Full Episode: Griffin vs. Griffin

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  • čas přidán 11. 12. 2017
  • Charity and Dante have been together for more than 20 years. Recently, Charity uncovered Dante’s double life with another woman across town. Dante says he got bored with Charity wearing a ponytail every day and the other woman is more stylish and switches things up. Will his boredom bring an end to their marriage?
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  • @nightnurse49
    @nightnurse49 Před 6 lety +525

    I love her quote: "You should have loved me harder, but I love me better!" Words of wisdom right there.

    • @MrJoennachi
      @MrJoennachi Před 4 lety +2

      But the energy to love harder can be spent doing innovative stuffs better

    • @msdanidoll
      @msdanidoll Před 4 lety +15

      She should take her own advice

    • @TT-th1gb
      @TT-th1gb Před 4 lety +15

      @@MrJoennachi If you are an honest man of integrity that is with a person who loves you
      then you will work hard at that love bruh. If you can't handle the balance of achieving your own growth while honoring your loved one then you're just not qualified to handle the basic requirements of love bruh nor does this unfaithful lying fat fucc boy deserve it either.True love is meant for the real queens & kings not weak minded peasants bruh😎

    • @shaylah2725
      @shaylah2725 Před 4 lety +3

      but yet she went back.

    • @wonderfullymade1086
      @wonderfullymade1086 Před 2 lety +3

      Doesn't matter, because she stayed! 🙄😔

  • @allthingstrea6419
    @allthingstrea6419 Před 6 lety +280

    They’ve been together for 21 years and ONLY married for 2? IT TOOK HIM 19 YEARS TO MARRY YOU SIS! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Red Flag Sis! RED FLAGS!!!

    • @sagthenaturalsiren5997
      @sagthenaturalsiren5997 Před 3 lety +5

      exactly 🙄

    • @ms.marion8431
      @ms.marion8431 Před 3 lety +19

      it doesn't take that long for a man to know if he wants to be your husband sis.

    • @SR-Bosslady
      @SR-Bosslady Před 2 lety +4

      Need more information to support your opinion. They could have been engaged early on but then let the wedding date drag on for whatever reason.

    • @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545
      @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545 Před 2 lety +1

      @@SR-Bosslady the black man doesn't get that reason... people quick to say " red flag "

    • @ricaivory6571
      @ricaivory6571 Před 2 lety +2

      @@morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545 they say that for everyone. However they both Too young to have been married after 10 yrs together. She was only like 12 when they first got together, getting married at 22 is ludicrous.

  • @CleverAOYM
    @CleverAOYM Před 6 lety +733

    If she was so “boring” all he had to do was step in and suggest different things for them to do or respectfully talk to her as an adult, letting her know he doesn’t like how predictable things were getting. I swear cheaters find ANY reason to cheat 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @cocobenji6123
      @cocobenji6123 Před 6 lety +22

      She Be he wants a woman up and about all over the streets..lol. He doesn't want a stable woman.

    • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
      @luvmifro1003lovesfamily Před 6 lety +31

      She Be EXACTLY! That's an easy conversation to have, especially with someone he was with for 21 years..Too easy

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +24

      straight up.... don't understand why many dudes can't get this. never any excuse to cheat..

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +10

      KiddRogers I can answer you. For most men, the mere thought of another man touching his woman drives him crazy. A woman's temperament is stronger than a man's when it comes to cheating.

    • @CleverAOYM
      @CleverAOYM Před 6 lety +15

      JaylinS56 well he should’ve got his ass in a polygamist relationship then. It’s that simple.

  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay Před 6 lety +282

    Am I the only one who was so hurt at the end when she was apologizing smh girl don't ever apologize for being you, if he can't love you for being just that, there is always another man who will.

    • @nieracharlery2212
      @nieracharlery2212 Před 6 lety +7

      Shay Marable yes me too. We do that so often the sad reality

    • @AuthorJanaeMarie
      @AuthorJanaeMarie Před 5 lety +4

      AMEN

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety +11

      She also said all you had to do was show me. She loved the guy. He'll miss her one day.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Před 4 lety

      Just like there was/is another woman for him

    • @christineowori750
      @christineowori750 Před 4 lety +4

      It brought tears to my eyes. 😥

  • @monicaingram2970
    @monicaingram2970 Před 6 lety +465

    Cheating with that belly? Absolutely disgraceful and disgusting. He is so not into the marriage and he is a liar.

  • @cocobenji6123
    @cocobenji6123 Před 6 lety +294

    Dann
    ...all he has to do is talk to her. She is going out of her way to celebrate his achievements and he is so ungrateful. Why is it that men cheat and get mad when you dont trust them??

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 Před 5 lety +14

      benji 80 right?!! It’s so baffling to me. It’s cause these men don’t want the consequences and clearly don’t think of them, that’s why they’re all so surprised when their women now become suspicious

    • @bnic7074
      @bnic7074 Před 4 lety +9

      Thats why if they cheat, you're just supposed to leave. I dont care what the circumstances are lol. AFTER the first time of cheating, if you're smart, you'll just save yourself the trouble and bounce lol.

  • @brittanyreid5180
    @brittanyreid5180 Před 6 lety +399

    Don’t apologize for being you , someone else will love you for who you are .

  • @Nikki-Nicole
    @Nikki-Nicole Před 6 lety +105

    ... "If God told u, y r we in DC today?" Powerful question.

  • @BiggYhaKC
    @BiggYhaKC Před 6 lety +493

    I wish I could hug her & tell her never apologize for being you.

  • @Zhane-ce7nj
    @Zhane-ce7nj Před 6 lety +319

    The last statement from her was sad. It sucks when you truly love someone, but they don't feel the same.

    • @tiptip7
      @tiptip7 Před 6 lety +11

      Zhane Doe I agree...that was painful.

    • @nursetonij1211
      @nursetonij1211 Před 6 lety +2

      Zhane Doe con ex to will

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 Před 5 lety +9

      Word so damn sad, you can tell she’s so hurt

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před 5 lety +8

      Zhane Doe Yes, I really felt her pain that was inside her heart. It was so sad.

  • @mauricecole1196
    @mauricecole1196 Před 6 lety +208

    As a black man myself, this is an embarrassment 20 years down the drain, no wonder our black women thumb their noses up at us. This guy is a poor excuse, if he really loved his wife, accept her for who she is.

    • @janedoe2299
      @janedoe2299 Před 6 lety +9

      Maurice Cole There is no excuse to self hate. We are all human...I love me some black. I love the power of a black productive women and I am attracted to the grace and wisdom of a wise black man. Anyway we all can grow and do better day by day

    • @luckylibra6131
      @luckylibra6131 Před 4 lety +16

      There are more grown men on here the. Usual. It's not self hate its truth. All men of all races do bad things but black women are the race with the least percentage of marriage. That's both of our faults we have to demand and require more before babies and men have to learn to settle down and make family not random babies.

    • @l.t.9659
      @l.t.9659 Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you for understanding. Guys like this is why i feel like remaining single is in my best interest.

    • @marzi0574
      @marzi0574 Před 4 lety +3

      He shocks me about what she look like at. They had kids seem like she raising the kids by herself while he out cheating. Wow

    • @undertalea2638
      @undertalea2638 Před 2 lety

      You mean as a black women because Clearly your a black women smh black women are clearly at the bottom who believe a black men wrote this.

  • @mrspaceforever
    @mrspaceforever Před 6 lety +143

    I'm so sick of people not taking marriage seriously! She's given him 21 years of herself smgdh. He gonna hate that he fucked up. I hope she learns to love herself and the lord sets her heart free 💕💕

    • @5822huron
      @5822huron Před 6 lety +3

      Courtney Bailey he is so blessed and doesn't know it

    • @mrspaceforever
      @mrspaceforever Před 6 lety +3

      Straightoutofchiraq agreed. But he will regret it

    • @5822huron
      @5822huron Před 6 lety +3

      Courtney Bailey all men will regret it

    • @wonderfullymade1086
      @wonderfullymade1086 Před 2 lety +2

      Well he's not gonna regret anything, because she stayed! 🥺😒

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +331

    Man, people just wasting they whole life away and for what?!!? Together 21 yrs!!!!!!!! But only married 2 1/2 yrs????? What's wrong with that picture?!!?

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 Před 6 lety

      Bryan Beemanm Really? God want be pleased with the way you think.

    • @coolleti38
      @coolleti38 Před 6 lety +7

      so true....I was like 21 years...then 2.5 years married...how stupid!!

    • @raquelt2691
      @raquelt2691 Před 6 lety +7

      Bryan Beeman .. seems that’s happens with a lot of ppl. They are in a relationship longer than they are actually married. I think some people expect things to change for the better once they get married. Then I think some people get comfortable. Either way they been together for a looong time. I think they just started to grow apart vs together and they stopped communicating about what they needed from each other.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +11

      twistedblktrekie - WOW!!! That's a bit cold. I think mitigating circumstances prevail on threat issue. Certainly, education is not for everyone, but to put that in general terms, I think it's much more to it.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +4

      Raquel T - You really think they grew a part? I would hope people would grow regardless; in that growth, communication should become better. Extra effort should be made to please each other. I really think their problems stem from a lack of growth, but that's just me I think.

  • @bamidelekoledoye1161
    @bamidelekoledoye1161 Před 6 lety +56

    Once a man say the word "I love u" to another woman in a marriage, it means the man's heart is at somewhere else and that the marriage/love is dead. Im happy too that they are getting divorce. At least, Dante would not have a reason to date out of boredom again.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +366

    So instead of talking to his wife like a man and letting her know how he felt about her, he goes out and cheats. This crap is becoming a normal thing with these dudes.

    • @Terrence915
      @Terrence915 Před 6 lety +30

      James Gibson seems to be. It’s a poor excuse though. To me it’s like you have to scared of her or you just a cheater. Either one makes you weak.

    • @prettybrowngirl71
      @prettybrowngirl71 Před 6 lety +24

      Let him go head. He won’t find what he has again. People always think the grass is greener.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +5

      Facts boaa you sound stupid. are you guilty about this?????

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +8

      Stephanie Jackson thank you!!! let that idiot know.

    • @sturmbreakers7817
      @sturmbreakers7817 Před 6 lety +1

      You’ll need to learn English! Cheating is the same as infidelity and that doesn’t mean you have to have sex to do. So what she did is no different than what he did! If you deny your partner sex or any other thing that was being done or assumed to be done then in that relationship especially marriage then you are wrong. Everything should be done in good faith and be equable not necessarily meaning equal.

  • @pnwfavmilf05-12
    @pnwfavmilf05-12 Před 6 lety +118

    Don't cheat when you can just leave. Doesn't matter how long you been together! Don't do someone dirty you been with forever. Come on... Have some respect

  • @jaehorton4687
    @jaehorton4687 Před 6 lety +161

    There’s nothing about this dude (I refuse to call him a man) I like. I pray for her healing. Judge said it best, he doesn’t care about her well-being, I wish she thought more of herself, heartbreaking..

  • @tamekadingle9987
    @tamekadingle9987 Před 6 lety +69

    Beautiful young lady!!! Pray for healing of your heart..

    • @leonoratesoro2586
      @leonoratesoro2586 Před 6 lety

      tameka dingle in the last video clip it says they are trying to save their marriage for the sake of 3 kids.

  • @emiwarble
    @emiwarble Před 3 lety +26

    He removed the door because his daughter was talking to a boy?? That strikes me as so disgusting. She's a teenager, teenagers flirt. Teach her how to be safe instead of intimidating her. All this is gonna do is make the daughter sneakier and put her more at risk. Awful parenting

  • @reniesails9903
    @reniesails9903 Před 6 lety +289

    Hey daughter you shouldn't get a boyfriend but dad will get a mistress lmao

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 Před 5 lety +21

      jjsjxhja yxyier yeah he follows the do as I say not as I do smh

    • @nickishamcfarlane7793
      @nickishamcfarlane7793 Před 3 lety +2

      Can u imagine.

    • @jacquehanna8964
      @jacquehanna8964 Před 3 lety +11

      Yeah dad is ratchet but he is grown, daughter still a child.….rules are rules. However dad should set better example for his kids!

    • @androiduser315
      @androiduser315 Před 2 lety

      000000000000000000000000000000000

    • @ddshhrss
      @ddshhrss Před 2 lety

      Exactly that's what I was thinking too

  • @1234pixy1
    @1234pixy1 Před 5 lety +65

    This man is breaking this woman.... They make you crazy then call you crazy. I wish more women could walk away. Married or not, children or not(co-parenting is a thing) but letting someone turn you into a monster is not ok.

    • @undertalea2638
      @undertalea2638 Před 2 lety

      Black woman are crazy tho.

    • @kaylove3318
      @kaylove3318 Před rokem

      This!!! The sure will call u crazy after they made you that way

  • @iluvdant
    @iluvdant Před 6 lety +147

    Oh, he didn’t want his daughter to meet a boy like her DAD. Smh he’s pitiful & she needs to get a grip. He don’t want u anymore.

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 Před 6 lety +22

      iluvdat
      That's EXACTLY why he reacted to his daughter the way he did. He knows he's an awful guy and thus the chances of his daughter ending up with one like him is high.

    • @dakotachenoa474
      @dakotachenoa474 Před 6 lety +12

      Girls usually want guys that are just like their father so if he doesn't want her talking to boys in fear that she will end up with a loser like him, then he need to change it up and start being the example of a guy he would want his daughter to be with.

    • @juanitamgeorge4022
      @juanitamgeorge4022 Před 6 lety +8

      iluvdat Yup!!!! That's exactly why he took that child's bedroom door off the hinges. Terrified she gone find her another Mr. Griffith.

  • @luvJNSKNS123
    @luvJNSKNS123 Před 6 lety +239

    Poor lady 💕 He doesn't deserve you

  • @esharenee4186
    @esharenee4186 Před 5 lety +73

    He said he payed for the door like he is making payments. The door came with the house.

  • @snoopyluvscena
    @snoopyluvscena Před 6 lety +81

    I honestly can’t stand when couples try to stay together for the sake of the children. You should be able to be grown adults and conduct yourselves in a way that your children feel the same amount of love, time and attention regardless if you’re together or not. If you continue to live your separate lives, eventually your children will catch on that mommy and daddy are together but they’re not together. Don’t underestimate how perceptive children are.

    • @carolejean85
      @carolejean85 Před 6 lety +8

      S Evans Stay for the kids but act like fools. What kind of examples for the kids

    • @monawilliams286
      @monawilliams286 Před 6 lety

      that drives me crazy!

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Před 6 lety +2

      S Evans .. I AGREE... BUT THOSE DAMN KIDS AINT BABIES.. THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT'S UP..
      HE IS A UGLY LOWDOWN SCUMBAG..

  • @pdonwarrior453
    @pdonwarrior453 Před 6 lety +53

    This is a beautiful women who only wants a honest man.
    It takes two to make a relationship fulfilling and worthwhile. As a man, your only responsibility is to make sure that your family is okay.
    It is not like he is making an effort to stay in shape to keep her interested.
    I do not know which women is inflating his ego but he comes across as selfish and immature.

  • @nakiajones5385
    @nakiajones5385 Před 5 lety +23

    She has a young face to be married 21 years

  • @simplementeaqui1652
    @simplementeaqui1652 Před 2 lety +9

    Her saying at the end "I'm sorry I was regular and so predictable" broke my heart. If something is wrong, communicate it effectively with your partner. It's a lot easier than we think.

  • @Annoyingleeqt
    @Annoyingleeqt Před 6 lety +70

    They've been together for 21 years since she was 16, but he have 2 other children outside the relationship? huh when?

    • @5822huron
      @5822huron Před 5 lety +12

      Exactly..this nigga has had 2 kids on her

    • @kaec4393
      @kaec4393 Před 5 lety +17

      I don’t even know who or why the fuck anyone else is sleeping with him
      Bumass nigga

    • @arlisaburkes8071
      @arlisaburkes8071 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kaec4393 😂😂😂

  • @cdnicholson01
    @cdnicholson01 Před 6 lety +108

    In a marriage there should be total transparency. If I were married, my spouse should be able to pick up my phone or any other device and use it without the threat of finding anything that would jeopardize the trust. People say they marry for love, but it doeesn't seem to be for long.

    • @CandaceLeAnne
      @CandaceLeAnne Před 6 lety +9

      Cheryl Nicholson I totally agree. We are married. Our commitment is to one another not our own feelings and desires. The trust between us is more important than the boredom I might feel one day.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety +14

      Absolutely. Before direct deposit my wife would go pick up my check on payday. The other guys thought that was crazy but we had no secrets from each other. We had no cell phones but she could open my mail if she wanted I had nothing to hide. We had each other's back. May she RIP.

    • @Galworld761
      @Galworld761 Před 3 lety +2

      @@karlgabriel2861 my dad and mom were the same. They are/were partners. They are quirky folks but they had one objective: a functional loving partnership to raise functional and loving kids.

    • @lisafoster3868
      @lisafoster3868 Před 2 lety

      Truth

  • @asho345
    @asho345 Před 6 lety +213

    I feel like it's important for girls to have boys who are friends at a young age. This teaches them how to have healthy, non sexual relationships with the other sex. It gives a girl a sense of power and control to navigate those relationships and get what they want out of it. Unfortunately, it's easy for girls to be pushovers or people pleasers when they have wrong assumptions about the opposite sex.

    • @asho345
      @asho345 Před 6 lety +23

      So teach your child instead taking away their communication.

    • @ReasonableNotion
      @ReasonableNotion Před 6 lety +9

      I completely agree. I have that exact policy with my children and my mom was the same with me when I was young.

    • @rozozzy
      @rozozzy Před 6 lety +20

      they need the social experience cuz when they get a little bit of freedom....they will go buck wild and plenty of bad things will happen. lived and seen it!!lmao

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 Před 6 lety +1

      I agree

    • @summerbreeze553
      @summerbreeze553 Před 6 lety +1

      All theory. I bet you don't hav children.

  • @bambidaydreamer3
    @bambidaydreamer3 Před 5 lety +11

    you reap what you sew! he's preventing his daughter form talking to any boys because his daughter is going to be attracted to a little version of him. if you don't want your daughter to be wronged, do right by your wife!

  • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
    @TheCarnivoreSoprano Před 6 lety +245

    The reason doesn't matter Judge. He chose to step out on his wife instead of communicating with his wife. It takes both parties to make their marriage interesting and fun. They talk over each other. They became roomates.

    • @dinoman4451
      @dinoman4451 Před 6 lety +5

      Agreed, but it's Kindda hard to say what you really want to say in 20 mins especially dealing with Divorce. js

    • @Preciousdxo
      @Preciousdxo Před 6 lety +21

      Erm the Judge clearly and repeatedly said that the reason does not matter.

    • @K_Allday
      @K_Allday Před 6 lety +6

      Reasons do matter. They both missed the mark but it's salvageable if they both want the marriage.

    • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
      @TheCarnivoreSoprano Před 6 lety +1

      Dino Man true. Yet and still the point was clear.

    • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
      @TheCarnivoreSoprano Před 6 lety +1

      Banku Choca I could've sworn i said the same.

  • @cheebzzz
    @cheebzzz Před 6 lety +39

    she is a beautiful woman, but some women try n dont get what they justly deserve

  • @cherylpickens2487
    @cherylpickens2487 Před 6 lety +24

    Cheating outta boredom. Just an excuse. Should've got a divorce, then you'll free to do whatever you like.

  • @walenalivingprayingdancing4215

    At first I thought the lady would be mean with drama....but she REALLY one of the sweetest person I seen on Divorce Court....he was so selfish!!!! I hope she start to enjoy her life more! I pray for healing for her!!!!❤

  • @yosefasharivri
    @yosefasharivri Před 6 lety +32

    And she's beautiful.

    • @janedoe2299
      @janedoe2299 Před 6 lety

      Yosef House of Israel should women approach men

  • @epicpoliticsgirl229
    @epicpoliticsgirl229 Před 6 lety +31

    Damn her ending msg hurt my heart

  • @imcharmed4evr
    @imcharmed4evr Před 6 lety +12

    The thing that parents don't understand is, they are teaching their kids, what acceptable behavior is. He is teaching, cheating and disrespect towards women and she is teaching, to have low self esteem and accepting bad behavior, to name a couple. smdh!

  • @deetheefoodie
    @deetheefoodie Před 4 lety +6

    My father was just like this man. Crazy and controlling.
    He definitely needs to start talking to his kids more. He is a dictator.

  • @lavidaloca2344
    @lavidaloca2344 Před 6 lety +23

    Wow, she broke my heart at the end. Similar thing happened to a friend of mine, but she left her husband immediately. They didn't divorce, in fact he fell ill and she moved back to care for him until he passed.

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +6

      La Vida Loca I would not. Let his women take care of his dying ass.

    • @suzanne-cs7sx
      @suzanne-cs7sx Před 5 lety

      @@patp2690 😂

  • @sherrodmacs3472
    @sherrodmacs3472 Před 5 lety +16

    That is a good woman. I really like her a lot. She has a beautiful Southern accent and she has a lot of love to give.

  • @jasminerubin6026
    @jasminerubin6026 Před 5 lety +71

    Their daughter can't talk to a boy? She'll just talk to him at school and other places.

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 Před 4 lety +2

      That's too strict

    • @59bacne
      @59bacne Před 3 lety +1

      Are you a parent? There is appropriate ages for things. Maybe the daughter was 13 when it happened. Maybe she us too young.

    • @latssiannabyrd6432
      @latssiannabyrd6432 Před 3 lety +6

      I use to hate that. Not every girl talks to boys to get pregnant.

    • @madameunwritten3717
      @madameunwritten3717 Před 2 lety +3

      One thing wife said was she gon talk to boys whether you know it or not. All it'll teach a kid is how to be more sneaky. I WOULD KNOW lol. I think if they communicate, and get on the same track their parenting would even eachother out. As far as how strict he is, and how understanding she is.

    • @iskeetin3d
      @iskeetin3d Před rokem

      @@59bacnethe bottom line is your child will talk to whoever they want. u can only run shi that you know abt lmao.

  • @crystalc820
    @crystalc820 Před 6 lety +37

    Ooooouuuu.....he's 35?? Wow! These guys be looking tired & old as hell 😂😂smh
    #He needs to stay married

    • @janedoe2299
      @janedoe2299 Před 6 lety +1

      crystalc820 how? 35?

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 Před 5 lety +3

      crystalc820 yeah cuz all that cheating and trifling ages anyone

  • @pamelabetts9288
    @pamelabetts9288 Před 6 lety +83

    He needs to loose that gut!!! Talking about her hair!!! AND, he cheated!!! Sheeeeet!!! Boy bye!!!😎

    • @sharonjackson268
      @sharonjackson268 Před 5 lety +8

      She's way too good for him...

    • @amilllion1
      @amilllion1 Před 4 lety +7

      Pamela Betts his raggedy looking ass

    • @rmorris8696
      @rmorris8696 Před rokem +1

      Ok cuz dealing with someone like him for that long, she's fire 🔥😍 n he played himself

  • @charlizesalisbury9913
    @charlizesalisbury9913 Před 3 lety +23

    I agree with the judge on a lot of things but one thing you never do is invade your kids privacy. I was never allowed to have my door closed as a kid so I used to go into the bathroom to change clothes. Then my dad found out about that and thought I was sneaking my phone in to talk to boys when I was changing. So he unlocked the bathroom from the outside and pushed the door open. He told me to change in my room from now on. It got to the point that he was coming into the bathroom under the guise of helping me wash just cause he was suspicious of me. When my parents divorced, the judge said if he did that again or any form of controlling my privacy and freedom, he’d lose any custody of me that he could have. Yeah there may be a rule in place, but some rules are stupid and impossible to uphold. Instead of teaching abstinence, teach restraint. Telling a kid to never do something only leads them to do it. Teach them they can do something but teach them how to do it safely and when it is appropriate to do said thing. Then they learn not to rebel because the rules aren’t there to cage them, it’s training wheels to help them stay on the right path. Also doors are there for a reason. Whether it’s a girl or a boy, kids have things that are embarrassing to share with parents. Don’t be that kinda parent. You’ll raise a kid who not only won’t follow your rules but also never come to you for anything whatsoever. And when the time comes that you loosen the reins, they won’t talk to you about anything. I say it from my experience and my friends experiences and so many others. It’s not nice.

    • @DinnyDC
      @DinnyDC Před 2 lety +1

      This is so true

  • @cbeautynblue19
    @cbeautynblue19 Před 6 lety +83

    I love that ladys top, really pretty. I need a top like that

  • @kennethbarnes8630
    @kennethbarnes8630 Před 6 lety +17

    This is why you don't get married at a young age or pressure someone to get married. Most times they haven't lived their lives and gained experience. In most cases someone usually ends up cheating.

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 Před 6 lety +2

      Kenneth Barnes They only been married 2years.

    • @CandaceLeAnne
      @CandaceLeAnne Před 6 lety +4

      Kenneth Barnes I think they stay because when a woman has babies with a man she connects to him chemically, genetically, and emotionally. Most women nest. They build a family and a home and if they’re not focused on themselves they will risk neck and limb, and go through Hell and high water to make a relationship work.

    • @kennethbarnes8630
      @kennethbarnes8630 Před 6 lety +2

      Candace Le Anne of course that's why the females stay cuz she had a baby. But the problem is too many people rush and do it young and never live their lives and end up going through mess like this. It happens too many times.

    • @CandaceLeAnne
      @CandaceLeAnne Před 6 lety +1

      Kenneth Barnes Absolutely. I agree. Even worse, too many young people play house. They get caught up, linked up with someone through children and they’re not even married and they have no protections under the law. It seems like more kids are being brought up this way today than not, but I could be wrong. I don’t have the stats on that.

    • @johnjohnzeeland7589
      @johnjohnzeeland7589 Před 6 lety

      Kenneth Barnes they never married young sir.

  • @ladytiast-shirtsndesigns5297

    She tried so hard,I felt her tears at the end,she love this man.I hope he is appreciating her more now,sometimes it takes a voice like the judge to put things in perspective.I wish them the best

  • @rd4469
    @rd4469 Před 5 lety +4

    Cheating is not, "messing up" it's a deliberate choice. 21 years together and you think you should just stay together because you were cheating for a few months? Boy bye

  • @82laina
    @82laina Před 6 lety +143

    Omg a mess.... the entire relationship.
    His ass got the nerve to talk about she looks different. But his ass got fat😑
    Then they been together 21 yrs and he has 2 other children. He been triffling, a cheater and selfish before the I do's... they should have been split a long time ago.✌

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +8

      beautyfyewitAlaina B Does he think him walking towards me with that big gut, looking like he is eight months pregnant and that big wide butt and those jelly thighs is sexually appealing? He has to hold up His stomach to pull his penis out.
      She way better looking them him and she is not a big, ingnorant dumb ass. I sure would not want to see that hyppo naked.
      He has nothing going for him, i.e. physically or personality wise.

    • @Tboogiewitdabun
      @Tboogiewitdabun Před 6 lety +2

      beautyfyewitAlaina B girl, 1.) you cute (no homo) lol... 2.) you ain't neva lie on that one!

    • @82laina
      @82laina Před 6 lety

      Pat P 😂😂💯💯

    • @82laina
      @82laina Před 6 lety

      Tiara Divirgilio
      Lol, Thank you!

    • @HerbalQueen
      @HerbalQueen Před 6 lety

      beautyfyewitAlaina B and he says she’s changed 🤨

  • @kylerreynolds911
    @kylerreynolds911 Před 5 lety +6

    He WILL REGRET this move!

  • @jodiejones3519
    @jodiejones3519 Před 6 lety +17

    The truth is ! He has fallen out of love.

  • @tiacritelli
    @tiacritelli Před 3 lety +11

    couldn't disagree more with Lynn, she has sons so I get it but u never take a door off a girls bedroom that's a privacy issue and just not right. She will rebel more I promise you.

  • @josephinekartey6343
    @josephinekartey6343 Před 6 lety +4

    Did she roll her eyes at the end to the Judge 😀.Don't come to divorce court if you not ready to handle a divorce,easier said than done.

  • @KnottyCeltic
    @KnottyCeltic Před 5 lety +4

    Bless 'er heart for trying to work all that out with him even when the judge tells them to divorce.

  • @crackingwithSwizzle
    @crackingwithSwizzle Před 6 lety +5

    I could tell that she was hurt at the end when Judge Lynn was like "so glad you're getting a divorce". I do think she's sweet and a good wife but she needs a life outside of being a mother and wife.

    • @johnawe51
      @johnawe51 Před 5 lety

      Looking for a job . Dad taking car for kind.

  • @jamilladanae
    @jamilladanae Před 5 lety +5

    “he should’ve loved me harder. but i’m gonna love me better”

  • @rhiibrown3603
    @rhiibrown3603 Před 5 lety +2

    Her ending statement broke my heart! Never apologize for someone not loving you the way you deserve! Hugs to her...

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill Před 6 lety +5

    awww! that was beautiful what she said in the end.... she loves her better.

  • @karinec.2131
    @karinec.2131 Před 6 lety +21

    So they've been together total 21 yrs and married only for 2 1/2...that should say something as far as what type of people they are. I would NEVER wait that long for a man to marry me....but that's just me..

  • @Shechatsalot
    @Shechatsalot Před 6 lety +27

    She deserves better.

  • @kristendionne2722
    @kristendionne2722 Před 5 lety +4

    I just feel sorry for her😔 alot of us women have been there loving and trying to keep a person that dont want to stay over 20 years! Its heart breaking..I pray she finds happiness.

  • @GoshTasha
    @GoshTasha Před 6 lety +65

    Her ending statement sounds like it should be in a Tyler Perry movies LOL

    • @TYREEKPOOLE-ju5mx
      @TYREEKPOOLE-ju5mx Před 5 lety +3

      What is so funny nobody should never want to see a good woman cry what is wrong with you, I feel sorry for whatever man deals with you or you probably deal with women so it's understandable why you think pain is funny plus just grow up

  • @essence9860
    @essence9860 Před 6 lety +55

    Umm. So he's 35 they've been together for 21 years and he has 2 other kids ???

    • @Tayamyre
      @Tayamyre Před 6 lety +20

      daisha carter i had to re read that myself. So he had always been a cheater

    • @dekesihabaugh8174
      @dekesihabaugh8174 Před 6 lety +5

      Was thinkin the same thing

  • @yaniquebeckford1699
    @yaniquebeckford1699 Před 4 lety +4

    O booy, I feel for her. Mann! This is serious, I can see the hurt and tears in her eyes, her soul is crying out to her husband. Homie not even listening to her heart no more. So detached, so sad.

  • @ididntreallymeanit
    @ididntreallymeanit Před 6 lety +39

    She needs to leave him

  • @delorasledge2492
    @delorasledge2492 Před 6 lety +4

    This episode gets to me b/c his behavior hits home. He hurt MY feelings when he called her predictable, I mean, DAMN!$%*#! I would ask my partner - Whats up? How was your day? - in return I get... - You good? What's with all the questions? This what you called me for? - shady.

  • @tiffanyrichardson5337
    @tiffanyrichardson5337 Před 6 lety +21

    nobody is considering the fact that he had two other kids OUTSIDE of their relationship, which i'm sure came before the marriage but she still chose to marry him! i don't put all the blame on him, she knew what she married and if you continue to stay with a person after they CONSTANTLY have done you wrong...why are they the only one to blame!? i'm so sick of this, she got what she asked for and expected him to change cause of marriage. so sad...i can go on about this, pitiful!

    • @joibebebe
      @joibebebe Před 6 lety +1

      Preach !!!! Y are folks so quick to forget she bears just as much of the blame!

    • @nbkg487
      @nbkg487 Před 5 lety +2

      True! When they show you who they are believe them.

  • @zoelifecoach7099
    @zoelifecoach7099 Před 6 lety +21

    He may be a good father, but he is a lousy husband---and someone is looking for a good woman such as she. He has to get it together before the thots ruin the best he may ever have----a devoted wife and family.

    • @beastshawnee4987
      @beastshawnee4987 Před 5 lety +8

      zoe lifecoach He is not a good father. He has his daughter in lock down-and he force shaved his son’s head-both things were unnecessary when there are other options. His kids will rebel because he treats them less than human.

    • @chantaegreenland112
      @chantaegreenland112 Před 5 lety

      @@beastshawnee4987 All of that was necessary he didn't do anything extreme.. hair will grow back and y'all complain about fathers not being in their daughters life that's why they are how they are (thots or whatever)now he's doing is job yet you're complaining....
      He is a good father

  • @leylas174
    @leylas174 Před 6 lety +7

    I'm dead never thought I would hear the words side chick and thot in court 😂😂

  • @yannicat123
    @yannicat123 Před 4 lety +4

    This lady is so cute. Her heart is broken and it’s so sad. I feel for her

  • @KricSmith
    @KricSmith Před 2 lety +2

    14:00 good point

  • @EE-2380
    @EE-2380 Před 4 lety +2

    Tell me why he’s 35 but looks like he’s at least in his 50’s?? What’s really going on??

  • @sharonjackson268
    @sharonjackson268 Před 5 lety +5

    He's a BIG BELLY FOOL!
    GIRL RUN...

  • @shaheedahevans2871
    @shaheedahevans2871 Před 6 lety +9

    Judge Lynn don't play. You better put in a job application at 17 because she want yo ass out at 18. At the interview you better explain!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @jsavizonmarie
    @jsavizonmarie Před 6 lety +2

    Sweet lady I hope you find the strength to leave this man, and realize how beautiful you are and you deserve much more. Don’t allow this man to continue break your spirit. You have daughter show her strength.

  • @mclovin9120
    @mclovin9120 Před 6 lety +9

    " how is your day?"😂😂

    • @vvelasco54
      @vvelasco54 Před 6 lety +2

      priscila E. A and he still didn’t answer her question.

    • @M0chaJ0J0
      @M0chaJ0J0 Před 6 lety

      priscila lol 😂 😂😂🤣😂

  • @snoopyluvscena
    @snoopyluvscena Před 6 lety +11

    1:30 minutes in - that’s exactly why I don’t understand extra long relationships/engagements. Together for 21 years........married for 2......... I would’ve just kept the relationship going, y’all already married basically. You’re literally doing everything a married couple does without the legal commitment and responsibilities.

  • @CrazySexyCoolmeisha
    @CrazySexyCoolmeisha Před 6 lety +8

    I think it was ridiculous to take the door off. What he is gonna cause is for that child to sneak around with that boy. N he had no reason for cheating on his wife. Work on the problems or leave, dont cheat

  • @4bfam
    @4bfam Před 4 lety +4

    While I don't disagree with his discipline method, I disagree when he's not there and hed rather be out with other women because he's bored at home. Kind of forfeit that kingship when you are never around to love and nurture.

  • @ruedannallen2907
    @ruedannallen2907 Před 6 lety +5

    judge make up on point.... !!

  • @ReshaAKADREABABY
    @ReshaAKADREABABY Před 6 lety +2

    She was so hurt you can see it all over face. Those materialistic things can be replaced but she can't get back 21 years of her life.

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 Před 5 lety +4

    Her final statement was heartbreaking and the truth. All he had to do was talk to her. If he’s going to try to appreciate her, let him try to do better_a lot better_because she actually loves his roly poly self. While he’s telling her to spruce it up, she nerds to tell him to shape up and look manly because there’s NOTHING sexy about the shape he’s in now.

  • @raquelt2691
    @raquelt2691 Před 6 lety +4

    I really thought she was going to leave him! Maybe he will get a clue & act right for the sake of their kids. I get it that he’s probably all she knows but she’s still young & can do better. I believe in the sanctity of marriage but you can see it’s more than just the cheating that’s bothering her. He doesn’t care about her. It’s like nothing she does is good enough. Maybe she will get the strength to leave if he can’t get it together.

  • @yannicat123
    @yannicat123 Před 3 lety +2

    Him saying she’s predictable is just some silly excuse he’s come up with. I’d rather be with some one I love who is predictable than some fool who changes like the weather. Unpredictability as an attraction should only go so far. I had an unpredictable woman and when I divorced her she begged me for years to come back to her. I didn’t.

  • @monicaclasener7942
    @monicaclasener7942 Před 4 lety +3

    This marrige took some toll. Girl you have a whole life in front of you, find a man who loves you for who you are. He has te nerve to criticize your appearance, take a good look at him.

  • @AngelRasmus3
    @AngelRasmus3 Před 4 lety +2

    Oh god the ending :-( I want to cry for her.

  • @truthbetold1074
    @truthbetold1074 Před 6 lety +2

    Communication is paramount in the success of any...relationship..and a love one especially....Hope she finds what she needs..he sure did....

  • @My3Enemies3Misery
    @My3Enemies3Misery Před 5 lety +2

    They known each other for 21 years and have only been married for two and half years ?!?! The procrastination is real on they’re side..

  • @StarpoBerry
    @StarpoBerry Před 4 lety +2

    Omg!! 😭😭😭 Charity you are much better than how he made you feel! I cried 😢

  • @racqueltimothy5907
    @racqueltimothy5907 Před 6 lety +18

    I don't understand why women does stay wit men like this for so long but I agree wit him on the parenting

  • @MuvaLaNegra
    @MuvaLaNegra Před 6 lety +1

    I can't concentrate because I am waiting for the lady to nod off on the floor🤣🤣🤣.

  • @1234tric
    @1234tric Před 4 lety +3

    I feel so sorry for Charity. To love an man that said he loved you . Such a loving soul. To not be wanted. If I had her she wouldn't have to worry about being loved and appreciated.People will throw love away for some strange P.

  • @XxiliketwinkiesxX
    @XxiliketwinkiesxX Před 4 lety +1

    Idk about agreeing with that parenting method. I can’t have my kids looking raggedy 😂

  • @p.r.9982
    @p.r.9982 Před 6 lety +3

    WHY DID SHE STAY WITH HIM ???? 15+ YEARS OF MISERY WEREN'T ENOUGH? STILL BELIEVE IN A "NEW CHANGED ME" ACT AT THIS AGE??? WHAT DO YOU TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER ? HOW CAN GROWN WOMEN LIKE HERS BE SO WEAK? I'm done.

  • @luckylibra6131
    @luckylibra6131 Před 4 lety +8

    Men are funny, I cheated on her and treat her like furniture but she looks through my phone and throwing my things. I wonder why. Men drive already fragile women to crazy and pretend he didn't understand why she so angry

  • @nevrcn4get
    @nevrcn4get Před 5 lety +1

    I'm actually glad they are trying to work things out... I think their issues are fixable if they renew their commitment, learn to communicate, and strive to keep things fresh. I hope it works out for them.

  • @deidrebrown6793
    @deidrebrown6793 Před 5 lety +4

    Why do ppl come on this show, complain about how they being treated get awesome advice then at the end the most common comment is we gonna work it out🤔why even come on the damn show it's called divorce court right? Or is something that IAM missing...I love being single because I bring the table to a relationship if you can't bring 4 chairs to it no need to sit at it...y'all be blessed tho

  • @jessicawheatley29
    @jessicawheatley29 Před 6 lety +1

    Judge was on fire this episode!