13 Things That Trigger a Sigma Male | NEVER (!) Say These to a Sigma Male
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- čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
- Sigma males are naturally rational thinkers. They prefer to make sense of the world using logic and reason rather than blind emotion. However, there are some things you can say to a sigma male that will trigger him. As sigma males can be pretty aloof and mysterious in their behaviour, it can often be hard for those on the outside to understand exactly what they should and shouldn’t say to a sigma male. Of course, every man is different, but there are definitely some things that you should steer well away from broaching with a sigma male. To help in dealing with the sigma males you encounter, here is the Bloke Box guide of things you should NEVER say to a sigma male!
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Taking time while working alone is "MUCH" better than a companionship that slows me down.
That's 1 sided but I get it
That's very true!!
Not if work with someone who knows me and can match my speed
I'm never more alone than when in a crowd.
@@Bai699 That is right, Even they can work alone. If they want to work as a team, they offer someone they highly trust and work efficiently as they do.
The one that always gets me is “that’s not appropriate”. You look back and ask “and who decided that for me? Cause it certainly could not be you of that there is no doubt.
Know what I mean?
As a Sigma male I can say that over the years several folks have found out the hard way telling me to speak up can swiftly turn into a serious case of "Be careful what you wish for. You just might get it." For example if you ask me a question you really don't want an honest answer to, expect an honest answer you really don't want to hear.
Oh yes!!
Reminds me of "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes"
For me it's "Garbage In and Garbage Out"
Funny that nobody approach me for asking things about them. They said very clear to me that they don't like to look into my eyes. And because I have shark like teeth. They just don't approach as so did I never mangle in their dramas. But I have a few great friends who dares to risk life for each others.
It can be a manipulation tactic too by the more narcissistic. They don't know what they're doing so try to get quiter people to "pitch in" by singling them out. If you have the answer it was "on the tip of their tongue" or "I suppose that will have to do" ect. If they don't like the answer (or are too stupid to comprehend what has been said) they will attempt to humiliate you. I find a shrug of the shoulders and pretend to examine a cuff button or ceiling light will work to avoid "pitching in" as long as you don't then react to the persons following nonsense.
I absolutely hate when people tell me how I’m feeling or what I can/can’t do.
It doesn't mean you're a sigma. Many people don't like to be told what they can or cannot do.
I don't like to think of myself as being a part of a classification, but I can tell you a lot of this is personally true.
Never interrupt us while we're doing something to tell us how you think we should do it.
actually, just leave us alone if were doing something, unless we talk to you first, these things will cause our attitude and quality of work to go down.
the weird thing about it is that if you do end up teaching us something useful then we immediately give credit where its do and are very greatful.
You should learn how to use interpunction.
@@1234Daan4321 Yess!
Most people these days should learn - and practice - this!!
@@1234Daan4321 Yes I should. Thank you.
@@shawnmoran3603 You proved your point so well!
Once I was fixing the liner of a pool. A screw was put incorrectly which expanded the hole and wouldn't tighten the inner+outer planks. This was allowing water to filter out.
After thinking for a while, I decided to refill the hole and poke a new one.
But to ensure 100% I wouldn't miss the mark, I bought 9 3inches long screws, washers and butterfly nuts to tighten the two planks together aligning them properly PRIOR to poke the one hole, and screw it back into place.
The entire procedure including going to buy/find the materials, took me like 3 or 4 hours.
I placed all the aligning screws, tightened it, and as I was starting to change them for the originals, a guy I didn't know comes up, looks at what I was doing, and tells me to "take those screws out" because "they're not good" "too long"😆😂🤣
I asked him what did he do for a living.
He said he was a dispatcher for many years.
So, I asked him what would he think if someone who he could clearly see had never done his job came up to him at work and tried to "teach him" how to do his job...
Yeah, he apologized, turned around and left 😆😆😆
I have a few things I insist on: If I want help, I will ask.. second, when I say " Leave me the f**k alone... it's not a riddle to be solved..also, don't mistake my silence for stupidity or kindness for weakness. Finally, stay the hell out of my way.
Ouch! :)
“You are thinking too much”
“That’s not possible”
“The world doesn’t work that way”
“That’s not the real you”
“you need to be an entertainer for people to listen to you”
“Why don’t you seem to care?”
“You don’t know what you’re talking about”
“You are not being realistic”
These are some of the phrases I have heard many many times. Now I can point the videos of Sigma mail instead of trying to form a rebuttal
Yep. Heard this crap a time or two. Incredibly irritating!
“How to win friends and influence people” is the epitome of what’s wrong with this world, IMO.
@@omardelmar yeah, I read that book. It did nothing for me.
Right on point.....
Dont bother ,most people are not worth the effort.
A life of freedom, peace , harmony, and focus
Yeah, these are def triggers, however, sometimes we have to "play the game" & not leave our opponents in unrecoverable ruin and anguish.
That’s not very sigma of you to “play the game” True sigmas play NOBODIES games
I can speak the language to a point if it helps accomplish a goal. But I always try to let on that I just don't really care about kindergarten-level games.
@@lordabstract82 Ever heard of varying degrees? We don't all go and live on our own in the woods.
@@adrianred236 sure, and that’s understandable. But in my particular case, living in remote areas is what works better for me.
13.Hurry up
12. How's the weather
11. Speak up
10. Don't do that
09. What's the matter
08. Tell me a bit about yourself
07. It's not your type of thing
06. Let it go
05. Brighten Up
04. You're overthinking
03. You'll never make that happen
02. You should get out more often
01. Do as you're told
Stupid!!! When someone calls ne that cause I ve made a mistake do to being pressured on time!!!!! Ill fly off the handle
How is the weather represents small talks
@@alhassanfirrdous7292 - it’s just an example that Sigma don’t like to talk about the obvious. I can see the weather, I can’t change the weather, so why bother? - unless your planning a trip and it is part of what you have to consider - any other reason is waste of breath and time.
But in general it is correct, that small talk is not the Sigma’s forte.
If you can't make it work don't worry about it, I don't really need it.
"If you can't make it work don't worry about it, I don't really need it.": This one is bad because they assume you want to give up and they have removed the importance and value of you doing it. The thing is you're still going to make it work except now it's pointless.
“The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”- Gilbert K. Chesterton
"Tell me a bit about yourself"
That's the kind of stupid question you hate during an interview or when you're forced to interact with someone.
That's the sort of question they wish they never asked.
"I'm smarter than you."
I'll usually say, "what do you want to know?"
8 inches, next question
I'm 37 and have always thought there was something wrong with me. I don't go out, have 2 close friends, have chewed out bosses, and can't seem to help myself from stepping in when someone is getting bullied. Which one my eyes goes against society's standards of wanting to be popular and don't rock the boat. Your videos have affirmed my comfort in solitude and stepping in when needed. Thank you
honestly following u guys because these videos are more self assuring than anything else, and makes me comfortable just being me
the best way to motivate the sigma even more is to say "that's impossible" ....
Some people will try to manipulate you that way once they realize it
Always ask "why".
And, "what's in it for them?"
That way you can avoid at least some of the manipulators.
Or start a rebuddle or counter argument with, " well I think" or" how I'd do it" or " personally" when talking about stats or data or politics. Especailly when your just trying to VR after working a double lol
Facts
This is actually accurate. My friend is a Sigma, his father told him his business will fail, he is now a millionare.
Sigma Males Practice the Quiet Life & Freedom to Perfection … 🚶🏿♂️
But get easily triggered as most of them are betas,not capable being alphas so they invent a new version - sigma male 😂😂
@@jangolub8240 nah that aint it
@@jangolub8240 betas dont get triggered...betas are subservient....sigmas are not...what you interpret as "getting triggered" is actually a sigma calling you out on your bs....not our fault you secretly loathe yourself
Nice video bloke blox.The most annoying thing is any people only say useless things. You should make a video on what actions irritates sigma. 👍🏻
Thank you Sam!
@@hiqhduke Thank you highduke! I keep working and hope it pays out. Your support means a lot!
These questions ennoy most people sigma or not. It's best not flatter one's self.
This just popped up on my feed . I had no idea that I was a sigma but this is overwhelming accurate as to exactly who I am .
Personally, I dont believe in types or labels. We just are who we are.
@@JT-gm4fk agree but I do think there has to be some truth to some of this which can help with getting to know your self more?
Same here
Don't over think it.
"Brighten up" section is spot on. Hearing those comments all the time just triggers my berserk mode automatically till now.
#11:
"Hey, you've been really quiet. You should speak up!"
"When the conversation gets interesting, I will."
The Sigma may not always actually say that, but it's what he's thinking.
I can relate as a sigma on the speak up. I am one that would rather wait and say something when I can present it most rationally. If I get pushed, then I may say something that I don't mean.
Sigmas like to not only get shit done right the first time but 100% perfect
If that's true then we need a new category. I'll settle for good enough done the easy way, unless it needs to be better, then I'll go back and improve it.
As my boss is a SIGMA guy, I highly agree.
He is always a perfectionist. He doesn't care if I do it the hard or easy way but he cares when I do it efficiently and 100% perfectly. That is why I can lay back, watch this CZcams, and comment this in my office. and my boss was not pissed off because I had already done my job and made it perfect as the boss told me.
As close as divine perfection as you can get.
No sigma do not look for 100% perfection they look for the 100% that they can offer the best they can do. If that doesn't work up to 100% don't give a f*** we did the best we could and that's what a signal operates on
Working alone is the only way I like to work really… since I do construction underneath the water this actually works out well…. Definitely no one else down there…. Unless the job requires two divers but that’s not very often.
I like working as a team , but always peer based and compartmentalized to our own tasks.
13) Well Right off the bat, I can confirm that... hate time constrains. I do things in my own time. Much better that way.
12) Doesn't really bother me. I usually use unisyllabic answers, though. Make sure you understand I don't want small talk.
11) I've already spoken. It's you who talks a lot and says nothing.
10) Doesn't bother me. If I'm about to do something stupid, then I thank you for the warning. Just mind the attitude.
9) You are. Leave.
8) I'm a man. I like video games, racing cars, computers and music. That enough for you?
7) I think this one bothers me a bit. I know myself better than anyone.
6) That's good advice in some occasions but I think a lot about certain situations so I know how to deal with the next time. "Let it go" is used only when a female walks out.
5) I'm cheerful and playful when the time is right. There's a time and place for everything.
4) Not really. I'm considering all options and outcomes. It's not my fault your brain doesn't work.
3) Surprise. I made it happen.
2) Doesn't bother me but forcing me to "Get out" is not good for your health.
1) Screw you guys, I'm going home.
I really hate when people want to make me feel guilty for what i am and not being like them
same brother!
I once had a supervisor who said most all of these things to me. To compensate for her incompetence and insecurity she had developed a highly authoritarian vindictive micro management style to bully, harass and intimidate her subordinates. Needless to say that didn't fly with me and we went to war which resulted in her being forced to resign after I received a large legal $ settlement. Afterward I sensed fear in my coworkers who were dependent on and conformed to a strict hierarchy rather than stand up for themselves even when they were treated unfairly. I found it awkward to work with people for whom I had no respect, so I resigned and went on to become a successful entrepreneur.
Thank you for this video I can show this to many people who think they know me and I pray that they will actually watch and listen to it so that they better know how to deal or approach me and my way of life
I've just recently discovered the Sigma Male personality type. At 46 I have always just thought I was an Alpha that wanted to go my own way and gave zero f$%ks about what other people thought. I am a leader in my workplace but more out of necessity than a desire to be the top dog. I feel like most people will screw things up. I don't have to be the leader, I just don't want to be led by someone stupid. I have a Wife and 2 Daughters that I would die for, but part of me has always felt that family life has held me back. That I would be so much more if I were on my own. I have been unsure about myself because I have some Alpha traits, but so many other Alphas seem to be douchebags and I certainly am not. The Sigma Male makes so much sense now that I have seen these videos. I'll be sure to share them with my Wife and also my friends who haven't seen or heard from me in forever lol!
I had the same issue trying to figure out why I am not like other introverts.. Its not a fear of social interaction because I interact with people easily when I want something.i can also enjoy it with complete strangers. Its really more about it feeling confining and boring. . I thought I might remain single because I just could not easily tolerate boring social interactions.
you have trust issues, maybe some control freak tendencies.
Get therapy.
Exactly!
I know one single "sigma' (I dislike suchlike categorizations, therefore, the inverted commas; regardless, this categorization is actually really helpful. ) and he is not a very happy person for being single and actually being single holds him back, so he is trying to find someone now. In conclusion, do not think that family holds you back. Not for a second.
This describes me perfectly thank you for creating this
You are absolutely correct about sigma males, but I came here with 4 twins(Gemini)and not 2, this is sometimes very difficult to control them all, they know how to control a situation or someone without throwing a punch or lifting a finger, that's all I will reveal..remember these three phrases
#1 nothing is a coincidence
#2 everything is on purpose
#3 everything happens for a reason
Very good video! "Hurry up", was probably the # 1 problem in my life when dealing with the impatience of people who normally aren't the planners & builders that a real sigma male is.
I've never heard a discription of my personality as accurate as this one
Totally concurring on all of that!! Do what you're told, indeed!! 😂😂😂😂
…..and of course, telling all this to people who aren’t, or don’t understand sigma males, won’t make any difference, because sigma males function outside social norms!
How you get your head through the door?
Don't define yourself by labels. Just be you. You're not defined by sigma, beta or alpha and there are no norms. People often label themselves to feel special so theyll be rare or in the minority.
Thank you for the replies.
Sigma Males “self validate”, and don’t conform to “usual social hierarchies”.
…..which raises pertinent questions and considerations, but pertinent only to others.
Working hard, or hardly working? 😖
We've always done it this way.. 😤
Why aren't you taken? 🙁
What do you mean? 😅
I’ve watched a few of the Sigma male videos here, and they are generally consistent with my opinion.
That written, Sigma males necessarily know how to properly interact in society, relationships, and the workplace since they know society requires it. They have to live in the real world too.
(Written by a textbook MBTI INTJ, motorcycle riding, classical piano playing, research scientist with no appreciation from anyone about any of that (including my parents)). I actually like it that way. My only competition is myself.
YMMV
This is fascinating. It's also really cool to find something that justifies me that doesn't judge me, like everything and everybody else. I don't think anybody is any one thing but I do think everything on their own exits l exhibits tendencies that can lean towards one thing or another. I think I'm am a sigma. It feels comfortable and comforting. Beta leaves getting angry and dirty, alpha, while doable is just exhausting and ultimately not honest for me. Ooh rah!
Brother as an alpha All you Are
is a dick until you get old.... 😭
love this! everything on the list pissed me off, I could feel my rage building, I don't understand why different types of people can't understand that different types of people want to do different thing differently, I hear the 'whats wrong?' - when i'm feeling fine but my resting face isn't grinning like a Cheshire Cat, I only smile or laugh when something is actually funny, I struggle to simply be polite and fit in, I could go on but yes this is a relief its not just be being weird or 'wrong' all the time
This is wild hearing this. I'm thinking "Isn't this a man thing?"
I didn't choose this Sigma life. Crazy that people are talking about it. Thing about sigma's is not trying to be boxed in. Just by defining it, you box Sigmas in.
But I can't disagree that the things in the video didn't trigger me.
All 13 describes me to every letter and thanks a lot for this video
It would be more accurate to say that they work best when left to their own devices and it usually results in them out working everyone else without diminishing the quality of the work once they figure out a more efficient way of doing any given task.
As a 10% Sigma Empath Male I appreciate you making this video, so now when I found out who I actually am I can just send this video to people instead of explaining them anything :D Thx for making my life easier :D
Lol🤣😂🤣
This is very interesting -- There are so many traits that overlap with some of my behaviors--it does give some explanation as to why I am an enigma in some circles of engagement.
When someone says "stop over-thinking it", it usually means they don't want you to get to the bottom of the issue for fear of what you'll uncover. Best strategy, change the subject to knock the other person off balance but keep your radar wide open to collect more points of data over time. You'll soon get to the bottom of it.
Under point 8 also add a woman telling you how to drive / where to park 😀
"I love how you tell me how to drive, youre very qualified especially considering youve been in four accidents in the last year and Ive been in none!"
yep all hit the nail on the head. a big one for me used to be "are you ok" after smashing a finger or something. if it's serious I will let someone know otherwise leave me alone. I've learned to hold it in, in many of these circumstances and not snap at people. still makes me angry though.
I'm not sure why this popped up on my feed, but I'll say whatever I want to whomever I want. Their triggers aren't my problem, it's theirs. I'm not going to tiptoe around people incase I trigger them. I'm not going to change myself because someone else has a problem. Either deal with it or don't. I'd expect the same for me. ✌😗
As others mentioned. Tell me I can't achieve a goal or can't learn something...Do I sense a challenge ?.. I love a good challenge but is it worth my time ,if I feel it is than please get out of my way and don't say I can't do it... and get off my coat tails your slowing me down.. Sounds familiar. ; )
I'll smile when I'm good and damn ready to smile. And only when there's a good reason for it - like something truly heartwarming.
I can take the role of leader when no one else will step up, but I always do my best work alone and unhindered,
Time constraints: I was given an impossible project that was never going to be completed ever. I was informed by a young lady half my age that the higher ups had imposed a deadline and that I HAD to make the deadline. I had to laugh in her face and tell her deadlines do not change the laws of physics. She just could not comprehend no mater how hard I tried to explain. You can demand all you want but no mater your rank it just ain't gonna happen. I am so happy I am now retired and do will never have to deal with BS again.
People think things become possible simply bc they asked it to. Especially at work.
Great video!
I've always considered myself "Ronin", then MGTOW. Appears this term covers all my bases, good to know.
We live the most free lives because although we know the boundaries,we know those boundaries were created by man and therefore not meant for everyone.
and this is why i dont talk to people
some sigma males react to "how are you?" and "tell me about yourself" can also lead to getting a blunt honest and possibly horrifying answer dependant on the recipients outlook, also sigma empathic males while seeing everyone elses emotional state dont overly see the point of announcing thier emotional state as they KNOW it will effect others emotions negatively one way or another .... and are more than likely trying to figure a route that will reduce daily friction.
7 years of living next door to someone who wanted to trigger nearly every one of these "not to do's" and a partner who didnt understand that conforming with thier friend next door added to already massive mental stress of the situation .... even now, after a years separation from that partner im trying not to cause a situation where that now ex partner will start with the last 5 of these donts .....
A sigma is very much used to people trying to engage in small talk. That does not bother us, we just wont participate in it. Instead, if someone says how is the weather, we might reply with something like, "this is great weather to go snowboarding, or water skiing or any number or activities and then ask do you like to do that activity. If they persist in small talk after that, then it would trigger me to leave.
I've been trying to find that video that proves I'm not a Sigma, and that I'm just delusional. True to form though, all 13 statements in this video made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up and triggered memories of the people that said those things 😅
Beautiful work, thank you!
These videos help me understand myself a lot. Thank you. It has helped a lot of my friends understand me too.
People really misunderstand. I recall people saying that I'm weird or strange instead of saying I'm mysterious lol! I also get annoyed when someone says or asks why I'm so silent-really stupid question but now that I understand myself and people I'm more comfortable and confident. Thanks guys for creating such videos and awareness.
Same here... I see everything, I'm very perceptive, but I do it automatically, I know what's going on around me..some think this is a Blessing or a "gift" thing is if people don't KNOW you on a intimate basis, this "gift" creates a kind of distrust of you... They are like " how does he know? He must be up to something!" People think you must be ",nosey" or TRYING to figure them out for your own reasons. Some "gifts are also "curses" at the same time.
@@ramonchavez2330 Yeah. We have this instincts or 6th sense. This is actually a gift. Some are even jealous of us if we don't socialize or interact with them. I don't know why but it just happens-I find certain people boring and I give them no attention. We sigma males rock 🤘🤘🤙🤙
I would say that I have used small talk for years to gauge people. It's fascinating watching people's responses to unusual small talk questions.
I literally quit my job because someone wouldn't quit stressing me out to hurry up when things were really tough during the holidays at McDonald's
Sigma mentaöity
It's nice to now understand why I've never "fit it" and now I understand why I owe past classmates apologies for never delivering on group projects... my bad
I am also a sigma male. My dominance is excessive and off the chart. I married a submissive introvert and our marriage of 40 years has been blessed and happy. We are polar opposites and this has been our success. We compliment each others strengths and weaknesses. The "13 Things That Trigger a Sigma Male" are spot on and fully support the findings. SO SPOT ON.
Nope. You're not a Sigma Male. No actual Sigma Male would comment on a CZcams saying "I am also a Sigma Male". In fact, you wouldn't even be here watching it.
@@james_tiberius_kirk73 I have never categorised myself but the signs tick all boxes. I am 65, retired and have plenty of time to reflect on my life.
John van be ven. I'm in a similar situation. I've been with my partner for 11years. Best way to live is to try to be better then you were yesterday. Hope the rest of your life is full of good stuff.
@@johnvandeven2188 Did you chose to marry an introvert and your polar opposite on purpose?
@@htttppppp I chose her and had also known her most of my life. She comes from a family that has similar values to my family.
All these bullet points have been my major struggles growing up, where did you find this list? My mom's favorite thing to say: "You are slow," while thorough would be appropriate.
People talking nonsensically without taking the time to be thinking logically, will trigger a real Sigma man. We Sigma men don't have time for dumb stuff and bad attitudes. Period.
I am never overthinking. I am thinking the exact right amount.
Tbh, I am not sure if I was a gamma or Sigma. I'm definitely not Alpha or Beta because I don't care much about public opinions and social heirarchy. Anyway I am doubting if I fall into sigma because I just kinda brush off most of the things in this list except for number one. This is the one thing that pisses me off. In fact, there was a time when I had an argument with my Project Manager in our work floor (I was a software developer) although I was still trying to be respectful and logiically, albeit raising my voice a bit, explaining to him the risks of his suggestions. When he told me "just do what I said" I snapped and berated him telling him his idea is stupid and I won't do what he said (this was in front of everyone). In the end, he stepped back and a supervisor came to me and asked for opinion on how to fix the problem. I ended up fixing the problem and everything went smoothly. The PM held a grudge with me though and tried to give me a failing performance evaluation rating.
The worst things people have said to me
"Know your place." From my Uncle who had this delusion that I'm just gonna respect his authority when I only know him for a few weeks up to that point. He never made that mistake again.
"Doom and gloom are not becoming." From my Step-Dad after my engagement failed and I broke up with my girlfriend of ten years. He has always been dismissive of my emotions and feelings he doesn't understand.
"I can't do all the work." From coworker when i came into work sick and lost my voice. I could barely speak to people face to face, much less over the phone when he was notoriously lazy.
All these things I find dismissive, disrespectful and delusional.
These are all true for me, and related... never lie to a sigma male, he will likely never, ever trust you again.
The top 4 are absolutes. The one which seems to be missing is when you tell a person something and they respond, "Probably". Hey, I just told you a fact, there is no 'probably' to it.
I only engage in small talk when analyzing a subject's character. If I'm engaging in dialogue with an alpha, I use this strategy to exploit weaknesses to crush them.
Again 100% accurate for me personally, this is extremely surprising to me and this is the third video ive cherry picked of yours to watch with no influence from anyone or anything. With immeasurable gratitude and praise I thank you!
I am going to share these videos with family and friends as no one alive today really knows who I am anymore and my own words can't describe how I am nearly as well as these videos can.
I am forever thankful for you making these as precisely and perfect as you have, I see these as a major tool in my arsenal to advance in this lifetime, and again I thank you to all those involved in making these.
Brandon Standinger.
"Get", "don't", "make sure", "you have to", "why are you...", "that is not how you do it" are things I have heard from people that want to impose themselves due to my calm nature, but soon realize you do not command the battlefield strategist.
The problem is, some of this is not only inaccurate sometimes, it also legitimizes antisocial techie behavior.
All my life people have told me "I can't" when I know I can.
I don't believe in the quote "over thinking" there is no such thing ..there is someone who knows and there is who doesn't want to know...bla bla bla
If you're asked to solve for 2+2, and you use algebra...you're over thinking.
Yea-up. I’ve been watching these for weeks now. Although I’m not 100% in agreement with everything. I can definitely relate. I would claim to be a Sigma Male, but I don’t want to give anything away about myself.
Damn. This fits like a glove to me. At least to this, what I think of myself.
Now I know, that my inner sleeping volcano is not wishful thinking.
"Hurry Up!!" _really annoys me to the bone; i can relate to everything point 8 n onwards,_
..but isn't that what anyone would find annoying ?!, ...i don't care what sigma hates, cuz those comments are something that anyone would hate(prolly even Alphas) , ...be it a man or lady of any hierarchy.
People that say "I can't" really bothers me. It's worse when they won't try.
As a sigma INFJ male, I endorse this 13 point list :)
another rule never refuse a invite from a sigma if you are ever invited to a small gathering by a sigma it means your special if you don't show that'll be the last invite you'll ever receive
Whilst I agree with some of this, I suspect that some is quite far off the mark. How is the weather for example is a reasonable discussion to ease from deep thought and can be a good distraction and a complex system that can lead to interesting predictions. It is a good distraction from other lines of thought and is welcomed .... occasionally. Brighten up is another interesting one, it is more or flag noting there is something that need s to be reconsidered, if placed correctly this can be really handy, many times it is just an insult. Do as you are told is the instant "see ya" moment
That is me. Us sigma's have gotten dragged in to stuff we did not enjoy. So we avoid what we hate. As a kid I wanted to play a guitar. My mother liked piano's. So I was forced to play the piano. Guess who never played a piano again!
Well even though I don't like to be boxed in a specific type of character I have to admit, a lot of Sigma traits suit me perfectly. Awesome content keep it up :) - Love the Warsaw city skyline at the beginning. Greetings from Poland :)
3:10 my dad will agree 100% 🤣🤣
All these fit like a glove 😅
LOL "You'll never make that happen..." me: "I accept your challenge!" :)
Any sentence beginning "You should..."
Sigma males do not get "triggered". Snowflakes get "triggered". If a sigma doesn't like what you have to say, he walks away.
When I was younger. Boss told me to hurry up in finishing a project, I yelled at him. I finished the project by the deadline. The wimp fired me because I yelled at him is what a coworker friend told me.
You guys are really good at patting yourselves on the back
Look at the world we live in
Damn! Now, it results that I'm a sigma male, all my life since a kid, and I've never knew it.
When someone at work tries to help by telling me what I already know and am currently doing my ears mysteriously stop working and I blatantly ignore them. If they continue I walk away and tell them to do it and my help isn't needed, leaving them to fail. Then I consider all the ways to do it better, faster and more efficiently by means they didn't think of. Proving a silent but loud point.
If I wanted their advice I would ask. Just like I don't impose my knowledge on others unless asked. Always expect people to assume that logically Im a veteran at my job for years and that I know what im doing. Some just want to look competent and think you give a F what they have to say. Thats why I prefer working alone. People talk too much and say nothing slowing me down. Goes right thru me.
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About describes me. Now as I was unaware of this hierarchy until recently, I simply learned to adapt. However I’ve always preferred the solitude over large groups, and depending on my mindset, the “small talk”.
The grand irony is that I’m an educator, so I have to be out front and interacting. Something I enjoy doing. However I also prefer to work autonomously within the guidelines. Hovering over me or critiquing my every move is going to annoy me, and the individual is going to experience my “psychopath stare”.
Part of why I’m not a micromanager.
Distract him from working on his goals with a social life revolving around the mediocre that don’t naturally stand out
I love it when people tell me I can't do something. My response? Watch me.