The Future of Happiness: Getting Unstuck in the Digital Era | Amy Blankson | TEDxBYU

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  • It’s easy to get stuck thinking that the challenges of the digital era are so big that there’s nothing we can do about them. Building on principles of positive psychology, Amy Blankson confronts our “tech-victim” mentality and arms listeners with tools to fight back at the attention economy of likes and social media self-promotion. Playful yet poignant, her presentation challenges us to promote a future of digital well-being by cashing in now on our own ATMs for positive change. Amy Blankson is the author of the bestselling book The Future of Happiness and a co-founder the Digital Wellness Collective, a forward-thinking global group of educators, mental health practitioners, software developers, and champions of tech for good working to enhance human relationships through the intentional use and development of technology. Blankson contributes regularly to Forbes, is a member of the UN Global Happiness Council, and serves as a fellow of the World Innovation Organization. She is the only person to receive a Point of Light from two US presidents. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 131

  • @titlespree
    @titlespree Před 5 lety +137

    Technology can only make our lives better if we are able to develop self control.

  • @sankran350
    @sankran350 Před 5 lety +153

    1.The pain of mind is worst than pain of body
    2.Excellence is not being the best, it's doing your best.
    3.Failure isn't the opposite of success ,but part of success
    4.There is no way to become a perfect person but there are a million ways to become a good one.
    5.Any good apology has three parts:
    1-I am sorry
    2- It is my fault
    3-What can I do to make
    right?
    Most people forget the third part
    6.The depth of your struggle determines the height of your success.
    7.Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
    Thanks for reading

    • @sankran350
      @sankran350 Před 5 lety

      @ABD ALRAHMAN BOUZO Thanks

    • @oblivion9568
      @oblivion9568 Před 5 lety +1

      🤞👏👏

    • @sankran350
      @sankran350 Před 5 lety

      @@oblivion9568 thanks

    • @valentin7175
      @valentin7175 Před 5 lety +1

      wow I absolutely love the n°7 " don't cry because it is over, because it happened". Thank you for sharing this !

    • @_-HaKooNa.MaTaTa-
      @_-HaKooNa.MaTaTa- Před 5 lety +1

      thank you, means a lot.........

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 Před 5 lety +92

    "We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have." - Frederick Keonig

    • @emmawatson6582
      @emmawatson6582 Před 5 lety +3

      I just subscribed to your CZcams channel. :D

    • @TanvirAhmed24
      @TanvirAhmed24 Před 5 lety +2

      @@emmawatson6582 Wow! Thank you, Emma! Means a lot! :)

  • @AndyProctor
    @AndyProctor Před 5 lety +12

    “We are not victims of technology. We can control our future but it’s going to take being a little more thoughtful about our approach.”
    “Optimism is the belief that our behavior matters.”
    Awareness is important, but we can’t stop there or we will feel like victims. We need to know how we can change our behavior for the better - how do we use technology in a healthy way? And we need to magnify the good examples of those who have a healthy relationship with technology.
    “We are moving out of the age of information and into the age of imagination.” 65% of the jobs of the future don’t exist yet today.
    “Is technology distracting?
    Yes.
    Is technology consuming?
    Yes.
    Can technology be addicting?
    Yes.
    Is it worth it?
    Yes.”
    “Fear is a powerful motivator, but HOPE is a better one.”
    I loved this POWERFUL talk. Really resonates with me. We can all be more mindful about our use of technology so that it is worth it. Tech has changed my life for better and for worse, but becoming aware of my use of technology has helped decrease the downsides of tech use. I loved Amy’s book too. Keep spreading goodness in the world!

  • @ASWINALORA
    @ASWINALORA Před 5 lety +13

    10:12 Checking the phone at perfect time:)

  • @onelife9441
    @onelife9441 Před 5 lety +5

    Wow! So grateful for this AMAZING Talk!
    *The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.*
    *-STEVE JOBS*

  • @josephtoddinvesting586
    @josephtoddinvesting586 Před 5 lety +13

    This is so inspiring. I think context and perspective is the key to happiness. Anyone reading this should check out some of the established articles Amy has written for Forbes.

  • @ajeet3259
    @ajeet3259 Před 5 lety +12

    take a minute to read this
    `Soon the season of fruits like mango, jamun, jack fruit Etc will come. My request to all of us is kindly don't throw the seeds, wash them and pack n keep it in in ur car. Whenever you go out and find baren land while travelling, on a highway throw these seeds. They will germinate easily the coming monsoon. If with this act we can contribute even a single tree each to our world, our mission is successful. It wud b wonderful if all of us also join this and contribute back to our next generations world

  • @BiancaAguglia
    @BiancaAguglia Před 5 lety +2

    Such a great message.Many wise pieces of advice. I loved the part about the ATM worker and how "technology trapped him, but it was a human who helped him get out." 😊 It's good to hear messages like these. Thank you, Amy.

  • @themccorkells4398
    @themccorkells4398 Před 5 lety +3

    What an amazing public speaker! Definitely well said!

  • @dikshantkafle2095
    @dikshantkafle2095 Před 5 lety +1

    its been 20 days since i stopped using all social media except for youtube. in this 20 days i read 5 books and i am on the sixth, i am learning spanish, and i wrote my master thesis that hab been pending for 3 months.

  • @joelwidgins6329
    @joelwidgins6329 Před 5 lety

    Had to pause the inlet at 5:42 secs.. I am insoribly grateful for what you are teaching, Mrs Blankson🙏📿🙏

  • @BalikesirCicek
    @BalikesirCicek Před 5 lety

    Muhteşem konuşma için teşekkürler.

  • @axelpitt8461
    @axelpitt8461 Před 5 lety +1

    Tuve q ver el video 2 veces porque la primera vez me quede hipnotizado con la belleza de Amy.

  • @msultan5194
    @msultan5194 Před 5 lety +5

    The power of Artificial Intelligence algorithms are far more powerful than average people, especially if they are not warned & educated about what big tech companies are doing to their minds and what they are doing with their private information! And how it is being used against the best interests of average people 😯

  • @TheMamiClau
    @TheMamiClau Před 5 lety

    Aun siento el corazón alborotado por esta charla... Gracias gracias gracias!

  • @user-dh1dh2xb3n
    @user-dh1dh2xb3n Před 5 lety +2

    We are creator of our problem, then we are trying to resolve it. Instead using our consciousness for life.🍀

  • @melindadransfield2481
    @melindadransfield2481 Před 5 lety +2

    Congrats Amy. What an awesome Ted Talk! Such great stats that came out of the social media fast survey! So happy you could share this important message with the world. I love the new Maslow's Hierarchy - sadly it is true!

    • @AmyBlanksonspeaker
      @AmyBlanksonspeaker Před 5 lety +1

      Melinda Dransfield thank YOU! You helped bring this vision to life and I so appreciate your help making it possible.

  • @brandon3872
    @brandon3872 Před 5 lety +3

    The fact is, digital technology is only going to become more advanced and moreso a part of our lives in the future. Rather than trying to avoid it, we need to use it wisely, and not let it control our lives.

  • @bakhitaalhassan1742
    @bakhitaalhassan1742 Před 5 lety +1

    Awesome said thanks for inspiration

  • @rebeccaw9656
    @rebeccaw9656 Před 5 lety

    “We are moving out of the age of information, into the age of imagination”: this is so true!! Because imagination cannot be automated. Imagination writes programs. Imagination designs and invents. Imagination Manages.

  • @rickharold69
    @rickharold69 Před 5 lety

    Awesome! Human centered design is the way to go. Thanks for The talk.

  • @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
    @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Před 5 lety +2

    Interesting, thanks!

  • @raelbezerra
    @raelbezerra Před 3 lety

    Inspiring!

  • @guilhermethomaz4380
    @guilhermethomaz4380 Před 5 lety +2

    Very well centered and not radical way to perceive the effects technology has on us, if I were to give a suggestion, I would say: listen to the song "Cyber Stockholm Syndrome" by Rina Sawayama, it really matches the theme of this video

  • @tysonbramer
    @tysonbramer Před 4 lety +1

    I'm nodding my head in agreement the whole speech, watching on my phone. Oh, the irony.

  • @winterpark02
    @winterpark02 Před 5 lety

    👏 Very Inspiring and absolutely 100% truth . Mind can be molded if we set our mind to it. Worth sharing and to listen often to straighten our path and set our priorities. Thank you .

  • @francisdudero5022
    @francisdudero5022 Před 5 lety +4

    We simply don't know how to use it properly

  • @nicola-socialmediasuccess8687

    Very interesting and educational talk 💪🔥

  • @sparclemaniack
    @sparclemaniack Před rokem

    THIS WAS AWESOME

  • @richardpisano893
    @richardpisano893 Před 5 lety +1

    Like a future shock type thing...Take back our power wow the lady brings up a great point.....

  • @yupyoudontknowme6902
    @yupyoudontknowme6902 Před 5 lety +4

    Hello everyone

  • @IndianYoutubers
    @IndianYoutubers Před 5 lety

    This is so inspiring. I am also struck in the social media . I dont upload anything on it but i spent too much time on it . I use twitter more beacuse it provide current information. but anything in acess is a poison. So we need to be mindfulness rather use it whole day.

  • @barwaaniby999
    @barwaaniby999 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you for more

  • @sorencolfax381
    @sorencolfax381 Před 5 lety +6

    Ok, this is epic

  • @sawsanbellaj
    @sawsanbellaj Před 5 lety

    A great and inspiring talk. It will be great to use technology as a tool to make the world a better place.

  • @nondassteele7620
    @nondassteele7620 Před 5 lety +1

    Im unplugging back to my life that i had before before this addiction started...

  • @veekay5370
    @veekay5370 Před 5 lety +7

    I have been thinking about quitting social media for a while but the only thing that holds be back is that I think that I will be missing out on a lot. Anyone who has done it and can change my thought?

    • @sankran350
      @sankran350 Před 5 lety +4

      Firstly, use it for one hour
      Then 55 minutes.
      Then 50 minutes
      Then 45 minutes
      Then 40 minutes
      Then 35 minutes
      Then 30 minutes
      Then 25 minutes
      Then 20 minutes
      Then 15 minutes
      Then 10 minutes
      There is no problem about using social media for 10 minutes.

    • @letsgofishingene
      @letsgofishingene Před 5 lety +4

      I simply stopped using it. One of the best decisions I could have made for myself.

    • @tomhummel2641
      @tomhummel2641 Před 5 lety +3

      I'm checking social media once or twice every day. I'd rather talk to friends on the phone than sending messages. I do not expose my private life at all on social media, but I participate randomly in discussion groups about things things that are of special interest to me, not otherwise. I do not find it hard to leave it for days or weeks. This way I feel that I am in control of the technology and not the other way around.

    • @imaginaryfriend1891
      @imaginaryfriend1891 Před 5 lety +6

      I will recommend you to see video by Jay Shetty on FOMO.
      It's been 3 months I have left social media after 12 years. Recently, I logged in again on Instagram and I go through my posts which were great but I knew the intention and energy I put on them..it was not worth it. I simply deleted my account. Because everyone was posting same old stuff.
      I am no more addicted to it. Therefore I don't feel missing out anything.

    • @veekay5370
      @veekay5370 Před 5 lety

      @@imaginaryfriend1891 Thanks for your answer! Ill defenitly check out the video

  • @adzz21
    @adzz21 Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing

  • @DrewBreezy
    @DrewBreezy Před 5 lety +2

    The way people walk in a room and ask for the Wifi, I'm not surprised it made that list.

  • @forreal245
    @forreal245 Před 5 lety +1

    If I was younger I'd join an AMISH community or similar! Screw this "social media" world! Everyone with their heads bent down like "mules" over their cell phones texting, bumping into others, not joining family discussions/gatherings, phones ringing in restaurants, etc. so annoying.

  • @abdullatiffaqeeri6342
    @abdullatiffaqeeri6342 Před 5 lety

    really inspirational!

  • @karama2975
    @karama2975 Před 5 lety

    Thanks 😍

  • @Augustovitor1
    @Augustovitor1 Před 5 lety

    Loved it!

  • @archenema6792
    @archenema6792 Před 5 lety +6

    Happiness or unhappiness are choices. Choose as if your life depends on it.

    • @TyrenoI
      @TyrenoI Před 5 lety +1

      Absolutely correct!

  • @science5765
    @science5765 Před 5 lety

    I joined up with a whole lot of things, 16 years later I found I didn't need Facebook, linked in or Ancestry, now I have more spare time and less scammers

  • @JamesKovacic
    @JamesKovacic Před 5 lety +2

    Step One: Listen to OK Computer by Radiohead
    Step Two: Try not to cry
    Step Three: Cry a lot

  • @irmakartika6372
    @irmakartika6372 Před 5 lety +1

    It was so damn cool, thank youu

  • @LarryP248
    @LarryP248 Před 8 měsíci

    What insightful content! It reminds me of a book I read that provided life-altering wisdom. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze

  • @techsushant
    @techsushant Před 5 lety

    Really very nice👌👍

  • @ziad_jkhan
    @ziad_jkhan Před 5 lety

    I'd love to dig into the stats for those studies. Any sources anywhere?

  • @shenazpatel6150
    @shenazpatel6150 Před 5 lety +1

    It's not the future.. it's literally the present

  • @A-Pro100
    @A-Pro100 Před 5 lety

    Dubai represent!

  • @ParyatakParag
    @ParyatakParag Před 5 lety

    It would be a lot easier if kids get educated about using technology for their good in schools and they must know the pros and cons of anything and everything! It might help them in future..

  • @shabeerahmedsr
    @shabeerahmedsr Před 5 lety

    Please upload videos with English subtitle.

  • @mdsamaunkabir1101
    @mdsamaunkabir1101 Před 5 lety +1

    It's said that man has infinite appetite for distraction, and technology has promulgated and consolidated their appetite. Victimisation by technology is the fastest growing phenomenon .... nice delineation of the "tech victim" and it's prospects ...!!

  • @paulwilson3274
    @paulwilson3274 Před 5 lety +1

    I would love to help in any way I can. Please feel free to email me.

  • @franciskwan1082
    @franciskwan1082 Před 5 lety

    True ,email is health..occupied all our time.
    ..want to live ..!

  • @sheilablake4858
    @sheilablake4858 Před 5 lety +9

    15 minutes to say....
    -Put your phone down & go in to the real world!
    -use technology, don’t let yourself get used by it.

  • @TestingPyros
    @TestingPyros Před 5 lety

    What is money?
    It is merely an accepted means of exchanging value.
    No currency is truly money.

  • @joelwidgins6329
    @joelwidgins6329 Před 5 lety

    👏👏👏

  • @adv.prashant
    @adv.prashant Před 5 lety +1

    *best ever ted talk on digital minimalism*

  • @Rien--
    @Rien-- Před 5 lety

    cool bro

  • @saloniuppal
    @saloniuppal Před 5 lety

    ⭐Yesterday is not ours to recover,
    But
    Tomorrow is ours to win or lose.⭐
    Don't focus on people's talk 👥
    Only focus on your goal 🏆
    Everything is easy 🎁🏆
    When you believe in yourself
    😊🎁😊🎁😊🎁😊🎁😊🎁

  • @sharadkumar8303
    @sharadkumar8303 Před 5 lety +1

    One of the most powerful videos on Ted
    Thank u 👌🙏

  • @ViralEntertainmentfun
    @ViralEntertainmentfun Před 5 lety

    V.GOOD

  • @nurrillah3226
    @nurrillah3226 Před 5 lety

    Sure

  • @sophiehenze653
    @sophiehenze653 Před 5 lety

    10:12 *names advantages of media fast*
    10:13 *woman in the audience is on her phone*

  • @anotherindividual5799
    @anotherindividual5799 Před 5 lety

    Corpus Christi

  • @seogeking
    @seogeking Před 5 lety +1

    😎

  • @JonathanRootD
    @JonathanRootD Před 5 lety +1

    The future of happiness... A living wage, Medicare-for-all, social democracy.

    • @forreal245
      @forreal245 Před 5 lety

      We are ALREADY living in LBJ's "Great Society" of welfare programs. What more can you ask for?

    • @JonathanRootD
      @JonathanRootD Před 5 lety

      @@forreal245 um a living wage? Medicare-for-all? Did you read nothing?

  • @shabeerahmedsr
    @shabeerahmedsr Před 5 lety +1

    Like anyone from kerala

  • @troyfowler4869
    @troyfowler4869 Před 5 lety +1

    Hey what's up more videos keep it up beautiful how are you u good

  • @MM1717mm
    @MM1717mm Před 5 lety +1

    She’s more than a little attractive 🙃🙃🙃

  • @virtualworldsbyloff
    @virtualworldsbyloff Před 5 lety

    AI = Intelligence without moral = We are doomed

  • @jorgeromera3861
    @jorgeromera3861 Před 5 lety

    Take advantage of technology, don't be used by it.

  • @wionczkyholsku-harnakkod897

    es una lástima que ted solo promueva una pequeña parte del conocimiento humano y estoy seguro que ellos saben que no promueven el conocimiento que deberían

  • @nikp2542
    @nikp2542 Před 5 lety

    10:13 This lady and that Ted talk. What an irony

  • @sharingiscaringkapilac9374

    Like anyone from nepal.

  • @user-gf1ff6rr8v
    @user-gf1ff6rr8v Před 5 lety

    한국어로.번역하든지아니면자막이나오든지했으면좋겠요

  • @clivedavis6731
    @clivedavis6731 Před 4 lety

    Bi

  • @seogeking
    @seogeking Před 5 lety

    😁

  • @globaldigitaldirectsubsidi4493

    Why did I watch this shallow video? Of you actually want to learn, type Noam Chomsky.

  • @GurdeepSinghDyal
    @GurdeepSinghDyal Před 5 lety +1

    Boring.

  • @wulphstein
    @wulphstein Před 5 lety

    Nope. Unhappy atheists are on your own.

  • @kurtj.9656
    @kurtj.9656 Před 5 lety +1

    Meehhhh...... Title is missleading! Turned out to be a patronizing, self-indulgent, "make me feel good" kind of lame mumbo jumbo "pep talk".......
    The speaker's opinion; not fact! 👎👎

  • @LoriWattnz
    @LoriWattnz Před 5 lety

    It's procrastination not digital world get real lady!!!