol
Oop, Not jonathan tryna eat like me. Salmon Mashed Potatoes and Broccoli is my go to "meal prep", zuchini and onions when I need a lil razzle dazzle lol
They should get a chef to travel with you guys and have some premade meal plans. I can actually help with that if you guys want to pay for someone 😉
This is what I am thinking definitely hire a chef
2:37: Don't expect healthy food options on April 9. #NOLA 😂
Hey Mr. McReynolds! Get a personal chef to go on tour with you. I am claiming it for you.
Real talk, six pack or naw...Jon you are the man. Always handsome from the inside out, always!...ijs
Why don’t he ask you music questions. Music theory, music history, etc
😂👏🏽😂👏🏽😂👏🏽
JESUS IS THE ANSWER. Start there, and He will show you where to go for the answer and help you need.