How to use sarcasm if someone is insulting you; putting you down

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  • čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
  • Sometimes a look or a remark like, "What's your point?" will stop the person in their tracks who is giving you the back-handed compliment or in any way trying to bring you down.

Komentáře • 185

  • @tobykeith1067
    @tobykeith1067 Před 8 lety +92

    why are people so awful? always hurting one another.

    • @infinitive7654
      @infinitive7654 Před 5 lety +6

      power

    • @rubenguerreiro9382
      @rubenguerreiro9382 Před 5 lety +2

      Nature

    • @mariewilliams194
      @mariewilliams194 Před 4 lety +9

      It's because people are too concerned with themselves they are not respecting people feelings. A lot of people live acting morally superior . They think they can do what they want and no one else can. They like boosting their egos . Always ignore drama and keep a dignified silence.

    • @SevenEllen
      @SevenEllen Před 3 měsíci

      More like feeling they have a lack of it.@@infinitive7654

  • @AnaRose13206
    @AnaRose13206 Před 5 lety +12

    I used this technique yesterday and it worked amazingly. When I asked this person insulting me to reiterate, they stammered. People like that are cowards who don’t have the courage to tell people what they think to their face or in a direct way. Don’t tolerate when people treat you like that, love yourself enough to stand up for yourself and call out any disrespect. You only endure what you tolerate.

  • @jsun7972
    @jsun7972 Před 9 lety +72

    I usually repeat what they said and turn it around toward them. Usually when that happens they wanna say they were joking etc. But it helps them to see how it sounds when it's directed toward them and they usually don't like it LOL

    • @linhopechang4971
      @linhopechang4971 Před 5 lety +3

      J Sun sounds true.

    • @back2the80s
      @back2the80s Před 5 lety +4

      exactly

    • @ZitaSenora
      @ZitaSenora Před 4 lety +3

      Please give an example :)

    • @Biscuit9891
      @Biscuit9891 Před 4 lety +4

      i do that all the time. then they get offended and quiet... love it.

    • @mariewilliams6631
      @mariewilliams6631 Před 3 lety +8

      These people are inconsiderate because they are so conceited and unsympathetic and self absorbed. They are usually quite snobby and like thinking they are above people. They are not thinking about people's feelings that's why they lack respect. The best way to deal with inconsiderate people is to understand they are to self focused and are not thinking about people's feelings. If people show disrespect they lack respect. It's all about them. It's best to keep it polite and respectable and mind your own business and dont overshare or try and be the centre of attention. Because these self focused people love drama and criticism and making a fool out of people. They love being better and perfect and act like they own the place. It's best to smirk or roll your eyes or say excuse me lets keep it polite. But dont take them seriously that's what they want .

  • @cu99460
    @cu99460 Před 6 lety +7

    I tried this on someone who name called me. I asked them, why would you say that and gave them a dumb look. It was so funny cause the person that name called me was lost for words; and by the time they had something to say back I already walked away. Your the best Marie. I love your work. Please keep posting. P.s that person who named called me never bothered saying anything negative to me again. Situation was resolved without much effort and I was able to keep my integrity.

  • @nelvin783
    @nelvin783 Před 10 lety +25

    I have always had good luck with asking them to repeat what they said, especially if others have overheard the comment. People know when theyre making rude comments, and often will not want to repeat their insult when others are watching them get called out for it.

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety +2

      Unless you're surrounded by a bunch of shitty people like the bullies.

    • @JDiology
      @JDiology Před 6 lety +1

      Nelvin78 right then theyll say nothing
      Or nvm
      Like b true say it

    • @EmmaSaikia
      @EmmaSaikia Před 3 lety +2

      Veronica Abbott Cazares yeah

  • @chocobanh
    @chocobanh Před 10 lety +27

    Ahaha, I love sarcastic comebacks like that; it doesn't necessarily lessen the pain you feel, but that sweet silence that hangs as they try to recover from an attack they were hoping would work is just the best feeling XD
    With silence you let THEM start thinking that their attack was weak; you let THEM panic about how they made themselves look like jackasses, ahaha.
    And you can just sit there in silence and watch them destroy themselves :D

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety +4

      Reach for the silence, dead silence is our god (laughs psychotic & histerically).

  • @latoshastanfield5523
    @latoshastanfield5523 Před 8 lety +39

    you seem like a nice woman--thanks for your expertise

  • @CatsAreNiceMeow
    @CatsAreNiceMeow Před 5 lety +4

    You are an angel! Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge here. You truly brighten up the internet with your genuine, caring personality. I have a sister who I’m realizing has NPD. I’m her main supply and it really saddens me. She puts me down or ignores me when I make positive small talk i.e. when driving I might point out a beautiful tree. Her response is whatever Lisa. It makes me want to cry. That is just one example. All I want to do is love her and have a close friendship with her but I can’t. So now I’m cordial but trying to keep some distance. It kills me inside but I have no choice.

  • @ami7mina
    @ami7mina Před 11 lety +4

    It's like the response "Interesting, tell me more." :)

  • @suzy8455
    @suzy8455 Před 8 lety +1

    thank you so much, so eloquently put! love listening to your advice

  • @MrFree2nest
    @MrFree2nest Před 8 lety

    Thank you Marie. With you I learned something. I learned something by spotting a wolf in sheep's clothing in my house. With your advice I've finally got tools to ridding him away...slowly but surely!

  • @Eli_skips
    @Eli_skips Před 9 lety +22

    You've earned my subscription:-)

  • @angel7085
    @angel7085 Před 6 lety

    This is such a good advice . my siblings insult me constantly and tell embarrasing things about me in front of ther people then smile.it ends up me feeling bad about myself. This advice is so helpful

  • @robotgirlandghostify
    @robotgirlandghostify Před 10 lety +1

    Your advice is always spot on! Love your videos.

  • @MiillieMesh
    @MiillieMesh Před 8 lety +8

    This is an excellent life hack

  • @mccullochm1
    @mccullochm1 Před 6 lety

    Really excellent, practical advice. Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom.

  • @dona4him
    @dona4him Před 9 lety +4

    Here's an interesting one......What would you do if a doctor who doesn't know you accused you of faking an illness or treated you like you're some crazy hypochondriac when you clearly feeling ill?
    Or a doctor who's not convinced a particular disorder exists and writes you off?
    This has happened to me, unfortunately! = (

    • @nikhilsukumar23
      @nikhilsukumar23 Před 8 lety +1

      Tell him that you know a better doctor and insult him in front of others telling he is fake and needs money.

    • @vincentkingsdale8334
      @vincentkingsdale8334 Před 11 měsíci

      I would ask the doctor why he/she thinks you are faking an illness when you are experiencing physical symptoms.....at the very least, it could just be a manifestation of anxiety

  • @josephmills-mw2hs
    @josephmills-mw2hs Před rokem

    Oh wow your right,I hope I remember that,they can't explain it cause they are lashing out emotionally for there own problems.genius.

  • @Audreylin29
    @Audreylin29 Před 6 lety

    More good advice. Yes, perplexed look on my face. Thank you Marie!

  • @jamescarter4013
    @jamescarter4013 Před 9 lety

    I feel more confident now dealing with these kind of people. Thanks

  • @PETITEPIINK
    @PETITEPIINK Před 10 lety

    This is a really good video; I'm working on a monologue for college at the moment and I have portray in a sarcastic point of view. This has been a lot of help but I shall also used it for emergencies too. Thank you so much. :)

  • @AmyK007
    @AmyK007 Před 10 lety

    Thanks Marie, great advice.

  • @andrewhowden3887
    @andrewhowden3887 Před 7 lety

    I must try THAT!!!!!, most of the retailers I see everyday are sad people,thanks 😁

  • @crissyphils1207
    @crissyphils1207 Před 8 lety

    thank you so much..your videos helped. it gives me confidence.

  • @valterhenrique85
    @valterhenrique85 Před 7 lety

    WOW! Great video, thank you so much!

  • @Megnk88
    @Megnk88 Před 9 lety

    Thank you soooo much for this video I have this problem a little too much with the nicest people making comments about me! And I think I could move on if I could just stand up for myself i don't know why it is so hard sometimes

  • @readyfuels6860
    @readyfuels6860 Před 7 lety +6

    Yes this is similar to what I use if I get insulted through social media or in person just say Awww realllllly thank you.. and smile!:) even though it may still hurt in the inside just react positive and they get all confused. Lol

    • @readyfuels6860
      @readyfuels6860 Před 7 lety +2

      Being smart-ass is the key, sometimes puts them off edge

    • @BandicootMilk
      @BandicootMilk Před 7 lety +2

      +DcFuels X I was being to sarcastic for taking insults but now I really do take insults as compliments

    • @azuzajones6654
      @azuzajones6654 Před 7 lety +5

      You're suppose to know you for yourself and not go off of what other people think of you, whether it be good or bad. I used to feel like that then I stopped giving a fuck because no matter how much you try to make yourself better whether it be by getting smarter, fitter, wealthier, people will always talk shit.

    • @readyfuels6860
      @readyfuels6860 Před 7 lety

      AiDeN FrIeDmAn-YeTtAw yea me to but now I work nightshifts I work alone so I don't have to deal with people/drama it's really nice!

  • @rhaebeam
    @rhaebeam Před 10 lety

    Marie great advice I will give it a try. btw you dress so pretty and look fabulous!

  • @vinnylazar1468
    @vinnylazar1468 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for that advice! Very helpful! :)

  • @geegorgeous8364
    @geegorgeous8364 Před 9 lety

    thanks for the lovely advice.

  • @elizabethovershown8379

    thank you soooooo much i love all your vidz your like a miracle worker

  • @allenmiller1627
    @allenmiller1627 Před 8 lety

    Thank you I needed this

  • @emmachevrier1676
    @emmachevrier1676 Před 10 lety

    Thank you so much you are really awesome each time I will meet a bully next year in high school now I know what to do

  • @Chris-qc9dj
    @Chris-qc9dj Před 8 lety

    Thx. I pray I have the guts to do say stuff like this. I need to speak my mind more. I think I'm going to tell my coworkers that what they said hurt me but I forgive them. This way the power is left in my hand not theirs.

  • @MannersByMarie
    @MannersByMarie  Před 10 lety +5

    Hi Matt, sure you could do that, but you have to make sure the person you are dealing with is rational, and often these types aren't. Remember, if it doesn't work, they will realize they have "gotten" to you and the problem will get worse. But if this is a person who is normally very caring and considerate and this was just a mistake, confronting him/her could work, because then they would realize they hurt you.

  • @kNIGHTriderryder
    @kNIGHTriderryder Před 10 lety +1

    really good advice Marie Cheers

  • @kripa23
    @kripa23 Před 6 lety

    great tips thanks I am polite to ppl n i have learned it now by experience that I "attract" rude ppl it's like they can read it on my face that I won't react so they just take thier sarcasm frustration n rudeness on me...it's like nothing else to do so let's just be a jerk to someone polite... thanks but no thanks now I am prepared some of them will hate the new me.... bcoz I have been thz person who starts covering my

  • @DC-ef8op
    @DC-ef8op Před 9 lety

    Excellent video.

  • @DeciSpades
    @DeciSpades Před 8 lety

    This is great advice.

  • @DivestedConfessions
    @DivestedConfessions Před 5 lety +2

    Recently I was at a wine crawl. At the first stop I thought the guy was free so I ordered my pour. A couple admonished me for cutting the line and said they were next but they were standing so far back I assumed they were observers. I apologized to them said I was sorry and didn't mean to. The woman started being sarcastic to me she said well, my parents are from the south and some of us were raised with manners. That was very hurtful and unnecessary from a stranger, after all, I apologized sincerely to them. So I got up close just so she could hear and quietly I said my parents are from the south, too, and they raised me not to be a bitch like you. I was smiling when I said it then I quickly walked away. I'm so tired of people being rude and sarcastic for no reason after you've apologized to them.

  • @MonicaGunderson
    @MonicaGunderson Před rokem

    I have chronic illness, an autoimmune disease Ankylosing Spondylitis, in addition to a narrow spinal canal in my neck, and nerve damage in both wrists and elbows...... Someone once told me, "Maybe you need to go back to college and relearn how to paint. Maybe you're painting wrong." WTF!?!?!?!? I eventually went no contact, and should have way sooner.
    BTW, I have been making art since I was a kid, self taught. I did take classes in HS and college, majored in Speech Communications and Business Operations, AND an Art Gallery Certificate. I took Business and Speech Com instead of majoring Art, because I knew I would have to run a business to sell my art. I created and sold art for ten years before I had to stop due to pain in my hands caused by nerve damage, the narrow spinal canal (born with it), and my autoimmune disease (that I was born with)....... Pretty F'ing low ball.
    Got carpal tunnel surgery on my right hand, and such a big difference! Still on hiatus from my art cause I have a lot of health stuff I need to focus on first.

    • @MonicaGunderson
      @MonicaGunderson Před rokem

      I should have told the person they should go back to elementary school or Kindergarten, and learn how to be nice to people. lol

  • @ami7mina
    @ami7mina Před 11 lety

    You're always welcome, btw I really like your sense of style. So classy. :)

  • @jlroussin
    @jlroussin Před 9 lety

    I love your videos. They are good common sense. I have weak social skills because I have Asperger Syndrome, and using your advice I don't come across sounding like a psychology textbook. Thank you.

  • @MannersByMarie
    @MannersByMarie  Před 11 lety

    Brittany, that is a hard one. I would try and just talk to him/her about only things related to work. Keep the conversations extremely professional. And when they make derogatory comments, I would nod and smile, and pretend that you didn't get the negative connotation...that you didn't realize he wasn't being entirely nice.

  • @MannersByMarie
    @MannersByMarie  Před 11 lety

    Andreia, I will do that! Thanks so much for watching my videos!

  • @TheWordOfTheStreet
    @TheWordOfTheStreet Před 4 lety

    this will *ONLY* work on people who will not fight you.. _in many cases,_ when FACE TO FACE: *being sarcastic (to make someone else look bad) ONLY makes you look bad (after you get slapped)*

  • @The_real_lz
    @The_real_lz Před 7 lety

    you should really make a video audio steps for meditating you sound so centered love the tone of voice

  • @user-ii9yd4kc6f
    @user-ii9yd4kc6f Před 9 měsíci

    good one. thanks

  • @keta4332
    @keta4332 Před 10 lety

    Marie gives great advice.

  • @lindsayhamilton7335
    @lindsayhamilton7335 Před 9 lety

    Wow thank you Marie....thank you so much by the way you are Beautiful

  • @TheFinishingStrike
    @TheFinishingStrike Před 8 lety +1

    had some people making fun of my walk in public, I didn't realize they were doing it until I was way past them walking.
    What brought me down about it, is how lame people's attempts are to bring other people down, and how effective they can be. It made me really sad.

  • @endlesspossibilities8203
    @endlesspossibilities8203 Před 8 lety +11

    You don't understand. I have verbally abusive people around and they don't care about these gestures. What should I do?

    • @priscillacoral2559
      @priscillacoral2559 Před 7 lety +4

      colene lalgie just be like "your mom" and they get mad lol

    • @seedsoutdoors932
      @seedsoutdoors932 Před 7 lety +10

      Give them a bullet to the head and plan your escape route

    • @sahajsin7847
      @sahajsin7847 Před 7 lety

      hahahh...

    • @gingerisevil02
      @gingerisevil02 Před 7 lety +9

      colene lalgie you could say something like "I'm sorry you feel that way." And walk away. It can be a little empowering to assert that you're not absorbing their insults. (Then cry in private of you need to. Point blank-don't show them that they're getting to you. They abuse you to hurt you. That's what they want. Oppressive people don't respect boundaries.)

    • @drakedrones
      @drakedrones Před 7 lety +4

      Everyone has a place in this world. Find a job in a place where you will find professional and classy people. Trust me there are jobs and work settings where you will find a few of those nice people.

  • @ginghambriarsoapery7817
    @ginghambriarsoapery7817 Před 10 lety

    loved this, lolol!

  • @ami7mina
    @ami7mina Před 11 lety +1

    Hi Marie! I have been watching your vids :)
    anyway, I wish you could have a video that is not about helping other people with this and that, but maybe a video about you and your family or anything that you like that will show us more about you.I'm curious, I bet your other subscribers are too :) would be fun i guess.. :)

  • @helenaguttler2284
    @helenaguttler2284 Před 9 lety +1

    Hello Marie. I love your videos, and I love that they are practical. Thank you so much for helping people! I hope you can help me with my question. I love to go out and socialize, but every time I open my mouth, people hear my accent and ask "where are you from". After I am answering, in 95% it will start the political/prejudice conversation/comments that are unpleasant to me. I do not want to be rude to these people, but is there a way to stop this pattern? I will greatly appreciate your point of view.

    • @Ocinematique
      @Ocinematique Před 9 lety +1

      ***** Just say where you are from and if these kind of comments start just say with a smile "Hey guys, let's change the argument!… so"
      I know, people are boring as hell…but try to stop the conversation before it starts...

    • @helenaguttler2284
      @helenaguttler2284 Před 9 lety

      Ocinematique Thank you, appreciate your advise.

  • @britanny5363ify
    @britanny5363ify Před 11 lety

    Hey Marie,
    What if this person is your boss? Can you still give them this response or should you handle it differently?

  • @crockerakahops90sjumpmantexas

    Some idiots get too personal.

  • @graciere
    @graciere Před 8 lety

    Thanks

  • @jagdeepkaur8004
    @jagdeepkaur8004 Před 5 lety

    Ahh love it 🖤

  • @SC-oi9wp
    @SC-oi9wp Před 4 lety

    Awesome ! Can't wait for new bids 😁

  • @The1992hem
    @The1992hem Před 8 lety

    What to do after a breakup, when your ex or their friends text you and pester you to get a rise out of you? Just a suggestion

  • @cassandrawest1784
    @cassandrawest1784 Před 3 lety

    I have family members like that . But they try to deny saying anything wrong . I am apparently being too sensitive or taking things as a personal attack

  • @sanjanaguha3554
    @sanjanaguha3554 Před 10 lety

    lol u are right!ty!

  • @sadiamirza335
    @sadiamirza335 Před 7 lety

    what should I do. my colleage bothers me alot on doing small things. she always try to show off that she is senior. and everytime she say in a dramatic way to do her things. it upsets me alot

  • @kendolynow
    @kendolynow Před 5 lety

    Truth!!!

  • @bxlis
    @bxlis Před 8 lety +3

    could say something about " the people who put you down in order to feel themselves better" because they lack self confident? and also I came across people that they assume what I say lack self confident and try to correct me because of their lack of mental weakness (

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      my life u.u

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      " the people who put you down in order to feel themselves better" ...
      ...are people who are doing a PROJECTION of their lack of self confidance in you, so they need to define yourself as ''lower'' to feel they're ''higher''.
      Convert yourself in a living MIRROR, so they can only insult themselves, that pisses'em off! the point of the video is, be like a mirror: what's your point?
      You have to make them feel they did something ''wrong''. But be subtle, kind, and educated.
      That's what they are NOT inside.
      They are ugly.

  • @exstellest8622
    @exstellest8622 Před 4 lety +3

    Why do us humans never think of our own mistakes and blame others for it... :(

    • @vincentkingsdale8334
      @vincentkingsdale8334 Před 11 měsíci

      That is called a deflection due to a self defense mechanism, most likely

  • @felixfelix1477
    @felixfelix1477 Před 6 lety +1

    DO NOT ENGAGE! People want to play stupid games.... dont provide opposition. Or if you must then try saying" how strange! i was just thinking the same about you! That usually earns respect from others listening and screws the attacker. Dont forget to smile at them......😁

  • @josuecarrillo1672
    @josuecarrillo1672 Před 9 lety

    Well thanks that really help he stop insalting me

  • @sonatak304
    @sonatak304 Před 10 lety +1

    A few of my coworkers do this to me and it is not funny but supposed to be a joke. It fills me with hatred.

  • @honeyboysmith6587
    @honeyboysmith6587 Před 10 lety

    That can work , but sometimes the other person will just take know notice what you said and have a smile on their face . U will ask the question every time they drop a bomb , and they will ignore u each and every time . Eventually u get aggressive and start a fight or something . What will be the best thing to do if the person is doing this . How do u deal with a person that plays the silent ignore game , after they dish it out .

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      Yeah, sadly they push you to reply with a clear insult to them.
      If they ask ''what you said??'', then you go like...
      - '' I don't feel like repeating myself ''

  • @crockerakahops90sjumpmantexas

    People are too scared to insult me lol and I love it that I won't have to worry about someone idiot giving me a hard time.

  • @kenjohnson3192
    @kenjohnson3192 Před 10 lety

    What do I do if I ask the person to explain , and they reply '' I don't feel like repeating myself ''

  • @nosheenansari450
    @nosheenansari450 Před 7 lety

    great

  • @evelily-mai7338
    @evelily-mai7338 Před 7 lety +3

    But what if they say like "My point is your ugly"

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      ''based on Hollywood actors & actresses, yes maybe...but then you're so ugly like me, compared to those perfect people''

    • @rainbow9987
      @rainbow9987 Před 6 lety +1

      AJKrazy Eve if they say "My point is your ugly" then you say so what? so what is the big deal?

  • @happychampion3096
    @happychampion3096 Před 3 lety

    I once ask for explanation and she said she was just joking and that i behaved like a baby ..Now every time i see her i don't let her come close to me because she's toxic

  • @readthis8298
    @readthis8298 Před 8 lety +1

    (Counter attack) talk about someone they don't knew as describing them in a sarcastic way , (ending) connect ur talk, to ur friend frm past which u where talking about ( keep a smile on ur fucking face as u will make them think) -ve being + ve haha

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      I'm usually like that but they don't get it.
      Maybe they can't believe I'm able to say sarcastic things to them?
      Or maybe they YES get it, they yes were hurted, but act as if they don't?
      The only answer is: if days later, or months later I receive some other self evident agression from them :)
      (so yes, it worked).

  • @assasincreed1333
    @assasincreed1333 Před 8 lety +2

    two kicks on the butt and problem solved (y)

    • @thephantom7430
      @thephantom7430 Před 5 lety

      Lol, I wish..! It's my grandma that I have to deal with though...?! :D

  • @edwardovalle4154
    @edwardovalle4154 Před 4 lety +1

    I'd hate to get on her bad side

  • @ManuMaanu
    @ManuMaanu Před 9 lety

    Marie, and what if this person is my teacher? He always make jokes about my hair, my backpack and too many things: my hair is a little grown up, I used to use a purse, in spanish we call it "Veliz", which is a male purse. I use it because I am a beauty products salesman and that purse was a gift from the company when I signed up.
    This Saturday when I entered to the classroom he said: "Hey! What's up man!? We were just talking about you?" and I said "Oh really? Why? What were you talking about?", and he started saying "Oh, we were talking about ugly things (I really don't remember what noun he used/said. I don't remembre what he said after this). I just put my face like =/... I didn't know what to answer, I just smiled fakely. After that I sit on my chair and he told me: "Why didn't you come last week?" and I said "Oh, it was because I went to a course of my job". I didn't know how to say "course". He didn't understand. I was asking how does it said that word. A classmate helped me and said "conference", so I said "I went to a conference from my job", and he said "You went to a conference with that hair? Oh my God! You look like a hippie!". After that he reforced what he said asking my classmates "Is it true or not he looks like a hippie", and some of them agreed moving the head up and down". I got mad, I confess. I didn't know what to answer. After that he said "That's a lack of professionalism".
    After this I don't remember what I said.
    Right now I just got bored just by writing what happened =/...
    In the break I tried to talked to him. I told him "Teacher, I want to talk you. Why do you bother me a lot? I don't do anything to you. Why do you bother me a lot?". After saying I don't remember the exact words I said. He answered: "What? What are you saying? Get in the classroom. Come on", ignoring completely what I was saying. I got mad even more.

    • @99godsmakk
      @99godsmakk Před 8 lety

      +Manuel Medina
      that man is gay as hell and he got a crush on you lol

    • @nikhilsukumar23
      @nikhilsukumar23 Před 8 lety

      Yes he likes you in a different way and wants you, just tell him that you are not like that, and you are not interested in him.

    • @lillyrocks2011
      @lillyrocks2011 Před 7 lety

      Manuel Medina Hola, He sounds so negative and with issues. His behavior is passive aggressive, and maybe he feels something is wrong but because he's proyecting himself.
      And he's bullying you. After you tried to talk with him, I think it was a good idea, and seems you did it in a very educated way, because it shows that you're noticing how he makes fun of you, or trying to bother you but is a signal for him that you are noticing and that is non respectful how he's behaving with you . Hi is unprofessional and totally lacking of ethics. And how he ignores you, is because he can't believe you're defending yourself?, maybe.
      I don't know what has happened, but I hope the situation has stopped or at least he has understood that what he was doing is bullying and totally irrational and violent behavior.
      I'd talk with someone else in a higher position if he hasn't changed.
      Hope you are doing well.
      Sorry for my English, I speak Spanish.
      Peace.

    • @JDiology
      @JDiology Před 6 lety

      Manuel Medina one or the other ask him if he likes u and or report to higher ups

  • @phillygirlsoso5717
    @phillygirlsoso5717 Před 8 lety

    i'm am gonna try this lol

  • @DSN262
    @DSN262 Před 5 lety

    Sensitive much

  • @EddieYettie
    @EddieYettie Před 8 lety

    What if your own brother literally bullies you and no one believes you
    Because when my parents aren't home he makes me depressed and angry at the same time
    I don't have the guts to talk back its not me
    It's so bad it's getting to the point where I have to ask him if im allowed to go to bed or not
    Or if im allowed to do anything
    He is 20 something and he just moved in

    • @EddieYettie
      @EddieYettie Před 8 lety

      And im 17 years old

    • @EddieYettie
      @EddieYettie Před 8 lety

      +Abril Landeros it does, thank you!

    • @anitavaughn1968
      @anitavaughn1968 Před 8 lety +2

      I have a sister like that. She has always had the attitude "I can abuse you but nobody else can". Your brother is going to do what you allow him to do. Do you have a job? If you are in high school, find a job and start saving your money. Save up about 2 or 3 thousand and move out. If you have a car and drive, you are one step ahead in the game. You will be able to get around. Just try avoiding him as much as you can. Hang in there...
      My sister has been this way our whole lives. She is about to turn 50. I am 47. I told her that once our mother passed, I was done with her. She changed her tune and her attitude towards me.

  • @magorzatakupiec3693
    @magorzatakupiec3693 Před 8 lety

    "- Aaand....What's your point?
    - I'm trying to insult you. Are you stupid, or what?"
    Thank you, good night.

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      - I'm trying to insult you. Are you stupid, or what?
      - Ooh..! yes I know you tried, what I didn't know is, you were that stupid to try it.''
      that's what I actually say automatically without thinking at all, need to work on my maneers. Ther's some people that don't deserve to be attended too kindly, right?

  • @shanehester5317
    @shanehester5317 Před 4 lety

    she is right

  • @susannebaker7035
    @susannebaker7035 Před 8 lety

    im used 2 it, but I then get aggressive and moody interacting with them types,cos im tryna prevent myself 4rom lashing out..cos im feisty,only with those who are not loyal and that I cant trust -backstabbers ...

    • @BandicootMilk
      @BandicootMilk Před 7 lety

      I was being sarcastic the first time saying thanks for the compliment but I've gotten used to it that insults are complaints to me

  • @kitty_cute1236
    @kitty_cute1236 Před 9 lety +3

    how shall i react when somebody swears at my pearents??

    • @latoshastanfield5523
      @latoshastanfield5523 Před 8 lety +2

      +kitty_cute 123 BEAT THEIR ASS or call the POLICE to remove them off your parents property

  • @amitkhare2013
    @amitkhare2013 Před 6 lety

    Wowwww

  • @christianguzman6510
    @christianguzman6510 Před 4 lety

    😂😂

  • @Inhalepens
    @Inhalepens Před 7 lety

    I have a friend who doesn't care about me and responds with "cool" whenever she doesn't care about me

  • @iharley12
    @iharley12 Před 8 lety +3

    this is my cascenario...
    Dude: those shoes are so ugly how much did they cost
    me: 80$ what about urs?
    dude: dollars? thought u said cents.
    me: how? are you, like, deaf or somethng?
    dude : my ears are perfectly fine, just your shoes are the worst. did u get them from a hobo??
    I'm stuck now... I already tried it and it didn't work do I do it again? all I did was roll my eyes and look away...

    • @chloelnd
      @chloelnd Před 8 lety

      just say what shop you got them from lol

    • @iharley12
      @iharley12 Před 8 lety +1

      Amazon doesn't help lol

    • @chloelnd
      @chloelnd Před 8 lety

      Oh XD lol I can't help you then. Sowwy

    • @bugz7511
      @bugz7511 Před 8 lety

      Say, at least I don't care about shoes as much as you, your girly lol not mah problem

    • @374c3
      @374c3 Před 8 lety +2

      Do this : " wow you really enjoy being a bitch , don't you ?" Them just walk off and swing your hair behind u as you do .. Maybe even blow them a little kiss... Act as though u are the happiest/confidenist/beautifulist person on earth:) cuz u are

  • @MrTrinitothebone
    @MrTrinitothebone Před 8 lety

    I FEMALE AT WORK IS LIKE THAT

  • @farhiafarah6954
    @farhiafarah6954 Před rokem

    Iam not like Thees typed of younger women on earth so Respect, The member the manager and princeeseseseseses

  • @444_balmain4
    @444_balmain4 Před 9 dny

    What a very knowledgeable woman do you have any degrees?

  • @lindseymichelle6302
    @lindseymichelle6302 Před rokem

    My dad is like that I blocked him I hope that will help

  • @mrpregnant
    @mrpregnant Před 10 lety +5

    The pervasive abuse of sarcasm has trivialized the rudiments of it’s aesthetic richness, and this has predicated it’s negative connotation, subjectively and objectively, and although there’s polarized viewpoints, my contention remains abhorrent.
    Written By: Atelston Fitzgerald Holder 1st

  • @kenjohnson3192
    @kenjohnson3192 Před 9 lety

    That doesn't always work , cause some people just keep quite , when asked to explain , and they will just repeat what they are doing in a fashionable way .

  • @frantzromanelouis5350
    @frantzromanelouis5350 Před 8 lety

    Hello dear did you think it's an insult when your fiancée told you get your own car your own apartment

  • @aaronxalapa
    @aaronxalapa Před 11 lety +1

    Sarcasm is really nasty, I don't use it, I prefer to be straight forward and is sad how many people are actually proud to use it.

    • @veronicagorosito187
      @veronicagorosito187 Před 6 lety

      Sarcasm could be beautiful when used by good intelligent people. They never use it for hiding themselves behind the words & meanings.
      Only cowards use it that way, they never go straight forward.

  • @AshfakRazak
    @AshfakRazak Před 6 lety

    😙😚😘