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- In this episode of Extreme Parental Guidance, Supernanny star Jo Frost helps a three year old who cant stop tearing her hair out, and a six your old boy who's eating disorder could require medical attention.
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From: Jo Frost: Extreme Parental Guidance S1 E4
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Lol Jo is SO cute she sees the trampoline and goes "I haven't been on one of these in months!" And starts to jump alone giggling like a kid lol she is part kid herself that's how she knows them so well!
She really knows how to connect with children and knew that would bring her down to his level and make him feel comfortable being open with her. I love Jo. She's amazing.
It's how she gains the trust of the child, she's doing it to show him she's on his side /level
I love JoJo too…she can sometimes have such a sweet childlike spirit.
Not really lol... shes not ACTUALLY that excited to see the trampoline and jump, Shes just pretending, to get the children to talk.
Creative people tap into their inner child. Magic is in the small things in life.
When Rio’s little sister @41:04 reached out very gently to pat her mom’s arm was the sweetest love tap🥰. It reminded me of how our children feel our emotions and even though they may not understand everything, they’re far from dumb, they too know something is going on.😏😕♥️
Exactly, adorable!
YES 100% felt that as well
That kid seems the smsrtest in tgat family!!!
26:20 the face Rio makes when he realises no one is giving him attention speaks for itself
Yes . How about that and at the restaurant when they changed subject and made it about connecting vs watching Rio, his head turned left and right like hey, what goin on. That said it all 😂😂
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The whole time, he was looking around trying to find someone he can whine to so he can get out of eating, and the parents were just NOPE
My son called him a "little monster who needs to eat well to get his vitamins to be healthy" and he says if one of his little friends which he plays with made such a "terrible noise" when told to eat his meal to stop hurting others ears!!!
41:05 poor little sister comforts her mother.
Parents should be aware that Rios behavior affects the sisters a lot also.
Yeah, I wonder how much of the sisters' good behaviour is their personality vs. they're not able to get away with the same things Rio does, vs. they went through a picky eating phase and outgrew it, whereas Rio likely has some form of neurodiversity going on.
@@cordeliaface very good point
They say that Rio "reverted" back to his old ways with the bread and butter...No, the parents did. He didn't make the bread for dinner. THEY gave it to him. Period. Everything they accomplished was for absolutely nothing .
Exatly!
Frustrating to watch! No parenting skills at all!!
@@Cyperspiller l
They say. Who is they? Bull doody you troll.
@@k.english2580 You?
Rio's sister just comforting their mom is straight up adorable
That was soooo precious to see!
I noticed that too, so precious 🥰
OMG I noticed that too🥰 Bless her heart I Saw the expression of concern she felt for her mommy and how she gently touched her to comfort her it really made me teary eyed😢
@@sylviasanchez5646 wasn't that the most precious thing, I admit it made me a little teary eyed too when I saw that.
@@lindamiranda2877 Yes It's just heartwarming too see the Lil expression of Concern for her Mommy and how she felt the need too comfort her❤️ It makes me Sad that she's so Sweet and has too endure the bad behavior of her own brother and that she has too watch her Mother totally Stressed out and not even be able to enjoy a night out with her own family!! it's a shame that after they had gotten so far Rio went back too his old manipulative way's but it's even Sadder that her Mother let it happen! Maybe for one second she should think about how her little girl feels having too watch all that chaos every single dinner time when she is so Sweet and well behaved and seems too really enjoy her meals🥺 I hope this doesn't affect her in the future because she has a Beautiful sweet soul full of compassion.
He prob has a tummy ache because he's hungry but he doesn't recognize that's what the feeling is. Also he's going to have a sensitive stomach because his body isn't used to real food .
he doesn't have a tummy ache, he's making up excuses to get his own way.
Oh, that’s ridiculous!
@@egrffin8534 So? What's the big deal if a kid doesn't eat everything you eat? Making a big deal about it only makes it worse. Has the doctor stated any health concerns? My son's doctor told me not to make a big deal about it, just eat the food myself and eventually my kid would want to try what I'm eating and enjoying so much. And guess what he's a healthy happy boy. I didn't like certain vegetables as a kid and now I love them. Taste buds are still developing as a kid and parents want way too much control over what they kids eat. I definitely don't agree with the way these parents made a huge deal and then gave in and gave him bread. And I don't agree with the kid crying to get what he wants but I also don't think its that bad or manipulative as people claim. (for the kid).what else do you expect a kid to do when someone else is controlling his life and all of his choices? They cry and try to fight it. Thats normal. You would be crying as an adult if someone controlled all of your choices and decisions and you just had to cry to change that. Doesn't mean it's a bad kid. He's just coping. Parents definitely could of dealt with it better by not making such a big deal about it and making such a stressful environment around eating time. Especially if doctor isn't concerned about his health.
@@lc4life369 but the doctor WAS concerned about his health. They said he was developing mouth ulcers and who knows what else that wasn't mentioned in the video. If all you eat is bread, you're missing out on some major nutrients needed for a healthy life. Also note that after he started eating other foods, the mom reported he had more energy and was generally happier. Sometimes you need to be forced into doing what's best for you when you don't quite understand that your behavior is harming.
As nurturing as mothers naturally are, it's fairly easy to see how she would make a big deal out of mealtimes when her child is engaging in self-destructive behavior. Not saying her actions were good, clearly they were not, but they were understandable.
The little boy whispering with Jo on the trampoline was too cute!!!
Like this show with her to
JoJo is so clever 😂 gotta love Rio, making plans to go to grandma's, and bake some cakes 😂
@@terridemaio2926 to??
Thought so too
My daughter started pulling her hair out when she was about 9 months old to comfort herself. So we shaved her head bald. Boy was she surprised when she realized there was nothing to pull. So she just rubbed her head for a while. But by the time her hair grew back she had stopped the habit.
Did you offer her something else to comfort herself?
My daughter did the same as an infant to comfort herself…but as she got older she stopped.
No, but she used to suck her thumb, at that time..she never wanted a pacifier. She stopped sucking her thumb when she was about 3 and got strep thrroat. She had to take medicine she didn't like and I told her it was because she had germs on her thumb. She immediately stopped sucking it. She is 17 now,.
@@crystaljesa816 lol that's actually pretty smart.
@@crystaljesa816 that was the Smartest thing too do!!👍 and for the question someone asked you about did you give her something else too comfort her self? I think replacing one habit with another would've been another problem? because if someone thinks that a child pulling their hair out is Comforting there's something wrong there.
I love how Jo talks to the kids when she speaks to them alone. But this episode drives me crazy every time I’ve come across is. I understand some kids can be picky but to allow your child to just eat bread and butter bc he cries bc he knows if he does he gets what he wants is ridiculous,
Yes! It’s got to be so bad for his stomach if he hasn’t had ANYTHING else.
He might have a sensory disorder…just started watching this video I’ll see what hai
Sensory disorder? More like a "if i am a good actor, ill get to eat only what i want" disorder. Check the "van Acker family" episode of supernanny. Anemic kid refuses to eat at table? JO MADE HIM UNDERSTAND HE HAD NO CHOICE BUT EAT!!! AND SO HE DID.
I almost cried when rio took a bite!! I can’t imagine how elated the parents were
Rio deserves an academy award! He knows exactly how to misbehave, fake cry, etc. to get exactly what he wants!
Honestly, I was like this when I was little. I had to go to an eating disorder specialist, and they misdiagnosed me with all sorts of eating problems. It turned out that I'm autistic! Rio could possibly be autistic, or have a sensory-processing disorder because he struggles with textures.
@@kaylinalaska6117 I just posted a comment about this and I completely agree with you. My cousin has a 3-1/2-year-old son who was diagnosed with autism earlier this year and food is one of their biggest battles with him. He refuses to eat any fruits, veggies, meats, mashed potatoes, etc. The only three things that he will eat are pasta with butter, donuts, and gummy bears. Not a whole lot of nutrition there! He won't even eat chicken nuggets. It's all about the texture. It has been an exhausting uphill battle for them and they are constantly trying to gradually introduce new foods to him to expand his diet and get some actual nutrition into him. Rio definitely needs to see a specialist ASAP! This is not a "performance" or a "power struggle." I truly believe that this boy has autism. My cousin's son has these EXACT same meltdowns over food.
Children like this can have serious issues in life when they start becoming adults!
@@kaylinalaska6117 Someone would of had to introduce him to this, otherwise he wouldn't know any of this would be a problem!
@@stardustgirl2904 that's not how autism works, if that's what you mean. You don't need to be "introduced" to a developmental disorder to have one
I'm 64 and had trychotillomania since I was 8, but my disorder is my top eyelashes, bald and a subject of ridicule and bullying entire life. It's a high stress disorder. I'm surprised at the young age of this baby girl to suffer it.
CBD oil?
I'm autistic and I picked at my skin and pulled out my eyebrow hairs when I was that young.
@@uptowncountry1993 What exactly is Kava Kava? My 19 year old started pulling right when she turned 1 year old
Honestly I really do wish Trichotillomania was as easy to break as it was for this child. Take the bottle and pacifier away and the child is over it.... But not bored type of Trich is not what most deals with!
@@uptowncountry1993 what is kava kava? i’ve never heard of it, i’ve struggled with trich for years and i’m willing to try anything..
35:06 See how he stops crying almost immediately so he can hear what's being said? We call those crocodile tears.
I think the baby that pulls her hair and needs her mom 24/7 may have some anxiety. It would explain all the soothing behaviors and the clingy-ness. I would definitely keep an eye on that as she ages because she might end up needing more support.
I was thinking that, or autism. It seems like a stim. Not to mention, she hates transitions. Which could be anxiety or autism. There's deffinitly something more than. Especially because she has Trichotillomania, a legit disorder
My friends baby did this when her parents got a divorce the frustration was too much
I was just thinking of the same. I started pulling my hair when I was a little kid. Now I'm middleaged and still doing it. I have also suffered from anxiety and insomnia my whole life and been hospitalized dozens of times. I would definitely keep this in mind if I were her parent and be ready to help if needed.
Hubby pulls his eyebrow hair. Ouch
SHE AINT A BABY: ALMOST 4!!! Mum treats her as baby and stifles her growth doing so!! That is ABUSE
I was raised by people who grew up their food in their backyard and made everything from scratch. Although I liked to eat pasta soup and homemade tortillas everyday, they had no problem feeding me the fresh organic fruits and vegetables from their garden. They often would involve me in the gardening process and excitedly showing me the miracle of where food and plants come from. By the time the food was ripe I couldn’t wait to eat it. We even would eat the sweet leaves off of certain plants.
I introduced my Korean fiancé to the Supernanny, and she said “these kids need an Asian mom.”
Seeing how Rio reacts when they went out to eat was funny to see. His face was like are they seriously not looking at me? Wait my facial expressions aren’t getting attention? Then when they are back at the house and he’s screaming and crying but as soon as Jo starts telling the parents what to do he immediately stops to listen. No parent wants to hear their child cry but this is all fake attention seeking crying.
Rio's poor siblings having to put up with their brother doing that every single meal.
Exactly my thoughts. The parents should have a rule, if you're not eating your meal. Go to your room. It's the parents' fault by giving him the bread. What they should do is not giving him bread. When he's hungry he'll eat what's given to him.
@@phulanadethal and his siblings are witnessing him constantly getting what he wants to eat when they have to have what they are given. It's not fair
It's obvious that the minute Jo left these two families after starting to make progress they gave up when it got rough.
Yeah, I'd be interested to know how long it was when they did the 'epilogue' follow up.
Kids also test as soon as Jo goes. They know when Jo is around they can't get away with much. When she goes they can push the envelope. It's like kids misbehaving with a young babysitter or a relief teacher instead of the regular teacher. They know there are more boundaries.
Both of the kids will fit in so much better with their age group, now, which is critical. A 7-year old who acts like a 3 or 4-year old, as Rio was doing, is going to be rejected by peers. Alienation is devastating to a child and causes all sorts of problems with self-esteem and confidence.
I was so happy the little girl got over the hair pulling; my daughter pulled on her hair as an infant, but she out grew it as she got older.
Body Focused Repetative Behaviors are super difficult even for adults. This includes hair pulling, eye lash/brow pulling, skin picking ( the issue I have), nail picking, etc. We don't even notice when we are doing it. So Definitely being gentle and patient.
Jo is so nice. She has a amazing connection with all the children😋❤️ when they showed the bit where jo was crying at the start I started crying😭
It’s truly amazing how manipulative children can be and how young they actually start this behavior. They are very good at it and as parents we have to put a stop to it.
I had twin girls and one of them started her manipulation I think when she was born and it continued on throughout her life and when she got married I didn't have to deal with it as much but as much as I love her she does has a difficult personality and not only me but hubby and her sister really did suffer from her behaviour 😕 nothing we tried made any difference both girls brought up the same way and the other one was the opposite 🙃
agreed, but the hair pulling is not a manipulative behavior. it’s a mental disorder called trichotillomania. some studies suggest it’s a neuropsychiatric condition. i’m 17 and i’ve had it since i was about 9, so trust me when i tell you this.
This is not manipulative behavior. This is autism. I only needed to watch the first 3-4 minutes of the episode to know that this boy is struggling with autism. It's all about the textures of the food. My cousin's almost 4-year-old son was diagnosed with autism earlier this year and they are having the EXACT same battle when it comes to food. He refuses to eat anything but pasta with butter, gummy bears, and donuts. They are working with a specialist to gradually introduce new foods. Rio needs to see a specialist ASAP. If this indeed is autism (which I have a strong feeling it is), this is not something that he can control and he needs professional help ASAP.
@@jrwheeler81 yeah gummy bears and donuts are great substitutes to give a 4 yr old when they wont eat healthy foods....that's crazy...have they never heard of making veggies into pasta noodles or turning real fruit into healthy gummies/jello, cauliflour cupcakes/donuts instead of flour and etc? Not saying he isnt autistic but it has become a blanket diagnosis for ppl who dont have the patience, time or discipline to rear their children...I've seen this in my own family...also when given a choice between veggies or donuts we all know what majority of children will choose...lol
@@daniellehall4124 You really need a course in reading comprehension. Where exactly did I ever say that they were actually SUBSTITUTING healthy foods with gummy bears and donuts??? Oh, that's right - I DID NOT. What I SAID was those are the only foods that the child will eat WILLINGLY. My cousin and her husband have doctor's appointments and therapy appointments nearly EVERY WEEK, sometimes multiple appointments per week to help this child and they have been working tirelessly to introduce healthy, nutritious foods to this child. They have been working with a pediatric nutritionist for months. Are you really so stupid that you think ANY even remotely responsible parent would serve 3 square meals of gummy bears and donuts??? Get a clue!
It never ceases to amaze me how more often than not the issues that kids have is due to something that their parents either are or are not doing that they should or should not be doing
I felt so sad to see that little girl patting her mother at 41:04. Rio looks like he is taking up his parents' full attention. I hope that the daughters get some of that now.
Something my mom always tells me, "crying wont kill them, ignore them"
I love that jo is gaining that childrens trust and dont want the parents to hear the "secret" and then runs straight to them and spills the tea xD
Well someone needs to tell the parents to STAND their ground, be patient and dont give up!!!!!!
...someone needs 2 tell parents that their KIDS got them BY THE BALLS....
“but for some parents, dinner time is the *LEAST* of their worries”: “…She’s double jointed and scratches her head with her foot”
LMAO
Rio is acting like a toddler. What does he do at school? He is 7!
"Heuuuuuuuh... heuuuuaaaeuuuh"
5:40 Jo asks the mom, “What do you actually need?” I bet she’s been begging be to asked that question for years. 💔
My three year old(s) keep making me tear my own hair out. 😆
Fruit juice is extremely high in sugar.
Yes! It rarely contains actual juice!
@@mcgirlletsgo7135 if you buy 100%juice you have only juice,but it contains also a lot of natural sugar.
I have just a small glass
Exactly
Lol Rio at the restaurant, staring at both his parents as they completely ignore him, or don't tell him to eat is priceless, the look on his face is like "wait...what is happening?"
Mom you can do it. Don't be such a softie and don't give in to the dramatics. He will learn that he can't manipulate, bully or push you around.
His acting skills are pretty good.. reminds me of when I was a kid trying to play sick to get out of school.
Yall ever think about Rio could have sensory processing disorder, ADHD, Autism? I was like that and still am and im a young adult, and i have sensory processing disorder, Autism, ADHD, and a Eating Disorder
Yes!!! That's what I thought the whole video! Same with the girl, Trichotillomania is common with autistics. Also, the fact that she struggled with transitions is also common!
trust me Río knows exactly how too manipulate his parent's!! Look at his behavior? When their Speaking in private he stays quiet too listen too what they are talking about and as soon as they return too the table he starts the crying and whining because he already knows that's what frustrates his mother and that at the end too have some quiet time she will give him exactly what he wants.
This kid did not just snitch on hisself with a bunch of people and cameras behind him😂😂😂😂
2:49 master parenting right there 😂
The Mother of the little girl who pulled her hair grated my nerves, it was all about HER neediness, versus what would help her daughter. Ugh!
Selfishness, and using it to stifle her kids growth "mah beybeh".... *vomit*😢
Some how as ECEs we can get kids to do things parents have not and still some how we're just babysitters and not worth the money.
Jo is amazing. ❤️
I'm a nanny. I have been in childcare for 16 years and have my Associates in ECE. Yet parents I work for never ask me for advice and basically treat me like I'm just a babysitter. I have raised more kids than them and know more about children than they do
I admire Nanny I couldn't do what she does. I would lose my patience and call them brats.
Parents can read child development books to learn what normal milestones are. A 3 1/2 year old should not be using bottles, pacifiers or babyish things. They should be able to calm themselves with a lovey and fall asleep on their own without pacifier or a bottle. Help your children progress rather than keeping them at a certain stage you might prefer. Children GROW. Parents should be aware of their child's development and what to expect at particular stages of life.
I do agree with that but child development books that state normal milestones don’t work for kids with special needs, developmental delays, or autism. My son still uses a bottle at 5 and a pacifier to chew on (it keeps him from biting people so I won’t fight it as he tells me he wants to bite especially when overstimulated). He has Autism and ADHD (pretty severe I’d say. He was diagnosed with ADHD at 4 and almost no one will diagnose that young unless severe. He has to be on 2 meds just to control it one a stimulant and one a non stimulant). His therapist does agree that if he verbalized that he wanted a bottle or paci because it helps not to fight it. I’d much rather him have a bottle or paci than bite me or others because he has a sensory need to bite something.
That kid isxa manipulator!!!! NOT autistic!!! And mom is selfish wanting to keep "mah beybeh"!!!
I love how Jo sneakily gets information from children
I love watching your videos because you have wholesome content and you teach people about sheep farming. You LOVE your work and work well together with all of the people there. I appreciate that you include Mark's things like the cabin and the crops. You give me a sense of home as I come from a farming community in North Central N.Y. Often I miss home but there are no jobs there anymore and a person has to live somehow. You're sheep love you to the extent that we often see them trying to eat you,LOL. I would love to try using your yarn but am on a very strict income as I am disabled and cannot work and my husband has been out of work because of COVID.
And that little "eating disorder" is just an excuse cause what they arnt telling the doctor is that he'll eat bread and butter and that's it and if he's eating sweets with no problem then that too. Most of the time parents don't tell the doctors cause they don't want to doctor reporting them. My middle child had a issue eating real food. She mainly liked chips and drinking tea and milk but after a while I seen it wasn't good for her and I changed that without a doctor having to tell me so
He's completely mind-blown that they aren't caring if he eats or not lmao
I wish I had JoJo when I had my youngest son, but we did survive and he is a wonderful young man !!!
Exactly. Idk why the parents are so stressed about it. That can actually partly cause the issue in the first place. Did his doctor state any health concerns. I hated many vegetables as a kid that I love now as an adult. Never had any health issues. The making a big deal about it then allowing him to get his way is far worse than not making a big deal about it and giving him the choice. Someday he might decide to try something and realize he's missing out. My child's doctor litterly told me that too. Don't make a big deal about it because that just makes the anxiety about new foods worse. Sometimes it's better to just eat the food yourself infront of kid. Eventually they will want to try what your having and enjoying so much.
@@lc4life369 actually in the beginning it did say there health concerns about the boy who only ate bread and butter. Bread and butter in no way has enough nutrients to not become deficient or health issues from only eating that. We’re not talking about not eating many fruits or veggies we’re talking about not eating anything other than bread and butter.
omg. why did they revert back to their old ways with Rio??! He was doing well and you guys ruined your progress. You would think if your kid was actually in DANGER because of his diet you wouldn't just give in. You guys are just making it harder on yourselves and him. 🤦🏽♀️
JoJo is the ingenious most incredible powerful woman that I have ever ever in my life seen on National Television this is a solid real amazing and I've known her since I'm a kid I've been watching her she's awesome I love you Jo-Jo thank you for coming back babes thank you now it's a matter of sharing all your knowledge with all the rest you are awesome love you I love you
This was one another f my favor episodes. And Rio is way to smart. I love this family ♥️ His little sister put her hand on Mom's arm with such understanding and empathy... That touched my heart😢 I truly believe he had a tummy ache.. I know that face he made, I am so relieved for our Rio and love his transition and seeing him happy and healthy
The tummy ache was probably nervousness due to the fact that he was worried about the food taste, texture, or just newness. If I ate snails I would probably get a nervous stomach too since I can't imagine eating one. URGH. His tummy ache was not about the food making him sick because the food was spoiled. When he came to her and sobbed in her lap she should have gotten up and redirected that behavior and not allowed him to "act" sick for her. Nope. Not gonna tolerate that.
Jo looks AMAZING & absolutely STUNNING ♥️
Children will eat when they are hungry!!
Bread and butter for several years??!
Awh heck no!
He reverted back because the parents did!!
Children cannot eat what the parents do not buy.
That's not true. Children with ARFID can literally starve themselves.
That isn’t always true. Kids with Autism may not or even ADHD (can cause sensory and texture issues). I know when I was a kid if it wasn’t something I liked I just wouldn’t eat until I got something I liked. Was diagnosed with ADHD at 15 after I spoke up and said I couldn’t focus or could focus on 5 things at once. Before I knew my son had Autism I got him exactly what he asked for at a Chinese place. He barley ate almost 24 hours earlier and only after he wanted Chinese and I told him it was Chinese. He was 3. Now good luck getting him to eat something he doesn’t want or like. If he’s having a period of time he wants only junk I supplement with a kids Boost Essential or 2 a day to make sure he gets what he needs when I run out of kids gummy vitamins. He only started eating more fruits and veggies after I started growing some at home one year and he helped plant them, water them, pick them, etc.
Thanks joe... my kids are ok...but I do learn from you.
i AM ALWAYS AMAZED AT HOW TALENT jO IS WITH FAMILIES...CHANGING ONE AT A TIME UNTIL THEY ARE ALL FABULOUS!!!!
Talk about cranting. What an actor. Rio has his Mom under this Thumb. Stay firm.
i love your show awesome information..................waiting on the next one..............from a fan in red oak tx..............
Seriously though my dad would have considered my not eating an insult to my mom and I'd have been in big big trouble
Bless your dad's respect towards your mom!
Jo, you look beautiful in that black sleeveless dress. Really stunning.
I think Jo is gorgeous. She obviously is very talented but I love her blue eyes and dark hair.
I think her grace makes her even more beautiful I just love her!
No problem in my house. Eat what was served or go hungry. After we were weaned, there was no separate meals for kids. Food was puréed or cut very small, accordingly. The only exception was for a sister who was allergic to eggs and sometimes chicken.
I was very independent as a child yet still pulled my hair out. Mine was triggered from stress in the family. I stopped in elementary school, around 6 or 7 yrs old, but still on occasion would wake up to find I had a chunk of hair in my bed.
Why was he crying for ice cream? I thought the mother said he only eats bread and butter? Lol
Of course he gonna want ice cream I’d rather give bread then ice cream for dinner
She said in the beginning he likes certain sweets
And he wanted to visit Grandma for homemade cakes
I introduced my granddaughter to solids by 10 to 11 months thank god she’s not a picky eater she loves veggies fruits seafood etc
There is an easier way to treat Rio's situation. Let him live with another family like an aunt's for a week or 2 and have lots of interesting activities to deplete his energy. Delay meal time to ensure he is really really hungry and offer soft delicious food since his body is not used to many types of food. Take away the food whether it is eaten or not at the end of meal time. Don't use angry tone or react if he has a melt down, just act like nothing happened. If he is in the same household as his own, his brain is programmed to reject food other than bread and butter.
Then according to what you have said, as soon as he gets home he will just get back to how he was. So pointless.
I love this show I use to watch it all the time when I was a kid lol
I'm surprised Rio had the strength to play. Bread & butter do not provide enough fuel to run a body. I am severely anemic and despite a careful diet and blood transfusions there are times I'm too weak and cold to function.
The little boy in the second story is absolutely adorable
I wouldn't have tolerated that. That's him manipulating the situation. I use Jo's techniques with the firm voice and that usually works fine mine know they ain't going to push me like that
These videos are super helpful
Advice: Start cooking with taste and your child will eat even the plate.
Those plates looked bland and tasteless. Even I, would not eat that thing.
correct but he never had tried any of it so they wouldn’t know what he would like but after he tries it and figures out what he likes they can figure it out
Because every veggie looks just cut up and put on plate, no sous / salt / pepper on those carrots, broccoli, potatoes; but, if you put some fatty & tasty meat in front of his eyes, he will swallow in no time 💪 because good meat doesn't need too much spice on it! Ay caramba!
We build life from taking choices.
@@yonycka16 Fatty meat is not good for children's health.
@@marinas.8478 I will not enter in that discussion with strangers. Thank you for the reply.
@@yonycka16 I'd love too put a good plate of Some Puerto Rican food in front of him!!! Lol I betcha he'd eat it all up and ask for seconds 😂🇵🇷 ❤️🔥🍛🍴
Jo Frost hands down is amazing at what she does. Jo you are an amazing woman. I hope one day I can meet you! You inspire me inso many ways! Love you Jo
That chat on the trampoline was the cutest.
Y r u giving a 3 year old bottles?! at my daycare we don’t give bottles to kids over 1. At 2 she would be given a regular plastic cup
Right? My kids weaned at 14 and 22mths but both went to sippy cups before they were 1 for both juice/water and pumped milk
I feel bad for the neighbors of the screaming 7-year-old! But more for the sisters in that house. Their good behavior goes unnoticed because his bad behavior is so overwhelming. That's a dangerous line because other kids in the family can learn that refusing to eat gets you attention. It's not just the 7-year-old these parents should be worried about when it comes to the relationship with food.
My grandkids have been offered many different healthy foods since they could first eat. They eat sushi, poke bowls (and tease grandmama because she doesn't like the raw fish). They eat cherry tomatoes and carrots as a treat (we grow them also) Olives, cucumbers, fresh fruits, cheese, sea weed snacks. They do also love chocolate, cookies and candy though. They eat things they are offered and are very adventurous eaters. One would survive on mostly chocolate if allowed to but he still eats all the vegetables too. They have been offered healthy and varied foods and learned to eat that way. I hope they keep it up as they grow.
My son too he loved the beans at the sushi from 8 months on!! He loves spicy indian foods, italian, couscous... in the afternoon his snack is usually tomatoes, cucumber and carotts, with apple slices soaked in vitamine C solution :)
That was far too long - 4 years eating only bread and butter. It's insane.
Really is ridiculous .
Yeah. I am a picky eater, so I really empathize with Rio's concerns about texture. When those kinds of concerns/preferences pop up, they are something to navigate, not something to either go "Oh, he just doesn't like the texture of food. Oh well!" or say "Well, sucks to be him. He can either eat what is in front of him or starve."
"Three bites to be polite/try it" is a solid first starting point when texture issues pop up. Working with the kid to give them language to what about the texture they do or do not like, and working to experiment in modifying foods to be palatable is a good step in the right direction as well. You shouldn't be a personal chef for your kids, but also: they should be able to eat more than just 'bread and butter' for every meal.
I'm hoping Rio's malnutrition was why the family called Jo, but it's sad it got to the level it got to before they asked for help.
I'm kinda surprised he survived that tbh
@@cordeliaface What’s ridiculous is that doctors didn’t help. This child clearly has sensory issues and needs therapy and a psychologist. Don’t blame the parents, they asked for help and weren’t given any.
His mom says hes always sick with "colds" and almost everything that comes around at school... bread, butter and junk. Hello VITAMINE C??
High sugar food has impact on me. Feeling like on drugs and after an hour absolutely tired.
Rio is bullying the whole family. Show him this video five yrs from now.
It's more about simple vs complex carbohydrates. Simple carbs include sugars but also starches like white pasta and white bread. Complex carbs are high fibre, low GI (multigrain bread, bran cereal). Simple carbs digest more quickly and generally have more calories, so yes, you'll feel exhausted after eating a huge simple carb meal or snack.
The child that smells her food before she eats it could have autism, my son has autism and pica and he does that it's part of sensory issues they have.
You should actually say "my son IS autistic and has pica". Sorry but autistic people don't use 'person-first' language anymore.
I’m surprised nobody else said this. I have autism and my diet is pretty restricted. I refuse to eat things that aren’t in my routine. (Even down to the brands I eat) if someone gave me a different brand of gluten free cracker, I can tell. I wish it wasn’t this way but I hate changes to routine and my sensory issues are bad. I’m 24 for your information. I also eat in a particular order. Veggies, protein, carbohydrates (potatoes, etc), sweets.
I'm sorry for everyone going through this, my son is Autistic with Pica and my life revolves around him, but I wouldn't have it any other way I adore him and thank God for him everyday, it's amazing the things he teaches me about him and Autism without saying a word. God Bless all of you and keep you all safe. Patience and understanding is key everything else will fall into place.
@@kaylinalaska6117 i don't think thats the right definition of person first language... It's just switching the noun with an adjective and "son" is still before those two words?
@@marias1609 person first language is "my son has autism" and it frames it to be more if a disease. "My son is autistic" is identity first language and is preferred by much of the autistic community
I can’t help getting SO annoyed, when a famile have such a good help in Jo and they then doesn’t follow the “rules”… The things worked… he started trying other food and the girl didn’t pull her hair… UNTIL she had her dummy back! Why are some parents so selfish, that the will ruin their kids for 5 min. of quiet-time… stupid stupid people!
And how can they expect, that Rio want to eat anything new on the on 2 days Jo is there… They gave in every other day, so of cause Rio knows he is the boss!
...and the bosses' "heuuuuueh heuuuuarh" pulls his parents sympathy rather than worry of nutrient shorts
Kids, ingested food and bouncy castle....this can't be good....lol
Especially the ones that ate the junk! Lol!
we as a family had 2 problems, my son wanted to eat only what he wanted and my niece pulled her hair out, with my son we were only firm he eats what we all eat or else simply he doesn't eat, I didn't stress about it and we didn't even look at him when he had his tantrums, with my niece the same thing, when she started pulling out her hair we left her alone and we played, over time by not paying attention she stopped doing it, now my son is 23 years old he eats absolutely everything there is no problem with him and my niece is 14 and the same, there are no problems,we must be firm and not bend
@35:40 • Well. That took a turn, didn't it?
I didn't expect to see that behavior.
Mom certainly has kept more then just the "bottle and dummy" a secret from Jo.
I don't understand why a parent would ask for help but not be honest about the situation. What's the point?
You could make Rio homemade bread, with vegetables in the recipe. 😉 🥕 🍞 🍌
Whoa...what the heck did they feed that boy Rio as a baby?? That is how kids learn eating/flavours etc...
sheeeeeeesh
The nanny should win 🏆 the biggest most honorable 🎖 in the world she is a Saint!!!!!💜❣💕💖💯
This boy truly needs to go see a specialist I do believe There is a problem
Yeah the problem is the mother 😂
I was thinking that boy soul may need some good soul food . no insult intended to moms cooking but maybe dad should try cooking at times
I swear every time I see "healthy eating" on Supernanny it's some bland shiz like that.
Jo Frost , I love all of your Video's
Ive always felt like Sugar highs was a myth and parents actually kinda brainwash their kids to think that way. So they do what they think they are supposed to do when they eat sugar (get hyper and obnoxious). I never told my child that and he's never acted any different when he has sugar.
Agree. I remember seeing a health report that the notion that kids get hyper from sugar was based on anecdotal stories from adults who observed kids running around at birthday parties and other social events where dessert was served (where they'd be running around anyway, even if no sugar was present).
He starts going very silly! True
The lady that said she was proud of her daughter sucking her thumb is just crazy to me🤦🏻♀️
"Mah beybeh" mom yeah. Selfish. Get a doll instead of conceiving a precious innocent human for your own clay modeling needs!
The minute Rio stopped eating good except bread and butter. There would have been no more bread and butter in my house, and doctors until one could fix the problem. 4 years...ate you kidding me
Maybe Rio has AFRID, (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder ) its a newer eating disorder and its linked to picky eaters. AFRID therapy is just getting momentum and helping kids being exposed to food they thought they didn't like.
In any case Jo knows exactly whats going on hehe
What makes this video special is the beautiful couple sharing their love.
Seriously? Why? Because they are of different races?
How manipulative he is at 4 is terrifying
Jo is good woman. ❤️🙏
A saving saint!
Jo u r always so beautiful but u r Shining bright like a diamond in this one episode like no other u just look so Beautiful
You set the example for them to follow!
I have trichotillomania, pull my hair out when I get stressed
Sorry that you go through that, I hope you get better ❤💜😌
I don't understand how sugary fruit like bananas & a big chunk of bread full of carbs (which is immediately turned in to sugar by the body) is an actual low sugar lunch. Low sugar lunch would've been a serving of meat/protein & vegetables with no additional sauces or calories on the side!
My kids were raised in the 90s. I was raised in the 70s and we never heard anything about sugar and hyper. It started to creep in after I already knew that I didn’t see any difference in my kids. I also gave spankings and now I have three grown sons that are normal. I would have considered medication for the little girl that pulled her hair out, but we also were very laid-back with the laid-back babysitter and we probably would’ve given it a long time to see if she calm down. All my kids ate all their meals with no problems. I was so lucky in a lot of stuff that people have problems with.