3 Man-Melting Phrases That Make A Guy Fall For You - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy
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I’m about to share some secret phrases that no man can resist hearing. I’m always scared to give these away, so promise me you’ll use them for good…;)
These phrases, when used on a guy, will give the ability you:
- Stay in his memory
- Make him feel like more of a man around you
- Override his logical brain and get him to melt in your presence
But first: you need to know the difference between compliments and flattery.
A compliment is a comment that feels earnt. It’s what makes a guy know that you see the best in him and it makes him want to be his best self around you.
Flattery is just pumping a guy’s ego. It’s what you get when a woman simply throws praise at guy even if he’s done nothing to deserve it.
Hint: The second one doesn’t work when you’re trying to attract men.
In this week’s video then, I share my THREE all-time favorite MAN-MELTING COMPLIMENTS proven to work on any guy that still allow you to remain high-value...
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Him: Hi.
Me: I FEEL SO SAFE AROUND YOU.
haha! It's laughable...
Tertu Ndokosho lmmfao... im crying
Tertu Ndokosho next
Someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed...
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂
the psychopath in me is sucking all this information up
Burtons Alice
Isabella Bornberg me too! catalogue all this shit! it will be used subconsciously later.........
Isabella Bornberg I freaking love your post it made my day hahahahaha!!!!!
i know what you mean ...
he is Not god
Isabella Bornberg OmG I love your comment ;) hahaha
Hot cashier at McDonalds: Heres your fries
Me: I feel so safe around you
Matriarch Soul 😂
lmao 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
he is the saviour of your thiccness
Josephine 2222 😝
I once said "I feel safe around you" to a guy way before I had seen this video, not to impress him but genuinely. He snapped back at me saying I don't like women who look for safety in men. 🤣🤣🤣
What Matthew said might be true, but girls, please don't shower your compliments on someone who doesn't deserve it.
Wait what that dude is so dumb 💀 what women doesn't want to feel safe around a guy whattt
@Precious Moment I understand what you say..monogamy might not be natural...but the values that we have attached to our existence is what seperates us from base animals, our basic traits may be same.
@Precious Moment I completely agree...but I also believe that some love may come and go...but once in a lifetime,you love someone so madly that it becomes very difficult for you to replace him/her with anyone else...however,life happens and you move on, but that person still can't be replaced. You mean all the best thing for the person and just accept the fact that they are no longer a part of your life. I hope you understand what I am saying.
@Precious Moment the last thing that you said makes the most sense...noone is more important than yourself...if only we can work on building a stronger and more positive relationship with our own self, noone or nothing can stand stronger in comparison to that. I am lucky to have discovered that and build myself.
Lol
is this what my life has come to
yes
We're all depressed, trying to find a chocolate cake
i need a romance novel and a pint of ice cream
just listen to his bullshit. its the most unbelievable romance story :P
Hahahahaha I'm crying laughing because that's my exact same thought. Like why can't he just love me, the frustration I feel is un real. I always feel like he's giving me hints and that he's actually interested but he doesn't make a move and I don't want to because what if he doesn't like me, then I fucked up that bond we have
We're a weird species when you think about it...
Kayleigh Brown omg when u said it , i started thinking about it more and yes , yes we are weird
lololol I already know that
yeah but us women are much more weird
mikida 396066 I was just talking about humanity in general.
Kayleigh Brown yes we are
1) Compliment his style - appreciate what he’s wearing.
2) Compliment his hidden traits - his work ethic, determination, courage, etc.
3) Play to his masculinity. Show him how much of man he is to you. “I feel so safe whenever I’m around you.” Makes him feel like Superman with YOU.
Thank you! You summed it up superbly! 👌
@OneHappySquid The first one with complimenting his style was just an example. What he meant was: compliment something that he chose instead of just giving him a compliment about something that he had no impact on
Thanks for summing up
Thnx *flies away*
I just burst out laughing on #3
Watching this as a man because I never receive compliments and just want to pretend yours are directed at me 😌
Well, I am sure you are a lovely man. I hope you have a splendid week. :)
Don't worry bruh. I like your kangaroo. Hahahah
I feel so safe around you.
I'm watching this as a man both for the compliments and so I can get other men to like me lmao
@@Eric-qe6xz This is such a mood xD I'm gonna say these to my bf haha.
Crush: *walks past me*
Me: I FEEL SO SAFE
Lmaooooo
😆😆
JAJAJAJAA
Lmaoooo. I get it.
how about hey hows is going ?
him : great .how about you ?
you : I am doing amazing as well .Btw you got great taste in clothing I have been thinking of busying my friend a shirt for his birthday would you mind helping me to pick one for him ?
If he is interested in you .he will be more than happy to help you .
( so after the shopping you can have a dinner date )
why did youtube recommended me this like do you think im lonely?????
rice opener 😂😂😂😂😂 same
rice opener same 😂😂
rice opener Is that suga in your prof pic?
I am your Hope
yes it is! hi army
*****
haha army everywhere
If a girl ever told me she feels so safe around me, I would instantly marry her
Hah
Hey Dom i feel safe around you 🙈
Just need to find someone to use this on 🤧
True I would melt too
I need you in my life. I am looking for a man who will stand by my side in this period. Please help me. I just want you to help me and stand by my side for a certain period and we will be friends

i told my boyfriend when we were first talking that he’s a great swimmer because of all the effort he puts into that sport AND HE TURNED SO RED IT WAS ADORABLE
AHHH that's so cute! I hope your still together living a happy life ☺️
@@miso8310 No, he drowned.
CRUSH : Hi
ME : *googles 10 best honeymoon places*
Eunice Munubi 🤣🤣🤣
@@maryetuk7628 hi may I ask? How did you do that emoji thingy? Sorry but i kive in a rock for some reason😅
S ymra 🤣🤣
@@kyliem i mean where can u find it
@@alexaedira8659 Sometimes older phones don't have it my old phone didn't
I actually told my crush I feel safe around him and now he’s always watching me. I catch him staring at me so now I stare back and smile slightly
Taylor Sanders AWWWWW HDKDBFKSJDHDJS I SJSSSKLS SO CUTE
How did you use this in a sentence ?
this is so cute my heart is bursting aw
It workss!! It workssss!
Omg
Can vouch for the "I feel so safe around you" phrase. My girlfriend told me this several times. It sends a very strong message. I have to mention in our case it is somewhat of a long distance relationship, but since the pandemic we have met regularly - we never had a single serious fight, perhaps 1 or 2 silly minor arguments that ended in a few minutes ; we've shared very intimate experiences (more than just sexual - like her inviting me to a religious commemoration of her father; her and her mother welcoming me into their home as one of their own; Christmas dinner and New Years spent together). I don't ever want us to have to break up.
Ladies, listen to this man, his advice works 100%.
Aww I hope you guys are still together, I wish you have a long-lasting healthy and loving relationship
Did she say that while you guys were long distance? I wanna say it to him but we’ve never met yet jgnhkjfdk
@@May-hy8ec I think you can say it as in you feel safe to open up or talk abt anything with him without judgement, say it if you mean it tho. Good luck!
13 9G2019 that helps thank youu!
@@May-hy8ec Pleasure! ^^
The average man is so starved for positive attention that it doesn’t matter what type of compliment he receives from a woman, a simple “hey you’re cute” will make him melt for you.
:(
i don't think it's going to happen in my case bro I'm all metal 😂
Frank Del prado, thanks for the tip. You don’t appear average to me, but just in case you haven’t been told so recently, *you’re* cute! Have a good one 😉
Omg I just wanna say that to a guy I like.. I will now 💛 it's the simple truth 😘 ty
I was told guys don't like being called cute
So, I used the, "I feel safe when you're there", line and he literally melted. His response, "Stop making me feel like this Shpwan, you're giving me butterflies in my stomach". So, yeah it works!
Shpwan Watson go girl!
+Fabien Pirolli. Thank you!❤
Shpwan Watson ❤️
Josip Čondić Jurkić Why are you so concerned about what she calls people?
Josip Čondić Jurkić Well, why are you so concerned about what people call her I should say. That's her name. I'm sure in other places your name would be just as strange.
His voice sounds like daniel radcliffe
melissa rachel that's what I thought!
so true!! :')
He kinda looks like it too lolol
cuz hes british
wtf hes australian
The feeling safe thing. Not just appealing to masculine energy. Feeling safe might also mean emotionally safe. Bothe meanings are great and they’ve worked out for me :)
Ladies, One thing I have found that helps me fall for someone is if you can also enjoy silence together. We really enjoy "hearing you" with your body language. Like reaching over and grabbing his hand after he's done shifting gears onto the freeway, or touching his back while he handles a stove or grill. Or going behind him in his office chair and kissing the top of his head while touching his chest. Anything to let your man focus on what he's doing while also sprinkling a little bit of your presence in the moment. When my girl comes in while I'm working and is wearing her perfume and just gives me a kiss, taking a break to kiss her more moves to the top of my list, no matter how busy.
i am a straight man, why am i here
ryan owen same lol
same lol
you make me feel so safe.........lol, don't mind me, just trying it out.....btw r u superman now?
Aha I just figured it out..... the perfect way to get a man. It involves a chloroform soaked hankie, some duct tape and a sack truck .... works every time 😎
Jams N'butters i was born a Superman
he's quite handsome
xh0ney quite? Gurl he can mingle my pringle anyday
+Camila oh god I'm gonna say that everyday for the rest of my life
xh0ney IKR
That is how he got nine million views, now what about his persuasion. Someone that good looking and telling all of those manly secrets can't be straight in my honest opinion.
Hunnn Eww are u talking about the person in the video ehh guys with darker skin and glasses are WAAY more appealing to me😏
Stranger: Excuse me
Me: I feel so safe around you..
😂💔💔💔
😂😂😂😂
I said: "If all men were like you, the world would be diferent".
Wow..I'm so using this line lol
That will melt my guy! ❤️
That's not a compliment. If everyone was like Richard Ramirez, the world would also be different, but not better.
what if his jeans suck?
bawain 😂
bawain damn
Veruca Salt 😂yeah damn
if he pisses me off, i'll give him straight on "you're jeans SUCK!" ,, that'll shatter him good
bawain Damn that's evil o.O
If I say "I feel so safe whenever I am around u" to my bf, he is gonna be like "ikr, me too"
🤣
Exist Reality same
Lmfaooooo
WhyYouGottaBeSoRude Don'tYouKnowIAmAnAnimeToo ik
WhyYouGottaBeSoRude Don'tYouKnowIAmAnAnimeToo but say it anyway. It affects him positively even if he tries to hide it with a joke.
This is great and it applies to a woman’s logic as well. A lot of women are used to physical compliments, and a lack of originality from men, so they can easily appreciate why saying something more earnest is perceived as more meaningful and stands out. Saying something or even asking for help or for something I’ve always found was beneficial with my husband. I would compliment him in the request itself, ex: “My love I need your big strong arms to help me open this please.” That always make him feel good and I get what I need at the same time.
I like this 👌🏾
Tbh I’m a girl and if someone told me “I feel safe around you” I would be happy too so I guess it goes both ways?
I prefer old fashioned compliments like "you look like you would have a a huge.....personality"
Heather MacPhee ay papi
Heather MacPhee Baahahahaa! Did you grow up in the 80's? :)
I'm saying that to my crush lmao
Heather MacPhee I'm dead
I don't even feel comfortable around guys.. ๏̯͡๏﴿
Loll same, girl
Nishtha Sagar your not alone
Nishtha Sagar why?
Same :(
Jack Ryder being harassed verbally and physically since I was a small girl. Not something big, but makes it difficult to trust guys
James Charles behind the camera taking notes😂
💀💀
1.style
2.masculinity
3.hidden traits
me:AND NOW I NEED COURAGE AND CONFIDENCE! thanks matthew hussey.
+Matthew Hussey I love your shirt, how disciplined you are, your husky voice with that accent and that I feel safe when I watch your videos... now.... will you fall for me? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
YES! Love that comment, my absolute favourite ;)
+chokoladenimi for a second I thought that he replied me 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😱😱😱😱
Oh dear...I'm so sorry to have shocked you :))
+chokoladenimi nevermind..... dreams dont come true that often, do they? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
omg I died 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
didnt work for me.. any of these lines. 500 other girls who saw this vid said the same things to him, so he knws we have been tutored.
Lol 😂
😂😂😂
Well, get fckg creative then! Don't just say the same lines, invent new ones that still fit in this guy's category!
Mitali 😂
+Jungkook doesn't give a fook your un and profile pic tho😂😂😂😂😂😂
That feeling protected is really important to women, I think. And the way that works is it is so crucial for the man we choose to be with and who chooses us, to be able to protect us not only physically (and it's not about being super strong, but just the willingness and the courage and the desire to fight for our safety), but also emotionally and socially, I guess. Just saying something however subtle to someone who is not being nice, that is what really counts in the end.
I dated a man years ago who, when I was sick, took my car, filled it with gas and had it washed for me. I thanked him and said how much I appreciated his thoughtfulness. Men should feel we appreciate the little things they do for us and not always expected or entitled to have them do it. Tell them you appreciate and value what they do for you.
Someone told me that they felt safe around me and I literally died. It was so nice to hear.
Another idiot using 'literally' wrongly.
Rest In Peace.
@@Its...Linden 🤣
Aw that’s so great! It’s nice to hear for sure :)
@@Its...Linden lmaoooo
Is Daniel Radcliffe doing a voice over cuz I swear
Jiralhanae his voice is attractive
Ahhaha! Same😂 I click this video because I miss saw him as Daniel😂😂
Isn't this guy Australian?
Jiralhanae OMG. same thoughts.😱
thank you. I think this too.
He is right we want these types of compliments.
me: starts watching the video thinking "You dress so nice, Matthew Hussey"
Matthew Hussey: the first step is to compliment his style.
...well then...
I did this steps to my crush a month ago and he blocked me the next day.... huhu
edit: gosh I already forgot I made this comment 3 years ago hahaha. Anyway, just an update, he unblocked me after a year. Got to chat with him after that and found out that what I did creeped the hell out of him coz he's gay ಥ‿ಥ my heart may be broken but I atleast gained another siztuh from another mother (◍•ᴗ•◍)
Cee omg same lol
Oh my gosh . Thanks for the warning .
Laughed out loud! Oh my God..he blocked you? That’s ok..the right guy will melt.
Well thats nuts
Ayeee ARMY is here and I fell bad for ya
Hey Matt, i really love that vest! Also, I feel really safe watching your videos
Omg me too!
Haha
lol that was cute Stepanka.
omg lolololol
STEPANKA 😂😂😂😂
That 3rd phrase!!! There's not much else that pulls on my heart strings than a man that makes you feel protected from any emotional harm. It's like okay I really want to take care of you too, jump on you, grow old with you and all that shenanigan!
Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back Whtasapp him
+2347026399847
Just say "hi" to a guy and you would melt him to his core. 🤗 Game over. 😂🤣
Am I being desperate watching this just to make him fall in love with me? 😅
Yes, you might be. I also share my insights on dating on my channel. I hope it inspires confidence! :)
Ma Ya hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?
girl i'm trying to lmao you're not the only one😂💀
If you are then I am too😂
I feel u 💯💯
cute stranger:
me: i love your hidden traits
Shereen S. 😂😂😂
LMAO YESSSS HAHAHAHA
Smooth(ಥ﹏ಥ)
😂😂😂😂
💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
crush: hi
me: you’re very masculine and i feel safe around you
😂💔💯
😂😂😂
🤣
Good ending: You're very feminine and I feel empowered around you.
Hiii greetings from Nigeria 🇳🇬 I'm just seeing you here for the first time tho...I will like to know you more I hope you wouldn't mind
If a girl can make a guy feel relaxed and make him forget his stressful life then hell never let you go. Trust me thats true 😘
Comment section is much better than videos. Imao 😂😂
This is the comment I was looking for
Too funny 😂 I forgot how much these videos and the comments cheer me up ❤️
Hahaha
the comments are killing me lol 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 hell yeah..I came immediately to the comments before I even started the video
_Nobody chooses his looks_
THANK YOU. This is not only something that's important to men.
matching melodies plestic sergerreh brah
Hi Matt, thank you.You are spot on! I have a history of not being safe when I was growing up.My bf and I have talked about this a lot.Nothing makes us both feel better, than when he wraps his strong arms around me and I tell him how safe I feel when I am with him.Giving compliments from the heart is a win-win for both individuals, makes for a great connection.
Crush: talking to his friends. Doesn't know me.
Me: i fEeL sO sAfE aRoUnD yOu
Crush: wtf why are you in the guys bathroom.
Hahahaahah
Lol🙄
😂😭😂😭
I just screamed so hard reading this😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Craziest! 😂😂
1) Love yourself first.
2) Be a LOVEABLE person.
3) BE OPEN to BEING LOVED.
4) BE HONEST.
5) DON'T BE AFRAID.
Master Mystic Thanks ☺
Actually that was the best advice I've ever heard.
Master Mystic yeah I pussy out on numbers 3 and 5
Master Mystic the thing is that I am afraid. So Yeah... :-/
Master Mystic that's true .
I really like your style and I like how well you make videos, I feel so safe when i'm watching them :)
Lmao u tried
+Paula Acosta ...Lmaooo
safe while watching 😂😂
This is gold!! hahaha
😂😂😂
As a single guy: this is 100% accurate :D
When you Awaken a man's Soul, that's how you know he will be more deeply connected to you emotionally as well as spiritually and mentally. Men aren't as emotional as women, but more practical sometimes. But if you Awaken & intrigue his Soul & Mind, you will have the keys to his Heart. Believe that. From my own experience.
Thank you for your videos & wisdom. It truly has opened my Mind even more to understanding Men even more
💗
As a man i feel like this dude has exposed every man on the planet lol
*BUT* now that the men who watched this know the tactics women will use, I say it gives us an edge in reading them instead!
Johan911xx poor thing
lol same
Lol
Then why are u seeing this?? This video is only to influence women.
people have types, so be yourself. simple as that.
haha hope that worked, but it doesn't
incorect men dont have types this is just for fussy women who have everything, you assume men are the same, we are not, if you look ok or better, your in definatly, doesnt matter what your like, men get what they are given we are primed to like 100% of women who look ok, if you dont look ok and you like a man that does then your likely not going to get him, again men take what they are given by chance, its just not the same at all !
You should be the life coach, not this douche bag!
women arent fit to be life coaches, your lives are waaaaaaaay too easy , women dont understand the real struggle of life because they get given everything, they are born valuble they have to do nothing and they recieve love warmth sex and relationships without doing anything with zero efort from a wide range of men, men, like me who undrstand real loanliness real isolation who go out every weekend and get rejected by women all night every night for your entire lives, just rejection after rejection from everyone you love and like, until your reaching middle age are a virgin and will likely die alone having lived every single second alone struggling to get even a date for your entire life, that struggle that struggle to do everything right and finally get one woman, maybe, throught the fight of your fucking life, just to get a date, that, those rejections for decades makes you hard, it thickens your skin, it makes you humble, it makes you apreciate love for the real battle that it is, your just given everything, you dont undertand how hare life is how cruel it is how hard you need to fight ! you just sit on your fat lazy privelidged ass do literally fuck all and just collect everrything because you hit the jackpot and were born female you literally dont understand the full roundness of being a human, in effect your just spoilt privelidged people !
+mcpartridgeboy I see where youre coming from, and since Im still growing I have not been exposed to all of the harshness of life, so i wouldnt know how hard life can truly be, but being a girl isnt as easy as it seems. Sure it can have its advantage but I get so much unnecessary crap for being a girl, for being born this way. I have been told I cant do anything, that I wont be good enough just because I have an X chromosome instead of a Y. Its alittle hard on a person whenever theyre denied of something just because they were born that way. Now i know some women get everything they want, but thats just because of the person they are, not necessarily bcuz of their gender. The bodies of guys build up alot faster than women, just because of how nature is, which discourages working constantly for a goal which men can achieve quicker. Women are also held to stupid standards like being lady like and 'pretty'. We all have our sets of problems, and no one truly has it easy. Except those lucky few born into royalty or to rich parents, and even they have problems. Its just my opinion though, so sorry If I offended anyone! also sorry for writing an essay i got carried away..
If you give someone a compliment genuinely mean it folks it means more and that’s the whole point ❤️
This video will be useful for an ongoing relationship. If applied in the stage of infancy or to a crush, it will backfire badly, also because none of it will be meant by you & both of you know it. The title should've been "Make a guy fall for you....who has already fallen for you & to keep him down there OR if he is rising back up from the fall" lol!
"I FEEL SO SAFE AROUND YOU" but but he doesnt even come around meeeee
ikr
"The thought of you makes me feel safe" 😂
@@Ponego_03 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
then try shouting I FEEL SO SAFE BEING 30 METERS AWAY FROM YOU
1. compliment him on his style
2. compliment his "hidden traits"
3. show how much of a man he is *rolls eyes
4. tell him: I feel safe around you
youre welcome
You're Welcome! Thaaaaaaanks
You're Welcome!
LOL
Lol, also rolled my eyes
You're Welcome! Thanks
im a guy and it feels weird to watch this tbh and dont ask why im here, its just one of those days when your at the other side of youtube anyways thanks for the summary i will try and spice things up for any female who uses this on me like you know "playing too hard to get" heheh
*These three phrases are pure gold when it comes to capturing a guy's heart. I can't wait to try them out and see the magic happen!*
I followed you for awhile on YT. Recently I saw you in a spot on ET where they panned the audience. Zero men. Why do women have to drive themselves nuts to try to figure out men. I did it for 23 years with my husband only to lose myself. Spent all my time trying to figure him out instead of myself. Once I divorced him I lived thru breast cancer, got a teaching credential. Wish I could do a re-do and spent that 23 years on myself.
Mae Hedding,You are absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you
Didn't work for me. Girls, the thing is - if he's not into you, then no matter how hard you try to get him, caught his attention, compliment or sth he still won't be yours :/
Ivy Aradori Exactly
But what if you really like the guy? 😢
Audrey Hope sometimes we fall in love w someone who doesn't deserve us, you'll find someone better :( I've been there. But one day you'll forget all about him and find someone better!
You are 100 percent right.. the problem with girls is that you chicks always try to date higher instead of dating someone that is the same level... pleas stop.. you girls will never get the super handsome tall guy if you are an average chubby girl..
Pablo Escobar....low self-esteem now...😭
I text him this last night... "Just woke up and it's cold here. Wish your arms were around me. To keep me warm and make me feel safe like they always do"
And I meant every word. He text back, "Glad I can help you feel safe 😀"
Marianna P
aww 😊
Marianna P awww, thats so sweet😊😍😙
Marianna P niggahhhh did you tell him you learned it from a middle aged man on CZcams? ((((:😂😂🙌🏽
Nadia Garcia middle aged ??? Are you joking
Nadia Garcia I didn't learn it from him. I had already text him that, before I saw this video. I just wanted to share the text I came up with. And don't call me "niggahhh" very ignorant of you!
Pizza guy : *delivers pizza
Me : I feel so safe around you
Pizza guy : *flies back like a superman*
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
"I feel safe when I'm with you" ha ! ha! PLEASE give me a break! Girls! if you want to pick a guy just be yourself , tell him, how you feel and waaalllaaa the guy is yours. ofc if he said "no thanks I'm sorry " that's fine there are millions other than him out there waiting for you. Trust me I'm a chemical engineer ;)
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The Admiral ohhh and how he was saying make him feel masculine!! Like no I expect to be in an equal relationship where neither of us will be "wearing the pants" 🙄 I don't need a man to make me feel safe loool 😂😂
is everyone just ignoring the fact that he spelled voilá as walllllaaa? I'm not trying to be mean or a grammar nazi, it's just so funny! I agree with everything you said tho ☝
Julia B. 😂😂😂
Julia B. I read that as the word "wallah" in Arabic meaning " I swear to God" not voilà in french 😂 I think that's what he meant but if it isn't then he's wayyy off like you said haha
Close your eyes, Daniel Radcliffe is talking.
K C i am watching this video on the youtube app, and I opened a daniel radcliffe video on youtube safari. I went back and forth and the only thing they have in common is the accent.
Exactly my thoughts!!
Hahaha He sounds more aussie, but I can definitely hear the Harry potter in there. XD
well Daniel Radcliffe is English and this guy is Australian, sooo the accents aren't at all the same hahah
Lucy Adams he is English, born in Essex
Making a man feel like a REAL MAN definitely turns him on mentally emotionally and psychologically. It strokes the man's Ego (in a good way) makes him feel more confident, powerful, mature & that he can be a Provider & Protector as a Real man should.
If all your guy needs to feel like a REAL man are some copy pasted lines you learned on YT, you got yourself a real weak ass loser.
Don't listen to me tough, listen to the guy who makes money of ya
I tell my husband that he makes me feel safe all the time. Never knew the impact it had! I truly mean it when I say it.
It doesn't. I mean ask the guy, maybe it tickles his ego but I (also a dude) find it pretty corny and commonplace
It depends heavily if it's overused and in what context. Well, action are still better than words.
This is true info. If you confide in the guy he'll gain confidence. I've seen people turn around 180 degrees from unconfident to confident. Principle in psychology: people believe what they are told they are. Trust me on that. But more importantly, while women look for reliability, men look for beauty. just improve your looks as much as you can (and i've seen both genders shoot from 3's to 9's) and it's game over, you win.
LionHeart 91 Thanks you realy helped me ☺ U really know this thing awsome!😄👍
Me: I FEEL SO SAFE AROUND YOU
Crush: Uhh.. okay...
Crush : I'm not your fuckin bodyguard 😂
😁😁your words are true,but sometimes i want to try it, but scare me the situation that it could to happen
Cherry 12 😂
Cherry 12 😂😂😂
hahahahahaaa so true can be
To the love of my life that has never seen these but done all of this. I love you.
Ladies, the one about feeling safe around him is a HUGE one. It's amazing as a guy to feel like someone sees you as a protector, a leader, or a hero. Or maybe, all three. It'd definitely work on me, big time!
Yes I love that! Especially coming from a man’s perspective! Thank you so much for sharing, Josh! :)
Hey Josh, I feel so safe around you :)
@@kamelpferd8889 He never responded. See what a liar is, just because you don't have tits and ass it doesn't matter that you feel safe around him.
Hi Matthew, you have beautiful hairstyle. Your clothes add to your masculinity. Btw, how do you become so good at what you're doing? You really are great with your videos, I trust you. I feel safe and secure when watching your videos.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly how I feel.. You complimented him well 😉
That was a good one. lol (y)
Now he's falling for you 😂
you waste no time I see
Pay attention girls, this guy really knows what he's talking about
Firstly, I absolutely love your videos, I got your book and used the tips but more importantly Mathew it made me realize that I have issues with my own value, that I am not in love with my own life, this was an eye opener, and I had started therapy and I completely forgot about guys and now am just trying to get best of my life, so a massive thanks!
I do wonder though, why do people get so scared with compliments and true emotion and it`s intensity, sometimes it seems that you just cannot be direct around people.. sometimes this feels suffocating...
Fine, you got my click, damn you
Audio book for ppl with dyslexia option pleaae
ThatLaurenThing 😂
This is bad news for me. I thought complimenting style was a platonic thing to do. No wonder people think I'm flirty. FML.
Sherry Berry yep... same here haha
Diana21692 lmao .
This guy's first advice is WRONG. You're absolutely right with your first instinct. Complimenting a man's clothes or style is platonic as fuck. It does not necessarily convey an interest in him. It can be perceived as interest in his CLOTHES. Especially shy guys will assume exactly this rationalization. Do the opposite of what the video said. Compliment something the man was born with, because that's the thing he can never change. His eyes, smile, hair, instincts, brain, arms, shoulders, butt, legs, feet, hands, and so on. When you compliment something hereditary and unchangeable it tells the person that your attraction is directed at something intrinsically part of them, that it's permanent, and that won't change no matter what clothes they're wearing. It's perfectly good to compliment something that he CHOSE, but unless the guy is particularly into fashion, he probably doesn't place a lot of pride in his sense of style anyway. Most of us would be content wearing a potato bag if it were acceptable. Maybe hereditary compliments don't mean anything to the supermodel in the video because he probably gets them all the time in his line of work. But to every other guy those compliments are more meaningful and impossible to misinterpret. Also guys naturally place a higher importance on physical beauty than women do because evolution. Men project their own inflated value of physical beauty onto women, so when you compliment his body he thinks it means more than you would think he thinks.
Thank you! Your effort at being specific and touching on a lot of subjects and being constant has been my nutrient needed to grow from caterpillar to butterfly! ❤
So true! I agree with you 100%! Matt is great at being specific, touching on many topics and being consistent about it! Thank you for sharing! :)
I may found the love of life using this tecniques...😘😘😘😘 thanks for sharing
Very true
why was this in my recommendations..?
ikr
same
Exactly
CZcams is trying to tell us something lol
its in everyone's
the third piece of advice is my holy grail line, it never fails, but I only use it when I truly mean it and really like a guy.
+Maya Jordan You're a wise woman
+Dieter H. lol thank you sweetheart, but I love men that I feel safe around that is the best thing ever
HEY MAYA !!!
+Kenya Vlogs hey love when is the next video?
+Maya Jordan not sure yet
Hope you find the right person Matt you're a great coach for us .
I said all these things to my labrador. And i can confirm it works, he's the goodest boy ever !
@Kese Ho Yarr nope. Exceptional cases are there including me. So I don't agree with you.
alright, i didn’t want to creep my crush out and say “i feel so safe around you.” i said “i feel really happy around you” which worked just as well i think lol
Good one.I like that better.
That feels better to hear honestly
It's all about context and prior interaction.
If you only talked to him on a surface level then dropping the i feel save around you card is to much.
But when you have been on a date or you hang out with him.
Then it's a good thing to drop especially if your in a relationship.
if you ever tell a guy "i feel so safe around you (or in your arms)", look down and whisper to yourself "it's like you're my dad" and then see how he reacts.. it's literally the funniest thing
("I will tell him"), You revived my heart and my mind who used to be alone no longer in the world.
Why am I watching this when I don't even leave the house and refuse to interact with guys I find attractive 😭
I already have a boyfriend and yet I can't help but be curious and watch this stuff~
youre not the only one (ive been dating my man for 7 months lol)
Jay Mills
Haha nice, that's around the same amount of months for me too~
haha .. same here, i'm kind of wondering what that might mean.. just the amount of time for someone to get bored.. or it's the right amount of time where the initial intensity wears off?
+Lynsey Johnson nice last name!!
Nothing wrong with sharpening your game !
"i feel so safe when im around u" 😂 The dude might find me a little creepy.
iman safeen 😂😂
it really works that complement
iman safeen omfg we have the same name
iman safeen tbh that would make me feel more confident being near the girl
iman safeen lol ikr, I heard that and my immediate thought was "Dude, my bf will look at me like I'm crazy. I would never say something like that or be in a situation to say that" I'm just not that kinda person lol
So accurate, even the age difference! Thank you for the advice!
I've watched several of your videos and I can say that your tips work everybody regardless of whether they are a man or a woman. Nicely done!
i tried all 3.. he ran away lol
+weuxa same
lol...you looked desperate:(
lol...you looked desperate:(
joel ray lol really, were you there?
+weuxa nope....but by what your saying"he ran away", leaves me guessing that he wouldve felt uncomfortable about knowing you are becoming already too dependent on him.
I am a guy and if you pulled that liner on me i will feel a little scared actually. ive had other lines pulled on me which made a nice girl look desperate and clingy.
Why am i watching this as a straight guy
yusuf zulfi to check if what he's saying makes sense ? :)
Marion MetathInk Lol I check that for videos about girls and I'm straight
i just discovered these videos and i think they're great! as a straight guy its really helpful to not only understand what women think but what I, as a guy, want from a woman.
yusuf zulfi I JUST SPIT
yusuf zulfi I like your tunnels 😉
Just sent this to my man - Have I told u lately: I feel so safe when Im w/u?!
Got an instant loving reply...🥰
Thank u
Reading the comments and feeling the love for our men. We love you! ❤
I've used the feeling safe line before, mainly as he genuinely does. We're getting married in May, it must've done something :) x
+SCUZZIEMOO Really? lol! Did you use this line before you started dating each other?
We met through an online site, so we started dating pretty quickly after we first physically met. I can't quite remember when I first said it, but we've been together over 3 years now, and he's just as smitten now as he was then (as far as I know lol)
How cute. I'll have to use the line on a guy if one ever comes along. Ha ha!
Congrats :)
+Shania Deville thanks x