Loving You Differently Every Day | {THE AND} MaryV & Chella
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MaryV & Chella, dating for 3yrs, return to our space to share another intimate conversation about their connection to one another. As they evaluate how their challenges have evolved over the past few years, the one thing that’s apparent is that their deep love and commitment to each other hasn’t faltered in the slightest (Official English captions available). Watch their first conversation, from almost two years prior: bit.ly/MaryVChella
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Loving You Differently Every Day | {THE AND} MaryV & Chella
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You two seem god damn emotionally intelligent btw
it's almost like they've lived for 3000 years, maybe even more
Right
Chella is on the cusp of Scorpio & Sagittarius so he's extremely intellectual on top of that and outspoken as fuck (wish i was on the cusp), I'm a Scorpio and I literally stopped looking people in their eyes when they speak to me lol its like seeing into a glass house, so unnecessary. She's too down for chella, it exhausts most people and yet here these two are. So wild.
@@angelalino9211wait I don’t understand why did you stop looking people in the eyes? Also, what do you mean by “too down”?
how did they both manage to get even more cute
Love
e e e e e e e
he looks at her with such a softness in his eyes
YESSS
Same to her.
@Ripper Life :/
The fact that Chella still blushes when being complimented by Mary after 3 years of dating is so sweet.
Samwise Baggins whoaaa they met when they were 16 and 19???
@@tressaalexander629 theyre the same age, which is 21 now
Samwise Baggins yess 🥺🥺🥺🥺
e e e e e e e e e e e
fr that was so cute dkdbkd
MaryV should do audiobooks, that girl's voice is heaven
eleonora sava agreed you’re beautiful
@@presleecarson532 aww thank you ^^
eleonora sava you’re welcome always friend
wait waut, chella is the guy? i thought he's marvy!
@@presleecarson532 uuuuu
Don’t give me a love unless it’s like THIS
Kelsey Schnitter you’re awesome
Yasss 👏🏿
@Krystal i don't think you should go out of your way to date a trans person...
@Krystal He is so cute :)
Sameeeee🥺💕
I went to high school with MaryV, she was a senior when I was a freshman and I always wanted to be like her. Literally the kindest, most creative, free soul I've met.
Was she popular in school?
it's amar's life she was a warm light to every single person. Not like popular to flaunt it, but popular in that she was kind to everyone and you always knew you could talk to her about anything
Did they go to the same hs too?
Hey Y no she met him in New York in college, we went to high school in Denver
Was she a the quite kid or out spoken?
if they ever break up don’t tell me about it. i want to remember them this way. soulmates
hey this is a year later idk if you will see this but they are still together so YAYY
Same
i actually dont believe in soulmates but they’re the exception
they're still tgth
@@ShockResistor mf ur lying💀
I don't really believe in soulmates, but these guys are just... wow...
Hannah Violet soulmates can be multiple people, but a twin flame. Now that’s what these two give me
@@Umojawellness_ yes!!
@@Umojawellness_ Exactly !
they made me believe in the whole soulmate thing
Hannah Violet you stole the words from my mom
This feels like if Self-Love got into a relationship.🌻
Perfect description
Wow that's deep man. Literally perfect description.
that's divine love. it's love with source :)
Damn! True
e e e e e
whatever souls are made of his and hers are the same
Souls are made of intelligence
Tessa and Harry....yassssss
@@synr9611 oh my god you're so ignorant, it's insane.
@@moonsun-cr1ts please enlighten me.
@@synr9611 the quote is from a book called "wuthering heights" by emily bronte. it's not a quote from after.
"I try to love you hard every single day when I wake up... I want to love you differently every single day. But at the same time I want it to feel so old... I love you wherever you are, how ever far you are. " That is the most beautiful thing I've ever heard someone say to someone else. Wow.
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What time stamp ?
@@bangtwicesib4281 15:00
Ugh, right?! This was so wholesome and sweet.
The purest couple on the planet damn
@K Dubbs what was the reason? What was the actual fucking reason that led you to say that fufu lame shit
@K Dubbs what makes that non-pure? just curious
Anna Daws agreed keep being you
@K Dubbs So what? What does it even matter?
@K Dubbs I think anyone has a right to not want to date a trans person if they don't want to but maybe they are perfect for each other is what I'm saying.
Their existence together brings me so much joy.
Same same same, I feel at peace
There’s something so sweet and delicate about her. She’s like a fairy 🧚♀️
it’s hard to believe they have only been together for 3 years, they seem like they’ve known each other for decades
Because they both pay attention to each other I think.
In the last video, Chella spoke about how MaryV says 'hm' after she thinks about something deeply. In this video, after MaryV says something insightful and emotional, Chella responded with a simple 'hm'. That is beautiful.
You make youtube a better place
I noticed that too! They’ve molded together so beautifully as a couple.
I don’t think I’ve ever come across a love like this. It’s so rare and so honest and beautiful. I didn’t know this kind of love existed, having had relationships myself, I look at these two and I genuinely think their love is very very rare. So beautiful.
exactly how i feel
most of the relationships are just superficial and not real, this is real.
Lucy the Mermaid you’re incredible
Asia Taylor you beautiful
Yes omg. I feel like crying
Watching this is like going to therapy.
I know right!
This is a terribly shallow comment but my God, Chella is so incredibly handsome.
I think he's attractive too DJFKFJJF HIS EYES ARE SO BIGGG
Nancy Wang Is it bad that he is the reason I clicked this video, was wondering who this beautiful man was.. stayed for the entire video though their love is so pure🥺
Once I see chella it reminds of daehwi from the group of wannaone. I can't believe I found someone who looks nearly like daehwi. He can literally passed one of the long lost twins.
@@alishag1662 that's just mean of you to say that like sure you could say what you think. However, it is not necessary to comment that online and he could have seen it you know? That's just mean
I'm a straight guy but we can see how Genuine and Pure our man here
The way he speaks and look at her? Aw man.. i feel wholesome that a pure man like him still exist nowadays
Most parts of this video sounds like a conversation when they're cuddling and i feel like im third wheeling so should i leave or...
Chul Tulip same
Hahaha. :) True vulnerability can make us feel quite vulnerable..
Haha same their voices are so soft and soothing they should do asmr but I'd probably fall asleep.
😂😂 so spot on
Chul Tulip HAHAHA
Idk if this makes sense but I really look up to them as a couple. The way they communicate so honestly and the way the show each other so much love I know what to look up to when I get a relationship
I agree but at the same time I personally think I'm not ready for a relationship like that... I mean it's definitely something I wanna have at some point but giving myself to someone the way they do is really scary in my opinion,, to me it means accepting being vulnerable and insecure and it's harddd
@@lizy2251 I'm in the same boat. It's like giving someone your literal heart. I have a lot of self work to do before I get there
I'm with you!
Brokenbitch it does make sense u broken bitch. So u fine bitch.
@@lizy2251 It's not scary. It's because youre a sheep
when she made him blush and told her 'you're blushing' with that little smile and he apologized they are so so cute
I’m blushing like I’m the third partner in their relationship 💀
omg me lmao. even after rewatching for the forth time maybe
"there are no deadlines to life" AMEN to that
AMEN from a person who is constantly fighting with her own times for doing stuff :')
When in the video???
@Astrid L
3:12
I see them, I click. I'm a simple woman.
I love how they refer themselves as "we" and not "me/I". That's a *genuine* relationship
I love how soft their voices are. How gentle and attentive they are towards each other. The stares....their smiles and the small giggles...ugh sweep me off my feet please. I support them and their love forever and always. It’s so real and beautiful that it’s hitting me straight in the heart! 😩🥺💕
These two were transported from the future to show us how to be.
Melle Jobs yes. Humans are actually incredibly loving souls but society/the ego has warped that a bit through so so many generations of less optimal patterns of being and giving receiving love. We are coming back/moving forward into our true authentic loving soul selves. These two are modeling that for us💕🧚🏼♀️🤗
@@siobhanmulvey Love this! Agree 100%.
So true bro
- if for some reason i lost my memory , what would be the first thing you'd tell me about us?
- honey.. you're not straight
@Frederic Cho I'm confused about this, because maryv considers Chella a man, and chella considers himself a man so how is maryv not considered straight?
S s I think chella wasn’t fully out then and Mary V was still attracted to him so it helped her realize that she didn’t just like guys
@@sara-leigh what does that mean? sorry I don't get what you're saying
@@leonor.rocha111 is queer another word for bi?
@@laia6548 but if she might not like labeling herself, isn't queer is a word that labels people though lol
The girl has a true beauty.. Like she should be an actress..
Shes a model
To be this young and so in love with each other and aware of everything... insane. However I'd like to think they're old souls who've been fighting for their love for hundreds of years and are finally rewarded.
To have that kind of clarity and emotional brilliance at ANY age is incredible; personally, I still don't have it now, even. They are such wonderful, beautiful people inside and out
@@kingayy9267 Indeed I agree, often times you are stuck at a certain age or become the age you haven't even reached
@@kingayy9267 you have some if not a lot if you can recognize it in other people ❤️
the couple that everyone needs in their lives, their communication skills are EVERYTHING
They deserve their own indie romance movie
THIS
bro, they are not even uncomfortable when they are in complete silence. They're fucking relaxed looking at each others eyes, like people around them didn't existed. This is so beautiful. im fucking crying.
They could just stare into each other soul like nothing existed lol
I can’t believe these two aren’t together anymore. They were that one couple who I thought were meant for each other and had such a pure love and appreciation. I wonder what separated them and I hope they’re doing okay separately as individuals.
whttttt really how do u know
They are both professors in communication in my eyes. Thank you!
I’ll show this to everyone who insists that true love doesn’t exist.
i was a hardcore believer that true love didn’t exist until i watched this, damn
jamsforjimin oh same trust me, lmao
Natalia Dems 🥺☺️
Chella had desperation in their eyes when they were thinking about how to make her remember their relationship if she were to lose her memory. Omg even I felt anxious watching their eyes
He looked scared, even. The thought of losing even a piece of Mary (ie: her mind, as she hypothetically forgot him, in the question) clearly terrified him and, although sad on the surface, is actually so precious
The best thing is that they are both good listeners.emotional and thoughtful.
“Honey, you’re not straight.”
YUP, THIS BASICALLY SUMS UP MY LIFE.
Lol mine too
Literally right after I read your comment they said that in the video haha! Omg why does that always happen when I read comments, it weirds me out but I love it xD.
whenever i watch them they remind me never to settle for the love i know i deserve.
Hi! Can you explain what do you mean? English is not my 1st language and I've never heard this expression before. I'm curious as to what it means (regarding this video). Thank you~
@@BIEBERownMe It means to not conform, when you know that there is someone out there who could love you wholeheartedly, basically not to settle for less than you deserve.
But you wouldn't be settling for the love you deserve. You mean never settle for anything less than the love you deserve. I think that's why someone got confused about the wording.
what you said is that you wouldnt settle for the love you deserve ? tf is that
just what I needed after a breakup
I like how chella tears up whenever he’s talks about MaryV
The part were she said he was, is, will be, for ever her greatest love made me cry. It felt so genuine.
why am i crying?? 😭
elvis joelle I know me too
It's great to see that these two people are so young, 19 and 21 and already so aware of themselves and eachother. The insecurities will usually fade when a person reaches 30, hope they are still together when it does. But already they are very strong, and it's totally normal to be insecure and searching to find yourself. Much love 💕
Evaa404 you’re awesome
They're both 21 as of right now, just an observation, I wholeheartedly agree, couldn't have said it better.
“I wanna love u differently everyday” if my man can’t give me that type of love then he need to keep walkin
He was a woman n seriously don't expect this kinda love from a biological man they j us ain't built that way sorry to say
Peng Chin Lol don’t base the men in this world on the ones in ur life. They may not love u like this. But I’ve got MEN who love me like this so please don’t base ur personal failures on my winnings
@@lelerimp3412 lmao who deleted my comment haha. I said u sound rly pathetic and laughable bc u can't even comprehend the nuances I was referring to. But no worries not everyone is refined as I am. And also I do have good men in my life Aw but thank u for ur concern altho it sounds really condescending haha
@@lelerimp3412 also if the moderator or the channel or whoever wants to delete my comment, how come she gets to be condescending and rude but I don't? I mean my hit to her face was pretty brutal but her commenting what she did she gotta expect that right lmao, oh wait maybe it's cz I'm Asian I mean u know with the trade war and everything haha don't worry I'm not from China. Hey does chella know that no matter what u Americans say ure still racist unless its an activist video etc that makes Hollywood richer?
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what they have is such a gift, to find someone this much on your wavelength. you can see the love in their expressions. theyre so intelligent and wonderful
gaia e exactly, it’s a gift, and it’s rare
How lucky are they to have such a beautiful connection. So raw and magnetic.
Marien Tan you’re incredible
it’s beautiful how they always film couples a little bit in each other’s frame
Oh wow I just noticed that. Makes it a much more immersive experience.
"I'd give you a choice- like I always do." WOW this type of love i'm
The guy's eyes are so beautiful like he really means whatever he is saying if u just look in his eyes . This conversation was so intimate and real with no lies
the silences between statements tells you how emotionally invested they are with each other and how comfortable and in love they are with each other... i want that when i’m older, its so beautiful
Why when you are older? And not now if I may ask🤷🏽♀️
They know the other person values every word they're saying and neither one has to worry about being interrupted before their thought is complete. Mutual respect and it's beautiful
They seem to have a hundred of ways to say "I love you" in just one video
I’ve been following them for a while, and I just love them so much!
Jazmin Jimenez you’re wonderful
Same! I totally get it.
Do they have an Instagram ?
they def. do. i believe its @chellaman
It's amazing how grown-up they look like now in comparison to their previous video, not only physically and as individuals but as a couple of human beings who have grown together. I'm still as in love with their love as I was in the other video, if not more.
Macarena Gattás keep being you
I don't think they are together anymore. Skindeep pls get in contact with them for a new video. 🥺❤️
I can’t communicate like this w/out getting awkward 😢😢 BUT I WANT TO GET THERE SOMEDAY
I get what your saying but the thing is he seems to teach her patience and calmness. I believe in true love. This is beautiful
This is not a movie, not acting. it’s real, and realizing that brings me joy 😭
This conversation better be in LoFi music
It's so good
Omg that would be so sweet- I'm crying just watching them, add music and I'm dead
"I mean.. I say this like.. full heartedly, that you are, and were, and forever and always are my greatest love."
I guess they're what you'd call Twin Flames. Like I can see one person in the other's eye, it's so hard to explain it, but when you're looking at them both of them feel like one person. Wow!
her outfit damn
A his too was hectic but it worked
3:09 imagine loving someone so much that you'd blush after dating over 3 years🥺
"I reserve and prioritize my energy to love you the way you need to be love on that day." WOW. Just WOW. I felt that. I'm cheering for this couple. This kind of love is so unique and should be cherished.
"there are no deadlines to life" I'm going to remember this
She resembles Leighton Meester(Blair Waldorf from Gossip Girl) They're both so beautiful individually but together they're just magnetic!
Bob yes it is the eyes
She looks like a gorgeous mix of Leighton Meester and Susan Sarandon...
someone finally said it 😭😭 i see blair Waldorf in her
They can look eachother in the eyes for so long. It's a sign of a truly emotionally deep relationship. I love it
Am i the only one who cried? 🥺
Like...am i going to experience this kind of love?
Chesca Salcedo I want to experience it too 🥺🥺 and they are way younger than me
This popped up in my recommended and the love within the silence just took my BREATH. AWAY.
"The love within the silence" is a great way to word it!
The representation. The rawness. The radiance of their love. I'm so in awe of them individually and collectively. So glad I came across their video.
The way they communicate is a great model of Authentic Relating! They speak slowly and clearly to each other, they own their own experience, they listen fully.... it is truly beautiful to see. They are indeed role models.
I really do think they are cute but I really can't imagine myself in a relationship like this, not in a bad way I just think it shows the complexity of people this for me feels too serious, I feel like if either one of them makes a joke it would turn into a deep conversation
My point is not about their relationship but about love itself, don't look at this as the only right way maybe your love is a little bit more messy and "imperfect " but it doesn't mean you don't have a great connection
really good point
Thank you. I was waiting for somebody to say it. I am in a relationship myself and I always feel like its not gonna last for a long time after I watch MaryV and Chella’s videos. Because they are just so Pure, good for each other, everytime they show respect, their relationship seems like a perfect one. Soulmates. Then I get scared. What If my relationship isn’t good enough? What If mine is too superficial (which it isnt, i have a normal Healthy relationship with ups and downs)? But then. Everyone is different. I would never want to compare my love for someone to any other love. And noone should.
The way that THIS is what i've been thinking throughout the whole video. Like what they have is beyond beautiful don't get me wrong but I already know that I wouldn't be able to handle anything this complex. I don't have the emotional capacity and understanding. But happy for them. Wishing the best for all of us. 🧚🏻♀️
You brought up a good point that young adults need to hear. People are complex. There's no "right" way to love as long as your love is healthy. Don't compare, people!
Thanks for saying that, I really needed to hear it❤️❤️
I’m basically just repeating what everyone else here already thinks. But their love is so pure, and genuine. I’ve never witnessed anything like this. It’s so comforting to see that this exist for two people.
I’ve never seen a young man so in tune with his emotions and feelings, and able to express them so sincerely. It’s so lovely.
This is so intense and intimate and beautiful I almost feel like I shouldn't be watching it!
Lol
i just watched a movie. this is literal magic.
They were really just meant for each other that’s crazy luv
I really liked this couple. Saw a video of them years ago when they were first dating so it’s bittersweet to hear they may not be together any longer.
Chella is so soft, gentle, and honest. Reminds me of my husband. I love seeing them together.
These two are so beautiful. Just two kindred spirits communicating simply with one another.
chella on the brink of tears the entire time just shows how much he truly loves maryv it’s just so RAW and pure and beautiful and emotional
they make me believe in love. they make me believe in twin flames. they make me believe in true happiness in its purest form. they make me believe that somewhere out there is waiting, existing to heal me and for me to heal them.
Them telling each other they love each other around like 13:10... gave me the most intense chills. I think people connect to them and like them so much because you do not only see, but can feel, their love, and its intensity. So beyond beautiful, there's no words to describe it.
Earlier this year I lost my 4-year relationship because I found out my partner cheated on me. Going through a rollercoaster emotionally, there were days when I thought that I still wanted to be with this person despite the lies and deceit they gave me. In those moments, I truly believed that the relationship was all I wanted, and I was ready to forgive and move on from what happened. As more time went on, I slowly started to realize just how cruel they were to me. I had sacrificed more than what I had for them, and I know they never tried to do the same. I love Chella Man and MaryV because although no one is perfect, they are such a beautiful example of what communication in a healthy relationship should be like. They make me realize that I deserve someone who makes me feel that I am loved, even when they're not around or when they're not saying it. I will try to move forward improving upon myself in the meantime, and hopefully find a new love that can show these kinds of parallels of respect and honesty. Thank you for inviting these two again!
Your story resonates with me, youre not alone. Sending you lots of strength and love.
Wishing the best for u
I felt like I was writing this. Wow. Same thing happened to me. Me and him still talk to this day but not because I miss them. I appreciate him as an experience, as a part of me. I can never hate that person if I love myself today. Sending you hugs & love. You can make it to the better days. You’re almost there. ❣️
this is like asmr that makes you cry
the way they talk.... the way they listen just everything i love this so much
I never envy or look up to other people’s relationship but I hope in the future I find a partner who can communicate as well as these two because wow. I understand every emotion they try to convey to each other and their genuineness is so beautiful and refreshing. Wish them nothing but the best
12:58 - 13:20 I felt I was intruding on a private moment
foreal I felt so uncomfortable like, should I go or? lol
Lmao, this entire conversation is a private moment..
I always feel like that watching skin deep's videos
this was a whole damn movie. the words. the emotions. everything. in just 17 minutessss! :')
When they just stare at eachother 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺MY HEARTTTTTTTTTT
i felt like the most intimate moment that i intruded on, by just watching, is when she reaches her hand out to him
They're so deep and in awe of each other, even after 3 years. I can't wait to experience this
“You are, and always will be, my greatest love”
I swear I teared up a little hearing that. MaryV and Chella, y’all are so wonderful. I hope that what you have lasts forever and ever, but even if it doesn’t, what you have created is so god damn beautiful; that at this point of time, you once felt this way for each other. And you guys are willing to make any sacrifice that’s best for the other person in any way.
I wish the world was more like you guys. Things like this crack my cynical train of thought, inject a little bit more hope into how people can love each other in such a real, pure and simple manner.
God the intensity in their eyes when they look at each other..so much love and softness 😭
Someday i want to be like them 🙏
They better not break up so that I'll still have hope in love.
Jade Luu exactly what I am thinking
Jade Luu exactly what I am thinking
"But i wanna know"
Damn
someone make a movie about their story and love and i’ll watch it forever 🥺
Good ideea. Why don't you make it?
I really want a love like this. I’m so scared that I’ll be stuck with someone who doesn’t truly love me for my entire life. I better work on myself first, because I need to be what I want to attract!
just stop bruh. i am over here crying my heart out cz y all are so beautiful! inside out. And you deserve to be kept on a museum. Just cause your love is so priceless and special. OMFG am so single God bless yaaa