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  • čas přidán 24. 11. 2016
  • i stalled making this video for 10 months because i'm embarrassed to tell these stories but whatever i'm over it here ya go
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  • @floppa1498
    @floppa1498 Před 2 lety +12180

    This is called foreshadowing

    • @nvid
      @nvid Před 2 lety +336

      How many humans are still watching this 5yo video?!

    • @supercamborg4218
      @supercamborg4218 Před 2 lety +386

      @@nvid it’s definitely gotten an increase in viewership since Being not Straight came out

    • @kevinmendoza6386
      @kevinmendoza6386 Před 2 lety +106

      @@nvid I just recently started watching Jaiden and I'm watching all videos in chronological order, so yeah...

    • @TheLazyWitch
      @TheLazyWitch Před 2 lety +42

      @@nvid well im not human. im a computer.

    • @thebestworst8002
      @thebestworst8002 Před 2 lety +60

      @@nvid she literally mentioned this video in her coming out video and how she “refused to rewatch” obviously that means that many people will rewatch this video

  • @akyer8085
    @akyer8085 Před 5 lety +31779

    Crush: so how was your day?
    Me: yes

  • @Robster23
    @Robster23 Před 9 měsíci +158

    "Foreshadowing is a literary device used to hint at events yet to come"

  • @eggmon420
    @eggmon420 Před 8 měsíci +512

    “You two sound like you could have a bomb friendship! Since you theoretically should be able to get along perfectly!” I’m laughing so hard bc it’s so obvious that Jaiden hasn’t yet discovered that there’s ANOTHER EMOTION INVOLVED!

    • @Pirhanap32
      @Pirhanap32 Před měsícem +11

      as someone who walked up to a girl at my freshman year in high school, asked her if she wanted to dance, and she said she had a boyfriend, and I immediately walked away, I can agree.

    • @Fenikx33
      @Fenikx33 Před 20 dny +1

      Now thb jaiden is asexual it makes sense

    • @funnyman7312
      @funnyman7312 Před 20 dny +1

      @@Fenikx33 this was 7 years ago

    • @Fenikx33
      @Fenikx33 Před 20 dny

      ​@@funnyman7312i know but i just wanna say

  • @shemionegranger2546
    @shemionegranger2546 Před 5 lety +3777

    Crush: Hi how are you?
    Me: Thanks you too

    • @nethascotx24
      @nethascotx24 Před 5 lety +84

      Shemione Granger for me:
      Crush: Hi how ar...
      Me: Hahaha nice one there did you know that I ate 21 burritos in 3 minutes

    • @apexor4497
      @apexor4497 Před 5 lety +71

      I dont have crush
      Am I human?

    • @IceePhoenix
      @IceePhoenix Před 5 lety +3

      Someone's actually replied to me like this before. She has a crush- I think it's just an anxious thing.

    • @starlightkidsbooksandmusic7953
      @starlightkidsbooksandmusic7953 Před 5 lety +5

      Nice name Shermione Granger

    • @magnus2613
      @magnus2613 Před 5 lety +3

      @@nethascotx24 i can fucking relate

  • @jinhunterslay1638
    @jinhunterslay1638 Před 4 lety +8433

    Comebacks to “How long you’ve been together” :
    Girl - “He’s Gay”
    Boy - “She’s my sister”

  • @thenerdbeast7375
    @thenerdbeast7375 Před 2 lety +495

    After her coming out, I have come to realize Jaiden is the master of foreshadowing.

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean Před 2 lety +29

      It's subtle foreshadowing, though. Foreshadowing so subtle that even Jaiden didn't recognize it at the time!

    • @nevaansbooks2078
      @nevaansbooks2078 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Like the never checking Ari's gender thing in that one vod!

    • @cradica
      @cradica Před 25 dny +4

      She made me realize I might be Aro ace. Honestly, I never even attempted to flirt!!!! I did attempt to fall in love, man did that backfire horribly

  • @g4y_f4g
    @g4y_f4g Před 10 měsíci +104

    i love how the video RECOMMENDED after this video is "Being Not Straight" 💀

  • @Serryy
    @Serryy Před 2 lety +8365

    "If you can't be romantically involved, why not just stay friends" is an absolutely hilarious line with the context of the new video. The signs have been here all along.

    • @markchernyshev7785
      @markchernyshev7785 Před 2 lety +28

      @Rayyan khan ?

    • @cash_machi0896
      @cash_machi0896 Před 2 lety +104

      @Rayyan khan jaiden animations

    • @camilavl1631
      @camilavl1631 Před 2 lety +185

      @Rayyan khan My aunt passed away without ever having an interest in sex or getting married. Isaac Newton died without those as well, and he expressed how he had no real interest in either of them.

    • @camilavl1631
      @camilavl1631 Před 2 lety +167

      It may not have been explicit or well known, but I’m sure there were aro/ace people in history. Not to mention how societal expectations and standards are big factors why these people might’ve not known about their identity, or been in romantic/sexual relationships without actually feeling attraction.

    • @therandom20000
      @therandom20000 Před 2 lety +3

      @Rayyan khan bruh u serious? R u seriously mad that a girl ain't straight? Bruh like fucking more than half of the women in this world aren't straight, thats the most shallow thing a person can argue about. Male's on the other hand aren't ok I'm a homophobic to m8 but only against guys since I don't see the problem of girls being gay especially being aroace

  • @rendered3090
    @rendered3090 Před 3 lety +4016

    How to avoid telling strangers about relationship
    Google : We are just friends
    Bing : He's gay

  • @ChillingDusselgurr
    @ChillingDusselgurr Před rokem +308

    Knowing I'm aroace by now too, I actually had the exact same kissing experience. And I just gotta say, if you like someone, regardless of them potentially being aroace now, do not confess with a kiss! You'll put them in a spot where they might not know what's happening until it happened and you just end up overstepping their boundaries and potentially alienating the person you like. Consent is important even for "just" a kiss. And just because they didn't slap you away or some doesn't mean they consented. So in short, surprise kissing someone to confess is not the sweet romantic gesture that movies make it out to be

    • @Sentient-potato
      @Sentient-potato Před rokem +2

      Yeah but it’s “apparently” harder to have a kiss when your not actually in a romantic relationship. Idk though I’m demiromantic

    • @ChillingDusselgurr
      @ChillingDusselgurr Před rokem +8

      @@Sentient-potato You mean for someone who wants to be in a romantic relationship with someone? Ah trust me, there's people that seem to have no problem at all with that xD And it's fine if the other consents, but my post was about people confessing their love through a kiss without giving the other person the time to consent. Because that's what I had experienced and Jaiden too according to this video. Though that experience unfortunately isn't exclusive to aros or demis, there's many allo people who experience it too

    • @Sentient-potato
      @Sentient-potato Před rokem

      @@ChillingDusselgurr I don’t think I accidentally experienced it, I feel like I’d be brave enough to tell them no anyway; I am just thinking about it from stories I’ve heard

    • @trustypotato9998
      @trustypotato9998 Před 10 měsíci

      amity did that and it worked out, yes luz had a few days of "wait... does she like me?" but it worked out :)

    • @trustypotato9998
      @trustypotato9998 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Sentient-potato same

  • @fernandomartinezvalverde3971

    Man, seing this 7 years later is really cute. She really foreshadowed something she didn't know at the moment ❤

  • @thedeeshter4754
    @thedeeshter4754 Před 4 lety +3480

    "Hey there" "I have a girlfriend" "oh my god same we have so much in common"
    *wait*

    • @lonely_toaster3517
      @lonely_toaster3517 Před 4 lety +21

      You want me to pH your god? Basic, acidic or neutral?

    • @dearvincent3109
      @dearvincent3109 Před 4 lety +6

      7u7

    • @thecrusader5489
      @thecrusader5489 Před 4 lety +14

      SilentStorm *r/wooosh*

    • @allan.9050
      @allan.9050 Před 4 lety +30

      Caden, you've just tried wooshing someone, then you done got wooshed.

    • @thecrusader5489
      @thecrusader5489 Před 4 lety +1

      Krte *Ok. 2 things. Sorry for being such a grammar nazi but u mispelled my name and I r/woooshed his because HE was a grammar nazi*

  • @levibatt4149
    @levibatt4149 Před 3 lety +18030

    When I told my crush I liked her she said “BRUH” 😭

  • @FyveElemental
    @FyveElemental Před 12 dny +8

    Looking back... the Aroace announcement should have come as no surprise to anyone. Love you Jaiden

  • @iamtheboom6490
    @iamtheboom6490 Před rokem +49

    "I don't think i've ever flirted in my life, come to think of it."
    And this is what we call in the writing biz "Foreshadowing".

  • @tb_0719
    @tb_0719 Před 4 lety +27790

    "I peer pressured myself, without any peers."
    - Jaiden

    • @nathanpixelkid
      @nathanpixelkid Před 4 lety +279

      so in other words... I pressured myself

    • @curaii9684
      @curaii9684 Před 4 lety +86

      imagine sayin "I peer preasured myself"

    • @raincloudgacha1746
      @raincloudgacha1746 Před 4 lety +36

      ElectronOMG when she said that and I was scrolling and saw that

    • @ajfstarcat5142
      @ajfstarcat5142 Před 4 lety +21

      Isn't that called self pressure

    • @crescentmp3
      @crescentmp3 Před 4 lety +19

      @@canyousee2578 nah i do it too

  • @tatum8116
    @tatum8116 Před 5 lety +2669

    Jaiden: “Well I did (flirt) one time by accident...”
    Me: “Yup that’s our Jaiden :)”

    • @purple_cacti
      @purple_cacti Před 4 lety

      True XD

    • @dayno2949
      @dayno2949 Před 4 lety +11

      Yes Just stay Hydrated

    • @welcometopornhubbaby6632
      @welcometopornhubbaby6632 Před 4 lety +9

      I may not may not have flirted with you and said I love you and said I've watched you for the last year. I know where you live and I know everything about you.

    • @tatum8116
      @tatum8116 Před 4 lety

      Ethan Akery are you talking about Jaiden?

    • @justinay.7264
      @justinay.7264 Před 4 lety

      (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)

  • @randomfandomcreator2376
    @randomfandomcreator2376 Před rokem +59

    Seriously guys how did we not notice Jaiden was aroace?! She basically says she's aroace right in this video without saying she's aroace! 😂

    • @rentaskon2509
      @rentaskon2509 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Like i was aroace (didn't know that at the time) and was glad someone was talking about and that I finally agree with someone. IT WAS SO OBVIOUS!!!

  • @Milkumms._
    @Milkumms._ Před 2 lety +97

    I think this video aged wonderfully. It took a while for her to find herself, but in the end she's happy now being herself and deserves all the support in the world. Love you so much, Jaiden! thank you for helping me come out too about my demisexuality. You're amazing. 💕💕

  • @rutzo_zeth_r
    @rutzo_zeth_r Před 2 lety +8153

    This video's new title, to me, is just “JaidenAnimations being an aroace disaster without her realizing it for over 8 minutes” xD

  • @mavrek808
    @mavrek808 Před 3 lety +1977

    "How long have you guys been together?"
    "...he's gay"
    😂dead

  • @cmrobbins88
    @cmrobbins88 Před rokem +72

    Life was waving the aroace flags in semaphore and neither she nor the rest world could read the signals back then lol. I can understand why Jaiden refuses to rewatch this.

  • @Chiungalla79
    @Chiungalla79 Před rokem +17

    The thing you don't notice about the whole "let go of a good friend, because they don't want a relationship" is that the longing for more sometimes does not go away. And sometimes the hope for more has a hard time leaving, too.
    On a strictly rational level you are absolutely right: A friendship with an awesome person is better than no friendship, if a relationship isn't available.
    But you can't just decide to fall out of love. And sometimes fleeing is the only way to escape this feelings.

  • @kei-wz4qu
    @kei-wz4qu Před 5 lety +768

    Me: I like you
    Crush: Oh, I'm gay
    Me: Oh yeah, me too
    *aKwArD SiLeNce*

  • @flashgmaing2967
    @flashgmaing2967 Před 7 lety +577

    The best story I have about flirting was with a girl in the line for comic con, she says to me after a few minutes of talking "hey I like your hair." and in my head I just think "OMG A GIRL JUST COMPLIMENTED ME. RESPOND APPROPRIATELY." and what do I reply with? "Thank you. I grew it myself. SHIT"

    • @amoasiwaibrahim3762
      @amoasiwaibrahim3762 Před 7 lety +11

      Flash Gmaing She probably thought you said it on purpose as a joke ahaha

    • @flashgmaing2967
      @flashgmaing2967 Před 7 lety +23

      Aingotnolife ThankstoSixthForm yeah she did actually. what makes this great is that I was cosplaying and I was wearing a wig xD
      btw I love your username

    • @amoasiwaibrahim3762
      @amoasiwaibrahim3762 Před 7 lety +1

      Flash Gmaing ahaha thanks

    • @srs5693
      @srs5693 Před 7 lety

      funny how your story sounded like dbz abridged with trunks

    • @flashgmaing2967
      @flashgmaing2967 Před 7 lety +1

      This happened but I did use the Dbz abridged quote to make it sound better. although I did say "Thank you. I grew it myself"

  • @danas8194
    @danas8194 Před 6 měsíci +21

    I am aro and watched this vid before I knew what being aro was… I found it very relatable…
    It’s a good thing I’m 16 and haven’t gotten to the point of doing any of the dumb stuff before realizing .

  • @thegarbagegamer6925
    @thegarbagegamer6925 Před 18 dny +5

    I believe this is what people call “foreshadowing”

  • @shwesi694
    @shwesi694 Před 5 lety +2296

    Usually it goes like this for me.
    My crush:how's the weather
    Me:th..thank you

    • @meiguess3788
      @meiguess3788 Před 5 lety +4

      Me.

    • @user-lq9sx3ol5p
      @user-lq9sx3ol5p Před 5 lety +5

      This was a meme

    • @whataboutbob5987
      @whataboutbob5987 Před 5 lety +3

      Wow this channel is active this was made like 2 years ago and u already have this many likes

    • @francescopremsolidoro3858
      @francescopremsolidoro3858 Před 5 lety +1

      100% accurate

    • @Bonnie-zi9wp
      @Bonnie-zi9wp Před 5 lety +14

      Ya wanna know something stupid I did. My crush told me she liked me and guess what I did, I panicked and said that I didn't like her back.

  • @THECOMMUNISTCHANNEL
    @THECOMMUNISTCHANNEL Před 3 lety +5820

    friEND
    boyfriEND
    girlfriEND
    Comrade
    *Only COMRADE has no END*

  • @Shortfaraway
    @Shortfaraway Před 7 měsíci +18

    this aged well

  • @Littlemarshalartist
    @Littlemarshalartist Před měsícem +6

    Jaiden is a savage bro 'he's gay'

  • @jerryfarber6774
    @jerryfarber6774 Před 3 lety +3134

    "l have a girlfriend"
    "Me too"
    Now I'm confused who really IS gay

    • @harrykane1401
      @harrykane1401 Před 3 lety +34

      rice consuming sociopath I have had 2 girlfriends

    • @cordeliajackson8615
      @cordeliajackson8615 Před 3 lety +108

      I’m pretty sure Jaiden’s pan and she mentioned it in a video. Just can’t remember which one.

    • @jerryfarber6774
      @jerryfarber6774 Před 3 lety +16

      @@cordeliajackson8615 really?

    • @themaskedmaxxi
      @themaskedmaxxi Před 3 lety +27

      Me. Well biromantic asexual

    • @harrykane1401
      @harrykane1401 Před 3 lety +1

      ajay che we already have

  • @person-mz3lx
    @person-mz3lx Před 3 lety +2618

    "hi!"
    "I have a girlfriend-"
    "Oh! me too!"
    **lesbian confusion**

  • @AlgorithmDG
    @AlgorithmDG Před rokem +19

    Looking back you can really see why this seemed so weird at the time. Like she didn't understand why you don't want to be around the person who rejected you. . . Obviously it hurts too much to be around them but she had absolutely no idea how any of it feels.

  • @dariadaniellemusic
    @dariadaniellemusic Před rokem +29

    My 12-year-old self, being asexual and lithoromantic without knowing it, related so hard to this video. Jaiden's video about being aroace came out (no pun intended) right as I was realizing that I was ace and arospec. The timing was just... *chef's kiss*

    • @Wumpsky
      @Wumpsky Před rokem

      shut up no one cares

    • @pandaperson1934
      @pandaperson1934 Před 6 měsíci

      How are you asesexual if you can't even do that yet

  • @Cyclingturnip29
    @Cyclingturnip29 Před 2 lety +4992

    “I don’t think I’ve ever flirted in my entire life”
    Hindsight really is 20/20

    • @ethandurkin291
      @ethandurkin291 Před 2 lety +33

      @vary helpful there talking about how hindsight has 20/20 vision not the year 2020

    • @Bluzigo
      @Bluzigo Před rokem +27

      Do people really flirt that much? To the point where flirting never even once would make one seem obviously ace? Uhhh… asking for a friend

    • @17_Biskitz
      @17_Biskitz Před rokem +2

      @@Bluzigo I wouldn’t say obviously ace or aro, but yea us romantic people do flirt quite a lot

    • @Bluzigo
      @Bluzigo Před rokem +7

      @@17_Biskitz dam I’ve never even felt a little compelled to flirt with anyone, I’ve always just thought I was uninterested with everyone. Idk I’m barely an adult so I’ll see I guess

    • @EmeraldCrafts130
      @EmeraldCrafts130 Před rokem +9

      Me. Apparently, just talking to someone is considering flirting. What?! I’m just talking to them, that makes no sense.

  • @1AMdoesSomething
    @1AMdoesSomething Před 4 lety +4833

    Jaiden: He’s gay
    JK Rowling: Finally a worthy opponent

  • @justmagdalenadownhere
    @justmagdalenadownhere Před rokem +14

    Tip for first dates: NEVER go to see a movie, unless your idea of romance involves sitting in a room where nobody is supposed to talk. Similarly, don't go to places where you have to split your attention, like to a sports game or a show of some kind. Save those for later dates, when you've bonded more and can create meaningful, relevant dialogue based on shared interests or intellectual capacity. But NEVER the first date.
    You want the first date to be tentative, but not hesitant. Nothing too intimate, but nothing completely impersonal, either. Something where there's a chance for you to get to know one another and create a bond without too many outside distractions. Dates that involve achieving a goal together are awesome ideas, because it creates a shared experience and more room for connection.
    I'm not an expert on dating, nor am I even in a relationship, but some of the worst first dates I've ever been on have always involved not being able to pay attention to the person I'm with. Likewise, some of the best dates I've ever been on were ones where we had to do something together. Best date I've ever been on was helping a friend of a friend find her lost cat (we found it in the end).

  • @eatsleepdie1682
    @eatsleepdie1682 Před 2 lety +17

    Me back in 2016 relating to Jaiden so much:
    Me in 2022, also freshly out the closet relating to Jaiden so much:

  • @twopoles11
    @twopoles11 Před 5 lety +15343

    Me: I lost my number, can I have yours?
    Crush: Sure.
    Me: And my phone.
    Crush: Wha-
    Me: And my wallet, this is a robbery.

    • @nonamechanel2296
      @nonamechanel2296 Před 5 lety +612

      First me
      me: wow this guy no how to flirt
      second me
      me: wat?
      third me
      me: oh wow

    • @rachelwagner4434
      @rachelwagner4434 Před 5 lety +187

      Lol there should be a rule about this comment but there isn't because it's so RaNdOm 🤣

    • @gayfurry5287
      @gayfurry5287 Před 5 lety +251

      Crush: hey are you a bank
      me: yeah why
      Crush: leave me a loan

    • @trycardkek4789
      @trycardkek4789 Před 4 lety +192

      Random Girl: What’s your name?
      Me: Robbin.
      Girl: And your Family-Name?
      Me: Ya
      She: Is this Chinese?
      Me: No, I’m fkng robbing ya, bitch!

    • @saldarriagafam
      @saldarriagafam Před 4 lety +59

      (Triggering sound enters the room) FBI OPEN UP

  • @rl9217
    @rl9217 Před 2 lety +8237

    It’s funny how things played out, glad she figured herself out. Lot of respect and support towards her after the latest video.

    • @artfulchaos2061
      @artfulchaos2061 Před 2 lety +31

      YASS

    • @inseptus712
      @inseptus712 Před 2 lety +97

      I was imagining this video might spike in views after the most recent one. Full support to her!

    • @lydia2776
      @lydia2776 Před 2 lety +42

      I watched this video like two months ago, and I couldn’t help but notice... maybe? Glad my hunch came true!

    • @donaldoconner
      @donaldoconner Před 2 lety +29

      It seems so obvious in hindsight but hindsight is 2020

    • @inseptus712
      @inseptus712 Před 2 lety +91

      @Rayyan khan She's not lost, she's figuring out what she actually wants, and understanding herself better. Being aroace is completely valid.

  • @scheimaa172
    @scheimaa172 Před 2 lety +17

    Now i know why she was so relatable. She was a fellow aro/ace all along.
    And considering that just yesterday i very awkwardly rejected the first guy who asked me if i could be his girlfriend, getting this video recommended seems like fate.

  • @Sa-wn3qj
    @Sa-wn3qj Před rokem +92

    People don't have to stop shipping Jaiden and James... they NEED to stop shipping Jaiden and James and... James has a girlfriend, and these are real people.

  • @dolfindog7971
    @dolfindog7971 Před 4 lety +665

    “How long have you been together?”
    “He’s gay.”
    👏

    • @mags_loves_gacha7844
      @mags_loves_gacha7844 Před 4 lety +6

      Yeah smooooooottthhhhh afffffff

    • @thesealgamer5372
      @thesealgamer5372 Před 4 lety +2

      Bruh seal as the picture

    • @natasha-ut7si
      @natasha-ut7si Před 4 lety

      Derpy Flurp-
      😂😂😂 nice comment!
      Also I LOVE your profile pic!!!

    • @isolemnlysweariamuptonogoo3350
      @isolemnlysweariamuptonogoo3350 Před 4 lety +3

      I CAN USE THIS. Perks of being pansexual and preferring girls am I rite XD

    • @kaitlyntempel7393
      @kaitlyntempel7393 Před 4 lety +6

      I can’t say “Bi perks!“ because i’m a girl and i like a guy but i’m still Bi but i wan’t a short hair style, but my friend doesn't think i would look good in it but i can’t get ig rn cause of cOroNaViRuS.

  • @randomnoob4231
    @randomnoob4231 Před 4 lety +815

    “Aww relationship goals”
    “He’s gay”
    I’m dead XD

  • @boozeey
    @boozeey Před 2 lety +15

    so funny how i related so much to jaiden, then for me to realize years later that's it's because we're both ace

  • @lendraym5829
    @lendraym5829 Před rokem +12

    This hits different now...glad she's out.
    Also
    ✨***Slay***✨

  • @rideabike979
    @rideabike979 Před 4 lety +2208

    Jaiden: hey there
    Guy: I have a girlfriend
    Jaiden: Oh my god same
    Jaiden's mind: *oh shi-*

  • @melzie3526
    @melzie3526 Před 7 lety +869

    "He's gay"
    Wow Jaiden you just did a switch of awkwardness on them. XD

    • @toxiccatgamer7234
      @toxiccatgamer7234 Před 7 lety +3

      Melzie I DIED AT THAT PART XD

    • @melzie3526
      @melzie3526 Před 7 lety +3

      ToxicCat Gamer lol me too XD genius response, I thought she wouldn't know what to say

    • @toxiccatgamer7234
      @toxiccatgamer7234 Před 7 lety +2

      Melzie I would just be like, "yup been together for two years" XD

    • @melzie3526
      @melzie3526 Před 7 lety +2

      ToxicCat Gamer then your friend just looks at you like *oooookayyy* d:

    • @toxiccatgamer7234
      @toxiccatgamer7234 Před 7 lety

      Melzie Whatever I could explain to him later XD

  • @yeet6356
    @yeet6356 Před rokem +21

    0:37
    It was at this moment when Jaiden knew, she messed up.

  • @A_Lego_Shoe
    @A_Lego_Shoe Před měsícem +6

    Bruh old Jaden doesn't even know
    🟧🟨⬜️🟦⬛️

  • @carlacruz7104
    @carlacruz7104 Před 5 lety +1490

    How long have you been together?
    Oh...... He's gay
    Oh crap 😂

    • @thewanderer332
      @thewanderer332 Před 5 lety +9

      Hey are you guys together
      Um he gay and cheated on me so bye now

    • @imeldakurniadi6085
      @imeldakurniadi6085 Před 5 lety +4

      cRiNgE aAaAaA

    • @zkirven
      @zkirven Před 4 lety

      W E L P

    • @themato35
      @themato35 Před 4 lety +4

      @Chuheng Wen what if he was actually gay?

    • @Onetypemichelle
      @Onetypemichelle Před 4 lety

      Jaiden) he's gay. (the guys) ....🙁 ( your friend ) ( whispers) kill me 😭😭😭😭

  • @bobek07
    @bobek07 Před 6 lety +1697

    That awkward silence and then Jaiden just randomly say “uuuuuhhhh he’s gay” XD i died

  • @GlitterGalaxies
    @GlitterGalaxies Před rokem +7

    1:04
    "who even are you?"
    AN AROACE POTATO--

  • @StaryIris
    @StaryIris Před 16 dny +4

    It's so silly looking back at this, knowing she's aroace XD
    (I'm also aroace, and it's nice to see that there is someone else struggling to understand what the hell is going on when the mood turns romantic)

  • @jodii.6
    @jodii.6 Před 3 lety +1714

    The only date i have is on a calendar.

  • @ghikira
    @ghikira Před 3 lety +2260

    remember, you can't get friend zoned, if you aren't' even friends.

  • @nuhaluvsyou
    @nuhaluvsyou Před 5 měsíci +3

    “i peer pressured myself without any peers” oh god

  • @EmmaVIL
    @EmmaVIL Před 9 měsíci +4

    "He's gay"
    ...
    "We messed up-"
    Best line ever😆

  • @magicalunicorn1296
    @magicalunicorn1296 Před 5 lety +5531

    Hey, will you hold something for me
    *MY HAND*

  • @Sir_BadAss
    @Sir_BadAss Před 4 lety +1379

    "I peer pressured myself without any peers": Me in a nutshell.

  • @Sauce_0
    @Sauce_0 Před rokem +9

    My friends: "Wow, you're good at flirting."
    Me: "How the frick do I flirt?!"

  • @portalwake9762
    @portalwake9762 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I know this was from 2016 but it came up in my feed for some reason. Really cool and funny animation/story! I bet my data is being collected somehow because it's related to an experience I've recently had that I want to share.
    At college, there is a girl I really like. I mean, I don't really know whether my feelings have died down but I do know it was initially just a slight attraction but it just kept growing and growing... It felt AMAZING! This crush was unlike any other. I was initially attracted because of her looks but eventually I started to like her as a person. She isn't the kind of girl I was looking for but she's the kind of girl I never knew I needed. She was perfect. She's literally an Angel. Really mature, kind, funny, supportive, friendly, compassionate, empathetic and humble. I loved being around her and talking to her, even though it was mainly on Snapchat. Literally the best part of my day, we got on so well! Eventually the feelings became so overpowering I told her how I felt. I told her everything. She told me I'm an amazing person but she has her heart set on someone else and she thought we could just be friends. I'm bringing this up because you're right, you shouldn't hide your feelings, just tell them! Before I told her I liked her I gave her compliments to make her feel good and sort of insinuate how I felt, even if she didn't pick it up 😂
    I've been feeling quite depressed as a result because the feelings were out of this world, I can't stop thinking about her. But I just want to say to anyone going through a similar situation, time is a healer and eventually you will start to accept it. Don't bombard whoever you like or overwhelm them, just give them some space to process how you feel depending on how they act around you, or just talk to them as if you are friends if you want to keep the friendship. Again, if you have strong feelings for someone, just tell them everything! How you feel when you're around them, what you like about them! It's better than not knowing when something special could spark!

  • @letmepukeinyourmouth8520
    @letmepukeinyourmouth8520 Před 5 lety +1078

    "I peer pressured myself without any peers"
    STORY OF MY LIFE

    • @raeosunshine24
      @raeosunshine24 Před 5 lety +1

      TheGuyWhoLikesMusicals hey i like your icon + username wow

    • @colehd_
      @colehd_ Před 5 lety +1

      I read this comment right as she said it in the video XD lmao

    • @andreblackaller3560
      @andreblackaller3560 Před 5 lety +1

      TheGuyWhoLikesMusicals dude all of us 😂

    • @mikeyluffy5083
      @mikeyluffy5083 Před 5 lety +1

      The story of my life to biring you home i thing i did this rong this is asong

    • @grenbrug5376
      @grenbrug5376 Před 5 lety +1

      @@mikeyluffy5083 I was thinkin about that💀

  • @Pikatoshiii
    @Pikatoshiii Před 2 lety +8748

    When someone asks“ how long are you guys in a relationship”
    Everyone- we are just friends
    Jaiden- he is gay

  • @songsforbunnies7704
    @songsforbunnies7704 Před rokem +4

    1:56 well now it totally makes sense as to why she wouldn't understand that

  • @originalname241
    @originalname241 Před rokem +6

    I love how I saw this video years ago and was like "omg that's such a mood!!!" and then cut to Jaiden coming out as aroace literally like three months after I did LMAO. Real nice foreshadowing here, that this was one of the few flirting videos I could relate to.....

  • @stuff5757
    @stuff5757 Před 4 lety +2713

    Stranger:So how long have you been together?
    Jaiden:He's gay
    Stranger:I've made a mistake
    Jaiden's Friend Internally:But I'm straight

  • @skzcoffeemachine
    @skzcoffeemachine Před 5 lety +491

    "I peer pressured myself without any peers" this is so me!😂😂 I ain't proud about it😪😪😪😪🙀

  • @Blueskies2513
    @Blueskies2513 Před rokem +4

    4:06 THAT GUY HAS IMMACULATE RIZZ

  • @thethinker4330
    @thethinker4330 Před měsícem +4

    We didn’t know it at the time, but this was attack on titan level foreshadowing 💀

  • @rena3703
    @rena3703 Před 6 lety +427

    *“I peer pressured myself without any peers”*

  • @jaidenillness
    @jaidenillness Před 5 lety +1736

    Me: **sees crush**
    *1 month later*
    Teacher: **moves me next to my crush*
    Brain: *U M M*

  • @magioo3090
    @magioo3090 Před rokem +11

    dont worry you werent the only one who got confused on why people wont just stay friends if they get rejected- (aroace moment)

    • @dogear83
      @dogear83 Před rokem +4

      YES BRO I ALWAYS ASSUMED CRUSHES WERE LIKE AN ULTIMATE BEST FRIEND AND I JUST DIDNT WANT ONE 🤷‍♀️

  • @lordofthunder4065
    @lordofthunder4065 Před rokem +2

    2:08. Logically I understand why this happens, but also I very much agree with Jaiden here.

  • @a.k.ajulia701
    @a.k.ajulia701 Před 5 lety +1645

    Me: are you single?
    Girl: yeah, why?
    Me:
    *Metoowehavesomuchincommonohmygodpleaseloveme-*

  • @SgtAbramovich
    @SgtAbramovich Před 4 lety +1125

    "3 yea-"
    "*HE'S GAY*"
    pause
    "I guess I'm gay"

  • @ErrorProductions404
    @ErrorProductions404 Před 9 dny +3

    "I have a girlfriend"
    Jaiden: OMG ME TOO!
    Wait what? 🤨

  • @adb_2k8
    @adb_2k8 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This aged better than honey

  • @iwannasleepgaud4497
    @iwannasleepgaud4497 Před 4 lety +1530

    My crush: Soooo whats your favorite food?
    Me: yOU-
    my mind: HOLY SHI-

    • @bachlamtung5131
      @bachlamtung5131 Před 4 lety +39

      also me: -gurt

    • @IrvingIV
      @IrvingIV Před 4 lety +21

      The best lines come with no forethought, just verbal barfing.

    • @raphyplayz2.021
      @raphyplayz2.021 Před 4 lety +7

      Lol hahahahaha!!

    • @laval0910
      @laval0910 Před 3 lety +23

      I once saw this text history:
      A:what you doing
      B:work(failed to deliver this message)
      B: you?
      A: hmmm i like where this is going

    • @poopoo3145
      @poopoo3145 Před 3 lety +3

      Brain: . . . WAIT FU-

  • @peach_tea0
    @peach_tea0 Před 2 lety +3429

    This all makes so much more sense with her newest video. Really puts these experiences into perspective

    • @Rended_
      @Rended_ Před 2 lety +13

      I want to reply to this comment but idk what to say so... hi i guess? lol

    • @peach_tea0
      @peach_tea0 Před 2 lety +15

      @@Rended_ lol hi

    • @aubrey6970
      @aubrey6970 Před 2 lety +25

      @@Rended_ yeah it does make sense. I don’t understand why people are so mad about Jaiden being aromatic

    • @desconhecido5329
      @desconhecido5329 Před 2 lety +6

      @@aubrey6970 thinking more about, this a little arofobic

    • @zay_gzs5635
      @zay_gzs5635 Před 2 lety +2

      @@aubrey6970 what happened?

  • @wynnstantam
    @wynnstantam Před 2 měsíci +3

    0:32
    "hey there"
    "I have a girl friend"
    "Oh cool sameeee we have so much in common"
    *Wait*

  • @philipparagase6456
    @philipparagase6456 Před 2 lety +4

    see, this is what we call foreshadowing

  • @darknesseker
    @darknesseker Před 2 lety +5882

    Yeah....I can beat the last one. Easily.
    I'm a guy and I was hanging out with someone at the mall when we were teens. On our way there, a clown appeared out of nowhere, grabbed my hand, looked at it and exclaimed loudly: "I CAN SEE YOUR FUTURE. And you're gonna be together for a looooong time." And he was SO happy and proud of himself.
    We were both stunned for a couple of seconds and then:
    Her: "I'm his sister."
    Me: "And I'm gay."
    The guy just was devastated and just muttered "Oh...ok" and left.

    • @barbaregabellia7915
      @barbaregabellia7915 Před 2 lety +788

      Oh no 🤣 I kinda feel bad for the clown tho 😭🥲

    • @uni5396.
      @uni5396. Před 2 lety +381

      home sweet Alabama.

    • @darknesseker
      @darknesseker Před 2 lety +495

      @@barbaregabellia7915 We did too, tbh.
      But it was still such a bizarre situation that we couldn't help but laugh

    • @owyemen9367
      @owyemen9367 Před 2 lety +246

      I mean maybe by together he didn't mean dating he's technically right

    • @darknesseker
      @darknesseker Před 2 lety +299

      @@owyemen9367 it's a translation thing. In my original language the word he used means romance. 🤷🏻‍♂️😂

  • @CrayRazy
    @CrayRazy Před 7 lety +2004

    Hi Jaiden, i ugh... i like your voice. (oh my god i actually did it)

  • @amayao601
    @amayao601 Před 8 měsíci +4

    The best forshadowing in the world

  • @deepbluesea7623
    @deepbluesea7623 Před rokem +4

    “I don’t think I’ve flirted in my entire life”
    -“Sometimes foreshadowing is relatively obvious”

  • @corfieldthegreatestofalltime
    @corfieldthegreatestofalltime Před 3 lety +5314

    Jaiden is basically my online therapist

  • @puregore6634
    @puregore6634 Před 6 lety +585

    “Peer pressured myself without any peers” why is this me? 😂

  • @AdonBelivit
    @AdonBelivit Před rokem +2

    "He's gay" I started laughing so hard like
    ✨ _plot twist_ ✨

  • @Mockingjay975
    @Mockingjay975 Před rokem +21

    Jaiden is an aroace legend! I'm glad you ended up figuring yourself out, Jaiden.

  • @domproductions7689
    @domproductions7689 Před 4 lety +563

    0:04 *rare footage of the wild jaiden, displaying it's mating call.*
    *and as you can see at **4:21**, it shows it's rare mating dance.*

  • @OranIsGone
    @OranIsGone Před 7 lety +445

    "So, how long have you two been together?"
    "He's gay."
    WHAT A TWIST!

  • @PoisonFlower765
    @PoisonFlower765 Před 2 lety +3

    "Don't watch it" she said.
    "What was that?" the masses replied.

  • @smol_fries
    @smol_fries Před rokem +2

    “he’s gay” made me laugh so much

  • @latifecho888
    @latifecho888 Před 3 lety +1211

    Random Stranger: So how long have you been together?
    Jaiden: *He’s gay*

    • @ammanraikar4050
      @ammanraikar4050 Před 3 lety +12

      Oh no.. it's at 69 likes already.. I guess I can't like this message then

    • @mycatcoco2603
      @mycatcoco2603 Před 3 lety +8

      *Seinfeld theme plays*

    • @Annie-df9ky
      @Annie-df9ky Před 3 lety +4

      Uhm.... He's gay

    • @bonbon7335
      @bonbon7335 Před 3 lety +7

      AND THAT'S WHY YOU MIND YOUR OWN FACKING BUSINESS

    • @Biterz
      @Biterz Před 3 lety +3

      Lmao ikr

  • @Rhoran
    @Rhoran Před 2 lety +1901

    I bet this is getting a lot more views now that "Being Not Straight" is out.

    • @diamond_chaos
      @diamond_chaos Před 2 lety +32

      Well now I feel called out as after the video I’m bloody confused with myself

    • @digamejh
      @digamejh Před 2 lety +5

      I'm here.

    • @marvelouschester3018
      @marvelouschester3018 Před 2 lety +29

      Yes and this video still holds up to her being aroace. She just didn't realize it yet.

    • @somebodylikesbacon1960
      @somebodylikesbacon1960 Před 2 lety +5

      @@diamond_chaos same, although I'm becoming more certain about being aroace

    • @eliotoole4534
      @eliotoole4534 Před rokem +2

      Correct
      -AAA battery (any/all)

  • @Thebigestturtlejofan
    @Thebigestturtlejofan Před 28 dny +2

    This had me laughing so hard I almost peed