What You Probably Don't Know About Domestic Violence and Abuse
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- čas přidán 2. 03. 2015
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Abusers love to threaten breakups or actually break up as a control mechanism. It’s not a real breakup, they won’t talk for a few days then come back like nothing happened. Beware of these people
Sometimes they deny the abuse and say their wife is crazy
My son was taken away and I am homeless and labeled crazy. It did happen to me.
It happened to me too
It happened to me. It’s worse when they tell everybody in your circle that you are the crazy one to keep anyone from being on your side.
Not sometimes. Every time.
Usually
I always thought that these were characters on tv until I actually met someone this manipulative and abusive. It's truly frightening what they can do and get away with. Makes the hair on my neck stand up.
A narcissistic relationship is a deadly relationship.....lady please ruuuuuuuuun....
Yes it is I was stuck in one for 8years
Soon as i saw him i was like he’s done whatever she said he did.
They all have a look don't they
@@azathoththe3rd they really do. It’s coming from their eyes. It’s not a look it’s energy. These people like this excuse for a man hilly billy is possessed by the Jezebel spirit. Period
Fr tho, dog. That little smirk he does seals it
@Liz Muschinski often it's the frog in the slowly warming pot. They don't start off being major dicks. They are the sweetest people you've met. And then slowly slowly implicate you spend so much time with everyone except for him...and then isolation begins and so on. Its really subtle and insidious. Physical abuse usually follows after your sense of reality and sense of self has been eroded.
Yupp he looks abusive!
We as woman need to understand man won't change unless they want to. If you've tried to stay thinking he'll change he won't. I can't promise you it'll be easy but I assure you your heart and mind will be better off without him.
So true!
@Hai Hai Nobody is excluding them. The statistics are much higher for women anyways.
@Hai Hai actually yes there are. The domestic violence hotline is not just for women and neither are the police. That’s the only two resources women have. So don’t play that game.
@Hai Hai That’s actually not true but whatever. Keep spreading your ignorance.
Tell these women to stop using men for all their money and resources
4:31 straight narc traits. Classic statement, “you don’t like how I treat you, then leave,” meanwhile they hold all the money, verbally and psychologically abuse you so much, lie and gaslight you so much, you have no self esteem, depend on them for even the smallest decisions, you become so unsure of yourself you would never leave because you really believe the lies they’ve told you. Maybe not consciously, but subconsciously, it tears you down. She definitely needs to leave, and I hope she did, but I hope even more that Dr. Phil really dealt with this guy and exposed him and all of his narcissistic traits. Evil, smug and arrogant people. And they ain’t even got it like that to even act like that. Bunch of demons.
Notice how 3:24 he is already indirectly attacking his wife. Accusing her of being ridiculous or wrong. Meanwhile going on to say that dr Phil’s wife is always spot on. The amount of gaslighting that goes on in these relationships are unfathomable
It’s wild how his only defense was “she’s not stuck in this relationship”
My abuser would ask me
If I wanted to break up with him I would beg and plead and until I said “no” he would beat me mercilessly to the point I had to call out of work. He beat me up so often I actually had to go to work with black eyes and concussions on numerous occasions. Praying the entire time I didn’t hemorrhage or have an aneurysm
A covert narcissistic relationship, i know because I’m living in one and have been for 17 years, that’s a classic case, say and do whatever to brainwash her into thinking she can’t leave and make it without you, it’s a lie but they’ll say and do whatever to make you believe it, but in front of everyone else they’re the victim and NEVER would do such a thing, they would rather see you dead than happy on your own, if they can’t have you there’s no point in you breathing and taking up space on earth, they don’t care if you have kids because they NEVER cared about them, they only had them to trap you into not being able to leave, they’ll do anything to keep you because in their eyes they own you!! And i wish i was being dramatic but ANYONE that has lived this nightmare will tell you the EXACT same thing, these people are real life monsters and devils in disguise.
Trust me on this Heather: when you finally leave, you will have so much regret that you stayed so long… but you will have the deepest and most unshakeable pride that you finally did leave. Your whole view gets distorted in the presence of these people. Clarity returns when you leave. The days are even brighter and you feel lighter and more normal
@@strnglhld thank you for your kind words, i needed that 🙏🏻💯
I really hope we both find the strength to leave our abusers 😓
This is also true within covert narcissistic family dynamics. Such is the case with my parents.
Exactly and this is why she never should have fornicated with him and gotten impregnated by him. She should have tried to figure him out BEFORE sleeping with him.
A lot of men have a huge ego and a hard time facing their mistakes. Everything the woman does, all the love she is showing to him, is taken as an obligation, something she just has to do and has no right to be appreciated for. Denial is one of the biggest male strategies in relationships.
Thats also the case with a lot of women
His honesty is sickening. He doesn't even try to hide it. Fucken sick.
He called his child..the kid..
Emotional detachment. He’s gotta be a narcissist.
@@theflowergirl333 being a narcissist is actually a mental disorder... Can you hate someone for doing things they can't control?
@@flaqko5686 Of course not.
@@theflowergirl333 do you think they should be punished for things they can't control? By hate? Or say a person with schizophrenia being in prison or someone with anti personality disorder in jail for stealing when it is a very common thing with people with disorders do? In just saying we can do a better job at caring and understanding
@@flaqko5686 I have BPD with ASPD traits. I still do my best to treat others with respect. Just because you have a personality disorder doesn’t mean you lack common sense. Stop reaching so damn hard.
They threaten to keep you were they want you. It amazes me how arrogant abusers are.
Easy to tell someone what they deserve on tv but at the end of the day she goes home and so does this show. Wont help her when she gets home with him, unless they literally take her and her child then and there. People have no clue.
Mad props for dr.Phill when he went all “ what was it that my WIFE said that was ridiculous o.O “
The things he SAYS are not the things he actually THINKS. He says them to control and abuse, not because he thinks or believes them.
And the sad part is she’s so pretty and could do much better but then this guy got in her head….
What a lovely, loving wife and person.
Learn how to be a single parent please do it for your children and yourself!!!!
she's too pretty for this freak of a man
So if she was not attractive...?
That's cool. Calling someone with most likely a mental disorder a freak
Well maybe
So if she wasn’t pretty she would deserve this treatment?
@@flaqko5686 mental disorder or not, he knows the difference between right or wrong, so STFU
i dealt with it for 26 years
The important thing is you're out now. I can't imagine going 26 years, I dealt with it for 4 years and it felt like a lifetime. I'm proud of you for getting out. Hugs.
7 years and counting. I hope I can find a way to get rid of mine. I'm glad you got out 💜
Take Dr Phil wife’s advice, and get out, your to nice to entertain him.
He just 100% let hr know that he doesn't care about her.
She just needs to find someone better she does not deserve him
It was written all over him......what is with these pathetic men? Evil..........
I’m speaking in general that’s why I’m glad I’m through with my boyfriend I learned the hard way some times you have to learn the hard way if a woman doesn’t let an abusive man when it happeneds the first time
Yep, it took me four times to learn that lesson. I finally left about 2 years ago and it stuck.
I grew up in the most horrendous violent and abusive home environment. I thought I had found the one place I could be safe, and then realised that I have to move again. 😞 id rather just die at this stage, people say things get better but it's all just a lie really... just prolongs suffering
I hope you are ok, I really mean that. Wish I could hug you.
Well Matt..let me give you some man training son...
By saying u WILL keep a MOTHERS Child or kelp it an keep it from her IS ENTRAPMENT 💯💯🤦🏽♀️💁🏽♀️ MAN LIKE THAT ARE WRONG. Definitely the ones who say they want a stay at home wife she stops her job to become that then he treats her like that and then says it's his money not hers and not providing child care for her to work 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ ABUSE!!💯💯💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
He Trapped her. Danggg that was deep.
ITS A MANS GAME. THEY DO IT ON PURPOSE THEY DON’T TALK TO YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE COMING UP WITH CRAZY IDEAS WHAT TO DO TO YOU.
Demonic is what it is
You are telling the truth I have a love one is going through this. Not only verbally abused but physically because he thinks he can because and he is not afraid of anyone and he doesn't give a f about anyone are what anyone else say about, that's what happened to me long time ago, now it's happening to someone I love and she said she's afraid of him
When dr Phil turned to him to have him repeat himself what he said about his wife 😳 Breh calm down fast
Lol I loved it - The guy is such a loser/abuser
She looks like Vanessa Hudgens
Experienced very similar
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Here in NZ all types,of abuse are criminal. Mental is called psychological harm. And let’s not forget financial abuse happens 99% of the time too.
Why are they smirking if something bad is going on?
It's actually a very common thing to do when you don't know what to say
she might just be nervous/uncomfortable with the situation cause a lot of people end up smiling or laughing to cope with things
He is a creep lady wake up.
Run run run and go where
He's so bizzare and gross🤢🤢🤮
Hi dr Phil do u know of any programs to help NY state abused victims get themselves an apartment when their low like poverty low income?
He is discusting
How do you leave when you have 3 kids and can't afford to leave? Already on government assistance and am disabled. What do I do? I've called domestic abuse hot lines and they just say leave but have no advice or resources. Seriously so damn lost I can't do it anymore. I pray to God all the time I just don't understand where to go from here. I need help
Reach out to robin via social media
First of all, you CAN afford to leave, with childreb and all. Plenty of SINGLE women have provided for their children all by themselves. If you dont have an education, its important for you to get one. Save as much money as you can, even if it's pennies. Also, all of those negative emotions, let them out. Being overwhelmed by the pain wont let you think clearly. Let it all out, so you can see your situation clearly and the best way to move forward. Don't ask yourself "Why can't I get out of this abusive relationship?" but rather ask yourself "HOW can I get out of this relationship?". You've got this, ALL people are valuable.
C'mon!! Sounds so empowering!!🙏🏾
Do NOT LEAVE! Do NOT report it! UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES go to a Family Court! Don't!!
If you are a Victim and HAVE THE WHEREWITHAL to go, then you must do so in a way that you fall off the face of the earth!
Family Courts DO & WILL SEVER YOU from yours Offspring!
There are NO FREE ATTYs to help you so if you're without an Atty, You're Child will be imprisoned to the domestic terrorist!
I'm so very very sorry! Our systems are corrupted beyond repair! You will NOT receive Justice!
You will spend the rest of your living years in Family Court! Your overall life expectancy will be critically be cut short and so will the lives of your offspring!
Your body will age & deteriorate exponentially and NO ONE will help!
Is she okay now? Is she still married with him??
why are there so few comments lol
Like wadadaq
Channel only turned comments on recently, i imagine. Look at the dates on the comments compared to that of the video upload.
hi
Is there help for the man?
No, people like him don't change because they don't think they're the problem. They think everybody else is. It took me four years to learn that lesson.
@@babyhandgrenade4004 I guess I mean he would have to come to terms and be honest with himself and honest about why he treats people the way he does.. I'm guessing insecurity. Then maybe he could be helped
Flip the roles
In these very short clips it is impossible for anybody to make a determination. Even dr. Phil hasn't had enough time to figure it out yet.
Anyone know of a link to see the full video of this? This man is disgusting and Dr. PHIL hands him his sorry ***
LDE
'What You Probably Don't Know About Domestic Violence and Abuse'
Except when the abused party is a man, right Phil?
Yup Dr simp is ok with that
Classic narc!!!
Remember in couples if you seen one of them evil make sure the other one would as same level or to some degree as evil as him, they wouldn’t got attracted to each other if they weren’t compatible
That's not true. Some people are raised in domestic violence households and become victims growing up. Look it up
That's not true at all. Narcissists are usually attracted to empaths. This is a real true case of Opposites Attract. Please do your homework before you say stuff like that.
This is BS🤣🤣🤣🤣
The sad thing about this country is that we blame people for things that they can't control. Yes it's bad but NPD is a mental disorder and all we do is shame him instead of helping him become a better person
You can't help a narcissist who doesn't want to change. It's very rare that they even go to therapy and even when they do, they will sit there and lie through their teeth. They've been known to be able to fool even the most seasoned professional. They think that everyone else has the problem. There is no helping these people. They have to be the ones to want it. It's very rare that they actually get help.
Also, NPD is not a mental disorder, it is a personality disorder which is much harder to treat and does not respond to medication very much at all. It takes years of extensive therapy and that's if they even go. It is not considered a mental disorder in the DSM-5.
They don’t want help cuz they think nothing is wrong🤣🤣