I Think My Husband Is Bisexual (What Should I Do?)
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As a gay man on grindr this happens way more than folks realize.
She's betraying herself for his comfort. Taking on his shame.
This cut straight to my heart … I’m in a similar situation except that my husband, who was special forces in the Army and a police officer for 17 years, just went to prison for 11 years and 8 months for sending inappropriate pictures to minor/teen boys at his gym. Such a waste of a 22 year marriage and God help our five children. I am praying everyday that I can help them, and that they will choose, to know that they are not their father. It’s such a shame-filled life he lived that he could never even tell me after all of these years that he had so many personal struggles. I had no idea … he was a master at manipulation and gaslighting. I was the crazy one …
I feel the caller is being polite and not telling the whole story about her husband’s sexuality because she cannot handle reality . My cousin married a man who she later found out was paying male prostitutes he met on Craigslist . She was diagnosed with AIDS she got from him. People live in their truth .
She has no kids with him? She should just go.
If you have to ask , you already know the answer. Let him go find himself on his own and move on.
John Delony is such a loving, compassionate, caring man. I wish more people giving advice were as open minded as him. He is kind.
This woman is absolutely beautiful. She sounds so kind and caring. She deserves better.
"He hasn't chosen you". Her light bulb moment. 💔
Im surprised John didn't mention possible sex addiction. Sleeping together 4-5x/day for YEARS is so unrealistic. How do they get anything else done in their lives? 😅
Im so sorry she is going through this. I lived this for 25 years. I finally went online to see what he was doing (one desk computer, back in the day) and found it was all about men and transgender men. When I asked him about he basically said it was none of my business. In desperation to figure out what to do, I found a counselor and then a psychiatrist to talk to about it. The psychiatrist wasn't as gentle as John but he said he was very concerned about anyone who would willing stay in this type relationship. My lightbulb moment came the next time I went to donate blood and they asked me if I had been with a man who had been with a man and I realized I didnt know for sure. I was disappearing too. I'm so very sorry but he wont change, as long as he blaming you or anyone else he cant. Please dont stay like I did. Its hard to look back and realize how much life you missed out on.
I like what John had to say here. He moved it away from sexuality and focused more on the lack of communication part. The husband isn’t willing to let her in on his secrets and what he’s going through.
When she mentioned potential, I just spotted the problem. She fell in love with potential instead of who he is, but then again he lied about who he is. Her situation is a huge roller coaster.
It doesn’t matter whether he’s decided whether he is gay or straight. He is required to be loyal to his marriage partner or stop messing with his partner’s head and leave surely.
As a gay man, I’m glad I never had to go through this type of struggle. Be yourself, help others, and you will find true happiness.
I hear her and it hurts because I lived everything she is describing. I got out and divorced. I don’t feel bad for my ex husband. He lied to me and I felt neglected but, now I feel so much better and I need to heal my soul.
The caller needs counseling too. She is a textbook case of codependency if i ever saw. 😢
He has gaslit her so much that even her wording of the question makes it sound like it’s her problem.
This is a good lesson/reminder to men and women to always listen to your friends when you first start dating someone. Your friends and family see things you don't since you are blinded by romantic love. This woman's friends knew something was up with this guy's sexuality. I think he overcompensated by being intimate with her 5 times a day to try and convince her of his interest in women.
It’s NOT your job to “fix” him. You’re being too good a person to a fault. You deserve to be single or with a man that is honest and trustworthy & safe.