HOW TO DEVELOP INNER GAME WITH GIRLS | MAKE HER WANT YOU | SELF MASTERY

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  • Find out how to master your inner game and do better with girls. If you want more success with women, you must master your inner game, and with these simple tips, it's surprisingly easier than you might think to build attraction with girls and improve your life.
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Komentáře • 791

  • @DOSRetroGamer
    @DOSRetroGamer Před 6 lety +590

    I have the following mindset : “if I approach her, there's a 95% chance I won't get her. If I don't, it's 100%.

    • @WhosPrizeh
      @WhosPrizeh Před 4 lety +9

      DOSRetroGamer I feel you on that but you never know

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Před 3 lety +13

      Bro thats a good one. I will Note that down if you don't mind ;)

    • @LazyRare
      @LazyRare Před 3 lety +5

      How mathematicians create maths i mind

    • @DOSRetroGamer
      @DOSRetroGamer Před 3 lety +3

      Damn, just 2 years ago I must have had a much more positive attitude than today 😬

    • @CommandoMaster
      @CommandoMaster Před 3 lety +1

      Did u approach her and get the girl?

  • @gsd1922
    @gsd1922 Před 6 lety +336

    A shocking realization just hit me, ever since I've started watching your videos, there hasn't been a single time that I picture negative thoughts. Pretty cool

    • @SHINeeKeyofLucifer
      @SHINeeKeyofLucifer Před 4 lety +9

      " All I have are negative thoughts."

    • @viharsarok
      @viharsarok Před 3 lety +3

      Yes, these videos help you dispel your negative thoughts. Not your negative reality, unfortunately.

  • @SandisGr
    @SandisGr Před 6 lety +118

    Yeah, it`s very important to have positive thoughts about yourself and positive assumptions about women and the world in general. Remember - your thoughts will become reality. Whatever you believe is true. We can choose what we focus on and what kind on attitude we live with.

  • @andrewlara7992
    @andrewlara7992 Před 6 lety +514

    "I've compared girls to metal detectors... not because their good at detecting gold..." yeah, i get the gold digger reference

  • @spaceshipgozooooom5646
    @spaceshipgozooooom5646 Před 6 lety +1020

    Most girls have it easy. They don't have to go on CZcams to find out how to get a guy's attention.

    • @DreamBeatsBakery
      @DreamBeatsBakery Před 6 lety +62

      John Doe fuckin facts brotha

    • @TheBackstreetNets
      @TheBackstreetNets Před 6 lety +50

      I'm not sure that's completely true. Guys are attracted to looks a lot more than girls, which is not something that's as easily changed as the way you approach talking to people.

    •  Před 6 lety +8

      John Doe John!! That is AMAZING!! I swear I never heard anyone say this like you!!

    • @FoxyBoxery
      @FoxyBoxery Před 6 lety +15

      Ultra guy
      Being beautiful and nice is all girls need

    • @FoxyBoxery
      @FoxyBoxery Před 6 lety +13

      TheBackstreetNets
      Girls are super attracted to looks also

  • @darkrangerl
    @darkrangerl Před 6 lety +51

    Truely amazing! Guys!
    I've learned that the game is like a videogame:
    you gain experience each time you try, sometimes you succed and gain extra experience.
    Regardless which aspect of your arsenal you're training view it as a game

    • @shadowsdawn83
      @shadowsdawn83 Před 2 lety

      you know something? your comment helped put things into perspective and reality in an excellent and cohesive manner. thank you for taking the time to say this

  • @Mike-tr2qi
    @Mike-tr2qi Před 3 lety +15

    I’ll keep it simple for every man out here. Don’t seek for her validation, let her seek for yours.

  • @caboose2163
    @caboose2163 Před 6 lety +480

    I'm so ugly not even a sniper would take me out...
    I'm pretty confident in that...

    • @universal_wisdom9381
      @universal_wisdom9381 Před 6 lety +14

      Caboose And that’s why you’ll get nowhere.

    • @universal_wisdom9381
      @universal_wisdom9381 Před 6 lety +31

      Caboose Not because your ugly, but because you continue to tell yourself your ugly and believe it.

    • @davecirlclux
      @davecirlclux Před 6 lety +6

      Why are you telling us this fuck face

    • @xplicit_5318
      @xplicit_5318 Před 6 lety +4

      Caboose nice pun

    • @danex2206
      @danex2206 Před 6 lety +7

      You could use that as a pick-up line. 👌

  • @mikolajmki
    @mikolajmki Před 6 lety +8

    thanks dude it’s nice to see that something I managed to do myself really works and finds confirmation in your videos.
    keep on with this content, you’re helping a lot of people

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster Před 6 lety +151

    Looks don't matter as much. Socialize more to improve talking to girls. Talking to girls on a regular basis will improve your game. Give yourself a reward after a week of talking to a new girl everyday.

    • @rayaan3395
      @rayaan3395 Před 5 lety +8

      Commando Master Yeah your personnality and your confidence is what is most important.
      But to look well, to be uniquely handsome is what will get you to attract women eyes, creating eye-contacts, smiles, stares (or stare off if you're strong enough to stare back haha) etc... Of course if you're hot but you look too shy, confidenceless and so on it will be useless so yeah personnality is still a bit more important than the appearance.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Před 4 lety +8

      The sad news is - however - about 5% of us will come Back deeply shocked how uncapeable they feel. It could turn out to be a huge brutal awakening that some of us just arent born for attractive Girls. This could destroy the meaning of life in some of us where this happens.
      Imagine a learning disabled guy, a very small guy or an autistic guy walking towards attractive ladies...

    • @TriforceOfTheGods80
      @TriforceOfTheGods80 Před 4 lety +2

      A waste of time

    • @youareaspook5897
      @youareaspook5897 Před 3 lety +4

      @@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 maybe, but I know of exceptions - one of my mates is 5'3" and he has an absolute banger of a gal, he has insane game, he just walks up to anyone at a bar and instantly charms the shit out of them - he has a load of numbers that hes never even used - learning disabilities are hard to overcome, especially if theyre serious, but again, there are some exceptions

    • @angelo3985
      @angelo3985 Před 3 lety

      @@TriforceOfTheGods80 and your pull rate is still 0% lol

  • @PacNasty0
    @PacNasty0 Před 6 lety +85

    The hardest and the easiest thing to change....The inside...

    • @thegaspucci6450
      @thegaspucci6450 Před 6 lety +4

      kidney?

    • @BR00P
      @BR00P Před 4 lety +1

      My friend if you know this you know you dont need to have actual confidence but if you make them believe you have it cause they will know no better. If you act like youre confident and its A good act they dont know and they will bite if they bite you'll get actual confidence

  • @reggieedwards7058
    @reggieedwards7058 Před 6 lety +18

    You speak the truth. I get ladies but I polish my skills even more just watching your videos

  • @tomberghs9286
    @tomberghs9286 Před 4 lety +2

    I discovered self improvement a year and a half ago..
    You were one of the first guys out there that i would watch.
    And man if i re-watch this video (or most of the video's) i can't believe that i was like this! :D
    One and a half year later i can get any girl i want! I did go to the gym for months, starting doing every detail that you (or others) said and thank god man, I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOUR VIDEO's

  • @alphasyndicate3364
    @alphasyndicate3364 Před 6 lety +196

    Everything narrow down to confident so just be confident and you will be successful with everything

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 Před 6 lety +10

      I plan on applying this to job interviews. 🤓

    • @Maffu79
      @Maffu79 Před 6 lety +28

      I did end up getting a job. 🤓👍

    • @georgecarrera18
      @georgecarrera18 Před 6 lety

      The Dead Letter Karnitool Effect congrats

    • @stjohnsmythe91
      @stjohnsmythe91 Před 6 lety +1

      Just. Be. Confident. Yeah, great advice.

    • @michaelflores1356
      @michaelflores1356 Před 6 lety +3

      Yea be confident....where the fuck does that come from the thin air??

  • @yaboyjonez9476
    @yaboyjonez9476 Před 6 lety +46

    I thought this was how to get a Gamer girl 😂😂😂😂😁

  • @CHRISTIANNWO
    @CHRISTIANNWO Před 4 lety +7

    Darn. I was hoping when I reach a certain age a girl with a present ribbon in her hair would just show up at my doorstep 💁🎀

  • @phpeters87
    @phpeters87 Před 5 lety +3

    This video is so on point. Any guy any guy can develop social skills. Develop your social skills and the World is Yours including having almost any girl you want.

  • @FantasticExplorers
    @FantasticExplorers Před 5 lety +1

    Hahaha... "I love playing WOW"
    ...this neighbor got GAME!
    This is one of the BEST vids you'll done!!!

  • @yash1152
    @yash1152 Před 6 lety +4

    Awesome, the best FREE video on this matter I have ever watched !!!!

  • @nhiavue1
    @nhiavue1 Před 6 lety +1

    Talking with stranger really does help you talk with girls. Just saying "hi, how are you doing?" really helped me get that nervousness out of me.

  • @aranyaksen6581
    @aranyaksen6581 Před 3 lety +6

    The guru dosent teach you to be him, he teaches you to be you

    • @ganeshpatankar7997
      @ganeshpatankar7997 Před 2 lety

      True. But here in India we Hindu have a belief that a successful guru or teacher is who is able to make his students better than himself. When it comes to student we believe that a successful student is someone who learn more than what he have been taught.

  • @MotivateINInspire
    @MotivateINInspire Před 6 lety +3

    I ain't gone lie laughed hard when said looking on the internet for a few cheesy pick up lines then walking out the door 😂😂😭😭

  • @vienskyv352
    @vienskyv352 Před 6 lety +252

    Talk to other people will help in talking to women? Are you saying women are people?!

    • @maxpayne438
      @maxpayne438 Před 6 lety +28

      Viensky V unacceptable!

    • @LewdCustomer
      @LewdCustomer Před 6 lety +15

      Women are like people.

    • @mariusdinu6540
      @mariusdinu6540 Před 6 lety +4

      Viensky V talk to a women as if you wold talk to a guy :))

    • @joeymac209
      @joeymac209 Před 6 lety +4

      He means women as in the girls you have your eye on, talking to a girl you have no romantic interest in is easy

    • @scudb5509
      @scudb5509 Před 6 lety

      Marius DINU It doesn’t work like that. Only do that once you are in a relationship and deep in it.

  • @sergejcancelo
    @sergejcancelo Před 5 lety +3

    "Unshakable confidence" I like it. XD

  • @latter-daysaintbatman2679
    @latter-daysaintbatman2679 Před 4 lety +17

    Several years ago, I was a guy who was not very good at my inner game, but now, I am starting to understand how to, it's simple manly instincts, reason being, I am not only self confident, it is also because I believe in myself, I am thinking positively and purging negative thoughts with positive ones. I am also acting as if I do not care when girls get all playful to show I am not desperate. I find lately, that I have been more of a challenge towards girls than ever.

  • @asian4ume875
    @asian4ume875 Před 2 lety

    Bro thank you so much now I finally know why no words come out when talking to girls.

  • @tarek133
    @tarek133 Před 6 lety +2

    Another flawless video with rich content. Thanks J

  • @bugs389
    @bugs389 Před 6 lety +5

    One of your best videos imo. Thank you for these. Your videos help me a lot.

  • @NewNormall
    @NewNormall Před 6 lety +1

    these are just keep getting better and better and better gj

  • @cmoney4568
    @cmoney4568 Před 3 lety +3

    They need to teach this in school‼️

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 Před 2 lety +1

      Pickup woman class; martial arts classes too

  • @justinsandolph4861
    @justinsandolph4861 Před 6 lety +3

    Ok you know what this was actually a good video I need to stop putting my self down it's hard as hell because I feel like it's so hard to get girls 😢😭

  • @evanvancamp2781
    @evanvancamp2781 Před 6 lety +9

    Really good stuff thanks!

  • @cordarryl101
    @cordarryl101 Před 6 lety +1

    thank you. I needed to hear this

  • @josephjackson770
    @josephjackson770 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much for the advice, my biggest problem was the talking part and after hearing the tips I am excided to start talking to people and see where this gose.

  • @tylerpiepers6544
    @tylerpiepers6544 Před rokem

    Super thankful that this "confidence" toturial/explanation video exists. You've made a super helpful video. Thanks

  • @bazhe375
    @bazhe375 Před 6 lety +1

    beautifull channel . much respect for your hardwork and keep up with the consistency!

  • @786msdestiny
    @786msdestiny Před 6 lety

    Nice video
    Inner confidence is the ultimate

  • @SmallsGang_773
    @SmallsGang_773 Před 4 lety +3

    I am a man who can have any woman he wants!

  • @zxumwmki3604
    @zxumwmki3604 Před 3 lety

    Stellar advice. This stuff is exactly what works in life

  • @jaketaylor3233
    @jaketaylor3233 Před rokem

    Honestly this is the most accurate video I’ve seen on the topic of girls

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower Před 6 lety +146

    It's true, getting the correct mindset is crucial for attracting girls.
    I got friendzoned so often, but I still managed to get into a serious
    relationship with a beautiful girl. The sad thing is, that it takes time
    to develop the skills, the mindset, the confidence and so on. You
    won't get it over night, but it is achieveable for everyone.
    Trust me I started from zero.
    Shy, super skinny and hardcore gamer is where I started.
    I still play video games, I am still not super muscular and I still
    don't like talking to people. But I am confident now and I understood
    how girls operate and whats attractive to them.
    Education and practice are the key elements, keep them up and
    you will be successful!
    *animated videos like this one*
    *Sub Goal 301/500*

    • @CaesarReb
      @CaesarReb Před 5 lety +1

      Awesome dude, hope things are going well.

    • @RuzoOwzy
      @RuzoOwzy Před 5 lety +4

      Thnk it will be great if u share ur story in detail, just highlighting changes u went through.

    • @theguy7480
      @theguy7480 Před 4 lety

      U have almost 40k subs now congrats

    • @PersonalPower
      @PersonalPower Před 4 lety

      @@theguy7480 thanks!

  • @i-am-ali1672
    @i-am-ali1672 Před 6 lety +1

    I love this channel!

  • @jenbarakat5145
    @jenbarakat5145 Před 4 lety +7

    As a girl this is fascinating because these messages arent, at their core, ways to just pull girls. They are interesting and practical steps to feel better, and although I don't like that girls are framed as prizes here, the underlying message is very true and mature. Respect

  • @bitcoinupdates7640
    @bitcoinupdates7640 Před 3 lety +2

    This was honestly an amazing video

  • @secandar
    @secandar Před 2 lety +2

    It all boils down to self-confidence. The rest comes naturally.

  • @ILikeVideos62
    @ILikeVideos62 Před 5 lety +5

    "I'm not scared of exposing myself to girls. Where do think all those restraining orders came from?"

    • @jameshawkins494
      @jameshawkins494 Před 4 lety

      Develop a waiver picture ID. Birth month is October working on a free Mammogram services, may need a good attorney and volunteers.

  • @not.dito1773
    @not.dito1773 Před 6 lety +1

    Love ur vids man. Really helpful.

  • @randhirkawade8997
    @randhirkawade8997 Před 5 lety +2

    Absolutely amazing man...

  • @Klasus357
    @Klasus357 Před 6 lety +1

    i learned with social experience and knowledge applied for test, this video still reminds me to improve always and i try control my mind on daily life, is what im doing everyday with awareness :)

  • @jahcurec8736
    @jahcurec8736 Před 6 lety +6

    Guy guess what this should have been a book you shouldn't make it free , trust me you you help many guys

  • @skurbanvintr0
    @skurbanvintr0 Před 3 lety +1

    Women are the source, so are we, balance ✨

  • @markrcca5329
    @markrcca5329 Před 4 lety +2

    I have been fine with inner game all my life - I lead a rich and rewarding life, which made me interesting enough to the right people. But I never had any "outer game" whatsoever - the initial ability to "break the ice" etc, that relies on humor and flirting. Therefore, I hardly ever dated girls whom I met "cold". Most women I dated, were I through friends or school, including my wife. For me, it never was super-important to meet tons of new girls all the time, so it worked out pretty well.

  • @oOstoneyOo
    @oOstoneyOo Před 5 lety +1

    The more you expose yourself to girls, the better you will do! Awesome. -Louis C.K.

  • @ZFlyingVLover
    @ZFlyingVLover Před 4 lety +2

    Same advice goes for interviewing for a job. Go on alot of interviews even if you have no intention of taking the job just to get the practice

  • @aronsalonen875
    @aronsalonen875 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much, those videos are just amazing, this helps me a lot

  • @rifleman42051
    @rifleman42051 Před 6 lety +2

    Awesome video!!!

  • @ExloZ-nk5qx
    @ExloZ-nk5qx Před 6 lety +2

    Notification squad. $$98

  • @___kaz___3050
    @___kaz___3050 Před 6 lety +1

    That n.a. you bro you videos all ways come on parts of me l8fe that I need them the smost it's crazy.But really thanks for making videos like this and helping people like my.realky thanks...

  • @ArchaicStigma
    @ArchaicStigma Před 4 lety +3

    I can confirm a girl in middle school asked me to 'tell her about world of warcraft' because she wanted my attention

  • @willybareno1506
    @willybareno1506 Před 5 lety

    Does anybody know about the program to create the images? Looks great, and it helps a lot to understand the ideas. Thanks!!

  • @williamsilva1479
    @williamsilva1479 Před 6 lety +1

    Amazing video!!! Thanks.

  • @yuvalomrad7090
    @yuvalomrad7090 Před 6 lety +1

    This video is gold

  • @eokamikaze
    @eokamikaze Před 4 lety

    Man u really help a lot!! Thx

  • @bigd9848
    @bigd9848 Před 4 lety +1

    You know some women are absolutely beautiful on the outside and inside they are down right nasty. The best looking are naturally beautiful and a lot of them have a heart of gold. I ran through a few with a terrible attitude and negativity flowing through their veins. You have to have confidence and approach them. You will be able to tell her in the way she responds to you.

  • @bonaparte54
    @bonaparte54 Před 5 lety

    Thank you FarFromAverage, good video :)

  • @maurio3855
    @maurio3855 Před rokem

    This video popped up in my feed at the perfect moment🤙

  • @69Applekrate
    @69Applekrate Před 4 lety

    excellent! and so true

  • @elliotalderson9895
    @elliotalderson9895 Před 6 lety

    I am gonna try thank u so much man

  • @CrazyCarl0007
    @CrazyCarl0007 Před 5 lety

    Great work & appreciate the insight

  • @zurakat6934
    @zurakat6934 Před 3 lety +2

    The inner game thing about saying whatever you want is very real. I usually tell girls "I'm a weeb and sometimes I smell like BO and doritos." they take it as a joke and move on.

  • @bryanarmstrong8774
    @bryanarmstrong8774 Před 3 lety

    Well done Sir well done!!!!

  • @markkibaaramuthee3880
    @markkibaaramuthee3880 Před 3 lety

    Thanks again....God bless you..

  • @RigelFilms
    @RigelFilms Před 6 lety +1

    The cloud and sun at the end looked like a sunny side up lol

  • @V4mpirella
    @V4mpirella Před 3 lety

    I love this 🤜🏽❤️🤛🏽

  • @nikeboaswooshedupcoppin4379

    Being broke doesn't make me lose confidence . See I notice. When you anticipate or show ppl that you're already prepared or youre already aware of the negative ,pp say ohh don't say that about yourself confidence confidence . Bit if I've had the experiences 99 times im gunna naturally start to realize there are things I need to have before I can be successful with women. That's has nothing to do with my confidence. If I know am too short for a ride, I'm too short it will not happen. It's not my confidence. It's just about knowing and accepting the truth

  • @Beim121
    @Beim121 Před 4 lety

    Great Job! Well Done!

  • @kb-kg4sd
    @kb-kg4sd Před 6 lety

    amazing video bro, thank you

  • @furiousphoenix77
    @furiousphoenix77 Před 2 lety

    Really good. Thanks a lot for your tips !

  • @charlirandom2494
    @charlirandom2494 Před 6 lety +1

    Thanks man!

  • @Slossage17
    @Slossage17 Před 4 lety +3

    Focus on you, and the girls will too.

  • @walter8154
    @walter8154 Před 6 lety +11

    did you major in psychology in college? good shit, man

  • @reginaldwilson3687
    @reginaldwilson3687 Před 6 lety

    Brilliant!!!

  • @joshreyes3624
    @joshreyes3624 Před 6 lety +1

    That's actually kind of true, i was an associate at Lowes for several months, and literally just talking to new people every day, and dealing with alot of shitty customers, it became so much easier to just talk to people. I had extremely good chemistry with my female coworkers, even though they were in relationships already i was able to do harmless, platonic flirting with them, talking without stuttering or nervousness.
    Every situation became manageable, and over time, i feet very confident and secure where i was.

    • @Lightflames85
      @Lightflames85 Před 2 lety

      What your talking about is situationally confidence that's not the same as core confidence. Core confidence hits way harder. Also when you're brain knows there is no risk it naturally relax and makes it easy. It's a completely different things when you're interested in the girl. If you're core confidence is not set in that situation then you will most likely fuck it up. Don't let her effect your mood or your decision. That's your job not hers.

  • @shaunakdas4921
    @shaunakdas4921 Před 5 lety +3

    I love your content brother

  • @prantikt2058
    @prantikt2058 Před 6 lety

    thanx ..got inspired

  • @lynnmerino7241
    @lynnmerino7241 Před 2 lety

    Awesome advice

  • @garydean1983
    @garydean1983 Před 3 lety

    Inter game it everything !!!

  • @riamodarum8247
    @riamodarum8247 Před 2 lety

    just taught us some crucial things

  • @joegomez2447
    @joegomez2447 Před 6 lety +9

    "ive compared girls to metal detectors, not because they're good at detecting gold or precious metals" secretly calling out gold diggers 😂

  • @supremereader7614
    @supremereader7614 Před rokem

    Solid foundation, thanks

  • @alexanderfam9900
    @alexanderfam9900 Před 2 lety

    Lol it makes me remember when i was talking to an old man i just met, while waiting for the bus and then a girl was behind me. The old man told me to go talk to her. I smiled and i did it easy.

  • @Pizzatime42008
    @Pizzatime42008 Před 6 lety +1

    I work at a grocery store in the deli and talk to people a lot. I try to make conversation with them because it will help with girls. I still, however, feel nervous when I talk to a girl I like. Can you do more videos on getting rid of nervousness

  • @DJ-qx1bb
    @DJ-qx1bb Před 6 lety

    Awesome 💪👌👌👌🤘☝️🤘🤘

  • @brucetan4938
    @brucetan4938 Před 4 lety

    THANKful masters

  • @chibareeba
    @chibareeba Před 6 lety +6

    Can we all just agree that most guys are intimidated by attractive girls because of the media, as in movies (especially coming of age films) television shows, songs, etc.)?

    • @jandreamer7130
      @jandreamer7130 Před 6 lety

      You are so prudent. It is all cultural. He is talking about American/US women. There is a big world outside our boarders. Women in other countries have not been brainwashed by media and cultural norms. American women lost femininity and I do not find them desirable. Who would want to be with he-woman!!

  • @audettere
    @audettere Před 6 lety +6

    Favorite CZcamsr keep them coming

  • @xylliiiking
    @xylliiiking Před 6 lety

    Thanks far your the best

  • @mofochezcake4790
    @mofochezcake4790 Před 2 lety

    Ay ngl bro that spilling cup stuff with girl and strangers…….100% true

  • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226

    Being Really cool is a Talent, only very few have but being almost cool is something most of us can achieve by hard learning and working. We can become so good that even attractive ladies find it okay to date us ;-)

  • @C_Hart
    @C_Hart Před 5 lety

    A man doesnt need a suite for strong game but you got me on the wow bit. Guess that makes my shit bonafied