Why Are Sigma Males So Cold
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Sigma males possess an unusual combination of traits from the spectrum of introversion and extroversion, which can cause them to be difficult for most people to understand. In fact, they are often perceived as being aloof or even cold by those around them. There are several reasons underlying this, and that’s what we’re going to cover in this video.
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I am ISTJ/T personality. Can I be a sigma male or not?
We also talk to ourselves....and, yes, we answer.
Same!!! I think better when I talk to myself
Indeed, I do this a lot when I'm planning my workouts etc.
I owe you one 🥃
all the time
Absolutely nothing wrong with thinking out loud
the SIGMA mindset was an acquired one for me. It can happen after repeated betrayal and disappointment from others. You learn to become so emotionally and financially independent no one touch you.
The switch goes off rapidly, once betrayed never they trust again, if someone breaks through the wall be certain they are never trusted again even if they give the same signals as they did when trust was a factor in the relationship. Very private people. I think women sigmas exhibit the same behavior. Often women in marriages who have been betrayed stick it out but shut down. Canceling plans is not on my list of being sigma, most do not want to make plans but realize they have obligations, often are there "only in the body"
Agreed,same thing happened to me. As time goes on,I have become more and more comfortable just being inside myself,calling my own shots and enjoying the benefits I gain from not relying on anyone but myself. I have more money and time for my interests. Cutting out the driftwood of your life has real world benefits.
It all happened because you were sigma. People don't understand you. I noticed PEople don't care.much for things I talk about because it is too deep for them, they will probably never in their life even drift in that direction so they seem disinterested because it doesn't help them in any way. I share all of the things that I know that translate to EASY SUCCESS, LOTS OF FREE TIME, BEING SELF SUFFICIENT. they don't care, they would rather work 40+ hours a week
I'm in this same boat. Working toward the financial side of things now. Sigma males refuse to give others the satisfaction of having leverage over them.
Welcome to the world. (Sigma males dont exist)
1. They avoid small talk
2. They tend to avoid others
3. They don’t care for approval
4. They don’t often ask for help
5. Not very expressive about their feelings
6. They often wait for others to start the conversation
7. They don’t feel the need to impress
We also don't announce when we're leaving...anywhere, ever.
Why?
Doing so would make us engage in its bedfellow, small talk.
This is true.
This is so true !!!
Preach my G
@CPerk so real of u
So true. I just did it today when not feeling well. I sent a text a hour after leaving
People think we're rude because we know that weakness & fakeness make our stomach crinch. Trying to do small talk for the sake of it is a degradation to our authenticity
Not only that, but also a waste of time. I mean I can already tell what the weather is I ain't blind lol
"The path to the top is the one that demands us to be in solitude"
- a Sigma probably
Definitely 👍
More like "I'd gladly include people on the journey if they weren't so damn annoying"
sigmas dont want to be at the top, they just want someone thats competent to be there.
I don’t go to “The Top” I go my own way. Im not a follower. Also im not a leader unless someone wants to go the way im going.
"if you want to go far, go together"
- a beta probably
The only thing that sucks is my family including my parent's always think I'm in a pissed off mood, but I've always kept to myself and when I set my mind on something I just get it done. Good to know I'm not alone.
Lol all my life ive had " are you ok Mike " .... When I am totally fine 🤣
It's so draining explaining to everyone we not pissed off. Sometime having to explain does aggravate me. People want emotional expression from me but I can't fake it. I show it when I feel it and feel the need to which is rare
My dear friend you have just described your super powers your loneliness and solitude are your greatest gift
naw they just falsely accessing you of negativity in order to force you to talk to them. they want to know how to keep you entertaining them. they dont truly care how you feel. they only care how you make the, feel and what your bringing to the table for them to enjoy. They have chosen to be near to worthless in a conversation and want you to do all the heavy lifting for them. they know your fine. they know they are attempting to hold your good name hostage. these are not the actions of nice nor proper humans. I do not associate with those toxic entitled liars. they will harm you for their own fleeting gain. then they will pretend to apologize or play vicomte, once you acknowledge their blatant disrespect
Yea tho with that alone statement. Just released a lot of tension
I was a beta turned sigma just due to life and people constantly letting me down, pain is a great teacher
We was all beta waiting for our sigma traits to be expressed freely
I'm 64, doing things my own way worked well for me. I retired at 45. Many people will say negative things about how I operate but it always comes from people who have issues like being lazy or not rational. They want people around them to pander and they've gotten that their entire lives. When they have to deal with someone who won't accept their issues they get pissed. That's OK with me.
Yeah, they'll complain but won't actually try and improve or will just avoid it at all cost without even putting in a tad bit of effort, so when you show that you're not willing to pander to that lazy mindset, they get angry because you're making them feel bad about themselves, even though in the end, you're helping them more than anyone has
Great story,wonder why people don't strive to be independent but rather want to depend on others all time
So basically get used to it , ok sounds good I will ! Lol it’s either people hate me or they love me no in between with sigmas
yes, its also okay that they NEED to work till 65-70 and then afterwards they might stand in line for some food if the government hasn't screwed them over already before they can even retire.
Did you manage to find a soulmate and make a family?
I whole heartedly relate to the lone wolf personality, not relying on others for validation. Being extremely comfortable in my own skin, on my own so on and so forth. It’s such a superpower
Most people hate that
I am Sigma, I enjoy going my own path.
This is me 100% funny how on these alpha channels they dismiss the existence of Sigmas or give such a wrong description it's obviously disengeneous.
Alpha think that's the only way to be a true male. It's there way or the high way. Thier ego always rules the emotions they go through. Sigma is a lone wolf. Not needing anyone's approval. Alpha throw that approval around.
Alphas are dorks
Exactly cause they want the alpha to be the leader lol, thats ok, see you at the finish line 😂
@@taochi100 beautiful brother
Thank you. Always live outside of the expectations of others.
We come to realize we're literally the only one with a conscience( and everyone else was acting the whole time. We also come to realze how hated we actually are. We love everyone else, we see them as having equal value, we assume they think the same as us, we didn't realize they all hated us that whole time and were conspiring to destroy us, out of hatred. We realize the world is made for liars and tyrants, it's against honest people like us, and nobody will help when you're in trouble the way you would help them. It makes you cold to realize most humans are only evil.
Its a paradox. when you re hated by many ıt means that you re doin somethng beneficial for yourself, loving yourself. when you dont think for yourself , you re sacrifing yourself but you re happy at the same time, even may be not happy but not bothered by many bacause many people can use you as a result they can like you..ı was thinking lıke you for the last year..When you re pragmatic mode ı think ıts about jealousy of others not being good or bad. then ıf its about like you said conscience, being good,not being evil- does it have a correlation with choosen ones?
This is how I feel .
Wow I’ve always felt this
What you said is true but remember people are individuals this doesn’t make it easier but a little better
Well yeah, nobody gives a fuck about you or me, it's every man for himself really. Some people will genuinely care about you at one point or another but don't expect that to be forever and/or without any strings attached. We are born and die alone. And as much as I hate saying it, because there's a part of me who still wishes to believe in humanity, it's the truth. Mere fact of life. Nobody's gonna be born, live or die for you in most cases.
Those, who working lonely every job like architecture, artist, and like a mistery they are sigma male i knew God have showed every new skills and no bad thingking
As a tested INTJ-A Sigma I agree with this description. Dealing with people in business and other pursuits, I conclude that I have been Marooned on the Planet of the Morons. They screw-up consistently, wasting opportunities and resources.
Attempting to share ideas and insights is usually a waste of effort, so I have given-up on even trying in most cases.
James - your speaking to my heart! Incredible fools they are & the worst type is an educated fool!!
I love a sigma male, and admire those traits. I would not have him any other way. Am a sigma female and consequently, we are a match. I hope you meet your match too!
Where do I find test like that?
Just found Sigma videos.. Just thought a was a weirdo and that's true in ether case
🌑🌕🌗🌓
You guys still has some growth to do.
Sigmas are smart financial managers.When they try to pass on the same knowledge to others,those recipients just freek out
In my experience the people who like you call you confident. The people who don't like you will call you arrogant. Arrogance and confidence mean the same thing. The difference is that the word arrogant when used against you can often be a red flag to signal accuser's own insecurities. For instance someone who is driven by acceptance will hate someone who is a free spirit.
As a Sigma male, I was once accused of solipsism, due to my aloofness and lack of apparent emotional response.
i had to look up the words solipsism, and after i read the description.
I was like...what is wrong with that?
Not my problem that society made it a dirty word, but i know 1 thing.
I have peace, i have happiness, i have integrity,i have wisdom, i have patience, i have accountability, and everything that happens to me bad or good it my own fault.
It could because i see things trough a wrong lens, or i misjudge things.
This is the power of solipsism when handle well..==>self mastery and self knowledge=>never to be a slave or manipulated by others or doing this to others.
And then wonder why society is such a mess, society is nothing but the sum of all individuals with no backbone divided by all the sigmas in the world.
Walking my own path together with my loveones...
This shit is spookily accurate! It’s so me! Wow! How have I never heard of this til 2 days ago? I always avoided the “alpha male” thing because it didn’t quite seem like me but close. THIS is it!! This is who I am! Dope video!!
Facts bro, i would tell myself truly, Simon are you alpha really, and my answer would always be, I think so, now I know why, im way above an alpha they act a bit to pathetic for me lol, and looking at them makes me wanna beat them up to take their alpha fascia away lol, then I think, only if he fucks with me, they never do 🤔🤣
I’m a 61-year-old Sigma Male and if I commit to something I do all I can do to follow through. I don’t cancel at the last minute ever! That’s arrogant and rude unless it’s for an emergency! There are different types of us sigma males! 😎
Agree 100% Sigma males do their own critical thinking and chart their own course in life. The standards they set within are far more important than any others try to impose on them.
I won't cancel an engagement once I've committed to it. Im 57. But, I generally don't commit to very many social engagements unless I know I'm gonna have some good conversations with the people that are there. Hanging around a bunch of shallow people has never appealed to me at all. I like "Real" people, I don't like fake and pretense. If you want to talk to me about sports, the news, the weather, politics, or the latest sitcom, my eyes glaze over. But, if you want to talk about wha'ts going on in your life, the real stuff, not the facade, we can have a deep conversation that'll last for hours. I'm always fascinated by hobbies people have, particularly if it has to do with making and building things, art, gardening, anything like that. Things that most socialites don't even think about.
For the first time ever I feel like something accurately describes me.
This is the one best description of sigmas video i watch and describe me perfectly 😌
Thank you! I have many more videos on Sigma Males, make sure you check those out as well.
skase
The fox can change his fur but his character remains…
A solo player is a solo player.... !!! Good job 👍🏾😌
His video captured me perfectly,
Before I heard about stigmas , I just called my characteristics as different
But to see a broad topic to why I am the way I am is reaasuring. Thank you fot this information.
I've seen a few articles written about Sigma males by women. They were aweful, described as alphas with chocolate. I only found out about Sigmas last week. It hit me hard I wondered why i felt so different to everyone at my workplace and family life. Fuck man, but at least i know my mind and character arent an anomaly.
Same here. I long ago accepted and embraced my seemingly strange ways, since they brought me great success in life. But yes it's nice to know about the sigma male, it explains a lot. I check off 95% of the boxes.
The unnerving thing is the women who write these types of articles are the very same ones that the media will waste no time in hiring.
Working alone is good as you know that things will get done, too many excuses, backsliding and no drive from others. When you make a mistake you are initially annoyed but then you think, thats great i have learned/ understood. Time alone is golden. Small talk is overbearing.
Bro! Have u been watching me!? Lol. You just explained my whole life. Great vid.
Well winter is coming and we will be in our true element 🥶🥶
I always say...id rather be cold than hot!
@@tjcosta8802 you can dress against the cold, but you can only undress till your skin naked against the heat.
It’s really good to know that I’m not alone and that there’s people like me
I am a true sigma and we create the environments as big or as small as we like. true creators and our thoughts are guided by our gut. Why and How? Well you would have to be a sigma to know that. I never watched another video on this topic ever 42 years old, never felt the need to study social titles - and finding this, has completed the puzzle in my head and has brought clarity. I've built and succeeded in several different industries to set up my final project. I love your content it's made me understand why I am. #TrueSigma®
Well said brother! I used to think something was wrong with me until I found the sigma life. Amazing!!
Final project?
You will accomplish.
You will get bored.
And you will get fired up for another.
At 59 I try to temper that.
@@stayfree6115 final project of only one area, there are multiple areas in my life, I've never been bored.
likewise
I've never met anyone like me. I've always felt special and cursed at the same time. I've always been fully aware that I'm an empath , now I've come to learn that I'm a sigma empath. It's extremely rare so it now it makes sense.
*8 things to quit for all Strong Alpha Male:👍*
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not prioritizing your health
4. Wasting your precious time
5. Chasing meaningless relationships
6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat
7. Wasting time by scrolling social media
8. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Sounds like rules to me😂
Number 2 is for introverts. I prefer to have long periods of time to myself. That doesn’t mean I don’t also enjoy time with friends and family. It’s not draining at all. Most times it’s invigorating and I cherish that time with them as well. The alone time is just another vibe that I also enjoy. It’s just as necessary as being around people.
Intuition operates best in it’s own constraints: very few. Take care of the intuition and it’ll take care of you.
As A Sigma I agree. Want to get a hold of me. If you know me you know where I am . I don't want small talk tell me what you want. I am into self sufficiency, I do not have time to waste on your problems I have my own. Why can't people just do what they say they are going to do.I don't like phones. I don't even own a cell phone. Back to if you know me you know where I am. I don't express my feelings. If you want to talk go to therapy you need it.
Truly admire and respect your CZcams channel, Bloke Box. And your point of view about Sigma Males is unique and insightful.
We really are our own best friends
We’re very much the Stoics of the day
Been a sigma my whole life
Becoming more so everyday
I spend time with my children and enjoy time by myself
I’ve been described as cold, arrogant, condescending, and narcissistic. But I am merely confident and direct. Many people can’t discern the difference. I’m actually a very warm-hearted, understanding and patient man.
But, in today’s third wave feminist atmosphere, I have become a pariah. So be it. I’ll just keep spending my time learning about everything I can. Cancer, inflammation, motors, clusterB personality disorders, nuclear fusion, engineering failures, physics (static vs dynamic friction is fascinating), etc.
But I’ll never be loved. I never have been.
If you identify as alpha or beta, you might find love.
There are MANY downsides to being a sigma that are not often discussed…
Sometime I engage in small talk so people don’t get to know me on a personal level
Dear Bloke Box
Thank you for making this video. I especially appreciated the item about backing out of arrangements at the last minute. I thought it was just me...
All the best for 2023 and my warmest regards to all at Bloke Box, whoever you may all be.
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Hardest part is making friends and not coming off as cold, I always wondered why I have always struggled and at times awkward
To the ladies, don't look for a lot of pillow talk afterwards.
to the ladies, consider yourselves lucky that you're afforded the opportunity for pillow talk, even if there isn't any.
Most of the time talking to ourselves is the only intelligent conversation we have in the day.
I really appreciate your channel.
Watching these videos explains a lot.
Really, I had no idea this topic was being covered so well -- thank you.
All this romanticization of Sigma male is over the top. Sigma attitude should be your basic attitude because Sigma personality moves you closer to spirituality. Without spirituality human existence is meaningless.
the ladies' room is down the hall.
@@rongermanjr And what should I do with this information? Didn't get the point.
I’ve been labeled many names. One we can’t stand to be callled is the “Lone Wolf”.” Tiger “, is our blood name. No we don’t follow the pack, or need the pack for survival. The tiger prowls alone except for mating.
Yes the tiger has been seen in the circus, oppose to the wolf. But hey, when you have talents others want to see, we stand up and shine proud as the TIGER
A Sigma can also be an extrovert. The extroverted Sigma is not a loudmouth, who tries to control or dominate a conversation. They say what they mean and mean what they say. If they are in a leadership position (could be a business owner or in the military) they tend to lead by example.
Facts
Hear hear
This is very true. In a work environment , I can be very extroverted, and I wouldn't ask anybody to do anything that I can't or haven't or wouldn't do myself. I tend to speak very directly, and to the point. and never embellish. I have no problems speaking in front of 20 people or whatever. But the opposite can also be true if I have my head buried in a project, I really hate distractions.
Great video @bloke box. Keep them coming!!
Thank you!
This guy is describing me 1000%
And we don't give a damn to what's happening around us.
I dont get too many calls or texts but even if I'm with someone and they ask a stupid question I won't respond or I'll give a stupid answer or be sarcastic.
Great video 👍
As a sigma male trying to understand myself, it would be really helpful if a brief summary is provided. Please
We walk our our path and just tell it like it is, if you like what we have to great, if not it doesn’t matter!!
We only appear to be cold to those who judge us without examining themselves, if they would take an honest look inward there would be no reason to judge anyone else.
All set and ready as “lone wolf” when time and space arrived..
damn i just learned a lot about myself
I know right!!
@@tjcosta8802 Kinda amazing, ive also been taking psychology classes in college (which i highly recommend to anyone somewhat interested in that stuff) and cos of that this stuff tends to make a lot more sense
Don't feel at all.........
Please.......
This one is absolutely brilliant......
And there's Me thinking I've been a Narcissist.....
Actually I'm a Sigma Male........
Absolutely Fascinating.....
How about most people are boring with chit chat and gossip … Enjoy people who are knowledgeable .. Who cares about who said what to who .. Serenity now 😁
Not rude just not bothered with the crowing of crows.
Very, very accurate video. Thanks for creating!
Before understanding myself as sigma I never knew why people never got to the point of conversation quickly.
6:01 That's not Han Solo. That's Alden Ehrenreich dressed up in a Han Solo costume.
Shout out to all my sigs
The need for validation goes hand in hand with being a social person. The Sigma is a lone wolf, that's why it doesn't need it.
thanks for your videos!
Being a life long (I'll accept the label) Sigma, I've always tended to spot others as well. Even tho I didn't know there was such a label until recently...I still would hold special the characters that were ...stuck... behaving like me; and so, here are a few of my favorite Sigma characters: Mad Max after death of wife and kid: "Lonely are the Brave" character (my all time favorite); Big dude from "My Bodyguard"; Guts from "Berserk" manga; Kyūzō of "Seven Samurai"...that's enough for now :)
@4:02 you forgot Tony Stark (Iron Man) R.I.P.
It's true we don't like small talk and we might seem cold if it's small talk involved I think we're far from cold we're passionate about subjects were interested in, and we just walk are own path
The comments are literally bringing tears to my eyes. We are the ones guys. We always knew it didn't you 👀
Just love it!
i am glad this normal personality, I used to be called weirdo haha I always hated asking people to help, except for learning something sometimes, I prefer learning by myself from books too
The lack of sigma male grindset comments disappoints me
spoken like a true beta.
you happy now?
the ladies' room is down the hall.
you're welcome.
U don't need to "break the ice" with sigmas, they just need to see an attempt. They'll do the rest of the work for you.
We are our own worst enemy that being said we also treat ourselves like it so we are ruthless to our self so it would be impossible for others to affect us when we’ve done it to ourselves
I’m not cold, I’m tempered
I walk my own path and will never be told.
people offten accuse others of negative things, knowing their accusations are not true. in order to force you to bend to their will. if they respect you, they would not do that
I am my own harshest judge.
I can only appreciate the explanation of what I do...Thank you!!!
Nice video 🎯
Great psychology video and who wouldn't want the ability to use their wit and ability to get out of bad situations! ;-)
I question is it's on the far end of autism spectrum. Im so calculated with everything I do. And I really don't have close friends. Not even close family. I feel I'm different and learned not to ask for help and question how cold and stoic I'am. Nothing fazes me. I even question myself how things don't get to me. I've felt like this as far back as a boy.
I used to think that too, about being Asperger's or something. But, I don't think so. I'm 57 years old, been this way since I was a kid. I wouldn't say that nothing fazes me, but I usually approach things like a mission. Anything that's a waste of time really annoys the hell out of me. I'm the kind of guy that the world could be burning around me and everybody is panicking and I would be trying to figure out what's the best way to put out the fire and who can I recruit that'll gain their composure enough to help me. The time to reflect will be after the crisis is over. That's just the way I'm made. I'm at my best when the sh!t is hitting the fan. Though I do like my space and my peace and quiet time.
I do small talk when necessary because I don't want to seem like an ahole, but there is really nothing I hate more.
yo mate when you are showing a photo from Han Solo why the hell you are not taking Harisson Ford???
oh and nice Video btw💪
Well I am not "cold", per se. I just have a "live in the present" attitude. I don't have any expectations. In fact, when I became a permanent at my current job, I barely reacted. The manager was surprised with my apathy. I just lied and said I was "processing everything". But I don't really feel a lot of emotion... I get angry, but it takes A LOT to make me angry. I'm far better being the happy playful charcuterie employee. What I am is rational. Emotions have their place but they are the enemy of reason. Many people call me "arrogant" or even "angry" or "triggered". Truth is, I'm apathetic the majority of the time, so they just project themselves on what I write. There's no point in being angry. The only one who suffers is you. However, it took me years of fighting Major Depressive Disorder and discipline to get to this point. I do fit the mantra of "do it yourself". That's why, even in school, I didn't enjoy group work. I always ended up doing most of the work myself regardless, and the other partners would take my credit. Now, I just do as my bosses tell me. I follow instructions, I take initiative when necessary. Everyone's got to pitch in. And at my work, my bosses know what they can count on with me, so when they see stuff that needs doing, they just ask me if I'm alone, to which I say "indeed".
Sigmas are always walking their own path in life. Coldness is typically an illusion sometimes its implemented as a defense mechanism to ward off an unwanted person(s).
I come from the light
I go towards the light
It's not appropiable to betray them. They like to be alone . X-D
It’s funny, I’m 64 yrs old. I looked up Male Personality’s. I checked out all the different types, and immediately found 9 out of 10 things that were spot on, with sigma males. I was amazed to find why I did everything, that I did in my life. It really helps explain why other people are the way they are 😀
To avoid canceling plans don't make plans further than 24hrs... Or whatever you are comfortable with 🤗
Duds has the best voice,, dope accent too
Sigma male married to alpha female for 30 years. 3 Children. It can be done it is me. Compromise and compassion. Is key?
It'd Christmas Eve, with family and my wife's friends. I am definitely not interested in the small talk. No intellectual challenge in that.
All the people say that sigma is the rarest character but in comments everyone says "I'm sigma😎".
LOL 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
True with the 'impress others' one. Also true, for me: I only want to receive a good impression from my 8 and 80 years old self's. While in the present, I can start to atune with the loving respectively wise frequencies 🕉️
It's not being cold. It's the no tolerance for BS. Complain all you want. So what you doing to make the situation better? That's usually my first recommendation to any situation or story. They all have stories.
3:01 spot on AGAIN 👏👏👏👏