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The fact that they call the fetuses a “bean” just tells you how hard people are trying to dehumanize the most innocent and vulnerable of our species, wether you like it or not it is proven by science that that “bean” is a human life. What are we gonna start calling baby showers “Bean showers” now? Are we gonna start saying “Im having a bean”? Gosh this is despicable
Why does everyone wanna fight on this topic? As I’m older now reflecting on this comment, I still don’t understand why people can’t just mind each other’s business. Abortion is healthcare and the only reason people are defending life in these replies is because it is their belief that it is murder. Key word, belief. There is no biology of when the human life begins so it can only be up to personal beliefs and I believe it is not murder. I don’t care who disagrees because I am not being disrespectful about my opinion and neither should anyone else :)
The real reason this conflict is so controversial is because we don't know when to justify if a fetus (and before stages) is alive. Some people say it's a human and others say it's cells starting to grow. Most of this is surrounding when a heartbeat occurs or when they feel.
imagine that someone FORCES you to get an abortion, even if you want to keep the baby really much. women that are FORCED to keep the baby even if they don't want to feel the same.
carolina hernandez i’m okay with peoples choice. if you don’t wanna keep it than that’s alright, i don’t believe forcing someone to abort, or forcing them to give birth. let them have a choice
People are quick to judge other women for their decisions, but never even stop to think about their situation. Get educated, then you can preach to us about science.
Their situation of having sex and failing to use birth control or condoms or any other form of contreception. Wow..So hard of a life… grow the fuck off these are first world problems y’all aren’t oppressed if anything your encouraged to murder children. Demon be gone.
I appreciate her story a great deal because it doesn't shove down your throat to be pro life or pro abortion. It's just a woman sharing her experience and thoughts about what she went through. It's different for every woman and girl, different circumstances some good some bad. But I hope this woman is doing better.
Yeah, it’s definitely not propaganda 🤔 Just so you know at 3 months ( when this abortion happened) the baby is conscious, has a heart beat, yawns, can feel pain and has all its fingers and toes.
TheInvincible H BUT SHE WASNT READY FOR IT. YOU CANT FORCE HER TO HAVE A CHILD SHE ISNT READY FOR. IT WILL HARM IT MORE IF ITS BORN INTO A WORLD WITHOUT A STABLE HOME?!?
Munch Crunch so, because she didn’t feel like it, she can literally murder the kid instead of giving it to a couple which may not be able to have a kid because of infertility
This is helping me so much. 1 1/2 years later still dealing with the grief. My story is a little different as I wanted a child, and I was blessed with a little bean. However, the little bean was slowly killing me. My organs began to shut down because of my autoimmune disease. I had no choice but to either kill myself and the bean, or to abort the bean. My heart still hurts to this day. I feel ashamed, I feel like less of a women because I had no choice. I am, pro choice and believe every women has a right do as they wish with their bodies, however, it’s still equally as painful when the choice has to be made. Thank you for your story.
Ashley Kieswetter I am pro life and I say abortion is wrong and is murder 99% of the time, but in your case it is completely different. You really didn’t have much of a choice all I can say is stay strong and put trust in God and He may bless you with a child that you can love and cherish. I will be praying for you :)
Your story isn’t the same, and if u use ur story to connect with people who actually wanted to kill their kid ur diminishing the life you lost and being really really disgusting. Maybe u didn’t deserve a kid you pig.
Mohamed Mohamed you literally told her you better become pro life. that is forcing your opinions on someone which i am not doing. also i think it’s weird how you care more about a sack of cells life over a grown woman with feelings and a life
Most of the people in these comments are disgustingly shaming this brave woman. Agree or disagree, she was courageous enough to share her obviously emotionally traumatic story with the world and you’re focusing on the fact that she called it a bean or she could’ve used adoption? Shame on you. Just because you feel abortion isn’t the right choice for you, does not mean you have the right to make that choice for others.
@@crowsong1 making a decision to better your life and sharing it is, and you don’t know what she circumstances were. You shaming someone for making one of the biggest decisions of their life without knowing why they had to do it is sad on your end. I hope you have matured from this comment.
You know what is brave? Irresponsibly getting knocked up, owning it and giving a childless couple a beautiful child through adoption. My sister did that and she was the definition of brave.
With a lot of respect, when a woman decides to have her baby, where are the shepherds or Protestants who refuse to allow abortion, stop worrying about lives that they won't support.
Yea keep bitching at hard-working people who are being crushed by the taxes they pay to make sure there are programs out there that prevent these kids from starving, give them free education and housing and on and on... What’s wrong with you? Like, honestly.... what are u actually thinking???
Your right not to be killed by me doesn’t mean I have to provide for you. Imagine following someone who just mugged you: “sir you let me live I’m your responsibility now”.
@@generalj216 exactly, its just a contradiction of pro choice who are also BLM, because they care for black lives but they are not FORCED to keep them, provide them constantly with food, shelter, etc
Hello, I would like to thank you for sharing your story. I also had an abortion 2 years ago and your story is the first one that I heard and to this day I still listen to it. Thank you for being strong, thank you for being honest and I hope you're somewhere amazing in life now
these comments are ridiculous. I hope all these close minded people realize how idiotic they sound. You’re very brave and you did what was best for you. Never be too hard on yourself, it is your body, your choice.
It’s such a powerful moment when the craziness of the day has ran its course and it’s just my sound asleep son and I in bed. Every night I put my hand on his heart and thank God for giving me the most precious gift. I’m so grateful he knew what I needed when I couldn’t make sense of it all. Before I gave birth to my son, I was lost.. my heart was broken and selfish. When I first found out I was pregnant the first words out of my mouth were “no, this can not happen”. I couldn’t even support myself how was I going to support a child? I was the most scared I’ve ever been in my life, my life felt as if it was shattering. I remember being at my second appointment and the doctor couldn’t find the heartbeat. I still had not accepted that I was pregnant and my whole life was about to change. I was relieved. She went into the other room, grabbed a different monitor and though very faint, she said it was there. Night after night after night I’d cry in my room, in the shower, in the car.. I just couldn’t accept it. Right before going in to be induced I was scared, not to give birth but afraid that I wouldn’t be able to have a connection with my own child bc I was so detached throughout the whole pregnancy. That moment.. when the nurse handed him to me and laid him on my chest was THE BEST moment in my ENTIRE life. I never imagined a love this Devine, Unconditional or Deep existed. The one thing that holds me together is the thing I tried to resist the most..but God knew. He gave me the greatest gift, I could not ask for more. Yet, he still makes me promises of the future and with that I trust in him. If your'e scared right now because of an unexpected pregnancy, please know that although you didn't see it coming- the Lord did. And when the Lord moves he moves WITH PURPOSE! Trust him. #askmewhyjesusislife
Thank you for writing this comment. It’s honouring of of those who have had abortions but also shows the light of going through with the pregnancy. It’s so important to have these story’s out there. Pregnancy is such a big thing, so many emotions and such a physical toll. Your story is so beautiful, God clearly had his hand over you and knew the Path that lay ahead.
Feels as if my heart is ripping apart as I'm breaking down watching this. I regret getting an abortion so much that I wanna take my life. I can't live with this pain of killing my baby.
I’m so sorry you regret having an abortion. While I’m sure you know it is necessary for other woman I am extremely sorry you regret yours. Something I have found to help a lot of woman in these types of situations is too adopt a child and give them an amazing better life. I wish you the best :)
im sorry that some of these comments to you are not so nice but i want to say i am here for you and im so sorry you feel this way. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant and will be having a abortion most likely in the next 1-2 weeks I am also very scared of how this will effect me mentally and would love to talk more with you if you need someone. I want you to know you are not alone
@@puest-uo4lr why is this comment necessary here? Leave her alone with that shit. She obviously feels that it isn’t necessary and you just shove it down her throat. Y’all are demonic
I found out March 2nd I am pregnant I am currently considering abortion and believe it is my best course of action but im not sure ill ever be the same. I feel desperately alone and so overwhelmed this video gabe me a little hope that i may be able to recover mentally from this.
Please reconsider youre choice very carefully i am not here to judge you you have your own circumstances in life that determine that choice you are preferring. But for the life you are caring in your womb its a blessing from god that you are pregnant the baby cant speak for himself Please Consider giving your baby to adoption there's many women crying for a family/baby in their life. Pregnancy is not easy and painful. I hope you reconsider youre choices may jesus almighty help you guide you through this situation. 🙏❤czcams.com/video/TMmjLC-VoXI/video.html czcams.com/video/mB1vV2EgS5A/video.html life is precious
ik i am a complete stranger, but you’re not alone. just know it isn’t the only option. there are adoptions where you can choose the parents and have contact with your child or no contact whatsoever
@@ageis3250 if that is your thought process, i respect that. i do however hope you use birth control and other forms of contraceptives tho before just throwing abortion around as the first and only option to deal with this. have a good day
This is so sad, no not the fact that she chose to have an abortion but the cruelty in which she had to have an abortion, the harshness of the operating room, the unsympathetic all male surgeons ;-(
Me and my boyfriend went to my ultrasound appointment because I thought I had to see the baby when I go to the clinic. My appointment is in 2 days and I’m too far for the pill and I just found out last Friday that I am pregnant. I would love to have this baby but there is no way I can have one right now. I’d have to force myself into things I’m not ready for and that’s not how I plan on getting ready to become a mother and neither is he ready to be a dad. I know I’ll miss knowing I have a little one inside but I also know I am making the right choice
@@nenyyxo the only guilt was becoming pregnant, not the part where I went and got the abortion. But now it’s more “I can’t believe that happened” and I feel somewhat sad. I let myself heal as fast as I could so I can start a journey to find love for myself
@@UltraXplor hi sweetheart how do you feel now? I'm currently 8 weeks and 5 days. I'm having alot of thoughts on whether to go on with the pregnancy or not, I'm no financially stable I can't even find a job now .. I don't know what to do ..
@@lizzmg6213 I had to wait another week for my clinic appointment because there was a really bad snow storm. So I ended up being 15 weeks. Yesterday would of been my due date and I felt sad, I wish a lot of things. But I do not wish to have the pregnancy in the situation I was in. Not financially stable, it’s still hard now even though I live with my mom. I did what I could do to get past the hard part which was the beginning of my abortion. It was hard but I wanted to get through it as fast as I could but also do things in memory of my baby. I personally don’t think it was an unwanted pregnancy, I would of love to have my baby if I wasn’t low in money. Do what you think you’re future will look like, jobs are hard to get, pay isn’t always good in most places. Do you want to have your life change forever now? In this situation around the US with jobs? If you have family or a friend who would love to take care of your baby after it’s born (pretty much like an adoption) you can probably do it like that if your state doesn’t have a law against it. Personally I had my sister and brother but there was no way I was going to let them, they’re not better in money than I was. Not being able to find a job now means you can buy things, save, prepare. If you do find a job you can only be there for a few months before you have to go on maternity leave and that means 3 months (if that is how it is in your state). That means you’re living off of what you were able to save if you could, if you have family that can help then you can talk to them if you’re comfortable doing so
Arthur Morgan Ikr. If she didn't want her child, she could've jus put her child in an adoption. But guess what? She chose to kill her child which was the worst option. She is clrealy evil.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 Women can die during childbirth and hear me out, what if she wasn't fucking ready to have a kid yet? You aren't her, so her actions aren't for you to decide. Her body, her choice. It's not that she wanted to, it's that she wasn't ready, maybe she's smaller than you think and could have broken her pelvis or died during childbirth. It's her body, you don't have any fucking say in it. "thE biBLe sAyS IT's WrONG to kIlL aN UnBOrn baBY." The Bible also said that ACTUAL LIFE starts AFTER the baby takes 3 breaths, not inside the womb. I'm a religious person and I believe that women should have the choice of what to do to their body. My body, my choice.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 bringing a child into this world is not easy, as someone who has gone through the process I would rather I send my child back to his father in heaven that my child suffer on this earth because of my financial status, when I am work my God will bring my little bean back so shut the fuck up once you’ve had a been in a situation like that you don’t know how to respond Fool
@@delnavaznirvana9404 you and the commenter are both delusional she is allowed to call it whatever she wants and do whatever she wants her body her bean shut up
She says she doesn't regret it but she felt shame, sadness, became depressed and didn't want to talk about it. She can't look at babies and new mothers or a sonogram of a baby and is sad on the day the baby would have been born. Looks like she does massively regret it but doesn't want to admit it. So so sad xx
I don’t think she regrets it. I think she feels her decision was justified for her life at the time, but with all the brutal, harsh people in this world shaming her, making her feel as if she deserves nothing but the worst, probably doesn’t help. She probably is going through a lot, and feels like she has no outlet. It’s very fresh still in her mind and, very complicated, but maybe someday with time, she will open up more.
olivia ferris obviously the world hasn’t been harsh enough on you to make u wanna fix your saggy ass... it looks like you’ve dumped in your shorts you frumpy, pathetic piece of human trash
How can you not regret it? I’m extremely pro life.. I’ve had abortion bf in my youth..there’s nothing I regret more.. nothing.. I was young, scared, poor...but I never wanted to do it and I never thought it was ok.. and 25 years ago we didn’t have CZcams and google at our fingertips .. I was completely ignorant about the process and planned parenthood lies to you about the size and they don’t tell you the details of what they do.. I hated myself for what I did.. I had my babies killed.. I might not of pulled the trigger but I hired the hit man.. it’s murder.. regardless of “ our” reasons..God gives us life and it’s not our place to take it.. that slogan pro choice woman have.. my body my choice.. is the most selfish thing I’ve ever heard..and the hypocrisy in the statement.. it’s not your body your choosing to kill and have ripped apart piece by piece.. a heart beat can be detected at 2 weeks and at the moment of conception it’s life and already has all the dna that makes you..you.. if you have had a abortion.. there is forgiveness.. you need to understand what you have done.. repent .. understand abortion is shedding innocent blood.. and if you make a mistake by being careless and become pregnant by accident.. you don’t kill your baby to fix the problem.. I watch a lot of things about abortion now.. and the wicked things that I’ve heard coming out of women mouth is disgusting.. how do you justify the murdering of the innocent? You can’t.. you have to lie to your self and every one around you.. ✝️🙏 God help us all( I’m on my daughters CZcams my name is Kim)
Jaden Minter I believe in Jesus. I know he forgives me but I can’t forgive myself. What do I do. I was six weeks and it’s been nine months sense. I think about it everyday and cry.
Venus Tv that’s the problem I had for a long long time.. I hated myself for what I did.. and I even thought bf I learned more that Jesus would never forgive me.. but it was me that could not forgive myself.. the fact that you feel like you do shows real repentance.. you are truly sorry and you have realized what you have done.. that is step one.. Now you have to put your entire trust in Jesus... I’m going to share something with you.. I have had 4 near death experiences.. I got 4 glimpses into the afterlife.. I experienced my soul alive and aware and fully conscious outside my human body .. I have no words to really take you there.. none exist but it’s all real.. it’s extremely overwhelming but in a wonderful amazing way.. though these experiences changed my life they are not the core of my faith.. Jesus is and the Bible are...2 Tim 3:16.. I’m about to be late for work so I’ll be back to finish.. but bf I go I want to tell you.. your baby is very much alive.. death is a flesh thing... the best way I have heard it said is .. the car is the body and the soul is the driver..when the car breaks down the driver simply gets out of the car... I have experienced this 4 times.. your baby, my babies, every one babies are alive and growing in love in Heaven.. I’m not just telling you this to comfort you.. it’s the truth.. i have zero fear of death bc I trust fully in Jesus.. I promise you this.. if you trust in Jesus you will see your baby again.. I have zero doubts in this.. zero...I don’t just believe this I know this .. now it’s a very long story but I must tell you this.. all experiences are not from God.. so bf you listen to anyone about near death experiences bc they will vary.. read 1 John 4 very carefully.. I’ll be back to finish talking to you .. ❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏
Jaden Minter thank you. I just feel disgusting how I could’ve been so scared I did what I did. I feel guilty having fun now because I should be taking care of a child. I feel guilty if I have future kids because I feel like what I did will be showing that’s the one I didn’t want. It’s all so confusing and eating my mind alive.
Venus Tv I can’t tell you how much I relate to what your saying.. I’ve used the exact words that “it was eating me alive “..and it did for over 20 years...I wish I had stronger roots in Jesus then.. I never would of done it..my babies ,your baby will know the truth.. there is no confusion in Heaven.. your baby won’t even be mad at you... Jesus knows your heart.. and unlike a lot of women these days you really regret it.. you are really sorry.. and that doesn’t make what we did ok at all but repentance makes all the difference in the world.. your baby will know how you feel about him or her...God took my sins of abortion and now I use them to help stop others from making the same mistake.. bc it’s a mistake you can never take back.. we got to own it and that’s what we are doing but it’s going to be alright my friend if you trust in Jesus.. I promise.. though it is still painful for me to think about what I’ve done.. I’m at peace now.. bc Jesus loves us so much and bc we have truly repented ...he does forgive us.. I’m about to go to sleep.. I can’t look until I’m done writing this to see if I told you I’m on my daughters CZcams in my last message.. my name is Kim.. and I’m here for you.. if you want to talk about anything ... I’m here .. ❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️🙏🙏😊 I’m under Kim Lang on Facebook.. Missouri, my photo says I love Jesus in a red heart.. if you want to Facebook friend me ..if not I completely understand and we can continue to talk here for as long as you want..you can remain anonymous..regardless I’m here for you.. my heart breaks for you bc I know what you are feeling exactly.. it will take some time but it will get better, just trust in our Lord Jesus.. ❤️❤️✝️🙏
Jaden Minter thank you so much. You’ve done more than you know. I don’t have a Facebook, but I will probably reread your message from time to time when I get down. I have days I think I can continue my life but for the most part it’s a drag and when I think I’m going to get better it gets worse. Thank you so much though. You’ve done more than you know.
Pro choice!!! All the way. A women shouldn’t be ashamed that they didn’t keep their baby. I don’t care what reason they did it for financial, personal, medical, mental, victim of rape/abuse all are valid, no matter the situation it is that women’s choice and a matter of that womens health, NOT ANYONE ELSES. For those who say keep it put it up for adoption, not all children get adopted, there are so many stories of people who spent their whole childhoods in adoption centres, homes and foster care, the majority of them are negative. In the system you don’t get to experience love, nurturing, care or a normal life or relationship with anyone. Putting that child up for adoption could possibly be worse for it than keeping it and raising it even tho you can’t for whatever reason. Birth control is never going to be 100% effective, everything can and will at times fail. It’s human instinct to have sex, it’s normal, So don’t just say don’t have sex, people are allowed to make their own choices. It’s the mothers choice, not any keyboard warrior or random idiots choice.
Did you know, saying that someone should not get an abortion because of your beliefs does not make you an idiot or keyboard warrior? I mean scientists are arguing about this and they are most likely very intelligent.
It’s not okay to take an innocent life because you *think* it might ruin yours. Even if you’re underage and don’t want to raise a child, you could simply give him/her up for adoption. Why should you get to decide the fate of another person for your own selfish reasons? You yourself were pro-life! Imagine having life ended for you before it could really even start because of some girl’s affair or bad taste in men. Life is not some health care option. Life is precious.
R u serious?! They are not they know how babies are aborted and at the time her baby was oborted it was surgically removed meaning the baby was ripped limb from limb!
I should have been aborted. 😢 I hate i exist. Its my secret givin id get in huge trouble since my family is pro life but to be honest i feel bad admitting it but i wish i was aborted every single day, I hate i was not among the lucky ones to not be born. I wake up everyday wishing i was never born. Thank You for aborting. You saved a child from this world.
My dear, please don't talk like that! You are a unique and magnificent person! You are worthy of love and support! Don't give up because life is hard, you can achieve your goals and live a wonderful life! I will pray for you and your well being, please feel free to write to me if you ever need to vent. Maybe you'll be more comfortable with opening up with a stranger who can't and will not judge you
No you shouldn’t have been. God loves you and he wants you. This woman shouldn’t have aborted her kid because she murdered an innocent baby. She didn’t save anyone from our world.
You did the right thing. People who keep telling you don't, they won't help you raise your child. And they don't care if you feel like your life has been ruined. It's so strange that people only care about babies in the uterus rather than the living mom or how mothers are gonna pay for raising babies they are not prepared to have, or how those babies are gonna live through after they come to this unprepared world. Isn't that sarcastic? Couldn't people mind their own businesses? They have the rights to tell their own daughters or something that not to do this decision, but they have no rights to blame you. Shame on them.
The mother could put the child up for adoption once born, plus there are millions of people who long to have children but can’t due to diseases or whatnot, and they would be incredibly happy to inherit a child. There are more solutions than abortion.
Edgar Allan Poe's The Black Cat actually its the process of adoption. Lawmakers have made it so difficult to adopt a baby its disturbing. I know people hove have been waiting 3 years to adopt but cant because the system has to do background checks, interrogations, and very unnecessary procedures. If it would be easier to adopt, abortion would be no more.
Due to rampant sexual immorality in our world, unplanned pregnancies abound. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. The Bible clearly points to conception as the beginning of human life. Jeremiah 1:5 tells us that God knows us before He forms us in the womb. Psalm 139:13-16 speaks of God’s active role in our creation and formation in the womb. Exodus 21:22-25 prescribes the same penalty-death-for someone who causes the death of a baby in the womb as for someone who commits murder. For the Christian, abortion is not a matter of a woman’s right to choose. It is a matter of the life or death of a human being made in God’s image. The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” And, most pro-abortion people just don’t want to look at and hear about what is being done to these fetuses. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck em out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. Perhaps the worst of all wrongs, Cruelly destroying human life that did not choose to be conceived. all human life is sacred. God’s command against murder precedes the Ten Commandments and the Law of Moses (Genesis 9:5-6). This was a universal decree for all humanity. God is the only Giver of life, and only He can dictate when that life should end. The Bible teaches man who God is and who is not God. Man isn’t God. Isn’t qualified to play God. Messes things up when he tries to play God. Period. To many of us, it is just clear. Abortion is a road-a path that heads in a direction opposite of where Christ taught us to go-to love life, to protect life, to nurture life, to procreate life, and to sustain it as best as we are empowered to do. Abortion goes against all that. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of life. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers’ womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen. Psalm 127:3-5 "Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
Or we could, you know, provide sex education for our youths, which reduces the rates of abortions drastically. Also not everyone believes in your god, hun. Don't bring religion into politics, it can only get messy.
I hope science continues to strengthen contraceptives, but until then I think she made the right decision. Her entire life would’ve changed if she had that baby, in some cases for the better, and some for the worse. A lot worse. It’s either the life of a fetus that has never had a family, seen the sun, or developed a unique personality yet, or a woman who has relationships, a personality, and hopes for her future. I choose her life over a fetus’.
I personally understand why you did this, pregnancy is stressful. It was your choice, that fetus had no choice. I am sorry you went through such horrifying things.
I hate that word abortion . It’s a choice . Do what you want with your body it’s not the 1930s .no one can live your life but you . It’s easy to tell someone what to do when you don’t have to deal with the consequences .
No it’s not messed up. I’m going through this right now and I’m studying up on my options. Crying every day because I think I might want something my partner doesn’t. I’m in my first year at uni and 18 without financial stability. If I see my baby on that screen, I’m gonna break down and want to keep it, when I know I can’t. It’s not messed up. It’s a kindness. We can choose to see if we want. If we ask. If not then they don’t ask and we don’t see and go through with it. You have until the procedure starts to back out.
Lydia until your there in that room your not gonna understand why they do that stop looking for these videos and commenting horrible shit until you experience it yourself you can’t have an opinion
They turned the screen away for me too, but I still have the first ultrasound I got at almost 7 weeks. It's been almost six months now and it hurts. I almost gave up before procedure, I started crying so hard that the main nurse took me to her office to talk to me. There were 2 other girls with me and they acted so normal I really couldn't understand why, I was breaking, crying but I knew that was the right choice. I told my mom and she told me that she'll come pick me up, but she didn't and that was what hurted the most; I needed someone to be with me but I was alone. I still look at that ultrasound crying and think about what if's, but it's too late now. Do I feel shame? Yes. Do I regret it? I don't know. Would I do it again? No.
Sex is consent to childbirth, then that should be the same for men. They should all be consenting to being fathers and pay child support and alimony as well as another fee for forcing the women to have a child they dont want + making them go through the painful procedure such as childbirth. Also, taxes on the rich should heighten enough to take care of these children until they're at least 26
Rape is traumatic, terrible, cold, selfish, and disgusting however, it doesn’t give someone the right to end a life. If you are rapped and get pregnant that doesn’t mean you can kill your child. Planned or unplanned a life is a life and it is beautiful it’s a gift from God and is special. However, your right keep your legs closed if you don’t want a child. People say “my body my choice” but it’s not their body it’s a child’s when a woman is pregnant she doesn’t have 4 arms because that child inside her isn’t her body.
I’m 13 weeks pregnant today and couldn’t possibly think about killing my child, ever. When I went for my first ultrasound at 10+1 and watch my baby move and jump around, with a strong heartbeat, I knew I’d do anything to keep my child alive. Keep in mind, at 3 months, FETUSES CAN FEEL PAIN AS THEIR REFLUXES DEVELOPED AROUND THE 11 WEEK MARK. I’m strongly against abortion, if you lied down and did the deed and didn’t think about using conception, that’s on you.
Sigma 3030 That is by far the ugliest thing I‘ve ever heard. I really would like to know what makes you say those things to a REAL PERSON. So disgusting. You may have your opinion but please let others have theirs too without saying things that contribute absolutely NOTHING to the topic or the discussion! (It’s also really funny that you keep insulting people and say those terrible things but you support life?! Your words have power to destroy the life of others: Think about that!)
The fact that you call your unborn child a ‘bean’ hints to me that you know full well it was anything but. One day, if you are fortunate enough to have the wanted child conceived at the most convenient time and most perfect circumstances, you will look at that screen and be confronted with just how well developed your mini human being actually is, and you will know what you have done. What an insult to your unwanted child to call it a bean! For all those who are also three months pregnant - look at the screen - at formed arms and legs and fingers and toes, at thumb sucking and kicking feet.. and listen to the heartbeat.. and if you still have the heart to let some butchering so-called ‘doctor’ take your ‘bean’, then fine. Because you will then be making a fully informed decjsion.
@@dootie8285some people have no remorse and truly need help. Dehumanization is real, her “bean” is a child, children are gifts from God planned or not. Keep your legs closed if you don’t want a child. The “bean” wording is self gaslighting.
I’m appalled at this comment. But can you imagine who is more appalled? Me, because you want people to be able to kill unborn babies, or you because people said mean things?
If u have an abortion, know this. It is ur decision, not anyone else’s. Having an abortion is no one else’s business but urs and ur boyfriend/husband’s. To all u pro lifers, stay out of everyone’s business. It’s none of urs. U go live ur life, instead of worrying about a girl/woman u may NEVER see again having an abortion. 🤦♀️
If u have -an abortion- a slave, know this. It is ur decision, not anyone else’s. Having -an abortion- a slave is no one else’s business but urs and ur boyfriend/husband’s. To all u -pro lifers- anti slavers, stay out of everyone’s business. It’s none of urs. U go live ur life, instead of worrying about a -girl/woman- slave owner u may NEVER see again having -an abortion- a slave. 🤦♀️
I had an abortion, it hurt, it really did but it was the right choice for me, I’m happy that I did it cause I was really young but sad at the same time that I could’ve had a baby in my arms right now
Youre story touched my heart. I have had an abortion myself. I named my child and it has helped me with my greif. I do not judge. I just love. Be well darling. Know you are forgiven and your child is perfect in heaven.
Samantha Laquerre are you still pro choice because if so, you have no right to be catholic/christian In the Ten Commandments one of them states you shall not kill. So if you have done an abortion then you have broken one of the Ten Commandments and it will always be broken
@@lolaanfer88 abortions are There to help women, you can’t be sure of peoples situations, sometimes it’s the best option to, as you put it “murder their babies”
@@lilyh6849 but it IS murder. Taking another person's life, especially your child's, is never an option. Women are strong enough to bring a pregnancy to term and if they can't keep their child they can give them to parents who want them
I will never accept the rhetoric that aborting a baby is a women's choice over her own body. That "bean" was a separate human being. It was not your choice to make.
The Church History Channel You can’t say that she’s a terrible person for having an abortion. She was depressed when she found out when she was pregnant. If she did have that baby then she could have come even more depressed
The Church History Channel I agree with you. Once you become pregnant, it isn’t about you anymore. It is about the baby now. If you don’t think you can handle a baby then there is adoption. There are plenty of couples who can’t have children who would love to adopt.
Alex Is Unstable Also, many women who are depressed and get pregnant and end up having their baby, end up not being as depressed as they feel like they have a purpose in life. I guarantee you that the woman in the video regrets her decision to kill her baby, as many women do. My mother regrets aborting my half-sibling, she wishes she would’ve never done it.
@@feederdiaries4862 she definitly did not have to get an abortion but there is no way she can turn back time. Im empathising with her as you can tell from the video she was clearly heartbroken and distraught.
Julia Ramirez then help women avoid being in that situation in the future by emphasizing that she did have other choices to begin with and that it could have been avoided had she made better decisions instead of making a comment that makes it sound like you’re taking responsibility off of her
@@feederdiaries4862 lmao yes i agree w you. you trying to start some kind of argument when all im saying is thats a terrible expierence that no woman should have to go through. no one is taking responsiblity off her, she obviously felt in her heart and soul what she did and i think that is punishment enough. In the future i would hope that women will see abortion as the incorrect thing to do, but as i said in my last comment you can not turn back time.
How about we give people proper sexual education instead of giving them two opinions that may not work for women in these situations. Condoms can break, some women may not be able to physically bear that baby
@Kai Andrews my point is, they are giving limited opinions to prevent women from carrying a child they do not want. I'm trying to educate people on the dangers of that kind of mentality, if you think it's bitchin it's your opinion
@Kai Andrews if a women cannot carry a baby due to her body or simply because she isn't ready to become a mother, she should not have to carry a baby. You are clearly uneducated on when a fetus becomes a baby. A fetus has no heart beat until 6 weeks and has little to no brain development meaning they cannot feel anything and have no conscious, instead of fighting online with people about where you stand with abortion, become more educated about it.
At 3 months pregnant, baby is as big as a plum. The average fetus at 12 weeks is about 2.1 inches long and .49 ounces. Now that baby's got pretty much all his or her important organs, his or her main job is to keep on growing. Doesn’t sound like just a little bean to me
I love the people judging and commenting who haven't been in this situation (yet) Wait until you experience it before you speak on it, everyone has a right and responsibility to do what is best for themselves.
To everyone that's fighting in the comments and saying that it's murder Is that your body though? Every woman that goes through an abortion is not ready and that's perfectly okay and it's perfectly okay that we have different opinions but it doesn't make sense that you guys are saying it's murder yes it kind of is but when a woman is not with the right guy or gets raped or something they can't help it especially if they aren't ready. We need to respect women more and their choices cuz it's absolutely ridiculous.
@@lolaanfer88 and where is that human being? In the woman’s body. Might aswell take it out and let it live on its own for 9 months won’t even survive a minute outside the woman’s body
To summarise: Was making use of modern science by taking highly effective contraceptive measures Decided to stop doing this Had sex Was surprised she became pregnant. Decided to have an abortion (Note that de-cide means to kill off other options) Made use of modern science by having a safe abortion Suffers intense regret for rest of life. Morals of the story: use contraception if you have sex :don't have an abortion if you will not be able to deal with the emotional consequences of the decision. (you can adopt out.) Note: I am totally supportive of women deciding what happens to their bodies, but I feel this woman could have had better counseling.
AsFewFalseThingsAsPossible this is a pretty good summary. i appreciate your lack of judgement or attack and your support for a women’s right to choose but also ability to note the flaws.
Why abort your own child when you can give it up for adoption or put yourself on a family wanted list where a “Rich” couple or normal couple who can’t have babies have your baby . You get lots of money and you don’t have to have that shameless feeling . Knowing that your baby is with a family who can’t have babies 👶💜
Because simply giving birth in a hospital can cost over $20,000. Because not all people get abortions to avoid parenting, some just don’t want to be pregnant in the first place. Because pregnancy and birth are 13x more dangerous than abortion. Because birth is a life-altering, body-altering, mind-altering experience that no one should have to justify not wanting to go through with. I suggest you watch a birthing video.
@@octopiarejustwetspiders there are pro life clinics that help pregnant women all the way during their pregnancies AND that take care of the child if they can't look after them
This was a beautiful story, I really feel that you should've kept it and put it up for adoption but it wasn't my choice. The only reason that I'm ok with abortion is that if we make it illegal, people will get hurt trying to do it themselves. I also believe in using condoms and pills and such but this was accidental, this one was contraversial on both lines but I'm glad you made the right choice to you
I understand how each and every individual has different opinions on both adoption and abortion, I'm simply trying to find a neutral ground to both express my opinion and not anger anyone
The use of the word ‘bean’ as a euphemism is a bizarre attempt to remove yourself from the reality that you killed a human being. You do regret what you did, because deep down you know that what you did was wrong. Why not just say ‘child’, or ‘embryo’? It is horrible enough for you to rid a person of their opportunity to live, for your own selfishness as a result of bad decision making, but it is also deeply insulting to attempt to dehumanize the life you stole, to avoid the uncomfortable truth that you did an unforgivable thing. I hope you take a good look at yourself and realize the harm you have caused, and to grow to be a better person. Because unlike your child, you have the chance to grow and to change.
Why should you feel shame??? I have been around a long time and know so many people who murdered "their bean" and guess what, they were ALL selfish and irresponsible, as well as their partners. All of them were just fooling around and partying. There were no assaults or horror stories. Just people who couldn't be bothered taking precaution. Sure, I am so happy that they are not reproducing and I totally support them destroying "their Bean", but please stop pretending there is anything noble or brave, in their choice. Screwing around with no protection, when the consequence might be an innocent baby forming, is SO irresponsible. Especially, in an era where there are literally, HUNDREDS of preventive measures. So if you feel shame you should, just like people who drive drunk. Get a grip and yes, please stop "sprouting beans". Weirdos.
Yeah that might change her mind if she heard the heartbeat. She said her father is proud of her and on everything she does. Do you think your father will be proud that you took the baby's life. And if your mother did the same way as what you did, do you think you're still existing today?
Thats fact that you weren't safer when you had a five minute quickie with ex boyfriend IS NOT an innocent 3 month old, already hearing and seeing heartbeating little babys fault. That's not a bean. Its a baby that deserved to live a life just the way you get to live. But honestly all mothers who abort their babies should've been aborted themselves, you deserve no better fate than what you have given your child. here is the honest real truth behind it The baby can feel pain, it has nervous system. That baby has done absolutely nothing wrong... She would've grown up to be a girl or boy that wouldve found parents that would kill to have a child themselves but couldnt. And now, she has murdered a child that has done nothing wrong but win a battle of survival to grow up in a womb where she felt she belonged, only to be bit by bit cut in pieces and throw away. Question is, what if your mother werent ready for a baby when you were growing inside her. What if you had grown to be an entire three months old and feeling your moms heartbeat against your ear and the next thing you know... Thats not only sad but inhumane. Especially if theyre already and entire 6 months away from living a life they righfully deserve You dont deserve to have children.
You have no idea the emotional, physical, mental turmoil that goes through your body after you make a choice like that. Dont fucking act like you know anything about what goes through a womans head when they make a decision like this and how much it affects them.
Mhm mhm... Okay. So what about the turmoil the selfish disgusting mother has made her baby suffer through? Mmm? What about that? I honestly don't give a rats ass about the "poor little immature mother that doesnt accept that she was horrible at keeping safe during sex.. Or whatever the case may be. Shes "NOT READY" shut up! And stop being sorry for yourself. You deserve to feel that pain, emotionally and physically. You have just, killed, murdered... A planned murder and a deliberate one. The death of a baby.. Even worse your baby. I think feeling horrible after killing your baby is absolutely NOTHING compared to the feeling of being stabbed in the back by the only person who should have treasured your existence. I can promise you right now that their are a few people that regret your being born... But they have as little right to kill you than you killing a life, the most innocent life their is.. And worst of all. Thats your life, you created that precious little baby. Do you know just how disgusting you have to be to murder a baby. The only thing that keeps a fowl mother from feeling remorse in the beginning is that they cannot see her. They cannot see the baby they are about to murder. I can promise you that I that baby was right infrony of you now, eyes wide open calling you mommy for the first time... You wouldn't kill her. as soon as that baby is born, you wont murder it, or pay someone to close your eyes and murder them for you. Fuck your feelings as a mother of abortion, that babys life is worth so much more than your tears. I hope every baby picture makes you cry, makes you feel disgusted over the decision you made. You will live a life of shame for the rest of your time living, knowing you could be living your life taking your baby to school and growing old and going to their wedding. Showing them what a parent should be. Someone who you can raise to be the dad you wish your baby would've had.. It traumatises the ignorant fuckup of a mother because she knows what a horrible irreversible decision she has made because of her selfish thoughts.
Yeah cuz in some cases (not this one) a raped child who gets pregnant and their cervix physically wont dilate enough to give birth safely is a monster too, since if she gives birth, the baby WILL ruin her life AND CAN KILL HER. Shes a monster too? Is she? Shes been abused, and emotional scarred and forced to be pregnant and its her fault if she gets rid of it? NO CUZ SHES A CHILD AND IT WILL FUCK UP HER LIFE. If you dont need an abortion dont shame others that do.
@lexxiiis So you mean pregnant women has 4 legs, 4 hands, 2 brains, etc? And another thing, it's alive and if she doesn't want the child, she can just put her child on adoption.
That bean is not a human child it’s cells literal cells. Before 10-12 weeks old it doesn’t have nerves it doesn’t have a brain to think and it doesn’t have a heartbeat. Tell me why abortion is “murder” but having the baby knowing you can’t take care of it and put into foster homes where it won’t most likely get adopted and always wondering where are the parents and why did they do this to “me” is considered better????
Shrek your speaking for one person. Most people who got put into fosters never knew what love is and most of their childhood is moving around families and most don’t even get adopted. Yes good on him that he went far but we are over populated as is the humans are literally killing the earth and you people want to bring MORE people onto the earth? If im not financially able to bring up a child I won’t until I’m stable and ready for one. I would never want any children to go through fosters and no care because the mother was forced to have pregnancy. You know rape victims are FORCED to co parent with their rapist because of this law? you know that someone out there died because doctors told her that the baby is deformed and will kill her birthing it and she was forced to birth the baby because of this. You people are stupid and it’s upsetting that most of these people are male.
Nobody Okay Actually, (I’m totally against abortion please remember that) But sometimes people cannot go with pregnancy, many teenagers die from giving birth every year, so, those girls have to make a heartbreaking step, and kill the baby.
People talk about this shit as if it's so easy. "Just put it up for adoption". You know nothing about how traumatic of an experience that is, not only destroying your body and giving birth, but also having to put your child up for adoption. Having an abortion is also traumatic. Pro-lifers care about the life of an unborn baby, something that's not even human yet, but not about the mother.
Kaniz Hasan Please consider adoption if you aren’t ready for a baby! There are plenty of couples who aren’t able to have children and would love to adopt your baby. If you get the baby aborted, you will most likely regret it immensely as many women do. My own mother aborted my half-sibling before I was born and she wishes she would’ve just given it up for adoption. She gets very depressed about it at times. Please, please, please. Think about it.
He or she was not a bean for goodness sakes!! He or she was a human being who was murdered for being an inconvenience to her life. Life would be so much easier if we could just eliminate every inconvenience in life, right?
emily cain fair enough .. that’s a whole another topic .. I don’t care what you do to your body.. and I never asked you that.. I don’t care. The fact still remains that it is a child not a bean . I’m not telling you to not get an abortion cause I don’t care tbh .. but people should acknowledge that this is not just a bean but a child.. I never told you to put your body through hell for a kid you don’t want. But you said it “a kid” not a bean. That’s the point I’m trying to make..
Your unborn child is not a bean. After abortion you realize this rationalization is not adequate or correct. I seek in this post to advise from my personal experience that abortion will affect you deeply. No matter when the wave hits. It hits hard. We should be talking about this more.
JUSTICE 4ĀLL I was talking about how ur telling people to shut up, that’s what kindergarteners say... makes you sound immature. But yea, abortions murder. If the tiny baby isn’t human to you, you’re not a man to me cuz men protect the innocent and weak
Bruh and it was literally 3 months at three months its literally a full on formed baby, by 12 weeks it has all its intestinal organs and arms legs fingers toes a head eyes literally everything! And they had the audacity to call it a bean smh
**thick british female accent** "I've never fully gotten over the shame, but referring to the helpless child as a bean repeatedly until I no longer think of it as a person who I had murdered has helped considerably." Satire aside, when some feel the pangs of their conscience, they'll realize their mistake and repent. Others will ignore the pain, reason it away, or surround themselves with sympathizers. Often, these people end up trying to rope others into the same sin they committed, so that even if they all feel bad, they won't feel alone anymore. All of this numbs the pain, but that pain is there for a reason: to guide us to true justice.
Fuck You and your stupid thoughts, I would rather abort the baby if I've been rapes so that I wouldn't be reminded of that, and if I willingly agreed I would still abort the baby because there's no way in hell I'm ready or capable too raise another human being... SO MY BODY MY FUCKING CHOICE, THE FETUS ISN'T EVEN CONSIDERED A HUMAN BEING MEDICALLY UNTIL ITS BORN, IT COMES OUT OF MY BODY SO IT IS MY FUCKING CHOICE!!! @@awkwardcupcakegirl3033
“Little bean”
So sad..
LOOOL
She’s sick
Yummy
The fact that they call the fetuses a “bean” just tells you how hard people are trying to dehumanize the most innocent and vulnerable of our species, wether you like it or not it is proven by science that that “bean” is a human life. What are we gonna start calling baby showers “Bean showers” now? Are we gonna start saying “Im having a bean”? Gosh this is despicable
Why does everyone wanna fight on this topic?
As I’m older now reflecting on this comment, I still don’t understand why people can’t just mind each other’s business. Abortion is healthcare and the only reason people are defending life in these replies is because it is their belief that it is murder. Key word, belief. There is no biology of when the human life begins so it can only be up to personal beliefs and I believe it is not murder. I don’t care who disagrees because I am not being disrespectful about my opinion and neither should anyone else :)
Left Right but still why can people just not worry what others choose? I don’t get it.
@@chucka5492 because we're talking about human life here
The real reason this conflict is so controversial is because we don't know when to justify if a fetus (and before stages) is alive. Some people say it's a human and others say it's cells starting to grow. Most of this is surrounding when a heartbeat occurs or when they feel.
Because it’s murder.
Charly Abbott Because some people believe this is a life and death issue and others believe that belief is incorrect and thus needlessly restrictive.
imagine that someone FORCES you to get an abortion, even if you want to keep the baby really much.
women that are FORCED to keep the baby even if they don't want to feel the same.
rat cum that’s wrong for obvious reasons you pervert
That’s wrong for obvious reasons you pervert
But one action kills a human being. The value of the baby´s life doesn´t depend on whether or not they are wanted.
carolina hernandez no
carolina hernandez i’m okay with peoples choice. if you don’t wanna keep it than that’s alright, i don’t believe forcing someone to abort, or forcing them to give birth. let them have a choice
People are quick to judge other women for their decisions, but never even stop to think about their situation. Get educated, then you can preach to us about science.
Their situation of having sex and failing to use birth control or condoms or any other form of contreception. Wow..So hard of a life… grow the fuck off these are first world problems y’all aren’t oppressed if anything your encouraged to murder children. Demon be gone.
I appreciate her story a great deal because it doesn't shove down your throat to be pro life or pro abortion. It's just a woman sharing her experience and thoughts about what she went through. It's different for every woman and girl, different circumstances some good some bad. But I hope this woman is doing better.
Yeah, it’s definitely not propaganda 🤔
Just so you know at 3 months ( when this abortion happened) the baby is conscious, has a heart beat, yawns, can feel pain and has all its fingers and toes.
TheInvincible H BUT SHE WASNT READY FOR IT. YOU CANT FORCE HER TO HAVE A CHILD SHE ISNT READY FOR. IT WILL HARM IT MORE IF ITS BORN INTO A WORLD WITHOUT A STABLE HOME?!?
Munch Crunch Adoption?
TheInvincible H she wasn’t emotionally ready for a kid. You cant force that upon her.
Munch Crunch so, because she didn’t feel like it, she can literally murder the kid instead of giving it to a couple which may not be able to have a kid because of infertility
This is helping me so much. 1 1/2 years later still dealing with the grief. My story is a little different as I wanted a child, and I was blessed with a little bean. However, the little bean was slowly killing me. My organs began to shut down because of my autoimmune disease. I had no choice but to either kill myself and the bean, or to abort the bean. My heart still hurts to this day. I feel ashamed, I feel like less of a women because I had no choice. I am, pro choice and believe every women has a right do as they wish with their bodies, however, it’s still equally as painful when the choice has to be made. Thank you for your story.
Simese twins can't just kill their twin because they don't want it but with but with pro-choice logic can because they're connected
Christian memes shut the fuck up ur actually a joke who is basing his life on a god that isn’t even real.
Christian memes why don’t you let people live their lives instead of forcing your Christian bullshit on us
Ashley Kieswetter I am pro life and I say abortion is wrong and is murder 99% of the time, but in your case it is completely different. You really didn’t have much of a choice all I can say is stay strong and put trust in God and He may bless you with a child that you can love and cherish. I will be praying for you :)
Your story isn’t the same, and if u use ur story to connect with people who actually wanted to kill their kid ur diminishing the life you lost and being really really disgusting. Maybe u didn’t deserve a kid you pig.
I had to ask my child to forgive me then I took my pain and hurt to Jesus Christ and that helped me to heal and move on
u better be pro life now
Mohamed Mohamed nope, even if i had an abortion id NEVER become pro life
Mohamed Mohamed stop trying to force opinions on people damn
3 1 / 0 3 stop trying to force your opinion on me if you’re so against that
Mohamed Mohamed you literally told her you better become pro life. that is forcing your opinions on someone which i am not doing. also i think it’s weird how you care more about a sack of cells life over a grown woman with feelings and a life
Most of the people in these comments are disgustingly shaming this brave woman. Agree or disagree, she was courageous enough to share her obviously emotionally traumatic story with the world and you’re focusing on the fact that she called it a bean or she could’ve used adoption? Shame on you. Just because you feel abortion isn’t the right choice for you, does not mean you have the right to make that choice for others.
Killing isn't brave
@@crowsong1 making a decision to better your life and sharing it is, and you don’t know what she circumstances were. You shaming someone for making one of the biggest decisions of their life without knowing why they had to do it is sad on your end. I hope you have matured from this comment.
@@thatssojaydaaa_ better your life but destroy someone else’s.
@@Zer0Xenon well there goes their life it’s not upto them it’s upto us if we are willing to bring them to this world
You know what is brave? Irresponsibly getting knocked up, owning it and giving a childless couple a beautiful child through adoption. My sister did that and she was the definition of brave.
With a lot of respect, when a woman decides to have her baby, where are the shepherds or Protestants who refuse to allow abortion, stop worrying about lives that they won't support.
Yea keep bitching at hard-working people who are being crushed by the taxes they pay to make sure there are programs out there that prevent these kids from starving, give them free education and housing and on and on...
What’s wrong with you? Like, honestly.... what are u actually thinking???
Set the baby up for adoption so the baby can find a family that will love it more than you instead of just murdering it
Your right not to be killed by me doesn’t mean I have to provide for you. Imagine following someone who just mugged you: “sir you let me live I’m your responsibility now”.
@@generalj216 exactly, its just a contradiction of pro choice who are also BLM, because they care for black lives but they are not FORCED to keep them, provide them constantly with food, shelter, etc
Put the child for adoption I would rather see it grow up and go to loving family who can’t have child and not end up in some “human waste” bin.
Girl if you wasn’t ready you shouldn’t have been having sex
The most aggressive ppl in the comment section are the ones who were born men...interesting
Bean
This was so sad about the word means and what mothers have to go through when they go into abortion
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
Don't judge if you haven't walked someone's path. Period.
Srry, didn't kill then send free
Lovorka ...beautiful story??? Murder is beautiful?????What the f..🙄😒🤫you=🤪
You make absolute no sense
Beautiful how?
She is a murder
Hello, I would like to thank you for sharing your story. I also had an abortion 2 years ago and your story is the first one that I heard and to this day I still listen to it. Thank you for being strong, thank you for being honest and I hope you're somewhere amazing in life now
How honest
@@Isplate9284 what
I’m sure you’ll understand that it’s a tragedy then.
Beans
sad..
@@valeriejames8356 sad smol beans
Valerie James happy
Charly Abbott nah. Sad
Disgusting innit?
these comments are ridiculous. I hope all these close minded people realize how idiotic they sound. You’re very brave and you did what was best for you. Never be too hard on yourself, it is your body, your choice.
It’s not her body though, it’s an innocent child’s.
It’s such a powerful moment when the craziness of the day has ran its course and it’s just my sound asleep son and I in bed. Every night I put my hand on his heart and thank God for giving me the most precious gift. I’m so grateful he knew what I needed when I couldn’t make sense of it all.
Before I gave birth to my son, I was lost.. my heart was broken and selfish. When I first found out I was pregnant the first words out of my mouth were “no, this can not happen”. I couldn’t even support myself how was I going to support a child? I was the most scared I’ve ever been in my life, my life felt as if it was shattering.
I remember being at my second appointment and the doctor couldn’t find the heartbeat. I still had not accepted that I was pregnant and my whole life was about to change. I was relieved. She went into the other room, grabbed a different monitor and though very faint, she said it was there. Night after night after night I’d cry in my room, in the shower, in the car.. I just couldn’t accept it.
Right before going in to be induced I was scared, not to give birth but afraid that I wouldn’t be able to have a connection with my own child bc I was so detached throughout the whole pregnancy.
That moment.. when the nurse handed him to me and laid him on my chest was THE BEST moment in my ENTIRE life. I never imagined a love this Devine, Unconditional or Deep existed. The one thing that holds me together is the thing I tried to resist the most..but God knew. He gave me the greatest gift, I could not ask for more. Yet, he still makes me promises of the future and with that I trust in him.
If your'e scared right now because of an unexpected pregnancy, please know that although you didn't see it coming- the Lord did. And when the Lord moves he moves WITH PURPOSE! Trust him.
#askmewhyjesusislife
This was the most beautiful story ever; it moved me to tears. God bless you and your child!
Beautiful.
Thank you for writing this comment.
It’s honouring of of those who have had abortions but also shows the light of going through with the pregnancy.
It’s so important to have these story’s out there.
Pregnancy is such a big thing, so many emotions and such a physical toll.
Your story is so beautiful, God clearly had his hand over you and knew the Path that lay ahead.
So happy you discovered the beauty of life I wish you and your son the best!! 🤍🤍🤍
Feels as if my heart is ripping apart as I'm breaking down watching this. I regret getting an abortion so much that I wanna take my life. I can't live with this pain of killing my baby.
I’m so sorry you regret having an abortion. While I’m sure you know it is necessary for other woman I am extremely sorry you regret yours. Something I have found to help a lot of woman in these types of situations is too adopt a child and give them an amazing better life. I wish you the best :)
It’s necessary for other women tho
im sorry that some of these comments to you are not so nice but i want to say i am here for you and im so sorry you feel this way. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant and will be having a abortion most likely in the next 1-2 weeks I am also very scared of how this will effect me mentally and would love to talk more with you if you need someone. I want you to know you are not alone
@@DustMoons Jesus Christ you guys just don’t know when to stop. Fuck off with your justifications.
@@puest-uo4lr why is this comment necessary here? Leave her alone with that shit. She obviously feels that it isn’t necessary and you just shove it down her throat. Y’all are demonic
I found out March 2nd I am pregnant I am currently considering abortion and believe it is my best course of action but im not sure ill ever be the same. I feel desperately alone and so overwhelmed this video gabe me a little hope that i may be able to recover mentally from this.
Please reconsider youre choice very carefully i am not here to judge you you have your own circumstances in life that determine that choice you are preferring. But for the life you are caring in your womb its a blessing from god that you are pregnant the baby cant speak for himself
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Please have the abortion. Your saving a human from being the next generation that has to go through trash. Please save that child from this world.
ik i am a complete stranger, but you’re not alone. just know it isn’t the only option. there are adoptions where you can choose the parents and have contact with your child or no contact whatsoever
@@aundreabrown6064 Every abortion saves a child from this world. Hopefully she makes the right choice and goes for abortion.
@@ageis3250 if that is your thought process, i respect that. i do however hope you use birth control and other forms of contraceptives tho before just throwing abortion around as the first and only option to deal with this. have a good day
This is so sad, no not the fact that she chose to have an abortion but the cruelty in which she had to have an abortion, the harshness of the operating room, the unsympathetic all male surgeons ;-(
Help Me, my spaghetti is trying to eat me you’re a stupid bitch
What sympathy do you want from surgeon. Can you suggest uncruel way to abort a human being.
Me and my boyfriend went to my ultrasound appointment because I thought I had to see the baby when I go to the clinic. My appointment is in 2 days and I’m too far for the pill and I just found out last Friday that I am pregnant. I would love to have this baby but there is no way I can have one right now. I’d have to force myself into things I’m not ready for and that’s not how I plan on getting ready to become a mother and neither is he ready to be a dad. I know I’ll miss knowing I have a little one inside but I also know I am making the right choice
Im in the exact same situation. I feel so guilty but sometimes its just not the right time
@@nenyyxo the only guilt was becoming pregnant, not the part where I went and got the abortion. But now it’s more “I can’t believe that happened” and I feel somewhat sad. I let myself heal as fast as I could so I can start a journey to find love for myself
@@UltraXplor i get it . Wish you the best girl 🙏🏼
@@UltraXplor hi sweetheart how do you feel now? I'm currently 8 weeks and 5 days. I'm having alot of thoughts on whether to go on with the pregnancy or not, I'm no financially stable I can't even find a job now .. I don't know what to do ..
@@lizzmg6213 I had to wait another week for my clinic appointment because there was a really bad snow storm. So I ended up being 15 weeks. Yesterday would of been my due date and I felt sad, I wish a lot of things. But I do not wish to have the pregnancy in the situation I was in. Not financially stable, it’s still hard now even though I live with my mom. I did what I could do to get past the hard part which was the beginning of my abortion. It was hard but I wanted to get through it as fast as I could but also do things in memory of my baby. I personally don’t think it was an unwanted pregnancy, I would of love to have my baby if I wasn’t low in money. Do what you think you’re future will look like, jobs are hard to get, pay isn’t always good in most places. Do you want to have your life change forever now? In this situation around the US with jobs? If you have family or a friend who would love to take care of your baby after it’s born (pretty much like an adoption) you can probably do it like that if your state doesn’t have a law against it. Personally I had my sister and brother but there was no way I was going to let them, they’re not better in money than I was. Not being able to find a job now means you can buy things, save, prepare. If you do find a job you can only be there for a few months before you have to go on maternity leave and that means 3 months (if that is how it is in your state). That means you’re living off of what you were able to save if you could, if you have family that can help then you can talk to them if you’re comfortable doing so
But... she clearly regrets it because she calls it ''her little bean'', I mean, if she didn't regret it she wouldn't refer to it as a life
Arthur Morgan Ikr. If she didn't want her child, she could've jus put her child in an adoption. But guess what? She chose to kill her child which was the worst option. She is clrealy evil.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 Women can die during childbirth and hear me out, what if she wasn't fucking ready to have a kid yet? You aren't her, so her actions aren't for you to decide. Her body, her choice.
It's not that she wanted to, it's that she wasn't ready, maybe she's smaller than you think and could have broken her pelvis or died during childbirth. It's her body, you don't have any fucking say in it.
"thE biBLe sAyS IT's WrONG to kIlL aN UnBOrn baBY." The Bible also said that ACTUAL LIFE starts AFTER the baby takes 3 breaths, not inside the womb.
I'm a religious person and I believe that women should have the choice of what to do to their body. My body, my choice.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 bringing a child into this world is not easy, as someone who has gone through the process I would rather I send my child back to his father in heaven that my child suffer on this earth because of my financial status, when I am work my God will bring my little bean back so shut the fuck up once you’ve had a been in a situation like that you don’t know how to respond
Fool
@@delnavaznirvana9404 It isn’t a child, so it isn’t murder. Please dont call her evil.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 you and the commenter are both delusional she is allowed to call it whatever she wants and do whatever she wants her body her bean shut up
She says she doesn't regret it but she felt shame, sadness, became depressed and didn't want to talk about it. She can't look at babies and new mothers or a sonogram of a baby and is sad on the day the baby would have been born. Looks like she does massively regret it but doesn't want to admit it. So so sad xx
I don’t think she regrets it. I think she feels her decision was justified for her life at the time, but with all the brutal, harsh people in this world shaming her, making her feel as if she deserves nothing but the worst, probably doesn’t help. She probably is going through a lot, and feels like she has no outlet. It’s very fresh still in her mind and, very complicated, but maybe someday with time, she will open up more.
I do
I agree, so sad. She said it felt like a conveyor belt..making it cold and impersonal, hazardous waste barrell...so, so sad!!!
olivia ferris obviously the world hasn’t been harsh enough on you to make u wanna fix your saggy ass... it looks like you’ve dumped in your shorts you frumpy, pathetic piece of human trash
Mohamed Mohamed oooh, someone’s a tad bit cranky. Did ya not get enough sleep or something?
How can we make this process feel more comforting and supportive for women?
Tell them that whater they choose from the end of the day it was a good decision
How about women start using birth control first.Half of abortions are for non use of birth control
@@donnadouglas8498 uh besti birth control can randomly not work
@@l09t8 not all decisions are good
@@lolaanfer88 yes they are, if she aborts it, good. Keeps it? Good, gives it up for adoption? Good
How can you not regret it? I’m extremely pro life.. I’ve had abortion bf in my youth..there’s nothing I regret more.. nothing.. I was young, scared, poor...but I never wanted to do it and I never thought it was ok.. and 25 years ago we didn’t have CZcams and google at our fingertips .. I was completely ignorant about the process and planned parenthood lies to you about the size and they don’t tell you the details of what they do.. I hated myself for what I did.. I had my babies killed.. I might not of pulled the trigger but I hired the hit man.. it’s murder.. regardless of “ our” reasons..God gives us life and it’s not our place to take it.. that slogan pro choice woman have.. my body my choice.. is the most selfish thing I’ve ever heard..and the hypocrisy in the statement.. it’s not your body your choosing to kill and have ripped apart piece by piece.. a heart beat can be detected at 2 weeks and at the moment of conception it’s life and already has all the dna that makes you..you.. if you have had a abortion.. there is forgiveness.. you need to understand what you have done.. repent .. understand abortion is shedding innocent blood.. and if you make a mistake by being careless and become pregnant by accident.. you don’t kill your baby to fix the problem.. I watch a lot of things about abortion now.. and the wicked things that I’ve heard coming out of women mouth is disgusting.. how do you justify the murdering of the innocent? You can’t.. you have to lie to your self and every one around you.. ✝️🙏 God help us all( I’m on my daughters CZcams my name is Kim)
Jaden Minter I believe in Jesus. I know he forgives me but I can’t forgive myself. What do I do. I was six weeks and it’s been nine months sense. I think about it everyday and cry.
Venus Tv that’s the problem I had for a long long time.. I hated myself for what I did.. and I even thought bf I learned more that Jesus would never forgive me.. but it was me that could not forgive myself.. the fact that you feel like you do shows real repentance.. you are truly sorry and you have realized what you have done.. that is step one.. Now you have to put your entire trust in Jesus... I’m going to share something with you.. I have had 4 near death experiences.. I got 4 glimpses into the afterlife.. I experienced my soul alive and aware and fully conscious outside my human body .. I have no words to really take you there.. none exist but it’s all real.. it’s extremely overwhelming but in a wonderful amazing way.. though these experiences changed my life they are not the core of my faith.. Jesus is and the Bible are...2 Tim 3:16.. I’m about to be late for work so I’ll be back to finish.. but bf I go I want to tell you.. your baby is very much alive.. death is a flesh thing... the best way I have heard it said is .. the car is the body and the soul is the driver..when the car breaks down the driver simply gets out of the car... I have experienced this 4 times.. your baby, my babies, every one babies are alive and growing in love in Heaven.. I’m not just telling you this to comfort you.. it’s the truth.. i have zero fear of death bc I trust fully in Jesus.. I promise you this.. if you trust in Jesus you will see your baby again.. I have zero doubts in this.. zero...I don’t just believe this I know this .. now it’s a very long story but I must tell you this.. all experiences are not from God.. so bf you listen to anyone about near death experiences bc they will vary.. read 1 John 4 very carefully.. I’ll be back to finish talking to you .. ❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏
Jaden Minter thank you. I just feel disgusting how I could’ve been so scared I did what I did. I feel guilty having fun now because I should be taking care of a child. I feel guilty if I have future kids because I feel like what I did will be showing that’s the one I didn’t want. It’s all so confusing and eating my mind alive.
Venus Tv I can’t tell you how much I relate to what your saying.. I’ve used the exact words that “it was eating me alive “..and it did for over 20 years...I wish I had stronger roots in Jesus then.. I never would of done it..my babies ,your baby will know the truth.. there is no confusion in Heaven.. your baby won’t even be mad at you... Jesus knows your heart.. and unlike a lot of women these days you really regret it.. you are really sorry.. and that doesn’t make what we did ok at all but repentance makes all the difference in the world.. your baby will know how you feel about him or her...God took my sins of abortion and now I use them to help stop others from making the same mistake.. bc it’s a mistake you can never take back.. we got to own it and that’s what we are doing but it’s going to be alright my friend if you trust in Jesus.. I promise.. though it is still painful for me to think about what I’ve done.. I’m at peace now.. bc Jesus loves us so much and bc we have truly repented ...he does forgive us.. I’m about to go to sleep.. I can’t look until I’m done writing this to see if I told you I’m on my daughters CZcams in my last message.. my name is Kim.. and I’m here for you.. if you want to talk about anything ... I’m here .. ❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️🙏🙏😊 I’m under Kim Lang on Facebook.. Missouri, my photo says I love Jesus in a red heart.. if you want to Facebook friend me ..if not I completely understand and we can continue to talk here for as long as you want..you can remain anonymous..regardless I’m here for you.. my heart breaks for you bc I know what you are feeling exactly.. it will take some time but it will get better, just trust in our Lord Jesus.. ❤️❤️✝️🙏
Jaden Minter thank you so much. You’ve done more than you know. I don’t have a Facebook, but I will probably reread your message from time to time when I get down. I have days I think I can continue my life but for the most part it’s a drag and when I think I’m going to get better it gets worse. Thank you so much though. You’ve done more than you know.
Can i use your video for my academic presentation? Thank you!
Pro choice!!! All the way.
A women shouldn’t be ashamed that they didn’t keep their baby. I don’t care what reason they did it for financial, personal, medical, mental, victim of rape/abuse all are valid, no matter the situation it is that women’s choice and a matter of that womens health, NOT ANYONE ELSES.
For those who say keep it put it up for adoption, not all children get adopted, there are so many stories of people who spent their whole childhoods in adoption centres, homes and foster care, the majority of them are negative. In the system you don’t get to experience love, nurturing, care or a normal life or relationship with anyone. Putting that child up for adoption could possibly be worse for it than keeping it and raising it even tho you can’t for whatever reason.
Birth control is never going to be 100% effective, everything can and will at times fail. It’s human instinct to have sex, it’s normal, So don’t just say don’t have sex, people are allowed to make their own choices.
It’s the mothers choice, not any keyboard warrior or random idiots choice.
Did you know, saying that someone should not get an abortion because of your beliefs does not make you an idiot or keyboard warrior? I mean scientists are arguing about this and they are most likely very intelligent.
So it’s ok to kill a baby at 9 months even if you are healthy with a husband?
It’s not okay to take an innocent life because you *think* it might ruin yours. Even if you’re underage and don’t want to raise a child, you could simply give him/her up for adoption. Why should you get to decide the fate of another person for your own selfish reasons? You yourself were pro-life! Imagine having life ended for you before it could really even start because of some girl’s affair or bad taste in men. Life is not some health care option. Life is precious.
PERIODT. ALL THE PRO BIRTHERS ARE STUPID.
It better for the child to be adopted than killed by cold heartless doctors and thrown in a “human waste” bin
These comments are ignorant and disgusting. Put yourself in someone else’s shoes before you judge and if you are a man don’t even bother commenting.
@Snow Flakesx It's murder from fertilization
It’s absurd to think men shouldn’t have a say on whether their children are killed, and God is the one who has judged that killing people is wrong
R u serious?! They are not they know how babies are aborted and at the time her baby was oborted it was surgically removed meaning the baby was ripped limb from limb!
This is very well made. Need more views
Thank you for sharing.
If you don’t want a baby don’t have sex
I should have been aborted. 😢 I hate i exist. Its my secret givin id get in huge trouble since my family is pro life but to be honest i feel bad admitting it but i wish i was aborted every single day, I hate i was not among the lucky ones to not be born. I wake up everyday wishing i was never born. Thank You for aborting. You saved a child from this world.
My dear, please don't talk like that! You are a unique and magnificent person! You are worthy of love and support! Don't give up because life is hard, you can achieve your goals and live a wonderful life! I will pray for you and your well being, please feel free to write to me if you ever need to vent. Maybe you'll be more comfortable with opening up with a stranger who can't and will not judge you
No you shouldn’t have been. God loves you and he wants you. This woman shouldn’t have aborted her kid because she murdered an innocent baby. She didn’t save anyone from our world.
You did the right thing. People who keep telling you don't, they won't help you raise your child. And they don't care if you feel like your life has been ruined. It's so strange that people only care about babies in the uterus rather than the living mom or how mothers are gonna pay for raising babies they are not prepared to have, or how those babies are gonna live through after they come to this unprepared world. Isn't that sarcastic? Couldn't people mind their own businesses? They have the rights to tell their own daughters or something that not to do this decision, but they have no rights to blame you. Shame on them.
Exactly! And they keep on judging while never been in situation like that.
Giulia Pan unborn babies feel pain when they’re aborted.
The mother could put the child up for adoption once born, plus there are millions of people who long to have children but can’t due to diseases or whatnot, and they would be incredibly happy to inherit a child. There are more solutions than abortion.
Brooklyn S. Too bad no one does that anymore. It’s either they keep the baby or abort it
Edgar Allan Poe's The Black Cat actually its the process of adoption. Lawmakers have made it so difficult to adopt a baby its disturbing. I know people hove have been waiting 3 years to adopt but cant because the system has to do background checks, interrogations, and very unnecessary procedures. If it would be easier to adopt, abortion would be no more.
Due to rampant sexual immorality in our world, unplanned pregnancies abound. When modern culture decided to separate sexuality from morality, the problems got worse. God never intended any such separation. He created sex for the marriage relationship and for children to be welcomed into that marriage. Yes, it was wrong for you to have sexual relations outside the commitment of marriage-but two wrongs don’t make a right, and it would be wrong for you to end the life of this little child. The Bible clearly points to conception as the beginning of human life. Jeremiah 1:5 tells us that God knows us before He forms us in the womb. Psalm 139:13-16 speaks of God’s active role in our creation and formation in the womb. Exodus 21:22-25 prescribes the same penalty-death-for someone who causes the death of a baby in the womb as for someone who commits murder. For the Christian, abortion is not a matter of a woman’s right to choose. It is a matter of the life or death of a human being made in God’s image. The Bible considers a fetus to be an unborn child, a planned human being that God is forming from the moment of conception. We know it is life because it grows and develops. This being the case, it doesn’t really matter what human jurisprudence says or how socially or politically acceptable abortion is. God’s law takes precedence. A mother who decides to abort her child is unilaterally making a decision to end another person’s life. It is a deliberate termination of a human life while it is still in the womb-and that is and always has been the definition of murder. Murder is defined as “the unlawful, premeditated killing of one human being by another.” And, most pro-abortion people just don’t want to look at and hear about what is being done to these fetuses. Take them out and let them die? And, it’s done. Suck em out in little pieces while their little systems wince at the pain. If one looks at what is being done-how atrocious and cruel it really is-I believe the reality of the evil of abortion becomes self-evident. the heart God has given us as a caring human tells us it’s not only wrong, but very, very wrong and it is evil. Perhaps the worst of all wrongs, Cruelly destroying human life that did not choose to be conceived. all human life is sacred. God’s command against murder precedes the Ten Commandments and the Law of Moses (Genesis 9:5-6). This was a universal decree for all humanity. God is the only Giver of life, and only He can dictate when that life should end. The Bible teaches man who God is and who is not God. Man isn’t God. Isn’t qualified to play God. Messes things up when he tries to play God. Period.
To many of us, it is just clear. Abortion is a road-a path that heads in a direction opposite of where Christ taught us to go-to love life, to protect life, to nurture life, to procreate life, and to sustain it as best as we are empowered to do. Abortion goes against all that. Abortion can seem like a quick and easy solution to the problem of an unplanned pregnancy. But sin is never the best way. Never. Sin has eternal repercussions that it never advertises up front. Sin costs more than we want to pay and hurts more than we thought it would. We cannot say we live for God (the Creator of life) in one breath and in the next, say it’s okay to take away another human being’s life before they have a chance to leave the womb. It is our responsibility as Christians to make choices that align with God - principles that align with our Christian values. We have to intentionally create an environment that inspires our children toward kindness and love, and toward valuing the sanctity of life. The Bible tells us who our Creator is, what He has done, what He will do, and how He desires us to live - and provides the tools we need to accomplish that. It does not promise an easy path, but we are called as Christ followers to bring hope to a dark and broken world. but that road leads to life, not death. As Christians, we are supposed to affect the culture, not blend into it. Our actions reveal what we believe about God. If we really value life the way God values life, shouldn’t we be raising our standards instead of lowering them, regardless of the circumstances? My prayer is that you will not end the life of the little child who is growing within you. You should not have an abortion because you and your baby deserve better than that. Seek God’s answers instead. Lord Jesus, we ask You to bless and protect the children who today are in their mothers’ womb. Save them from the danger of abortion. Give their mothers the grace to sacrifice themselves, in body and soul, for their children. Father, extend Your hand of protection to those threatened by abortion, and save them from its destructive power. Give Your strength to all fathers and mothers, that they may never give in to the fears that may tempt them to facilitate abortions. Bless our families, that we may have the joy of welcoming and nurturing the life of which You are the source and the Eternal Father. Amen.
Psalm 127:3-5
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate."
Just shut up.
Or we could, you know, provide sex education for our youths, which reduces the rates of abortions drastically.
Also not everyone believes in your god, hun. Don't bring religion into politics, it can only get messy.
This has kept me going for a long time!
I was pregnant at 15 and this is so real for me xxx
Lol you let someone impregnate you at 15 LMAO???
I hope science continues to strengthen contraceptives, but until then I think she made the right decision. Her entire life would’ve changed if she had that baby, in some cases for the better, and some for the worse. A lot worse. It’s either the life of a fetus that has never had a family, seen the sun, or developed a unique personality yet, or a woman who has relationships, a personality, and hopes for her future. I choose her life over a fetus’.
I personally understand why you did this, pregnancy is stressful. It was your choice, that fetus had no choice. I am sorry you went through such horrifying things.
She killed a Child no excuse The Fetus is not her Body
@@vfx-re-edit4146 I fucking know she killed the baby, but she went through something hard.
@@rain-wk5qy Still not an excuse
@@rain-wk5qy she put herself in that something hard
Rafi Nabil
LMAO I READ THAT IN THE WRONG WAY
I hate that word abortion . It’s a choice . Do what you want with your body it’s not the 1930s .no one can live your life but you . It’s easy to tell someone what to do when you don’t have to deal with the consequences .
No matter the circumstances, trust God. He'll never give you more than you can handle #ChooseLife
Pregnancy is growing another body IN YOURs. So it is not your body whom abortion is majorly affecting for the most part of abortion
Murder is murder, a baby is a life.
ABORTION KILLS A HUMAN BEING.
I knew that birth control pill are no good , the only way to avoid such drama is to say no to men .
Assuming they will respect the word no, or that you don’t have to say yes just to pay your bills.
So messed up that they turned away the ultra sound screen. They didn’t want her to see the baby. They didn’t want her to change her mind
Woah that is just messed up. Can't believe that they also knew that that little baby was already a baby and not a Sack of cells
Tiffany Kozak yeah the ol “clump of cells” argument. That’s why they have to rip their arms and legs off. Crazy. Disgusting.
No it’s not messed up. I’m going through this right now and I’m studying up on my options. Crying every day because I think I might want something my partner doesn’t. I’m in my first year at uni and 18 without financial stability. If I see my baby on that screen, I’m gonna break down and want to keep it, when I know I can’t. It’s not messed up. It’s a kindness. We can choose to see if we want. If we ask. If not then they don’t ask and we don’t see and go through with it. You have until the procedure starts to back out.
Lydia until your there in that room your not gonna understand why they do that stop looking for these videos and commenting horrible shit until you experience it yourself you can’t have an opinion
They turned the screen away for me too, but I still have the first ultrasound I got at almost 7 weeks. It's been almost six months now and it hurts. I almost gave up before procedure, I started crying so hard that the main nurse took me to her office to talk to me. There were 2 other girls with me and they acted so normal I really couldn't understand why, I was breaking, crying but I knew that was the right choice. I told my mom and she told me that she'll come pick me up, but she didn't and that was what hurted the most; I needed someone to be with me but I was alone. I still look at that ultrasound crying and think about what if's, but it's too late now. Do I feel shame? Yes. Do I regret it? I don't know. Would I do it again? No.
Without the ability to measure serotonin levels in the brain, does killing your babies increase mental health? If so, is it also good for the heart?
I think abortion should only be allowed if you got pregnant against your will (rape and such), but if you have sex and get pregnant, that's your fault
Sex is consent to childbirth, then that should be the same for men. They should all be consenting to being fathers and pay child support and alimony as well as another fee for forcing the women to have a child they dont want + making them go through the painful procedure such as childbirth. Also, taxes on the rich should heighten enough to take care of these children until they're at least 26
Rape is traumatic, terrible, cold, selfish, and disgusting however, it doesn’t give someone the right to end a life. If you are rapped and get pregnant that doesn’t mean you can kill your child. Planned or unplanned a life is a life and it is beautiful it’s a gift from God and is special. However, your right keep your legs closed if you don’t want a child. People say “my body my choice” but it’s not their body it’s a child’s when a woman is pregnant she doesn’t have 4 arms because that child inside her isn’t her body.
I’m 13 weeks pregnant today and couldn’t possibly think about killing my child, ever. When I went for my first ultrasound at 10+1 and watch my baby move and jump around, with a strong heartbeat, I knew I’d do anything to keep my child alive.
Keep in mind, at 3 months, FETUSES CAN FEEL PAIN AS THEIR REFLUXES DEVELOPED AROUND THE 11 WEEK MARK.
I’m strongly against abortion, if you lied down and did the deed and didn’t think about using conception, that’s on you.
@Super JLK no go away don't justify killing babies
What's your age
AWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!! I LOVE SEEING A LOVING MOTHERS COMMENT! NAME THE BABY, MY MOMMA LOVES ME. LOL. sorry I'll go.
Hannah Hewitt god bless and I’m happy that you changed your mind about that monstrous decision. How’s your baby now?
Ok but who said anything in this video about not using contraception? Also congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope everything goes well:)
:'( soo sad...I would just like to know...why she took that decision?
There are so many things and mainly the society which makes us to take such decisions
@@rajkaur5321 She wanted to kill a a baby Simple She is no better then Hitler
maybe because now it is a decision to get an abortion, and it shouldn't be.
@@rafinabil8752 Right, has nothing to do with medical emergency and that is even more scary.
Sigma 3030 That is by far the ugliest thing I‘ve ever heard. I really would like to know what makes you say those things to a REAL PERSON. So disgusting. You may have your opinion but please let others have theirs too without saying things that contribute absolutely NOTHING to the topic or the discussion! (It’s also really funny that you keep insulting people and say those terrible things but you support life?! Your words have power to destroy the life of others: Think about that!)
The fact that you call your unborn child a ‘bean’ hints to me that you know full well it was anything but. One day, if you are fortunate enough to have the wanted child conceived at the most convenient time and most perfect circumstances, you will look at that screen and be confronted with just how well developed your mini human being actually is, and you will know what you have done. What an insult to your unwanted child to call it a bean! For all those who are also three months pregnant - look at the screen - at formed arms and legs and fingers and toes, at thumb sucking and kicking feet.. and listen to the heartbeat.. and if you still have the heart to let some butchering so-called ‘doctor’ take your ‘bean’, then fine. Because you will then be making a fully informed decjsion.
@@dootie8285some people have no remorse and truly need help. Dehumanization is real, her “bean” is a child, children are gifts from God planned or not. Keep your legs closed if you don’t want a child. The “bean” wording is self gaslighting.
Jeez this comment section is fucking attacking each other
Honestly I’m APPALLED at all the anti abortion comments
Are you pro abortion
Appalled at criticism but okay with murder? No morality whatsoever!
I’m appalled at this comment. But can you imagine who is more appalled? Me, because you want people to be able to kill unborn babies, or you because people said mean things?
Same, they’re absolutely disgusting
Mohamed Mohamed trrooollllll
If u have an abortion, know this. It is ur decision, not anyone else’s. Having an abortion is no one else’s business but urs and ur boyfriend/husband’s. To all u pro lifers, stay out of everyone’s business. It’s none of urs. U go live ur life, instead of worrying about a girl/woman u may NEVER see again having an abortion. 🤦♀️
If u have -an abortion- a slave, know this. It is ur decision, not anyone else’s. Having -an abortion- a slave is no one else’s business but urs and ur boyfriend/husband’s. To all u -pro lifers- anti slavers, stay out of everyone’s business. It’s none of urs. U go live ur life, instead of worrying about a -girl/woman- slave owner u may NEVER see again having -an abortion- a slave. 🤦♀️
Smol bean cried
I had an abortion, it hurt, it really did but it was the right choice for me, I’m happy that I did it cause I was really young but sad at the same time that I could’ve had a baby in my arms right now
Notice you said "for me". It's always about YOU. I'm saddened and appalled.
Peter Myles because a embryo doesn’t matter the women is the one who risk everything for kids
Peter Myles ok do u know her? no. its the womans body and the person who holds the babys choice.
soggy nugget • THAT BABY HAS A CHOICE TOO JACKASS, ITS NOT HERE CHOICE TO JUDGE OR MURDER A BABY, YOU ARE DISGUSTING
Peter Myles yes because it is FOR ME. That “baby” wasn’t even a baby yet. It couldn’t feel anything at 5 weeks
Youre story touched my heart. I have had an abortion myself. I named my child and it has helped me with my greif. I do not judge. I just love. Be well darling. Know you are forgiven and your child is perfect in heaven.
Samantha Laquerre are you still pro choice because if so, you have no right to be catholic/christian
In the Ten Commandments one of them states you shall not kill.
So if you have done an abortion then you have broken one of the Ten Commandments and it will always be broken
Let's not judge, let's help women but in the right way, not to murder their babies...
@@lolaanfer88 abortions are There to help women, you can’t be sure of peoples situations, sometimes it’s the best option to, as you put it “murder their babies”
@@lilyh6849 but it IS murder. Taking another person's life, especially your child's, is never an option. Women are strong enough to bring a pregnancy to term and if they can't keep their child they can give them to parents who want them
@@lolaanfer88 yes we need more children for republicans to breed in their clandestine parties
The comments prove what we all know is true.
ATLbench what’s that
Adrienne Buchanan killing babies and going along with the euphemisms is morally indefensible of corse! :)
I don't care if it's not moral. We will still abort it. :)
Cat Playing a Piano at least you’re honest about your intentions and can still notice how fucked it is.
Cat Playing a Piano hah ur a psycho
I will never accept the rhetoric that aborting a baby is a women's choice over her own body. That "bean" was a separate human being. It was not your choice to make.
The Church History Channel You can’t say that she’s a terrible person for having an abortion. She was depressed when she found out when she was pregnant. If she did have that baby then she could have come even more depressed
The Church History Channel I agree with you. Once you become pregnant, it isn’t about you anymore. It is about the baby now. If you don’t think you can handle a baby then there is adoption. There are plenty of couples who can’t have children who would love to adopt.
Alex Is Unstable Also, many women who are depressed and get pregnant and end up having their baby, end up not being as depressed as they feel like they have a purpose in life. I guarantee you that the woman in the video regrets her decision to kill her baby, as many women do. My mother regrets aborting my half-sibling, she wishes she would’ve never done it.
@@ExpertGarden Still, there could have been a chance of her being even more depressed.
@@lasagnamafia still
😢😢😢😢
im so sorry you had to go through this.
@@feederdiaries4862 she definitly did not have to get an abortion but there is no way she can turn back time. Im empathising with her as you can tell from the video she was clearly heartbroken and distraught.
Julia Ramirez then help women avoid being in that situation in the future by emphasizing that she did have other choices to begin with and that it could have been avoided had she made better decisions instead of making a comment that makes it sound like you’re taking responsibility off of her
Julia Ramirez ok the way you phrased it made it seem like she didn’t choose it. I hope you are pro-life.
@@feederdiaries4862 lmao yes i agree w you. you trying to start some kind of argument when all im saying is thats a terrible expierence that no woman should have to go through. no one is taking responsiblity off her, she obviously felt in her heart and soul what she did and i think that is punishment enough. In the future i would hope that women will see abortion as the incorrect thing to do, but as i said in my last comment you can not turn back time.
@@feederdiaries4862 i am pro life, obviously.
Personally I feel like if you're not ready to have a kid, either use proper protection or go through the pregnancy and put it up for adoption.
Kai Andrews The woman is only pregnant for 9 months though, after that there will be a kid to live a LIFETIME.
How about we give people proper sexual education instead of giving them two opinions that may not work for women in these situations. Condoms can break, some women may not be able to physically bear that baby
@Kai Andrews my point is, they are giving limited opinions to prevent women from carrying a child they do not want. I'm trying to educate people on the dangers of that kind of mentality, if you think it's bitchin it's your opinion
@Kai Andrews if a women cannot carry a baby due to her body or simply because she isn't ready to become a mother, she should not have to carry a baby. You are clearly uneducated on when a fetus becomes a baby. A fetus has no heart beat until 6 weeks and has little to no brain development meaning they cannot feel anything and have no conscious, instead of fighting online with people about where you stand with abortion, become more educated about it.
Kai Andrews that a woman can put up with a pregnancy for nine months so that a child can be born instead of having it die...
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At 3 months pregnant, baby is as big as a plum. The average fetus at 12 weeks is about 2.1 inches long and .49 ounces. Now that baby's got pretty much all his or her important organs, his or her main job is to keep on growing. Doesn’t sound like just a little bean to me
I think abortions a cheap way of killing someone whithout going to prison
Yep
Stfu
what a disappointing ignorant statement. yikes.
I love the people judging and commenting who haven't been in this situation (yet)
Wait until you experience it before you speak on it, everyone has a right and responsibility to do what is best for themselves.
Can I just say it is not a bean or should be compared to a bean if there is potential human life it is a baby.
She didn’t have sex in months?🤔
To everyone that's fighting in the comments and saying that it's murder
Is that your body though?
Every woman that goes through an abortion is not ready and that's perfectly okay and it's perfectly okay that we have different opinions but it doesn't make sense that you guys are saying it's murder yes it kind of is but when a woman is not with the right guy or gets raped or something they can't help it especially if they aren't ready.
We need to respect women more and their choices cuz it's absolutely ridiculous.
It's not the woman's body, it's another human being
@@lolaanfer88 and where is that human being? In the woman’s body. Might aswell take it out and let it live on its own for 9 months won’t even survive a minute outside the woman’s body
@@puest-uo4lr that only makes the mother more responsible for the life of the child
To summarise:
Was making use of modern science by taking highly effective contraceptive measures
Decided to stop doing this
Had sex
Was surprised she became pregnant.
Decided to have an abortion (Note that de-cide means to kill off other options)
Made use of modern science by having a safe abortion
Suffers intense regret for rest of life.
Morals of the story: use contraception if you have sex
:don't have an abortion if you will not be able to deal with the emotional consequences of the decision.
(you can adopt out.)
Note: I am totally supportive of women deciding what happens to their bodies, but I feel this woman could have had better counseling.
AsFewFalseThingsAsPossible this is a pretty good summary. i appreciate your lack of judgement or attack and your support for a women’s right to choose but also ability to note the flaws.
Unless its ur life on the line, DO NOT ABORT. Its murder and cruel. Ur stupid decision could fuck up a baby’s future
Why abort your own child when you can give it up for adoption or put yourself on a family wanted list where a “Rich” couple or normal couple who can’t have babies have your baby . You get lots of money and you don’t have to have that shameless feeling . Knowing that your baby is with a family who can’t have babies 👶💜
Because simply giving birth in a hospital can cost over $20,000. Because not all people get abortions to avoid parenting, some just don’t want to be pregnant in the first place. Because pregnancy and birth are 13x more dangerous than abortion. Because birth is a life-altering, body-altering, mind-altering experience that no one should have to justify not wanting to go through with. I suggest you watch a birthing video.
@@octopiarejustwetspiders The baby gets KILLED though.
@@octopiarejustwetspiders there are pro life clinics that help pregnant women all the way during their pregnancies AND that take care of the child if they can't look after them
Because people dont want to go through the pain and money to have a baby, just to give it away
Why ruin my body, risk death, put myself in a majorly traumatic situation, and possibly even medical debt... when I can choose not to?.
You feel shame bc you allowed someone to kill a human still developing
Horrible
Why
ReineM ikr
Why?
Hi! I hope you know that Jesus loves you and died on the cross for your your sin to make you righteous. Call on Him, God Bless
You should never ever have an abortion I don’t know what is wrong with people these days
Chanta Mi you smell like poopy stinky
“These days.” Abortion has existed for a long time, and much worse things were done in the past.
This was a beautiful story, I really feel that you should've kept it and put it up for adoption but it wasn't my choice. The only reason that I'm ok with abortion is that if we make it illegal, people will get hurt trying to do it themselves. I also believe in using condoms and pills and such but this was accidental, this one was contraversial on both lines but I'm glad you made the right choice to you
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Julia Krueger Well not everyone wants to be FUCKING adopted
Have you seen how terrible the adoption and foster care system are?
I understand how each and every individual has different opinions on both adoption and abortion, I'm simply trying to find a neutral ground to both express my opinion and not anger anyone
This makes me feel so much better 🥺
I watched this when I went through it. It’s not easy. If you need someone to talk to you can dm me on IG. Same handle . Hang in there 💓
@@theprettydani7979 thank you so much ❣️
I hope you feel regret.
@@awkwardcupcakegirl3033 Why are you saying this?
I’m proud of you.
The use of the word ‘bean’ as a euphemism is a bizarre attempt to remove yourself from the reality that you killed a human being. You do regret what you did, because deep down you know that what you did was wrong. Why not just say ‘child’, or ‘embryo’? It is horrible enough for you to rid a person of their opportunity to live, for your own selfishness as a result of bad decision making, but it is also deeply insulting to attempt to dehumanize the life you stole, to avoid the uncomfortable truth that you did an unforgivable thing. I hope you take a good look at yourself and realize the harm you have caused, and to grow to be a better person. Because unlike your child, you have the chance to grow and to change.
Yeah it was right for you, but a life was ended.
Madeline Ferrar at least it’s in heaven .
Ok?
I’m a little teacup short and stout fuck that life
haley rankin yes and that baby has no family, friends, siblings, etc. She has ended a life and that life will never have the things he/she wanted
& Isn’t heaven a better place after all?
It’s not a bean it’s a human life
Fetus* and it doesnt have all the scientific characteristics of life, so no. It's not.
I’d rather be put up for adoption than slaughtered, change my mind
I'd rather be slaughtered than put up for adoption, change my mind
OnlyALil Bit well u r probably depressed or something
@@koolaid7809 So you think people who are depressed should be killed then.
Adoption isn’t that easy of a process
Casually Me and I’d still rather be orphaned anyways.
Why should you feel shame??? I have been around a long time and know so many people who murdered "their bean" and guess what, they were ALL selfish and irresponsible, as well as their partners. All of them were just fooling around and partying. There were no assaults or horror stories. Just people who couldn't be bothered taking precaution. Sure, I am so happy that they are not reproducing and I totally support them destroying "their Bean", but please stop pretending there is anything noble or brave, in their choice. Screwing around with no protection, when the consequence might be an innocent baby forming, is SO irresponsible. Especially, in an era where there are literally, HUNDREDS of preventive measures. So if you feel shame you should, just like people who drive drunk. Get a grip and yes, please stop "sprouting beans". Weirdos.
Your little bean was a BABY! It felt the torturous pain of being murdered.
Touch some grass. No one can hear you.
@@kailim.6029that’s terrible! Why would you say that?
It’s really bad feeling really bad feeling trust me
❤️ The baby‘s worth keeping if you are a good person❤️
Abortion comes with regret if you have remorse you are sane.
I think everyone who gets an abortion should have to look at the remains of the life they took. Listen to the little heart beat.
Fuck you, honestly.
y’all be the same men who leave their kids.
Yeah that might change her mind if she heard the heartbeat.
She said her father is proud of her and on everything she does. Do you think your father will be proud that you took the baby's life. And if your mother did the same way as what you did, do you think you're still existing today?
Wtf
@@vincemarchan74 Tbh I wish they had abort me like hello? I was born in a third world country where I barely have food or money?
Jeremiah 1:5
"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born I set you apart.
before you were born I tore you apart
mene mene tekel upharisn
Thats fact that you weren't safer when you had a five minute quickie with ex boyfriend IS NOT an innocent 3 month old, already hearing and seeing heartbeating little babys fault. That's not a bean. Its a baby that deserved to live a life just the way you get to live. But honestly all mothers who abort their babies should've been aborted themselves, you deserve no better fate than what you have given your child.
here is the honest real truth behind it
The baby can feel pain, it has nervous system. That baby has done absolutely nothing wrong... She would've grown up to be a girl or boy that wouldve found parents that would kill to have a child themselves but couldnt. And now, she has murdered a child that has done nothing wrong but win a battle of survival to grow up in a womb where she felt she belonged, only to be bit by bit cut in pieces and throw away. Question is, what if your mother werent ready for a baby when you were growing inside her. What if you had grown to be an entire three months old and feeling your moms heartbeat against your ear and the next thing you know...
Thats not only sad but inhumane. Especially if theyre already and entire 6 months away from living a life they righfully deserve
You dont deserve to have children.
I feel sad 😥
Youre disgusting.
You have no idea the emotional, physical, mental turmoil that goes through your body after you make a choice like that. Dont fucking act like you know anything about what goes through a womans head when they make a decision like this and how much it affects them.
@@tavitakhan3089 libby
Mhm mhm... Okay. So what about the turmoil the selfish disgusting mother has made her baby suffer through? Mmm? What about that? I honestly don't give a rats ass about the "poor little immature mother that doesnt accept that she was horrible at keeping safe during sex.. Or whatever the case may be. Shes "NOT READY" shut up! And stop being sorry for yourself. You deserve to feel that pain, emotionally and physically. You have just, killed, murdered... A planned murder and a deliberate one. The death of a baby.. Even worse your baby. I think feeling horrible after killing your baby is absolutely NOTHING compared to the feeling of being stabbed in the back by the only person who should have treasured your existence. I can promise you right now that their are a few people that regret your being born... But they have as little right to kill you than you killing a life, the most innocent life their is.. And worst of all. Thats your life, you created that precious little baby. Do you know just how disgusting you have to be to murder a baby. The only thing that keeps a fowl mother from feeling remorse in the beginning is that they cannot see her. They cannot see the baby they are about to murder. I can promise you that I that baby was right infrony of you now, eyes wide open calling you mommy for the first time... You wouldn't kill her. as soon as that baby is born, you wont murder it, or pay someone to close your eyes and murder them for you. Fuck your feelings as a mother of abortion, that babys life is worth so much more than your tears. I hope every baby picture makes you cry, makes you feel disgusted over the decision you made. You will live a life of shame for the rest of your time living, knowing you could be living your life taking your baby to school and growing old and going to their wedding. Showing them what a parent should be. Someone who you can raise to be the dad you wish your baby would've had..
It traumatises the ignorant fuckup of a mother because she knows what a horrible irreversible decision she has made because of her selfish thoughts.
It’s wrong because you robbed a human of living a life
No whats wrong is bringing a human into this trash world. None of us asked to be born you only want people born so they can suffer.
Life isn't as great as you make it out to be y know
What's a monster
Yeah cuz in some cases (not this one) a raped child who gets pregnant and their cervix physically wont dilate enough to give birth safely is a monster too, since if she gives birth, the baby WILL ruin her life AND CAN KILL HER. Shes a monster too? Is she? Shes been abused, and emotional scarred and forced to be pregnant and its her fault if she gets rid of it? NO CUZ SHES A CHILD AND IT WILL FUCK UP HER LIFE. If you dont need an abortion dont shame others that do.
@lexxiiis So you mean pregnant women has 4 legs, 4 hands, 2 brains, etc? And another thing, it's alive and if she doesn't want the child, she can just put her child on adoption.
@@delnavaznirvana9404 What if it is a raped 12-year-old? No child of that age should give birth. Abortion it is.
@@jacklauterbach1011 only 0.5% cases of abortions are about rape. What about the other 95.5%?
@@jacklauterbach1011 The other 95.5% knew the risk and still took the risk so that's their fualt so she should not abort the baby.
Fear god
Repent to allah
That “bean” is a human child.
That bean is not a human child it’s cells literal cells. Before 10-12 weeks old it doesn’t have nerves it doesn’t have a brain to think and it doesn’t have a heartbeat.
Tell me why abortion is “murder” but having the baby knowing you can’t take care of it and put into foster homes where it won’t most likely get adopted and always wondering where are the parents and why did they do this to “me” is considered better????
Shrek your speaking for one person. Most people who got put into fosters never knew what love is and most of their childhood is moving around families and most don’t even get adopted. Yes good on him that he went far but we are over populated as is the humans are literally killing the earth and you people want to bring MORE people onto the earth?
If im not financially able to bring up a child I won’t until I’m stable and ready for one. I would never want any children to go through fosters and no care because the mother was forced to have pregnancy.
You know rape victims are FORCED to co parent with their rapist because of this law? you know that someone out there died because doctors told her that the baby is deformed and will kill her birthing it and she was forced to birth the baby because of this.
You people are stupid and it’s upsetting that most of these people are male.
LpsSergiata it’s a human life, get over yourself
it’s an embryo
Lindsey Schwartz its a fetus not a child yet
Abortion is murder the baby can feel everything and the baby did nothing. You should put it up for adoption not murder it.
Nobody Okay
Actually, (I’m totally against abortion please remember that)
But sometimes people cannot go with pregnancy, many teenagers die from giving birth every year, so, those girls have to make a heartbreaking step, and kill the baby.
it’s a glob of cells! the medicine going into your body is preventing the cells from forming into a child! the child has not developed.
claire shelby
Depends when you get an abortion, at about five months it’s a fetus, and it can, in fact, feel pain.
@@carter_waffle1992 At five months it's mostly illegal to have an abortion.
People talk about this shit as if it's so easy. "Just put it up for adoption". You know nothing about how traumatic of an experience that is, not only destroying your body and giving birth, but also having to put your child up for adoption. Having an abortion is also traumatic. Pro-lifers care about the life of an unborn baby, something that's not even human yet, but not about the mother.
Im 4months pregnant....and i dont want this baby.Its a burden for me.I hate this...
Don't be a baby killer give it up for adoption or contact me I will get you all the help you need please please don't kill a baby.
If you get an abortion I fully support you remember that
Abortion is the best decision!
Kaniz Hasan Please consider adoption if you aren’t ready for a baby! There are plenty of couples who aren’t able to have children and would love to adopt your baby. If you get the baby aborted, you will most likely regret it immensely as many women do. My own mother aborted my half-sibling before I was born and she wishes she would’ve just given it up for adoption. She gets very depressed about it at times. Please, please, please. Think about it.
Sigma 3030 people who were raped and keep the baby tend to treat it terribly because they remind them of their rapist. Keep that in mind.
He or she was not a bean for goodness sakes!! He or she was a human being who was murdered for being an inconvenience to her life. Life would be so much easier if we could just eliminate every inconvenience in life, right?
i hope women know that abortion is okay . if you’re not ready YOURE NOT READY !
RADIO 4 has turned into something insidious.
Women. Don't believe the hype.
It’s not a bean .. it’s a child let’s be real
it's not a child.
emily cain we can flower coat it however we want to make ourselves feel better about the topic.. miss Cain we both know it’s a child
@@georgetteantwi5979 heres the tea. I font care if it's a child I'm not putting my body through hell to have a baby I dont want
emily cain fair enough .. that’s a whole another topic .. I don’t care what you do to your body.. and I never asked you that.. I don’t care. The fact still remains that it is a child not a bean . I’m not telling you to not get an abortion cause I don’t care tbh .. but people should acknowledge that this is not just a bean but a child.. I never told you to put your body through hell for a kid you don’t want. But you said it “a kid” not a bean. That’s the point I’m trying to make..
Your unborn child is not a bean. After abortion you realize this rationalization is not adequate or correct. I seek in this post to advise from my personal experience that abortion will affect you deeply. No matter when the wave hits. It hits hard. We should be talking about this more.
You feel shame because, in the end, you know very well that you killed someone. Short story.
🤣👍
Uhhh no stfu
JUSTICE 4ĀLL uuuuh yes, go back to kindergarten
Mohamed Mohamed ... Lol I don’t need to. Abortion isn’t murder.
JUSTICE 4ĀLL I was talking about how ur telling people to shut up, that’s what kindergarteners say... makes you sound immature.
But yea, abortions murder.
If the tiny baby isn’t human to you, you’re not a man to me cuz men protect the innocent and weak
Why should we still feel shame? Hmm.. maybe cuz you killed your "little bean" .. idk?
Helena Lozancic shut up
Bruh and it was literally 3 months at three months its literally a full on formed baby, by 12 weeks it has all its intestinal organs and arms legs fingers toes a head eyes literally everything! And they had the audacity to call it a bean smh
**thick british female accent**
"I've never fully gotten over the shame, but referring to the helpless child as a bean repeatedly until I no longer think of it as a person who I had murdered has helped considerably."
Satire aside, when some feel the pangs of their conscience, they'll realize their mistake and repent. Others will ignore the pain, reason it away, or surround themselves with sympathizers. Often, these people end up trying to rope others into the same sin they committed, so that even if they all feel bad, they won't feel alone anymore. All of this numbs the pain, but that pain is there for a reason: to guide us to true justice.
MY BODY, MY CHOICE
Yeetie Skeetie by your logic men don't need to pay child support cuz it's their money, their choice.
It’s not your body though when you are pregnant do you say you have 4 arms? No.. it’s the child’s body.
Not your body, not your choice.
Fuck You and your stupid thoughts, I would rather abort the baby if I've been rapes so that I wouldn't be reminded of that, and if I willingly agreed I would still abort the baby because there's no way in hell I'm ready or capable too raise another human being...
SO MY BODY MY FUCKING CHOICE, THE FETUS ISN'T EVEN CONSIDERED A HUMAN BEING MEDICALLY UNTIL ITS BORN, IT COMES OUT OF MY BODY SO IT IS MY FUCKING CHOICE!!! @@awkwardcupcakegirl3033
the choice shouldve been to use protection and not killing babies because it's not your body they are taking out of your womb afterall