Exactly the idea I have in mind and to know that there’s a family that’s already doing it gives me so much hope and strength. To know this is the best for them. Thank you so much for uploading this wonderful video.
I love this!! I have sat down with my husband and explained how I feel I want and need him to be in his children life. I told him it's not the end of the world. We would do exactly what these people are doing. We fight so much and I feel this will make things better. I would never let him stop seeing the kids.
so great news! i showed this to my husband. He is all for it. except he needs to build himself a place to sleep hahahaha. we cant still be sharing the same beds lmfao. but all in all it took him years to realize this. That its all about the kids and their happiness as well. thank you so much for this video!
Recently he moved out. It over all went well. He felt it was best tho that we do the full on separation. He still lives in the same state as me and he still gets to see the kiddos 🙂
I want to do this.. however.. not sure that it will work since my husband doesn't want a divorce and keeps trying to convince me to try to reconcile. But he cheated a whole lot and I have zero interest in him romantically or sexually anymore 🤷 I just want to coparent peacefully!!
Same building be fine. Kids don’t have to go far to see their parents. Most important is for the parents to have their own space. This is how live in separated can work.
It's so uncommon but this in my opinion and experience is the real concept of co parenting. I understand that not everyone is mature enough to co parent in the same home, but it's the most healthy form of co parenting if both parents are actually capable of doing so. It allows the children to live their usual life and upbringing with both parents uninterrupted.
At the end of the day these children have both parents regardless of the parents relationship. The children come first . These parents seems mature enough to co exist . It’s what you make it . If you can’t be mature and work well with one another then yes it will be bad for everyone . Glad these kids don’t have to deal with drama and unhappy people
I just got divorced (male). I didn't want to get divorced. Neither of us wants to sell the marital home. Neither of us has another love interest. We got divorced because we argued and people outside our nuclear family aggravated me. But now I am calm. I want to move back home and be with her and my children.
Exactly the idea I have in mind and to know that there’s a family that’s already doing it gives me so much hope and strength. To know this is the best for them. Thank you so much for uploading this wonderful video.
I love this!! I have sat down with my husband and explained how I feel I want and need him to be in his children life. I told him it's not the end of the world. We would do exactly what these people are doing. We fight so much and I feel this will make things better. I would never let him stop seeing the kids.
Same. Me and my wife just called it quits yesterday and talked and are gonna try being roommates and friends and see where it goes.
So how has it worked out
@@willturpin323 any update
This is unrealistic for all people, so I joint counseling should be done before making a move to create another type of family.
It has been a challenge for people close to us to respect and understand our decision to get divorce and live together 3 more years.
How is it coming along?
Sometimes people need to stay together bit longer to finish responsibilities
How did it go?
so great news! i showed this to my husband. He is all for it. except he needs to build himself a place to sleep hahahaha. we cant still be sharing the same beds lmfao. but all in all it took him years to realize this. That its all about the kids and their happiness as well. thank you so much for this video!
Wife and I are gonna try sharing the same room 1st.
Recently he moved out. It over all went well. He felt it was best tho that we do the full on separation. He still lives in the same state as me and he still gets to see the kiddos 🙂
That's really smart because you see ur parents every day
I want to do this.. however.. not sure that it will work since my husband doesn't want a divorce and keeps trying to convince me to try to reconcile.
But he cheated a whole lot and I have zero interest in him romantically or sexually anymore 🤷 I just want to coparent peacefully!!
divorce is the worst thing in this life but what I like about this video is that they think of the kids first by staying close
I live in this situation with divorced parents and 2 siblings, all in one house though not in separate flats, and I wish it was this idyllic
What’s wrong with your setup?
Poor girls dont know how much their parents are suffering for their sake.
That's really mature..
Same building be fine. Kids don’t have to go far to see their parents. Most important is for the parents to have their own space. This is how live in separated can work.
awesomeness and luv them 2 girls.. lol very smart they are
It's so uncommon but this in my opinion and experience is the real concept of co parenting. I understand that not everyone is mature enough to co parent in the same home, but it's the most healthy form of co parenting if both parents are actually capable of doing so. It allows the children to live their usual life and upbringing with both parents uninterrupted.
Been legally separated for 2 years in April and living together. Kids ages when he filed 1 and 3.
That dude ain’t happy lol he wants her back.
love it .. lucky kids
At the end of the day these children have both parents regardless of the parents relationship. The children come first . These parents seems mature enough to co exist . It’s what you make it . If you can’t be mature and work well with one another then yes it will be bad for everyone . Glad these kids don’t have to deal with drama and unhappy people
I just got divorced (male). I didn't want to get divorced.
Neither of us wants to sell the marital home. Neither of us has another love interest.
We got divorced because we argued and people outside our nuclear family aggravated me.
But now I am calm.
I want to move back home and be with her and my children.
My parents
Dads usually move into the garage.
I still sense the love between this couple. I think they can still work it out...I 😁
Interesting
no way this is sustainable long term
@@joim3480 how old were your kids when you started it?
Facts! Because she remarried and I'm sure that dude doesnt want to be there with her ex.
It's only till the kids are 18. He used to be called the poor man's divorce
This messed up
You're cruel to the core