Having tea with a stranger…
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- čas přidán 20. 09. 2023
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Let me know your thoughts on this series!... and if you want to see more of it on my channel? I love you all
Yess this series is great!! Like all your work/art it manages to capture the essence of being human and it's SO beautiful to see.
Thanks for sharing this Thoraya and I think I say it in behalf of ll your viewers when I thank you for getting an assurance that Ty will be ok, thanks for listening to him and hopefully he'll find peace within himself and self-reconnection soon ❤
I absolutely love this series. Please have more wonderful conversations. Each video you make restores a little bit of my faith in humanity. 🙏🏻
This was beyond beautiful, you’re a real life angel blessing people everywhere! Ty is so special I hope he knows that deep down!
i loove these tea drinking convos a lottt. I also love episodes where strangers can't see each other and talk to each other. i literally love everything you create Thoraya
You gotta really big nose 🔥 ayy shout out to my big nose people. (Pretty much all black people and a good percentage of Mexicans)
I hope that we, as a society, can get to a point where interactions like this happen all the time and naturally.
Yeah, I wonder if we can get back to it. I used to have real conversations like this with perfect strangers riding trains. Then smartphones came along.
@@eva-wSo true!!! It’d be amazing to be able to normalize these kinds of unique experiences
I think we just have to normalize it individually, societal change happens through individual action leading to bigger change - but agreed. We can all start connecting more starting today !
To be honest, you still can do that perfectly fine. Had so many good talks within the past 2 years with strangers during train rides.@@eva-w
I actually had a conversation like this with someone on a train 5 or 6 years back now so it can still happen!
Having tea with a stranger lets you open your heart and mind to somebody else without having to be ashamed and humiliated for it. It must've truly been a humbling experience for you.
He seems so intelligent. Like he seems like someone who thinks he’s got a lot to learn, but in reality he already has so much he could teach others. It makes me glad to think he exists out there somewhere
holy shit this guy is so likeable, two beautiful souls talking, the universe delivers people as messengers and this was a huge one for myself. breath taking video.. when thoraya said "i guess iwant some reassurance that youll be okay" wow
👋 Pixie, hello friend!
I couldn’t agree more, you worded it perfectly. 👏💯
One thing tho…. Can I get some reassurance that you’ll be okay? ♾️🩵
that kid breaks my heart. he joined the military when he realized that it isn't for him AND he lost his creativity?!?!? I wish him well, there's a bright future ahead for sure. he got this!
It got to me at the end, when Ty didn't really want the interaction to stop. He's gonna be okay, he just needs to learn that happiness is something you choose right now, not something you have to find in the horizon.
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As someone who has been through trauma and has trust issues and basically feels like everyone is potentially a threat, it's so nice to see people hold space for eachother in conversation and just have it be gentle, real and normal. Surviving narcissistic abuse changes the way you see others and the world, it's just nice to see two people respecting eachother and be kind. I know it's sad to see that as a miracle, but it is to me. It's the simple things like that that give me hope again!
As a fellow survivor of narc abuse, I feel everything you shared here. ❤ I’m working to see myself through absolute compassion, while also stretching myself one tiny step at a time, as if I were in physical therapy, to heal and trust again.
"i didnt think i'd get this far" - i think i've felt like this for as long as i can remember.
The "how are you doing REALLY?" already hit me. Opening up is so essential and wholesome.❤
He's so pure an empath. I hope his life is filled full of happiness.
He genuinely seems like a nice young man. Hope he achieves his goals and becomes successful in whatever he does.
Ty, I can tell from this interaction that you are genuine, kind, attentive to your environment and others. Also, being emotional doesn't mean you're weak. You have strenght in you that I hope you will see more
The creative part in my brain just went on vacation and never came home.
I think, young fella's mind is lying to him. Mine lies too. He thinks he is less handsome, but he looks beautiful. He thinks he doesn't know his partner as well as they know him, but he seems insightful to their feelings. He thinks his creativity is gone, yet he is noticing art and aesthetic all around him. He is in a holding pattern right now while his mind adjusts, but I really believe there will be so much beauty coming up for him.
The first guy has a beautiful soul. I felt everything he said and I feel like he’s learned what it’s like to be a grownup and it’s sad and hard he’s doing great and I hope military helps him
The second dude was pretty quiet though 🤔
@@hyperspacejester7377 and he's invisible too
@hyperspacejester 😂😂
Wait how was the first reply to this 5 hours ago and yet the OP’s comment was 4 hours ago?? What the heck lol
But I completely agree, Ty is a very authentic, humble and creative soul who I wish the best for in everything he does and I hope he’s able to find ways to help his mindset/express his emotions in some form even while on break time in the military or something like that because mental health is tough and I really related to his story tbh
Thank you for blessing our lives and sharing a part of your story, Ty 🖤
@@hyperspacejester7377 what second dude? it was the same guy the whole time...
The part about Pokémon was DEEP!
Your concept and content are more and more intimate and personal , you feel , sound and look like a safe place for all people with all their differences , backgrounds and pain . Keep going with that amazing work beautiful soul ❤
Sharing a cup of tea with a fascinating stranger is one of life’s true delights
He really does sound genuine and I hope he finds what makes him happy
These videos give me faith in humanity ❤
When we feel flat and can’t access our joy, that can be depression. I hope you find family in the military and can access your creativity again, however that looks for you. And even more I hope you stay safe. Also, you are beautiful!
words can’t describe how much i love ur channel
She is such a Humanitarian. There’s a sadness about (then again that could just be me) . I pray SHE, really feels at peace.❤️
Your content is so refreshing! I hope this young man finds his creativity again. The pandemic made a lot of us feel “flat” and I hope that he can find fulfillment again. It’s okay to embrace life, it was never guaranteed to anyone and it’s recommended to find what lights up your soul with joy regardless of what that may be. Thoraya, thanks for your wonderful work❤
When the bird got the cracker ~ definitely a metaphor for us believing in ourselves!😅 Ty was honestly so refreshing to listen to, what a golden and considerate heart 💛 This may be a difficult time in his life yet with a heart like that I am certain he has good days ahead
2 beautiful humans just having a beautiful conversation. Thank you for sharing and for being vulnerable Ty
I relate so much except I was feeling this way closer to 25 than 20. Sometimes in life you just have to make a decision and see where it takes you. I hope your military career leads you to finding more peace in your life (somehow). Also, I think it's important to know that sometimes our purpose in life is to just be a decent human. That's okay. We don't all need to do grand things. It's okay to just be.
Hey 👋🏾 I’m 25 now, almost 26 & I just wanna encourage you to keep going. There was a shift for me and I spoke to one of my other friends about it (same thing happened with her) and our mind just seemed to change and start sorting things out a bit better. You deserve spaces you can be vulnerable and happy, I hope you find them 💙
I love what you’re saying about life’s purpose. ”… to just be a decent human” Beautiful! 💗
I’d say to this young man, he doesn’t have to figure it all at once. Life is a journey. It’s seems he feels like he has to have all the answers, now. Or know where he’s supposed to be in life. I hope he embraces getting to know himself better. Appreciate the kind and thoughtful man he is becoming . Hope him much luck in his future pursuits. Hope he finds his direction also realizes that he brings true value to the world.
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Damn that was sweet an honest as hell.
And unfortunately I know exactly how he feels because I've been there.
I don't want to throw in some empty platitudes like "Things always get better" because sometimes they don't but they did for me even tho it took a HELL OF ALONG TIME to get there and it happened in the weirdest unexpected way and honestly in a point in my life where I thought I was done, and now I'm happy for the first time ever.
I sincerely hope the same for Ty maybe in bit more speedy manner than for me. 😅
And honestly I think the answer to why you two met was because he needed to.
This series and strangers meet each other without seeing each other are my favorites!
I LOVE your Tea with Strangers videos!
What a well-spoken, thoughtful young man.
As someone who grew up in the military, I think he will do well. Thank you for your service! 🇺🇸
Sad though to see one more young black man without his father in his life. Step up, dads!
the bird flying away was literally meant to show him that hope is real. and to never give up.
I'm 54. I remember the restlessness of being a younger person. You struggle to find peace with yourself. You struggle to find your place in the world. You tend to amplify your failures in your mind.
You do eventually acclimate. You forgive yourself for your shortcomings. You stop expecting the 'big lottery wins' and focus on the small miracles. You learn to accept love without suspicion. You give love without the expectation of reciprocation. You learn to be stronger than the obstacles in front of you. We all have something unique to offer the world. We all have the capacity to be someone's angel.
This is so reassuring to hear your point of view. I'm 20 so still learning these lessons. I really appreciate it so thanks for sharing. :)
I loved this chat, as someone living with anxiety/depression I can relate a lot to Ty's vibe especially w the struggle even contemplating what may happen for me in the future ❤
Ty... What a sweet soul. I love this interview and the honesty that poured out from each of you. LOVE to everyone who reads this.
I felt like the bird and cracker metaphor was perfect for this guy. He wants the whole cracker right now but the answer might be to capture little bits as you can and eventually those moments will build into a life at peace.
This young man really reminds me of someone no longer in my life and it’s tugging at my heart strings.
What a kind young man. Before he mentioned ADHD, I was thinking he needs to be tested and supported. The military may not be the right choice for him. 😊🤷🏻♀️
I can't believe I've been following Thoraya for five years!!!. As someone who appreciates deep conversations, I pray to meet you one day and a conversation of such.
To Ty: I wish you the best of luck in the military. I know things might seem bleak at the moment but just take it one day at a time and eventually, life will start to make sense. But also, don't forget to enjoy the little moments 'cause remember happiness is a journey, not a destination. Best of luck in the military and remember to always keep that beautiful smile on your face. I'm glad we met you.
Thank you for this video Thoraya!! God bless you. 😊
There is NO reason why this guy can't be ANYTHING he choses to be. He is great!!!!!!!! Be brave, be kind, be love.
I can't stress enough how much I yearn for these kind of connections. So many of our interactions (or at least my personal observations & experiences) are so shallow, surface-level. I find it dispiriting. There ARE people with whom connections and conversations like in this video are possible and develop quickly, but I find it so hard to sift through the masking, and the increased divides between different peer groups and our shortened attention spans make a daunting task even more difficult. Moments in time like the one here in this video are so valuable.
One of my favorite interviews so far that you have done. Ty is such a pure, sweet, and honest soul. I wanted to give him a hug. I pray that his future is bright and wish him all the best of luck with his future in the military and with his schooling.
This was a beautiful conversation! You seem like such a kind, honest and thoughtful person Ty and I really wish you all the best 💗
Why am I crying,being the only child has really messed up my social skills and confidence
This is such a lovely conversation ❣️ definitely was in a similar if not identical headspace as Ty in my early 20s (about to be 24). I really like Thoraya’s comment about your brain just needing to shut down for a while sometimes but essentially that’s all it is- a rest before rebooting. I just regained my creativity and passion in the past couple of months after some uncomfortable changes and big risks - I hope the same pans out for Ty, they seem like a beautiful soul ✨ but fyi tomatoes are glorious and I will not take tomato slander 🍅
He sounds just like my 20 year old daughter. This generation is very unique, they’ve survived a lot of trauma yet they have sensitive and caring hearts. I hope they find their own reasons to love life.
This is the most wholesome and honest conversation between two individuals and i loved every single second of it. I miss, truly miss, having chats like this. Need more like this
I struggle having and holding conversations,and your videos are helping me navigate social spaces,big ups❤😊
He is so beautiful inside and out. I loved listening to him and watching him fidget. He’s relatable in many ways, event though I’m 10y older than him.
Wishing Ty the best. Keep dreaming, keep having fun, and don’t let your inner child die.
Thank you both for sharing
I love this channel, so good for mental coping and just overall wholesome, makes us still see some good in humanity
You both are two amazing people. I'm his age and I struggle with very similar things as him, so hearing him talking about it calmed me down a little. We're all humans, we're all going through something and it'll get better for all of us. We just have to give it our all each day and try to enjoy each moment as much as possible.
Thank you both for this wonderful conversation.
Why am I crying rn??? He really just spoke my mind
It’s so nice to know that you exist to ask people how they really are. Nobody ever asks that question.
Loved this interview! Tye you’re going to add so much to the military! Your genuine nature and gentleness is a strength and is really needed in leadership. This interview also makes me miss NYC so much!
Having tea and a chat with Thoraya. Man. Hard to think of a better way to spend an afternoon.
Please please please do more of these, listening to the genuine and realness of this conversation is like a reflection of how I feel that I cannot express in words❤️
Damn, now I like tomatoes, lol.
Honesty is a refreshing balm and that's what Ty shares with his responses. I hope he looks at life as an adventure that can only be experienced through acceptance of the now... the present... life in real time. I wish him well. I wish him love. I wish him dreams come true.
i resonate with his energy so much, sending him love and I wish him a life of peace & abundance & happiness ❤
my heartt. this was beautiful and touching. wishing him the best. such a loving, gentle soul
You have a long journey ahead Ty! I really enjoyed this interview, it was as Thoraya said, refreshing and genuine.
I’m in awe of your ability to talk to anyone. Does it come naturally, or did you determine to do it and work at it?
That guy honestly seems so freaking nice! I wish I could meet someone with his energy one day💙✨
This guy ❤❤❤❤ I wish him all the love and luck in life and hope he finds his happiness. Such an amazing and kind soul!
By having a tea with stranger i didnt expect bubble tea lol :D
This is just pure ❤ I hope we get to see more of this series! I love your work! ❤❤
I love this and i love you two what you do, it makes me wanna break all my anxieties and try to connect with people.
I want all good things for this precious soul and you. Truly. Thank you. Life’s been rough. And to see good hearted people just gives me hope. Lots of hope. Thanks
This was wonderful. Tye is such a lovely human. I hope he is able to find peace in being.
Thank you, Thoraya, for all you do!!
Thoraya, I think you are a truly amazing person. How many people do this sort of thing? Ty was very forthcoming with you. You have something about you that makes it easy to be yourself. Bless you. I watch your videos often.
he needed that! beautiful
I appreciate these so much!! Please keep doing them!❤
I love this so much! ❤ you are both so genuine and cool ! I hope to see more of this content
I hope he gets to find himself, find his peace, what makes him happy and he finds his purporse. Love this series❤
He is so mature and well spoken. Great find for an interview and I hope you are able to keep in touch with him!
I admire your honestly and being so self-aware.
Also be kind to yourself💫
Very touching conversation! I liked how you said creativity comes in seasons. I need tell that myself more often. I could also very much relate to the point of not being able to help. In my opinion, just listening is the best help (of course, there are exceptions). Thank you for all you do, Thoraya.
I love this concept. Bless you Thoraya. Keep it up. 🙏🙏🙏
I really love this, and wish all the best for Ty ! It's a journey, not a race. And you can rediscover and remake yourself as many times at any point in your life.
It is cool to see his body language change from a closed posture and always fidgeting touching and rubbing himself (a subconscious response to being uncomfortable) to an open and looser/relaxed posture a little later in the video. And also seeing how he goes back to that action and response whenever she asks him an uncomfortable question
What a incredible beautiful soul he has, he gives me hope for the future!
I related to ty so much with what he was saying about adhd, it also feels like my brain is running all the time and I just want it to stop. adhd is also really hard in terms of burnout and I feel like maybe that’s why his creativity stopped. I feel like I get this a lot I’ll feel really good about how much momentum I have and I feel created and motivated and then I burn out and my brain flat lines and life feels really dull for a while. I really hope ur able to find peace and start to find out what things bring you joy again. Sending u the love ur story made me feel less alone, thankyou 💛
As someone who used to hate tomatoes, but now loves them, I can relate. Maybe one day I’ll feel the same about olives.
He’s such a cute, sweet soul. Protect him.
I love these videos so much thoraya, i wish more people in the world were like you :)
He is such a pure soul
A special person in a sad time in his life hopefully he finds a wonderful time in the future
Absolutely beautiful. Please do more
Perfect! Keep doing these please. Great idea !
he is so cute and has such a sweet soul
You know it'll be a good day when Thoraya posts a new video. You and your work are an inspiration! I'm thinking about doing what you do here in Germany. It's Soo interesting to talk to strangers. I'm learning something new everytime I watch one of your videos. It's's somehow comforting seeing other people struggle, too sometimes. Thank you Thoraya for your beautiful work!
Ja bitte mach das! Fänd ich nice
He is so precious ❤
Love this, inspire!
Creativcreativity is creative in the way its works
"Sharing tea with a fascinating stranger is one of life's true delights."
- Uncle Iroh -
Maybe Im just old and jaded but aww Ty! You so cute and pure and give me hope for young people. Thanks for signing up for the military too! Stay safe!
This was awesome to watch man, thank you Thoraya 💛 would love to see more of these!
Yay. Love the series. Keep ‘em coming. Best wishes to Ty. Side note, I hope the stoop wasn’t too dirty.
I’ve wanted to start CZcams/ vlogging stuff again. Content like this makes me happy! It’s more than just surface level or challenges. I feel like I also need to find peace like he says at 8:00. I want to be able to be myself but also make a difference and so this stuff speaks to me. Thank you for all of your videos because they mean a lot to many of us! ❤
I love these the most from your channel ❤
He’s very sweet and loved❤️❤️I loved him
He actually did so good, he seems very sweet ❤️ Loved this video
Your videos always manage to make me smile and have hope for humanity before even watching them