Discovering the Truth About My Identity (Part 1) - Jackie Hill Perry

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  • Jackie Hill Perry was attracted to women before she could spell her own name. Abandoned and mistreated by every man in her life, she sought solace and comfort in women, and had her first girlfriend in middle school. As she became more committed to being a lesbian, she also began dressing and acting like a man. All along, Jackie also felt God trying to get her attention, and one night, could no longer ignore His tug on her heart.
    Accepting Jesus spiraled Jackie into a complete life change, as she committed to following God, met and married her husband, and became a mom to two daughters. In this two day Focus on the Family broadcast, hear Jackie’s incredible story that proves that no one is beyond the grace and love of Jesus Christ.
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Komentáře • 323

  • @adriennedunston4906
    @adriennedunston4906 Před 3 lety +680

    I love the line when she says when you believe Jesus is worth it then you will deny your fleshly desires... so powerful!!!

    • @LoverofJustice1
      @LoverofJustice1 Před 3 lety +23

      Then when she says about recalling her first affection from a man was abuse. It wasnt a hug. My my my.

    • @NikNik0123
      @NikNik0123 Před 3 lety +17

      Jackie has an ability to make things plain and clear.

    • @irenewashington8971
      @irenewashington8971 Před 3 lety +10

      Truth. I'm not homosexual nor am I perfect. But I have abstained for all 40 years of my life. There's a movie about me. LOL!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 Před 3 lety +1

      I would have to agree.

    • @shaylawrence4739
      @shaylawrence4739 Před 3 lety +8

      That statement just summed up for me some things for me on so many levels. And when she said Preach Jesus’. He’s the one that gives us the power to overcome sin (paraphrased).

  • @kimintacoma
    @kimintacoma Před 3 lety +385

    Her story is my story. Christ set me free in 1998 from homosexuality & addictions and throughout some struggles and failures He continues to show himself faithful. I love Him more everyday. Thank you Jackie.

  • @dani4704
    @dani4704 Před 3 lety +370

    Jackie is so anointed to do what she’s doing. She speaks so confidently and powerfully.

    • @VivienneJu
      @VivienneJu Před 3 lety +10

      Awesome testimony of God's power to overcome

    • @VivienneJu
      @VivienneJu Před 3 lety +8

      We are followers of the Word not editors of the Word

    • @shellssoul
      @shellssoul Před 3 lety +5

      Amen! Holy Spirit talking thru her is so inspiring. Truly an annointing

  • @sydmoore6
    @sydmoore6 Před 3 lety +264

    I love Jackie. She brings everything back to SCRIPTURE

    • @ItisWritten793
      @ItisWritten793 Před 3 lety +1

      Forreal! That’s how we gotta do it😇

    • @YTD07
      @YTD07 Před 2 lety +1

      AS it should be

    • @principleswise9749
      @principleswise9749 Před 2 lety +2

      *Amen!* It's the ONLY way to do it, and effectively.

    • @fatumataholloway4897
      @fatumataholloway4897 Před 2 lety

      Pray that Jackie keeps close to the truth.

    • @monicakeenon8943
      @monicakeenon8943 Před rokem

      Her use of scripture… powerful. Works for any and every sin/ infirmity/ weakness.

  • @toyatoya5151
    @toyatoya5151 Před 3 lety +196

    Jim daly is such a gifted moderator he just asks the right questions with the right tone of voice.

    • @themascaramaven6746
      @themascaramaven6746 Před 3 lety +14

      And he’s so compassionate and so open to listening. It makes it easy for people to open up to him and it’s truly a gift from the Lord.

    • @fgbowen
      @fgbowen Před 3 lety +1

      @Toya Toya - yes. Agree 100.

    • @fgbowen
      @fgbowen Před 3 lety +1

      @@themascaramaven6746 - agreed, yes.

    • @nancygorman
      @nancygorman Před 3 lety +2

      He has such a soothing and happy voice... agree

  • @Cookie4XO
    @Cookie4XO Před 3 lety +143

    I have a niece just like her who has never been "feminine enough" and now in highschool has a girlfriend. I thank this woman for writing this and coming to tell her side so that I can better understand my niece.

  • @RealRickR
    @RealRickR Před 3 lety +91

    "We want the created thing more than the Creator." So true. Lord help us.

  • @crystal9626
    @crystal9626 Před 3 lety +315

    Any sin that can keep us out of the Kingdom should be discussed on Focus. Thank you for sharing your testimony! The church needs help reaching the LGBTQ community.

    • @bwalto21
      @bwalto21 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes

    • @lindamaxey3827
      @lindamaxey3827 Před 3 lety +4

      Powerful testimony,I appreciate this young ladies intelligence. 💞

    • @kirbythsquirrel
      @kirbythsquirrel Před 3 lety +8

      All sin will keep us out of the kingdom...

    • @justwhy4633
      @justwhy4633 Před 3 lety +2

      As a member of that community, no thank you

    • @sgreen9088
      @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety +1

      @@justwhy4633 why no thank you?

  • @sgreen9088
    @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety +38

    Deep. "As if emotions are a feminine trait."

  • @AbsolutelyTamara
    @AbsolutelyTamara Před 3 lety +21

    “Until you feel that He is worth it, then you’re willing to crucify those things that you feel is right.”

  • @NaCl_Salt
    @NaCl_Salt Před 3 lety +28

    13:20 she mentions why she had a special connection with women, because they were there for her emotionally. This is an extremely important point in relationships.

  • @mollydillingham2013
    @mollydillingham2013 Před 3 lety +196

    Thank you, Jackie for your testimony, your faith, and your honest and loving comments. It’s so valuable (and convicting) to me. As a Christian, I don’t think I respond well to those in my life dealing with homosexuality. Thank you for speaking out it has helped me.

  • @prayerslynette7810
    @prayerslynette7810 Před 3 lety +83

    She’s the voice this generation needs ❤️

  • @valej9387
    @valej9387 Před 3 lety +27

    I'd grown up associating Focus on the Family with a legalistic community that listened to them on the radio and, in practice, ignored/reinforced abuse to keep traditional family roles in place.
    Seeing Jackie here is the reason I clicked to watch them today. I deeply appreciate that they invited her on and that they're discussing this topic in a helpful, positive way.

  • @NikNik0123
    @NikNik0123 Před 3 lety +117

    LOVE THIS SISTER IN THE LORD! She such an asset to the body of Christ!!!

  • @tiffanyboyd4668
    @tiffanyboyd4668 Před 3 lety +84

    I loved the fact that she said that ppl forget to over come u have to first accept jesus and it takes faith and power to accomplish all God's telling us to do love it.

  • @angela4BC
    @angela4BC Před 3 lety +29

    I really appreciate the fact that Focus on the Family is addressing these current challenges within the church and our young people instead of shying away from them. Awareness and educating others, on what those who struggle with this are thinking, is building a bridge for us to be able to truly love the sinner and not the sin. Compassion, love and understanding will take us way further than condemnation, hate, and alienating them.

  • @deborahd2936
    @deborahd2936 Před 3 lety +46

    I found her comment about our culture reaping the the results of teaching unbiblical gender differences as if they are “gospel”. I think that is something the church has yet to really understand. I think I really agree with this idea.

  • @KittyClark4433
    @KittyClark4433 Před 3 lety +41

    Thank you for this. As a mom with a daughter struggling this gives me hope. One thing I have seen over & over is so many in this struggle have been molested as young children. Let's understand that people have been so deeply wounded. Not an excuse for any sin but let's use knowledge with compassion. Let's be Jesus to all.

  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 Před 3 lety +151

    Even when she was young she lays claim to the fact that she knew the feelings were wrong because, ‘ the conscience speaks ‘

  • @Neenz2990
    @Neenz2990 Před 3 lety +150

    I love this woman she’s just gorgeous

  • @Jules4Hymn
    @Jules4Hymn Před 3 lety +10

    I may not your typical audience (59 year old former “fundy” but faithful follower of Jesus but I read (actually “consumed”) Jackie’s book last week. I read it to help me understand the struggles of those in the SSA community but I was consistently surprised at how she was used by the Holy Spirit to shine a light on areas in my life that I was not surrendering to Him. We ALL fight temptations of one kind or another and only with God’s help can we resist and walk in victory. Her book goes beyond her particular “issue” but speaks to the heart of all of our issues: Summed up in one word: unbelief. That one word on that one page struck a chord with me. Thank you Jackie for sharing your story and being such an ambassador for Christ for this time. I have a better understanding of how to communiicate, love, and pray for the LGBTQ community now. Praying you continue to stay strong in the Lord!

  • @nobesuthugubevu6642
    @nobesuthugubevu6642 Před 3 lety +73

    I never get tired of listening to her and her story 🙌🏽

  • @tricia811
    @tricia811 Před 3 lety +12

    Jackie is SO brave, committed to God's service and such a powerful voice for today-this world needs her!

  • @setsa.m3015
    @setsa.m3015 Před 3 lety +13

    One thing about Jackie, she's Deep ♥️

  • @ilovecinnamonrolls8532
    @ilovecinnamonrolls8532 Před 3 lety +46

    I love this so much. Jackie, your words are filled with patience, love and holy boldness. People need to be shown the beauty and love of Christ.

  • @tiffanyballard1391
    @tiffanyballard1391 Před 3 lety +27

    I never heard about Jackie until today. I was listening to some gospel music and this came across my feed. So glad I'm not too judgemental to see what was being talked about. Her testimony has truly been enlightening and uplifting. I'm reminded of a song that say, "Jesus will pick you up if HE has to reach way down!" Peace and blessings to you Jackie. Continue to tell of God's goodness....

  • @chamoniquegriffith7149
    @chamoniquegriffith7149 Před 3 lety +11

    A voice that needs to be heard so we're equipped as believers to continue to glorify Christ.

  • @martiwalsh2069
    @martiwalsh2069 Před 3 lety +24

    I believe women understand women in ways men do not understand women. This is not to slam anyone, it is simply that there are differences in how men and women think. I think this is sometimes part of the attraction when women have been hurt by men.

  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 Před 3 lety +42

    I wish everyone in the world could watch this

  • @yaqarianfanashira
    @yaqarianfanashira Před 3 lety +101

    And now she's got a third little one on the way! ❤

  • @mauriceball4608
    @mauriceball4608 Před 3 lety +8

    I don't like the way the questions are being phrased, like they're perfect and never sinned. She doing a great job of answering these condescending questions.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 Před 3 lety +25

    Yes. We must speak to people about His love and kindness.

  • @katherineosere6597
    @katherineosere6597 Před 3 lety +11

    “You just told me to obey without power.”

  • @melmma6938
    @melmma6938 Před 3 lety +12

    Holyyyy cow she said sooo many things that was RIGHT ON!!!! I GAVE my self to Christ for the billionth time. I'm fighting the same thing she did.... And boy it is such a shameful thing to speak about. Many go on feeling it's wrong and trying to change on their own (me). Sooooo many struggle with this.

  • @jaderebecca3461
    @jaderebecca3461 Před 3 lety +18

    “The power that he would give me so that I am able to obey” 🙌🏻 Woowwww!

  • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
    @user-cl6uj5bn2f Před 3 lety +6

    This literally brought me to tears. Amazing testimony. The Church needs people like her and less of those who condemn others instead of trying to reach out and bring them to Christ. And I appreciate the sensitivity and insight of the Interviewers. Very refreshing. What she says about the rigid gender roles within the Church contributing to gender confusion, bang on. I've always felt this way.

  • @angelrebekah9153
    @angelrebekah9153 Před 3 lety +11

    Saw Jackie during my undergrad at Cal Baptist at their Chapel. Loved her story!!! Truly something everyone should hear!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @tasha6734
    @tasha6734 Před 3 lety +16

    Love this breakdown. Thing my feel natural to our flesh, but not natural for our Spirit man. Brings me to a greater understanding that flesh is never right. Lean to the spirit only.

  • @janessasimmons6117
    @janessasimmons6117 Před 3 lety +34

    This was amazing! So insightful. We need to have more conversations about this topic in the church.

    • @Wrightinottaw
      @Wrightinottaw Před 3 lety +1

      Have it in your home! At the diner table with friends.

  • @kristywessels836
    @kristywessels836 Před 3 lety +90

    Can you guys add captions to your videos? I would love to share this video series, but I have many Deaf friends on my social media accounts and I won't share something they can't have access to.

    • @AbsolutelyTamara
      @AbsolutelyTamara Před 3 lety +4

      You can add captions. It’s at the top of the page where those 3 dots are vertical.

    • @dulcejocelyn7102
      @dulcejocelyn7102 Před 3 lety +1

      Tamara Lyons they’re not available

    • @msblanqui1
      @msblanqui1 Před 3 lety

      Tap on the video and the 3 dots will show up

    • @sgreen9088
      @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety

      @@dulcejocelyn7102 yes it. I just turned it on. Tap on the video it's a cc icon on the top right.

  • @cslcojoco
    @cslcojoco Před 3 lety +19

    She has so much wisdom and honesty and courage. Love the way she expresses herself.

  • @maddieyb8889
    @maddieyb8889 Před 3 lety +9

    This interview left me wanting to hear more. It barely scratched the surface. Her voice and story is so needed for such a time as this.

  • @stepone6159
    @stepone6159 Před 3 lety +50

    Thank you Jackie and Focus. Jackie, you said a couple of things here that I have never heard you say before that were so helpful/revealing in my own journey of restoration. Bless u for being willing to be so candid.

    • @KittredgeRitter
      @KittredgeRitter Před 3 lety +1

      I haven't listened to focus on the family since I was a young kid. What happened in the last 20 years?

    • @sgreen9088
      @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety

      @@KittredgeRitter what do you mean?

  • @angelabasse7597
    @angelabasse7597 Před 2 lety +4

    I secretly stalk all of Jackie's videos but while watching this one, I really resonated with the daddy issues. If you ever read this Jackie, I hope you write a book about daddy issues.

  • @arlenismendez1611
    @arlenismendez1611 Před rokem +2

    She is so eloquent and her words are like poetry

    • @meesh2015
      @meesh2015 Před 11 měsíci +1

      She actually is a poet lol. Her poetry(spoken words) are on CZcams.

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena Před 3 lety +18

    Amazing testimony, touch hearts & minds Holy Spirit

  • @frannymcfranfran
    @frannymcfranfran Před 3 lety +8

    jim daly was so prepared and so smooth with it... kudos to him. love Jackie!!

  • @AdornedinArmor
    @AdornedinArmor Před 3 lety +38

    Absolutely love Jackie! I didn't even start watching yet but I had to comment. I'm happy she has received this opportunity and I look forward to the gems she will share.

  • @SOI-wl2lo
    @SOI-wl2lo Před 3 lety +3

    This was an EXCELLENT conversation; thank you

  • @mcneilla77
    @mcneilla77 Před 3 lety +24

    Powerful and thank you for sharing your story with a hopeful praying mother that have 3 children dealing with this unclean spirit. So you have given me faith and hope to keep speaking God’s truth over their lives and so many others that I see in this world.

  • @IknowGodIs
    @IknowGodIs Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you, Jim, Focus, for breaching this topic and help people to know Truth!

  • @nancyediagbonya6222
    @nancyediagbonya6222 Před 3 lety +16

    So blessed by this conversation 🙏🏿

  • @lcr7479
    @lcr7479 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing your testimony. Parents need help addressing this topic with their children. Such different times we are living in these days.

  • @powerofcare_
    @powerofcare_ Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you to Focus on the Family and Jackie Hill Perry!

  • @j.reesebradley4771
    @j.reesebradley4771 Před 3 lety +13

    So important! Thank you Jackie!!

  • @mindyyfreshh
    @mindyyfreshh Před 3 lety +9

    this was incredible!!! I learned so much.

  • @Mrstookie101
    @Mrstookie101 Před 3 lety +7

    This was such a great conversation.

  • @laever1804
    @laever1804 Před 3 lety +6

    Another, fantastic interview! Again the courage and honesty. Jesus is the GREATEST gift any of us have ever been given. Earthly Fatherhood is so critical. I know, even I struggled in learning what my Heavenly Father meant, how to relate and how to accept and understand Him.

  • @liamino4358
    @liamino4358 Před 3 lety +8

    Wow... Such a great conversation!

  • @ladyj5682
    @ladyj5682 Před 3 lety +4

    Wow, her conversations are always so powerful and eye opening. I have a new respect for her and her testimony

  • @storkdoctor11
    @storkdoctor11 Před 3 lety +14

    Fantastic interview.

  • @sarahkowalsky3984
    @sarahkowalsky3984 Před 3 lety +5

    She is FULL of wisdom 💙

  • @albertadlg
    @albertadlg Před 3 lety +3

    Beautiful testimony Jackie❤. Thank you for sharing!

  • @cynthiascott8639
    @cynthiascott8639 Před 2 lety +1

    I Love listening and learning Truth. Thank you for having Jackie Hill Perry on your program.

  • @jonathancunha5042
    @jonathancunha5042 Před 3 lety +6

    Please pray for me over this topic

  • @reginawheeler5146
    @reginawheeler5146 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you Jackie, Blessings! Clear voices, Sanctification, Purity, your choices and your acceptance of Christ! I added your choices....

  • @nancygorman
    @nancygorman Před 3 lety +3

    Great interview! Excellent conversation!

  • @moses3224
    @moses3224 Před 3 lety +9

    🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦Who is watching from SA and has a similar testimony??

  • @amythoushaltnotspeak1504
    @amythoushaltnotspeak1504 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm only five minutes in. Such wisdom. What she says about mercy in the beginning.... profound and powerful.

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv Před rokem +1

    She makes a lot of sense. I appreciate this show asking people like Jackie to share their stories, instead of just preaching how to follow Jesus. These types of testimonials, and the excellent questions from the interviewers, are better than any sermon.

  • @MorrisFamilyStudio
    @MorrisFamilyStudio Před 3 lety +11

    Jackie!!!!! 🔥 your testimony is for such a time as this!

  • @RKLuSir
    @RKLuSir Před 3 lety +5

    The power of a testimony 😊

  • @thegospeler4648
    @thegospeler4648 Před 3 lety +2

    Loved this! ❤️

  • @sgreen9088
    @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety +2

    Every time I listen to her speak, I gain deeper insight to self and Jesus.

  • @reeses2377
    @reeses2377 Před 3 lety +11

    Love Jackie, so grateful for her life! 🙌🏾 our nation needs this

  • @vjoylpn
    @vjoylpn Před 3 lety +3

    I am SO grateful to the Lord for Jackie, her life & her testimony. All glory to the Lord Jesus Christ!

  • @Tel934
    @Tel934 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for having her on.

  • @marcellmarselius2307
    @marcellmarselius2307 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you Jackie🙏🏾

  • @Optanie18
    @Optanie18 Před 2 lety +1

    Praise God for your testimony Mrs. Perry

  • @jessiemorgan9303
    @jessiemorgan9303 Před 3 lety +3

    Bruh, powerful stuff!!!

  • @graceveraaggrey5636
    @graceveraaggrey5636 Před 3 lety +3

    Really been blessed by this

  • @sgreen9088
    @sgreen9088 Před 3 lety +5

    I love the point of looking at the Bible for gender roles. For example, Jacob loved the house while Esua loved the field. In today's society, Jacob would be considered a mamma's boy or soft while Esua would be considered manly nor more masculine. But they were both men.

  • @ambersimerly1803
    @ambersimerly1803 Před 3 lety +2

    I HAD NO IDEA!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR TOUGH LOVE!!

  • @robertasantiago7556
    @robertasantiago7556 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for this!!! I so wish that I saw this before. I've lost the respect and desire of my granddaughter through marriage, by failing to share a lovingJesus of the Bible before sharing the condemnations of her choices.

  • @linettevega6876
    @linettevega6876 Před 3 lety +4

    What a powerful message

  • @marielyumul4996
    @marielyumul4996 Před 3 lety +51

    I am very thankful for this discussion with Jackie. Jackie, you are a blessing to people who are struggling with the issues of lesbianism, and for everyone who needs to understand the truth and consequences of that choice. I thank the Lord for your salvation and your willingness to share your journey in life, and how Jesus transformed you into the godly woman you are now.
    The Lord bless you your family! I am blessed to have heard your testimony. So real!

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 Před 2 lety +2

    So grateful for you, Jackie!!✝️😊

  • @stephe.6195
    @stephe.6195 Před 3 lety +5

    I dońt know what Jackie means when she says being with a woman felt ´right´but that she also didn’t feel ‘peace’ when she was actively into lesbianism. I love her testimony and have her book which was great!

  • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
    @user-cl6uj5bn2f Před 3 lety +1

    I love the point made about how Jesus empathised with everyone and made connections with people, and the mention of Romans 1 and 2 warning believers of the hypocracy in judging others.

  • @lorihunsaker1945
    @lorihunsaker1945 Před 3 lety +2

    This is what I needed, I have a lot in common with Jackie!

  • @nompumelelopearlsokhulu8652

    Powerful Testimony. Thank you Jackie :)

  • @deladem4940
    @deladem4940 Před 2 lety +2

    First time hearing about Jackie, love her confidence and her love for Christ

  • @rainforme1850
    @rainforme1850 Před 2 lety +2

    It really makes me understand so much more. I love the respect shown here

  • @praiseb2god724
    @praiseb2god724 Před 3 lety +40

    It really is all about Jesus, isn't it? He is the foundation and finisher of our faith. Modeling Christ and preaching Him to others- I really don't see who wouldn't fall in love with Him when they hear about Him. That love is what causes us to cleave to Him even though we are prone to wandering. It's that love that causes Him to sanctify us and prune us to conform to His image. It's all about Jesus!!

  • @annateves8944
    @annateves8944 Před 3 lety +2

    Shes awesome communicator. Pls pray for Jackie and others that they will be protected against envy etc. Pray for unbelievers too that they will experience God's supernatural love and that we as church won't feel envy as well i Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @daughteroftheking2979
    @daughteroftheking2979 Před 3 lety +2

    What a beautiful soul! Yah bless her.

  • @ruffinarector841
    @ruffinarector841 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Jackie!!!!

  • @Howtobeamerican
    @Howtobeamerican Před 2 lety +1

    Such a great testimony!

  • @TheRhanshaw
    @TheRhanshaw Před 3 lety +4

    Please add CC so the deaf community can access this. Your information is very important and useful to all. Thank you.

    • @msblanqui1
      @msblanqui1 Před 3 lety +1

      Click on the video and you will see 3 dots on the right. Click on it and you can turn on captions

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks for asking that we add closed captions to our CZcams interviews, April. Unfortunately, we currently don’t have the resources to do this, but our digital team has received your feedback. We do have written transcripts of most of our programs at www.focusonthefamily.com/shows. We hope this is helpful.

    • @mjebony6890
      @mjebony6890 Před 2 lety

      all viewers can turn on cc on CZcams videos. click on the buttons on the video